I Am An Unhappy Step Mom Seeking Support

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    No Different From Others...

    My husband has three daughters: M is almost 17, U 15, O will be 11 in January next year. I have two sons from my previous marriage 23 and 22 and we have a little boy almost 4years. The two oldest daughters live with us as we immigrated they are far away from their birth...
    marthie marthie
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2009

    I am married, and have a daughter age 4,

    but last year my husband mistake moved in cause her mom got locked up. We had a picture perfect family until now. This brat is 13, doesnt fit in, and its embarrassing having her in photos or doing family events. I know that might sound bad to say but its how i feel, sorry
    StepmomLife StepmomLife
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 27, 2015

    Great, we have to have a 'daughter' day

    and spend all day with this ungrateful little brat. Can someone just kill me, please? Death would be better than having to look at her all day
    StepmomLife StepmomLife
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 12, 2015

    I feel like the worlds worst step mother

    because I can't make myself love my step daughter like I should. Everything she does gets on my nerves. Who can relate? And what can I do to improve this feeling?
    Ashes86d Ashes86d
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 6, 2015

    I'm not a step mom yet.

    We're getting married though. I love my stepdaughter, but we never get to see her and it's killing me. I want a baby so bad, and this is the only way I'm going to have a child. I understand she isn't biologically mine, but I will still love her as she is biologically mine...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 28, 2015

    Stepmom Seeking Advice/support

    I have been married for almost 3 years and have a 14 month old daughter who I love so much and a 15 year old stepson who is the bain of my existance.  He's you typical teenager, mouthy, lazy, but over all not a bad kid. He's grades are poor, C's and D's, because he...
    lanasmomma lanasmomma
    8 Responses May 19, 2008

    I Can't Stand Being Childless And Hate Being Step Mom Because From Experience It's Way Too Challenging

    I am 31 yrs old and childless, I had fibroids embolization 3 yrs ago using my entire savings plus a one year loan to get it done and the Dr. said he's not sure I'll have kids. I understasnd what you are going through I have a simillar situation, perhaps worse because in the...
    Newmom2 Newmom2
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

    Is There Any Hope....

    Has anyone had a fun, loving, and full-filling marriage as a step-mom....or am I doomed to fight this one out? No need for the details - I have no problem sharing them I'm just exhausted thinking about all the dimensions of this 'relationship' I willingly married into. I started...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Nov 3, 2010

    I have been in a relationship with my

    significant other for 3 years now. He has a9 year old son from a previous marriage and for the last year we have lived under the same roof. my significant other and I have his son every other week for a full week. when I agreed to move in I'll admit I had no idea how much...
    Baggageclaim Baggageclaim
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2015
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