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I Am Annoyed By Negative People

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    Not Letting Her Bring Me Down!

    i am not going to let this lady bring me down. nothing i ever do is good enough. but who is this person to tell me what to do. maybe everything she says me or puts me down is just so she can feel like she is on top. i did lose my job but i found one and i made the changes i...
    poshcut poshcut 26-30, F 1 Response May 27, 2012

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    I'Ll Never Understand

    What bothers me most is when I have to argue with a person over me giving them a compliment. Why do I keep having to find the greatness in the situation when all they want to do is put themselves down? I need to stop being so nice, lol. All of this coming from people who seem to...
    zendx zendx 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    I'm so tired of seeing passive aggressive over

    sharing on Facebook. People are afraid to be friends with you because if they mess up, you'll chirp about it all over Facebook. That's the worst relationship dynamic. I wish I could see more encouraging and positive posts in Facebook. I've started over sharing funny personal...
    RMDk RMDk 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 2

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    Self Pitty Is Worthless

    Whenever I feel negative I just think what a fotunate fool I am to think I'm the only one with problems. And someone eles is always having a tougher time.try to Realize how good you have it.
    lyineyez59 lyineyez59 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Negativity Is Contagious, Like A Disease...

    I've really had enough of people's pissy attitudes here on EP. Enough already! This is supposed to be a healing and support site, not a place for angry, bitter people who have nothing positive to contribute to the healing process! I have very seriously ill people in my circle and...
    alteredego alteredego 46-50, F 25 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    It's Really Frustrating!

    Did you ever meet someone you really like? I mean "that way". And she seems to like you too. Things seem pretty good. And then, it seems like for no reason, they're all negative? Can't seem to believe something nice is happening? Are just convinced that something bad...
    Lampwick Lampwick 51-55, M 26 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Go

    take a cold shower and be positive. Okay?
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 11 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    Protecting me with lies only causes more

    problems. I'd rather face the ugly truth than a back stabbing lie.
    VGod888 VGod888 18-21, M May 30

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    I no longer engage and brown nose only with

    those I wish to impress I make sure I don't turn situations I dislike due to fear into low or neg vibe situations which are detrimental to ones own and those around me's auric field I sometimes forget not everyone is as patient and confident as myself and yes I feel smug...
    basque01 basque01 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    It's Contagious

    Spend enough time around negative people and you will, invariably, become negative yourself. This is especially true in the workplace - everyone is trying their best, trying to make things move forward but there are always three or four who refuse to follow suit. They dig their...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 13, 2010

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    Lets Try Optimism

    I can get when people are negative in totally awful situations where there's just no hope. But I hate when people are negative for the sake of being negative or are negative to others people's plans and dreams. That ****** me off the most. Just remember people, when someone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 21, 2008

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    Storm Clouds

    There are storm clouds that enter into people's lives that bring, darkness, wind, thunder, lightening, rain and sometimes hail.These people have a lot of problems and they can't seem to be happy unless they make other people feel as miserable as they do.They spew hatred...
    Sweetertnu Sweetertnu 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2011

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    DO NOT presume to know me,

    who Iam or my story, you don't!!!! Mind your damn business!!!!
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F Jun 2

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    I accept that negative emotions

    if viewed correctly and acted upon in a timely manner, can have a positive emotional unfolding influence.
    basque01 basque01 36-40, M May 12

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    its frustrating when u have to work with

    someone constantly..especiallt when they dont take any responsibility when he have arguments ..I get blamed for starting the argument every single time..I'm the kinda person that will apologize so that the water is calm..I hate tension..but this person constantly never says she...
    artloverbri artloverbri 22-25 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Feel awesome when people begin to reflect back

    your positive Energy and only bothered when I can't overshadow or tune out their negative vibes
    basque01 basque01 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    There's always that one person

    that gets you thinking negative things in life πŸ˜”
    Trapaholics Trapaholics 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I Wanna Make You Happy

    Just I will go out of my way to get myself obliterated and crushed in attempts to befriend or make sure someone doesn’t have negative feelings at me. It’s completely masochistic I swear.
    AnnieWays AnnieWays 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    Isn't it annoying when people block you

    after all you want to do is help. I hate people like that.
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I Think Some People Just Live to Be Negative

    i know a few poeple that just live to bust your joy my friend in fla . we can tell her something exciting and leave it to her to say something nasty like when i told her i was moving out of state she said well it could be the worst mistake you make . then later 1 year after...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    Am I the only who gets annoyed

    when people tell you that they're upset and not in the mood, then when you ask them about it they don't wanna talk about? Like, then why bring it up to me then? So annoying. Or when they tell you, and you ask why and they don't wanna tell you so you just say "okay" and then...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F Sep 8

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    RedDust RedDust 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2012

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    There is always negativity everywhere I turn.

    .. If you're not going to be positive and helpful, don't leave a ******* comment on my questions.. Thank you and good day... God bless you all...
    LoveIsColorless LoveIsColorless 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    Like for real. Don't let your negativity ruin

    someone's whole day. Lets all be happy for a change.
    jtwisedude jtwisedude 18-21, M Jan 21

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    1Lov3gummiwormz 1Lov3gummiwormz 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    The Difference Between Being Sad And Negitive

    yes there is, I can handle sad people, especially sad people who think of others and aren't selfish. but than there is those negitive people that critisize not only themselves but everyone else around them,  I could say something like "I want to build a computer"...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F Jun 8

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    Why must people try to down talk you

    when your trying to do something new & different with your life? If you don't have anything positive to say then please keep your mouth closed & go on by your business
    M0ka M0ka 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    A lot people on EP are very rude

    and condescending. They will comment on my post or stories & judge and be just plain mean. Then I'll look at their page and they having stories about being depressed or having no friends. Lol ya think?? I wouldn't be your friend either. It's nothing wrong with constructive...
    kindofcurious22 kindofcurious22 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    :-I``

    Save the drama for yo mama!!
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2007

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    I WILL BLOCK YOU !!!!

    !!!!!! IF YOU INBOX ME SICK AND FOUL THINGS !!!!! or BEING EXTREMELY RUDE ON MY POST !!!! (-___-) !!!!!
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Why do you have to bring others down with you?

    If ya woke up on the wrong side of the bed, stay on that side. I hate people that continuously feel sorry for themselves. It's irritating because they're so self absorbed that they feel the world resolves around them. The "if I'm not happy, no one else deserves it" type of...
    Tlythatswsup Tlythatswsup 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I am annoyed by happy people,

    jumping around and smiling and laughing and singing, having fun and enjoying EVERYTHING. It's horrible .
    pianobookme pianobookme 13-15, F Feb 21

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    Negativity just brings everyone down.

    I don't like to feel down, and would much rather fill my life with things that make me happy. Everyone should go by the motto "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all".
    Kairisheartless Kairisheartless 18-21, F Feb 2

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    Negative people irritate my soul.

    Pessimists do too. Please don't bother talking to me if you have nothing positive to say
    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    Ilovecharlie Ilovecharlie 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 8

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    Be Grateful

    There is so much negativity in the world but by the same token there are so many positive things to be grateful for so I really don't understand why people gripe and complain so much instead of being thankful they don't have it as bad as some people do. When I see hospital...
    GenesisGardner GenesisGardner 18-21, F Jun 8, 2012

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    Why Do Negative People Have To Spread Their Negativity?

    An old school friend contacted me to arrange meeting up. She keeps on pushing back dates saying she is busy, which is fine as i am busy too. The thing is...I am not interested in talking about her past over and over again and get the impression with her that maybe she needs to...
    forgetmenots forgetmenots 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    Everytime I go on Youtube

    or other sites, I see people acting childish and asinine. Some people think they're smarter than everyone else and that their opinions are the only ones that matter... SERIOUSLY grow up and get your head out of your butt, the world does not revolve around you.
    DX2000 DX2000 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    When I was a teenager,

    maybe around 13 or so, I met this beautiful woman name Charlotte. She happened to be a substitute teacher for my middle school science teacher for weeks. We became friends and she was like a mentor to me--more like a big sister I never had. We continued our friendship until I...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86 26-30, F Dec 10, 2013

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    These next few days I'll be isolating myself

    from my dorm mate and staying at a friend's. I have two midterms next week and I can't afford to fail. My dorm mate is a distraction. I know she tries really hard to not annoy,distract or upset me. I appreciate her efforts but I still feel like she's holding me back from...
    XxTinyBearxX XxTinyBearxX 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Being negative sometimes is completely okay nod

    healthy, but if you get to be a negative person it means you've been too negative and something has to change bout your outlook - soon!
    BlueIce612 BlueIce612 18-21, F Sep 8

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    that moment you just clean the stores parking

    lot of cig buds and trash and someone flicks one at you smirks and walks off
    collinwh collinwh 18-21, M Aug 14

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    The World Is Not Over!

    I just can't take it!  It's awkward and annoying.  The picture says it all...  On one of my good days I am the happy, smiley, white cloud... Then here comes that black, angry cloud to loom over me.  Spilling all of their contents of anguish, drenching me...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    I hate it when people are negative!

    Like why do you have to be so down all the time?? Just be happy! :D
    HaileyIsHere HaileyIsHere 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Hi Ok, yes, so I was queen of negative.

    I mean its natural when you're depressed. I have just got out of hospital, my second time, this time its only mild depression. The last time it was severe depression, anorexia, bulimia. Anyway, im so motivated to get healthy, and condition my mind to be positive. But some...
    Larutan Larutan 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I really dislike people who are sooo negative. Im battling through somethings and i start everyday as if its a new day, i put on a smile and keep doing good things, but then you...
    staystrongsu staystrongsu 18-21, F Aug 28

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    Free yourself from negative people. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and like-minded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people...
    MeJustBeing MeJustBeing 36-40, F Aug 24

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    I hate when people use a lot of periods to emphasize things. I understand a little "..." Here and there but when you use a whole line doing this "..............." I'll become...
    Maebae16 Maebae16 16-17, F Aug 31

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    Please stop making the following atrocious mistakes: - 'you're' instead of 'your' / vice versa - 'greater then' instead of 'greater than' - 'off course' instead of 'of course...
    Existentior Existentior 31-35, M Aug 30

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    Don't message me please if you going to stop talking to me the next day please. I tell you everything you know for those short annoying question. 1. No Im not doing fine not then...
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M Aug 28

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    It's very annoying please don't add me unless you plan on talking to me and actually respond to my messages
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M Aug 28

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    My family once had my aunt, 2 cousins, my older cousin's boyfriend, and their newborn son stay with us for a week due to a snow storm that hit, keeping them from getting back home...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M Sep 12