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I Am Annoyed By Negative People

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    Everyone has their negative moments

    and that's understandable. What annoys me is waking up to someone negative, going through the day and to sleep with it. No one wants to be around that =/
    mellymel22 mellymel22 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 24

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    I can't stand people

    that only motive in life is to hurt others for being nice to them.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 20

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    The devil will use anyone to rob you of the

    peace God gives you. My thing is, if someone angers and annoys you so much why are you so invested in them? Just let them go and stop complaining about it? And dont take out your anger on the innocent. Its bad enough youre whinning about it but not doing anything about it...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Aug 22

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    Why do you have to bring others down with you?

    If ya woke up on the wrong side of the bed, stay on that side. I hate people that continuously feel sorry for themselves. It's irritating because they're so self absorbed that they feel the world resolves around them. The "if I'm not happy, no one else deserves it" type of...
    Tlythatswsup Tlythatswsup 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2014

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    Everything in the world's horrible now,

    not like the good old days of Bubonic Plague, Holocaust, Holodomor, Khmer Rouge, Crusades...
    thefuturedoctor1 thefuturedoctor1 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    I saw this video online a couple minutes ago of

    this black guy dancing in the middle of the hall with his friends next to him, this white girl walks to the side of the hall he's not on and then he quickly get on that side, in her way and says "get in your lane b****!" Then him and his friends laughed. She turned around and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Being negative sometimes is completely okay nod

    healthy, but if you get to be a negative person it means you've been too negative and something has to change bout your outlook - soon!
    BlueIce612 BlueIce612 18-21, F Sep 8, 2014

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    I didn't use to be like this,

    but nowadays I only hmmm and oke them. I even get annoyed. This also makes me negative. In the past I always listened to them and try to help them. Nowadays I still do that, but when they come with the Same story again I need them to stay away. I feel something changed in me...
    Sunnybychance Sunnybychance 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    does anyone else know someone

    who everytime you talk to them it's about how bad there day is? Or o yeah your sick well I'm sicker. And God forbid you tell them something good going on in your life because they just make you fell like s*** for even having a life. For once I'd like to be able to say, hey I'm...
    fallenrach fallenrach 26-30 1 Response May 28

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    Go

    take a cold shower and be positive. Okay?
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 11 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    when people are negative I sometimes just want

    to slap them and say "stop being negative the only enemy that is right now is yourself!"
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 27

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    Fun vampires, I don't need them in my life.

    They don't keep their negativity to themselves, they have to try to bring everyone down to their level!
    CaffeineJunky CaffeineJunky 18-21, F Jun 21

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    I Wanna Make You Happy

    Just I will go out of my way to get myself obliterated and crushed in attempts to befriend or make sure someone doesn’t have negative feelings at me. It’s completely masochistic I swear.
    AnnieWays AnnieWays 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    The reason why Im a negative person is

    because of reality and pain. Respect me
    lily36912 lily36912 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Good morning beautiful people!

    !!!(everyone) may your day be filled with love and positivity!!! and may all negative people be shoved up their very own butt holes, where all the mean sh#@@$ they have to say may end up.
    olivia102 olivia102 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Thats why when I see someone depressed at my

    school, I would try to cheer them up! ^_^ ~ Lys ♪
    LysChan LysChan 18-21, F Apr 25

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    just arrived here and many people maybe trying

    to harass me :/ its so kinda weird !!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 16

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    When I was a teenager,

    maybe around 13 or so, I met this beautiful woman name Charlotte. She happened to be a substitute teacher for my middle school science teacher for weeks. We became friends and she was like a mentor to me--more like a big sister I never had. We continued our friendship until I...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86 26-30, F Dec 10, 2013

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    I hate the feeling of not being able to escape

    negative ppl...you want to get away but you can't.
    Juslikyou Juslikyou 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    Lets Try Optimism

    I can get when people are negative in totally awful situations where there's just no hope. But I hate when people are negative for the sake of being negative or are negative to others people's plans and dreams. That ****** me off the most. Just remember people, when someone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 21, 2008

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    Dear annoying black women,

    Please stop telling other black women how to style their hair. Bald braided weave or locks people are free to style their hair how they wish. It is annoying that black women think other black women must look and act like them. We are all unique with our own way of presenting...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Jul 29

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    1Lov3gummiwormz 1Lov3gummiwormz 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    The World Is Not Over!

    I just can't take it!  It's awkward and annoying.  The picture says it all...  On one of my good days I am the happy, smiley, white cloud... Then here comes that black, angry cloud to loom over me.  Spilling all of their contents of anguish, drenching me...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    It's Really Frustrating!

    Did you ever meet someone you really like? I mean "that way". And she seems to like you too. Things seem pretty good. And then, it seems like for no reason, they're all negative? Can't seem to believe something nice is happening? Are just convinced that something bad...
    Lampwick Lampwick 51-55, M 26 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Negative people irritate my soul.

    Pessimists do too. Please don't bother talking to me if you have nothing positive to say
    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2014

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    Be Grateful

    There is so much negativity in the world but by the same token there are so many positive things to be grateful for so I really don't understand why people gripe and complain so much instead of being thankful they don't have it as bad as some people do. When I see hospital...
    GenesisGardner GenesisGardner 18-21, F Jun 8, 2012

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    I WILL BLOCK YOU !!!!

    !!!!!! IF YOU INBOX ME SICK AND FOUL THINGS !!!!! or BEING EXTREMELY RUDE ON MY POST !!!! (-___-) !!!!!
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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    I'm so tired of seeing passive aggressive over

    sharing on Facebook. People are afraid to be friends with you because if they mess up, you'll chirp about it all over Facebook. That's the worst relationship dynamic. I wish I could see more encouraging and positive posts in Facebook. I've started over sharing funny personal...
    RMDk RMDk 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2014

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    I'm grounded because I accidentally fell asleep

    at nicks house and didn't make it back home before my mom woke up BUT that's not even the issue here... it's the fact that I came home to nate at my house after my mom decided to let him stay with us because he refuses to stay with his dad... Nate my EX BOYFRIEND / BEST FRIEND...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Rosebox Rosebox 18-21, F Oct 19, 2014

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    There's always that one person

    that gets you thinking negative things in life 😔
    Trapaholics Trapaholics 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31, 2014

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    Looking back now I blame other peoples'

    negativity for sending my depression spiralling two years ago. If you've read any of my earlier posts you'll know that I moved teams at work nearly two years ago, basically being told by the then boss to do what I'd done with my old team (I'd been there for best part of 5yrs...
    Mick672 Mick672 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    These next few days I'll be isolating myself

    from my dorm mate and staying at a friend's. I have two midterms next week and I can't afford to fail. My dorm mate is a distraction. I know she tries really hard to not annoy,distract or upset me. I appreciate her efforts but I still feel like she's holding me back from...
    XxLionHeartxX XxLionHeartxX 18-21 1 Response Apr 3, 2014

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    The Difference Between Being Sad And Negitive

    yes there is, I can handle sad people, especially sad people who think of others and aren't selfish. but than there is those negitive people that critisize not only themselves but everyone else around them,  I could say something like "I want to build a computer"...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    do you ever just get into one of those rare

    good moods that you think will last for the whole day and then you bump into one of those negative nancies who just criticize everyhting you say to ruin your day ? well I have a lot so whenever I could I always remove the negative people from my friend circle
    Amacey Amacey 16-17, F May 29

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    Now I can't even ask a god Damm question

    without someone wanting to say something if it not good at all KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!
    elishafrancheli elishafrancheli 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I don't expect everyone to be happy all the

    time. Some negativity is normal, as long as it's within reason. Excessive negativity can be exhausting and can really create a toxic environment. A kind of negativity I have no tolerance for is when people try to tear others down (to their face or behind their backs) with...
    UnwantedPup UnwantedPup 31-35, T 1 Response Apr 25

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    I am so sick and tired of people

    who live in the past. I honestly don't bring up peoples past because in the present it isn't important but anyone mad at me and oh **** let's bring up everything you can and cut it intoy skin and make me feel foolish. wth is wrong with ******** like that!!!
    babymomma84 babymomma84 26-30, F Jun 4

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    Negativity Is Contagious, Like A Disease...

    I've really had enough of people's pissy attitudes here on EP. Enough already! This is supposed to be a healing and support site, not a place for angry, bitter people who have nothing positive to contribute to the healing process! I have very seriously ill people in my circle and...
    alteredego alteredego 46-50, F 22 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    shadyx49 shadyx49 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 20

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    My husband is the most negative person in the

    world!!! Will put anything I do down in a heartbeat and make fun of it until no end, making me feel like a complete loser for even thinking of something. I have 11 diseases and try everyday to find the positive, it's really hard to be happy and find something good in life when...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    Can you believe it ? I talked to an alleged

    scientist nut case on EP who emotionally asserts giants ruled the earth a few thousand years ago and played games with the poor Indians of the day . Sad . Cannot even talk to her about her delusions . Just sad Hannah
    BushopStump BushopStump 61-65, M Aug 24

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    I can't people who think

    that everyone and everything is horrible. I believe that being negative will give you negative things.
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    Everytime I go on Youtube

    or other sites, I see people acting childish and asinine. Some people think they're smarter than everyone else and that their opinions are the only ones that matter... SERIOUSLY grow up and get your head out of your butt, the world does not revolve around you.
    BurningFist BurningFist 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 26, 2014

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    Not Letting Her Bring Me Down!

    i am not going to let this lady bring me down. nothing i ever do is good enough. but who is this person to tell me what to do. maybe everything she says me or puts me down is just so she can feel like she is on top. i did lose my job but i found one and i made the changes i...
    poshcut poshcut 26-30, F 1 Response May 27, 2012

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