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I Am Annoyed By Negative People

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    There is always negativity everywhere I turn.

    .. If you're not going to be positive and helpful, don't leave a ******* comment on my questions.. Thank you and good day... God bless you all...
    LoveIsColorless LoveIsColorless 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    Trying To Be Positive Here!

    Can't you see I'm trying to be positive here? Don't bring me down with your poor me routine. Could you just stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something? I mean, you go on and on about how your life has to change, but you do nothing to change it. You just keep running around...
    FellidayaFiresong FellidayaFiresong 31-35, F Sep 15, 2012

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    I Am Annoyed By Negative People

    Life is what you make it, you can do and be anything you want to be, you just have to impress your subconcious mind. Your Mind is split into 2, your conscious and subconscious Mind.Your conscious mind is what you think, your subconcious mind is controlled by what you are thinking...
    moonraker50 moonraker50 46-50, M 6 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    These next few days I'll be isolating myself

    from my dorm mate and staying at a friend's. I have two midterms next week and I can't afford to fail. My dorm mate is a distraction. I know she tries really hard to not annoy,distract or upset me. I appreciate her efforts but I still feel like she's holding me back from...
    QueenofdaJungle QueenofdaJungle 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I no longer engage and brown nose only with

    those I wish to impress I make sure I don't turn situations I dislike due to fear into low or neg vibe situations which are detrimental to ones own and those around me's auric field I sometimes forget not everyone is as patient and confident as myself and yes I feel smug...
    basque01 basque01 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    A lot people on EP are very rude

    and condescending. They will comment on my post or stories & judge and be just plain mean. Then I'll look at their page and they having stories about being depressed or having no friends. Lol ya think?? I wouldn't be your friend either. It's nothing wrong with constructive...
    kindofcurious22 kindofcurious22 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    its frustrating when u have to work with

    someone constantly..especiallt when they dont take any responsibility when he have arguments ..I get blamed for starting the argument every single time..I'm the kinda person that will apologize so that the water is calm..I hate tension..but this person constantly never says she...
    artloverbri artloverbri 22-25 2 Responses Mar 28

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    50 Annoying Things

    1- Whiners 2- All sorts of Abuse & Harrassment 3- Wannabes 4- Invasion of privacy 5- Hurtful pranks 6- Divorce / Break ups 7- Cheaters n Other women 8- Bad Manners 9- People who use others 10- Acting like you're my slave 11- Sharing of Spouse 12- Annoyingly religous People 13...
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 11, 2012

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    Lets Try Optimism

    I can get when people are negative in totally awful situations where there's just no hope. But I hate when people are negative for the sake of being negative or are negative to others people's plans and dreams. That ****** me off the most. Just remember people, when someone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 21, 2008

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    Be Grateful

    There is so much negativity in the world but by the same token there are so many positive things to be grateful for so I really don't understand why people gripe and complain so much instead of being thankful they don't have it as bad as some people do. When I see hospital...
    GenesisGardner GenesisGardner 18-21, F Jun 8, 2012

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    They Really Get To Me

    In the past I used to hang out with a lot of negative people in which I didn't know they were, and I was negatively influenced by them. After I ditched them for a new group of friends I've meet last March I've learned that these people only wanted other people to feel bad like...
    aroundhere aroundhere 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    I Wanna Make You Happy

    Just I will go out of my way to get myself obliterated and crushed in attempts to befriend or make sure someone doesn’t have negative feelings at me. It’s completely masochistic I swear.
    AnnieWays AnnieWays 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    The Glass Is Half Full

    I spent 3 long years of my life being one of those annoying negative people So you will have to excuse me if I try to surround myself with the most positive the glass is half full people I can... That doesn't mean anybody jump ship I like all my friends and pick you all, and will...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    I Think Some People Just Live to Be Negative

    i know a few poeple that just live to bust your joy my friend in fla . we can tell her something exciting and leave it to her to say something nasty like when i told her i was moving out of state she said well it could be the worst mistake you make . then later 1 year after...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    I'Ll Never Understand

    What bothers me most is when I have to argue with a person over me giving them a compliment. Why do I keep having to find the greatness in the situation when all they want to do is put themselves down? I need to stop being so nice, lol. All of this coming from people who seem to...
    zendx zendx 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    I think negative people are annoying

    because they, of course, usually have something negative to offer in conversation or through their actions. But negative people are like that because something else is obviously going on. No, it's not right to be toxic all the time. But it makes me wonder how people get that way...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Yes I Am Tried Of It

      So I have desided to do something about it,,,I am going to start blaming all of you negative people for all the storms you cause,,,stop spinning that way,,,and make the clouds go away,,,spin to the right to make things bright,,,spin to the left and the clounds get...
    maryomaga3 maryomaga3 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Fed Up At 50

    I will be 50 years old this year . I don't remember ever being praised by my father. Condemnation & negativity for my mistakes always. I have just decided enough is enough. He can choose to be angry & bitter but I am taking the higher road.....life is full of enough challenges...
    Beconfused Beconfused 46-50 2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Negativity just brings everyone down.

    I don't like to feel down, and would much rather fill my life with things that make me happy. Everyone should go by the motto "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all".
    Kairisheartless Kairisheartless 18-21, F Feb 2

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    Although I think I am a negative person myself,

    I still get annoyed by them. Sometimes when I catch myself thinking negative thoughts about myself, I will berate myself.
    Exoplanet12 Exoplanet12 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2013

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    :-I``

    Save the drama for yo mama!!
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2007

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    The Difference Between Being Sad And Negitive

    yes there is, I can handle sad people, especially sad people who think of others and aren't selfish. but than there is those negitive people that critisize not only themselves but everyone else around them,  I could say something like "I want to build a computer"...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Not Letting Her Bring Me Down!

    i am not going to let this lady bring me down. nothing i ever do is good enough. but who is this person to tell me what to do. maybe everything she says me or puts me down is just so she can feel like she is on top. i did lose my job but i found one and i made the changes i...
    poshcut poshcut 26-30, F 1 Response May 27, 2012

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    I think I'm too old to realize

    that these negative people are toxic to positive people and things. I dealt with my partner's family for years. I never knew why I felt bad vibes around them, I just felt like a terrible person for thinking that way, since they all said they loved me as a daughter. A negative...
    AprilBurden23 AprilBurden23 18-21, F Mar 30

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    Go

    take a cold shower and be positive. Okay?
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 11 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    The World Is Not Over!

    I just can't take it!  It's awkward and annoying.  The picture says it all...  On one of my good days I am the happy, smiley, white cloud... Then here comes that black, angry cloud to loom over me.  Spilling all of their contents of anguish, drenching me...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    A Charmer

    this jerk so he called himself a friend and im married , well when my son was sicke ispent alot of time with him iloved him too pieces my heart was broken iwould never hear the words i love you or iam falling in love with you , hear after three years of doing everything for...
    dolly99 dolly99 41-45, F 2 Responses May 17, 2012

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    RedDust RedDust 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2012

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    Just a Bit...

    I've had a very negative life... lots of bad things have happened to me. BUT, I turned it around and still managed to be a happy person most times. I do have my own negative moments, as do everyone, and I don't mind when a person is just having a bad day. :-) But what annoys me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 16, 2008

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    If I Say Up, He'd Say Down

    He was a friend of my boyfriend who I used to hang out with sometimes and talk on he phone to. Just as friends. He was so negative. If I tell him I'm going to call him he'd say no you won't. We going to go to the movies and meet you there. No you won't. You are sweet. No I'm not...
    AwesomeAngel AwesomeAngel 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    The One Thing That Gets To Me

    I am usually a very calm and relaxed person, and I try to maintain a positive attitude towards things but people who are just negative strike my nerves. I'm not talking about those "I've had a bad day people" but those who are always negative 24/7, 365 days a year. I can find so...
    rajiv123 rajiv123 22-25, M Dec 22, 2010

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    Changing My Life One Step At A Time

    I have spoken about the cloud. I have been working very hard to remove the cloud that was placed over my head, however inadvertantly, by my mother. Always hearing "I'm so ugly", and "I'm just good for nothing" for years on end tends to seep in, just as negativity is so good at...
    FellidayaFiresong FellidayaFiresong 31-35, F Nov 15, 2012

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    Feel awesome when people begin to reflect back

    your positive Energy and only bothered when I can't overshadow or tune out their negative vibes
    basque01 basque01 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    When I was a teenager,

    maybe around 13 or so, I met this beautiful woman name Charlotte. She happened to be a substitute teacher for my middle school science teacher for weeks. We became friends and she was like a mentor to me--more like a big sister I never had. We continued our friendship until I...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86 26-30, F Dec 10, 2013

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    Rude Peple

    dont you hate it when you are ringing somone out and they are on the cell phone like you dont even exsist,your driving not fast enough for someone and they drive faster just to get ahead of you ,how about coworkers you think are your friends and they turn around talk bad about...
    dolly99 dolly99 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    Storm Clouds

    There are storm clouds that enter into people's lives that bring, darkness, wind, thunder, lightening, rain and sometimes hail.These people have a lot of problems and they can't seem to be happy unless they make other people feel as miserable as they do.They spew hatred...
    Sweetertnu Sweetertnu 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2011

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    I Can't Escape Them.

    I'm a pretty pessimistic and negative person by nature but I have been learning to change that. I have changed a great deal, but I do have my bouts where I can get back into that negative groove from time to time. The problem is now it happens more and more often and I think its...
    Twillback Twillback 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 15, 2010

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    Uuuhhhggg!

    I don't expect people to always be happy.  I mean sad is not the same as negative.  But if you don't have something positive to contribute then maybe you shouldn't contribute anything at all.
    IamGone IamGone 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 22, 2009

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    It's Contagious

    Spend enough time around negative people and you will, invariably, become negative yourself. This is especially true in the workplace - everyone is trying their best, trying to make things move forward but there are always three or four who refuse to follow suit. They dig their...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 13, 2010

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    I am annoyed by happy people,

    jumping around and smiling and laughing and singing, having fun and enjoying EVERYTHING. It's horrible .
    pianobookme pianobookme 13-15, F Feb 21

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    Negativity Is Contagious, Like A Disease...

    I've really had enough of people's pissy attitudes here on EP. Enough already! This is supposed to be a healing and support site, not a place for angry, bitter people who have nothing positive to contribute to the healing process! I have very seriously ill people in my circle and...
    alteredego alteredego 46-50, F 25 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 3 Responses May 6, 2012

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    Why Do Negative People Have To Spread Their Negativity?

    An old school friend contacted me to arrange meeting up. She keeps on pushing back dates saying she is busy, which is fine as i am busy too. The thing is...I am not interested in talking about her past over and over again and get the impression with her that maybe she needs to...
    forgetmenots forgetmenots 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    I Hate Negative People

    Hello I live in UK. I am 43 and I still live at home with my 63 y o mother and her 59 y o boyfriend . They are old negative cynical morons who just bring me Down. They should not be let loose in public, their cynical moronic negative traits so annoy me help!!!!!!!
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    Both Negative People And Overly Positive People

    I guess it can go both ways. I'm annoyed at people who are too negative, but also annoyed at people who are too positive. For me, negative people need to get over whatever their negative about. it's called life and their not the only person suffering. There are people out there...
    Lady808 Lady808 18-21, F Jul 13, 2012

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    There's always that one person

    that gets you thinking negative things in life 😔
    Trapaholics Trapaholics 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Self Pitty Is Worthless

    Whenever I feel negative I just think what a fotunate fool I am to think I'm the only one with problems. And someone eles is always having a tougher time.try to Realize how good you have it.
    lyineyez59 lyineyez59 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Your Hate Is A Reflection Of Yourself

    the reason that i'm annoyed by negative people is because I am one of them.. yeah i know what you're thinking! i'm trying my best to be much more positive..  but whenever i encounter another negative person like me, i tend to lose my focus to be positive.... i guess i just have...
    uncertainty01 uncertainty01 18-21, F May 22, 2012

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    Mokuba Mokuba 13-15, F Mar 23

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    I have a phobia, a terrible fear of negative people. I hate when people whining about everything. This is what I hate most in the world. So if you want to talk to me, don't be...
    AlwaysBeAGoodPerson AlwaysBeAGoodPerson 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    How do you tell a person you have worked with for 20 years to get his **** together? I mean really, he walks super slow, he always takes the easiest way out, and he can be very...
    Spartanrunner66 Spartanrunner66 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 21

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    It annoys me when someone continuously asks "what's wrong?" when I continuously say "nothing is wrong" and I'm being honest.
    breeziebee breeziebee 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I enjoy happy, upbeat peeps
    dameron dameron 46-50, F Mar 22

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    This one guy tried to date me, but after only... ohh I don't know maybe 5 dates, I couldn't stand being around him. He was always complaining about something. It's not that I have...
    BlueIce612 BlueIce612 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Don't let the nay sayer's tell you, you can't. with determination and elbow grease you can make a lot happen. Power To Change is real!!!!
    tacomasr5 tacomasr5 51-55, M Apr 10

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