I Am Annoyed By Overly Positive People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 568 People

    I can't stand people like that.

    just leave me alone and quit trying to make me see the world through the eyes of someone who is so perky, i want to flush them down the toilet.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    Aug 7, 2015

    They kinda friggin annoy me sometimes lol.

    I mean it's great and all but sometimes I'm just not in the mood.
    DeathAngelS300 DeathAngelS300
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 2

    Cloak and Dager

    The folks who think you have to have a vivacious personality to be breathing or have a right to breath the people who think a cheek aching smile is a requirement for existence,the exited puppy brigade who thinks anyone who doesn't act the same needs meds therapy or a straight...
    tulick tulick
    31-35, F
    30 Responses Dec 11, 2008

    distrust spawn from common sense,

    mysteriousness evoke  paranoia
    miimii0069 miimii0069
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 9, 2015

    Put A Sock In It.

    Not only am I annoyed by overly positive people, I absolutely loathe them! I hate people you look at the world as a good place, because it's not! The world is a cold dark place which shows no mercy to those who are less fortunate. So, my words to those who are overly positive is...
    girlanonymous girlanonymous
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2010

    People like this tend to think they're

    untouchable and unbreakable. one day your going to suffer and see your NOT better than anyone.
    YourSuffocatingMe YourSuffocatingMe
    18-21, F
    Aug 7, 2015

    I Hate Drama Queens

    I know what they say about people who say they hate drama................ that they are usually the ones who create it ...........but that is NOT the case for me. I do not like being caught in the middle of things and I am a very secretive person. I don't spread my business...
    IPROBABLYNEEDMOREMEDS IPROBABLYNEEDMOREMEDS
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2011

    Sheltered People

    People that are positive all the time HAVE NEVER expereienced REAL life there are times to be positive and a time to be negative. Just tell them to go and live in the real world then see if they come back SOOOO Positive.
    balanced2 balanced2
    36-40
    Apr 29, 2013

    Happy Thoughts....

    My ten year old step sister is way, over the top too overly postive. I know that she is ten and all, but seriously... Why is she so happy? I hate that little thing about her. It annoys me soooo much. We have to share a room, so I am stuck with perkiness for six more years...
    BmzttbNpsfop BmzttbNpsfop
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2011

    Positive Sayings -- Grrrr

    Ok - I know that they are for the best. But when you are really down, and blue, and some chipper little girl bops in and tells you all these positive sayings ... when you know they have never had a true love yet, never lost anything yet, never lived yet. I just want...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Mar 1, 2009

    They Don't Get It

    My life is ******. People who are positive haven't put themselves out there enough, haven't taken enough risks to put themselves in a position to be screwed over by people. I don't dislike the fact that they're positive. I dislike the fact that they're in lala land and oblivious...
    Rdub2011 Rdub2011
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 26, 2011

    My Friend Annoys Me With His Positive Attitude

    It was so annoying talking to my friend today, well, almost every time I talked to him. He has nothing negative to say about anything, if I mentioned something I don't like he would just put up some good word and tell me to look at the better side. It is true that we need some...
    danelionspromise danelionspromise
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Feb 17, 2011

    So fake. People who are positive all the time

    are just saying in a nice way ' I don't really care about your problems'.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 21, 2015

    Ever heard the phrase "High on life.

    " F#cking hell. If you're feeling really confident about your skills, and really happy about what's going on in your life, you're probably drunk, and no you shouldn't be confident in your skills, and you shouldn't drive because you might kill someone while you're in candyland...
    MeadowLark4 MeadowLark4
    18-21
    Sep 8, 2015

    There Is Nothing Wrong With Admiting Something Is Crap, Once In A While.

    Hi, For a while there I wondered if I'm not seeing the light enough, or is the person I'm with I'm dating someone who is overly positive about things sometimes, almost to the point of being campy. It is annoying at times. If the situation at hand is ******, then just admit...
    kebylynn kebylynn
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 19, 2009

    Not Really A Positive

    I love people who express positive approach in their dealing and decisions. But sometimes overly positive people tend to be arrogant, assertive. And I get easily annoyed, noticing their over confidence shows lack of sensitivity towards what is genuinely called wholesome...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

    If people wanna be constantly happy then

    that is fine for them but don't try to force it on me. If I don't want to smile or feel happy don't try to tell me there is so much good in my life and that I should be happy. If I find something to smile about or to be happy about then I will be happy about it. I have suffered...
    HalfwaybtwnHeavenandHell HalfwaybtwnHeavenandHell
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2014

    positive people are only people

    who refuse to see the world for what it is really like and they therefore refuse to see all those who are suffering
    nannalovet113 nannalovet113
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2015

    What's So Great?

    I am in no way saying that I am a totally negative person, but but as much as life may be one big bowl of cherries,  there is more pitts than fruit, it seems, so what is there too be so positive abou, all the time? 
    snowlady snowlady
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Nov 13, 2009

    life is not all unicorns

    and smiles. okay? i get it, you wanna be positive to help someone who is going threw something terrible. but, chances are, you'll just end up making it worst. ((if your trying to cheer up someone with, idk, depression, they might end up thinking "ugh why can't i be happy for...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 6, 2015

    Cynical and Proud of It!

    Cynics of the world unite! Together we can....oh, what's the use? It's just going to turn into another disappointing clusterfuck like everything else does.  
    niceguyinhell niceguyinhell
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2009

    Overly positive people raises my hopes

    and i hate it! Sometimes we need to have this negative side so when everything else fails, we are a bit prepared for it. Positive people are the idealistic ones. Realistic is far way better than idealistic!
    wildrose1806 wildrose1806
    22-25
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    sit the **** down with your pompons & hip~hip

    hoorayzzzz.....some people are morbid and comfortable in a dark space....like myself
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2015

    I think they are all drugs

    and baked out of their minds. .. they scare me!
    Halysa Halysa
    31-35, F
    Aug 7, 2015

    Just Shut Up Already and Be Miserable For Once

    I can't stand someone that is super bubbly and over positive about everything and acts like they have a permanent smile plastered on their face and never have any problems.  I find it very hard to relate to someone like that and don't want to talk about anything that bothers...
    haydenrules haydenrules
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Feb 2, 2009

    It's Crazy

     Being positive is a good thing, don't get me wrong. But when you're so positive over things that it doesn't even matter, then I just want to punch your lights out. I went to high school with a girl who was like that and I just didn't understand if she did it for the...
    sunsetblues sunsetblues
    18-21
    5 Responses Dec 27, 2008

    Hiding Something Eh?

    What are you hiding? Such a smiling depressive you are! People like you are definitely overcompensating! You say that everything is good and well, pretending that everything is perfect giving people false hopes and making fraudulent promises... WTF I swear you want to force...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    Dec 29, 2011

    I Am Confused

    Why does it bother those here when someone else is positive and happy?  I do not understand.  Each of us was given a life to live and the means to live it happily.  If someone wants to laugh all their life that is their right.  Then there are people who...
    levin60kitty levin60kitty
    61-65
    15 Responses Feb 3, 2009

    Isn't There a Limit?

    It's one thing to be optimistic about things and thinking positively about outcomes, but to be SO high on the positive end of the polar scale that you sound ridiculously stupid about what is happening or what is going to happen is irritating as all Hell.  Isn't it...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Sep 13, 2009

    Mr. Optimist

    This guy does not see the glass as half full- he sees it as FULL. So I fall down due to my clumsiness of tripping over that bump in the cement in front of this so called optimist, and he's like,"Well, at least you aren't dead!" I'm like,"I'll show you who will be dead if SOMEBODY...
    cutiegirl55 cutiegirl55
    13-15
    Jan 24, 2011

    Nobody Can Be Upbeat All The Time

    they will explode or are a stepford robot copy
    wotaloser wotaloser
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2011

    Blinded By The Light

    There seems to be a lot of comments about overly positive people in the Experience Project Some people must realise that there maybe more experiences in their life that they have lived Verses theirs. It depends on the indiviual person your talking about. People that have lived...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 6, 2012

    Overly Positive People Drive Me Nuts!!!!!!!!

    I have a friend who has a friend who is overly positive.  Almost to the point you want to puke.  I really like my friend and have a hard time putting up with her friend.  Any help out there?  
    ManM466 ManM466
    46-50
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2009

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