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I Am Anti Social

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    Am I The Only One?

    First of all, I want to say that I want to be social. I want to have a bunch of friends. . . however I have learned as the older I get the more selective and over-cautious I seem to be about friends, especially offline friends. I have become more anti-social, because I feel...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    I Am Anti-social...

    Ever since my mom took me out of the public school system, I am not very social. I mean don't get me wrong, I love Florida Virtual School. (an online learning solution)... I can make friends easily but idk why I choose not too. I need friends. I'm gonna try to get involved in...
    A7XFan01 A7XFan01 13-15, F Aug 15, 2009

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    I Am Indeed!!

    i've been anti social since i can remember,never been one to mix with the crowd,never been very sociable,and most of all,if you take a good look at the logo for this experience,that's like me,standing giving a big **** you to society!! although im generally a quiet,reserved, well...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Mar 12, 2012

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    vlop vlop 13-15, F Mar 17

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    I'm Ok In A Crowd

    Well I would not say I am Anti Social I just prefer my own company and do not do groups very often. I love getting dressed up mind you it only takes me minutes to look fine to go somewhere. I blame my mum as many years ago she said never be a sheep always be yourself. As...
    shall13 shall13 36-40, F Mar 13, 2012

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    Not A Very Social Person

    i'm reserved which is often taken to be aloof, but its actually a cover up because im insecure
    quietbeauty quietbeauty 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    Anti Social

    Anti social,At time,I am,When I'm down,I withdraw,Don't want you,Seeing me like this.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Loner Rock

    I love being loner but i want someone to talk to..
    8Urumi9 8Urumi9 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2012

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    Obvious

    In a group full of people who say they are anti-social, nobody is posting. You're honest as well.
    Twitcher Twitcher 31-35, M Nov 4, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    This is a quote I found on instagram " I'm not anti-social I'm anti-idiot"
    justplainawkward justplainawkward 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    The way the whole stage of the world is set, I do not assume to know any other persons mind, any other persons thought, any other persons ideas, dreams, emotional highs and lows...
    redstone1985 redstone1985 26-30 Jul 6

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    I dont know why but i am very anti social. I hate seeing people. I hate being in a crowd. I hate being surrounded by people. I hate when someone look at me and then laugh. I hate...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Where I'm from, if you're a social butterfly, people call you annoying, ugly etc behind your back. More bullshit happens. More **** to deal with. Whereas if you're a wall flower...
    HighOnMisery HighOnMisery 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    And it's weird. When I'm with people I want to be alone. And when I'm alone, at some point, I want to go out and socialise. Sometimes I stay alone for too long I forget how to...
    pinkchalk pinkchalk 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I can't even remember when it started. Probably high school. It was awful. I didn't fit in. As an adult I don't fit in with the people around me as well. I'm just not like the...
    PersiaRuby PersiaRuby 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    It has been hard...almost drained and feeling I dont give the best of myself I had been tempted to enclose myself at home again..."the cave".But everytime I am a bit down or...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Its so hard when your mom notices and is being all sarcastic saying, "what? Youre actually trying to make friends now?"
    MeeeKazz MeeeKazz 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I'm ok over the internet, but talking to people is very scary and weird sometimes, I try to hang out with my "friends" the popular kids that I sit with every day but I always feel...
    Dozer960 Dozer960 13-15, M Jul 16

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    idk if i should hangout with my friend tomorrow. only friend i really hungout with after highschool, havent seen him since last september because he never wanted to hangout. now...
    Zack607 Zack607 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Idk why but I'm always avoiding everyone and every situation...
    alee96 alee96 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Has anyone truly outgrown their quiet,shy nature?Bloomed from the anti social cocooned caterpillar to the beautiful social butterfly? if yes, then do share your experience. if not...
    booklover4ever booklover4ever 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I'm kinda anti-social and i don't like it. Because of this i'm lonely and have no friends, can someone help me?
    DessyLove DessyLove 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I've been on a "social hibernation" for more than a month already. I haven't opened my then very active Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc. My semester starts this August and I know...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Anyone else have those days where they get so antisocial they actually argue with themselves? I can't be completely alone on this .-.
    MaryLiz94 MaryLiz94 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I go through stages of being antisocial, it helps me think clearly and catch up things I need/want to get done. :)
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    I didn't quite know why I couldn't dare get change from the teenager at the register, or ask a stranger for help in public until about two years ago. I did some research and found...
    thegreatsideshow thegreatsideshow 13-15, F 10 hrs ago

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    I'm not very social but it's not like I'm a complete loner. Unfortunately for me, I have a VERY social sister. I'm always being compared to her or asked why I don't "go out" more...
    Candyflosshair Candyflosshair 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    I started taking 10mg of Prozac around late November of 2012 for a variety of different issues, the major being an eating disorder, depression, and anxiety. Because of my...
    evesss evesss 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    The way people behave in a social context and the way they behave when you are alone with them, you would think they have a split personality. I don't have this ability. I talk...
    Aeonian Aeonian 51-55, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I have debilitating social anxiety. I am 29 and have had this problem ever since i could remember. It got worse during high school. I would not be able to eat during lunch over the...
    rangelb85 rangelb85 26-30, M 9 Responses Jul 17

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    I used to be more social. I used to be happy. Then I got married to him. Everything was fine at first, but then his true colors started to show. I'm torn, broken, depressed. The...
    purpleribbongirl purpleribbongirl 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm pretty outgoing but I wish I was genuinely comfortable around people. Because I'm either intimidated or scared, always watch what I say and feel awkward this I making me less...
    brnino brnino 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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      Israel-Palestine is not a war. It's an occupation of a people that has resulted in decades of humiliation and oppression. Since the disappearance of three Jewish teens on...
    moonii moonii 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I always manage to do and/or say the wrong things. I always try to anticipate the other persons' reaction, and it's usually the exact opposite!
    ImaWeirdie ImaWeirdie 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 11

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    I feel like just hiding in my room all day. Info not want to go be social!!!
    KimTin33 KimTin33 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 15

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    I recently went without social contact for about three weeks. In a sad kind of way, I'm sort of proud of it. My life doesn't depend on others.
    FictionalWolf FictionalWolf 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ok. Maybe. But antisocietal fits better. Or anti jerk. Or anti trend. Or anti wealthy miser. Or anti employer who fires the decent. So many add to our wrongs...
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    All my life I have lived in fear of social rejection. My family immigrated to the U.S. when I was 6 and I could not speak a word of English. I was sent to live with my aunt who...
    MNRR MNRR 36-40 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I certainly have social anxiety but not to the point that I cannot function socially at all. But each time that I go into a social situation, I do need to mentally prepare myself...
    NerdyGirl78 NerdyGirl78 36-40, F 4 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Hi, I am 13 (my birthdays in the summer) I am going into highschool this coming school year. I have been diagnose with social anxiety for a really long time but it start truly...
    katieerika katieerika 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Oh my gosh there's something about antiques that I find amazing!! And interesting!! I love the look of antique things and the history that follows them is just so fascinating Just...
    samantharob1993 samantharob1993 18-21, F Jul 15

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    Sometimes I am antisocial, and I don't mean to be...it's just that past experiences with an ex making me feel like **** about myself and judging me in front of others has made me...
    princesscolie princesscolie 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It has been said that we are social animals. I think that's true. Even introverts like me value connections, we just value fewer and deeper connections than what the social media...
    LostInTheWoulds LostInTheWoulds 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I didn't realise that I had social anxiety until I took the Liebowitz Social Anxiety test 2 days ago. I scored a 91, saying that I have severe social anxiety. My doctor made me...
    Hazelgrace22 Hazelgrace22 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I/we are huge fans and participant in Social Nudity. The freedom of being completely open and unencumbered by stereotypes and pre-judgments based on clothing or jewelry, etc. is...
    selaparty selaparty 46-50, M Jul 15

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    Took the test. Got the diagnosis. I have social anxiety. I am in therapy one or two hours each week. It helps to talk, but I have a tight family who simply can't stop having social...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I am taking antidepressants and I feel like it is doing no effect on me. I have been taking them since January this year and had to get them switched 3 times already. Nothing is...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Anyone on lithium? I've been taking antidepressants for over 10 years now, switching often so we could find the right one. My Dr wants me to try adding lithium to help my current...
    nousernamesavailable nousernamesavailable 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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