I Am Antisocial

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    Abhorrence Abhorrence
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    Seriously this bothers me about myself.

    Like I sometimes want more friends, but I just can't make any. And I don't really like talking to people in person...it's frustrating
    Lokilover49 Lokilover49
    18-21, F
    Jul 2, 2014

    Antisocial and Damn Proud of It!

    I haven't done anything all weekend… except read and relax.  The only social activity I did was having lunch with a friend and accompanying her to Yoga class on Saturday.   I haven't spoken to anybody else all weekend except for the cashier at the grocery...
    AwkwardMoment AwkwardMoment
    9 Responses Jun 20, 2008

    I have gone to a couple of different schools in

    the past. When I transferred to a public school in fourth grade, I never spoke to anyone. For the next two years, I barely spoke to anyone. I didn't necessarily feel lonely. I never liked the other kids. During some of middle school, I didn't have friends either. I go to a very...
    DreamOfAFox DreamOfAFox
    16-17, F
    Mar 10, 2016

    Let Me Count the Reasons

    There are so many reasons to keep to one's self.  I'm able to count well beyond the fingers and toes I have yet am unsure I could list every possible reason for being antisocial. Personally, I find antisocial behavior easier in my 'situation' despite the fact that I was...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 27, 2007

    Sorry but I'm just not socially equip.

    . Is that now you spell it? I'm not sure so yeah.. Friends I will just shut up whenever you're talking. I'll there physically but mentally ill be elsewhere 🖖🏽🤕
    deleted deleted
    Oct 25, 2015


    To start off, i'm not social in the least. I'm scared stiff of making contact with people. I have no ability to start off and conversations that i actually venture into end off in an awkward silence. I'm fine if other people approach me and talk, i reply but i cannot...
    typeyourname typeyourname
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 17, 2007

    I typically started being antisocial around the

    age of 11, I'd started isolating myself from my friends and started to dread speaking in public. When I was 13, my mother noticed and she gave me probably the worst piece of advice any antisocial kid could receive; "if you never become social, you will never succeed." To me...
    SmartYetUgly SmartYetUgly
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2015

    i believe good&bad, right&wrong are all

    meaningless. what you like is good and right. i hate society morals which only helps powerful people
    avinashmatta avinashmatta
    22-25, M
    Jun 12, 2015

    Okay...so this is my first experience I am

    sharing on a website, rather than a diary. I am antisocial. When I was in school, I was always tagged as being "popular" as I was into sports and the captain of my team. I was also in a group of 4 where one of my best friend was extremely social and popular and great with the...
    Amagicalmysticalland Amagicalmysticalland
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 2, 2014

    For all of you who have

    or don't have Antisocial Personality Disorder and think those of us who have joined this group because we don't like being around people have a misconstrued perception of what it means to be "antisocial," I'd like to bring this E.P. group to your attention: EP Link Thank You...
    yopu yopu
    Aug 27, 2015

    I don't have any real friends.

    .. The only one that I can count on I can't really count on sometimes.. It's not her fault but everybody else treats me as a tag along. It gets incredibly lonely when you're the one sitting in a corner of a room all by yourself and everybody else ignores you or doesn't care...
    dachick297 dachick297
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 30, 2014

    Nothing really pushes to socialize.

    ..ever! And even when people approached me, I never thought of getting to know them at all.
    lazyeye5 lazyeye5
    26-30, M
    Jul 11, 2015

    Society Doesn't Care About Me...

    So why should I care about it? I DON'T: have any Apple Computer gadgets read women's magazines like mainstream cinema much watch TV religiously worship celebrities get beauty treatments have steady employment have a 'significant other' have...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Jun 20, 2010

    I really don't like socialising

    or going out. I'm ok with this but just wish everyone else could accept it's the way I am. I stay away from making new friends cos I don't want the hassle of declining socialising at party's and clubs etc. if a friend comes round I'm just thinking when will they go! I just want...
    Tara991 Tara991
    41-45, F
    17 Responses Mar 15, 2014
    Whathi Whathi
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 9, 2015

    I think Ima buy something to freak people out

    and get them to leave me alone...top left :) Will be worth the money....
    deleted deleted
    Jun 26, 2015

    Seriously Antisocial

    I like being alone and doing things on my own. I guess I am so used to this lifestyle I am not even sure what activities are acceptable to be done alone etc. My problem is that I have so many friends from before when I was sociable. I really don't know why they stick around...
    misscry misscry
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

    I can go days, weeks even,

    without talking to anyone or going outside. (when I'm not being forced to go to school) I've been trying really hard though, to be social. I force myself to hangout with people. My therapist says this will stop the depression and anxiety from getting any worse, but I doubt it...
    littlebird88 littlebird88
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 1, 2015

    People are scary. They judge you

    so quickly. I got bullied a lot so that is where it stems from. I can handle a crowd I just don't like looking at people in the face or meeting new people. I tell myself that I'm fine being alone but sometimes my depression gets the better of me on on days like these I wish I...
    MomoHekate MomoHekate
    18-21, F
    May 5, 2015

    Didn'T Before

    But am now. More & more I tend to not want to have visitors or go out to crowded events. Part of it is caution and part of it just a general dislike of others. I'm cautious to hold down my own, there's wolves out there. Not that I have much. I'm poor as hell. I've just been...
    mierdamundo mierdamundo
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2013

    I Don't See A Thing Wrong With It!

    Yes I am proudly Anti social. It isn't that I can not be sociable when it is required. I can strike up a superficial conversation with most people. After all how else am I to weed out the people I have no interest in further contact. The funny thing is most people would...
    CheekyGeek CheekyGeek
    28 Responses Mar 2, 2010

    It's not that I'm antisocial it's just

    that I'm not user friendly
    Whathi Whathi
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 6, 2015

    Just came back from an assessment from a mental

    health place. Lol they diagnosed me with some sub form of depression. Woman kept asking all these questions about me....She even had the nerve to ask if I wanted to tell her a little about myself... I swiftly told her no. Lol she seemed surprised, like no one ever told her no...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 6, 2015

    Mainly with my family

    and the picture explains it all
    deleted deleted
    Jun 28, 2015

    I admit it, I am. Not intentionally,

    but people get on my nerves too easily, some are so fake, attention seeking w-*****, needy over the top...I need friends to validate me....that it makes me sick. I have never fit in. My opinions have always been different than the majority and it makes me feel like an outsider...
    Hypocrisies Hypocrisies
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 29, 2016

    I am antisocial but cant say totally

    as sometimes i do go out with family but i dont like it. There are times when i just dont care about others at all. I do my best to stay in my room and never get out of it. I dont know why but this world just scares me. For many years now i have shut myself from the world and...
    lonelybrokensoul lonelybrokensoul
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2014

    I seldom talk at work.

    To a point where I feel like the outcast 90% of the time. I have tried, but well... they are their own and respective person, and have unique situations that I can't seem to fathom because it's not happening to me, like university, a family/fiancee/ romantic partner, partying...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r
    26-30, M
    May 14, 2015
    Handyman25 Handyman25
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 22, 2014

    It's Not That I'm Anti-social, I Just Don't Like Most People, And Enjoy Being On My Own

    The masses might see me as anti-social. I don't really give a ****. What I want to say to people who get offended by my not being superficial is: there are plenty of people to be friends with, if I'm leaving you alone it's because I don't like you/ feel we are not connecting...
    Artistina Artistina
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 19, 2010

    I hate people. Let's be real here.

    I'm like the earth. I look perfect. But inside I'm dying slowly, painfully. I want to kill everyone. People will always hate. People will always love. People will be people. And that leads to broken hearts. You'd think with current technology we would've invented a cure...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 28, 2014


    i have terrible problems with social contact. i cant even manage to talk to some of the people iv been friends with for years. and any time someone i dont know appraoches me, i freak out. its like, i cant even think anymore. and then everyone else goes around thinking im some...
    cheshirecat287 cheshirecat287
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 30, 2007
    BiologicalWeird BiologicalWeird
    22-25, T
    May 17, 2015

    I'm about to transfer into a big collage.

    I spent my first year at community collage to get my basics done with and to save money. I've lived in the same house for my entire life. I have difficulty meeting new people so I'm getting extremely nervous. This will be a completely new surrounding for me and I don't know what...
    MomoHekate MomoHekate
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 13, 2015

    Went to a wedding and I was hella nervous the

    whole time..couldn't look anyone in the eye, not even the couple. didn't talk unless spoken to. I went home feeling like complete poop cos I didn't grab my lady balls and talk to people like a normal human being. But hey..at least I got eat some good food.
    XxSxarletxX XxSxarletxX
    18-21, F
    Aug 10, 2015

    I hate being antisocial sometimes.

    .. I wish I could have friends to hang out with or double date with, with my boyfriend. I see people on my Facebook that hang out and go places and have fun ect and it makes me sad that I'm so anxious all the time and get shy around people. I mistakenly tried to find a friend on...
    CannibalisticUnicorn CannibalisticUnicorn
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2016

    I hate when people ask my name

    and introduce themselves. If I wanted you to know my name, I would've told you. If I cared about you, I would be interested. But no, Ima forget your name in 5 minutes. Seriously, **** off...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    I hate love songs and you'll never find me at a

    place where people play love songs.
    lazyeye5 lazyeye5
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 12, 2015

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    signeccaa signeccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 24, 2016

    Im okay speaking in front of groups

    or preforming for an audience but when it comes down to one-on-one talking...i feel so odd and uncomfortable
    deleted deleted
    May 4, 2015

    I am extremely antisocial,

    i need to really be comfortable with you to be able to talk to you, or all I'd do is listen to music the whole time. Or I act extremely retarded so like yea.
    demonswithin demonswithin
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    I am antisocial and I don't really have friends

    at school or anything. I sit with one person at lunch, but he usually just sits there to eat and we don't speak much. Most of the time, I hide my face behind novels I'm currently reading. I don't mind speaking if someone starts first, but I can never go up to someone and start...
    untilthemorninglight untilthemorninglight
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 21, 2014

    I just want to be left alone.

    No conversations, no messages nothing... No touching me no interactions
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 23, 2015

    In person I can be anti social,

    mainly because I don't like to talk too much,I'm shy,I don't have much to say and I'm a loner.It's not that I don't like people,sure I could like people even though I'm mostly a loner,sometimes I need to have a little conversation and spend some time with people but when that's...
    DepressedAngell DepressedAngell
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2016

    As a kid I craved popularity.

    Most of us did. Now, I kinda just want people to go away. I don't use social media. I don't pop open my laptop to see who said what about who or what. I don't care. I don't actually even own a laptop. I see what's in front of me. I deal with those who are around me...
    mierdamundo mierdamundo
    1 Response Jan 6, 2014

    Talking to people just feels like a lot of work

    sometimes. Even just replying to text messages can irritate me. It's not that I don't ever crave human interaction because I do. I guess the thing is that I want it on my own schedule. And I want to be left alone most of the time. For some reason, I feel kind of wrong for...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2014

    My friends asked me if I wanted to go to the

    mall and I was down to go until I asked who was going. There was about 7 people there and I said no. Once the day came that they were all going I regretted saying no. I'm not sure why I said no If I wanted to go. I wish I wasn't so antisocial. If I wasn't i'd have more fun in...
    llama45 llama45
    22-25, F
    Feb 15, 2016


    I'm so confused! I feel like I belong in this group, but I don't want to hang out with you guys.
    VickieBonne VickieBonne
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Feb 9, 2012

    I'm only 20, bout to be 21

    and I feel so un normal. All my friends and people my age are goin out and partying and having fun...and I'm just like that's cool I'll just lay here in my bed while I watch movies perfectly content. I just don't see the point in one, being around people that you don't really...
    93rp 93rp
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

    I'll just say it I had been suffering from

    severe depression. for the past month. and people had proven to make it worse. so I had closed myself off from the world. I can barely run my order in the flesh but through one of my trusted allies. I don't talk anymore not even my parents. and I just find solace in solitude...
    SladeBolinLeaderofEp SladeBolinLeaderofEp
    18-21, M
    Sep 15, 2015

    My whole life, I've been misunderstood

    and I didn't have someone I could talk to honestly, so I learned to live inside myself and not let anyone in. And that's why I dont like to talk to other people.
    wolfgirl202 wolfgirl202
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 17, 2015

    Whew, that was close!

    Almost had to socialize.-.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 13, 2015

    Do you hate when people say: 1.

    Why are you so quiet? 2. Why don't you want to be my friend? 3. Do you want to hang out with us? 4. Why are you sitting by yourself? 5. Let me copy your homework. 6. Can we sit here? A.1 Because I don't want to talk. A.2 Because I don't want to. A.3 No. A.4 Because I want to -_...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 18, 2015

    I started to become antisocial around the age

    of 13. I didn't like public speaking I didn't want to talk to anyone I stay in my own bubble. Even today I'm still the same.
    Yourfavnextdoor Yourfavnextdoor
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2015
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