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I Am Antisocial

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    I Find It Really Difficult To Make Friends! D:

    I have got disability physically and sensory so I'm deaf and have physical problems but can walk. I am at college studying A levels but I find it so hard to make more friends or new friends and With my old school friends I find it hard to go out and I never get invited to parties...
    MilweePisces MilweePisces 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 6, 2010

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    Kind Of Anti Social

    I don't know if I can say I'm anti social,per se..I do love talking to people,but only if I'm comfortable with them..And I'm not one to start conversations,I just am not good at it..But if someone says hi to me,and talks to me,then I can talk up a storm.. I'm not really a people...
    maeviac13 maeviac13 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2009

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    Love Being Alone

    I am a person who loves being by himself when I should be hanging out with my friends like other teenagers my age. I'm 15 years old and try to avoid people I don't have to interact with. Most of my friends are gone because I've been secluding myself from them for most of the case...
    MavisPuree MavisPuree 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    I'm a very antisocial person.

    Im a 19 year old male. I hate leaving my house for more than a couple minutes at a time. Even when it's a necessity to leave it hate it. I hate being around anyone including my family at times. I have 2 best friends who are closer than brothers but I even make excuses to not be...
    BeefStromi BeefStromi 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 16

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    It all started last summer,

    when nearly all my friends turned on me because I didn't wanna be like them (I'm not going into details, too long of a story) after that I just shut down socially. Which is funny because I'm very popular at school and people were surprised when came back to school after summer...
    KeithJagger KeithJagger 18-21, M Feb 24

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    I'm Anti, I'm Anti, I'm Antisocial!

    so, most of the people here seem to have the wrong idea of "antisocial".  being antisocial doesnt mean you are not a social person.  it means you act out in amnners that are against social acceptances.  it is simialr to sociopathy.  "symptoms...
    happyhooker happyhooker 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2007

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    I Don'T Like Being Antisocial

    I feel that I'm not good at making connections with people. Therefore, I'm quite reserved and shy at first. I'm also not very good at reaching out to people because I fear rejection. So, essentially I don't have many friends...and it sucks. I live close to a big city and yet I do...
    thanatophobic thanatophobic 22-25, F 1 Response May 15, 2013

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    Define Me As An Antisocial As You Like, But I Am Just Me

    "why you be so antisocial ?" this was my friend question when i was hiding myself from the groups that i called as an acquittance - that many people define them and easily categorize them as a friends. I never called my self as one  but many people define me as an antisocial. I...
    blackravencat blackravencat 22-25, M Sep 12, 2013

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    I'm only 20, bout to be 21

    and I feel so un normal. All my friends and people my age are goin out and partying and having fun...and I'm just like that's cool I'll just lay here in my bed while I watch movies perfectly content. I just don't see the point in one, being around people that you don't really...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 16

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    Sigh

    To start off, i'm not social in the least. I'm scared stiff of making contact with people. I have no ability to start off and conversations that i actually venture into end off in an awkward silence. I'm fine if other people approach me and talk, i reply but i cannot...
    typeyourname typeyourname 16-18, M 1 Response May 17, 2007

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    I'm Not Afraid Of People

    I just don't like or trust them. Why bother talking to people when they won't hear you? Why make friends just to lose them? Why fight for people that would fight to get away from you? I'm just sick of going in this endless circle where I get one best friend that I trust with...
    thexfilesz thexfilesz 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    No Friends, No Enemies

    I am antisocial because when you don't let people in, you avoid letting people let you down. It's lonely, but not as lonely as when you try to connect with people who don't care. Fair weather friends are a dime a dozen, and even the best of friends are bound to move on and forget...
    cssoulsearching cssoulsearching 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 7, 2010

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    I am honestly struck by the inherent irony of

    the very existence of this group -- and its size.
    SisterCyanide SisterCyanide 26-30, T Mar 18

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    I am antisocial and I am not ashamed to say it.

    I don't like people. I don't like humans. I would prefer to be in a dark room and watch anime or read a story. I don't like parties or social events. I like being by myself and not caring what others are doing. I don't care if I come off as bitchy I'm just saying I don't like...
    Demonicfemale Demonicfemale 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Ill Be Here For You

    If anyone needs to vent or speak to someone, don't be afraid and message me. This site has certainly helped me turn my life around. Knowing that there are others out there like me has helped alot, because then i didn't feel so alone. All i did was write my story and received a...
    athion64 athion64 18-21, M May 9, 2013

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    Grade School Anxiety

    It was many years ago, but I remembered it clearly the other day after it was a forgotten memory for so long. As a kid I didn't learn the value of or means to maintain friendships. We moved many times until I was 10. This forced me to learn to make friends in the new place...
    CharlieTheBeagle CharlieTheBeagle 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    I Just Don't Like Socializing...

    with more than 1 person at a time. I just feel out of place if there is a group of people I have to converse with. I feel akward. If I do choose to speak to someone new, its just that instant comfortablity that lets me speak to them. Once you get to know me, I'm actually am...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    Not Always,But Sometimes.

    I am antisocial.I'd say alot.Every time someone tries to come down and ask me something on the street,or in school,or wherever there are people,I just shy out and don't even talk to them.I fear that if I open my mouth I'll say something really bad,or that will offend them in some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    My Dream

    I had an awesome dream this morning. It was about this girl I like at school except she moved away over the summer. Well what happened in my dream was that she moved back and we met at school and we started to talk. Than I asked her out and she said yes. After that we went to a...
    cat1024 cat1024 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    Talking To People

    i am antisocial i cant help it i dont know how to talk to people i get very nourvous when approched by a stranger i have been antisocial as long as i can remeber i have a very hard time making and keeping friends i keep to my self i dont like being aprroched by random strangers...
    babyface12345 babyface12345 22-25, F Jul 15, 2013

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    I Have Always Been Anitsoical

    I have really never had anyone in my life for along time as far as i can remember. My mom left me when i was 13, my family dont talk to something that I didnt even do so now they arent talking to me and friends...lol..what are friends I really never had friends but every friend...
    memyselfandi83 memyselfandi83 26-30 2 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    I cannot talk to anyone

    unless they start talking to me. I can't just walk up to a stranger, introduce myself and start up a conversation. I'm scared of rejection. When I was in 1st grade, I switched schools... And that was hell for me. I did not know anyone at the time. It was my birthday and I...
    kitkat48 kitkat48 16-17, F Mar 7

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    I'm One of Those, Too!

    I just read Celainn's story and it sounds almost exactly like me!  First impressions of me are not great at all.  I've been accused of being a stuck up snob, because of first impressions.  I'm not, I just don't do:  "How do you do? Nice to meet you"...
    silvermystics silvermystics 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2007

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    It's Not That I'm Anti-social, I Just Don't Like Most People, And Enjoy Being On My Own

    The masses might see me as anti-social. I don't really give a ****. What I want to say to people who get offended by my not being superficial is: there are plenty of people to be friends with, if I'm leaving you alone it's because I don't like you/ feel we are not connecting...
    Artistina Artistina 26-30, F 3 Responses May 19, 2010

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    Other People Bother Me

    Maybe it's inherited - I remember my father being the same way growing up.  I like being alone, I dread when I know I have company coming by and never invite anyone over unless it's absolutely necessary.   I go late and leave early for family gatherings.  I do...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    I am antisocial. Not ASOCIAL like most of the

    idiots here confuse antisociality with. I have a funtioning social life, but I don't care about people's feelings. I don't give a **** about anything.
    ShitBasher ShitBasher 16-17, M Jan 15

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    That Is Why...

    I don't like talking to people I have no interested, usually the person who wants to talk to me try but feels threaten because of my stoic behavior and I rarely speak. I choose not to speak either A) I'm don't want too, B) I dislike you or C) you're annoying. I seem impossible to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 25, 2011

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    Antisocial

    i have terrible problems with social contact. i cant even manage to talk to some of the people iv been friends with for years. and any time someone i dont know appraoches me, i freak out. its like, i cant even think anymore. and then everyone else goes around thinking im some...
    cheshirecat287 cheshirecat287 16-18, F 4 Responses May 30, 2007

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    Solitude

    I enjoy being alone, so much so that my almost constant need for solitude confuses others. I don't know how to explain it to them, other than that I find the company of others to be exhausting. Last night in my latest studio art class, I was forced to put up with a pair of...
    QueenWasp QueenWasp 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Seriously Antisocial

    I like being alone and doing things on my own. I guess I am so used to this lifestyle I am not even sure what activities are acceptable to be done alone etc. My problem is that I have so many friends from before when I was sociable. I really don't know why they stick around...
    misscry misscry 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Talking to people just feels like a lot of work

    sometimes. Even just replying to text messages can irritate me. It's not that I don't ever crave human interaction because I do. I guess the thing is that I want it on my own schedule. And I want to be left alone most of the time. For some reason, I feel kind of wrong for...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    Being anti-social is defined

    as seeing the feelings of others as irrelevant. Most people confuse being loners, or fearful of crowds with being anti-social. Dumbasses
    QGambit86 QGambit86 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2013

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    Help, I'M Alive.

    I don't even know where to start. This will be all for now.
    Aurabore Aurabore 22-25, F 3 Responses May 16, 2013

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    OMG This Is So Me

    I am so very antisocial. I don't like people very much and even when i do i am very selective! I never really have been a people person ... i tend to find they always let you down or just turn out to be a pain in the arse! I like to keep myself to myself and i am happy with it...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    I Hate Most People

    I would rather sit at home, alone, and stare at a wall than go out with the people I know in real life. That is how much people suck. I've also given up on having any meaningful relationships (romantic or friendly) seeing that everyone that crosses my path in the real world is...
    fancygal fancygal 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    If I wasn't so insecure

    and is actually capable of making people want to talk to me...then I would be talking to everyone and making friends, just like a normal human being. I don't have any friends in school. I often try to join the girls in my class but I'm always out of the circle...things they...
    amourisi amourisi 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    My Antisocial Songs

    why don't i have the right words .. why am i missing out .. it's cause of you .. and i'm really trying to say the things that i want to say but it doesn't always come out the right way ... you make me so anti social . every time you talk to me .. you make me wish...
    chrismaxis144715 chrismaxis144715 22-25, M Mar 2, 2013

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    I really don't like socialising

    or going out. I'm ok with this but just wish everyone else could accept it's the way I am. I stay away from making new friends cos I don't want the hassle of declining socialising at party's and clubs etc. if a friend comes round I'm just thinking when will they go! I just want...
    Tara991 Tara991 36-40, F 22 Responses Mar 15

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    As a kid I craved popularity.

    Most of us did. Now, I kinda just want people to go away. I don't use social media. I don't pop open my laptop to see who said what about who or what. I don't care. I don't actually even own a laptop. I see what's in front of me. I deal with those who are around me...
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I am antisocial but cant say totally

    as sometimes i do go out with family but i dont like it. There are times when i just dont care about others at all. I do my best to stay in my room and never get out of it. I dont know why but this world just scares me. For many years now i have shut myself from the world and...
    lonelybrokensoul lonelybrokensoul 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I Hate Men

    I'm sorry folks that I have never met and never will, but I simply hate men. I hate how life always gives you the best, as if it was your birth right just because you were born with that between your legs. I hate how women that love you always give EVERYTHING for you, even if it...
    Lonely103 Lonely103 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2013

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    Antisocial and Damn Proud of It!

    I haven't done anything all weekend… except read and relax.  The only social activity I did was having lunch with a friend and accompanying her to Yoga class on Saturday.   I haven't spoken to anybody else all weekend except for the cashier at the grocery...
    AwkwardMoment AwkwardMoment 31-35 9 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    I Don't See A Thing Wrong With It!

    Yes I am proudly Anti social. It isn't that I can not be sociable when it is required. I can strike up a superficial conversation with most people. After all how else am I to weed out the people I have no interest in further contact. The funny thing is most people would...
    CheekyGeek CheekyGeek 41-45 29 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Let Me Count the Reasons

    There are so many reasons to keep to one's self.  I'm able to count well beyond the fingers and toes I have yet am unsure I could list every possible reason for being antisocial. Personally, I find antisocial behavior easier in my 'situation' despite the fact that I was...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I feel like I don't relate to people at all.

    Even my family! My girlfriend accepts me which I love, but I'm still not sure she gets me. I don't like all the partying and getting wasted and trying to find someone to hook up with all the time and that seems like that's all everybody does which is lame. I don't even like...
    Baked6 Baked6 26-30, F Feb 12

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    Why I Hate Socializing

    Socializing is effing exhausting for me... To put on a happy face and be empathetic and understanding and actively listen to people's needs and concerns and stories. I try to be the best, try to quickly decide what is the best response to people in each conversation I have. It's...
    brokenheaart brokenheaart 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2011

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    How It All Started I Think

    I dont remember much but i think this all started when i was around 6 or 7 years old or possibly younger. i was very social and happy in our first house we lived in and 1 my friends from school lived in my neighborhood so i would go see him everyday. But than we had to move and I...
    cat1024 cat1024 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    Society Doesn't Care About Me...

    So why should I care about it? I DON'T: have any Apple Computer gadgets read women's magazines like mainstream cinema much watch TV religiously worship celebrities get beauty treatments have steady employment have a 'significant other' have...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 10 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    Didn'T Before

    But am now. More & more I tend to not want to have visitors or go out to crowded events. Part of it is caution and part of it just a general dislike of others. I'm cautious to hold down my own, there's wolves out there. Not that I have much. I'm poor as hell. I've just been...
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 3 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    I used to lack of life experiences until I discovered this website that changed me from an antisocial person into a more sociable being. Thanks EP!
    Rosycheeks27 Rosycheeks27 13-15 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Skylar1414 Skylar1414 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I have just got this app and this is my 1st post. Ok so I have been picking scabs for a about 50% of my life and I know I need to stop. I just can't even if I try my hardest not...
    Fattie987 Fattie987 26-30, M Mar 24

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    Yours truly is an INFJ – Introverted, iNtuitive, Feeling, and Judging. The skinny is that time alone energizes me, my thinking is big-picture and gut-feeling dominated, my...
    WickedScullyOfTheWest WickedScullyOfTheWest 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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