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I Am Asexual

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    If you’re asexual and wanna have sex,

    you’re awesome If you’re asexual and don’t care about sex, you’re awesome If you never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, EVER wanna have sex at all, you’re awesome Don’t ever let anyone throw any of you under the bus
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 1 Response Aug 21, 2014

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    Love from an asexual is the most pure,

    unconditional love anyone can receive. If you are in a relationship with an asexual, you know that they love you for why you are; for your mind, your personality, and for yourself. Asexual people can still have sex. But it has a different meaning to them than to most people...
    bgirlskc bgirlskc 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    How Do I Say This...

    I'm not completely sure yet if asexual is the most accurate word to describe me, but that's what I tell people I am. I find it helps them understand better where I'm coming from when I say I've never had sex and I don't want to. For a while my mom didn't believe me and just...
    Alea2013 Alea2013 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    and very proud to be!

    :) too bad it's super hard to find a boyfriend
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 6

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    Asexual- Relieved And Scared At The Same Time

    Okay I don't really know where to start with this. I basically plucked up the courage to tell my story on here because I thought I might meet other people like me? I feel like I can't tell my family or anyone because I don't want them to judge me and I feel like I'm letting my...
    AlienBob AlienBob 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    beb12 beb12 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I firstly want to make clear

    that I am not 100% certain if I am asexual, but after some research, I've come to the conclusion that it is a possibility, especially after discovering the different "types" of asexuality, which is why I felt the need to finally join this Group. Asexual means there's a lack of...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6, 2014

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    I suspect I am asexual.

    I have no sex drive. I find myself feeling aroused maybe once a year or less. It's never by people, just random with no focus on anyone. I've had sex with a lot of guys and one girl, mostly when I was younger. I did it because I had low self esteem and liked the attention. I...
    Asleep72 Asleep72 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    It makes me so explicably angry

    whenever people deny my existence. I know, in theory, that many groups have been denied and overlooked in the past before finding their salvation. I know that. I am aware. But that makes it no less infuriating when people refuse to believe or even understand that I know myself...
    AzuraSkies AzuraSkies 16-17 4 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    The Realization Of Being Asexual

    I remember from when I was about 14 years old, I always felt different from most males, I was never interested in girls as they seemed to be, my mother just said that it was just a phase and that I would like girls some day. At age 16, same thing, my mother said that I was just a...
    ThePeanutTerminator ThePeanutTerminator 18-21 8 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    This 13 year old girl is messaging me

    and actually trying to tell me that I don't know what my own sexual orientation is. LOOOOOOL
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 13

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    For starters I never thought it was something

    unnatural. I simply thought my interests rested elsewhere. I wasn't all into flirting, or getting intimate...I preferred to be reading or painting. I would see couples holding hands or kissing and the only thing I could think of was 'aww I wish I had a boyfriend so I could play...
    VonGeek VonGeek 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I'm brand new to this site,

    but I guess I'll start with this; I've been passively pushed into a relationship. The guy is decent and treats me well, but I don't feel anything at all for him (or anyone for that matter) I've tried to open up to him about why I don't do relationships, but I either never...
    audiopuma audiopuma 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Why Don't I Want It?

    I don't want any sex.  When I was young, I thought I would want to to have sex when I grew up, just like most people.  Now, I isolate myself from everyone.  Just like I always did.  I was always ashamed to let anyone know me too well for fear of them knowing...
    iconax iconax 26-30, M 21 Responses Aug 20, 2007

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    I might be asexual. It never really occurred

    to me until recent events that I could be asexual. I am currently in college and dating a girl, although I do not know how much longer. I met this girl in my organic chemistry lecture. I enjoyed talking to her very much and we seemed to relate on a lot of things. We became...
    reddopplershift reddopplershift 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    I want to come out as asexual to my best friend,

    but I don't know how to. We've been sort of "friends with benefits" for a while, but I just sorta felt uncomfortable about when she talks about sexual things with me. But I'm scared that if I tell her that I'm not interested, then she'll think that I'm not attracted to her...
    artisticaltay artisticaltay 16-17, F Feb 14

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    Mind Over Matter

    Hi, I'm a 23 year-old woman, a virgin, and I'd say I'm about 95% asexual. Let me just start by saying, to me, sex is like water-tasteless and pointless, unless you're dying of thirst. The funny thing is I started out in life being pretty sexual. Even before puberty, I used to...
    MantisReligiosa MantisReligiosa 22-25, F 24 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    I'm 19 and just come to terms with the fact

    that I'm asexual. The thing is don't know where to go from here. It seems like all the plans I had for myself need to be changed. Relationships, marriage, kids, etc. I'm worried I'll end up alone.
    mynameiskellin mynameiskellin 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have a more serious question

    for once. I always wanted to adopt children and be a single father. I know alotttttt of kids have single mothers and no fathers and they turn out great a good amount of the time. Society though, isn't used to the vise versa. Would you think my (kids) would feel different in a...
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 8

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    I'm all about that ace,

    bout that ace, no bedroom. Swear I gotta make another ace rap
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    Though most of my friends are supportive of

    this, as are my parents (or they seem to be), I don't really think they understand it. My friends have a tendency to go off and date someone, then start ignoring me. They all tell me about their sexual experiences, and I have no interest in it. It frustrates me that that's what...
    mrkagesama mrkagesama 22-25 3 Responses Feb 7

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    i don't want to be like this.

    i feel like i'm missing out on something.
    bamalamajam bamalamajam 18-21, F 28 Responses Feb 6

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    I have recently discovered

    that I am not only asexual, but am also interested in both guys and girls. I like relationships but can't stand sex, nor do I want it. Hugs are great, kisses are okay unless your tongue is in my mouth, ugh. Why is it such a struggle for people to understand?
    bythewhiskersofsamson bythewhiskersofsamson 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    The song Strange by Tokio Hotel comes to mind

    when I think of how I came to this conclusion. I was 19 and had never showed any real interest in dating anyone. I thought maybe I'd want to date someone eventually, but I just hadn't met anyone that really interested me in that way. It didn't help that no one else was...
    1WithOutLOVE 1WithOutLOVE 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I recently "came out"

    as asexual, and ever since then I've felt this constant mixture of confusion and relief. I feel relieved because I think I've figured things out, but then there's times when I second guess myself because of things like libido and aesthetic attraction. I know for a fact that I'm...
    BigBearHug BigBearHug 18-21, M 13 Responses Jan 3

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    I am trying to be cool about this,

    but this guy at school always calls me "Asexual~" in the hallways and stealing my gym bag asking me if I have "Toys" in there since "I only have sex with myself". Since Valentines is coming up, he tells me I should be a Hopless Romantic since I'm asexual and that all asexuals...
    Mewl Mewl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I bought the "Some people are Asexual.

    Get over it!" shirt months and months ago. I wear it to every race to represent this fam. The results are always positive.
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am gray Asexual leaning towards heterosexual.

    I am fine without having sex. I don't worry about relationships. I like myself, my time, and my space.
    badazzbasicbich badazzbasicbich 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 7

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    I Wrote This A While Ago. It Still Stands.

    I will never love someone in that way. I grew up thinking it’d happen. I’d wake up one day And I’d feel some need. I didn’t feel it yet, But someday I would. I would see a beautiful woman Or a man even; Someone who would physically stimulate me And fuel some strange...
    roryavi roryavi 18-21 6 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    yeeee o/ I like to think of it

    as the orientation that's so invisible we're basically ninjas. The ace ninjas lmao
    Cryx Cryx 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Don't you just love how there are people

    who will accept and/or acknowledge the existence of homosexuality, bisexuality, and/or etc., but if you mention the word Asexuality they laugh in your face and deny its existence? /sarcasm. It irks me. It shows just how close-minded some people are. It is truly offensive. Well...
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 41 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I feel like I'm never going to find someone

    who doesn't like sex as much as I don't and that will actually want to stay with me forever. Being asexual kinda sucks. Could really use someone who is also going through this :/
    bythewhiskersofsamson bythewhiskersofsamson 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    Asexuals: Don't Give Into Your Asexual Urges!

    Jezus wants you to make BABIES!
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    A Request From The Other Side

    I respect the rights of all asexual people not to have sex as it is not part of their make up and they do not desire it. But if you are asexual, I would ask you to think VERY carefully about becoming involved in any relationship with a person who IS sexual.   The...
    enna30 enna30 56-60, F 41 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    I'm Beginning To Think...

    Here's my stance on my sexuality (I'm putting it in list form, since it can get long and rambling if I don't): - I don't feel primary sexual attraction to anyone, regardless of gender. I cannot look at a person, however attractive I may find them, and feel sexually attracted in...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 12 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    And I'm proud of it. I only wish

    that others could understand the joy I get out of the "little things", the things I find great pleasure in. People say that I'm missing out on sex, but honestly I think that they're missing out on life. There's so much out there... so much more than sex.
    curiouselementalist curiouselementalist 18-21, T Jul 16, 2014

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    I'm Asexual and proud

    but I don't know how yo reveal
    magmaqube magmaqube 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 7

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    I'm on the boarder of defining myself

    as an asexual or demisexual. I have an very high libido and ********** a lot, but I don't have a feel any sort of sexual attraction to anyone around me. Not sure if I'm a demisexual tho cause I haven't known anyone for more than a year. Guess I'll define myself as asexual...
    Aoiberry Aoiberry 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 18

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    If you accept people can have sex without love,

    why is it so difficult to understand people can love without sex?
    AlfaCough AlfaCough 22-25, M 4 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    Yes I sure am regardless

    if I had relationships in the past
    90slove 90slove 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Just because I am asexual doesn't mean I don't

    want to be with someone, I want to love and hold someone too.
    Doof00 Doof00 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    For a few years, or maybe

    even longer than that, I've felt like a complete out cast. I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me. All my friends either had boyfriends or people who they liked and talked to but when it came to me I had a hard time trying to like anyone. So I started forcing myself to...
    poeticdiva poeticdiva 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    NaomisJourneyToTheSun NaomisJourneyToTheSun 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 10

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    Hello there, I am asexual Muslim looking

    for asexual/ straight girl for long term MOC, if you are interested message me.
    HHopeful HHopeful 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    Who wants to bet that there’s a huge number

    of asexual people out there who don’t know they’re asexual because our society is hypersexualised - if you’re a dude, you’re pathetic, if you’re a woman you’re frigid/a prude/stuck up *****. This isn’t just about identity, this is about people who are shamed into...
    WithoutChemicals WithoutChemicals 18-21, F 6 Responses May 4, 2014

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    If I had the power, I would create a world

    solely for asexual people, it's obvious that we aren't suited for this world and its ways, well, at least I'm not.
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 12 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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