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I Am Asexual

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    I have for many years known

    that this is what I am. Did not have a label for it. I have broken up my relationships, let my beau's go because did not want to go farther physically and did not want to,'be in their way'. I sometimes hid behind religion like some of you so I would not be pressured. Some...
    Meadow11 Meadow11 36-40 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Did you guys ever feel like life has been like

    this: Come out of yo mama's vajayjay, go to school, finish college, get a job, get married, have kids then.... die. What if I don't have interests in being in a relationship? It doesn't necessarily mean I won't have one but people judge too fast as if I just gave birth to a...
    Scarletskye15 Scarletskye15 18-21 4 Responses Jul 12

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    BloodyGreenie BloodyGreenie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    I told everyone that I was I was bisexual

    because at the time I did not know about asexuality at the time how do I tell my mum now
    thelittlekidindiapers thelittlekidindiapers 16-17, M 7 Responses Jul 8

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    Don't you just love how there are people

    who will accept and/or acknowledge the existence of homosexuality, bisexuality, and/or etc., but if you mention the word Asexuality they laugh in your face and deny its existence? /sarcasm. It irks me. It shows just how close-minded some people are. It is truly offensive. Well...
    TerminaHero TerminaHero 18-21 41 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    Stop telling me I need to get my hormones

    checked. This isn't a medical or psychological condition. Stop telling I'm too young to know. I'm 20, the late bloomer ship has sailed. I need more experience. I have never felt the need to "get some" and I won't "get some" just to make you feel comfortable around me.
    candycat13 candycat13 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    susancc12 susancc12 26-30, F Jul 13

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    and very proud to be!

    :) too bad it's super hard to find a boyfriend
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 6

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    I am an asexual heteromantic

    and I am happy with that! Sometimes I see things like articles on asexuals saying you haven't met the right person or your hormones are messed up or asexuality doesn't exist. To those people, how would it feel if I said your sexuality was nonexistent? Not good, right. Asexuality...
    MyFriendPug MyFriendPug 13-15, F Jul 12

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    And I'm proud of it. I only wish

    that others could understand the joy I get out of the "little things", the things I find great pleasure in. People say that I'm missing out on sex, but honestly I think that they're missing out on life. There's so much out there... so much more than sex.
    curiouselementalist curiouselementalist 18-21, T Jul 16, 2014

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    No One Gets It!

    I am Asexual...and I know I am.  I am 23 years old....never had sex.  I have no desire to.  People around me always talk about how "hot" a person is and I just do get it.  I dont get feelings....like that of being aroused.  I dont even know what...
    NotUnderstood NotUnderstood 18-21, F 40 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    For starters I never thought it was something

    unnatural. I simply thought my interests rested elsewhere. I wasn't all into flirting, or getting intimate...I preferred to be reading or painting. I would see couples holding hands or kissing and the only thing I could think of was 'aww I wish I had a boyfriend so I could play...
    VonGeek VonGeek 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    Intimacy Without Sex?

     I am female. I am not biologically asexual, but I am at heart. I liked the way people were when we were little. All my friends were guys, and we had so much fun all the time. We all knew what sex was and so forth, but we all considered it a stupid thing that decent people...
    Fireclaw Fireclaw 22-25, F 26 Responses Jun 15, 2010

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    For a few years, or maybe

    even longer than that, I've felt like a complete out cast. I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me. All my friends either had boyfriends or people who they liked and talked to but when it came to me I had a hard time trying to like anyone. So I started forcing myself to...
    poeticdiva poeticdiva 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    I've always known that I was different to my

    friends when it came to sexuality. When they talk about crushes and who they found attractive I found myself unable to contribute. They would say things like "you must have someone attractive such as .....". To not seem weird I would just agree so that the attention would move...
    IAmOnlyAGirl IAmOnlyAGirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I Wrote This A While Ago. It Still Stands.

    I will never love someone in that way. I grew up thinking it’d happen. I’d wake up one day And I’d feel some need. I didn’t feel it yet, But someday I would. I would see a beautiful woman Or a man even; Someone who would physically stimulate me And fuel some strange...
    roryavi roryavi 18-21 6 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    If I had the power, I would create a world

    solely for asexual people, it's obvious that we aren't suited for this world and its ways, well, at least I'm not.
    TerminaHero TerminaHero 18-21 12 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    Hi, I am 30 yr asexual indian muslim living in

    middle east, looking for asexual/ straight girl (for moc) who is on the same board and looking to sort out the issue, if you are interested Please message me to know more
    HHopeful HHopeful 26-30, M Jul 23

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    So please stop saying its fake,

    a joke, stupid, a phase, and that i "just need to find the right person"
    izzieebee izzieebee 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 10

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    Bi-romantic asexual. I've had deep emotional

    connections with males and females, but the physical part, uh oh. Anything beyond kissing grosses me out. No, I'm not 12 lol. I'm 25. I can say that I'm old enough to know what I want. Can anyone relate?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 6

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    Hi everyone, is there anyone out there looking

    for a MOC in London? Seems like I'm the only one :( A quick summary; I'm a Cypriot guy living in north London, I'm 29, good looking, good job, good banter, straight acting. I'm after someone who is easy to get on with, looking for all of what a relationship involves apart from...
    funkymonkey9 funkymonkey9 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Mind Over Matter

    Hi, I'm a 23 year-old woman, a virgin, and I'd say I'm about 95% asexual. Let me just start by saying, to me, sex is like water-tasteless and pointless, unless you're dying of thirst. The funny thing is I started out in life being pretty sexual. Even before puberty, I used to...
    MantisReligiosa MantisReligiosa 66-70, F 23 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    I think sex is overrated these days

    and people just care so much about it. But why is it when people are not sexually attracted to someone or they just simply don't want sex people make a big deal out of it and think we are not normal, think we have problems, or dislike us? I don't get it, like sex isn't...
    Emsickles Emsickles 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Okay so apparently being asexual

    and not liking sex means there's something wrong with me. That's like saying being lesbian, gay, bi, or pansexual means there's something wrong with you. Are people not allowed to have preferences or opinions anymore? Does not liking sex mean I'm some sort of alien? It's just...
    Caricature1 Caricature1 70+, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    So this is my first post on this site.

    I am just coming to know the term asexual and have found much comfort in knowing more about it. I am an asexual and that makes me feel better knowing I’m not a broken human being that it’s actual something others are dealing with. I am over 30 and have dated both men and...
    tanyas45 tanyas45 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    I am reposting this so maybe,

    just maybe, ppl can get an understanding of me without me having to repeat myself over and over. Yes, I enjoy self pleasure as well as mutual ************, but you simply being horny doesn't automatically make me interested. And yes, I do desire a relationship, but I only seek...
    haleystar haleystar 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 25

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    I firstly want to make clear

    that I am not 100% certain if I am asexual, but after some research, I've come to the conclusion that it is a possibility, especially after discovering the different "types" of asexuality, which is why I felt the need to finally join this Group. Asexual means there's a lack of...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6, 2014

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    I came out as asexual to my stepmom today.

    her response rather surprised me. you see, my family is very religious & are sticklers when it comes to the Bible & its many rules. I thought me coming out would bring her open her Bible, throw all these scriptures at my face & tell me that I'll meet the man I will end up...
    svssie svssie 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    I am really confused by my sexuality.

    I don't know if I'm ase
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Love from an asexual is the most pure,

    unconditional love anyone can receive. If you are in a relationship with an asexual, you know that they love you for why you are; for your mind, your personality, and for yourself. Asexual people can still have sex. But it has a different meaning to them than to most people...
    bgirlskc bgirlskc 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    For quite a while, I thought I was straight,

    but I thought it was weird how all my friends would get a boyfriend or talk about how they want one, & I had no interest what so ever. I used to have the biggest crush on this guy, but for some reason, if he had asked me out, I would have said no, because I would have felt so...
    CheyenneShands CheyenneShands 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    If you accept people can have sex without love,

    why is it so difficult to understand people can love without sex?
    AlfaCough AlfaCough 26-30, M 4 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    I am 22 years old, a virgin (I've never been in

    a relationship, been kissed, or had sex), female (pronouns she, her, hers)and am more specifically hetero-romantic asexual. My whole life I haven't fit in with my peers. Everyone talks about sex, drugs, drinking, and partying. I don't like any of those things and because of...
    missradiology missradiology 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 7

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    I've been thinking that I'm asexual.

    I mean why else would I not want or want to enjoy sex. It just sucks though that when you tell someone that you feel that you're asexual they say that "it's not a thing", "it's a phase", or that "you'll change once you have sex". I'd love to want to have sex and want to enjoy it...
    Browncracka Browncracka 18-21 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm asexual as it says,

    and it kills me when guys message me automatically assuming I want to **** them because they think they're gods gift to women. Sorry honey, I don't - and quite frankly you are not all that 👌🏻☕️
    moonchild669 moonchild669 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I always felt I was broken,

    when I was younger and all the lads were talking about having sex and "getting lucky" . I was just sat there enjoying my video games. Don't get me wrong I think women are beautiful, very aesthetically pleasing to look at. And I do feel romantically attracted to them. But if...
    AlfaCough AlfaCough 26-30, M 6 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    I tried marriage one time,

    and dating so many times. they were all failure. all I'm missing now is being a dad. yes. I can't wait to see my child. I wand to have a kid. this feeling is priceless and I have the willing to do whatever it takes to be a father. I thought if there's any girl I can impregnate...
    Shallaby Shallaby 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    I'm a Bi-romantic. I don't really want a sexual

    relationship, but I do like friendship and romantic relationships with either sex. Because I'm also blind I tend to care less about looks, and more on personality and intelligence and things like that. The only thing that's difficulties finding other people who are asexual as...
    OneEyedDaydreamer OneEyedDaydreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    How Do I Say This...

    I'm not completely sure yet if asexual is the most accurate word to describe me, but that's what I tell people I am. I find it helps them understand better where I'm coming from when I say I've never had sex and I don't want to. For a while my mom didn't believe me and just...
    Alea2013 Alea2013 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I just feel like I am in a super bazaar

    situation. Well, my "boyfriend" and I have been dating for 6.5 months, and it's more of a friendship to me. Obviously I am asexual, but I am also aromantic. I feel nothing from the relationship. The reason I liked going out with him was because he used to claim to be asexual...
    AceAroAthe AceAroAthe 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been asexual for a

    while I actually grew up hanging with girls a lot and guys a lot in separate sessions. But in general I don't care about dating, flirting, or don't really have any sexual desires, I don't even think about it really. This is why when people take to me about a guy or girl I don't...
    MaxwellMoonHoof MaxwellMoonHoof 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    today was the day....

    .that i finally told my mom.....and she wasn't supportive. today after school she and i were in the living room talking and i told her i had to tell her something important then she said ok.....then i told her i'm asexual. she looked at me like i was insane, so i had to explain...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 40 Responses Apr 30

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    Is it bad to ********** ?

    And is it bad to ware a diper when you master-bate and wach ****
    tallwood1 tallwood1 18-21, F Jul 10

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    What am I? I don't know.

    Sex grosses me out. Sexual organs gross me out. Any sexual related practice besides kissing or making out grosses me out. But I appreciate male physical beauty and maybe attracted to that. I do understand asexual can have feelings, and I do have feelings, and desires but I hate...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F 29 Responses Jun 6

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    I'm not sure if I'm asexual.

    I used to like a guy, but when he ask me to a date or tell him my feels I never did. I refuse them everytime because I know that people into relationships needs kisses and eventually sex, and I just don't want. Besides that, I think you might like whether someone is male or...
    Julifte Julifte 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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