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I Am Asexual

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    Someone once told me that

    once I have sex I will realize that I am not asexual. Dumb b$@1ch
    Degrassi94 Degrassi94 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    This 13 year old girl is messaging me

    and actually trying to tell me that I don't know what my own sexual orientation is. LOOOOOOL
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 13

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    Anyone else hate it when people are like "All

    men want in this world is sex" or "All women do is get busy in the bed and have babies"? I mean, speak for yourself please..
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I bought the "Some people are Asexual.

    Get over it!" shirt months and months ago. I wear it to every race to represent this fam. The results are always positive.
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    Got a Valentine's 5k race tomorrow tomorrow.

    Wearing my Ace shirt and representing yall
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 13

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    The Realization Of Being Asexual

    I remember from when I was about 14 years old, I always felt different from most males, I was never interested in girls as they seemed to be, my mother just said that it was just a phase and that I would like girls some day. At age 16, same thing, my mother said that I was just a...
    ThePeanutTerminator ThePeanutTerminator 18-21 8 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    I might be asexual. It never really occurred

    to me until recent events that I could be asexual. I am currently in college and dating a girl, although I do not know how much longer. I met this girl in my organic chemistry lecture. I enjoyed talking to her very much and we seemed to relate on a lot of things. We became...
    reddopplershift reddopplershift 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    No One Gets It!

    I am Asexual...and I know I am.  I am 23 years old....never had sex.  I have no desire to.  People around me always talk about how "hot" a person is and I just do get it.  I dont get feelings....like that of being aroused.  I dont even know what...
    NotUnderstood NotUnderstood 18-21, F 40 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    It makes me so explicably angry

    whenever people deny my existence. I know, in theory, that many groups have been denied and overlooked in the past before finding their salvation. I know that. I am aware. But that makes it no less infuriating when people refuse to believe or even understand that I know myself...
    AzuraSkies AzuraSkies 16-17 4 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    I always felt I was broken,

    when I was younger and all the lads were talking about having sex and "getting lucky" . I was just sat there enjoying my video games. Don't get me wrong I think women are beautiful, very aesthetically pleasing to look at. And I do feel romantically attracted to them. But if...
    AlfaCough AlfaCough 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    I suspect I am asexual.

    I have no sex drive. I find myself feeling aroused maybe once a year or less. It's never by people, just random with no focus on anyone. I've had sex with a lot of guys and one girl, mostly when I was younger. I did it because I had low self esteem and liked the attention. I...
    Asleep72 Asleep72 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    For some reason, ep deleted my experience.

    If anything has got less to do with sex, it's asexuality.
    absenceofsound absenceofsound 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I recently "came out"

    as asexual, and ever since then I've felt this constant mixture of confusion and relief. I feel relieved because I think I've figured things out, but then there's times when I second guess myself because of things like libido and aesthetic attraction. I know for a fact that I'm...
    BigBearHug BigBearHug 18-21, M 13 Responses Jan 3

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    After I tried coming out to my dad about being

    asexual he said I was going to grow up to be an old maid....thanks for that dad
    candycat13 candycat13 18-21, F 21 Responses Feb 17

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    Hello there, I am asexual Muslim looking

    for asexual/ straight girl for long term MOC, if you are interested message me.
    HHopeful HHopeful 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    I Wrote This A While Ago. It Still Stands.

    I will never love someone in that way. I grew up thinking it’d happen. I’d wake up one day And I’d feel some need. I didn’t feel it yet, But someday I would. I would see a beautiful woman Or a man even; Someone who would physically stimulate me And fuel some strange...
    roryavi roryavi 18-21 6 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Kissing boys - Oh NO Kissing girls- Uhh

    Uhh tryed it. They just dont understand its me not them. I just dont feel that.
    petramullins petramullins 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    Here my friend go. Playing match maker on a

    Friday night, cause she thinks I need a "good man" in my life. A matter of fact, everyone thinks that I need a "good man" in my life, not even thinking about what I want and desire rather. Anyway, I don't know where this is going. Maybe another rejection to the cookie. I've...
    NaomiSoulJourney NaomiSoulJourney 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    For a few years, or maybe

    even longer than that, I've felt like a complete out cast. I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me. All my friends either had boyfriends or people who they liked and talked to but when it came to me I had a hard time trying to like anyone. So I started forcing myself to...
    poeticdiva poeticdiva 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    For starters I never thought it was something

    unnatural. I simply thought my interests rested elsewhere. I wasn't all into flirting, or getting intimate...I preferred to be reading or painting. I would see couples holding hands or kissing and the only thing I could think of was 'aww I wish I had a boyfriend so I could play...
    VonGeek VonGeek 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    Intimacy Without Sex?

     I am female. I am not biologically asexual, but I am at heart. I liked the way people were when we were little. All my friends were guys, and we had so much fun all the time. We all knew what sex was and so forth, but we all considered it a stupid thing that decent people...
    Fireclaw Fireclaw 22-25, F 26 Responses Jun 15, 2010

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    im in love with someone

    that i never will be her love anymore..
    aphroditedelevingne aphroditedelevingne 18-21, F Mar 15

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    Asexual- Relieved And Scared At The Same Time

    Okay I don't really know where to start with this. I basically plucked up the courage to tell my story on here because I thought I might meet other people like me? I feel like I can't tell my family or anyone because I don't want them to judge me and I feel like I'm letting my...
    AlienBob AlienBob 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    I'm on the boarder of defining myself

    as an asexual or demisexual. I have an very high libido and ********** a lot, but I don't have a feel any sort of sexual attraction to anyone around me. Not sure if I'm a demisexual tho cause I haven't known anyone for more than a year. Guess I'll define myself as asexual...
    Aoiberry Aoiberry 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 18

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    and very proud to be!

    :) too bad it's super hard to find a boyfriend
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 6

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    Mind Over Matter

    Hi, I'm a 23 year-old woman, a virgin, and I'd say I'm about 95% asexual. Let me just start by saying, to me, sex is like water-tasteless and pointless, unless you're dying of thirst. The funny thing is I started out in life being pretty sexual. Even before puberty, I used to...
    MantisReligiosa MantisReligiosa 22-25, F 24 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    Never wanted it. Feel some attraction toward

    opposite sex. Will not even get into relationship. Been this way always. My friends thought I was odd not to feel very attracted to guys. I'm picky. Only rarely feel that about anyone I see. Don't really want a part in any that. Love my innocence. But feel like all those...
    pureimagination1759 pureimagination1759 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm brand new to this site,

    but I guess I'll start with this; I've been passively pushed into a relationship. The guy is decent and treats me well, but I don't feel anything at all for him (or anyone for that matter) I've tried to open up to him about why I don't do relationships, but I either never...
    audiopuma audiopuma 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I'm asexual, and I love my boyfriend.

    But I'm terrified that he's going to want sex soon (he's pansexual) and I can't give him that. I'm not sex-averse, it just doesn't appeal to me at all...
    wHaTeVeR2626 wHaTeVeR2626 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I firstly want to make clear

    that I am not 100% certain if I am asexual, but after some research, I've come to the conclusion that it is a possibility, especially after discovering the different "types" of asexuality, which is why I felt the need to finally join this Group. Asexual means there's a lack of...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6, 2014

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    If I had the power, I would create a world

    solely for asexual people, it's obvious that we aren't suited for this world and its ways, well, at least I'm not.
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 12 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    And I'm proud of it. I only wish

    that others could understand the joy I get out of the "little things", the things I find great pleasure in. People say that I'm missing out on sex, but honestly I think that they're missing out on life. There's so much out there... so much more than sex.
    curiouselementalist curiouselementalist 18-21, T Jul 16, 2014

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    Yes I sure am regardless

    if I had relationships in the past
    90slove 90slove 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Yesterday my girlfriend broke up with me

    because she felt as I f she was lying to herself that she could be in a non sexual relationship. Before we even dated I made sure over and over that she was ok with me being asexual and not having a sexual relationship and he claimed she was. I fell madly in love with her and...
    graveyardgray graveyardgray 18-21, T 3 Responses Feb 11

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    I'm all about that ace,

    bout that ace, no bedroom. Swear I gotta make another ace rap
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M Feb 26

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    So this is my first post on this site.

    I am just coming to know the term asexual and have found much comfort in knowing more about it. I am an asexual and that makes me feel better knowing I’m not a broken human being that it’s actual something others are dealing with. I am over 30 and have dated both men and...
    tanyas45 tanyas45 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    I'm Beginning To Think...

    Here's my stance on my sexuality (I'm putting it in list form, since it can get long and rambling if I don't): - I don't feel primary sexual attraction to anyone, regardless of gender. I cannot look at a person, however attractive I may find them, and feel sexually attracted in...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 12 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    Don't get me wrong, I want to get married

    eventually, I just don't want to do "it" with him. My dream is to get married to a man like this or who will tolerate this and to adopt a kid or 2.
    SparkleUnicorn SparkleUnicorn 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 10

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    And I don't even know

    why I went through the I Want To Know If You Think I Am Attractive (Lol) experience. To compliment? To say nice things? To look and ignore? I have no idea. But I do hope I can open posts on new tabs. Would be so much easier than pressing the backspace all the time.
    YesIAmAsian YesIAmAsian 18-21 Mar 18

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    absenceofsound absenceofsound 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    Asexuals: Don't Give Into Your Asexual Urges!

    Jezus wants you to make BABIES!
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    The song Strange by Tokio Hotel comes to mind

    when I think of how I came to this conclusion. I was 19 and had never showed any real interest in dating anyone. I thought maybe I'd want to date someone eventually, but I just hadn't met anyone that really interested me in that way. It didn't help that no one else was...
    1WithOutLOVE 1WithOutLOVE 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    If you accept people can have sex without love,

    why is it so difficult to understand people can love without sex?
    AlfaCough AlfaCough 22-25, M 4 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    Love from an asexual is the most pure,

    unconditional love anyone can receive. If you are in a relationship with an asexual, you know that they love you for why you are; for your mind, your personality, and for yourself. Asexual people can still have sex. But it has a different meaning to them than to most people...
    bgirlskc bgirlskc 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    I don't know if I'm asexual,

    or if I'm incapable of being loved
    lostiymind lostiymind 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    The title is rather self explanatory

    but I would like to use this space to explain what asexuality is, how other people have reacted to me (or refused to) and what it's like living in a sex driven society. :) So basically asexuality, at its most simplest, is the lack of desire to have sex and with some people a...
    moonscapemonoxide moonscapemonoxide 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    yeeee o/ I like to think of it

    as the orientation that's so invisible we're basically ninjas. The ace ninjas lmao
    Cryx Cryx 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 25