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I Am Asexual

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    I'm asexual as it says,

    and it kills me when guys message me automatically assuming I want to **** them because they think they're gods gift to women. Sorry honey, I don't - and quite frankly you are not all that 👌🏻☕️
    moonchild669 moonchild669 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I found out that I was asexual with the help of

    one of my boyfriends. It frustrates me because I'm not sure how I feel about things a lot of the time. Most of my responses are "I don't know" because with being asexual I'm uncomfortable with a lot of things and I don't 'feel' anything besides being romantically attrackted to...
    Kalon25 Kalon25 16-17, F Jul 12

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    Hi, I am 30 yr asexual indian muslim living in

    middle east, looking for asexual/ straight girl (for moc) who is on the same board and looking to sort out the issue, if you are interested Please message me to know more
    HHopeful HHopeful 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I am 22 years old, a virgin (I've never been in

    a relationship, been kissed, or had sex), female (pronouns she, her, hers)and am more specifically hetero-romantic asexual. My whole life I haven't fit in with my peers. Everyone talks about sex, drugs, drinking, and partying. I don't like any of those things and because of...
    missradiology missradiology 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 7

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    Don't you just love how there are people

    who will accept and/or acknowledge the existence of homosexuality, bisexuality, and/or etc., but if you mention the word Asexuality they laugh in your face and deny its existence? /sarcasm. It irks me. It shows just how close-minded some people are. It is truly offensive. Well...
    TerminaHero TerminaHero 18-21 41 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I always felt I was broken,

    when I was younger and all the lads were talking about having sex and "getting lucky" . I was just sat there enjoying my video games. Don't get me wrong I think women are beautiful, very aesthetically pleasing to look at. And I do feel romantically attracted to them. But if...
    AlfaCough AlfaCough 26-30, M 6 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    i just came out to my parents

    as heteroromantic asexual. i hate how out of place i feel.
    CastielMalfoyHolmes CastielMalfoyHolmes 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    Yup just as it says up there.

    .. im starting to get a bit more proud of who i am i guess...
    HimeTime HimeTime 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I firstly want to make clear

    that I am not 100% certain if I am asexual, but after some research, I've come to the conclusion that it is a possibility, especially after discovering the different "types" of asexuality, which is why I felt the need to finally join this Group. Asexual means there's a lack of...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6, 2014

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    After I tried coming out to my dad about being

    asexual he said I was going to grow up to be an old maid....thanks for that dad
    candycat13 candycat13 18-21, F 21 Responses Feb 17

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    I am reposting this so maybe,

    just maybe, ppl can get an understanding of me without me having to repeat myself over and over. Yes, I enjoy self pleasure as well as mutual ************, but you simply being horny doesn't automatically make me interested. And yes, I do desire a relationship, but I only seek...
    haleystar haleystar 18-21, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    and very proud to be!

    :) too bad it's super hard to find a boyfriend
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 6

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    Homoromantic asexual to be more exact.

    .. It's hard to find someone who is ok with doing nothing sexual at all.
    Naty73 Naty73 13-15, M Jul 5

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    Well, I'm hesitant to say it,

    but I don't really have that much of an interest in sex. There's some interest, definitely, but it's more the desire, the notion of it that interests me to be honest.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am an asexual heteromantic

    and I am happy with that! Sometimes I see things like articles on asexuals saying you haven't met the right person or your hormones are messed up or asexuality doesn't exist. To those people, how would it feel if I said your sexuality was nonexistent? Not good, right. Asexuality...
    MyFriendPug MyFriendPug 13-15, F Jul 12

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    If you accept people can have sex without love,

    why is it so difficult to understand people can love without sex?
    AlfaCough AlfaCough 26-30, M 4 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    Love from an asexual is the most pure,

    unconditional love anyone can receive. If you are in a relationship with an asexual, you know that they love you for why you are; for your mind, your personality, and for yourself. Asexual people can still have sex. But it has a different meaning to them than to most people...
    bgirlskc bgirlskc 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    For a few years, or maybe

    even longer than that, I've felt like a complete out cast. I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me. All my friends either had boyfriends or people who they liked and talked to but when it came to me I had a hard time trying to like anyone. So I started forcing myself to...
    poeticdiva poeticdiva 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    Stop telling me I need to get my hormones

    checked. This isn't a medical or psychological condition. Stop telling I'm too young to know. I'm 20, the late bloomer ship has sailed. I need more experience. I have never felt the need to "get some" and I won't "get some" just to make you feel comfortable around me.
    candycat13 candycat13 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    Intimacy Without Sex?

     I am female. I am not biologically asexual, but I am at heart. I liked the way people were when we were little. All my friends were guys, and we had so much fun all the time. We all knew what sex was and so forth, but we all considered it a stupid thing that decent people...
    Fireclaw Fireclaw 22-25, F 26 Responses Jun 15, 2010

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    It hurts me and it makes me feel mad

    when people say asexuality is curable. I'm not sick. There is nothing to cure. The only thing that needs to be cured is your intolerance.
    Inimica Inimica 16-17, F 2 Responses May 25

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    Okay so apparently being asexual

    and not liking sex means there's something wrong with me. That's like saying being lesbian, gay, bi, or pansexual means there's something wrong with you. Are people not allowed to have preferences or opinions anymore? Does not liking sex mean I'm some sort of alien? It's just...
    Caricature1 Caricature1 70+, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Asexuals: Don't Give Into Your Asexual Urges!

    Jezus wants you to make BABIES!
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    susancc12 susancc12 26-30, F Jul 13

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    I don't like boys or girls sexually

    because I know no one would like me that way
    Sashamendelli Sashamendelli 13-15, F Jul 2

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    I Wrote This A While Ago. It Still Stands.

    I will never love someone in that way. I grew up thinking it’d happen. I’d wake up one day And I’d feel some need. I didn’t feel it yet, But someday I would. I would see a beautiful woman Or a man even; Someone who would physically stimulate me And fuel some strange...
    roryavi roryavi 18-21 6 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    I am really confused by my sexuality.

    I don't know if I'm ase
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    And I'm proud of it. I only wish

    that others could understand the joy I get out of the "little things", the things I find great pleasure in. People say that I'm missing out on sex, but honestly I think that they're missing out on life. There's so much out there... so much more than sex.
    curiouselementalist curiouselementalist 18-21, T Jul 16, 2014

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    Has anyone in this group slept with anyone - I

    mean not to have sex but just to share a bed and cuddle a bit. I've never shared a bed with anyone and wondered what its like..
    ThatGirlAlison ThatGirlAlison 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    DogsonmethxP DogsonmethxP 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    today was the day....

    .that i finally told my mom.....and she wasn't supportive. today after school she and i were in the living room talking and i told her i had to tell her something important then she said ok.....then i told her i'm asexual. she looked at me like i was insane, so i had to explain...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 40 Responses Apr 30

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    I recently "came out"

    as asexual, and ever since then I've felt this constant mixture of confusion and relief. I feel relieved because I think I've figured things out, but then there's times when I second guess myself because of things like libido and aesthetic attraction. I know for a fact that I'm...
    BigBearHug BigBearHug 18-21, M 10 Responses Jan 3

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    Bi-romantic asexual. I've had deep emotional

    connections with males and females, but the physical part, uh oh. Anything beyond kissing grosses me out. No, I'm not 12 lol. I'm 25. I can say that I'm old enough to know what I want. Can anyone relate?
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 6

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    Mind Over Matter

    Hi, I'm a 23 year-old woman, a virgin, and I'd say I'm about 95% asexual. Let me just start by saying, to me, sex is like water-tasteless and pointless, unless you're dying of thirst. The funny thing is I started out in life being pretty sexual. Even before puberty, I used to...
    MantisReligiosa MantisReligiosa 26-30, F 23 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    I tried marriage one time,

    and dating so many times. they were all failure. all I'm missing now is being a dad. yes. I can't wait to see my child. I wand to have a kid. this feeling is priceless and I have the willing to do whatever it takes to be a father. I thought if there's any girl I can impregnate...
    Shallaby Shallaby 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    How Do I Say This...

    I'm not completely sure yet if asexual is the most accurate word to describe me, but that's what I tell people I am. I find it helps them understand better where I'm coming from when I say I've never had sex and I don't want to. For a while my mom didn't believe me and just...
    Alea2013 Alea2013 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    If I had the power, I would create a world

    solely for asexual people, it's obvious that we aren't suited for this world and its ways, well, at least I'm not.
    TerminaHero TerminaHero 18-21 12 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    BloodyGreenie BloodyGreenie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    When I was a kid(9-10?

    ?), I told my mom that I didn't want to have children. That I never wanted to get married. She said that I would change my mind when I grew older. I just shrugged it off. So I reached my preteen years and my mom was having a discussion with my siblings and I about my sister...
    UUUUGGGHHHHcoffee UUUUGGGHHHHcoffee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Is it bad to ********** ?

    And is it bad to ware a diper when you master-bate and wach ****
    tallwood1 tallwood1 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I am more of what you would call autosexual.

    I do have a sex drive, but it's not motivated by external attraction for others. I love stimulating myself. I wouldn't say I have zero interest in having intercourse, but it's far from a casual thing in my mind, which is why I haven't ever had it with anyone. I do enjoy...
    haleystar haleystar 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 18

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    So please stop saying its fake,

    a joke, stupid, a phase, and that i "just need to find the right person"
    izzieebee izzieebee 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 10

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    Recently I had the pleasure of people telling me

    that I'm too young (15) to know what I am. That I'd grow out of it. That I was actually a closeted gay. That I was hetero and just trying to get attention. Another told me that I had to learn to be normal and have sex or no one would ever love me. Basically anything off the...
    mardalfoosen mardalfoosen 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I told everyone that I was I was bisexual

    because at the time I did not know about asexuality at the time how do I tell my mum now
    thelittlekidindiapers thelittlekidindiapers 13-15, M 7 Responses Jul 8

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    A Request From The Other Side

    I respect the rights of all asexual people not to have sex as it is not part of their make up and they do not desire it. But if you are asexual, I would ask you to think VERY carefully about becoming involved in any relationship with a person who IS sexual.   The...
    enna30 enna30 56-60, F 41 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    Did you guys ever feel like life has been like

    this: Come out of yo mama's vajayjay, go to school, finish college, get a job, get married, have kids then.... die. What if I don't have interests in being in a relationship? It doesn't necessarily mean I won't have one but people judge too fast as if I just gave birth to a...
    Scarletskye15 Scarletskye15 18-21 4 Responses Jul 12

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