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I Am Attracted to a Guy In Another State

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    2,785 Miles Away

    I'm not sure how many of you have a story like this. or one similar. but if you do, please help me. He is one of my brother's friends. I met him 3 summers ago. My brother's volleyball team went to Georgia for the Junior Olympics. I met him the day we headed out. I thought...
    haolehwn haolehwn 16-17, F Dec 3, 2009

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    Fatal Attraction...not In a Crazy Way!

    I still like the same dude from outta town..even though i haven't talked to him in afew days! I talked to my cousin about him, and she said don't really think too much about him because men go for what they see,and if your *** is outta sight then you're outta mind!! I don't wanna...
    tip tip 21-25, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2007

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    Oh Wait. It Gets Better.

    I'm not just attracted to a guy in another state - I'm attracted to a guy in a whole different country. I'm not usually one to do something halfway. :P
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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    He Found Me...

    I just recently found myself being attracted to a guy in another state. I've know this guy for a while,but when i moved we lost touch. This guy actually found me on myspace!!! We've talked on the phone quite often,but i find myself liking him more and more,and thats a problem!! I...
    tip tip 21-25, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2007

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    HE Called!!!!

    YEAH....HE CALLED!!!I know i may sound pathetic to some of you people,but I'm really feeling this dude...i don't care how far away he lives! I mean I'm a very cute girl and i can have my way with the fellows around here,but there's nothing like that special guy! I can't wait...
    tip tip 21-25, F Sep 14, 2007

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    He's The One!!.

    Well for starters my name is Monet, Im 20 yrs old Live in Oklahoma. Im not the type of person to meet people off the internet, but i gave it a try and he found me. I gave it a shot to go ahead and see what he was about, however he lives 200 miles away 4 1/2 hrs from me, I have no...
    Monet1989 Monet1989 18-21, F Dec 7, 2009

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    So Far Away But So Close

    We met 7 years ago. we crossed paths in a bar. he approached me. I blew him off. He didnt give up he came back to speak to me again. This time I was kind to him. we talked for a liitle while. I wrote my name and number on a piece of paper. We talked and texted everyday we made...
    Cookie31 Cookie31 31-35, F May 9, 2012

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    My Fiance Is In Another State

    My fiance is in another state.  The space and distance surely does suck and at times I feel as if I'm going to die but then I feel better knowing that its just a matter of time before we are together
    uncommonlysweet uncommonlysweet 26-30, F May 29, 2007

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    Oops! I Met The Love Of My Life Online....

    We met online which really through my parents off. we both got on there as a joke, not actually to find our soul mates. but thats what happened. I live in indiana and he lives in dc. so like 10 hour drive 2 hour plane, and 13 hour train. and i donno about bus lol But i love...
    singinjes singinjes 18-21, F Jan 31, 2011

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    So Far Away

    another country... we met online... I don't think I can do it... only if...
    azbusybee azbusybee 21-25, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Far Far Away

    I really like a guy that doesn't know that I like him. He lives up north, and I live down south. And I am too shy to tell him how I feel. It seems everytime that I tell a guy how I feel he runs off scared. I don't know what to do :(
    Ariraine Ariraine 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Is It Possible?

    I believe love at first sight, yeah i am young but it just had to happen. I was in florida with my friends and this kid and his friends run up to us. We introduce eachother and this sexy blond with deep blue eyes and shaggy hair and a totall hott bod he was flirting with ME! i...
    crazyonex13 crazyonex13 18-21, F May 14, 2012

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    Usa Is The Man Of My Dreams......

    If I were to choose myself a man, with feeling and passion It would be USA! I fall in love with USA Despite the ups and downs Which came over USA The rich and the poor I love USA I would never leave USA Because of the Greatness and Power!And I love a man in power! I want...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2011

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    As opposed to what, dumb and stupid ones? This title just kills me. There should be a group called; "Im attracted to dumb and stupid women" Or guys for that matter. Surely there...
    diegodlavega diegodlavega 46-50, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    This happened to me three times while working at this resturant. 24-28 year old black guy that speaks slangish but very proper when need to. Always happy and in good mood, don't...
    Icanhelpjustask Icanhelpjustask 26-30, M Dec 6

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    And have been ever since 2 years ago when my best friend and I went on a camping trip, We had no idea but the rugby team of our favorite all boys school was also there on training...
    impulsivehuman impulsivehuman 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    Jamys726n0sm9 Jamys726n0sm9 31-35, M 1 Response 22 mins ago

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    Always been attracted to guys double my age or more. I don't mean to diminish any guy around my age group or anyone within 10 years of me BUT its true I honestly am attracted to...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 24

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    I have always been attracted to guys older than myself, ever since I can remember. I don't really know why, but it's part of who I am. I get a lot of hate and misunderstanding from...
    DrKittyNinjaBunny DrKittyNinjaBunny 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 24

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    I remember the first time I was attracted to a girl... I was 15 and she was my friend, a few years older than me. We were at camp, in a cabin, just talking with each other and...
    bellabird bellabird 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    Idk why I'm attracted to nerdy guys lol they are just so smart and adorable it reminds me of a playful puppy. I'm not talking about the guys who look hot in glasses but is a...
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    Just for clarification, "older guys" is not synonymous with old men. The attraction comes from experience, maturity, stability and security. There also has to be a physical...
    DebbieG17 DebbieG17 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 26

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    The reason why is because I like older guys are. Or at least from the older guys I've talked to. They appear grounded, a life lived ahead of them, and successful/mature. It's a big...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    Ever since I broke up with my younger ex boyfriend, I realize I need a more mature guy in my life. And I'm very glad I realized that sooner rather than go through another drama...
    21falloutsatthedisco 21falloutsatthedisco 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    leanncc11 leanncc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I don't know why, but I've always liked older guys; I guess it's because they know how to treat a lady :) I am also attracted to the intelligence, maturity, stability and...
    DrKittyNinjaBunny DrKittyNinjaBunny 16-17, F 6 Responses Nov 25

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    I don't know why, but I've always liked older guys; I guess it's because they know how to treat a lady :) I am also attracted to the intelligence, maturity, stability and...
    crystalbabecal crystalbabecal 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 27

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    It all started when I was 14. I was a freshman in highschool and none of the boys caught my attention, the teachers did. Most of them were in their 30s and 40s. I never told my...
    anonymouschild7 anonymouschild7 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 29

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    I don't know just when it all started, I guess it really doesn't matter, does it? The fact is, I'm attracted to guys with a shaved head.
    AlopeciaAlice AlopeciaAlice 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    I'm black and my first and (sadly) only real boyfriend was white. That was a few year ago. More recently I have gotten close to another white man, but we remained friends. I'd say...
    moonlightserene moonlightserene 26-30, F Dec 11

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm attracted to men 20 years my senior and older... I have a Daddy complex... Sorry guys who are in their teens and 20s. You can't really do much for me! ^-^
    ExoticXDarkness ExoticXDarkness 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    He invites me to New Orleans and to the gym; he tells me not to "abandon" him again, after four months of not speaking. Both his parents died within a couple days of each other...
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I like both just fine. I fell in love with a guy and haven't really fallen in love with another since then and I openly came about how I see women as beautiful beings as well. who...
    pikapup17 pikapup17 18-21 Dec 8

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    I'm not attracted to very older men in general. I just wanted to put that out there. I'd date up to a 18/19 years old guy. This is just my preference.
    meli347 meli347 13-15, F Nov 27

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    Is it human nature to be attracted to people that are "out of our league"? I tend to fall for the guys that are really attractive. I am certainly out of their league... Anyone else...
    obscureriddle obscureriddle 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 1

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    I'm attracted to both girls and guys. I'm bi.
    CaliginousHeart CaliginousHeart 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 4

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    Idk why but I'm really attracted to tattoos especially if the person has sleeves of them as long as their meaningful I just wanna look at them and read them their one of my...
    jasminehi jasminehi 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    tessacc12 tessacc12 26-30, F Dec 12

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    im only 20, but everyone i've ever been attracted to has been at least like 5 years older than me (but usually 9-15). i don't think it's 'wrong' but there is a lot of social stigma...
    jazzyazzy jazzyazzy 18-21, F 37 Responses a week ago

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    I'm bisexual and would like to meet some new people. :) I find I'm attracted to girls slightly more than I am to guys. Although, it used to be the other way around. My dream girl...
    rcmh17182 rcmh17182 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago