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I Am Attracted to a Guy In Another State

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    2,785 Miles Away

    I'm not sure how many of you have a story like this. or one similar. but if you do, please help me. He is one of my brother's friends. I met him 3 summers ago. My brother's volleyball team went to Georgia for the Junior Olympics. I met him the day we headed out. I thought...
    haolehwn haolehwn 16-17, F Dec 3, 2009

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    So Far Away

    another country... we met online... I don't think I can do it... only if...
    azbusybee azbusybee 21-25, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Far Far Away

    I really like a guy that doesn't know that I like him. He lives up north, and I live down south. And I am too shy to tell him how I feel. It seems everytime that I tell a guy how I feel he runs off scared. I don't know what to do :(
    Ariraine Ariraine 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    So Far Away But So Close

    We met 7 years ago. we crossed paths in a bar. he approached me. I blew him off. He didnt give up he came back to speak to me again. This time I was kind to him. we talked for a liitle while. I wrote my name and number on a piece of paper. We talked and texted everyday we made...
    Cookie31 Cookie31 31-35, F May 9, 2012

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    HE Called!!!!

    YEAH....HE CALLED!!!I know i may sound pathetic to some of you people,but I'm really feeling this dude...i don't care how far away he lives! I mean I'm a very cute girl and i can have my way with the fellows around here,but there's nothing like that special guy! I can't wait...
    tip tip 21-25, F Sep 14, 2007

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    He's The One!!.

    Well for starters my name is Monet, Im 20 yrs old Live in Oklahoma. Im not the type of person to meet people off the internet, but i gave it a try and he found me. I gave it a shot to go ahead and see what he was about, however he lives 200 miles away 4 1/2 hrs from me, I have no...
    Monet1989 Monet1989 18-21, F Dec 7, 2009

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    He Found Me...

    I just recently found myself being attracted to a guy in another state. I've know this guy for a while,but when i moved we lost touch. This guy actually found me on myspace!!! We've talked on the phone quite often,but i find myself liking him more and more,and thats a problem!! I...
    tip tip 21-25, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2007

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    My Fiance Is In Another State

    My fiance is in another state.  The space and distance surely does suck and at times I feel as if I'm going to die but then I feel better knowing that its just a matter of time before we are together
    uncommonlysweet uncommonlysweet 26-30, F May 29, 2007

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    Usa Is The Man Of My Dreams......

    If I were to choose myself a man, with feeling and passion It would be USA! I fall in love with USA Despite the ups and downs Which came over USA The rich and the poor I love USA I would never leave USA Because of the Greatness and Power!And I love a man in power! I want...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2011

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    Fatal Attraction...not In a Crazy Way!

    I still like the same dude from outta town..even though i haven't talked to him in afew days! I talked to my cousin about him, and she said don't really think too much about him because men go for what they see,and if your *** is outta sight then you're outta mind!! I don't wanna...
    tip tip 21-25, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2007

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    Oops! I Met The Love Of My Life Online....

    We met online which really through my parents off. we both got on there as a joke, not actually to find our soul mates. but thats what happened. I live in indiana and he lives in dc. so like 10 hour drive 2 hour plane, and 13 hour train. and i donno about bus lol But i love...
    singinjes singinjes 18-21, F Jan 31, 2011

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    Is It Possible?

    I believe love at first sight, yeah i am young but it just had to happen. I was in florida with my friends and this kid and his friends run up to us. We introduce eachother and this sexy blond with deep blue eyes and shaggy hair and a totall hott bod he was flirting with ME! i...
    crazyonex13 crazyonex13 18-21, F May 14, 2012

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    Oh Wait. It Gets Better.

    I'm not just attracted to a guy in another state - I'm attracted to a guy in a whole different country. I'm not usually one to do something halfway. :P
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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    I like older men because. Well because I always find them to be so handsome, experienced, and confident. Older guys are hot. And plus the thought of an older guy banging gets my...
    TheLonelyPoet TheLonelyPoet 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    So I had to delete my account before which sucked but I'm back!! I just celebrated my 16th birthday! :) plus I finally had my first sexual encounter with an older guy, he was 26...
    KyleenSEV KyleenSEV 16-17, F 16 Responses Jul 14

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    Anima69Para Anima69Para 18-21 5 days ago

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    I met a older guy. He was 11 years older than me. He stole my heart. I never thought I'd actually start dating an older guy, but I didn't care about the age. He was sweet, caring...
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    I like older guys I think they are a lot more fun and treat you better. ;)
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