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I Am Attracted to Another Man

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    40 and Wondering

    I want to share this because I need some input from strangers.  I've been with my husband for more than 20 years.  I went through alot with his insecurities, verbal and not so nice words.  He is my first love at the age of 12 and we continued our relationship until...
    PacificOcean PacificOcean 36-40 2 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    Im Attracted To My Coworker...

    I guess I should explain my current relationship first to get full insight on what I'm going through. My boyfriend and I have been together four years and we have a child together, since I can remember our relationship has been up and down. He has increasingly been treating me...
    XcookiexbakerXx XcookiexbakerXx 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2012

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    Attracted to My Co-worker

    I've always had  bad luck with men. The guy before my boyfriend broke my heart. After that happened I had just about given up on men until I met my boyfriend.  We started out as friends... with benefits and then eventually we fell for each other. We've been together for...
    freestylr freestylr 21-25, F 4 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    The Other Side of the Story

    I'm the other side of the story. I'm the husband whose wife is attracted to her new boss. We've been married for sixteen years--admittedly, not all of them happy. We've had our problems--some of them big. Perhaps I shouldn't have expected more or better than what's happening in...
    lrwilliams lrwilliams 41-45 4 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Okay in theory yes I suppose I can guess why they do. However in practise I can't for the life of me, understand how a loving man could be happy doing this? Nor how a wife could be...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 13

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    I fantasize watcjing my wife making love to another man.
    Secretdzires Secretdzires 31-35, M 6 Responses Jul 13

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    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M a week ago

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    I've been with my husband for 8 years... and officially married for only 1yr. He joined the military 1 yr before we got married and he's been away in another state for the past 3...
    sh3rylanne sh3rylanne 31-35, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I am married for 21 years. I have a total of 3 daughters. the last one is from my husband. I have looked for years to find my oldest daughters dad. 5 months ago we found him. I...
    christi1258 christi1258 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I think of this all the time. After reading "50 Shades" and many more related story's my wife told me she'd like to be submissive. So, I started boning up on Dom material. We've...
    Kandainnc Kandainnc 41-45 5 Responses Jun 29

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    I think about my wife flirting, kissing and having sex with other men.
    Stky2001 Stky2001 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 1

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    I only thought about it today, I know I definitely love a guy but I can't have him, but there's this other guy I will see soon I about a month and I got an image in my head of...
    kieran456 kieran456 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    My husband has been abusive for 21 yrs. We've been married for 18. He has a friend that expressed a interest in me 2 yrs ago and I've been seeing him ever since. He is so sweet and...
    ginahunt3 ginahunt3 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    My ex wanted to watch me do his best friend and I said I would but he never set it up to happen but he liked to talk about it a lot
    JadenLangVageta JadenLangVageta 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I am trying to convince my wife to sleep with someone else and then tell me about it. I hope I don't regret it.
    ewcmfa ewcmfa 36-40, M 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Wanted to share some memorable comments I have received when I shared I wanted to open my marriage. -You do not deserve to be married -You should be happy you're a wife that...
    FrolickingFemale FrolickingFemale 36-40, F 20 Responses Jul 8

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    Today is November 16 (Friday), 11:30PM, I am in bed trying to sleep. As always, I am thinking about things I could have done, ways in which my life could have been different...
    shikorbihin shikorbihin 36-40, M Jul 14

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    I respect a man raising his kids all on his own ,I respect a man with good judgement ,respect a man who treats his women like a queen id really be god damned if I let another man...
    TEBOGO1992 TEBOGO1992 26-30 Jul 13

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    We are married for 1.5 years. My wife a bengali sexy lady who loves sex very much. After a long nagging i hav managed my wife to get her shared with another man. I wanna try. If u...
    smazumder1984 smazumder1984 26-30, M 10 Responses Jul 14

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    I F*cked another man's wife, See down in the comments section the story.
    Mysteriouspartofmexx Mysteriouspartofmexx 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I have been married for 17yrs with 2 kids I've been wooed by another man whom is not married & has 3 kids & I told my husband did I do the right thing or should I have kept it a...
    maguire01 maguire01 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I am married for 11 years now and have 4 beautiful children. Everyone who knows me thinks i have a perfect life.. and i do.. except of being MADLY in love with another man!! He...
    solo1411 solo1411 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm living with a chronic illness and thriving. I am an empathy. My life goal is to be a lightworker and counselor. I'm in love with the love of my life, but still married to...
    raven1026 raven1026 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    I am attracted to older men in there 30's or 40's I know it's strange but I like them and I am very horny. ;)
    Beckyy14 Beckyy14 13-15, F 6 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Lately I've been wanting to tell my mother about my relationship with my boyfriend. He's 28 years older then me. I was close to telling her until last night she told me about...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 1 Response 56 mins ago

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    For some time now, my imagination has been so vivid that I could step into another world for some time and leave this one as if though I was living in another body. I could spend...
    Anima69Para Anima69Para 18-21 5 days ago

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    A couple of weeks ago I met someone. He is a really good-looking, tall guy with somewhat sad bright blue eyes. It was in a place frequently visited by tourists, so it wasn't hard...
    Julize Julize 18-21, F Jul 5

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Here is another bit of research I have found... Men who marry younger women live longer: An interesting study by German experts revealed that men who marry younger women enhance...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    I was a very beautiful child, my dad was away and I grew up with my mom, so I was a little feminine and therefore I attracted many molesters. I have been molested so many times...
    takemetherenow takemetherenow 26-30, M Jul 5

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    I have never been fully "out". My husband knew on our first date that I was bi. That's how I labeled myself because the truth was so much more complicated. Before my husband, I...
    TryAnStopMe TryAnStopMe 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I know it may sound silly but since I was twelve I started having dreams of what I think are forgotten memories of my life on another planet. I was in a group of warriors trying to...
    nightslasher123 nightslasher123 36-40, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I joined this group a long time ago and while I knew it was true it's only recently that I have really begun to ponder this topic. I have been reviewing all the men/boys I've been...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    Well I'm an older guy attracted to young women not girls. Before anyone jumps to conclusions and thinks I'm a pervert young woman and attraction need to be defined. For me the line...
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 2 Responses Jul 1

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    We went out for many years before getting married. Marriage was like the next step , recalling back I guess i had my doubts on whether he is still the one for me. But he is a very...
    hir21 hir21 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Women Are Fasinating. Women are soft and sensitive need love and to be treat right. The female body is amazing all different colours shapes sizes it doesn't matter, they are all...
    lela201465 lela201465 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I also am attracted to both men and women. I am a feminine woman married to a man. Both sexes turn me on, but I LOVE lesbian ****!!!
    Gdsgirl Gdsgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Ok, so for a while I have been wanting to experiment with a guy - especially my best friend - I dont want to go all out - just get off togeather / help eachother out / hold...
    omgitsme00 omgitsme00 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Why do most girls seem to be attracted to ripped abs and stuff? I'm attracted to a guy with personality- and someone who is cuddle able. I like guys who accept the way God mad them...
    PrayerWarriorTeen PrayerWarriorTeen 13-15, F Jul 13

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    Hi all. I am 23 years old and have been attracted to she males since I was about 18. This past weekend I finally got the courage to meet one and I ended up giving her head. I just...
    kd1721 kd1721 22-25, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    When my ex broke up with me I decided that I was going to get my chance to experience a female but I had met my current boyfriend before I had the chance to. Just recently I talked...
    smokesomething smokesomething 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 27

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    I found this out when I was four years short of my nineteenth name day. Pardon the GoT allusion, it's for the bots. My Jon Snow, was twice ten and six and lived down the lane in...
    SweetSweetSarah SweetSweetSarah 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm 53 and the gentleman with whom I'm very attracted to is 71. I really love him a great deal. He's super intelligent which I love, witty, funny a deep thinker, very philosophical...
    Dahling61 Dahling61 51-55, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Looking for another girl to fool around with! If your in upstate new york message me :)
    Sarahjohnson255 Sarahjohnson255 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Transgendered people are no different than a everyday normal person.. They still have a heart, legs, arms, eyes, nose, ears. I see them as just another person.
    MiaSnider MiaSnider 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    Actually, I'm not a lesbian married to a man. Not anymore. But I wanted to share my story in this group so I can possibly give someone somewhere hope. Things can get better!!! I...
    thesupernurse thesupernurse 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    This is my first post here and there has been a number of things that I have attracted and been aware of, since watching The Secret. Firstly I want to say thank you for sharing The...
    LoaWishes LoaWishes 22-25 Jul 3

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