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I Am Attracted to Big Men

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    Gotta Love'em

    I'm a big girl...so I like bigger guys. I like them being taller than me...I like the cute, chubby guy. Have always gone for those. Thin, scrawny guys just don't do it for me. Usually the bigger guys have more of a sense of humor, which is huge with me. They aren't...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Big N Tasty!

    lol I had to put that as a subject.  I'm a big man, and I like big men... well all kinds of men really... I just like men... But I think there are several big sexy guys!  John Goodman and Kevin... damn, the cutie from King of Queens (damn I should have made that my...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Big Men

    I am a big beautiful woman-bbw- and I think I look good with a big bold man walking down the street.  I prefer having a big man to having a small one. Some people see the size difference and it doesn't seem right to them. Big men are like big women, in that their size is not...
    djw1 djw1 61-65, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Not Attracted But Am One.

    Its nice to now there are girls out there that are attracted to big men, Now only if i could find one.....
    justinside221 justinside221 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    Feelings

    I feel safer around big men. I'm a tall, full figured woman, so I want a guy that is substantial. My ex-husband was a big guy, but he had no self esteem. He felt unworthy, and there was nothing I could do to make him feel better. His insecurities drove us apart. Along with the...
    rosyvue rosyvue 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    I Love Big Men!

    I have always loved bigger men, however for some reason I have always attracted taller slender men. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with that but there is just something about a bigger man I could never overlook. Ladies do you feel the same?
    MsNikki82 MsNikki82 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I <3 a Big Guy With Confidence

    I've always been attracted to heavyset and/or really tall guys. But I've always been kinda reluctant to date heavyset men because I am plus sized and I didn't know how it would work out. In school, some of my girl friends would say..."I could never date a big man because I'm big...
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2011

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    Big And Strong

    I am a man that is 27 years old that is 5ft8 and 270 lbs. I am a big guy who is also muscular. I ask you ladies (mind you I have confidence in myself very much I just dont hear it very often in this category so it kind of makes me wonder) how do I fit? Good? Bad? I dont hear this...
    EarthBear2784 EarthBear2784 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Big Guys

    I always have found that big guys are so friendly, have a great sense of humor, and play around alot.  They are also very cuddly too and keep you warm.  Yeah Im very attracted to guys with a little more huggable parts than those that dont.
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 7 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    More To Love

    bigger guys have always been my thing ;) i feel so safe and secure. my ex boyfriend was rather large. and he was just amazing. i enjoyed our time together very much. bigger guys are just better to cuddle with :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Men should be fat. Period.

    They should have big and heavy bellies that hang. There is something so sexy about a man with a huge gut.
    Lisabackstage Lisabackstage 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Just Right

    most of the men i was involved with were either tall and skinny or short and average in weight. not that i have anything against shorter men, but most of the time i felt like goldilocks; i just couldn't get it right. i've always wanted a big man. i think big men are so sexy and...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 59 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    Love The Big Teddy Bears!!!

    I am heavier myself. But Ever since I was a teen I loved larger men. My first boyfriend was about six feet tall and weighted at 350. My ex husband was about six feet tall as well and weighted about 450 and same with my ex boyfriend. Something about cuddling up to a larger man...
    Pohang Pohang 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Big Men And Me ^^

    i just love big guys there so nice and funny i always thought so i dated a big guy before and we had so much fun who would of thought a fat guy was so fun and active we went on lots of trips and played alot im thinking of finding another fat boyfriend there fun to be with and...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    If You Are Attracted To Big Men, Hit Me Up!

    Okay, so I am not a attracted to big men; I am one haha. I joined this group in the hopes of finding a woman who is attracted to fat guys and would like to help fatten me up a bit more! I am a 22 year old guy living and working in NY. I am a very kind person and I like to have...
    FatObsessed1210 FatObsessed1210 22-25, M Oct 24, 2012

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    Cuddlers, Whether I Want To, Or Not

    Honestly, I was shocked when I saw him and me in a store window that acted as a mirror -- he was so big! Was I really so little? I didn't know I was so short! Another man, another time: a photo came back, and I gasped, wondering, "when did I get so short??" I swear, I thought...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F Mar 16, 2012

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    Big Daddy

    I am a big guy,or soi have been told.i am 6'5" and weigh 400 lbs.I fsnf it difficult being big and good looking.lol.not really.i love it.i also love big girls.am allways sffraid i would brake a skinny girl.so sorry for a the type o s.big fingers anf small buttons on my phone.so...
    knottheadtrucker knottheadtrucker 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Fat: Its Not A Four-letter Word!

    Come on people! Let's say what we really mean and quite trying to be politically correct!I am a FAT man - not just a big man. And I prefer FAT women! For me, and those who are kindred spirits, its often the fat itself, not just the size that's appealing...Fat is sensual. It is...
    iammarek iammarek 46-50, M Dec 3, 2012

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    Thank You All...

    as a "big guy" it makes an old man like me  feel wanted....not alot of women enjoy a man of "larger stature" which is really too bad...I possess a very vivid and wicked sense of imagination, and my lover seems to really enjoy all that I do to and for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    I Am A Bigger Man

    I sometimes love being a heavyset gent sometimes I don't. I do my best to not let it bother me because my arms and legs are lean (and muscular) but my gut just doesn't want to get with the program :P But yeah, I'm a heavyset tipping the scales at around 350lbs and I've learned...
    jondoen jondoen 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    Meat On the Bones

        I'm not a big girl. I guess you could say I'm curvy. I'm a size 6 (ish) and I'm 5'1. I have always been attracted to bigger men. I'm not talking like obese. But chunky is awesome. I like when I put my arms around their waist and I can't reach my hands...
    livelaughlove25 livelaughlove25 26-30, F 63 Responses Feb 24, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I am looking for a young woman who is very open minded and wants to do some very kinky things with an older guy, maybe I should say old guy! I don't care what you are looking for...
    RunAwayToMe RunAwayToMe 51-55, M 20 hrs ago

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    I have come to notice that I have no "type" I was just talking to my office mate about an hour or so ago now about men we like and it hit me I have NO type....at...all. My ex was...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm obssessed with white guys,especially with the ones with green,grey or blue eyes.I've nothing against black men being a black girl.But I'm just attracted to that and can't help...
    mel2030 mel2030 18-21 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I keep having these dreams about older men! I'm 21...and the guys I keep dreaming about are 31 and 41...what the heck?? Sometimes they're sexual, but mostly I'm just being held by...
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F 12 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Hi, I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO WOMEN AT ALL BUT I AM ATTRACTED TO YOUNGER BIG COCKED REAL MEN! :)
    christinelove69 christinelove69 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    caitlincc11 caitlincc11 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    This is a big fantasy of mine, I would get some help getting my wife to bed after she got drunk, then watch as the other guy looks over her body and starts to feel her up, looking...
    southlincsvoyeur southlincsvoyeur 46-50, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    My cousin Sebastian he's so sexy and he's bi and just knows how to have sex. I can't wait to see him next month. I know I'll be having fun day and night and I can't wait. He's big...
    GayJohn98 GayJohn98 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    Part of the reason I'm attracted to older men is the maturity they bring. I don't have time to waste my time in the "hook-up" culture of people my own age and I feel like older men...
    MilkandHoneyBaby MilkandHoneyBaby 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm 16 and I am attracted to older men. I'm not really sure why..
    tamera527 tamera527 18-21, F 28 Responses Aug 10

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    I'm so attracted to older guys... I'm 19 and would love to meet some friends for online chat, or older pen pals, or even gay single men that like to travel. I'm not looking for a...
    DaniDollBoi DaniDollBoi 18-21, M Aug 17

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    If you were given a chance to be with a confident guy would you? The kind of guy that wants to cherish you, keep you safe, make you a better version of you, gives respect and...
    margai margai 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I've always been attracted to older men, if you're that handsome older man then message me. ;)
    AlaskanBeautyQueen AlaskanBeautyQueen 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    The idea of forced ******* is my biggest turn on.... Either being held or tied down and just relentlessly stimulated until you're begging for it to stop.
    KristinaBeena KristinaBeena 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 3

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    These people should probably be in therapy themselves. I imagine it would take more than a few sessions too. It is utterly disgraceful and mean to pick on those too weak to defend...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Always been attracted to younger girls message me
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    Don't really know why, i've always been attracted to larger ladies since i was a kid.. from just chubby to the biggest ones. If someone tells me that it's unhealthy to be...
    SpanishFeeder12 SpanishFeeder12 18-21, M Aug 20

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