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I Am Attracted to Big Men

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    Big Men And Me ^^

    i just love big guys there so nice and funny i always thought so i dated a big guy before and we had so much fun who would of thought a fat guy was so fun and active we went on lots of trips and played alot im thinking of finding another fat boyfriend there fun to be with and...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Feelings

    I feel safer around big men. I'm a tall, full figured woman, so I want a guy that is substantial. My ex-husband was a big guy, but he had no self esteem. He felt unworthy, and there was nothing I could do to make him feel better. His insecurities drove us apart. Along with the...
    rosyvue rosyvue 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Big And Strong

    I am a man that is 27 years old that is 5ft8 and 270 lbs. I am a big guy who is also muscular. I ask you ladies (mind you I have confidence in myself very much I just dont hear it very often in this category so it kind of makes me wonder) how do I fit? Good? Bad? I dont hear this...
    EarthBear2784 EarthBear2784 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Fat: Its Not A Four-letter Word!

    Come on people! Let's say what we really mean and quite trying to be politically correct!I am a FAT man - not just a big man. And I prefer FAT women! For me, and those who are kindred spirits, its often the fat itself, not just the size that's appealing...Fat is sensual. It is...
    iammarek iammarek 46-50, M Dec 3, 2012

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    Big Guys

    I always have found that big guys are so friendly, have a great sense of humor, and play around alot.  They are also very cuddly too and keep you warm.  Yeah Im very attracted to guys with a little more huggable parts than those that dont.
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 7 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Cuddlers, Whether I Want To, Or Not

    Honestly, I was shocked when I saw him and me in a store window that acted as a mirror -- he was so big! Was I really so little? I didn't know I was so short! Another man, another time: a photo came back, and I gasped, wondering, "when did I get so short??" I swear, I thought...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F Mar 16, 2012

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    I <3 a Big Guy With Confidence

    I've always been attracted to heavyset and/or really tall guys. But I've always been kinda reluctant to date heavyset men because I am plus sized and I didn't know how it would work out. In school, some of my girl friends would say..."I could never date a big man because I'm big...
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2011

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    Gotta Love'em

    I'm a big girl...so I like bigger guys. I like them being taller than me...I like the cute, chubby guy. Have always gone for those. Thin, scrawny guys just don't do it for me. Usually the bigger guys have more of a sense of humor, which is huge with me. They aren't...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Big Daddy

    I am a big guy,or soi have been told.i am 6'5" and weigh 400 lbs.I fsnf it difficult being big and good looking.lol.not really.i love it.i also love big girls.am allways sffraid i would brake a skinny girl.so sorry for a the type o s.big fingers anf small buttons on my phone.so...
    knottheadtrucker knottheadtrucker 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    More To Love

    bigger guys have always been my thing ;) i feel so safe and secure. my ex boyfriend was rather large. and he was just amazing. i enjoyed our time together very much. bigger guys are just better to cuddle with :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Not Attracted But Am One.

    Its nice to now there are girls out there that are attracted to big men, Now only if i could find one.....
    justinside221 justinside221 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    I Am A Bigger Man

    I sometimes love being a heavyset gent sometimes I don't. I do my best to not let it bother me because my arms and legs are lean (and muscular) but my gut just doesn't want to get with the program :P But yeah, I'm a heavyset tipping the scales at around 350lbs and I've learned...
    jondoen jondoen 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    If You Are Attracted To Big Men, Hit Me Up!

    Okay, so I am not a attracted to big men; I am one haha. I joined this group in the hopes of finding a woman who is attracted to fat guys and would like to help fatten me up a bit more! I am a 22 year old guy living and working in NY. I am a very kind person and I like to have...
    FatObsessed1210 FatObsessed1210 22-25, M Oct 24, 2012

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    I Love Big Men!

    I have always loved bigger men, however for some reason I have always attracted taller slender men. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with that but there is just something about a bigger man I could never overlook. Ladies do you feel the same?
    MsNikki82 MsNikki82 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Meat On the Bones

        I'm not a big girl. I guess you could say I'm curvy. I'm a size 6 (ish) and I'm 5'1. I have always been attracted to bigger men. I'm not talking like obese. But chunky is awesome. I like when I put my arms around their waist and I can't reach my hands...
    livelaughlove25 livelaughlove25 26-30, F 63 Responses Feb 24, 2009

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    Just Right

    most of the men i was involved with were either tall and skinny or short and average in weight. not that i have anything against shorter men, but most of the time i felt like goldilocks; i just couldn't get it right. i've always wanted a big man. i think big men are so sexy and...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 59 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    Big Men

    I am a big beautiful woman-bbw- and I think I look good with a big bold man walking down the street.  I prefer having a big man to having a small one. Some people see the size difference and it doesn't seem right to them. Big men are like big women, in that their size is not...
    djw1 djw1 61-65, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Big N Tasty!

    lol I had to put that as a subject.  I'm a big man, and I like big men... well all kinds of men really... I just like men... But I think there are several big sexy guys!  John Goodman and Kevin... damn, the cutie from King of Queens (damn I should have made that my...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Love The Big Teddy Bears!!!

    I am heavier myself. But Ever since I was a teen I loved larger men. My first boyfriend was about six feet tall and weighted at 350. My ex husband was about six feet tall as well and weighted about 450 and same with my ex boyfriend. Something about cuddling up to a larger man...
    Pohang Pohang 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Thank You All...

    as a "big guy" it makes an old man like me  feel wanted....not alot of women enjoy a man of "larger stature" which is really too bad...I possess a very vivid and wicked sense of imagination, and my lover seems to really enjoy all that I do to and for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I like big men too! I'm attracted to big beautiful men, fat men, tall men, and men with big hands.
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 10

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    Hi all. I am 23 years old and have been attracted to she males since I was about 18. This past weekend I finally got the courage to meet one and I ended up giving her head. I just...
    kd1721 kd1721 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I don't know why I am attracted to older men I just am they turn me on big time. ;)
    Oldmenlover Oldmenlover 22-25, F 38 Responses Jul 14

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    I love both men and women of all types. Black, white, Asian, latin, skinny, big, tall, short, it doesn't matter. But I always had an attraction to females. It all started when I...
    msladyt757 msladyt757 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Well I'm an older guy attracted to young women not girls. Before anyone jumps to conclusions and thinks I'm a pervert young woman and attraction need to be defined. For me the line...
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I find myself to be attracted to older men. Something about them is quite appealing(who are single of course) and I find myself to be indifferent towards men my age. It may because...
    StephFred StephFred 18-21, F 46 Responses Jul 6

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    As I can remember I have been attracted to older men like in there 40's I have no clue why my parents are older then each other. I think it's just older men treat woman right and...
    Bianca214 Bianca214 18-21, F 24 Responses Jul 10

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    I've always been attracted to older men. 40+ does the trick ;-).
    aladyindeed aladyindeed 22-25, F 15 Responses Jun 30

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    I'm attracted to white men ;)
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 7

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    I am sixteen, but for some reason I find older men attractive. Looks dont matter. I think its because they are more mature, have more experience, and know how to talk to women...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 22 Responses Jul 7

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    I also am attracted to both men and women. I am a feminine woman married to a man. Both sexes turn me on, but I LOVE lesbian ****!!!
    Gdsgirl Gdsgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Why do most girls seem to be attracted to ripped abs and stuff? I'm attracted to a guy with personality- and someone who is cuddle able. I like guys who accept the way God mad them...
    PrayerWarriorTeen PrayerWarriorTeen 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I am a 15 year old girl and I always have been attracted to older men. I'm currently, talking to one, who flirts back. He is 28. It's just annoying that it is illegal, because I...
    CatalinaPetrova CatalinaPetrova 13-15, F 9 Responses Jul 14

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    Older men are hot. I'm extremely attracted to them and love being around and with them.
    Creamytoppings Creamytoppings 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    I have been fortunate enough to have a long line of men in my family that I have admired and learned cooking from. There's something amazing about how they create a dish. It's...
    holgado holgado 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I have always preferred the "nerdy"types. To qualify, I am pretty strict about the differences between nerds, geeks, and dorks (which is unbelievably nerdy in and of itself). I...
    NerdyGirl78 NerdyGirl78 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've always been attracted to older men ever since I was a little kid. After having experiences with younger men, I no longer have any interest in dating younger men and never will...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 29

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    It's not as big as it used to be!
    kathyrice kathyrice 41-45, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm sick of hot straight men who are cocky enough to think they can tease masses— women and men alike. When I say tease, I mean show off their supper hot bodies and faces and...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M a week ago

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    White men were pretty much non existent for most of my life. They were just okay to me. I was so wrapped up in black men and interacial dating was unimaginable to me until about...
    friedplantains friedplantains 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm super young but I'm attracted to guys in there 20s and early 30s. It gets frustrating. *cough* my teacher story
    mournwiththemoonandthestars mournwiththemoonandthestars 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    Lol not love but attracted to it. What girl wouldn't be attracted to a guy with a nice body and face? They may not say it but they might think it ( in some case me lol XD)
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F Jul 10

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    This is very weird. My sister has big boobs and I really like them. I'm a male and I am just attracted to big round boobs, even on my sister. Sometimes it makes me feel terrible...
    tdotman97 tdotman97 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 15

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    17 and a half, but very interested in older men. Preferably 25-40. I've always found that older men have better conversation and interests and are generally more well rounded...
    KirstyMack97 KirstyMack97 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    This message is to all the radical man hating feminists who go on the Internet to trash and mock the male gender. It is obvious from what you're writing to your 100% blind to what...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Thank you beautiful women for your attraction towards us Native men. It is greatly appreciated.
    AlbuquerqueJay AlbuquerqueJay 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    I'm 5'... My taste is usually 5'10'' and under need not apply, lol. I dated a guy who was 5'3'' once before and it was just off putting. I guess I'm just attracted to taller men...
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F Jul 2

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