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I Am Attracted to Big Men

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    I Am A Bigger Man

    I sometimes love being a heavyset gent sometimes I don't. I do my best to not let it bother me because my arms and legs are lean (and muscular) but my gut just doesn't want to get with the program :P But yeah, I'm a heavyset tipping the scales at around 350lbs and I've learned...
    jondoen jondoen 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    Big N Tasty!

    lol I had to put that as a subject.  I'm a big man, and I like big men... well all kinds of men really... I just like men... But I think there are several big sexy guys!  John Goodman and Kevin... damn, the cutie from King of Queens (damn I should have made that my...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Big man here Looking

    for friends to talk to
    Delonto Delonto 26-30, M Aug 15

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    Big Men And Me ^^

    i just love big guys there so nice and funny i always thought so i dated a big guy before and we had so much fun who would of thought a fat guy was so fun and active we went on lots of trips and played alot im thinking of finding another fat boyfriend there fun to be with and...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Fat: Its Not A Four-letter Word!

    Come on people! Let's say what we really mean and quite trying to be politically correct!I am a FAT man - not just a big man. And I prefer FAT women! For me, and those who are kindred spirits, its often the fat itself, not just the size that's appealing...Fat is sensual. It is...
    iammarek iammarek 46-50, M Dec 3, 2012

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    Just Right

    most of the men i was involved with were either tall and skinny or short and average in weight. not that i have anything against shorter men, but most of the time i felt like goldilocks; i just couldn't get it right. i've always wanted a big man. i think big men are so sexy and...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 59 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    Bigger guys are Amazing especially If they have

    blue or green eyes. I just can't get enough.
    Katiepoohmm Katiepoohmm 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    Love The Big Teddy Bears!!!

    I am heavier myself. But Ever since I was a teen I loved larger men. My first boyfriend was about six feet tall and weighted at 350. My ex husband was about six feet tall as well and weighted about 450 and same with my ex boyfriend. Something about cuddling up to a larger man...
    Pohang Pohang 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Big And Strong

    I am a man that is 27 years old that is 5ft8 and 270 lbs. I am a big guy who is also muscular. I ask you ladies (mind you I have confidence in myself very much I just dont hear it very often in this category so it kind of makes me wonder) how do I fit? Good? Bad? I dont hear this...
    EarthBear2784 EarthBear2784 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    More To Love

    bigger guys have always been my thing ;) i feel so safe and secure. my ex boyfriend was rather large. and he was just amazing. i enjoyed our time together very much. bigger guys are just better to cuddle with :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Any big guys or girls 15-17 in NC looking

    for a big guy that is wanting to become bigger?
    bigbellyboy14 bigbellyboy14 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 14, 2014

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    I am attracted to big guys

    that are buff you can be a big guy and workout. (I don't why but skinny that are shape guy bore me) A guy that's over 200 and has a lot of muscle (it doesn't have to be all muscle ... maybe compare it to football player size that body type is just attractive to me. Don't know...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Feelings

    I feel safer around big men. I'm a tall, full figured woman, so I want a guy that is substantial. My ex-husband was a big guy, but he had no self esteem. He felt unworthy, and there was nothing I could do to make him feel better. His insecurities drove us apart. Along with the...
    rosyvue rosyvue 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Gotta Love'em

    I'm a big girl...so I like bigger guys. I like them being taller than me...I like the cute, chubby guy. Have always gone for those. Thin, scrawny guys just don't do it for me. Usually the bigger guys have more of a sense of humor, which is huge with me. They aren't...
    RubyLane RubyLane 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    How I struggle to find women

    that like my size. I mean what's not to love about a big man like me? Haha
    AspiringSSBHM AspiringSSBHM 18-21, M Sep 17, 2014

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    Not Attracted But Am One.

    Its nice to now there are girls out there that are attracted to big men, Now only if i could find one.....
    justinside221 justinside221 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    Meat On the Bones

        I'm not a big girl. I guess you could say I'm curvy. I'm a size 6 (ish) and I'm 5'1. I have always been attracted to bigger men. I'm not talking like obese. But chunky is awesome. I like when I put my arms around their waist and I can't reach my hands...
    livelaughlove25 livelaughlove25 26-30, F 62 Responses Feb 24, 2009

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    GladlyGettingFat GladlyGettingFat 18-21, M Sep 14, 2014

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    I Love Big Men!

    I have always loved bigger men, however for some reason I have always attracted taller slender men. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with that but there is just something about a bigger man I could never overlook. Ladies do you feel the same?
    MsNikki82 MsNikki82 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Gladez Gladez 36-40, F 10 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    Thank You All...

    as a "big guy" it makes an old man like me  feel wanted....not alot of women enjoy a man of "larger stature" which is really too bad...I possess a very vivid and wicked sense of imagination, and my lover seems to really enjoy all that I do to and for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    Big Guys

    I always have found that big guys are so friendly, have a great sense of humor, and play around alot.  They are also very cuddly too and keep you warm.  Yeah Im very attracted to guys with a little more huggable parts than those that dont.
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 7 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    I <3 a Big Guy With Confidence

    I've always been attracted to heavyset and/or really tall guys. But I've always been kinda reluctant to date heavyset men because I am plus sized and I didn't know how it would work out. In school, some of my girl friends would say..."I could never date a big man because I'm big...
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 7, 2011

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    Big Men

    I am a big beautiful woman-bbw- and I think I look good with a big bold man walking down the street.  I prefer having a big man to having a small one. Some people see the size difference and it doesn't seem right to them. Big men are like big women, in that their size is not...
    djw1 djw1 61-65, F 5 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Cuddlers, Whether I Want To, Or Not

    Honestly, I was shocked when I saw him and me in a store window that acted as a mirror -- he was so big! Was I really so little? I didn't know I was so short! Another man, another time: a photo came back, and I gasped, wondering, "when did I get so short??" I swear, I thought...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F Mar 16, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I joined MENSA almost 40 years ago based on SAT and ACT test scores. When I came to LA it was a major part of my social life. IIRC it was about 3:2 male to female ratio. As a...
    AuNaturelOne AuNaturelOne 56-60, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I borrow my dad's clothes sometimes XD. It makes me feel better. Men's clothes are usually more comfortable. I installed an app on my phone where I made a whole wishlist of what I...
    weirdcharlie weirdcharlie 16-17, T 3 hrs ago

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    Just love them, I was mainly around older persons as I was born during the change of life. A very big surprise to my family.
    heterohelen heterohelen 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I'm really badly waiting for a girl.i want lay my head on her lap.express all my feeling. Hold her hand and kisa her gently over her neck.and wen im back from out giv her a big hug...
    krupaa krupaa 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    It is far easier for most any woman to get most any man in ONE SECOND than it is for most any man to get a woman in a lifetime. That is due to the simple fat that men desire...
    silmarilion123 silmarilion123 41-45, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    It is far easier for most any woman to get most any man in ONE SECOND than it is for most any man to get a woman in a lifetime. That is due to the simple fat that men desire...
    silmarilion123 silmarilion123 41-45, M 8 hrs ago

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    young ladies. how would you react if an older man ask for your number? I'm in my 40s and the cashier is in her teens. she looks like Salena Gomez
    quoc777 quoc777 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Must be a legal AGE!! (Not too young to make it creepy either.)I am attracted to younger girls, & it seems that most younger girls like older guys too.I think this is mostly...
    3mjay 3mjay 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I really, really do. I used to think I loved all guys equally but I'm not so sure anymore. My ex was over 400lbs so when we first got together, I would worry about what other...
    alc89 alc89 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Is it possible to be attracted to older men, yet find them extremely creepy when they hit on you - or women your age?
    StayCsBS93 StayCsBS93 18-21, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    You have been my brothers best friend for years but you have always done what I told you no matter what you were doing with him. So when I move out and text you to come over in the...
    PrincessAubree PrincessAubree 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Even as a middle schooler I was attracted to older guys. My father said its because he's older. I always wanted an older guy. Not because I'm a gold digger but because I feel...
    Benetylo Benetylo 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't condone their snobby comments if any. I do have a desire to make them speechless, blush, and other things.... If you know what I mean.;) I'm thinking this is along the...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F a week ago

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    once you go old you're sure to explode because an experienced older man will take his time to please you in more ways than just one...
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M a week ago

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    It's true... Tall men just 'do it for me'.... Obviously there needs to be more than just height. I am going to attribute it to 'my offspring need a growing chance'.... I'm also...
    loveCT loveCT 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I don't know if I will be able to be in a relationship with any other man besides a black man. I am not attracted to other men. I will never say never but its just everything...
    ms5271115 ms5271115 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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