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I Am Attracted to Big Men

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    Feelings

    I feel safer around big men. I'm a tall, full figured woman, so I want a guy that is substantial. My ex-husband was a big guy, but he had no self esteem. He felt unworthy, and there was nothing I could do to make him feel better. His insecurities drove us apart. Along with the...
    rosyvue rosyvue 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    I Am A Bigger Man

    I sometimes love being a heavyset gent sometimes I don't. I do my best to not let it bother me because my arms and legs are lean (and muscular) but my gut just doesn't want to get with the program :P But yeah, I'm a heavyset tipping the scales at around 350lbs and I've learned...
    jondoen jondoen 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    How I struggle to find women

    that like my size. I mean what's not to love about a big man like me? Haha
    AspiringSSBHM AspiringSSBHM 18-21, M Sep 17, 2014

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    Thank You All...

    as a "big guy" it makes an old man like me  feel wanted....not alot of women enjoy a man of "larger stature" which is really too bad...I possess a very vivid and wicked sense of imagination, and my lover seems to really enjoy all that I do to and for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    Just Right

    most of the men i was involved with were either tall and skinny or short and average in weight. not that i have anything against shorter men, but most of the time i felt like goldilocks; i just couldn't get it right. i've always wanted a big man. i think big men are so sexy and...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 59 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    Big N Tasty!

    lol I had to put that as a subject.  I'm a big man, and I like big men... well all kinds of men really... I just like men... But I think there are several big sexy guys!  John Goodman and Kevin... damn, the cutie from King of Queens (damn I should have made that my...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Gladez Gladez 36-40, F 10 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    Meat On the Bones

        I'm not a big girl. I guess you could say I'm curvy. I'm a size 6 (ish) and I'm 5'1. I have always been attracted to bigger men. I'm not talking like obese. But chunky is awesome. I like when I put my arms around their waist and I can't reach my hands...
    livelaughlove25 livelaughlove25 26-30, F 62 Responses Feb 24, 2009

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    I am attracted to big guys

    that are buff you can be a big guy and workout. (I don't why but skinny that are shape guy bore me) A guy that's over 200 and has a lot of muscle (it doesn't have to be all muscle ... maybe compare it to football player size that body type is just attractive to me. Don't know...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Cuddlers, Whether I Want To, Or Not

    Honestly, I was shocked when I saw him and me in a store window that acted as a mirror -- he was so big! Was I really so little? I didn't know I was so short! Another man, another time: a photo came back, and I gasped, wondering, "when did I get so short??" I swear, I thought...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F Mar 16, 2012

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    Any big guys or girls 15-17 in NC looking

    for a big guy that is wanting to become bigger?
    bigbellyboy14 bigbellyboy14 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 14, 2014

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    Big Men And Me ^^

    i just love big guys there so nice and funny i always thought so i dated a big guy before and we had so much fun who would of thought a fat guy was so fun and active we went on lots of trips and played alot im thinking of finding another fat boyfriend there fun to be with and...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Bigger guys are Amazing especially If they have

    blue or green eyes. I just can't get enough.
    Katiepoohmm Katiepoohmm 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    I <3 a Big Guy With Confidence

    I've always been attracted to heavyset and/or really tall guys. But I've always been kinda reluctant to date heavyset men because I am plus sized and I didn't know how it would work out. In school, some of my girl friends would say..."I could never date a big man because I'm big...
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 7, 2011

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    Big Guys

    I always have found that big guys are so friendly, have a great sense of humor, and play around alot.  They are also very cuddly too and keep you warm.  Yeah Im very attracted to guys with a little more huggable parts than those that dont.
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 7 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Fat: Its Not A Four-letter Word!

    Come on people! Let's say what we really mean and quite trying to be politically correct!I am a FAT man - not just a big man. And I prefer FAT women! For me, and those who are kindred spirits, its often the fat itself, not just the size that's appealing...Fat is sensual. It is...
    iammarek iammarek 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2012

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    Big Men

    I am a big beautiful woman-bbw- and I think I look good with a big bold man walking down the street.  I prefer having a big man to having a small one. Some people see the size difference and it doesn't seem right to them. Big men are like big women, in that their size is not...
    djw1 djw1 61-65, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Love The Big Teddy Bears!!!

    I am heavier myself. But Ever since I was a teen I loved larger men. My first boyfriend was about six feet tall and weighted at 350. My ex husband was about six feet tall as well and weighted about 450 and same with my ex boyfriend. Something about cuddling up to a larger man...
    Pohang Pohang 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Gotta Love'em

    I'm a big girl...so I like bigger guys. I like them being taller than me...I like the cute, chubby guy. Have always gone for those. Thin, scrawny guys just don't do it for me. Usually the bigger guys have more of a sense of humor, which is huge with me. They aren't...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    I Love Big Men!

    I have always loved bigger men, however for some reason I have always attracted taller slender men. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with that but there is just something about a bigger man I could never overlook. Ladies do you feel the same?
    MsNikki82 MsNikki82 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Not Attracted But Am One.

    Its nice to now there are girls out there that are attracted to big men, Now only if i could find one.....
    justinside221 justinside221 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    Big And Strong

    I am a man that is 27 years old that is 5ft8 and 270 lbs. I am a big guy who is also muscular. I ask you ladies (mind you I have confidence in myself very much I just dont hear it very often in this category so it kind of makes me wonder) how do I fit? Good? Bad? I dont hear this...
    EarthBear2784 EarthBear2784 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Men should be fat. Period.

    They should have big and heavy bellies that hang. There is something so sexy about a man with a huge gut.
    Lisabackstage Lisabackstage 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    GladlyGettingFat GladlyGettingFat 18-21, M Sep 14, 2014

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    More To Love

    bigger guys have always been my thing ;) i feel so safe and secure. my ex boyfriend was rather large. and he was just amazing. i enjoyed our time together very much. bigger guys are just better to cuddle with :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    I'm a 36yo, attractive, executive male. Until just recently, I was meeting a 17yo high school junior at her house during her lunch period. I would always bring her lunch so that my...
    Daddy36TX Daddy36TX 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    I'm a big fat black girl of 5'11 and 185lbs. Large framed, size 13/14 but 16W in pants because of my big *** hips. Measurements are 37-33-45 (too big!) I'm attracted to white guys...
    MizzChocolate99 MizzChocolate99 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    sadeccaa sadeccaa 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    So just to clear it up.. I'm attracted to older MEN, not a "pedo" or anything... Men. I find there's a difference and I don't want them to feel less attracted to me as I grow...
    lilybunny944 lilybunny944 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am married to a very nice man but sadly I'm just not attracted to him. I'm finding myself attracted to a few other single men. I'm always thinking of ways I can talk to them...
    whpher whpher 41-45, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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