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I Am Attracted to Big Men

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    Big Men

    I am a big beautiful woman-bbw- and I think I look good with a big bold man walking down the street.  I prefer having a big man to having a small one. Some people see the size difference and it doesn't seem right to them. Big men are like big women, in that their size is not...
    djw1 djw1 61-65, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Big N Tasty!

    lol I had to put that as a subject.  I'm a big man, and I like big men... well all kinds of men really... I just like men... But I think there are several big sexy guys!  John Goodman and Kevin... damn, the cutie from King of Queens (damn I should have made that my...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    GladlyGettingFat GladlyGettingFat 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Love The Big Teddy Bears!!!

    I am heavier myself. But Ever since I was a teen I loved larger men. My first boyfriend was about six feet tall and weighted at 350. My ex husband was about six feet tall as well and weighted about 450 and same with my ex boyfriend. Something about cuddling up to a larger man...
    Pohang Pohang 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    I Am A Bigger Man

    I sometimes love being a heavyset gent sometimes I don't. I do my best to not let it bother me because my arms and legs are lean (and muscular) but my gut just doesn't want to get with the program :P But yeah, I'm a heavyset tipping the scales at around 350lbs and I've learned...
    jondoen jondoen 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    Men should be fat. Period.

    They should have big and heavy bellies that hang. There is something so sexy about a man with a huge gut.
    Lisabackstage Lisabackstage 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I <3 a Big Guy With Confidence

    I've always been attracted to heavyset and/or really tall guys. But I've always been kinda reluctant to date heavyset men because I am plus sized and I didn't know how it would work out. In school, some of my girl friends would say..."I could never date a big man because I'm big...
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2011

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    Bigger guys are Amazing especially If they have

    blue or green eyes. I just can't get enough.
    Katiepoohmm Katiepoohmm 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    Cuddlers, Whether I Want To, Or Not

    Honestly, I was shocked when I saw him and me in a store window that acted as a mirror -- he was so big! Was I really so little? I didn't know I was so short! Another man, another time: a photo came back, and I gasped, wondering, "when did I get so short??" I swear, I thought...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F Mar 16, 2012

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    Not Attracted But Am One.

    Its nice to now there are girls out there that are attracted to big men, Now only if i could find one.....
    justinside221 justinside221 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    Thank You All...

    as a "big guy" it makes an old man like me  feel wanted....not alot of women enjoy a man of "larger stature" which is really too bad...I possess a very vivid and wicked sense of imagination, and my lover seems to really enjoy all that I do to and for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    Meat On the Bones

        I'm not a big girl. I guess you could say I'm curvy. I'm a size 6 (ish) and I'm 5'1. I have always been attracted to bigger men. I'm not talking like obese. But chunky is awesome. I like when I put my arms around their waist and I can't reach my hands...
    livelaughlove25 livelaughlove25 26-30, F 63 Responses Feb 24, 2009

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    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Just Right

    most of the men i was involved with were either tall and skinny or short and average in weight. not that i have anything against shorter men, but most of the time i felt like goldilocks; i just couldn't get it right. i've always wanted a big man. i think big men are so sexy and...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 59 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    Big Guys

    I always have found that big guys are so friendly, have a great sense of humor, and play around alot.  They are also very cuddly too and keep you warm.  Yeah Im very attracted to guys with a little more huggable parts than those that dont.
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 7 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    I Love Big Men!

    I have always loved bigger men, however for some reason I have always attracted taller slender men. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with that but there is just something about a bigger man I could never overlook. Ladies do you feel the same?
    MsNikki82 MsNikki82 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Gotta Love'em

    I'm a big girl...so I like bigger guys. I like them being taller than me...I like the cute, chubby guy. Have always gone for those. Thin, scrawny guys just don't do it for me. Usually the bigger guys have more of a sense of humor, which is huge with me. They aren't...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Feelings

    I feel safer around big men. I'm a tall, full figured woman, so I want a guy that is substantial. My ex-husband was a big guy, but he had no self esteem. He felt unworthy, and there was nothing I could do to make him feel better. His insecurities drove us apart. Along with the...
    rosyvue rosyvue 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Not "huge" but I like 5'11 180ib big bone

    structure inverted triangle. It's very hard to find anyone like that in my age range! That's why I'm attracted to older men, but I don't like that :/ at all!! I can't wait until I'm older so I can find one like that and be able to have him for myself. Of course sweet, mysterious...
    MyDesireIsHim MyDesireIsHim 13-15, F 7 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    More To Love

    bigger guys have always been my thing ;) i feel so safe and secure. my ex boyfriend was rather large. and he was just amazing. i enjoyed our time together very much. bigger guys are just better to cuddle with :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Big Men And Me ^^

    i just love big guys there so nice and funny i always thought so i dated a big guy before and we had so much fun who would of thought a fat guy was so fun and active we went on lots of trips and played alot im thinking of finding another fat boyfriend there fun to be with and...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Any big guys or girls 15-17 in NC looking

    for a big guy that is wanting to become bigger?
    bigbellyboy14 bigbellyboy14 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Fat: Its Not A Four-letter Word!

    Come on people! Let's say what we really mean and quite trying to be politically correct!I am a FAT man - not just a big man. And I prefer FAT women! For me, and those who are kindred spirits, its often the fat itself, not just the size that's appealing...Fat is sensual. It is...
    iammarek iammarek 46-50, M Dec 3, 2012

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    Big And Strong

    I am a man that is 27 years old that is 5ft8 and 270 lbs. I am a big guy who is also muscular. I ask you ladies (mind you I have confidence in myself very much I just dont hear it very often in this category so it kind of makes me wonder) how do I fit? Good? Bad? I dont hear this...
    EarthBear2784 EarthBear2784 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Big Daddy

    I am a big guy,or soi have been told.i am 6'5" and weigh 400 lbs.I fsnf it difficult being big and good looking.lol.not really.i love it.i also love big girls.am allways sffraid i would brake a skinny girl.so sorry for a the type o s.big fingers anf small buttons on my phone.so...
    knottheadtrucker knottheadtrucker 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    If You Are Attracted To Big Men, Hit Me Up!

    Okay, so I am not a attracted to big men; I am one haha. I joined this group in the hopes of finding a woman who is attracted to fat guys and would like to help fatten me up a bit more! I am a 22 year old guy living and working in NY. I am a very kind person and I like to have...
    FatObsessed1210 FatObsessed1210 22-25, M Oct 24, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I was out getting some dinner at a Taco place...In walked a girl in her 20's in a bikini top and jean shorts, yes very pretty. Shortly behind her a very large guy. I noticed his...
    Debbierocks Debbierocks 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Okay, so I'm not so young... and I am not even into older men... I'm not really concerned about a person's age at all. I was just watching "Dr. Drew", and he had a segment about...
    shellseagirl shellseagirl 41-45, F 29 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just adore older men. When i was 13-14 i was attracted to men who were 22-25 and now that i'm 20 i'm attracted to guys who are 30-35. They are so down to earth and respectful...
    StellaFlower StellaFlower 18-21, F 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have come to notice that I have no "type" I was just talking to my office mate about an hour or so ago now about men we like and it hit me I have NO type....at...all. My ex was...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Married 10 years now ,got two kids after being on this site I am finding that I am attracted to men .is my denied gay side finally coming to light ?
    SexyLexiMX81 SexyLexiMX81 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 31

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    My last 3 relationships were with bigger men. I'm not overweight but I am full bodied and I like to date men that are bigger than me. In my experience chubby guys have a great...
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I don't know how I did it but I somehow managed to not write any stories over the summer. It was hard to fight the urge because I'm a bit of writer and when ideas come I just want...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Im slowly losing interest in men. I'm seeing the evilness , demanding , and self centered egotistical side of them. I can't stand it. I want to cuddle up with someone sensitive...
    Brownsugvr Brownsugvr 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Really want a Big Black Man right now!
    lizaslut lizaslut 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I was 14, my taste in men tended to be those older than me. 17 - 25 was the age range for me with men right up until I was 19.... Most times I've been with guys 8-10 years...
    pebbles7 pebbles7 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I've been raped several times and mentally mind ****** by men since I can remember. I am way more attracted to women. I knew I liked girls when I was 8 before I like guys. I have...
    oliviatee oliviatee 16-17, F Sep 1

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    I am not sure I would call myself a girl anymore but I am a young women who has always been attracted to people of the opposite sex that are older than me. I have on rare occasion...
    DemonFeyLove DemonFeyLove 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 5

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    I'm so attracted to older guys... I'm 19 and would love to meet some friends for online chat, or older pen pals, or even gay single men that like to travel. I'm not looking for a...
    DaniDollBoi DaniDollBoi 18-21, M Aug 17

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    If you were given a chance to be with a confident guy would you? The kind of guy that wants to cherish you, keep you safe, make you a better version of you, gives respect and...
    margai margai 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I've always been attracted to older men, if you're that handsome older man then message me. ;)
    AlaskanBeautyQueen AlaskanBeautyQueen 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 21

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    I love older men that are sugar daddy potential. Money can make an older man much more attractive. In addition, it's a turn on how sexually experienced they are...Im attracted to a...
    kushbabe420 kushbabe420 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 3

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    I am not a young girl. I am not a girl at all. I am the older man attracted to younger girls. As I was growing up, people told me how girls mature before boys do. O.K. I believe...
    Adamtheone Adamtheone 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I feel like it's always been this little addiction of mine. When I was single I always wondered if I could manage without it. I never tried very hard to get it. I never needed to...
    greeneyedlifenewb greeneyedlifenewb 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I'm obssessed with white guys,especially with the ones with green,grey or blue eyes.I've nothing against black men being a black girl.But I'm just attracted to that and can't help...
    mel2030 mel2030 18-21 1 Response Aug 28

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    It's just something about them.... I've always be attracted to older men I love the fact that they know who they are what they want and how to get it they also really know how to...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 2

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    Hello so first of all I'm a lesbian i have always found myself being more attracted to intelligent women than those who are not. I love holding deep conversations about life and...
    NightsEternalShadow NightsEternalShadow 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    Have always been attracted to the maturity and experience of older men. 30-55 is a perfect range for me.
    bisexualleah bisexualleah 18-21, F 25 Responses 5 days ago

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    In some ways it's more that I like the idea that they are attracted to me. The idea he would risk getting in trouble to be with me is exciting. And the thought of being with...
    ambermayxx ambermayxx 13-15, F 13 Responses 5 days ago

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    Don't really know why, i've always been attracted to larger ladies since i was a kid.. from just chubby to the biggest ones. If someone tells me that it's unhealthy to be...
    SpanishFeeder12 SpanishFeeder12 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 20

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