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I Am Attracted to Black Women

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    I Am Attracted To Black Women

    I never understood why. I just don't understand how some individuals think it is wrong. What's wrong with loving a women who is just a different skin tone than me? My father is an old-fashioned guy and would prefer me to date any girl that isn't a black girl. If my dad loves me...
    Sstepen2011 Sstepen2011 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    I Just Like 'em

    It's as simple as that. I love how confident they are, which makes me confident. Black women seem to have an extra spoonful of confidence going on, that I love to see. I find that sooo sexy!!!
    craftiestdude craftiestdude 36-40, M Nov 4, 2012

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    I was raised to be open minded,

    and till this day I still am. After puberty when I started paying more attention to girls, I started noticing black girls more and more. In high school when I had long hair, I was in gym class with my friends, and as I was leaving 2 cute black girls told me I would look hot with...
    TwoStep2RedHeads TwoStep2RedHeads 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2013

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    I believe black women are very beautiful

    even though meeting one is tough
    Princeofthesky Princeofthesky 18-21, M 2 Responses May 25

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    I am an ideological antiracist

    and don't feel race should influence one's dating decisions in either direction, however I have always found black women very attractive. While I'm attracted to members of all races, and am not attracted to every black woman I see, I have noticed that I am more likely to be...
    JohnMoreDread JohnMoreDread 26-30, M Feb 6

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    There is nothing wrong with other ethnicities,

    but I am attracted to Black women. That catches some people off guard because there's some stereotype in certain circles that if a Black man is really intelligent or becomes successful he's supposed to want a white woman or some other non-Black ethnicity, but I don't feel that...
    HoustonBlackman HoustonBlackman 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    I Love Big Black Women

    I have always preferred heavier women of any race, and I find Black women of any size beautiful, but there is something so gorgeous about a Black woman with generous curves. I love that curvy Black women are usually much more comfortable with their size than White women are. Many...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 17, 2012

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    Greetings N Hey

    Choco skinned women are enchanting and perplexing and a handful.....but sweet n nice as well......my.experience has been up n down but cant stay away from the addicting allure of Black women........
    Mooseman57 Mooseman57 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    Are there any women here

    who are of Black Seminole or Gullah Geechee background?
    MAROONTRIBE MAROONTRIBE 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    My first serious girlfriend in HW was black

    and ever since then I find myself pretty much exclusively attracted to black women. I do find women of all races attractive, but I feel I connect physically and mentally with black women more than other women...
    hightechluv4u hightechluv4u 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2013

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    kerw94 kerw94 18-21, M Jul 7

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    I guess... No, actually,

    I know. I'm starting to understand and love black women--or the idea, rather. Black women are extremely beautiful and precious to me, romantically or platonically. But I'm interested in black women romantically lol so message my thirsty ***? :P
    thisbrerulezyou thisbrerulezyou 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Personally, I am generally more attracted to a

    black woman. I do think there are attractive women of all races and have been with women that aren't black, but physically and mentally I have found that I connect best with black women.  Nothing is more sexy to me than a black woman with pretty eyes, full lips, thick hips...
    hightechluv4u hightechluv4u 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    What can I say? I love women in general

    and have an appreciation for their ways and beauty. I have been around black women a lot in the course of my lifetime, and I suppose I gained an appreciation for them, not only for the way they look but the way they interact....the way they ARE. Luckily for me, at the...
    eduardio eduardio 46-50 1 Response May 29

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    I Don't Like Hearing It.

    I became friends with a young woman at work. She was, and I am sure still is, very attractive and blessed with a very nice personality. One evening a co-worker, aware that I was attracted to her, came to me commenting on her pleasing appearance saying she was pretty cute "for a...
    GrandPaRoo GrandPaRoo 61-65, M 21 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Nothing Can Compare

    I'm ready for a relationship and would love to have one with a black woman. I think their is an incomparable beauty that they posses...
    cryptal cryptal 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 22, 2013

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    Love Them Sistas!

    Black women are very beautiful and cultural and the contrast of the skin colors accents two people that are making love and spending time together in unity. I have dated nothing but black women for many years and I seem to always be able to communicate and relate to them better...
    sucuhuntu sucuhuntu 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 26, 2011

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    I have always found dark skin attractive.

    I also think Black women have beautiful facial features.
    WillMan614 WillMan614 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I am a white guy and I am in love with my black

    girlfriend for the past 10+ years. And we are nudists too. She was the first girl I ever loved truly. She is 38 and I am 46...... and DAMN is she hot.
    badboytown badboytown 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 15

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    Women of all ethnicities are absolutely

    beautiful, precious & delicate, I however am attracted to black women. My girlfriend is black (I'm white) & we are madly in love with each other, we've been a couple for 12 wondeful years. Not only is she really cute, she is one of the sweetest down to earth girls you will ever...
    theswordinthestone theswordinthestone 36-40, M 1 Response May 4

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    its been a bit of a fantasy of mine.

    i been with a girl who was part black, (1/8 or something) but not with a half black or fully black girl. i dont think it be too different from any other race but the dark skin color attracts me. well just a fantasy of mine lol
    Izzyguy007 Izzyguy007 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    Tampa, FL

      I'm looking for a man who is interested in starting a family relatively quickly. I'm ready to be a stay-at-home wife and mother. I've always wanted a child and I believe now is the right time to begin on a path to being a wife and ultimately motherhood. If you are...
    mommyandwifematerial mommyandwifematerial 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12, 2013

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    My wife and I met on this site (www.

    blackwhitepeople.com) 2 years ago. It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it was just for happy hour . We ended up talking for 4 hours and then she went with me to a cousin's cookout the next day . She is the most warm and...
    Allenm13 Allenm13 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    Sentence: Social Suicide(HELL)

    Maybe it's just me, but black women treat me kinda badly. I don't even have to tell them I am atheists! My two most recent relationships have been with black women and it felt good. You are who I've been craving to date. To marry. To start a family with. But thinking outside the...
    JeyGant JeyGant 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    If You Like Black Women, I Know You Will Like Me

    I am a 44 very young looking for my age black bi-woman. Recently, my husband of 21 years and I separated. I always thought that I would lend to the ladies if this ever happened. However, to my surprise I find myself interested in white men. While married, I never cheated with...
    Summerayn Summerayn 41-45, F 9 Responses Dec 10, 2011

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    Esp Busty Ones

    I've always wanted to be with an ebony beauty.One with big massive all natural breasts.One with a ghetto booty that you can place a TV dinner tray upon.I think black women are so enticing and I have a craving to have some brown sugar.
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Thats It...

    I'm officially addicted. I cant even look at white woman anymore. Maybe its why Ive been single for so long but watev. I'm willing to wait around :P
    cryptal cryptal 36-40, M 6 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Christmas Wish

    All I want is a brown girl with some ***. Put two Christmas bows on her **** and put a mistletoe between her legs. Oh, and make sure she knows how to bake cookies.
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    Black Women Are A Turn On,

    it may be the dark skin, or big nipples [at least the women I knew], and I think they taste different, but I get a bigger buzz from seeing a pretty black woman than a white woman - if the other 'variables' are the same.. The ones I've been with in my time also are more open about...
    Andyc1965 Andyc1965 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    DON'T Know What It Is.

    I do like all kinds of women, but there is just something about african-american women that does drive me crazy.
    Preacher10 Preacher10 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    Happy

    im so happy to see there are white men attracted to black women more vanilla for me :)
    thicksoulsista thicksoulsista 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 2, 2013

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    Black Women And Mexican Men

    Black women need to start hittin on Mexican men. I see lots of Black men and Mexican women. I want to see more Black women and Mexican men.
    latinoheat2 latinoheat2 26-30, M 9 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    Be Bold

    Glad that you all are attracted to us BUT I wish more of you would speak up! I can tell that guys of other races are attracted to me but many of them are scared to come up to me. Take a chance, you won't regret it! :-)
    cocobunne cocobunne 26-30, F 27 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I Can't Even Enjoy This In My Dreams?

    The other night I was dreaming about being in a relationship with a black woman. When in the dream we ended up in a place with my parents, brother and sister and some folks from where I work. Then out of nowhere my grandmother who passed away nearly ten years ago is there and...
    norm93 norm93 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    I Want A Family Now.

    I've always been attracted to men of another race. I don't think it has anything to do with them being white, I think it's just who I've been around my entire life. I assume that the man I married will be white as well. One thing I hate is men that are interested in me BECAUSE I...
    mommyandwifematerial mommyandwifematerial 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2012

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    i'm new to this site

    and i always been interested in white guys.now i'm just putting myself out there and see what happens looking for friends to chat with and see where it's goes;)
    Brandy2021 Brandy2021 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    looking for a black girl from uk whos up

    for fun with a white guy :) any out there ?
    rodwood rodwood 31-35, M May 3

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    More Than Just Women!

    Its something about them that drives me crazy. Yes, I am an Indian who has never left India. And NO, my opinion is not based on black women I see in movies or television. I spent 3 years in Goa, and I came across so many gorgeous black women. ("Gorgeous" here doesn't mean "slim...
    ian2lonely ian2lonely 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    Is this weird ? I can talk to a women of

    Caucasian decent and be somewhat shy . But when I try to approach a black women it's like I completely freeze
    Princeofthesky Princeofthesky 18-21, M 1 Response May 28

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    Related Experiences

    I have always been more attracted to black women. As a little kid I had a crush on Rudy from the Cosby Show. Then while all my friends liked Kelly from saved by the bell, I always...
    htmn14 htmn14 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm a black woman attracted to white men, and love that white guys are into black women :) although most that approach me do it because of a sexual fantasy they have to sleep with...
    LouLa90 LouLa90 22-25, F 10 Responses Jul 9

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    I've always been attracted to black women and their personalities and how sexy they look.
    Imnew57 Imnew57 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I am a white 50 yo white man who Ioves black women. I find black women beautiful and they are more real. I'm in virginia so I run into some negativity from folks who are living...
    windshield999 windshield999 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    Greetings Beautiful Black Women! Is there anybody of Afro-Native American background? Any Seminole, Wampanoag, or Maroon Tribe ladies?
    MAROONTRIBE MAROONTRIBE 41-45, M Jul 4

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    I love it. It's something about it. I've date white guys ever since I started dating lol. It's nothing against other races I've seen plenty of cute Asian,black (etc) races but my...
    SophieBabe20 SophieBabe20 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    My first love when I was 13 was a curvy, sweet black girl...see story..and I have missed that ever since. Life goes on and so did I, I had another black girlfriend in college in...
    OldRangerbob OldRangerbob 61-65, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Are there any beautiful dark skinned women who claim Gullah Geechee or Seminole background in here? Are there any Maroon women?
    MAROONTRIBE MAROONTRIBE 41-45, M Jul 4

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    My beautiful ex-soldier wife. We met in Germany 1990. I had come from the USSR to attend university. She was stationed by the American Army. I dropped out of university. She left...
    DoonJi DoonJi 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I met a guy once, we got on really well and connected like I can't even explain, but he said he was scared as it was new! Did he mean New experience for him and or a new...
    Mickita Mickita 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 5

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    Preferably ones with their natural hair. I don't like weaves. Show your real hair...not some fake nonsense.
    htmn14 htmn14 31-35, M 6 Responses Jul 9

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    What is Hot? It doesn't have to be a run way model. An actress on TV or in the movies. An Olympic female athlete or the home coming queen in any small town. Hot is what you want to...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 1 Response 42 mins ago

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    I am 30 years old and i am finding myself more attracted to women in their late 30's to mid 40's. They are so much more mature and experienced, in my opinion.
    Workoutguy720 Workoutguy720 26-30, M