I Am Attracted To Intelligence And Good Sense Of Humour

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    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    The ability to say something funny requires a

    high level of intelligence. If you memorize a thousand jokes, that doesn't make you a person with a sense of humor. Sense of humor is more subtle. A good sense of humor is about timing, the ability to say the funny thing at the right time and to the right people. Telling a...
    iceKREEm iceKREEm
    31-35, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    Don't get me wrong.. an attractive person is

    well... attractive. I adore the girls whose eyes match the color of the palest blue flowers. I love the guys with the striking jawline and the midnight dark hair. But what are all those if the person is... a snooze? I am entrenched in my own mind and I cannot focus on...
    dunwithall dunwithall
    18-21, M
    Feb 16, 2016

    I wouldn't even say I overvalue intelligence at

    all it's just ridiculous how dumb people can be, or pretend to be. It's a very unattractive quality
    jroyal32 jroyal32
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2016

    Conversing about philosophy,

    science, and technology..... Laughing at the nerdiest of all jokes, completely my idea of a good time. I know that there's about 7.5 billion people on this planet, so I have a healthy amount of optimism for there being someone that shares my interests in the ultra nerdy things...
    JadedUnicorn JadedUnicorn
    31-35, F
    Mar 5, 2016

    Boys that are smart and can make me laugh are

    the ideal boys I will date. Being knowledgeable to be makes a conversation more interesting and I love when I can talk to a guy for hours and hours on end and never be bored. Sense of humor for me is something that I really want in a guy, because I love joking around with people...
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    Oct 13, 2014
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    2 Responses Jan 2, 2016

    I like that man that knows what he's talking

    about. He doesn't have to be a genius, but knows some stuff. And with a good sense of humor to make me laugh and lighten up my day.
    Catina25 Catina25
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    would love to find someone on here to connect

    with intellectually and creatively! anyone who likes talking music and poetry and dreams and exciting conversations message me! would love to meet people cuz im bored of the people i live around!
    ethankerouac ethankerouac
    18-21, M
    Dec 9, 2015
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Jan 25, 2015

    Intelligence is sexy.

    Dominant and Intelligent? As Chandler Bing would say: " That would be perfection ".
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    2 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    There is nothing sexier

    than a guy who can make me laugh AND carry on a conversation. It is not about book smarts but being able to simply carry on a simple conversation.
    meri1090 meri1090
    46-50, F
    Mar 16, 2016

    Carbonaro effect. Tru tv.

    Awesome funny. On now?
    NotSoPerfect777 NotSoPerfect777
    41-45, F
    May 21, 2015

    Top bunk: Bed where you should never put a

    child wearing Superman pajamas.
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    41-45, M
    Jan 1, 2016

    I saw a meme on Facebook yesterday

    that read "I am allergic to stupidity, I break out with a severe case of sarcasm." It gave me a chuckle and I liked it but I would have made it "I am highly allergic to stupidity by choice." There is a difference.
    bowchickawowow bowchickawowow
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    If you can shut me up without totally offending

    me I respect that . Only three things can stop my motormouth, Food, Intelligence and Funnies
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2014
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    In my perspective intelligence is in all kind

    of forms. Like creativity, grammar, inventing, mathematics, high grades, expressing yourself, speaking etcetera. Humor is most of the time based on your knowledge of your intelligence and how you can express yourself. So everybody has a other kind of intelligence and humor that...
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    1 Response Dec 8, 2015

    hey im an 18 year old college student from

    Southern California...people around here bore me and im looking to meet interesting and kind people! Im a writer and would love to talk about poetry, books, ideas, music, and life! I also love the grateful dead if anyones into that lol
    ethankerouac ethankerouac
    18-21, M
    Dec 8, 2015

    So yea I assume that this group was made

    for me. Funny and smart that's me all day.
    Scorpio4hire Scorpio4hire
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015
    AryanaTwinkle AryanaTwinkle
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2015

    I love to laugh (hence the moniker)

    and I love a funny man... Especially one who is also intelligent and fun to be around... Who makes the mundane, exciting.
    giggletree giggletree
    46-50, F
    Mar 6, 2016

    I have these two quality's

    and I'm 6'5 I guess that makes me a TRIPLE THREAT ( I understand that this post will make some people upset )
    41-45, M
    1 Response Mar 17, 2016

    Don't come at me all dumb.

    That is all. I'm pretty chill and up for anything, just don't be ignant.
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    1 Response Jan 28, 2016

    A good laugh and shared/opposite opinions are

    the best magnetes between people.
    Awkward26 Awkward26
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2016

    throughout my life..i always had crush on the

    most intelligent people around me,whatever their gender might be....intelligence is the first thing that attracts me towards anyone and the second most important thing is sense of humour and third is manners..
    sincerehuman sincerehuman
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    Yes, I want a man in my life with a sense of

    humour. But not just any sense of humor, one like mine. I want to be able to laugh with you about the world, not at other people or their problems. I want you to find the same things funny that I do. Selfish desire? Sure, I'll agree it is. But if I can't laugh with you, I dont...
    biscuitstiq biscuitstiq
    26-30, T
    1 Response Sep 5, 2015

    Intelligence is something

    which attracts everyone. i Believe everyone have it but people who know how to use it are the ones who can make or break things. It has nothing to do with heart, sense of humor is much important than intelligence because it effects heart. it always make people happy. I think i...
    getgoodfeeling getgoodfeeling
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015

    Nothing better than finding someone

    who you can have deep existential conversations with.
    dylbot787 dylbot787
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    I love laughing and very fond of brain

    stimulation.When there's conflict, use them.The result is very rewarding. 
    1PrincessKai 1PrincessKai
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2015

    when they say ignorance is kind,

    intelligence must be cruel! to perceive is to suffer! with intelligence comes responsibility and suffering, and since the amount of suffering outweighs the amount of joy and happiness, the intelligent suffer from depression more than they can be humorous!
    vahidn vahidn
    31-35, M
    Sep 4, 2015

    All I can say to this is: hell yeah!

    In all seriousness, I love intelligence and I love a great sense of humor. When their intelligence and sense of humor jives with mine - bliss!
    ImKeepinItReal ImKeepinItReal
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Dec 9, 2015
    AvaDay AvaDay
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 24, 2015

    What's intelligence? What's a good sense of

    humor (sorry Brits, force of habit)? Personally, I hold myself to high standards when it comes to writing and speaking and using language in general. It's brought me to a point where I instantly judge someone who doesn't quite meet the same standards as being either lazy or of...
    BladeofSilver BladeofSilver
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2015
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