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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Guys

Girls (or other guys) that can't resist a geek 3,811 People

    The intelligence of a man is

    so intriguing, when I find myself talking to someone of high intelligence I'm staring at them in such fascination lol I'm like wow! Tell me more haha. I love communicating with intelligent people as they can teach me a lot about the world.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Holy damn... If you have good grammar

    and a better vocabulary than me, I can't help but like you. It's crazy... I've been friends with complete douche bags for too long just because their intellect attracts me. Haha :3
    babydollaura babydollaura 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I Found One

    Am I attracted to intelligent or intellectual men? Probably both. I found boy I was dreaming of weeks ago. Intelligent, intellectual, so clever, but unhappy. The man who was broken because of love, because of this world. But I saw beyond his gifted sad eyes the nicest soul in...
    bublina bublina 18-21, F 14 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    Intellectosexual

    One time, my boyfriend read Kafka out loud to me in bed. It was one of the sexiest things in the world. I am not even kidding. I love boys with sexy brains. I am attracted to men with large vocabularies. I am turned on by guys who like science and classic literature...
    sweaterhead sweaterhead 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2012

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    Because what's more sexier

    than a guy who knows his stuff?! Nothing. People think nerdy guys are really annoying and weird. Okay, yeah, I get if all they do is talk and correct you every other sentence, but what about the INTELLIGENT guys who know more than just book smarts? The guys who get no REAL...
    TheCompletelyMisunderstood TheCompletelyMisunderstood 16-17 3 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Julian Assange is one of the most fascinating

    of people. There's something about him that leaves me in awe. I enjoy hearing him speak. When being questioned, it's like he has the perfect response to everything. The amazing people of the world make it such a better place...
    FoxieRoxa FoxieRoxa 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I Almost Cheated On My Boyfriend. I Regret Not Making A Move...

    I have been in a relationship for 2.5 years now and up until a couple months ago everything was going great. Then we started to have problems in the bedroom and we were only intimate maybe twice a week. I dont feel like that has anything to do with my currect dilemma but its most...
    sasarah sasarah 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    My Professor Fantasy

    Well, I usually like older men (something to do with maturity I think). I have a fiance who's just younger than me, but since attending college I have found myself developing feelings for one of my professors. He's about 50, kind of shaggy and with a cold personality until you...
    Diggie2 Diggie2 18-21 Sep 30, 2012

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    I Can't Imagine Anything Else.

    if i can't have a deep, intelligent, meaningful conversation with a boy, the attraction dissolves almost instantaneously for me. i'm not against immature humor - i'm pretty immature myself in that area. however, when boys can only make stupid jokes and can't get serious about...
    possibly possibly 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 25, 2008

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    Keep Telling My Daughter

    I tell my 16 year old daugher constantly.....PICK THE NERD....PICK THE NERD... forget the football jocks.....forget the hard bodied guys....they will be garage mechanics someday.... (dont get offended you studs on EP....trying to guide my daughter here...she doesnt know...
    Lexus Lexus 36-40, F 22 Responses Nov 20, 2007

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    Please Be Intelligent And Please Do Not Fake It.

    My ex was dumb. Please let the next guy be intelligent, but not like Sheldon Cooper.
    Maggielookin4glenn Maggielookin4glenn 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    Intelligence Is A Big Plus.

    I am attracted to intelligent boys. Always have, and always will. I don't exactly know why, I just am easily drawn to them. Not to sound snotty or like a braggart but I myself am rather intelligent I suppose, I mean I receive that a lot, maybe a little reason for why I am...
    Thelittleblogger Thelittleblogger 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2012

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    Talk Nerdy To Me!

    They say the biggest sexual organ is the brain... I've known some guys that were mentally pretty well endowed!  I have to say I think intellect and intellegence is pretty sexy...  Although to be honest, you wouldn't know that by the guys I end up in relationships with...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 4 Responses Dec 20, 2009

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    I like guys who aren't like

    that "Dumb Jock" type. Although I do like an athletic person, I'd like him so have intelligence and smarts
    shaebears shaebears 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Not Saying I'm A Genius Or Anything But...

    I dated one man who wasn't as smart as me, and it ended up being disastrous. I need someone who is as smart if not smarter than me. I need to be impressed and challenged. I don't like someone who has to prove that they are smarter, or who is pompous and nasty about it. I like...
    shineon09 shineon09 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    I Didnt Know Girls Found Intelligence Attractive

    :-) That's good to know, I figured smart guys were a turn off
    captainsweatpants captainsweatpants 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    "I Am Attracted to Intelligent Guys"

    I love Intelligent Men! There is no doubt about it! I think intelligence and a good sense of humor are two of the most attractive qualities a man can have!
    cmost cmost 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 17, 2007

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    Women/ Men Insight Into People

    For a long time now I kept repeating the same mistakes about how I viewed the world. I kept generalizing things without noticing it. I would be like women like bad guys and start thinking more bad guys existed out there than bad women. I am unsure where I got this crazy belief...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M Nov 27, 2012

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    I Am Attracted to Men Who At L...

    I am attracted to men who at least know how to spell.  I don't know why, but that's how I am.  I just like intelligence in a man.  It would be nice if he were good at math too, because I am horrible at math and he could help me out.  It would be good for...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2007

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    Resume Syndrome

    a friend and i coined the term after we discovered the trend of developing crushes on guys who look so damn fine on paper we overlook the lack of spark, that certain je ne sais quoi. smarts is the new sexy for the with-it girls of today, but some of the shallowness that comes...
    ficklegirl ficklegirl 22-25, F 22 Responses Jul 13, 2007

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    Attracted To Intelligent Guys

    I find intelligence an incredible turn-on. It seems like no matter what the guy looks like, he seems hot if he can hold his own when it comes to an intellectual discussion. It really turns me on if I don't agree with his point, but he can hold up his end of the argument
    kialiaciao kialiaciao 22-25, F 4 Responses May 5, 2012

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    He plays varsity football

    and hockey, but he's also on the honor roll. He likes to party, but he's also committed to his education. He may not be the best looking guy, but he's sweet, funny, athletic, intelligent, and makes me smile. I couldn't ask for a better physics lab partner.
    acidxxxfire acidxxxfire 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    I Am Now Single

    I am now single, as of a few hours ago. Officially. A summer fling, turned into a relationship, and now it is nothing but a few heart broken text messages. This is the second long-term relationship that I've been in, the first one lasted a year and half. This one was only 9...
    SybilxDG SybilxDG 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 8, 2013

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    Calling All Guys Tell It Like It Is

    This is the one and only time you may get the opportunity to really get some insight into women's psyche.Let me school you on some tell all secrets that may in fact save your mental strength for one more year.So if you got a woman in your life, I am talking about daughters...
    Letstalkaboutitin2013 Letstalkaboutitin2013 61-65, F 3 Responses Dec 10, 2011

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    The Guy At The Other School

    I am from a catholic school and so he is, but we are from different schools. He studies at an all-boys school. Before, my school was an all-girls school as well, but the administration changed and so as our school. He is from DBTI and I am from CHST.So, how did I meet him?We are...
    Amandra Amandra 18-21, F Jul 7, 2013

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    Teasing Smartasses

    I can't stand meatheads, so basically I like smart guys but there are a specific bunch that I like. I like the ones that are smartasses but at the same time down to earth and funny not obnoxious. And the ones that I like more are the ones that know how to tease without insulting...
    boriangel101 boriangel101 18-21, F 4 Responses May 13, 2012

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    It's True

    I have a lot of intelligent guy and girl friends and I love when they talk about thing its wow I could listen to you all day long. Is it weird?
    plussizedoll plussizedoll 13-15, F Jul 29, 2013

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    Hi

    I uh, I'm sixteen, and my name is Jarod. Zefram Cochrane was the name of a star trek character who developed warp drive, Zefram is my middle name. But, being sixteen, if there's one thing I've learned its, at least I get teachers and people telling me that I'm smarter than...
    zeframcochrane zeframcochrane 16-17 Oct 7, 2013

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    I love intelligence and knowledge.

    I am drawn to intelligent people. I love having actual intellectual conversations about anything and everything. I could never date someone who is lacking in the brains department. I love someone who challenges my thoughts and ideas.
    beautifulc0nfessions beautifulc0nfessions 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    I dont really like the term nerds

    or geeks but I really think they are so beautiful...... Yes yes I will fall head over heals for A guy that is intelligent. mmmmm
    UnchartedOne UnchartedOne 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 1

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    You're Sexy!

    you're sexy! if u know what u want. you're sexy! if u stand on what u believe. you're sexy! if u know how to make me laugh and cry. you're sexy! if u r good in maths. you're sexy! if u believe in yourself. you're sexy! if u know what brilliant is. in all, i'm attracted to...
    lilbabyYum lilbabyYum 18-21, F Sep 14, 2012

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    A Truth

    A man with a great intellect and a fab body is an absolute attraction. I love good on versatile which....... The repartee of intellect and sexuality is always satisfying.
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F Oct 14, 2013

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    The Most Important Thing

    I'm a fairly intelligent person and I get bored if my partner doesn't challenge me a bit.  How can the conversation be any good if one person is significantly more intelligent than the other?  After a while you would run out of things to talk about.  Intelligence...
    eromreven eromreven 26-30 2 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    If You Dont Hook-up With My Brain, Your Not Getting In My Pants.

    For all you guys out there with the "smooth" one liners and bar talk, keep moving on, I want my men or women to come equipped with a brain somewhere north of the waistline. Here's some tips on pursuing me, they will probably work on most other girls as well, at least those...
    demonpanda demonpanda 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 4, 2011

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    Intelligent

    IN my dreams he is real, we laugh and he smiles, I listen to him TELL me why time travel is possible; why the sky is not really blue I lay in his arms; he holds me while we gaze into the stars...my GENT and me, as we ponder the mysteries of the universe
    imathinkin imathinkin 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    Always Been That Way.

    Since I am nerd, naturally I tend to get attracted to nerdy guys. Almost all of the guys I have ever been "crushing" on were generally smart. I just love brains. I love knowing that he knows so much. For me, looks don't matter. If you are smart, it doesn't matter x)
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    Please Hold Up Your End Of The Conversation!

    !!Originally Posted June 2012. Edited May 2013 for style & content.  Edited November 2013 to remove names of actual people in my life ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This is a really hard story to write because elsewhere on here I think I remember clicking on a "I am nice...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 1, 2012

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    The Smarter the Better

    When I was a teenager, I found myself attracted to the good looking and sometimes not so bright boys. As long as they were cute and somewhat popular it was good enough for me. As I grew older, I found that my taste had changed considerably. I sought out the men who challenged my...
    emptyheart emptyheart 41-45, F 11 Responses Sep 29, 2008

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    Hell Yeah :)

    The title says it all. Of course I'm attracted to intelligent guys. What intelligent girl isn't attracted to an intelligent girl? I just wonder if the intelligent guys are attracted to me. Probably not. Most guys look at me as a sex object because of my "barbie doll" appearance...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 2, 2013

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    Guys That Make Me Think

    I like guys who are open minded but have solid opinions on things they think are important. I like guys who won't judge me for being an idiot, but rather help me to understand. I'm not a huge fan of guys who play devils advocate, be straight with me, tell me what you think...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 13 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    I'm attracted to intelligent guys.

    I love talking to someone who actually understands what I'm saying. There is some people who annoy me when they open their mouths because their sentences don't even make sense or their using a word wrong. I like talking to someone who can actually carry on a conversation and...
    slytherinseeker98 slytherinseeker98 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2013

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    Kitty In Heaven

    Today 9/20/2012 at 4:05 pm the stray kitten that my family took in passed away. We are shocked and very sad, he seemed to be in ok health when we found him. He had many flees but after a good wash and some love and care he drank and ate food just fine. I am thinking it has...
    Jade121 Jade121 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2012

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    Intelligence Is Sexy And Fun And Makes Life Bearable

    Love having intelligent conversations with men,  it can often lead to some of the best sex I have ever had. But it also brings a totally different satisfaction, like having a good meal, a great glass of wine, listening to music that gets you, viewing art, all those things...
    tuscanyblue tuscanyblue 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2010

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    I Like Intelligent, Curious And Open-Minded Guys

    Intelligence isn't necessarily based on one's grades in school, job, the ability to solve incredibly hard equations or quote philosophers word for word. It's also about being open-minded and curious, adventurous. I like it when a guy can show interest in many different thing, may...
    UpInTheSkies UpInTheSkies 18-21, F 2 Responses May 19, 2013

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    Nerd + Intelligent Conversation = Sexy

      Nerd/Geek is defined by the American Heritage dictionary as “a foolish, inept, or unattractive person.  A person who is single-minded or accomplished in a scientific or technical pursuit but is felt to be socially inept.  HMMM I think I can define the...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 74 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    Just My Type

    He is not only intelligent, but passionate, tender, caring, kind, honest and above all he respects me. The perfect man is seductive and attractive, who knows how to penetrate in my soul with a glance. Who praises a simple detail, makes me feel the happiest woman and desired. It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    I Married One

    My husband is a really intelligent man. He went to college at 14. I love listening to him and hearing him figure out so many things at one time. I know I have learned a lot since we have been together. And when it comes to computers I haven't seen him not be able to fix it. That...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    Smart High On That List.

    I love a smart guy who adores to read! It's definitely a must!
    Zarifa Zarifa 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    Intelligent And Gifted

    And I fear it's not an option. Otherwise i'm bored, and it can't last. But more in depth, we're not the same then. There's a gap, not in terms of abilities, but in terms of understanding. Even with someone who is ultimately kind and patient, and tolerant. The communication is...
    WickedScullyOfTheWest WickedScullyOfTheWest 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2013

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    I have always been straight. I have a girlfriend. But Recently I found that I have an attraction to guys. I don't know why, and it's something that I guess have always been there...
    KingKristopher KingKristopher 22-25, M Apr 2

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    I don't know if "thugs" is the best term for my experience but.. I'm attracted to guys that I wish I wasn't. I'm attracted to criminals and drug addicts, guys with a lot if baggage...
    josieyup josieyup 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Is it normal for me to be attracted to guys around 3-5 years older than me? I'm 15 , 16 in September but I'm rather quite and mature for my age. I just feel like older guys are...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    Teenagers are super immature and I honestly am not at all attracted to them ( I know I'm one of them) I usually am attracted to guys 18-23
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Just because they have the higher possibility that they're my type. I like people who have sociopathic traits or anti-social behavior. They're so attractive to me, that why I'm...
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I am 100% more attracted to guys who can make me laugh and smile even when I'm at my worst. <3
    Celstie Celstie 13-15, F Apr 14

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