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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Guys

Girls (or other guys) that can't resist a geek 4,389 People

    I do not care how hot you are,

    if you're an idiot, it is annoying to be around you.
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F Sep 27, 2014

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    Seriously I don't care how good looking you are

    (maybe a little bit) if you're not just a bit smart you are out of the question.
    TeresaChanaki TeresaChanaki 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I remember having a crush on this smart guy

    from an all-boys-school. I was so attracted to him yet my friends can't understand me. My friends could be shallow sometimes. I admit he's not the handsome type but he's cute and when he talks about stuff it's like a melody to my brain. I am so impressed how he knows a lot of...
    Ranessa Ranessa 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    There is nothing like having a conversation

    with a man who is intelligent, especially when they are so enthusiastic about a specific topic. I especially like when a man is smarter than I am. I like to learn things from other people and most of the men I have come into contact with do not have much intelligence. It's just...
    Amd81491 Amd81491 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    My Professor Fantasy

    Well, I usually like older men (something to do with maturity I think). I have a fiance who's just younger than me, but since attending college I have found myself developing feelings for one of my professors. He's about 50, kind of shaggy and with a cold personality until you...
    Diggie2 Diggie2 18-21 Sep 30, 2012

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    I like smart, confident men.

    I can't talk to people of lower intelligence for too long
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Sep 27, 2014

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    smacro112 smacro112 18-21, F 52 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F Nov 19, 2014

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    I have come to notice

    that I have no "type" I was just talking to my office mate about an hour or so ago now about men we like and it hit me I have NO type....at...all. My ex was always the tight skinny jeans skater kind of guy, a guy that I am seeing on and off he is always in polos and nice jeans...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    ByeEPfuckoff ByeEPfuckoff 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    Well, I finally realized

    that guys with six pack, into machoism do not attract me at all. I can't and won't even date guys if they are not intelligent and do not have interesting view on life.
    nataliawww nataliawww 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    Julian Assange is one of the most fascinating

    of people. There's something about him that leaves me in awe. I enjoy hearing him speak. When being questioned, it's like he has the perfect response to everything. The amazing people of the world make it such a better place...
    FoxieRoxa FoxieRoxa 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2014

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    You could be the sexiest guy on the planet

    but if you can't hold an intelligent conversation with me, I don't give a damn.
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 3

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    I Can't Imagine Anything Else.

    if i can't have a deep, intelligent, meaningful conversation with a boy, the attraction dissolves almost instantaneously for me. i'm not against immature humor - i'm pretty immature myself in that area. however, when boys can only make stupid jokes and can't get serious about...
    possibly possibly 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 25, 2008

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    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F Jan 13

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    My requirements for any guy to ask me out

    and I will definitely say YES!!!❤️: They have to be intelligent, brown eyes, brown hair, is a runner, is fit, nice, have known him for years, doesn't curse as much, a gentlemen, has to be white (not racist or anything) 😊
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2014

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    HELL YES! Nothing is sexier

    than an intelligent man! *DROOL*
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 26, 2014

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    If any gay guys want to talk about science

    or philosophy, let me know!
    CreativeBi CreativeBi 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    If you're very handsome

    and intelligent, I will bake you cookies and love you forever.
    braeberntoo123 braeberntoo123 16-17, F 3 Responses May 12, 2014

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    Your Mind Turns Me On

    What can I say intelligence is the GREATEST aphrodisiac in the world....at least to me. An intelligent man is the sexiest man in the world especially the one's who don't know that they are sexy. you know the kind of men (and women for those of the male gender) who have a...
    Caramelicious Caramelicious 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    Resume Syndrome

    a friend and i coined the term after we discovered the trend of developing crushes on guys who look so damn fine on paper we overlook the lack of spark, that certain je ne sais quoi. smarts is the new sexy for the with-it girls of today, but some of the shallowness that comes...
    ficklegirl ficklegirl 22-25, F 22 Responses Jul 13, 2007

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    I swear I develop a crush on every fcking guy

    who is intelligent and thinks out of the box, idk why but it's kinda sexy
    crazycatgirl0 crazycatgirl0 16-17, F Dec 21, 2014

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    I love Thoreau and Dante!

    !! Einstein's theories are awesome too!!! A math and science guy with passion for reading will be my favorite guy ever :)
    Driftingminds Driftingminds 16-17, F Aug 20, 2014

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    I love guys that understand the difference

    between sarcasm and irony
    smacro112 smacro112 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Anyone want to chat? Females I go

    for either assume because of the way I look that I'm going to be an airhead or vice versa, without being mean; they are airheads. Quite difficult to have an intellectually stimulating conversation with someone that can barely write their own name but can list every brand of...
    v10l3nt v10l3nt 22-25, M May 30, 2014

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    Just My Type

    He is not only intelligent, but passionate, tender, caring, kind, honest and above all he respects me. The perfect man is seductive and attractive, who knows how to penetrate in my soul with a glance. Who praises a simple detail, makes me feel the happiest woman and desired. It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    Calling All Guys Tell It Like It Is

    This is the one and only time you may get the opportunity to really get some insight into women's psyche.Let me school you on some tell all secrets that may in fact save your mental strength for one more year.So if you got a woman in your life, I am talking about daughters...
    Letstalkaboutitin2013 Letstalkaboutitin2013 61-65, F 3 Responses Dec 10, 2011

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    It doesn't even matter what you look like,

    gentlemen. A brilliant mind goes a long way with this lady.
    loveVSlust loveVSlust 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    Because what's more sexier

    than a guy who knows his stuff?! Nothing. People think nerdy guys are really annoying and weird. Okay, yeah, I get if all they do is talk and correct you every other sentence, but what about the INTELLIGENT guys who know more than just book smarts? The guys who get no REAL...
    TheCompletelyMisunderstood TheCompletelyMisunderstood 16-17 3 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    mia235 mia235 13-15, F Dec 18, 2014

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    Guys don't out up with 60 messages a day

    and hacked into all their social sites...they dump these women. .it's too toxic
    simmytwit44 simmytwit44 51-55, F Nov 24, 2014

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    Most women really don't have a clue

    that smart men ( the ones I've met anyway! Lol!) enjoy the company of nasty sexy women like me?!? Especially when they explain Einsteins spooky theory...lol!
    Shewolfiie69 Shewolfiie69 36-40, F 35 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Nerd + Intelligent Conversation = Sexy

      Nerd/Geek is defined by the American Heritage dictionary as “a foolish, inept, or unattractive person.  A person who is single-minded or accomplished in a scientific or technical pursuit but is felt to be socially inept.  HMMM I think I can define the...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 75 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    There are so many intelligent guys out there,

    yet they are afraid to be called 'nerds' for showing their intelligence. They want to be manly. Honestly, I think intelligence is far more sexy than a muscular/fit man anyday.
    blondequeen96 blondequeen96 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    he is intelligent more

    than I think .... ...... he is so smart....I like him ,he is Funny But he is older than me ,I'm 20 & he is 33 ....I'm waiting .... I'm afraid so so much .....it's love?
    halyona halyona 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    If You Dont Hook-up With My Brain, Your Not Getting In My Pants.

    For all you guys out there with the "smooth" one liners and bar talk, keep moving on, I want my men or women to come equipped with a brain somewhere north of the waistline. Here's some tips on pursuing me, they will probably work on most other girls as well, at least those...
    demonpanda demonpanda 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 4, 2011

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    I want an intelligent guy!

    the kind guys who tells me random facts, follows world events, discusses philosophy, knows computers, plays video games! that would be the perfect guy *sigh* intelligence makes me horny!
    xxdublifexx xxdublifexx 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I Found One

    Am I attracted to intelligent or intellectual men? Probably both. I found boy I was dreaming of weeks ago. Intelligent, intellectual, so clever, but unhappy. The man who was broken because of love, because of this world. But I saw beyond his gifted sad eyes the nicest soul in...
    bublina bublina 18-21, F 14 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    Young guys these days only live

    for smoking weed, cutting school, getting drunk, and going to jail and it seems as if they're proud of it. And some of these girls find it so attractive because they love "bad boys". I honestly hate guys like that, I prefer a guy who stays in school and has a future going for...
    Neshaxo Neshaxo 16-17, F 3 Responses May 9, 2014

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    Shereen84 Shereen84 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    Please Hold Up Your End Of The Conversation!

    !!Originally Posted June 2012. Edited May 2013 for style & content.  Edited November 2013 to remove names of actual people in my life ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This is a really hard story to write because elsewhere on here I think I remember clicking on a "I am nice...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 11 Responses Jun 1, 2012

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    Teasing Smartasses

    I can't stand meatheads, so basically I like smart guys but there are a specific bunch that I like. I like the ones that are smartasses but at the same time down to earth and funny not obnoxious. And the ones that I like more are the ones that know how to tease without insulting...
    boriangel101 boriangel101 18-21, F 4 Responses May 13, 2012

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    Not Saying I'm A Genius Or Anything But...

    I dated one man who wasn't as smart as me, and it ended up being disastrous. I need someone who is as smart if not smarter than me. I need to be impressed and challenged. I don't like someone who has to prove that they are smarter, or who is pompous and nasty about it. I like...
    shineon09 shineon09 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    i don't know but smart guys are

    so sexy, you can do a proper discussion with them , i really like to talk to them
    sheeranaslove sheeranaslove 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I'm attracted to intelligence. No the book smart type of intelligence. I could care less whether you've gone to college or how much money you make because of it. I like intelligent...
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    Ok so Im bored and cant sleep. I like playing beach volleyball, watching anime, night time, weird dreams, shopping, intelligent conversation, cooking and I will be 16 in April.Let...
    JennyRose2 JennyRose2 13-15, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    There is something about an intelligent woman that makes me happy. The ability of someone with intelligence that can actually keep me interested in a conversation is amazing. It is...
    chrissed47 chrissed47 18-21, M Feb 14

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    Maybe it's because I can have deep converstaions with intelligent men, and they won't end.
    Amusical135 Amusical135 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I get really excited when I meet a really intelligent man .its so sexy .you're thinking my my sir what a big brain you have....it keeps me on my game as well I definitely read...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 3