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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Men

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    Intelligent, Not Arrogant

    I love to hear a man talk knowledgeably (is that a word??) about something.  and I mean something he has had experience with and knows it inside and out. I can't stand men who THINK they're smart and smarter than everyone around them.  Arrogance turns me off and makes...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    if I Ever Were to Be Attrac...

    if i ever were to be attracted to a man (and that's not impossible) they would eb intelligent. the'd have to be. becasue they'd have to interest me enough. i haven;t yet met a man who interested me for more than five seconds let alone the amount f time it would take to get...
    thegreatsmoky thegreatsmoky 18-21 4 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    I Need Someone With Substance

    Okay. I can probably have a good conversation with anybody, but the best conversations are those shared with people who have substance and depth in their souls. That said, i wouldn't just want soemone intelligent---i want someone with a heart. Logic is good--but there must be...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    Time Is On Your Side

    We may become anxious 2find or b found by the Love of our life. Yet we must b patient & enjoy each moment leading up 2the day that we are met by our COMPLIMENTARY SOLDIER OF LOVE. I AM CONTENT WITH THE IDEA OF BEING ALONE & I AM ENTHUSIATIC ABOUT SHARING THIS JOURNEY WITH A LOVE...
    AMOREternal AMOREternal 31-35, F Apr 3, 2012

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men, They're my type, Women too,Intelligence, I like it.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Aug 20, 2012

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    What Is A Man With Intelligence?

    It doesn't have to be book-smarts or street-smarts. You don't have to have the IQ of a genius, or even close...In fact, I prefer you don't. I don't like cocky, and I despise arrogance. To me, intelligence is the ability to learn, to acquire knowledge, to learn from your...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    If He Can Beat Me In Chess Than Alrighty!

    I admire some one with intelligence and wit no matter the gender but yes, I am attracted to intelligent men. A man who knows what to do, can think for himself, knows what he's doing, can hold conversations that may be intense, philosophic, wise, interesting, able to think outside...
    Marowit Marowit 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    What Is That Saying...

    "Seduce my mind and you can have my body"? I don't know if that is completely right, but it fits me absolute. What is it about danger and intelligence that turns me, and most assuredly most women, on? I have dated a history professor and an under cover narcotics agent that goes...
    desertsage desertsage 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    Soul Deep

    They say the brain is the most important sex organ.  That is undoubtedly true.  I cannot say I haven't settled for less.  I've had booty calls and one night stands with men who have somewhat lackluster mental faculties.  Those men had other more visual and tactile charms...
    EternalCynic EternalCynic 41-45, F Nov 6, 2011

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    Women appreciate a good body just

    as much as men do – and some of us also enjoy sex as much as men do.What captures our attention and are really turned on by is your wit, your intellect, your drive, your warmth, and your strength.These are the qualities that cause women to truly desire a man.
    BeautifulAbigail BeautifulAbigail 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 20

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    Would you have heated arguments about stupid

    things (Sandwiches are supposed to be triangular!) with me just for the fun of it? Would you learn a new language with me so we could whisper exciting sweet nothings to each other every morning? Would you help me brush up on my geometric and vector calculus to pass the time...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Please No More "pull Tab To Open"

    When I meet a man, I kind of test out the waters to see if there is intellectual compatability. Your hormones could be jumping up and down at his physical appearance but if he has the intelligence of a small home appliance it's a gonna be a long night. Don't get me wrong, I'm...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    I'm Attracted to My Husband

    Inside and out! He's the best hubby I can ever imagine being with. He's VERY intelligent and has taught me many things. He's changed my life for the best and filled my mind with alot of useful information. I was never attracted to non intelligent guys. My husband has to be the...
    GreenEyedBeauty GreenEyedBeauty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    It's Like Foreplay

    I love intelligent men. They remind you that you are more than just body parts. They stimulate my mind and make me take a better look at myself. To me an interesting, intelligent conversation is like foreplay. Most men say vulgar things to me but an intelligent man sees I'm more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    I Love Intelligent Confident Young Cute Men

    I magnate to men who are young and cocky clever as hell and so confident it makes you, as a woman forget that you are not so clever and you don't care anyway... if that makes sense.... I love young clever smart *** guys who are lovely to woman but have a cocky attitude like...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    Pleasure Derived From Intelligence

    in·tel·li·gent Adjective /inˈtelijənt/ Synonyms: adjective: clever, brainy, smart, sagacious, bright, wise, sensible, knowing, shrewd (of a device, machine, or building) Able to vary its state or action in response to varying situations, varying requirements, and past...
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2011

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    I like a smart guy, a guy who's

    even a little nerdy. It's pretty hot. But I don't like the cocky smart guys who act like they're smarter than you and everyone else. That's a turn off. I'm a smart chick, but I do have not so smart moments, and I need someone who can laugh with me when I have a blonde moment...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Number One Quality

    I'm not one for casual dating; I only go out with people who I feel some kind of resonance with.And that brings me to intelligence.  I'm extremely smart.  We're talking off-the-charts in verbal areas.  So one of the first things I notice about a person is their brains.  Do...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2011

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    You know what's sexy?

    A man who has goals and ambitions in life and not only retains these goals, but he also pursues them until they evolve or are reached! Damn. That's sexy. Also a man who loves to dance with his woman at every opportunity just to have a reason to hold her and move with her...
    icandoit13 icandoit13 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Yes Very Much

    I don't know what women see in dumb jocks. Being an idiot is so not attractive. I'm attracted to men who actually have a brain and know how to use it. What the hell could you talk to an uneducated nimrod about anyway. Besides the sex you'd probably have nothing else.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2011

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men,There’s nothin’ better,They know how,No mucking around,That’s my type,Knowledgeable,Intelligent,Mature,They’ve been around,Know about life,What’s right and wrong,They’ll see you through,And never let you down.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    Well of Course. ...

    Well of course. But I don't put down men who are not intelligent, because my view of intelligent is not on who has more academic skills. I judge people by how they treat others, not on how much smarter they are than others.
    ladybaby ladybaby 61-65, F Apr 16, 2009

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    By "attracted" I don't mean I want to **** you.

    I really probably don't. What I mean is that a man with a great mind can intrigue me enough to draw me in and keep me there for a while. Sure, there is an attraction. Noone said ot had to be that sexual. I just really crave a decent conversation. It helps if you're cute to look...
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    A Different Kind Of Turn On

    Over the so many years that I have been chatting with men, I have had different kinds of chat experiences. Some were memorable, some were forgettable. What makes a chat memorable and something to look forward to is when there is a healthy two-way exchange which is how any...
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 51-55, F 51 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Smart Men

    I love a man that is smart wiyj a big heart. I lok back now on my life and think wow..............I was stupid for not realizing this side of me earlier
    Candyapple1234 Candyapple1234 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    They simply pick you long

    before you're ripe and know exactly how to squeeze the juicy out of you. Enough said.
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    copelandspring copelandspring 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    sex is so much better when he doesn't allow me to think! take over! tell me what to do as long as we are both getting pleasure
    hzleyes5 hzleyes5 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5

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    I have always found myself attracted to men and women both growing up. Just recently I found out I am bisexual and I do not regret how it happened.
    MrsGrisham MrsGrisham 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Yes I am. I used to deny it a lot. But I'm also attracted to men. I remember the time I kissed a girl. She was really good. We used to go around the street corners and snog all the...
    TheFoxyWolf TheFoxyWolf 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 28

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    I just realised that I am attracted to men with green/blue eyes. :)
    CtKate27 CtKate27 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F Nov 19

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    I've met a wonderful woman at the archery club a few weeks back. Last saturday however was the first time I actually talked to her. (She was absent) And I was surprised at how calm...
    Junkard Junkard 22-25, M 6 Responses Nov 9

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    I recently ended a relationship with a guy who was incredibly intelligent. He truly unlocked my mind and showed me how to expand it. Now he's not here, I constantly crave...
    natmong natmong 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 31

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    So... I met a guy on here that I want to meet in person and possibly have an affair with ... Is that crazy? He's married which doesn't bother me. I like married men.
    June3053 June3053 51-55, F 11 Responses Nov 3

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    It's difficult to picture myself with someone whom I wouldn't be able to have and maintain a thought provoking and/or open minded conversation. Someone with a sensible wit and easy...
    Justjonathan Justjonathan 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 11

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    I am intelligent because: I got a job. It's part of my program at school to get real-life experience that corresponds to our subject program; students who can't get a job in a...
    huijae huijae 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15

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    I don't care about your fit body, or the size of your genitals. Show me your mind, let's have an intelligent conversation about the wonders of life.
    anonymouslymysterious anonymouslymysterious 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 2

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    something about a man who can hold an intelligent conversation that I just love. especially if he can dive inside my mind tear down all my defenses and push my buttons. it takes...
    PsychoBitch69 PsychoBitch69 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 10

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    an intelligent guy is a challenging guy. it makes things a hell of a lot more fun.
    pikapup17 pikapup17 18-21 1 Response Nov 10

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    An intelligent woman who is not up herself is highly attractive to me. A woman that can converse about a wide range of subjects, who is erudite and knowledgeable, who enjoys good...
    ThePhilogynist ThePhilogynist 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 12

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    I wish someone would talk to me who is emotionally intelligent and loves psychology
    jacqueline212 jacqueline212 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 13

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    I'm an intelligent woman! If you're in this group you might enjoy a conversation with moi. :)
    Elayla Elayla 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 15

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    I'm 17, and when I was 16, this boy 2 years older than me helped me out with my essay. I found out how intelligent he was, and instantly fell for him. I sat him down on my bed...
    RachaelBaby RachaelBaby 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    So I know I'm intelligent but knowledge still leaves me lonely at night. Is there any ladies out there looking for a guy like me? A guy willing to fall in love with your roots...
    ash1303 ash1303 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    There are so many intelligent guys out there, yet they are afraid to be called 'nerds' for showing their intelligence. They want to be manly. Honestly, I think intelligence is far...
    blondequeen96 blondequeen96 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    An intelligent, beautiful woman with dirty mind that makes you lough non stop should be considered a ******* treasure.
    jojo0915 jojo0915 31-35, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    Honestly I'm one of those people who don't care if your a size 6 or a 26 I'm only really attracted to other gamers, geeks, intelligent or passionate people I've found that not only...
    fewersafe fewersafe 16-17, F Nov 20

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