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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Men

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    Yes Very Much

    I don't know what women see in dumb jocks. Being an idiot is so not attractive. I'm attracted to men who actually have a brain and know how to use it. What the hell could you talk to an uneducated nimrod about anyway. Besides the sex you'd probably have nothing else.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2011

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    If He Can Beat Me In Chess Than Alrighty!

    I admire some one with intelligence and wit no matter the gender but yes, I am attracted to intelligent men. A man who knows what to do, can think for himself, knows what he's doing, can hold conversations that may be intense, philosophic, wise, interesting, able to think outside...
    Marowit Marowit 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    It's Like Foreplay

    I love intelligent men. They remind you that you are more than just body parts. They stimulate my mind and make me take a better look at myself. To me an interesting, intelligent conversation is like foreplay. Most men say vulgar things to me but an intelligent man sees I'm more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men,There’s nothin’ better,They know how,No mucking around,That’s my type,Knowledgeable,Intelligent,Mature,They’ve been around,Know about life,What’s right and wrong,They’ll see you through,And never let you down.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    I Love Intelligent Confident Young Cute Men

    I magnate to men who are young and cocky clever as hell and so confident it makes you, as a woman forget that you are not so clever and you don't care anyway... if that makes sense.... I love young clever smart *** guys who are lovely to woman but have a cocky attitude like...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    What Is A Man With Intelligence?

    It doesn't have to be book-smarts or street-smarts. You don't have to have the IQ of a genius, or even close...In fact, I prefer you don't. I don't like cocky, and I despise arrogance. To me, intelligence is the ability to learn, to acquire knowledge, to learn from your...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Soul Deep

    They say the brain is the most important sex organ.  That is undoubtedly true.  I cannot say I haven't settled for less.  I've had booty calls and one night stands with men who have somewhat lackluster mental faculties.  Those men had other more visual and tactile charms...
    EternalCynic EternalCynic 41-45, F Nov 6, 2011

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    Pleasure Derived From Intelligence

    in·tel·li·gent Adjective /inˈtelijənt/ Synonyms: adjective: clever, brainy, smart, sagacious, bright, wise, sensible, knowing, shrewd (of a device, machine, or building) Able to vary its state or action in response to varying situations, varying requirements, and past...
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2011

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    They simply pick you long

    before you're ripe and know exactly how to squeeze the juicy out of you. Enough said.
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    What Is That Saying...

    "Seduce my mind and you can have my body"? I don't know if that is completely right, but it fits me absolute. What is it about danger and intelligence that turns me, and most assuredly most women, on? I have dated a history professor and an under cover narcotics agent that goes...
    desertsage desertsage 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    I Need Someone With Substance

    Okay. I can probably have a good conversation with anybody, but the best conversations are those shared with people who have substance and depth in their souls. That said, i wouldn't just want soemone intelligent---i want someone with a heart. Logic is good--but there must be...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    I like a smart guy, a guy who's

    even a little nerdy. It's pretty hot. But I don't like the cocky smart guys who act like they're smarter than you and everyone else. That's a turn off. I'm a smart chick, but I do have not so smart moments, and I need someone who can laugh with me when I have a blonde moment...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm Attracted to My Husband

    Inside and out! He's the best hubby I can ever imagine being with. He's VERY intelligent and has taught me many things. He's changed my life for the best and filled my mind with alot of useful information. I was never attracted to non intelligent guys. My husband has to be the...
    GreenEyedBeauty GreenEyedBeauty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    Please No More "pull Tab To Open"

    When I meet a man, I kind of test out the waters to see if there is intellectual compatability. Your hormones could be jumping up and down at his physical appearance but if he has the intelligence of a small home appliance it's a gonna be a long night. Don't get me wrong, I'm...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    if I Ever Were to Be Attrac...

    if i ever were to be attracted to a man (and that's not impossible) they would eb intelligent. the'd have to be. becasue they'd have to interest me enough. i haven;t yet met a man who interested me for more than five seconds let alone the amount f time it would take to get...
    thegreatsmoky thegreatsmoky 18-21 4 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    Intelligence :)

    I love an intellectual man.I find it so attractive when they share knowledge and insight.a definite quality I like :)
    mysterious77 mysterious77 16-17 1 Response Jan 14, 2013

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    Number One Quality

    I'm not one for casual dating; I only go out with people who I feel some kind of resonance with.And that brings me to intelligence.  I'm extremely smart.  We're talking off-the-charts in verbal areas.  So one of the first things I notice about a person is their brains.  Do...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2011

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men, They're my type, Women too,Intelligence, I like it.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Aug 20, 2012

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    Smart Men

    I love a man that is smart wiyj a big heart. I lok back now on my life and think wow..............I was stupid for not realizing this side of me earlier
    Candyapple1234 Candyapple1234 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    A Different Kind Of Turn On

    Over the so many years that I have been chatting with men, I have had different kinds of chat experiences. Some were memorable, some were forgettable. What makes a chat memorable and something to look forward to is when there is a healthy two-way exchange which is how any...
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 46-50, F 42 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Time Is On Your Side

    We may become anxious 2find or b found by the Love of our life. Yet we must b patient & enjoy each moment leading up 2the day that we are met by our COMPLIMENTARY SOLDIER OF LOVE. I AM CONTENT WITH THE IDEA OF BEING ALONE & I AM ENTHUSIATIC ABOUT SHARING THIS JOURNEY WITH A LOVE...
    AMOREternal AMOREternal 31-35, F Apr 3, 2012

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    By "attracted" I don't mean I want to **** you.

    I really probably don't. What I mean is that a man with a great mind can intrigue me enough to draw me in and keep me there for a while. Sure, there is an attraction. Noone said ot had to be that sexual. I just really crave a decent conversation. It helps if you're cute to look...
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    Well of Course. ...

    Well of course. But I don't put down men who are not intelligent, because my view of intelligent is not on who has more academic skills. I judge people by how they treat others, not on how much smarter they are than others.
    ladybaby ladybaby 61-65, F Apr 16, 2009

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    Intelligent, Not Arrogant

    I love to hear a man talk knowledgeably (is that a word??) about something.  and I mean something he has had experience with and knows it inside and out. I can't stand men who THINK they're smart and smarter than everyone around them.  Arrogance turns me off and makes...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    I am attracted to intelligent men
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    Well I also like men who are really fit and positive. I also like guys with nice big arms and a lil hairy chest🙈👌😏 Also shy and awkward like me
    PhoenixSky PhoenixSky 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    i just think they give out this aura that is just so desirable and i like it when they can keep up a converstation. i just find it s e x y especially if they have glasses on
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    As hot as a guy can be, without brains, he's nothing
    abercrombie99 abercrombie99 13-15, M Jul 10

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    I joined this group a long time ago and while I knew it was true it's only recently that I have really begun to ponder this topic. I have been reviewing all the men/boys I've been...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    Hi all. I am 23 years old and have been attracted to she males since I was about 18. This past weekend I finally got the courage to meet one and I ended up giving her head. I just...
    kd1721 kd1721 22-25, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I am attracted to older men in there 30's or 40's I know it's strange but I like them and I am very horny. ;)
    Beckyy14 Beckyy14 13-15, F 10 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I have no idea why this is. But nothing in this world gets me going more than an intelligent female. I guess I have rare tastes seeing how few there are in the world today. As a...
    1stepforward3shovesback 1stepforward3shovesback 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 28

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Well I'm an older guy attracted to young women not girls. Before anyone jumps to conclusions and thinks I'm a pervert young woman and attraction need to be defined. For me the line...
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I won't completely block someone out if they are not intelligent, I may do that if they are a total idiot about common logic. Also attraction does not always have to be in the way...
    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Looks are also very important. Because you cant like someone you find unattractive. So when intelligent people talk smart. I find it very cute.
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Intelligent mature woman/girls are a huge turn on. I would rather not talk to someone who can't hold a conservation or is too immature to handle certain topics.
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M Jul 16

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    I believe everyone is intelligent in their own way. I love a guy who is passionate about something he truly knows all about.
    autumnwinds20 autumnwinds20 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Im attracted to smart woman that try to work..Im trying to find one that can understand me better...
    jennifertanner jennifertanner 26-30, M Jul 14

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    I have people close to me in my life who have mental illness. I work on the business side of mental healthcare. Right now I am incredibly frustrated with someone near and dear to...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    I find myself to be attracted to older men. Something about them is quite appealing(who are single of course) and I find myself to be indifferent towards men my age. It may because...
    StephFred StephFred 18-21, F 47 Responses Jul 6

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    As I can remember I have been attracted to older men like in there 40's I have no clue why my parents are older then each other. I think it's just older men treat woman right and...
    Bianca214 Bianca214 18-21, F 26 Responses Jul 10

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    I've always been attracted to older men. 40+ does the trick ;-).
    aladyindeed aladyindeed 22-25, F 14 Responses Jun 30

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    I'm attracted to white men ;)
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 7

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    I am sixteen, but for some reason I find older men attractive. Looks dont matter. I think its because they are more mature, have more experience, and know how to talk to women...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 22 Responses Jul 7

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    I also am attracted to both men and women. I am a feminine woman married to a man. Both sexes turn me on, but I LOVE lesbian ****!!!
    Gdsgirl Gdsgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I don't know why I am attracted to older men I just am they turn me on big time. ;)
    Oldmenlover Oldmenlover 22-25, F 37 Responses Jul 14

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    I am a 15 year old girl and I always have been attracted to older men. I'm currently, talking to one, who flirts back. He is 28. It's just annoying that it is illegal, because I...
    CatalinaPetrova CatalinaPetrova 13-15, F 7 Responses Jul 14

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    Older men are hot. I'm extremely attracted to them and love being around and with them.
    Creamytoppings Creamytoppings 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago