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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Men

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men, They're my type, Women too,Intelligence, I like it.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Aug 20, 2012

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    Well of Course. ...

    Well of course. But I don't put down men who are not intelligent, because my view of intelligent is not on who has more academic skills. I judge people by how they treat others, not on how much smarter they are than others.
    ladybaby ladybaby 61-65, F Apr 16, 2009

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    You know what's sexy?

    A man who has goals and ambitions in life and not only retains these goals, but he also pursues them until they evolve or are reached! Damn. That's sexy. Also a man who loves to dance with his woman at every opportunity just to have a reason to hold her and move with her...
    icandoit13 icandoit13 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I like a smart guy, a guy who's

    even a little nerdy. It's pretty hot. But I don't like the cocky smart guys who act like they're smarter than you and everyone else. That's a turn off. I'm a smart chick, but I do have not so smart moments, and I need someone who can laugh with me when I have a blonde moment...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men,There’s nothin’ better,They know how,No mucking around,That’s my type,Knowledgeable,Intelligent,Mature,They’ve been around,Know about life,What’s right and wrong,They’ll see you through,And never let you down.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    Please No More "pull Tab To Open"

    When I meet a man, I kind of test out the waters to see if there is intellectual compatability. Your hormones could be jumping up and down at his physical appearance but if he has the intelligence of a small home appliance it's a gonna be a long night. Don't get me wrong, I'm...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    Soul Deep

    They say the brain is the most important sex organ.  That is undoubtedly true.  I cannot say I haven't settled for less.  I've had booty calls and one night stands with men who have somewhat lackluster mental faculties.  Those men had other more visual and tactile charms...
    EternalCynic EternalCynic 41-45, F Nov 6, 2011

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    What Is A Man With Intelligence?

    It doesn't have to be book-smarts or street-smarts. You don't have to have the IQ of a genius, or even close...In fact, I prefer you don't. I don't like cocky, and I despise arrogance. To me, intelligence is the ability to learn, to acquire knowledge, to learn from your...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    What Is That Saying...

    "Seduce my mind and you can have my body"? I don't know if that is completely right, but it fits me absolute. What is it about danger and intelligence that turns me, and most assuredly most women, on? I have dated a history professor and an under cover narcotics agent that goes...
    desertsage desertsage 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    Yes Very Much

    I don't know what women see in dumb jocks. Being an idiot is so not attractive. I'm attracted to men who actually have a brain and know how to use it. What the hell could you talk to an uneducated nimrod about anyway. Besides the sex you'd probably have nothing else.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2011

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    Smart Men

    I love a man that is smart wiyj a big heart. I lok back now on my life and think wow..............I was stupid for not realizing this side of me earlier
    Candyapple1234 Candyapple1234 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    Time Is On Your Side

    We may become anxious 2find or b found by the Love of our life. Yet we must b patient & enjoy each moment leading up 2the day that we are met by our COMPLIMENTARY SOLDIER OF LOVE. I AM CONTENT WITH THE IDEA OF BEING ALONE & I AM ENTHUSIATIC ABOUT SHARING THIS JOURNEY WITH A LOVE...
    AMOREternal AMOREternal 31-35, F Apr 3, 2012

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    Number One Quality

    I'm not one for casual dating; I only go out with people who I feel some kind of resonance with.And that brings me to intelligence.  I'm extremely smart.  We're talking off-the-charts in verbal areas.  So one of the first things I notice about a person is their brains.  Do...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2011

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    They simply pick you long

    before you're ripe and know exactly how to squeeze the juicy out of you. Enough said.
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I'm Attracted to My Husband

    Inside and out! He's the best hubby I can ever imagine being with. He's VERY intelligent and has taught me many things. He's changed my life for the best and filled my mind with alot of useful information. I was never attracted to non intelligent guys. My husband has to be the...
    GreenEyedBeauty GreenEyedBeauty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    Would you have heated arguments about stupid

    things (Sandwiches are supposed to be triangular!) with me just for the fun of it? Would you learn a new language with me so we could whisper exciting sweet nothings to each other every morning? Would you help me brush up on my geometric and vector calculus to pass the time...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    If He Can Beat Me In Chess Than Alrighty!

    I admire some one with intelligence and wit no matter the gender but yes, I am attracted to intelligent men. A man who knows what to do, can think for himself, knows what he's doing, can hold conversations that may be intense, philosophic, wise, interesting, able to think outside...
    Marowit Marowit 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    I Need Someone With Substance

    Okay. I can probably have a good conversation with anybody, but the best conversations are those shared with people who have substance and depth in their souls. That said, i wouldn't just want soemone intelligent---i want someone with a heart. Logic is good--but there must be...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    if I Ever Were to Be Attrac...

    if i ever were to be attracted to a man (and that's not impossible) they would eb intelligent. the'd have to be. becasue they'd have to interest me enough. i haven;t yet met a man who interested me for more than five seconds let alone the amount f time it would take to get...
    thegreatsmoky thegreatsmoky 18-21 4 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    By "attracted" I don't mean I want to **** you.

    I really probably don't. What I mean is that a man with a great mind can intrigue me enough to draw me in and keep me there for a while. Sure, there is an attraction. Noone said ot had to be that sexual. I just really crave a decent conversation. It helps if you're cute to look...
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I Love Intelligent Confident Young Cute Men

    I magnate to men who are young and cocky clever as hell and so confident it makes you, as a woman forget that you are not so clever and you don't care anyway... if that makes sense.... I love young clever smart *** guys who are lovely to woman but have a cocky attitude like...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    Intelligent, Not Arrogant

    I love to hear a man talk knowledgeably (is that a word??) about something.  and I mean something he has had experience with and knows it inside and out. I can't stand men who THINK they're smart and smarter than everyone around them.  Arrogance turns me off and makes...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    It's Like Foreplay

    I love intelligent men. They remind you that you are more than just body parts. They stimulate my mind and make me take a better look at myself. To me an interesting, intelligent conversation is like foreplay. Most men say vulgar things to me but an intelligent man sees I'm more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    A Different Kind Of Turn On

    Over the so many years that I have been chatting with men, I have had different kinds of chat experiences. Some were memorable, some were forgettable. What makes a chat memorable and something to look forward to is when there is a healthy two-way exchange which is how any...
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 46-50, F 41 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Pleasure Derived From Intelligence

    in·tel·li·gent Adjective /inˈtelijənt/ Synonyms: adjective: clever, brainy, smart, sagacious, bright, wise, sensible, knowing, shrewd (of a device, machine, or building) Able to vary its state or action in response to varying situations, varying requirements, and past...
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I have come to notice that I have no "type" I was just talking to my office mate about an hour or so ago now about men we like and it hit me I have NO type....at...all. My ex was...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Intelligent woman love a guy with a confidence. Be careful, she has the capability of distinguishing between confidence and cockiness. She likes you to exude your confidence to...
    Mastertist Mastertist 31-35, M Jul 29

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    I'm attracted to intelligent women. When I get to know some hot girls, I realize they are empty and poring. Intelligent women know their beauty comes beyond their out look. And...
    Arobi Arobi 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I know it's going to sound weird because these people I'm about to say are characters from a show, but their character is sexy because they are both just so intelligent. One is...
    RjMommy245 RjMommy245 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    Intelligent woman love a guy with a confidence. Be careful, she has the capability of distinguishing between confidence and cockiness. She likes you to exude your confidence to...
    Domini7 Domini7 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    I have always preferred the "nerdy"types. To qualify, I am pretty strict about the differences between nerds, geeks, and dorks (which is unbelievably nerdy in and of itself). I...
    NerdyGirl78 NerdyGirl78 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Just need an older man who can hold an intelligent but interesting conversation and keep up with me. Not interested in "true love" or anything of that nature.
    Rebecca2247 Rebecca2247 16-17, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love talking to intelligent people!!!! It annoys me when people can not use words correctly or are saying, "That is too big of a word to understand." "Surround yourself with who...
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I have this illogical desire to feel connected to intelligent women and end up falling for them,even though I know I am not good enough for them and they seem to understand this...
    vintageDesi vintageDesi 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My multo....he was so intimidating and so intelligent.. Darn, i feel shy when he talks and keep staring on him awkwardly like a god! Sometimes i wanna eat him.. Soooo multo...
    noxicillin noxicillin 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    They do say the brain is the largest sex organ. I think it is amazing when a man is able to read me. Not read my mind, thank goodness!! Body language and nuances, the things...
    GoodLyndi GoodLyndi 41-45 4 Responses Aug 3

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    Yet far from in a perverted sense at all. 'If somebody is very intelligent, respectful and humorous I get physically turned on to them for an unknown yet psychological stimulation...
    nobones07 nobones07 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Intelligent people have a wider and wilder imagination.
    FeralKittenx FeralKittenx 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    There's nothing better than a intelligent alien being. :)
    TheTiikeri TheTiikeri 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I think that is what attracted me to my husband. Well, I KNOW that his knowledge of the construction industry blew me away! It was like he was speaking in a foreign language...
    sandybeaches4me sandybeaches4me 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
    caitlincc11 caitlincc11 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
    caitlincc11 caitlincc11 22-25, F Aug 7

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    Part of the reason I'm attracted to older men is the maturity they bring. I don't have time to waste my time in the "hook-up" culture of people my own age and I feel like older men...
    MilkandHoneyBaby MilkandHoneyBaby 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 8

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    I love both men and women of all types. Black, white, Asian, latin, skinny, big, tall, short, it doesn't matter. But I always had an attraction to females. It all started when I...
    msladyt757 msladyt757 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I'm 16 and I am attracted to older men. I'm not really sure why..
    tamera527 tamera527 18-21, F 27 Responses Aug 10

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    Hi, I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO WOMEN AT ALL BUT I AM ATTRACTED TO YOUNGER BIG COCKED REAL MEN! :)
    christinelove69 christinelove69 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm so attracted to older guys... I'm 19 and would love to meet some friends for online chat, or older pen pals, or even gay single men that like to travel. I'm not looking for a...
    DaniDollBoi DaniDollBoi 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    If you were given a chance to be with a confident guy would you? The kind of guy that wants to cherish you, keep you safe, make you a better version of you, gives respect and...
    margai margai 41-45, F 14 hrs ago

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    I've always been attracted to older men, if you're that handsome older man then message me. ;)
    Bella12343 Bella12343 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
    caitlincc11 caitlincc11 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 7