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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Men

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    If He Can Beat Me In Chess Than Alrighty!

    I admire some one with intelligence and wit no matter the gender but yes, I am attracted to intelligent men. A man who knows what to do, can think for himself, knows what he's doing, can hold conversations that may be intense, philosophic, wise, interesting, able to think outside...
    Marowit Marowit 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    Smart Men

    I love a man that is smart wiyj a big heart. I lok back now on my life and think wow..............I was stupid for not realizing this side of me earlier
    Candyapple1234 Candyapple1234 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    Soul Deep

    They say the brain is the most important sex organ.  That is undoubtedly true.  I cannot say I haven't settled for less.  I've had booty calls and one night stands with men who have somewhat lackluster mental faculties.  Those men had other more visual and tactile charms...
    EternalCynic EternalCynic 41-45, F Nov 6, 2011

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    Please No More "pull Tab To Open"

    When I meet a man, I kind of test out the waters to see if there is intellectual compatability. Your hormones could be jumping up and down at his physical appearance but if he has the intelligence of a small home appliance it's a gonna be a long night. Don't get me wrong, I'm...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    They simply pick you long

    before you're ripe and know exactly how to squeeze the juicy out of you. Enough said.
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Intelligent, Not Arrogant

    I love to hear a man talk knowledgeably (is that a word??) about something.  and I mean something he has had experience with and knows it inside and out. I can't stand men who THINK they're smart and smarter than everyone around them.  Arrogance turns me off and makes...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    By "attracted" I don't mean I want to **** you.

    I really probably don't. What I mean is that a man with a great mind can intrigue me enough to draw me in and keep me there for a while. Sure, there is an attraction. Noone said ot had to be that sexual. I just really crave a decent conversation. It helps if you're cute to look...
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    A Different Kind Of Turn On

    Over the so many years that I have been chatting with men, I have had different kinds of chat experiences. Some were memorable, some were forgettable. What makes a chat memorable and something to look forward to is when there is a healthy two-way exchange which is how any...
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 46-50, F 38 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    I'm Attracted to My Husband

    Inside and out! He's the best hubby I can ever imagine being with. He's VERY intelligent and has taught me many things. He's changed my life for the best and filled my mind with alot of useful information. I was never attracted to non intelligent guys. My husband has to be the...
    GreenEyedBeauty GreenEyedBeauty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    Well of Course. ...

    Well of course. But I don't put down men who are not intelligent, because my view of intelligent is not on who has more academic skills. I judge people by how they treat others, not on how much smarter they are than others.
    ladybaby ladybaby 61-65, F Apr 16, 2009

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    What Is A Man With Intelligence?

    It doesn't have to be book-smarts or street-smarts. You don't have to have the IQ of a genius, or even close...In fact, I prefer you don't. I don't like cocky, and I despise arrogance. To me, intelligence is the ability to learn, to acquire knowledge, to learn from your...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Number One Quality

    I'm not one for casual dating; I only go out with people who I feel some kind of resonance with.And that brings me to intelligence.  I'm extremely smart.  We're talking off-the-charts in verbal areas.  So one of the first things I notice about a person is their brains.  Do...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2011

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men,There’s nothin’ better,They know how,No mucking around,That’s my type,Knowledgeable,Intelligent,Mature,They’ve been around,Know about life,What’s right and wrong,They’ll see you through,And never let you down.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men, They're my type, Women too,Intelligence, I like it.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Aug 20, 2012

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    if I Ever Were to Be Attrac...

    if i ever were to be attracted to a man (and that's not impossible) they would eb intelligent. the'd have to be. becasue they'd have to interest me enough. i haven;t yet met a man who interested me for more than five seconds let alone the amount f time it would take to get...
    thegreatsmoky thegreatsmoky 18-21 4 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    Yes Very Much

    I don't know what women see in dumb jocks. Being an idiot is so not attractive. I'm attracted to men who actually have a brain and know how to use it. What the hell could you talk to an uneducated nimrod about anyway. Besides the sex you'd probably have nothing else.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2011

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    What Is That Saying...

    "Seduce my mind and you can have my body"? I don't know if that is completely right, but it fits me absolute. What is it about danger and intelligence that turns me, and most assuredly most women, on? I have dated a history professor and an under cover narcotics agent that goes...
    desertsage desertsage 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    I Need Someone With Substance

    Okay. I can probably have a good conversation with anybody, but the best conversations are those shared with people who have substance and depth in their souls. That said, i wouldn't just want soemone intelligent---i want someone with a heart. Logic is good--but there must be...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    I Love Intelligent Confident Young Cute Men

    I magnate to men who are young and cocky clever as hell and so confident it makes you, as a woman forget that you are not so clever and you don't care anyway... if that makes sense.... I love young clever smart *** guys who are lovely to woman but have a cocky attitude like...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    Time Is On Your Side

    We may become anxious 2find or b found by the Love of our life. Yet we must b patient & enjoy each moment leading up 2the day that we are met by our COMPLIMENTARY SOLDIER OF LOVE. I AM CONTENT WITH THE IDEA OF BEING ALONE & I AM ENTHUSIATIC ABOUT SHARING THIS JOURNEY WITH A LOVE...
    AMOREternal AMOREternal 31-35, F Apr 3, 2012

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    Intelligence :)

    I love an intellectual man.I find it so attractive when they share knowledge and insight.a definite quality I like :)
    mysterious77 mysterious77 16-17 1 Response Jan 14, 2013

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    I am asked often why I prefer women. "Do you dislike men? Do you distrust them? Did you have a bad experience?" they say. As if these are the only valid reasons! My sexual...
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    Yes I am. So tell me your IQ level ? It has to come with a sense of humor. A thick skin, as well as a kind and honest mentality .
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 8 Responses Apr 7

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    I seriously thought I was alone haha I love intelligent people It's such a TURN ON! I love it when someone has such a beautiful and vast intellectual capacity They know how to...
    YungPocahontas YungPocahontas 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Now don't get me wrong, there needs to be some physical attraction as well! However, for me, the mind behind the beauty is where it's at... I want to run deep in your imagination...
    shoehorny shoehorny 41-45, M 6 Responses Apr 8

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    I dont really like the term nerds or geeks but I really think they are so beautiful...... Yes yes I will fall head over heals for A guy that is intelligent. mmmmm
    UnchartedOne UnchartedOne 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    If I come across someone with just as much wit as I have, I'm usually immediately attracted. I like stepping out of my comfort zone in deep conversation and I'm not the most...
    JohGrace JohGrace 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    To complicate matters, I am also married. But I am madly attracted to a male coworker. We are both married teachers and have adjacent classrooms. I've known him for four years and...
    Keeks1 Keeks1 41-45 Mar 26

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    I don't understand when older men write you are more attracted to older men because they don't want you and then forget about you like the guys in our age. They say guys our age...
    Meyrinfields Meyrinfields 16-17, F 9 Responses Mar 29

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    I like men who are somewhat younger and up to my age. I never have been attracted to older men.
    Hope70 Hope70 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    I was always attracted to older men. I am 22 and I dated men who were at least 4 years older than me. But never passed 10 years apart. The maturity always mattered and I felt safe...
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 13

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    I'm not saying men are better than women, here is the fact that I am a girl. But it's fascinating how beyond a tough exterior lies underneath a loving heart. Men are better in...
    Lunaaaa Lunaaaa 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I have to say I find myself attract to the "intelligent" looking guys, especially with glasses. ;)
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Honestly, I really am more attracted to a woman by the way she thinks and the warmth of her manner than the way she looks or really even what she does. I want to fall in love with...
    splinterbl splinterbl 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    Asian male here. I'm glad to know that we're not forgotten about. I'm attracted to all types but I always felt like no one was attracted to Asian men.
    GDlifestyle GDlifestyle 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I am attracted to white men but they don't approach me
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    A lot of young guys dont get it, that a younger woman can be attracted to mature men...but to me there is nothing better... :p
    Swedensour Swedensour 22-25, F 16 Responses Apr 12

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    I am a black woman and am attracted to white men. I have dated, married, and have had biracial children by white husband.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 15

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    Since middle school, I've always been attracted to older men. I feel like we want the same thing from a relationship: someone to take care of and to be taken care of, someone who...
    see17 see17 16-17, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Older Men Like Younger Women as they are more vibrant, spontaneous and full of life. A survey of 2000 adults showed that only one percent of women preferred a relationship with a...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F Mar 31

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    I tend to only date white men. I guess from my own experiences white men treat me better than black men. And also where I live there is not a lot of professional black men. Sorry...
    SashaFierce80 SashaFierce80 31-35 5 Responses Apr 7

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older...
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    I do not know why I prefer to date older men, but I always seem to be more attracted to them. I never really have gone out with a guy younger than 23. Yet, 23 seemed unsatisfying...
    PlurDan PlurDan 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    fionacc12 fionacc12 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I absolutely love older men. My boyfriend is 44 years old and I'm only 19. I put an add on craigslist a while ago (when I was 18) for an older man and the response was amazing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Mar 28

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    I am more attracted to women than men. I'd say that I'm 85% lesbian. Only because I've never been with a woman. The farthest I've ever gotten was a make out session. Nothing other...
    GeorgiaPeach03 GeorgiaPeach03 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I'm sexually attracted to older men. I love older men! I'm 28 and love men double my age the oldest guy,I have the most fun with older men! I've always had infatuations with older...
    clairebaaby clairebaaby 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 10