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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Men

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    I like a smart guy, a guy who's

    even a little nerdy. It's pretty hot. But I don't like the cocky smart guys who act like they're smarter than you and everyone else. That's a turn off. I'm a smart chick, but I do have not so smart moments, and I need someone who can laugh with me when I have a blonde moment...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I Love Intelligent Confident Young Cute Men

    I magnate to men who are young and cocky clever as hell and so confident it makes you, as a woman forget that you are not so clever and you don't care anyway... if that makes sense.... I love young clever smart *** guys who are lovely to woman but have a cocky attitude like...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    If He Can Beat Me In Chess Than Alrighty!

    I admire some one with intelligence and wit no matter the gender but yes, I am attracted to intelligent men. A man who knows what to do, can think for himself, knows what he's doing, can hold conversations that may be intense, philosophic, wise, interesting, able to think outside...
    Marowit Marowit 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    Would you have heated arguments about stupid

    things (Sandwiches are supposed to be triangular!) with me just for the fun of it? Would you learn a new language with me so we could whisper exciting sweet nothings to each other every morning? Would you help me brush up on my geometric and vector calculus to pass the time...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Smart Men

    I love a man that is smart wiyj a big heart. I lok back now on my life and think wow..............I was stupid for not realizing this side of me earlier
    Candyapple1234 Candyapple1234 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    Please No More "pull Tab To Open"

    When I meet a man, I kind of test out the waters to see if there is intellectual compatability. Your hormones could be jumping up and down at his physical appearance but if he has the intelligence of a small home appliance it's a gonna be a long night. Don't get me wrong, I'm...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men,There’s nothin’ better,They know how,No mucking around,That’s my type,Knowledgeable,Intelligent,Mature,They’ve been around,Know about life,What’s right and wrong,They’ll see you through,And never let you down.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    A Different Kind Of Turn On

    Over the so many years that I have been chatting with men, I have had different kinds of chat experiences. Some were memorable, some were forgettable. What makes a chat memorable and something to look forward to is when there is a healthy two-way exchange which is how any...
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 46-50, F 47 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Intelligent, Not Arrogant

    I love to hear a man talk knowledgeably (is that a word??) about something.  and I mean something he has had experience with and knows it inside and out. I can't stand men who THINK they're smart and smarter than everyone around them.  Arrogance turns me off and makes...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    Yes Very Much

    I don't know what women see in dumb jocks. Being an idiot is so not attractive. I'm attracted to men who actually have a brain and know how to use it. What the hell could you talk to an uneducated nimrod about anyway. Besides the sex you'd probably have nothing else.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2011

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    It's Like Foreplay

    I love intelligent men. They remind you that you are more than just body parts. They stimulate my mind and make me take a better look at myself. To me an interesting, intelligent conversation is like foreplay. Most men say vulgar things to me but an intelligent man sees I'm more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    They simply pick you long

    before you're ripe and know exactly how to squeeze the juicy out of you. Enough said.
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I Need Someone With Substance

    Okay. I can probably have a good conversation with anybody, but the best conversations are those shared with people who have substance and depth in their souls. That said, i wouldn't just want soemone intelligent---i want someone with a heart. Logic is good--but there must be...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    Time Is On Your Side

    We may become anxious 2find or b found by the Love of our life. Yet we must b patient & enjoy each moment leading up 2the day that we are met by our COMPLIMENTARY SOLDIER OF LOVE. I AM CONTENT WITH THE IDEA OF BEING ALONE & I AM ENTHUSIATIC ABOUT SHARING THIS JOURNEY WITH A LOVE...
    AMOREternal AMOREternal 31-35, F Apr 3, 2012

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    What Is A Man With Intelligence?

    It doesn't have to be book-smarts or street-smarts. You don't have to have the IQ of a genius, or even close...In fact, I prefer you don't. I don't like cocky, and I despise arrogance. To me, intelligence is the ability to learn, to acquire knowledge, to learn from your...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Number One Quality

    I'm not one for casual dating; I only go out with people who I feel some kind of resonance with.And that brings me to intelligence.  I'm extremely smart.  We're talking off-the-charts in verbal areas.  So one of the first things I notice about a person is their brains.  Do...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2011

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    What Is That Saying...

    "Seduce my mind and you can have my body"? I don't know if that is completely right, but it fits me absolute. What is it about danger and intelligence that turns me, and most assuredly most women, on? I have dated a history professor and an under cover narcotics agent that goes...
    desertsage desertsage 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    Well of Course. ...

    Well of course. But I don't put down men who are not intelligent, because my view of intelligent is not on who has more academic skills. I judge people by how they treat others, not on how much smarter they are than others.
    ladybaby ladybaby 61-65, F Apr 16, 2009

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    You know what's sexy?

    A man who has goals and ambitions in life and not only retains these goals, but he also pursues them until they evolve or are reached! Damn. That's sexy. Also a man who loves to dance with his woman at every opportunity just to have a reason to hold her and move with her...
    icandoit13 icandoit13 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men, They're my type, Women too,Intelligence, I like it.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Aug 20, 2012

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    By "attracted" I don't mean I want to **** you.

    I really probably don't. What I mean is that a man with a great mind can intrigue me enough to draw me in and keep me there for a while. Sure, there is an attraction. Noone said ot had to be that sexual. I just really crave a decent conversation. It helps if you're cute to look...
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    Pleasure Derived From Intelligence

    in·tel·li·gent Adjective /inˈtelijənt/ Synonyms: adjective: clever, brainy, smart, sagacious, bright, wise, sensible, knowing, shrewd (of a device, machine, or building) Able to vary its state or action in response to varying situations, varying requirements, and past...
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2011

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    if I Ever Were to Be Attrac...

    if i ever were to be attracted to a man (and that's not impossible) they would eb intelligent. the'd have to be. becasue they'd have to interest me enough. i haven;t yet met a man who interested me for more than five seconds let alone the amount f time it would take to get...
    thegreatsmoky thegreatsmoky 18-21 4 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    Soul Deep

    They say the brain is the most important sex organ.  That is undoubtedly true.  I cannot say I haven't settled for less.  I've had booty calls and one night stands with men who have somewhat lackluster mental faculties.  Those men had other more visual and tactile charms...
    EternalCynic EternalCynic 41-45, F Nov 6, 2011

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    I'm Attracted to My Husband

    Inside and out! He's the best hubby I can ever imagine being with. He's VERY intelligent and has taught me many things. He's changed my life for the best and filled my mind with alot of useful information. I was never attracted to non intelligent guys. My husband has to be the...
    GreenEyedBeauty GreenEyedBeauty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    I had this professor whom I had a major crush and I just loved the way he spoke and how passionate he taught the subjects. Sad he moved away.
    jadestrangely jadestrangely 22-25, F Aug 28

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    I enjoy conversation about things on a higher level than most. Be it science, medicine, engineering or religion. It gives my brain a workout and a way to expand my understanding...
    pakettle pakettle 66-70, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Okay, so I'm not so young... and I am not even into older men... I'm not really concerned about a person's age at all. I was just watching "Dr. Drew", and he had a segment about...
    shellseagirl shellseagirl 41-45, F 28 Responses a week ago

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    I just adore older men. When i was 13-14 i was attracted to men who were 22-25 and now that i'm 20 i'm attracted to guys who are 30-35. They are so down to earth and respectful...
    StellaFlower StellaFlower 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 9

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    Married 10 years now ,got two kids after being on this site I am finding that I am attracted to men .is my denied gay side finally coming to light ?
    SexyLexiMX81 SexyLexiMX81 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 31

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    Always been attracted to men about ages 20-45
    JustMeAsMyself JustMeAsMyself 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hello so first of all I'm a lesbian i have always found myself being more attracted to intelligent women than those who are not. I love holding deep conversations about life and...
    NightsEternalShadow NightsEternalShadow 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    Intelligent women are beautiful. They do not need to be objectified for you to show your appreciation. I enjoy being able to have an intelligent conversation with someone without...
    c0nfus3d22 c0nfus3d22 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    I'm not really attracted to dumb people. I am not the smartest woman but I also love to learn. I think that is why I am attracted to the more nerdy men and women. Nothing sexier...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    i hope to find my intelligent one :) i cant like woman who is not intelligent. i like to talk with intelligent people. intelligence is very sexy for me :) lol
    berealistic811 berealistic811 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 3

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    As my last relationship started self-destructing I saw a person I thought I knew turn into a vapid clone of everything I hate about MTV and E! We seem to idolize that mentality...
    LestatdeLioncourt LestatdeLioncourt 31-35, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I really hope I can meet a younger girl soon I think I have alot to offer I am intelligent ( well I think so) not pushy, creative, fairly positive and have had quite a bit of...
    Musomike Musomike 41-45, M Sep 7

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    In general, not only am I not attracted to dumb people, I can't tolerate being near them. That doesn't mean I only talk to people with super high IQs, I just don't talk to people...
    ACraigNewman ACraigNewman 36-40, M 5 Responses Aug 26

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    White men are the ONLY kind of guy I will date. I don't like white BOYS, Black boys, black men, or hispanic men. I only like older white men. They are my weakness! I also attract a...
    starryxo starryxo 22-25 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    When I was 14, my taste in men tended to be those older than me. 17 - 25 was the age range for me with men right up until I was 19.... Most times I've been with guys 8-10 years...
    pebbles7 pebbles7 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I've been raped several times and mentally mind ****** by men since I can remember. I am way more attracted to women. I knew I liked girls when I was 8 before I like guys. I have...
    oliviatee oliviatee 16-17, F Sep 1

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    I am not sure I would call myself a girl anymore but I am a young women who has always been attracted to people of the opposite sex that are older than me. I have on rare occasion...
    DemonFeyLove DemonFeyLove 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 5

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    If you were given a chance to be with a confident guy would you? The kind of guy that wants to cherish you, keep you safe, make you a better version of you, gives respect and...
    margai margai 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I've always been attracted to older men, if you're that handsome older man then message me. ;)
    AlaskanBeautyQueen AlaskanBeautyQueen 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 21

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    I love older men that are sugar daddy potential. Money can make an older man much more attractive. In addition, it's a turn on how sexually experienced they are...Im attracted to a...
    kushbabe420 kushbabe420 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 3

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    I am not a young girl. I am not a girl at all. I am the older man attracted to younger girls. As I was growing up, people told me how girls mature before boys do. O.K. I believe...
    Adamtheone Adamtheone 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    Not "huge" but I like 5'11 180ib big bone structure inverted triangle. It's very hard to find anyone like that in my age range! That's why I'm attracted to older men, but I don't...
    SadLover1456 SadLover1456 13-15, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    YoungerWomenlikeOlderMen.com is a brand new dating service focusing on older men younger women, providing a great service to mature singles looking for love, romance and friendship...
    youngerlikeoldermen youngerlikeoldermen 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I'm obssessed with white guys,especially with the ones with green,grey or blue eyes.I've nothing against black men being a black girl.But I'm just attracted to that and can't help...
    mel2030 mel2030 18-21 1 Response Aug 28

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    It's just something about them.... I've always be attracted to older men I love the fact that they know who they are what they want and how to get it they also really know how to...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 2