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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Men

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    When I meet a man, I kind of test out the waters to see if there is intellectual compatability. Your hormones could be jumping up and down at his physical appearance but if he has the intelligence of a small home appliance it's a gonna be a long night. Don't get me wrong, I'm...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    Number One Quality

    I'm not one for casual dating; I only go out with people who I feel some kind of resonance with.And that brings me to intelligence.  I'm extremely smart.  We're talking off-the-charts in verbal areas.  So one of the first things I notice about a person is their brains.  Do...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2011

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    Time Is On Your Side

    We may become anxious 2find or b found by the Love of our life. Yet we must b patient & enjoy each moment leading up 2the day that we are met by our COMPLIMENTARY SOLDIER OF LOVE. I AM CONTENT WITH THE IDEA OF BEING ALONE & I AM ENTHUSIATIC ABOUT SHARING THIS JOURNEY WITH A LOVE...
    AMOREternal AMOREternal 31-35, F Apr 3, 2012

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    Soul Deep

    They say the brain is the most important sex organ.  That is undoubtedly true.  I cannot say I haven't settled for less.  I've had booty calls and one night stands with men who have somewhat lackluster mental faculties.  Those men had other more visual and tactile charms...
    EternalCynic EternalCynic 41-45, F Nov 6, 2011

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    I Need Someone With Substance

    Okay. I can probably have a good conversation with anybody, but the best conversations are those shared with people who have substance and depth in their souls. That said, i wouldn't just want soemone intelligent---i want someone with a heart. Logic is good--but there must be...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    Would you have heated arguments about stupid

    things (Sandwiches are supposed to be triangular!) with me just for the fun of it? Would you learn a new language with me so we could whisper exciting sweet nothings to each other every morning? Would you help me brush up on my geometric and vector calculus to pass the time...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    if I Ever Were to Be Attrac...

    if i ever were to be attracted to a man (and that's not impossible) they would eb intelligent. the'd have to be. becasue they'd have to interest me enough. i haven;t yet met a man who interested me for more than five seconds let alone the amount f time it would take to get...
    thegreatsmoky thegreatsmoky 18-21 4 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men,There’s nothin’ better,They know how,No mucking around,That’s my type,Knowledgeable,Intelligent,Mature,They’ve been around,Know about life,What’s right and wrong,They’ll see you through,And never let you down.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    So very tired of men

    who can't hold a conversation, or have no idea how to debate, or has no clue about poetry or the arts. Gimme a man with smarts and watch me open up like a flower. :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 14

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    They seem to catch me

    because they seem more mature
    katebait katebait 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    Intelligent Men

    Intelligent men, They're my type, Women too,Intelligence, I like it.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Aug 20, 2012

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    I am attracted and settle down

    and around with intellectual men. I thoroughly enjoy being with an intelligent man. He normally has a higher paying job than minimum wage, college educated, good provider, and so much more.
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    They simply pick you long

    before you're ripe and know exactly how to squeeze the juicy out of you. Enough said.
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    Well of Course. ...

    Well of course. But I don't put down men who are not intelligent, because my view of intelligent is not on who has more academic skills. I judge people by how they treat others, not on how much smarter they are than others.
    ladybaby ladybaby 61-65, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Intelligent, Not Arrogant

    I love to hear a man talk knowledgeably (is that a word??) about something.  and I mean something he has had experience with and knows it inside and out. I can't stand men who THINK they're smart and smarter than everyone around them.  Arrogance turns me off and makes...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    Yes Very Much

    I don't know what women see in dumb jocks. Being an idiot is so not attractive. I'm attracted to men who actually have a brain and know how to use it. What the hell could you talk to an uneducated nimrod about anyway. Besides the sex you'd probably have nothing else.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2011

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    Smart Men

    I love a man that is smart wiyj a big heart. I lok back now on my life and think wow..............I was stupid for not realizing this side of me earlier
    Candyapple1234 Candyapple1234 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    Pleasure Derived From Intelligence

    in·tel·li·gent Adjective /inˈtelijənt/ Synonyms: adjective: clever, brainy, smart, sagacious, bright, wise, sensible, knowing, shrewd (of a device, machine, or building) Able to vary its state or action in response to varying situations, varying requirements, and past...
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2011

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    I'm Attracted to My Husband

    Inside and out! He's the best hubby I can ever imagine being with. He's VERY intelligent and has taught me many things. He's changed my life for the best and filled my mind with alot of useful information. I was never attracted to non intelligent guys. My husband has to be the...
    GreenEyedBeauty GreenEyedBeauty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    It's Like Foreplay

    I love intelligent men. They remind you that you are more than just body parts. They stimulate my mind and make me take a better look at myself. To me an interesting, intelligent conversation is like foreplay. Most men say vulgar things to me but an intelligent man sees I'm more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    By "attracted" I don't mean I want to **** you.

    I really probably don't. What I mean is that a man with a great mind can intrigue me enough to draw me in and keep me there for a while. Sure, there is an attraction. Noone said ot had to be that sexual. I just really crave a decent conversation. It helps if you're cute to look...
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2014

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    What Is A Man With Intelligence?

    It doesn't have to be book-smarts or street-smarts. You don't have to have the IQ of a genius, or even close...In fact, I prefer you don't. I don't like cocky, and I despise arrogance. To me, intelligence is the ability to learn, to acquire knowledge, to learn from your...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    If He Can Beat Me In Chess Than Alrighty!

    I admire some one with intelligence and wit no matter the gender but yes, I am attracted to intelligent men. A man who knows what to do, can think for himself, knows what he's doing, can hold conversations that may be intense, philosophic, wise, interesting, able to think outside...
    Marowit Marowit 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    Women appreciate a good body just

    as much as men do – and some of us enjoy intimate relations just as much as men do.What captures our attention is your wit, your intellect, your drive, your warmth, and your strength. These are the qualities that cause women to truly desire a man. The rest is just...
    BeautifulAbigail BeautifulAbigail 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2014

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    Can our first conversation be about something

    interesting instead of a sexual nature? I sick of tired come ons. Where are the real intellectuals?
    queenandcrown queenandcrown 31-35, F 23 hrs ago

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    You know what's sexy?

    A man who has goals and ambitions in life and not only retains these goals, but he also pursues them until they evolve or are reached! Damn. That's sexy. Also a man who loves to dance with his woman at every opportunity just to have a reason to hold her and move with her...
    icandoit13 icandoit13 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    A Different Kind Of Turn On

    Over the so many years that I have been chatting with men, I have had different kinds of chat experiences. Some were memorable, some were forgettable. What makes a chat memorable and something to look forward to is when there is a healthy two-way exchange which is how any...
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 51-55, F 52 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    I Love Intelligent Confident Young Cute Men

    I magnate to men who are young and cocky clever as hell and so confident it makes you, as a woman forget that you are not so clever and you don't care anyway... if that makes sense.... I love young clever smart *** guys who are lovely to woman but have a cocky attitude like...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    What Is That Saying...

    "Seduce my mind and you can have my body"? I don't know if that is completely right, but it fits me absolute. What is it about danger and intelligence that turns me, and most assuredly most women, on? I have dated a history professor and an under cover narcotics agent that goes...
    desertsage desertsage 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    when I was 15, I lost my virginity to a 20 year old. I'm 18 now, and since then, I've only preferred older men. I even tried having sex with a guy closer to my age, and it just...
    KaliG15 KaliG15 16-17, T 12 hrs ago

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    I feel it very pathetic for older men to be writing on 13-18 years old profile because this little girls claim they are attracted to older men. They might be attracted to 20s not...
    Afua77 Afua77 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I slept with my bestfriend dad and loved ever second of him in me!
    kenziekentucky kenziekentucky 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 6

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    I hate getting all these messages from young guys!!
    babybitch19 babybitch19 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 8

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    when he calls you " babygirl , princess etc " dont you feel special? , wanted ? , needed ?
    kayzuzz kayzuzz 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 9

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    Honestly , when a guy of the ages between 16-17 , 18 -21 , 22-25 message me on here i get irratated , b/c theyre so immature at times .
    kayzuzz kayzuzz 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I'm a 36yo, attractive, executive male. Until just recently, I was meeting a 17yo high school junior at her house during her lunch period. I would always bring her lunch so that my...
    Daddy36TX Daddy36TX 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I don't know why.maybe because they are more mature,loving,and understanding.and more passionate in everything they do.
    Wildflower08 Wildflower08 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    yeah it's always how I've been. I was 15 when I lost my virginity to a 20 year old. since then ive always liked older guys.. and even older than that :/
    KaliG15 KaliG15 16-17, T 1 Response 3 days ago

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    my neighbor , he's now back from where ever he came from , and he picked me up from school today , he was much ... well needy today , once i got in the car he kissed me and told...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    bethcc11 bethcc11 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    Smart Relationships : My approach to build one . Atlast I permitted my boyfriend to enter in my life :) He will live with me in my house along with my family . Love these moments...
    rsushama73 rsushama73 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    To tell you the truth i really am attracted to intelligent people
    Jayson999 Jayson999 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 13

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    I can't explain this. That's just the way it is. I absolutely love geek girls. I've dated a LOT throughout my life. I even dated many models. I just can't feel attracted to stupid...
    unknownpoetx unknownpoetx 26-30, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Smart women love smart men more than smart men love smart women.
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 4