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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Women

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    but it seems like there is

    so few of them... or better, not to offend them, I have not very good luck in running into them...
    lukash87 lukash87 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 16

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    Finding a woman who actually has some

    intelligence, seems like a rare thing these days. They are all too obsessed with copying their idols or sh*t they see on the internet, rather than be themselves.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 11

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    They can think and decide

    for themselves, they'r actually interesting, you can hold a real conversation with them, and they can pick up on things you might miss. I could'nt be in a relationship with a woman that's too much dumber than me
    thetalkingmushroom thetalkingmushroom 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    Intelligence And The Modern Woman

    Intelligent woman are hard to come by. That sounds incredibly misogynistic, and don't for a second think that I think men are superior, because they're not. To that end, intelligent, honest men are hard to come by as well. What I mean is that ever since I've found out that I like...
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M 24 Responses Oct 25, 2010

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    My Secret Obsession

        Like most critical negotiations, it eventually came down to one issue and two people, and she and I had been going at each other for almost four hours straight. She was lead counsel for the other side. Tall, thick dark hair pulled to the back of her head, tasteful makeup...
    CuriousNomad CuriousNomad 46-50, M 4 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    Pretty women are everywhere to be found.

    A pretty woman who can hold a conversation separates herself from them in my mind, she reels me in and I am caught! Nothing like beauty that emanates from the mind.
    Jarlaxle Jarlaxle 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 25

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    Ahhhhhhhhhh

    But, it's too difficult to find one using their brain more than anything else .
    Erevos Erevos 31-35, M 28 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    Well you see there is this beautiful person I

    found myself drawn to. With her I know I can be myself, I can show my sensitivity and express my innermost emotions freely and I know she will never take me for granted. I found someone who gives me the truth in black and white whether I like it or not. In this short span of...
    AcousticAnne AcousticAnne 26-30 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I love smart girls . They can't just be book

    smart tho. They need to be STREET smart too.. There's nothing more attractive to me than a girl's intelligence.
    vegasboi vegasboi 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Tangish6 Tangish6 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 26

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    Gotta Love'em!

    The logo was a tough choice: either Tina Fey or Dorthy Parker. I find intelligent women with big vocabularies incredibly texty! If they have a nice tight body of paragraphs to go with it -- I am putty in their hands. I am attracted to intelligent women.
    niceguyinhell niceguyinhell 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    If I can connect to a woman's mind,

    I can definitely connect to her in other ways ;)
    myguitarisbusted myguitarisbusted 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Always Have Been!

    I like quality, good people, and that especially goes for which kind of women I like. I am very fortunate to be getting to know an intelligent woman right now. She is impressive in every way. My life is richer for having met her.Thank you, Sweetie!
    BonVie BonVie 41-45, M 1 Response May 15, 2011

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    I finally got to spend some time with her today.

    Busiest woman ever. I guess that's how it is for strong-headed, independent women. It was funny because before today I was thinking... Forget it. It's hard enough to get a hold of her let alone see her. Then, I couldn't get her out of my head. She's got this confidence...
    NewShoes12 NewShoes12 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I love a cute shy nerdy girl.

    Its something about them that just intrigues me. I guess its because im kind of a nerd myself. A woman that appreciates the arts and has a certain level of mysteriousness to her is what gets me. If i can talk to u about geeky stuff like comics, music, movies, etc. ill most...
    Zoneout167 Zoneout167 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    I like intellectual women.

    Who know what she talking about. Women with class and calm nature always attracted me. I am fond of girls who speak more with their eyes. I love girls.
    miles689 miles689 22-25, M Jun 7

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    Intelligent Women Scare Some But Not Me, I Love Them

    I am 52 now and when I was a younger man maybe I would have been intimidated but now I love intelligent conversation. It is so wonderful to find someone who is your equal or better in intelligence. A lady who acts the dumb blonde will never attract me for a long term relationship...
    nowandlater nowandlater 51-55, M Aug 4, 2013

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    Hello so first of all I'm a lesbian i have

    always found myself being more attracted to intelligent women than those who are not. I love holding deep conversations about life and the world we live in. Intellegent women understand this and contribute to it and i feel like I get much closer to women who can be intimate on a...
    NightsEternalShadow NightsEternalShadow 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    My gf is inteligent with what she does at our

    house..thats what turns me on..
    jennifertanner jennifertanner 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Im attracted to smart woman

    that try to work..Im trying to find one that can understand me better...
    jennifertanner jennifertanner 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    I Have Met Only One Highly Intellegent Woman.

    She is my girlfriend, fiancee, and first and only love of my life. LoveableLulu is a highly intelligent woman and my love for her runs deeper than she knows.We make decisiona together and we discuss the Pros and Cons of anything we want to do or decide.That is one of the many...
    Snookybear Snookybear 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 12, 2011

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    but usually are the ones

    who dont have a love life. hmmmmm
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    Intelligent women are beautiful.

    They do not need to be objectified for you to show your appreciation. I enjoy being able to have an intelligent conversation with someone without having to dumb down what I say so they can understand. One of my greatest pet peeves is talking or messaging someone who doesn't know...
    c0nfus3d22 c0nfus3d22 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    Intelligent woman love a guy with a confidence.

    Be careful, she has the capability of distinguishing between confidence and cockiness. She likes you to exude your confidence to memorize a random intelligent fact and demands a state of conviction.She will not find it hard to believe, that her man increasingly attends her value...
    Mastertist Mastertist 31-35, M Jul 29

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    Yeah, very much. There is something just

    so intriguing listening to a smart women....
    ThatBlueOwl ThatBlueOwl 16-17, F Aug 12

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    Something About It...

    I think too much and talk too much to be with a dipshit and get annoyed at that really fast. If a girl has a sense of sarcasm and is smarter than me, nothing is better haha
    HowAboutNoScott HowAboutNoScott 22-25, M Aug 16, 2010

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    Real Attirance...

    They are often very beautiful and it's a real pleasure to share ideas with them. A true gift of each day ... Blessed is He who created them ...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M Aug 9, 2012

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    Yes, Intelligence Is Very Sexy!

    Definitely attracted to intelligent women. These little airhead barbie dolls do nothing for me. No matter how great they look, ultimately, I find them just irritating. One can only talk about a shopping mall for so long (about 45 seconds and thats pushing it LOL) Thank God my...
    Praxis Praxis 36-40, M 9 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    I've never been attracted to any woman based

    solely on appearance. Physical beauty is only one part of what makes a woman attractive - you may like the body, but you can only love the heart and soul.
    DavidMetis DavidMetis 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    As Far As Friendship Goes

    I like having conversations with intelligent women and I would like to have one as a mate, but I wouldn't say I'm attracted to them as far as love goes (it takes something deeper than intelligence). I think being attracted to one's intelligence can be as shallow as being...
    Tummie Tummie 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 16, 2009

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    Oooh Tina Fey she IS attractive.

    I love geeky women who wear glasses and have long hair. Girl next store type. That is my ideal
    leavingmylover leavingmylover 26-30, M Jul 29

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    Read In The News Today.

    No one ever understands a woman unless he understands every word that she is NOT saying. Printed in the Times of India in "They Said It" section by 'Ram Gopal Varma'  who is a filmmaker on women. My take on it is, It should not be generalized that way - There are some who call a...
    woodland27 woodland27 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    Who Wants An Idiot?

    A real girlfriend should be your partner in everything. She should challenge you in conversation, in actions and in the bedroom, but she should also support you in everything that is important to you, just as you should do for her. How can you expect a girl to challenge you if...
    MrWinstonSmith MrWinstonSmith 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2012

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    I don't want to toot my own horn too much

    but uh i was one of the top students in my class and I got a pretty good sat score. Lmao.
    keishajo keishajo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    i hope to find my intelligent one :) i cant

    like woman who is not intelligent. i like to talk with intelligent people. intelligence is very sexy for me :) lol
    berealistic811 berealistic811 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 3

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    subpop subpop 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Marckorues Marckorues 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 11

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    How Smart Can She Be?

    I have always liked and been attracted to intelligent women. I have no problem admitting that my wife is smarter than I am. It keeps me on my toes trying to keep up with her. The only reason I do doubt her intelligence is that she fell for and married me. My intellect has...
    marriedup marriedup 56-60, M Mar 21, 2013

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    I need all the help i can get,

    lol. being unpretentious and sincere are also good qualities-friends or partners
    karenmbrown karenmbrown 51-55, T 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Intelligent, Open Minded And Down To Earth.

    They are three main qualities I look for in women, id be lying if i said looks weren't important because they are but having those characteristics is a good start. I don't find girls who act like gods gift attractive at all! Girls I tend to go for are more "quirky" and unique and...
    lonethought lonethought 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    I'm attracted to intelligent women.

    When I get to know some hot girls, I realize they are empty and poring. Intelligent women know their beauty comes beyond their out look. And they open a huge door to share with them ur stories and experience. Plus they know how to act and dress and that's only intelligent girls...
    Arobi Arobi 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Turns Me On!

    Intelligence in woman turns me on more than anything! Whenever my girl who is very smart and intelligent does anything that shows her intelligence it turns me on.It is a little secret that I have not shared with her either ! Adding to that she is very creative and a nice story...
    maskedmenace maskedmenace 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    I have this illogical desire to feel connected

    to intelligent women and end up falling for them,even though I know I am not good enough for them and they seem to understand this pretty quickly.
    vintageDesi vintageDesi 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Passion

    The way I see it intelligence is born from passion! One can have the ability to retain huge amounts of information and still be as thick as a plank! Creativity is the key, passionately throwing oneself at something that produces those 'Ah Ha!' moments. But more... Passion is a...
    Endthegame Endthegame 41-45, M May 4, 2011

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    maduwuba maduwuba 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Intelligent woman are

    so attractive. I know I'm a girl but I don't care. There is nothing more attractive than a smart person. Dumb people or people that try to act dumb just really tick me off.
    yesenia33 yesenia33 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    ...sometimes they understand me!

    Lol- not all the time though but it does help when discussing kinky imaginative fantasies ;)
    hawaiifun hawaiifun 22-25, M Aug 10

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    Intelligence is everything in my book.

    I love to look at beautiful female forms, but if she can't speak or communicate in a reasonably articulate way, I get turned off immediately. A woman doesn't need to be a scholar--she doesn't even need a college degree. However, she needs to be aware, be open-minded, and have a...
    writer732003 writer732003 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    I like girls who wear glasses and have pretty

    eyes once i were at liberary and i was about leaving i pushed the door to go out there was agirl want to enter she was so close and she wear glasses i focussed on her eyes but they were so pretty and the glasses make them sparkle I would like if i could meat her...
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    I feel that this is almost sexist, as if it were an oddity to come cross an intelligent woman. Regardless of that, intelligent women are truly enjoyable.
    Sgm51ngc5194 Sgm51ngc5194 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I really do, I wouldn't want any other, strong, smart women, the best turn on ever. I prefer intelligence over looks. So they can actually read cookbooks, read the labels in my...
    RagnarLodbrok RagnarLodbrok 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I guess the title says it all. Busty women really do nothing for me and I find small boobs to be so much sexier and attractive. Is that weird?
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    I can't stand blind followers.
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