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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Women

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    Intelligence

    I have never been attracted to the 'blond bimbo' type women. There has to be an attraction of some sort and that starts and ends with what is inside a woman and not the wrapper.I have written a couple of stories on what I consider beauty to be.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M Sep 17, 2011

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    Passion

    The way I see it intelligence is born from passion! One can have the ability to retain huge amounts of information and still be as thick as a plank! Creativity is the key, passionately throwing oneself at something that produces those 'Ah Ha!' moments. But more... Passion is a...
    Endthegame Endthegame 41-45, M May 4, 2011

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    I love a cute shy nerdy girl.

    Its something about them that just intrigues me. I guess its because im kind of a nerd myself. A woman that appreciates the arts and has a certain level of mysteriousness to her is what gets me. If i can talk to u about geeky stuff like comics, music, movies, etc. ill most...
    Zoneout167 Zoneout167 22-25, M Apr 14

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    I want a girl i can spend hours arguing with

    about something we both know isn't that important but just want to beat the other person so the winner can say "Ha!" And kiss the other out of play
    LuckyMan3375 LuckyMan3375 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    Although..

    i don't think tina fey is funny. she's way to scared by materialism, and pop culture.
    boombooms boombooms 26-30 Feb 8, 2012

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    Intelligent Matters To Me

    Having an intelligent woman around me drives to excel on life. I consider myself to an intelligent person
    Ronos Ronos 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    I will be honest, I have a sexual attraction to

    intelligent women who are older then me. I love how animated a woman can get when conversing about science or history, the way their eyes will light up when talking about their favorite subject. I simply adore women who take an interest in their own education. However, I...
    Demonicfemale Demonicfemale 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Unfortunates

    I am totally turned on by intelligent women but I also believe that women or any person can be well read and carry on a conversation worthy of a turn on if they have the common sense to know that being or rather acting smart turns you on unless you are really serious with the...
    giayesim12 giayesim12 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2013

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    betterlife2 betterlife2 41-45, M Dec 8, 2013

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    Intriguing

    I like having intelligent conversations. A woman that can hold an intelligent conversation intrigues me. I think that the most attractive attribute that a woman can have is intelligence.  
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Sep 18, 2013

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    I Have Met Only One Highly Intellegent Woman.

    She is my girlfriend, fiancee, and first and only love of my life. LoveableLulu is a highly intelligent woman and my love for her runs deeper than she knows.We make decisiona together and we discuss the Pros and Cons of anything we want to do or decide.That is one of the many...
    Snookybear Snookybear 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 12, 2011

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    Turns Me On!

    Intelligence in woman turns me on more than anything! Whenever my girl who is very smart and intelligent does anything that shows her intelligence it turns me on.It is a little secret that I have not shared with her either ! Adding to that she is very creative and a nice story...
    maskedmenace maskedmenace 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    What Is Not To Like

    Indeed I am attracted to an intelligent woman one who can encourage me to stimulating conversation rather than let my shy quietness run unchecked. I can be charmed by witty remarks and intelligent insights. They are also less likely to agree simply because they do not understand...
    Caspian785 Caspian785 22-25, M Oct 7, 2013

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    Read In The News Today.

    No one ever understands a woman unless he understands every word that she is NOT saying. Printed in the Times of India in "They Said It" section by 'Ram Gopal Varma'  who is a filmmaker on women. My take on it is, It should not be generalized that way - There are some who call a...
    woodland27 woodland27 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    Intelligent woman are

    so attractive. I know I'm a girl but I don't care. There is nothing more attractive than a smart person. Dumb people or people that try to act dumb just really tick me off.
    yesenia33 yesenia33 16-17, F Dec 6, 2013

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    Why Can't One Have It All?

    Where is is written that you have to settle for only some traits that we appreciate in our mate? I value attractiveness, and intelligence, and balance, and wonderfulness, I suppose because they are all the opposite traits from what I am LOL. Well, what I am saying is that I...
    personofinterest personofinterest 46-50, M Oct 20, 2010

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    I Like It When They Make Sense !

    Or else the conversation gets boring.
    woodland27 woodland27 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    Most Of Us Guys, And Ladies, Know This Already But

    Some of us need a refresher. http://thoughtcatalog.com/2013/why-dont-men-want-smart-women/
    Arimatheus Arimatheus 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 23, 2013

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    I Like Discussions

    My friend Manon and I have similar IQs. We have similar outlooks. Having fun together is always good fun. It's also an intellectual thing, a little lesbian satisfaction!
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    How Smart Can She Be?

    I have always liked and been attracted to intelligent women. I have no problem admitting that my wife is smarter than I am. It keeps me on my toes trying to keep up with her. The only reason I do doubt her intelligence is that she fell for and married me. My intellect has...
    marriedup marriedup 56-60, M Mar 21, 2013

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    Stupid Girls Aren't Cute

    I can't stand girls who act stupid because they think it's cute. It's not even just girls. I hate people in general who act stupid because they think it's cute. I would so much rather be with a girl I can have a half way intelligent conversation with and not have to stop every...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2012

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    Real Attirance...

    They are often very beautiful and it's a real pleasure to share ideas with them. A true gift of each day ... Blessed is He who created them ...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M Aug 9, 2012

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    As Far As Friendship Goes

    I like having conversations with intelligent women and I would like to have one as a mate, but I wouldn't say I'm attracted to them as far as love goes (it takes something deeper than intelligence). I think being attracted to one's intelligence can be as shallow as being...
    Tummie Tummie 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 16, 2009

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    My Secret Obsession

        Like most critical negotiations, it eventually came down to one issue and two people, and she and I had been going at each other for almost four hours straight. She was lead counsel for the other side. Tall, thick dark hair pulled to the back of her head, tasteful makeup...
    CuriousNomad CuriousNomad 46-50, M 5 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    woodland27 woodland27 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Something About It...

    I think too much and talk too much to be with a dipshit and get annoyed at that really fast. If a girl has a sense of sarcasm and is smarter than me, nothing is better haha
    HowAboutNoScott HowAboutNoScott 22-25, M Aug 16, 2010

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    Well Pretty Much..

    I live in a well populated city, with gorgeous women that I'd love to get to know. The problem is that I'm attracted to both pretty features and high intellects, something which is rare in itself. Those who tend to be attractive also tend to be a bit superficial. Not that there's...
    AHumanBeing4You AHumanBeing4You 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 10, 2013

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    It's About You

    You don't even know it's you, but you are beautiful, intelligent and talented. And I will never be good enough for you. It's been a long time since I've liked a woman, and then you came along and screwed it all up. You play guitar like no one I've ever heard before. Stop saying...
    serenityeryx serenityeryx 26-30, F Feb 20, 2012

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    I've never been attracted to any woman based

    solely on appearance. Physical beauty is only one part of what makes a woman attractive - you may like the body, but you can only love the heart and soul.
    DavidMetis DavidMetis 36-40, M Mar 18

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    Pretty women are everywhere to be found.

    A pretty woman who can hold a conversation separates herself from them in my mind, she reels me in and I am caught! Nothing like beauty that emanates from the mind.
    Jarlaxle Jarlaxle 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 25

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    Who Wants An Idiot?

    A real girlfriend should be your partner in everything. She should challenge you in conversation, in actions and in the bedroom, but she should also support you in everything that is important to you, just as you should do for her. How can you expect a girl to challenge you if...
    MrWinstonSmith MrWinstonSmith 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2012

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    Nothing rushes blood to my nether region faster

    than a woman who is smooth in any topic I mention her, who speaks with a clear voice and has her feet well put on earth. Leaving depravity aside (first line), nothing is better or more exquisite than a woman you can argue with. By arguing I mean as in debating. A woman you can...
    Stythe Stythe 18-21, M Mar 8

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    Intelligent, Open Minded And Down To Earth.

    They are three main qualities I look for in women, id be lying if i said looks weren't important because they are but having those characteristics is a good start. I don't find girls who act like gods gift attractive at all! Girls I tend to go for are more "quirky" and unique and...
    lonethought lonethought 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Wrap Me 'round Your Mind...

    There is little more attractive than the mind of an intelligent and confident woman...I do think the two go hand in hand...and a supple mind far exceeds a supple body.  I love nothing more than to wrap my mind around the curves of another's.I recently had a lengthy conversation...
    CurvatureoftheMind CurvatureoftheMind 56-60, M 4 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    Yes, Intelligence Is Very Sexy!

    Definitely attracted to intelligent women. These little airhead barbie dolls do nothing for me. No matter how great they look, ultimately, I find them just irritating. One can only talk about a shopping mall for so long (about 45 seconds and thats pushing it LOL) Thank God my...
    Praxis Praxis 36-40, M 9 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    If For Nothing Else, The Conversations.

    Beautiy Fades. However as long as a good conversation or a well civilized debate can happen then I can forgive plenty of indisgressions. I was told a long time ago, by a friend, that I get to choose 2 - pretty, smart, and sane. Personally I like pretty (I am a man it's a thing...
    jondoen jondoen 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    Smart Women Always Turn Me On !

    It's just the way they are .... they give that energy to my ergoneous zones which keeps me feeling youthful all along. Want to feel them and fill them in .....
    1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    Intelligence And The Modern Woman

    Intelligent woman are hard to come by. That sounds incredibly misogynistic, and don't for a second think that I think men are superior, because they're not. To that end, intelligent, honest men are hard to come by as well. What I mean is that ever since I've found out that I like...
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M 24 Responses Oct 25, 2010

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    My Wife The Future Doctor

    I married an intelligent woman. When my wife and I got married, she was getting her Masters Degree in Horticulture Therapy. Now she's passed that and getting her PhD in the same subject.
    TheCauterizer TheCauterizer 26-30, M Aug 12, 2012

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    Depth And Mystery

    I prefer a mature woman with depth, character and a bit of mystery...one who knows what she wants and in time will share her mysterious side once you warm up to her...attractive, intelligent women are often reserved which is also appealing to me...to me the mind is an extremely...
    rsrvd4slm8 rsrvd4slm8 56-60, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I am very attracted to women. I guess that is why I am bisexual :) My 1st sexual experience, consensual experience, was with a woman, well with a girl I should say :) I do love...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 23

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    Honestly, I really am more attracted to a woman by the way she thinks and the warmth of her manner than the way she looks or really even what she does. I want to fall in love with...
    splinterbl splinterbl 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    Does any other women girls have an overwhelming attraction to women girls that they can't function through the day without thinking ov them, I am always attracted to straight girls...
    Nic34brit Nic34brit 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 14

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    I honestly believe that you can love both men and women but some people show it a lot more, men have this charm, funny, strong and caring side and women have this tender, loving...
    georgiecrouch georgiecrouch 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I really like talking to women that know how to use grammar decently. I also enjoy when they can share my sense of sarcastic and witty humor.
    goofyg54 goofyg54 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    i love how a women feels smells and looks . My husband loves that about me . I hope one day my husband and i can share a girlfriend . I love men too . I am no confused as most...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I am attracted to all sorts of women but the women I love the most are BBW's. The first time I went all the way with another women was also the first time I got with a big woman...
    MrsGrisham MrsGrisham 22-25, F 30 mins ago

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    Now don't get me wrong, there needs to be some physical attraction as well! However, for me, the mind behind the beauty is where it's at... I want to run deep in your imagination...
    shoehorny shoehorny 41-45, M 6 Responses Apr 8

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    I am more attracted to women than men. I'd say that I'm 85% lesbian. Only because I've never been with a woman. The farthest I've ever gotten was a make out session. Nothing other...
    GeorgiaPeach03 GeorgiaPeach03 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I am asked often why I prefer women. "Do you dislike men? Do you distrust them? Did you have a bad experience?" they say. As if these are the only valid reasons! My sexual...
    Cdm210 Cdm210 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I am naturally attracted to men that are intelligent and can hold stimulating conversations. A sharp mind with the self-confidence to back it up is one of the qualities I find most...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I seriously thought I was alone haha I love intelligent people It's such a TURN ON! I love it when someone has such a beautiful and vast intellectual capacity They know how to...
    YungPocahontas YungPocahontas 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    My whole life I have been attracted to older women. I know I would love to be in a discrete relationship with a sexy older woman. I turned 18 a couple months ago and I really want...
    YoungAndHungry YoungAndHungry 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    I dont really like the term nerds or geeks but I really think they are so beautiful...... Yes yes I will fall head over heals for A guy that is intelligent. mmmmm
    UnchartedOne UnchartedOne 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    If I come across someone with just as much wit as I have, I'm usually immediately attracted. I like stepping out of my comfort zone in deep conversation and I'm not the most...
    JohGrace JohGrace 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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