I Am Attracted to Intelligent Women

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    I love women who are smart

    and I can hold an intelligent conversation with. It's such a turn on to me.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    I love intelligent women

    because there is always a conversation and a debate to be had. Conversation is very important as we age, when exterior beauty fades, and the honeymoon stage is on "simmer", conversation becomes one of the most important things.
    shesheresomewhere2014 shesheresomewhere2014
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 10, 2014
    Bircos Bircos
    22-25, M
    Feb 5, 2016

    beauty with brains is the ideal combo

    but a woman who has brains and uses them becomes way more prety ..though can be said the same for a man ..
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    1 Response Jun 16, 2015

    I feel fortunate to have a number of them in my

    friends list. i appreciate them and their warmth and humor. they more than make up for the morons and jerks we all endure here. thanks for being my ep friends.
    xkmb xkmb
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    i dont know the real reason behind it

    but i know i enjoy their company and convos with intelligent girls (not necessarily book smart) are far much more interesting. intelligence is something i value a lot it's an important quality in anyone for me to get along well with
    dollarsigns dollarsigns
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016

    Intelligent Women Scare Some But Not Me, I Love Them

    I am 53 now and when I was a younger man maybe I would have been intimidated but now I love intelligent conversation. It is so wonderful to find someone who is your equal or better in intelligence. A lady who acts the dumb blonde will never attract me for a long term relationship...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 4, 2013

    whenever I see a smart,

    intelligent women, I automatically gets attracted to her. I guess a self dependent woman who knows how to handle but still behaves as a kid in front of a man is the beat any man can get. I wish I could get one. +.-
    thedivich1 thedivich1
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 22, 2016

    cause, they are hell strong

    and know how to find a way in every situation.. they are not every time dependant upon you.. also they know who's cheating them and who's being true to them.. so I am attracted to intelligent women..
    sakaru69 sakaru69
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    My Secret Obsession

        Like most critical negotiations, it eventually came down to one issue and two people, and she and I had been going at each other for almost four hours straight. She was lead counsel for the other side. Tall, thick dark hair pulled to the back of her head, tasteful makeup...
    CuriousNomad CuriousNomad
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2013

    Women with glasses basically?

    ? Not many out there tbh. At least where I'm at.
    Jadencey Jadencey
    18-21, M
    Dec 28, 2015

    I respect Women for the intelligence they have ,

    every child grows up just because of intelligence of women , they knew how to take situations and handle them .
    shekarleader shekarleader
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 13, 2015

    I do believe that an intelligent woman is

    likely to be more attractive and provide a possible lasting relationship!
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    Aug 31, 2015

    There's one very intelligent woman I've grown

    quite fond of talking to, though she is very difficult to persuade as she sees many thousand factors just as I do and hasn't had enough time in life to categorize and know how she will value each factor. Also, she's far too intelligent to keep anything from, in fact I can't...
    anon8369 anon8369
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Oct 27, 2015

    I love talking to intelligent people of

    whatever gender but I am particularly attracted to intelligent, confident women.
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    1 Response Dec 14, 2015

    My last girlfriend was highly intelligent

    and taught me so much. I really miss her. Intelligence is far more important than a tight *** or perky boobs. When looking for a new partner, it would be my number 1 priority.
    JKerouac JKerouac
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    It's difficult to picture myself with someone

    whom I wouldn't be able to have and maintain a thought provoking and/or open minded conversation. Someone with a sensible wit and easy to talk to. Having an open mind is probably one of the more attractive things a woman could demonstrate. Unfortunately the above listed...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 11, 2014

    i dont have to be naked to get a mans attention,

    so I'm sorry little girl that your text messages and dirty pictures didn't hold him down, it must have been because of your lack of ability to hold an intellectual conversation. If you carry yourself like a piece of trash, you'll be thrown out. meanwhile, he'll be courting me...
    Megan2134 Megan2134
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 5, 2014

    There's nothing really special about a

    beautiful woman but add a killer personality and intellect beyond measure and you're 1000000 times more attractive
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    Aug 20, 2015
    Keenan244 Keenan244
    16-17, M
    Feb 17, 2016

    Daylin, definition from Urban Dictionary: A

    girl who, whilst being extremely pretty, protective, and sexy, is scary as all f**king hell. You do not mess with this chick. You won't know its coming, but the next day you will end up tied to a pole, naked, tarred and feathered. Enjoys the notebook and dancing. Not that I...
    adianoeta adianoeta
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    An intelligent, beautiful woman with dirty mind

    that makes you lough non stop should be considered a ******* treasure.
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    4 Responses Nov 24, 2014
    IsBenYou IsBenYou
    22-25, M
    Sep 8, 2015
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2015

    Yet they feel like the rarest creatures face

    of the Earth. If I found a truly intelligent woman, I'd give her the Universe. Sapiosexuality is rare, but nothing turns me on more than a woman who actually thinks and stimulates her mind.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 2, 2015

    I'm an intelligent woman!

    If you're in this group you might enjoy a conversation with moi. :)
    Elayla Elayla
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Nov 15, 2014

    A beautiful and intelligent woman is what I

    absolutely adore and love. She stands at the center of my Universe thus making me as her worshipper
    deleted deleted
    Jul 28, 2015

    I don't care what you look like.

    I just want you to be open minded and educated. I'm only 14 and my strive for knowledge has made me more educated on some subjects than most adults. If I ever date someone I want them to have a strive for knowledge not unlike mine.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015

    I finally got to spend some time with her today.

    Busiest woman ever. I guess that's how it is for strong-headed, independent women. It was funny because before today I was thinking... Forget it. It's hard enough to get a hold of her let alone see her. Then, I couldn't get her out of my head. She's got this confidence...
    NewShoes12 NewShoes12
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jul 5, 2014

    Women who think before they speak,

    have their own ideologies and can converse rationally, as opposed to emotionally, are amazing to me.
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    2 Responses Mar 12, 2016

    Looks are important to me,

    no doubt about it. But looks and intelligence? You have me hooked.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 8, 2014

    I have a much different opinion about this

    than I used to. I used not care much about brains or having an intelligent conversation with a woman. I care for my wife but she doesn't follow politics or the news or education and I find that it's hard to have any kind of conversation that goes beyond "how was your day?". I...
    bgood79 bgood79
    36-40, M
    Jun 22, 2015

    Intelligent woman are

    so attractive. I know I'm a girl but I don't care. There is nothing more attractive than a smart person. Dumb people or people that try to act dumb just really tick me off.
    yesenia33 yesenia33
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

    There be some slim pickings around here that's

    for sure ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
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    2 Responses Aug 24, 2015

    I identify with pansexuality,

    and that just means that my 'choices' aren't limited to someone's biological sex, gender or gender identity. I never actually realized this about myself until I began a conversation with this super smart girl. It was during our senior year of high school and she was a new...
    daretowrite daretowrite
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 7, 2015
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 24, 2016

    I wish I could find an intelligent women out

    there that also is not superficial. Why does it seem the two are not mutually exclusive?
    apd1985 apd1985
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2015

    I had met a girl once at a park.

    I decided to start a talk but being the nervous wreck I am I had a hard time. But she turned out to be really smart making it easier to talk to. It was a bit of a turn on knowing I could have a smart conversation with her. It was a great day.
    deleted deleted
    Aug 18, 2015

    Tbh, I've been in love with a girl

    that actually is like one of the most intelligent persons I've met, she is sweet and well she just perfect, she just makes me smile, the bad point, she is like, you're my best friend, and well I'm gonna try to date her soon.....
    Melotellixx Melotellixx
    18-21, M
    Nov 1, 2015
    CovertInk CovertInk
    31-35, F
    8 Responses May 6, 2015

    I don't want to toot my own horn too much

    but uh i was one of the top students in my class and I got a pretty good sat score. Lmao.
    keishajo keishajo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    I'm trying to find that special girl

    for my life feel free to message me
    MadisonWest24 MadisonWest24
    22-25, F
    Oct 22, 2015
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 18, 2016

    Hello so first of all I'm a lesbian i have

    always found myself being more attracted to intelligent women than those who are not. I love holding deep conversations about life and the world we live in. Intellegent women understand this and contribute to it and i feel like I get much closer to women who can be intimate on a...
    NightsEternalShadow NightsEternalShadow
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2014
    Lockholder Lockholder
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2016

    Intelligent women may not always make the best

    decisions when it comes to matters of the heart, especially when they choose to follow it, but leave the brain behind.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe
    46-50, F
    1 Response May 11, 2015

    I find it increasingly difficult to find an

    introspective woman who engages in critical thought. Do you exist?
    JohnVanderfrahm JohnVanderfrahm
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Mar 15, 2016

    looks can only go so far

    but in some cases intelligence seem to last forever. Women dont need to be scholars to be smart but its nice to meet women that carry themselves beyond an MTV lifestyle. just an opinion
    GaleBT GaleBT
    22-25, M
    Mar 17, 2016

    really I love intelligent women

    who understand her partner very well.
    branded20 branded20
    22-25, M
    Nov 13, 2015

    It's weird that Tina Fey's image is the one

    this group decided to go with.
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    Feb 14, 2016
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