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I Am Attracted to Intelligent Women

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    but it seems like there is

    so few of them... or better, not to offend them, I have not very good luck in running into them...
    lukash87 lukash87 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    Intelligence is underrated.

    Women with intelligence are very attractive to me. Obviously it's not the be all and end all, but if I find a woman attractive in other ways, and she shows intelligence, then she has a strong appeal to me.
    Romanadvoratrelundar Romanadvoratrelundar 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    It's difficult to picture myself with someone

    whom I wouldn't be able to have and maintain a thought provoking and/or open minded conversation. Someone with a sensible wit and easy to talk to. Having an open mind is probably one of the more attractive things a woman could demonstrate. Unfortunately the above listed...
    Justjonathan Justjonathan 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 11, 2014

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    subpop subpop 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses May 1

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    a smart woman with common sense

    and a sense of humor is to be treasured and appreciated. i have no idea why other guys dont see that.
    KMB5 KMB5 51-55 5 Responses Mar 21

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    Daylin, definition from Urban Dictionary: A

    girl who, whilst being extremely pretty, protective, and sexy, is scary as all f**king hell. You do not mess with this chick. You won't know its coming, but the next day you will end up tied to a pole, naked, tarred and feathered. Enjoys the notebook and dancing. Not that I...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    Looks are important to me,

    no doubt about it. But looks and intelligence? You have me hooked.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    Women who aren't obsessed with 'selfies'

    or trying to copy some dumba*s celebrity, someone who actually has brain cells instead of fake tan and hairdye in their heads
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    There is nothing more attractive,

    interesting, fascinating and sexy than an intelligent woman.
    RC4blue RC4blue 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 12

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 10

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    As opposed to what, dumb

    and stupid ones? This title just kills me. There should be a group called; "Im attracted to dumb and stupid women" Or guys for that matter. Surely there must be a lot of discerning guys who would tend to prefer their women a little on the not too witty side, as long as they...
    diegodlavega diegodlavega 46-50, M 9 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    My Secret Obsession

        Like most critical negotiations, it eventually came down to one issue and two people, and she and I had been going at each other for almost four hours straight. She was lead counsel for the other side. Tall, thick dark hair pulled to the back of her head, tasteful makeup...
    CuriousNomad CuriousNomad 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    *Sigh* unfortunately the word intelligence

    means less and less to me every day. I am attracted to colourful individuals which character, emotions and an interesting life.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 3

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    In this App I have four loving caring

    and socially perfect womens. they are nstar1983,lindseygreypat3,lovingyou1,and suumcuique. I always love them.
    phool289 phool289 26-30, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Intelligent woman are

    so attractive. I know I'm a girl but I don't care. There is nothing more attractive than a smart person. Dumb people or people that try to act dumb just really tick me off.
    yesenia33 yesenia33 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I can't speak around women.

    I can respond to a question, but that's about as far as it goes. It's like a limbo in my throat that just ain't come out. weird isn't it?
    darthty darthty 18-21, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I love intelligent women

    because there is always a conversation and a debate to be had. Conversation is very important as we age, when exterior beauty fades, and the honeymoon stage is on "simmer", conversation becomes one of the most important things.
    shesheresomewhere2014 shesheresomewhere2014 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    I love it when I can

    not only relate to a woman but who can also share their knowledge of past experiences.
    sharichi sharichi 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 9, 2014

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    I'm an intelligent woman!

    If you're in this group you might enjoy a conversation with moi. :)
    Elayla Elayla 31-35, F 11 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    I don't think I've ever met an intelligent

    female who wasn't a doctor.
    GammaErra GammaErra 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 15

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    watched a movie in class about women's suffrage

    and how hard women fought for them, about how they starved them selves and got force fed. I admire the bravery in women. you're the real mvps
    dksl14 dksl14 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 1, 2014

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    A socially imperfect woman with the right mind

    is gold. Unfortunately it seems difficult around here to find a woman with true intellectual interest.
    Iconoclast11 Iconoclast11 22-25, M 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    MyAnonymAlterEgo MyAnonymAlterEgo 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 21

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    I'm attracted to intelligent women.

    When I get to know some hot girls, I realize they are empty and poring. Intelligent women know their beauty comes beyond their out look. And they open a huge door to share with them ur stories and experience. Plus they know how to act and dress and that's only intelligent girls...
    Arobi Arobi 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 31, 2014

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    Beauty is a thing that depreciates over time

    so if that's all you have to bring to the table I'd rather not invest my time in you.
    kimchiaddict kimchiaddict 36-40, M 17 hrs ago

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    Intelligent Women Scare Some But Not Me, I Love Them

    I am 53 now and when I was a younger man maybe I would have been intimidated but now I love intelligent conversation. It is so wonderful to find someone who is your equal or better in intelligence. A lady who acts the dumb blonde will never attract me for a long term relationship...
    nowandlater nowandlater 51-55, M Aug 4, 2013

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    I love women who are smart

    and I can hold an intelligent conversation with. It's such a turn on to me.
    eartheyes82 eartheyes82 31-35, M 5 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Intelligent women may not always make the best

    decisions when it comes to matters of the heart, especially when they choose to follow it, but leave the brain behind.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I find so many females are

    either fascinated with or attracted to me (sorry for the narcissism), but they can never hold my interest for more than a week. Only one person has ever held a candle to me with words, but that was short lived... so many ladies claim to be sapiosexual, but don't deliver...
    carmansoul carmansoul 16-17, M 4 Responses Feb 24

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    I finally got to spend some time with her today.

    Busiest woman ever. I guess that's how it is for strong-headed, independent women. It was funny because before today I was thinking... Forget it. It's hard enough to get a hold of her let alone see her. Then, I couldn't get her out of my head. She's got this confidence...
    NewShoes12 NewShoes12 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    Pretty women are everywhere to be found.

    A pretty woman who can hold a conversation separates herself from them in my mind, she reels me in and I am caught! Nothing like beauty that emanates from the mind.
    Jarlaxle Jarlaxle 46-50, M Jan 25, 2014

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    The Conundrum

    I've always been attracted to the smarties. At gatherings or parties I find myself talking to the bright ones They're usually married. That doesn't surprise me. Nor does that bother me as I am not trying talk them into bed. I just like to be able to communicate on that level...
    raybobus raybobus 66-70, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    i dont have to be naked to get a mans attention,

    so I'm sorry little girl that your text messages and dirty pictures didn't hold him down, it must have been because of your lack of ability to hold an intellectual conversation. If you carry yourself like a piece of trash, you'll be thrown out. meanwhile, he'll be courting me...
    Megan2134 Megan2134 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    I don't want to toot my own horn too much

    but uh i was one of the top students in my class and I got a pretty good sat score. Lmao.
    keishajo keishajo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    who is going to help me figure out what this

    app is and how to use it :D
    thomsonblake thomsonblake 18-21, M Apr 12

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    There is something about an intelligent woman

    that makes me happy. The ability of someone with intelligence that can actually keep me interested in a conversation is amazing. It is always refreshing to find someone of the opposite sex that can keep an intelligent conversation with me. A woman that could keep me going in...
    chrissed47 chrissed47 18-21, M Feb 14

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    Socalman310 Socalman310 51-55, M Jan 7

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    An intelligent, beautiful woman with dirty mind

    that makes you lough non stop should be considered a ******* treasure.
    jojo0915 jojo0915 31-35, M 6 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    Intelligence And The Modern Woman

    Intelligent woman are hard to come by. That sounds incredibly misogynistic, and don't for a second think that I think men are superior, because they're not. To that end, intelligent, honest men are hard to come by as well. What I mean is that ever since I've found out that I like...
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M 24 Responses Oct 25, 2010

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    Gotta Love'em!

    The logo was a tough choice: either Tina Fey or Dorthy Parker. I find intelligent women with big vocabularies incredibly texty! If they have a nice tight body of paragraphs to go with it -- I am putty in their hands. I am attracted to intelligent women.
    niceguyinhell niceguyinhell 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    SuumCuique SuumCuique 31-35, F 11 Responses May 6

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    Read In The News Today.

    No one ever understands a woman unless he understands every word that she is NOT saying. Printed in the Times of India in "They Said It" section by 'Ram Gopal Varma'  who is a filmmaker on women. My take on it is, It should not be generalized that way - There are some who call a...
    woodland27 woodland27 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    They are the future. Live

    for the future, right? Lol. Really, though, learning more from a partner is a type of foreplay. Seriously.
    bubblest bubblest 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    An intelligent woman stimulates my five senses.

    she's soft to the touch....beautiful in my eyes....pleasant of the scent.....music to my ears....delicious if I get a taste.....
    youngndfurius youngndfurius 22-25, M Dec 20, 2014

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