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I Am Attracted to Nerdy Guys

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    I Am Dating A Techie :) - Thank you to all who read, I understand that it is long :) Hey I go to a residential school for students elite in the fields of Math and Science,so...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2013

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    Yes. And Here's The Catch... - I have a few criteria: A) You must be scientifically minded, and scientifically curious. And not fall asleep when I start blabbering on about the...
    fastsandslash fastsandslash 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    I'm a bit nerdy too. Nerdy guys are just so adorable to me. Most likely because I'm very nerdy too xD
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Ahh Nerdy Boys I Crushed - Idk what 'nerds' word actually refer to, if its refers to guys who look clumsy An un up2date style, with glasses, messy hair, smart over capacity brain...
    staticonveyor staticonveyor 22-25, M Aug 12, 2011

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    I Don't Know Why I'm So Attracted To Nerdy Guys - When I was in sixth grade, I had a huge crush on this nerdy guy. His name was Peter, and I don't know how my Mom knew I must have...
    owrelax owrelax 51-55, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2010

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    Now I Know That Nerds Are Best! - Kids at school fell into four different categories; 1) The popular 2) Middle of the road but fit in anywhere 3) Greb's (only wear black and like...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 15, 2008

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    Nerdy Guys - Nerdy guys,They're an attraction,Not sure why,Perhaps,That's the way it is.
    stormcape3 stormcape3 46-50 Sep 11, 2012

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    Can I Make Him Mine..? - About me: The last couple of years I find myself attracted to "nerdy" guys or guys im not normally attracted to. I realize it's not all about looks, that's...
    ninja250gal ninja250gal 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2012

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    Intelligence Is Sexy!! ... - Intelligence is sexy!! I hate it when a guy cannot think his way out of a wet paper bag. I want someone that I can talk to about anything. I don't...
    TragicWhispers TragicWhispers 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    If Your Nerdy, You've Won My Heart -  I just love an intelligent guy who has a clear and obviously successful future. I just LOVE a guy with goals and is intelligent enough to...
    seungwon seungwon 16-17, F Feb 22, 2012

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    I Am Attracted To Nerdy Guys. - Im a nerdy girl whose attracted to nerdy guys. Though i  never approach them romantically ( im kind of shy) I like to talk to guys who i know i...
    LennonLover LennonLover 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Sapiosexual, Yessir. - I've never been interested in any different type of man besides "the nerd".. Intelligence is sexy. It's having power. Combine this with the geeky...
    AlizInWonderland AlizInWonderland 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    I've Got The Hots For Nerdy Guys - I have always and forever will. The thing is, I am not so much of a nerd myself. I can't seem to attract them. They always go for the girls...
    DreamofPerfection DreamofPerfection 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    Yumm. - Actually it depends on the level of nerdiness. I LOVE quirkiness but I can not stand awkwardness. I always did love Steve Urkel. He had the right amount of nerdy swagger...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 28 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    I Have My Moments - I'm not an A+ nerd, but I do have my moments when I'm good in a subject like language arts, and a little bit in Science and computers.There is this Hispanic...
    Elijahx Elijahx 18-21, M 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    My Clark Kent!! - Let me start by saying I feel that I am a closet nerd. So I was at Walmart of all places lol. And I was trying to get some things for my room because I had just...
    Rachaelandbilly4ever Rachaelandbilly4ever 18-21 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    I have to say I find myself attract to the "intelligent" looking guys, especially with glasses. ;)
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Datin' One! -  He may be nerdy, but boy he sure is amazing. I always tend to like the nerds, i dont know why. People say I deserve "better" but really, I don't...
    TrueBlue5 TrueBlue5 16-17 2 Responses Jul 31, 2009

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    Nerds/Geeks Are Attractive - Being 16 the majority of girls my age go for the highly attractive/sporty/muscly guys, but I've just never liked those type of guys, like don't get me...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 16-17, F Nov 6, 2013

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    Just My Type! - i've always got along better with guys i can have a decent conversation with! its much better to talk to  someone who actually wants to talk  and we can...
    aaangie aaangie 41-45, F 10 Responses Jun 7, 2009

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    My "nerdy Guy" Dream Come True! - I have always had a type - not the jocks, not the entertainers, but the quieter and more studious guys. Over the past year, I think I...
    mal2v mal2v 18-21 1 Response Mar 12, 2010

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    I Love Nerds. - Nerds, are awesome. Smart men are super sexy, I love listening to them talk about the things that excite them. I like that usually they have no idea that they could...
    omgseriously omgseriously 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Hello - I uh, I'm sixteen, and my name is Jarod. Zefram Cochrane was the name of a star trek character who developed warp drive, Zefram is my middle name. But, being sixteen, if...
    zeframcochrane zeframcochrane 16-17 2 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    Hearing "Nerds" Makes Me Want To Bash A Few Skulls - Is being a "nerd" the new "in" thing? Because I remember in detail how innocently suggesting my hobbies was enough to brand me...
    Molocheanhand Molocheanhand 22-25, M 8 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    Nerdy Guys Are The Best - They're polite, different, capable of having an intelligent converstaion, and they seem to treat women better than other types of men do. I like a guy who...
    LC87 LC87 22-25, F 13 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    Beauty & The Geek Rant - Beauty & The Geek...Okay, folks...So what the **** is up with that show?A dude I knew from college was on the show so I watched it and it made me rage...
    BettyValentine BettyValentine 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    Am So Cute.. - AM CUTE YES I KNOW...WHERE EVER I GO I SEE BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE LOOKING AT ME...I LOVE MY LOOK
    adeshina adeshina 26-30, M Mar 18, 2012

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    Ah, Yes. <3 - I love nerd boys. Especially music nerds. I have no idea why. Nothing turns me on more than proper grammar, spelling and intelligence. I guess because I'm a nerd...
    seawithinasea seawithinasea 18-21, F Dec 19, 2011

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    Cute Are The Nerds - Nerdy guys attract me too. Actually, I had a crush on my classmate right now. He definitely looks like a nerd. With his rounded eyeglasses, thick books, and...
    silinglabuyo silinglabuyo 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2013

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    The Quiet Ones Intrigue Me - Before I go any further I feel a need to just apologies to any man reading this. I have no rational reason for the apology; however for some reason...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 1, 2012

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    My Nerd, He Is So Nerdy... Let Me Tell Ya. Supporting Evidence Inside. - My nerd, let me see... wears very thick glasses (black rims like the dudes in our group picture...
    tidetheory tidetheory 26-30, F 1 Response May 4, 2008

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    I Sensed It.. - It was the way you didn't look at me as soon as I noticed you. It was the way you moved your head, well poised and concentrated. As if.. I didn't sense it. Your...
    saneinsanity saneinsanity 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    What turn me on about geeks lol is I am one on the inside but on the out I'm a bomb shell lol I love that I'm the last person they think will wanna be with them sexually but I love...
    prettypolyprincess prettypolyprincess 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Gotta Love Them - My very first boyfriend was the biggest nerd I had ever seen. He even at one point had tape holding his glasses together (no lie) but, we were friends for quite a...
    allyKat allyKat 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 11, 2007

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    Drowned - His name is straight out of my preteen fantasy books. He works at the library and recomends Vonnegut to anyone who asks. His favorite music is quiet tracks by dead...
    awkwardlighting awkwardlighting 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    Hotness Radiating From Their Usernames - Ahh nerd boys yesss. Don't you just love the way they ramble? You can just listen to them talk for hours on end about things you haven't...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    Not the ones addicted to video games... I mean the ones who love math, computers, and/or science. They can ramble on and on and I'll listen attentively, liking them more with every...
    tryingtobeashappyasiappear tryingtobeashappyasiappear 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Language Barrier - When language is the barrier, he first smiled and used the gesture to explain on what I can do to help him. Cute.
    qaline qaline 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2013

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    Nerds & Geeks = ♥ - I hate to be the one to say it, but there is a difference between two, (which that fact that I know the difference sort of me a geek and a nerd in its own way...
    MysticFae MysticFae 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    The Truth Behind Nerdy Guys. - This year in college has brought several up s and downs. Relationship after relationship I began to notice similarities between the guys I spent my...
    laurenzm20 laurenzm20 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Nerd Is Such A Derogatory Word... - If by nerd you mean A Mathematics/Science GeniusAwww... Shy Boy A Techie Computer Wiz Socially Awkward in a cute wayRespectful, Kind...
    myserendipity myserendipity 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    Oh Please Say You Mean It - I can only hope this group is not a satirical jab. If there are women who truly do like nerdy guys, hit me up. :)
    dontwanttomorrow dontwanttomorrow 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    My Nerdy Lover - It all started my freshman year of college. I was enrolled in choir. That's where I met Jeff. Quite honestly, my original impression of him was "Whoa. That is...
    golegos17 golegos17 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2012

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    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Feb 13

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    Where Are They? - I will always be attracted to a nerd over a heart-throb. No contest. Have a collection of starwars characters and you've caught my eye. Actually do anything with...
    JadedLass JadedLass 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Im Most Deff a Nerd... - I just use my own dress code lol... my tested IQ is 142... I am a self employed IT Consultant... I research alot of nerdish things... like Quantum...
    MichaelMalek MichaelMalek 31-35, M 4 Responses May 30, 2009

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    no idea why , my friends think I am nuts but I always have . Must admit the skinny ones I have been with have all been well hung too LOL
    gillianlikes3 gillianlikes3 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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