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I Am Attracted to Nerdy Guys

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    The Truth Behind Nerdy Guys.

    This year in college has brought several up s and downs. Relationship after relationship I began to notice similarities between the guys I spent my time with. most were very good friends but when it came down to dating they seemed to suddenly distance themselves emotionally from...
    laurenzm20 laurenzm20 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I'm a nerdy guy that like video games,

    Sci fi and doctor who and a bit of anime. If you are a 15-18 year old girl and wanna chat, message me
    SonicTimelord SonicTimelord 16-17, M Apr 2

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    I am currently dating a nerdy guy in a way!

    Like he's really into computers and all that, and I loveeee when he's suddenly aroused and wants to insert his hard drive if you get me. lol Then that atmosphere of a **** becomes us lol... but not literally!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 26

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    Mainly the socially akward shy ones.

    Stuttering is my weak spot.
    ScarletNightmare ScarletNightmare 16-17, F Jul 29, 2014

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    I'm a nerdy guy. Love history,

    science, philosophy and comic books. Any girls out there want to chat, or more? Message me.
    Benny412 Benny412 31-35, M Feb 16

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    Don't know what it is

    but that's what I'm highly attracted to plus their nicer when they talk to a lady ☺
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    I don't think I'm nerdy really.

    I just really love smart guys with cute, nerdy personalities. I'm all about personality.
    Devinwevin Devinwevin 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    I don't know man...something about guys

    who are smart just makes me attracted to them. Nerdy guys are the best. I've dated a couple of nerds when I was in high school. They were the sweetest guys I've ever met.
    allsummer allsummer 18-21, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    Why do men who are attracted to women stare

    but don't smile yet stare for awhile.. It's not a welcome but rather the opposite and I can never understand why men do that. Yesterday as I was walking to the hospital a guy turned and stared. I was just thinking what on earth is the problem. Then again a white collar sitting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 30

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    I like 'em awkward. There's one guy I know in

    particular. I've known him since high school, and he was super awkward. I caught him staring at my chest one day and called him out on it. He couldn't look me in the eye for weeks. So I started teasing him regularly, telling him I wanted to have his babies, etc.. He would just...
    BCodewell BCodewell 26-30, F May 14

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    I have to say I find myself attract to the

    "intelligent" looking guys, especially with glasses. ;)
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F Mar 26, 2014

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    hey somebody msg me idc

    who im just bored af!
    Shai13 Shai13 13-15, F Feb 22

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    I`m nerdy guy myself.

    I`m the best lookin guy in the world but I do take care of myself. I don`t have pimples,braces,or big dorky glasses nor fat or anything like that but I`m not well built nor do I have six pack. I do have a job and I have my own room. I do manage to do things without anyones help...
    naughtyboy91 naughtyboy91 22-25 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    Where Are They?

    I will always be attracted to a nerd over a heart-throb. No contest. Have a collection of starwars characters and you've caught my eye. Actually do anything with science and your my kind of guy. Can make a computer out of a box and paperclips and I find that hawt. A gamer I...
    JadedLass JadedLass 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    My boyfriend is the cutest thing,

    he is so nerdy and dorky but I love him so much. We play video games together all the time. It's funny when I beat him especially when it's black ops, it's only happened twice but that's enough for me.
    Loislane29 Loislane29 22-25, F Feb 16

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    I love them because they are

    so endearing and cute. I also find them to be more fun to be around because they tend to be passionate about their interests.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 6

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    I can't picture myself with anyone

    but a nerd. Who else would understand my lame puns and watch Doctor Who marathons with me?
    nerdfighter314 nerdfighter314 16-17, F Jun 23

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    I am a nerdy girl. Therefore I relate the best

    with nerdy guys. What else is there to say? I love intelligence and out of ordinary personalities. Sports guys don't interest me.
    groundcraze groundcraze 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2014

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    I know it's an unattractive Americanism,

    but the educated and slightly obsessive male is quite a lot of fun to be with! Someone who is knowledgeable about some thing kind of tangental is attractive...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    I just adore nerdy guys.

    Anything from mega smarty pants(Big Bang Theory) to anime watching freaks to video game nerdsッ they make me smile and I love spending time with people like that. They are soo passionate about what they do and watch, it's adorable, I can't help myself from crushing.
    SuzyB00 SuzyB00 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    There's just somethin' somethin' bout white

    and nerdy, is it the glasses? The hair? Or just the fact I get my computer upgrades for free? *shrugs* Dunno but he does it every time. Talk nerdy to me baby..
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I swear I don't know

    why I love nerdy guys some of them are so cute :) like when they start telling me about computers( how to take them apart, what do if it breaks , how to hack the basics lol etc) or games( or systems) or anime haha or manga or sports( I know nothing about sports lol) I just like...
    ReviMoanalott ReviMoanalott 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    I spent 38 minutes tonight with a Xbox

    controller shooting a machine gun and vibrating just right...
    ChloeGenovar ChloeGenovar 22-25, F 6 Responses May 13

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    azzalyss azzalyss 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Cute Are The Nerds

    Nerdy guys attract me too. Actually, I had a crush on my classmate right now. He definitely looks like a nerd. With his rounded eyeglasses, thick books, and wits when it comes to math. He's a loner too sometimes. But in spite of this weirdness he have(as other people would like...
    silinglabuyo silinglabuyo 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2013

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    Idk why I'm attracted to nerdy guys lol they

    are just so smart and adorable it reminds me of a playful puppy. I'm not talking about the guys who look hot in glasses but is a dumbass, I'm talking about real nerds. Every time I date a guy he is always a nerd and I like that haha (probably because I hate being the smart one...
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    My boyfriend is 6'4"

    and tries so hard to be macho but you hand him a DS with Legend of Zelda on it and he melts in to the cutest nerd you'll ever see. Makes me wanna just wanna hug him to pieces. I showed him the D&D books I was going to bring with me when I move in with him and he geeked out so...
    Harlequingal93 Harlequingal93 18-21, F Jan 24

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    This guy I like is so adorable,

    I can't stop thinking about him.
    UnhappyTeenLife UnhappyTeenLife 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    Especially during class,

    when he pushes up his glasses and starts scribbling stuff in his notebook. *sigh* haha
    orangezebras orangezebras 16-17, F Mar 8

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    Honestly, jocks can't

    even hold a conversation. It's like you're talking to an alien that has just learnt to speak.
    brokenfixed brokenfixed 18-21, M Mar 21

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    I understand nerdy to being academic

    and non mainstream. These are the guys I want to hang with! They might take a while to having fun, but they know his to!
    DearbhalC95 DearbhalC95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    kittylove16 kittylove16 16-17, F May 15

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    I find nerdy guys really attractive.

    It's a big turn ON for me the intelligence they posses. That kind of quality is really on top of my list, for the kind of man that I want to be with someday. So most of the time I get drawn to them, and usually hang out with them way back in high school, college even now that...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 1 Response May 15

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    What turn me on about geeks lol is I am one on

    the inside but on the out I'm a bomb shell lol I love that I'm the last person they think will wanna be with them sexually but I love em
    prettypolyprincess prettypolyprincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Intelligence Is Sexy!! ...

    Intelligence is sexy!! I hate it when a guy cannot think his way out of a wet paper bag. I want someone that I can talk to about anything. I don't want some doofus that doesn't know the different between a cirlce and a square.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    Nerds/Geeks Are Attractive

    Being 16 the majority of girls my age go for the highly attractive/sporty/muscly guys, but I've just never liked those type of guys, like don't get me wrong, when people come with looks it's good, but I just find personality wise nerdy guys are so attractive. I even like the...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Mmm... nerdy, geeky guys.

    The more awkward, the better. If you ask me what my type is, I'd say it's Michael Cera's movie characters. (Okay, let's include Jesse Eisenberg too because his roles are delectable jerks.) Braces/retainers. Metal mouths look so cute and kissable! I love the way they eat their...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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    I think tall, slender,

    nerdy brunettes with glasses are hotter than guys with back muscles and abs.
    wanorexic wanorexic 13-15, F Feb 22

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    Nerdy Guys Are The Best

    They're polite, different, capable of having an intelligent converstaion, and they seem to treat women better than other types of men do. I like a guy who knows how to fix my computer when I have no clue how.. lol. Or a guy that will play Warhammer with me! And talk about the...
    LC87 LC87 22-25, F 13 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    My Nerdy Lover

    It all started my freshman year of college. I was enrolled in choir. That's where I met Jeff. Quite honestly, my original impression of him was "Whoa. That is such an ugly girl." You see, Jeff had hair that was far longer than mine, far past his waist in millions of tiny...
    golegos17 golegos17 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2012

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    well , it's always like that^ pic.

    but not me sometimesactually, i always had a crush on guy who's in med-school .
    Mmontag Mmontag 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I get along with them better

    and I trust them more than other guys. :)
    ClarissaAnn ClarissaAnn 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Yumm.

    Actually it depends on the level of nerdiness. I LOVE quirkiness but I can not stand awkwardness. I always did love Steve Urkel. He had the right amount of nerdy swagger. LOL
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 29 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    Me and hubby started to watch Game of Thrones,

    and OMG!!!!!! if anything this show makes me and him want to go to a Renaissance Festival even more!!!!!! ya me and him did a all nighter on Saturday and watched the whole first season!!!! omg I soooo want a dragon.
    colorfullcolorado colorfullcolorado 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    My "nerdy Guy" Dream Come True!

    I have always had a type - not the jocks, not the entertainers, but the quieter and more studious guys. Over the past year, I think I've found my "nerdy guy"! As a shameless and self-confident "nerdy" girl, I've never had much interest in studly jocks or obnoxious party...
    mal2v mal2v 18-21 2 Responses Mar 12, 2010

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    I Have a Question

    Are there any women out there who are attracted to guys who don't fit into any particular group? I'm just a normal guy i'm not a stud i'm not a nerd i'm not a jock i'm not a bad boy and i'm not a saint. I'm just a normal guy. What is wrong with that why does everyone have to be...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 81 Responses Jan 21, 2008

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