I Am Attracted to Nerdy Guys

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    Above all else, I want a guy to talk nerdy to

    me. I'm a true sapiosexual. My real heart exists between my ears.
    Ryn88 Ryn88
    26-30, F
    Nov 7, 2015

    I am attracted to them

    but never dated one
    breathewalrus123 breathewalrus123
    22-25, F
    Nov 24, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 1, 2015

    I have to say I find myself attract to the

    "intelligent" looking guys, especially with glasses. ;)
    Tears3 Tears3
    18-21, F
    Mar 26, 2014

    I work in an office and I love

    when the IT boys come down to help us when we have computer problems. They're so hot. So smart and sexy. They definitely look like Clark Kent. They dress nerdy and all but you can definitely tell if they took off their glasses and untucked their shirt,, they'd be so sexy. They...
    Heart09 Heart09
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 11, 2014

    Intelligence Is Sexy!! ...

    Intelligence is sexy!! I hate it when a guy cannot think his way out of a wet paper bag. I want someone that I can talk to about anything. I don't want some doofus that doesn't know the different between a cirlce and a square.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 16, 2007

    I would rather go out with a nerdy guy.

    ..rather than a jock or whatever. I think nerdy guys are interesting & have more depth to them...and they just care more & try harder to please you & make you happy,:)
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Sep 17, 2014

    There's just so much to love about them

    especially when they talk about the stuff they like and why they like it...then they defend it and even try to start a debate on it. It's just so effin' adorable! :D Also, talking to them would widen my perspective of the world, it isn't true that they are not sociable at all...
    Qtrelle Qtrelle
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2015

    My boyfriend is a nerd

    and he is so cute. We are nerds together ?
    Flowerxox Flowerxox
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 17, 2015

    My Nerdy Lover

    It all started my freshman year of college. I was enrolled in choir. That's where I met Jeff. Quite honestly, my original impression of him was "Whoa. That is such an ugly girl." You see, Jeff had hair that was far longer than mine, far past his waist in millions of tiny...
    golegos17 golegos17
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 13, 2012

    I saw this guy at camp

    and he's nerdy I think. He's cute. Ugh. Too bad I'm not going back tomorrow :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 16, 2015

    hey somebody msg me idc

    who im just bored af!
    Shai13 Shai13
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2015

    I like guys who wear nice glasses

    and have a quiet laid back nerdy way about them, but not completely nerdy., but a little swag too. Ex Jeremy Suarez's looks, from the Bernie Mac show, but all grown up of course to my age is one of my types. I found an updated picture of him online but he didn't even look 20. If...
    KuriousKyah KuriousKyah
    26-30, F
    Aug 20, 2015

    I find guys that play Pokemon are attractive

    since I like playing Pokemon ALOT.
    00Jesley00 00Jesley00
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    I find nerdy guys really attractive.

    It's a big turn ON for me the intelligence they posses. That kind of quality is really on top of my list, for the kind of man that I want to be with someday. So most of the time I get drawn to them, and usually hang out with them way back in high school, college even now that...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal
    22-25, F
    May 15, 2015

    I just adore nerdy guys.

    Anything from mega smarty pants(Big Bang Theory) to anime watching freaks to video game nerdsッ they make me smile and I love spending time with people like that. They are soo passionate about what they do and watch, it's adorable, I can't help myself from crushing.
    SuzyB00 SuzyB00
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

    It's fun to converse with someone

    who understands where you're coming from (I'm nerdy when it comes to anime and quantum physics/alternate realities). To rant with them. I bet there's a feeling of belonging but I've never dated a nerd guy before.
    DetectiveofDreams DetectiveofDreams
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 26

    Cute Are The Nerds

    Nerdy guys attract me too. Actually, I had a crush on my classmate right now. He definitely looks like a nerd. With his rounded eyeglasses, thick books, and wits when it comes to math. He's a loner too sometimes. But in spite of this weirdness he have(as other people would like...
    silinglabuyo silinglabuyo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 22, 2013
    Marshmallowgaret Marshmallowgaret
    13-15, F
    Nov 7, 2015

    Me and hubby started to watch Game of Thrones,

    and OMG!!!!!! if anything this show makes me and him want to go to a Renaissance Festival even more!!!!!! ya me and him did a all nighter on Saturday and watched the whole first season!!!! omg I soooo want a dragon.
    colorfullcolorado colorfullcolorado
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2014

    Nerds/Geeks Are Attractive

    Being 16 the majority of girls my age go for the highly attractive/sporty/muscly guys, but I've just never liked those type of guys, like don't get me wrong, when people come with looks it's good, but I just find personality wise nerdy guys are so attractive. I even like the...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 6, 2013

    Haha its a bit of a problem really XD

    but if you're a nerdy guy then automatically I have a sweet spot for you :)
    yoru1234 yoru1234
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 5

    The nerdiest of late was my ex,

    a German guy, Sigismund.He really is a nerd! A really nice guy, don't misunderstand me please, but his nerdiness had a surprise I didn't really get too comfortable with.
    Dieudonneso Dieudonneso
    22-25, F
    Mar 21

    I get along with them better

    and I trust them more than other guys. :)
    ClarissaAnn ClarissaAnn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2015

    I understand nerdy to being academic

    and non mainstream. These are the guys I want to hang with! They might take a while to having fun, but they know his to!
    DearbhalC95 DearbhalC95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 25, 2014

    I love nerdy guys! I don't know why,

    its just something about them makes me go crazy.
    MeganKyle626 MeganKyle626
    16-17, F
    Sep 8, 2015

    My "nerdy Guy" Dream Come True!

    I have always had a type - not the jocks, not the entertainers, but the quieter and more studious guys. Over the past year, I think I've found my "nerdy guy"! As a shameless and self-confident "nerdy" girl, I've never had much interest in studly jocks or obnoxious party...
    mal2v mal2v
    18-21
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2010
    consciousmindlessness consciousmindlessness
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    I am attracted to nerdy guys,

    does that make me nerdy? but if you are attracted to them or nerdy girls then go for one most people say that nerdy people are the most desperate but that isn't true
    april1030 april1030
    13-15, F
    Apr 20

    Yumm.

    Actually it depends on the level of nerdiness. I LOVE quirkiness but I can not stand awkwardness. I always did love Steve Urkel. He had the right amount of nerdy swagger. LOL
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    30 Responses Mar 9, 2011

    Not that I have an addiction

    or anythinggg.... But I LOVE LOVE LOVEEE my husband *coughs confidently* Matthew Grey Gubler. In this case, a.k.a; Dr. Reid from Criminal Minds. HUNKA HUNKA. I mean... love me somma him! ??????
    galaxyandbeast galaxyandbeast
    16-17, F
    Dec 29, 2015

    I am attracted to nerdy guys Because.

    ..umm. uh./..... I think because they have what I don't have.....
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 27, 2015

    I am currently dating a nerdy guy in a way!

    Like he's really into computers and all that, and I loveeee when he's suddenly aroused and wants to insert his hard drive if you get me. lol Then that atmosphere of a **** becomes us lol... but not literally!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 26, 2015

    Nerdy Guys Are The Best

    They're polite, different, capable of having an intelligent converstaion, and they seem to treat women better than other types of men do. I like a guy who knows how to fix my computer when I have no clue how.. lol. Or a guy that will play Warhammer with me! And talk about the...
    LC87 LC87
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Jun 20, 2010

    Mainly the socially akward shy ones.

    Stuttering is my weak spot.
    ScarletNightmare ScarletNightmare
    16-17, F
    Jul 29, 2014

    Don't know what it is

    but that's what I'm highly attracted to plus their nicer when they talk to a lady ☺
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2014

    I spent 38 minutes tonight with a Xbox

    controller shooting a machine gun and vibrating just right...
    ChloeGenovar ChloeGenovar
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 13, 2015

    I am a nerdy girl. Therefore I relate the best

    with nerdy guys. What else is there to say? I love intelligence and out of ordinary personalities. Sports guys don't interest me.
    groundcraze groundcraze
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2014

    I know it's an unattractive Americanism,

    but the educated and slightly obsessive male is quite a lot of fun to be with! Someone who is knowledgeable about some thing kind of tangental is attractive...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 5, 2014
    azzalyss azzalyss
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    The Truth Behind Nerdy Guys.

    This year in college has brought several up s and downs. Relationship after relationship I began to notice similarities between the guys I spent my time with. most were very good friends but when it came down to dating they seemed to suddenly distance themselves emotionally from...
    laurenzm20 laurenzm20
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

    I swear I don't know

    why I love nerdy guys some of them are so cute :) like when they start telling me about computers( how to take them apart, what do if it breaks , how to hack the basics lol etc) or games( or systems) or anime haha or manga or sports( I know nothing about sports lol) I just like...
    ReviMoanalott ReviMoanalott
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 5, 2014

    My boyfriend is 6'4"

    and tries so hard to be macho but you hand him a DS with Legend of Zelda on it and he melts in to the cutest nerd you'll ever see. Makes me wanna just wanna hug him to pieces. I showed him the D&D books I was going to bring with me when I move in with him and he geeked out so...
    Harlequingal93 Harlequingal93
    22-25, F
    Jan 24, 2015

    When a guy is confident in their intelligence

    and is modest at the same time. It literally drives me crazy.
    Itiswonderful Itiswonderful
    16-17, F
    Dec 12, 2015

    All of the men I've ever been attracted to had

    this special kind of aura, a very insightful and intelligent spark that mafe me want to have a deep conversation with them. I love to go into depth, and I love it when people introduce me to their mind.
    pachipachirisu pachipachirisu
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 21

    I don't know man...something about guys

    who are smart just makes me attracted to them. Nerdy guys are the best. I've dated a couple of nerds when I was in high school. They were the sweetest guys I've ever met.
    allsummer allsummer
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 15, 2014

    Mmm... nerdy, geeky guys.

    The more awkward, the better. If you ask me what my type is, I'd say it's Michael Cera's movie characters. (Okay, let's include Jesse Eisenberg too because his roles are delectable jerks.) Braces/retainers. Metal mouths look so cute and kissable! I love the way they eat their...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2014

    I met this one guy who is obsessed with superman

    and I would actually love to meet him in person, but he lives in New Jersey. :(
    Josimms23 Josimms23
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2015
    Christuner666 Christuner666
    26-30, M
    Mar 29

    Yes, truth be told that they must make me laugh

    and think at the same time. If they aren't funny then I am not interested. And I am talking about Weird Al kind of off-the-wall humor.
    piscesdame piscesdame
    26-30, F
    Aug 20, 2015

    I Have a Question

    Are there any women out there who are attracted to guys who don't fit into any particular group? I'm just a normal guy i'm not a stud i'm not a nerd i'm not a jock i'm not a bad boy and i'm not a saint. I'm just a normal guy. What is wrong with that why does everyone have to be...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick
    46-50, M
    84 Responses Jan 21, 2008

    YES!!!!!!!! guess I'm a sucker

    for intelligence and a witty sense of humor.... call me old school or whatever ~wOrD~
    maddyAndMe maddyAndMe
    26-30, F
    Oct 5, 2015

    My boyfriend is so sexy.

    He loves talking about super heroes & Star Wars. He's so smart & I find it sexy. Something about him turns me on...😍😩
    ILoveANuke ILoveANuke
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015
    kittylove16 kittylove16
    16-17, F
    May 15, 2015

    I want a guy who wants a meaningful serious

    relationship. I wish I could just find the guy I will marry already.
    supercutenerdy supercutenerdy
    18-21, F
    Nov 25, 2015

    I think guys with glasses are cute?

    I don't know but something about them just catches my attention. Now, I'm not talking about ALL guys. I'm talking about SOME guys because some look better in glasses while some don't. I don't know I change my type alot lol. even the ugliest guy, I can find something attractive...
    TheBeastlyWoman TheBeastlyWoman
    13-15, F
    Jul 17, 2015

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