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I Am Attracted to Nerdy Guys

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    I would rather go out with a nerdy guy.

    ..rather than a jock or whatever. I think nerdy guys are interesting & have more depth to them...and they just care more & try harder to please you & make you happy,:)
    RubyLane RubyLane 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    consciousmindlessness consciousmindlessness 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2015

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    I swear I don't know

    why I love nerdy guys some of them are so cute :) like when they start telling me about computers( how to take them apart, what do if it breaks , how to hack the basics lol etc) or games( or systems) or anime haha or manga or sports( I know nothing about sports lol) I just like...
    ReviMoanalott ReviMoanalott 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    What turn me on about geeks lol is I am one on

    the inside but on the out I'm a bomb shell lol I love that I'm the last person they think will wanna be with them sexually but I love em
    prettypolyprincess prettypolyprincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    I don't know man...something about guys

    who are smart just makes me attracted to them. Nerdy guys are the best. I've dated a couple of nerds when I was in high school. They were the sweetest guys I've ever met.
    allsummer allsummer 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    My "nerdy Guy" Dream Come True!

    I have always had a type - not the jocks, not the entertainers, but the quieter and more studious guys. Over the past year, I think I've found my "nerdy guy"! As a shameless and self-confident "nerdy" girl, I've never had much interest in studly jocks or obnoxious party...
    mal2v mal2v 18-21 2 Responses Mar 12, 2010

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    I met this one guy who is obsessed with superman

    and I would actually love to meet him in person, but he lives in New Jersey. :(
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2015

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    My boyfriend is 6'4"

    and tries so hard to be macho but you hand him a DS with Legend of Zelda on it and he melts in to the cutest nerd you'll ever see. Makes me wanna just wanna hug him to pieces. I showed him the D&D books I was going to bring with me when I move in with him and he geeked out so...
    Harlequingal93 Harlequingal93 22-25, F Jan 24, 2015

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    Why do men who are attracted to women stare

    but don't smile yet stare for awhile.. It's not a welcome but rather the opposite and I can never understand why men do that. Yesterday as I was walking to the hospital a guy turned and stared. I was just thinking what on earth is the problem. Then again a white collar sitting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 30, 2015

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    Nerds/Geeks Are Attractive

    Being 16 the majority of girls my age go for the highly attractive/sporty/muscly guys, but I've just never liked those type of guys, like don't get me wrong, when people come with looks it's good, but I just find personality wise nerdy guys are so attractive. I even like the...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    I saw this guy at camp

    and he's nerdy I think. He's cute. Ugh. Too bad I'm not going back tomorrow :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 16, 2015

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    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2015

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    I love nerdy guys! I don't know why,

    its just something about them makes me go crazy.
    MeganKyle626 MeganKyle626 16-17, F Sep 8, 2015

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    I find nerdy guys really attractive.

    It's a big turn ON for me the intelligence they posses. That kind of quality is really on top of my list, for the kind of man that I want to be with someday. So most of the time I get drawn to them, and usually hang out with them way back in high school, college even now that...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F May 15, 2015

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    Intelligence Is Sexy!! ...

    Intelligence is sexy!! I hate it when a guy cannot think his way out of a wet paper bag. I want someone that I can talk to about anything. I don't want some doofus that doesn't know the different between a cirlce and a square.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    When a guy is confident in their intelligence

    and is modest at the same time. It literally drives me crazy.
    Itiswonderful Itiswonderful 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2015

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    I think guys with glasses are cute?

    I don't know but something about them just catches my attention. Now, I'm not talking about ALL guys. I'm talking about SOME guys because some look better in glasses while some don't. I don't know I change my type alot lol. even the ugliest guy, I can find something attractive...
    TheBeastlyWoman TheBeastlyWoman 13-15, F Jul 17, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 20, 2015

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    I like 'em awkward. There's one guy I know in

    particular. I've known him since high school, and he was super awkward. I caught him staring at my chest one day and called him out on it. He couldn't look me in the eye for weeks. So I started teasing him regularly, telling him I wanted to have his babies, etc.. He would just...
    BCodewell BCodewell 26-30, F May 14, 2015

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    I am attracted to them

    but never dated one
    breathewalrus123 breathewalrus123 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2015

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    I spent 38 minutes tonight with a Xbox

    controller shooting a machine gun and vibrating just right...
    ChloeGenovar ChloeGenovar 22-25, F 6 Responses May 13, 2015

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    Don't know what it is

    but that's what I'm highly attracted to plus their nicer when they talk to a lady ☺
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    Marshmallowgaret Marshmallowgaret 13-15, F Nov 7, 2015

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    It's not all nerdy guys

    but certain ones for me. See I'm nerdy. I did well in school and music. I play classical violin instead of electric guitar. I think about things a lot of girls don't and shopping is not my religion. Listen, I'm not slamming the popular or trendy girls and I'm not ragging on the...
    OakleysWorld OakleysWorld 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 24, 2015

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    I'm a nerdy guy that like video games,

    Sci fi and doctor who and a bit of anime. If you are a 15-18 year old girl and wanna chat, message me
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 2, 2015

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    I just adore nerdy guys.

    Anything from mega smarty pants(Big Bang Theory) to anime watching freaks to video game nerdsッ they make me smile and I love spending time with people like that. They are soo passionate about what they do and watch, it's adorable, I can't help myself from crushing.
    SuzyB00 SuzyB00 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Mainly the socially akward shy ones.

    Stuttering is my weak spot.
    ScarletNightmare ScarletNightmare 16-17, F Jul 29, 2014

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    I am currently dating a nerdy guy in a way!

    Like he's really into computers and all that, and I loveeee when he's suddenly aroused and wants to insert his hard drive if you get me. lol Then that atmosphere of a **** becomes us lol... but not literally!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 26, 2015

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    My boyfriend is a nerd

    and he is so cute. We are nerds together ?
    Flowerxox Flowerxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2015

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    Yumm.

    Actually it depends on the level of nerdiness. I LOVE quirkiness but I can not stand awkwardness. I always did love Steve Urkel. He had the right amount of nerdy swagger. LOL
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 30 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    Haha its a bit of a problem really XD

    but if you're a nerdy guy then automatically I have a sweet spot for you :)
    yoru1234 yoru1234 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I am a nerdy girl. Therefore I relate the best

    with nerdy guys. What else is there to say? I love intelligence and out of ordinary personalities. Sports guys don't interest me.
    groundcraze groundcraze 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2014

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    hey somebody msg me idc

    who im just bored af!
    Shai13 Shai13 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2015

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    There's just so much to love about them

    especially when they talk about the stuff they like and why they like it...then they defend it and even try to start a debate on it. It's just so effin' adorable! :D Also, talking to them would widen my perspective of the world, it isn't true that they are not sociable at all...
    Qtrelle Qtrelle 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2015

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    YES!!!!!!!! guess I'm a sucker

    for intelligence and a witty sense of humor.... call me old school or whatever ~wOrD~
    maddyAndMe maddyAndMe 26-30, F Oct 5, 2015

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    Not that I have an addiction

    or anythinggg.... But I LOVE LOVE LOVEEE my husband *coughs confidently* Matthew Grey Gubler. In this case, a.k.a; Dr. Reid from Criminal Minds. HUNKA HUNKA. I mean... love me somma him! ??????
    galaxyandbeast galaxyandbeast 16-17, F Dec 29, 2015

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    I have to say I find myself attract to the

    "intelligent" looking guys, especially with glasses. ;)
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F Mar 26, 2014

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    I like guys who wear nice glasses

    and have a quiet laid back nerdy way about them, but not completely nerdy., but a little swag too. Ex Jeremy Suarez's looks, from the Bernie Mac show, but all grown up of course to my age is one of my types. I found an updated picture of him online but he didn't even look 20. If...
    KuriousKyah KuriousKyah 26-30, F Aug 20, 2015

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    My boyfriend is so sexy.

    He loves talking about super heroes & Star Wars. He's so smart & I find it sexy. Something about him turns me on...😍😩
    ILoveANuke ILoveANuke 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2015

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    I work in an office and I love

    when the IT boys come down to help us when we have computer problems. They're so hot. So smart and sexy. They definitely look like Clark Kent. They dress nerdy and all but you can definitely tell if they took off their glasses and untucked their shirt,, they'd be so sexy. They...
    Heart09 Heart09 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    Nerdy Guys Are The Best

    They're polite, different, capable of having an intelligent converstaion, and they seem to treat women better than other types of men do. I like a guy who knows how to fix my computer when I have no clue how.. lol. Or a guy that will play Warhammer with me! And talk about the...
    LC87 LC87 22-25, F 13 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    kittylove16 kittylove16 16-17, F May 15, 2015

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    I get along with them better

    and I trust them more than other guys. :)
    ClarissaAnn ClarissaAnn 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2015

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    The Truth Behind Nerdy Guys.

    This year in college has brought several up s and downs. Relationship after relationship I began to notice similarities between the guys I spent my time with. most were very good friends but when it came down to dating they seemed to suddenly distance themselves emotionally from...
    laurenzm20 laurenzm20 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Mmm... nerdy, geeky guys.

    The more awkward, the better. If you ask me what my type is, I'd say it's Michael Cera's movie characters. (Okay, let's include Jesse Eisenberg too because his roles are delectable jerks.) Braces/retainers. Metal mouths look so cute and kissable! I love the way they eat their...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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