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I Am Attracted to Nerdy Guys

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    The Truth Behind Nerdy Guys.

    This year in college has brought several up s and downs. Relationship after relationship I began to notice similarities between the guys I spent my time with. most were very good friends but when it came down to dating they seemed to suddenly distance themselves emotionally from...
    laurenzm20 laurenzm20 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Intelligence Is Sexy!! ...

    Intelligence is sexy!! I hate it when a guy cannot think his way out of a wet paper bag. I want someone that I can talk to about anything. I don't want some doofus that doesn't know the different between a cirlce and a square.
    TragicWhispers TragicWhispers 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    PrototypeBri PrototypeBri 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    Im Most Deff a Nerd...

    I just use my own dress code lol... my tested IQ is 142... I am a self employed IT Consultant... I research alot of nerdish things... like Quantum Mechanics, Human Psycology, and other nerdy stuff...   BUT...   I cant seem to attract a good and honest woman... I...
    MichaelMalek MichaelMalek 31-35, M 4 Responses May 30, 2009

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    Oh Please Say You Mean It

    I can only hope this group is not a satirical jab. If there are women who truly do like nerdy guys, hit me up. :)
    dontwanttomorrow dontwanttomorrow 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Me and hubby started to watch Game of Thrones,

    and OMG!!!!!! if anything this show makes me and him want to go to a Renaissance Festival even more!!!!!! ya me and him did a all nighter on Saturday and watched the whole first season!!!! omg I soooo want a dragon.
    colorfullcolorado colorfullcolorado 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Nerd Is Such A Derogatory Word...

    If by nerd you mean A Mathematics/Science GeniusAwww... Shy Boy A Techie Computer Wiz Socially Awkward in a cute wayRespectful, Kind, Appreciative...Yes I am very much attracted to nerdy guys.  I've always had a secret crush on Clark Kent.
    myserendipity myserendipity 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    What turn me on about geeks lol is I am one on

    the inside but on the out I'm a bomb shell lol I love that I'm the last person they think will wanna be with them sexually but I love em
    prettypolyprincess prettypolyprincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    There's nothing wrong with liking a guy

    that wears glasses all the time, focuses on his studies, and wears geeky clothing. As long as they have a good heart and that < + 3 = <3 I'm all in.
    NamiTu NamiTu 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Mmm... nerdy, geeky guys.

    The more awkward, the better. If you ask me what my type is, I'd say it's Michael Cera's movie characters. (Okay, let's include Jesse Eisenberg too because his roles are delectable jerks.) Braces/retainers. Metal mouths look so cute and kissable! I love the way they eat their...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I understand nerdy to being academic

    and non mainstream. These are the guys I want to hang with! They might take a while to having fun, but they know his to!
    DearbhalC95 DearbhalC95 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    me and my hubby have a pact.

    that if we ever win a good amount of money on lottery. we r going to go to our Renaissance Fair, just ******* DECKED OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He will have a full suit of armor, and me....... idk but I know I will go all out........ he will carry his battle axe that I got him for his...
    colorfullcolorado colorfullcolorado 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Ahh Nerdy Boys I Crushed

    Idk what 'nerds' word actually refer to, if its refers to guys who look clumsy An un up2date style, with glasses, messy hair, smart over capacity brain, well I join this group$ There r something bout them that attractive, something byond style and outer looks (okey they don't...
    staticonveyor staticonveyor 22-25, M Aug 12, 2011

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    I Am Attracted To Nerdy Guys.

    Im a nerdy girl whose attracted to nerdy guys. Though i  never approach them romantically ( im kind of shy) I like to talk to guys who i know i  have things in common with it ( batman, beatles, video games, space, indigenous cultures, philosophy, greek mythology, art...
    LennonLover LennonLover 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Where Are They?

    I will always be attracted to a nerd over a heart-throb. No contest. Have a collection of starwars characters and you've caught my eye. Actually do anything with science and your my kind of guy. Can make a computer out of a box and paperclips and I find that hawt. A gamer I...
    JadedLass JadedLass 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    I don't know if he is a nerd

    but he's so good looking! So i wanted to share his...-ness <3-<3
    ThatIsSoJill ThatIsSoJill 18-21, F Jun 23

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    I have always preferred the "nerdy"types.

    To qualify, I am pretty strict about the differences between nerds, geeks, and dorks (which is unbelievably nerdy in and of itself). I think nerds and geeks are interchanged in society a lot. I like to keep them separate. But, I find it interesting that now nerds are becoming...
    NYX78 NYX78 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Sapiosexual, Yessir.

    I've never been interested in any different type of man besides "the nerd".. Intelligence is sexy. It's having power. Combine this with the geeky hobbies, wit and and hilarious sense of humour and you've got me.
    AlizInWonderland AlizInWonderland 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Nerds/Geeks Are Attractive

    Being 16 the majority of girls my age go for the highly attractive/sporty/muscly guys, but I've just never liked those type of guys, like don't get me wrong, when people come with looks it's good, but I just find personality wise nerdy guys are so attractive. I even like the...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Mainly the socially akward shy ones.

    Stuttering is my weak spot.
    ScarletNightmare ScarletNightmare 13-15, F Jul 29

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    gothette gothette 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 24

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    I have to say I find myself attract to the

    "intelligent" looking guys, especially with glasses. ;)
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F Mar 26

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    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I Love Nerds.

    Nerds, are awesome. Smart men are super sexy, I love listening to them talk about the things that excite them. I like that usually they have no idea that they could possibly be attractive. I like the look on their face as you pull away from that first kiss. I love that they work...
    omgseriously omgseriously 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Cute Are The Nerds

    Nerdy guys attract me too. Actually, I had a crush on my classmate right now. He definitely looks like a nerd. With his rounded eyeglasses, thick books, and wits when it comes to math. He's a loner too sometimes. But in spite of this weirdness he have(as other people would like...
    silinglabuyo silinglabuyo 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2013

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    MistressVenustheSuperCaramel MistressVenustheSuperCaramel 26-30, F a week ago

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    I have always found nerdy guys to be attractive.

    Not nerdy guys as in those that are all about gaming. Gaming is cool but the ones that like English an F mathematics, sciences. Etc. Shy and quiet. I've never been attracted to sporty or popular guys. I just like nerds
    Raven628 Raven628 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 10

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    Not the ones addicted to video games.

    .. I mean the ones who love math, computers, and/or science. They can ramble on and on and I'll listen attentively, liking them more with every passing moment. I'm a nerd myself though, but it's still odd since I don't think I've met someone else turned on by academic banter...
    tryingtobeashappyasiappear tryingtobeashappyasiappear 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    This was before I got engaged to Sam.

    I think nerd guys are very adorable and smart. Please don't hit on me. Lol
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend is a Pokemon addict

    and it's really cute because I like Pokemon too but he gets all passionate talking about it :) so now I feel better with my TV show obsessions
    221bcompanion 221bcompanion 18-21, F Aug 13

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    I Have a Question

    Are there any women out there who are attracted to guys who don't fit into any particular group? I'm just a normal guy i'm not a stud i'm not a nerd i'm not a jock i'm not a bad boy and i'm not a saint. I'm just a normal guy. What is wrong with that why does everyone have to be...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 81 Responses Jan 21, 2008

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    I'm a bit nerdy too. Nerdy guys are just

    so adorable to me. Most likely because I'm very nerdy too xD
    Raven628 Raven628 18-21, F Apr 1

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    i like someone nerdy from my high school.

    until today, we still contact each other but he never knows that i really like him.
    sarahbal sarahbal 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Feb 13

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    I don't know man...something about guys

    who are smart just makes me attracted to them. Nerdy guys are the best. I've dated a couple of nerds when I was in high school. They were the sweetest guys I've ever met.
    allsummer allsummer 18-21, F 5 Responses May 15

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    Don't you guys just love nerdy guys,

    I like them lean and with glasses or a little buff with glasses and cute dimples omg I love dimples
    kayboo44 kayboo44 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    my nerdy-ness defines my worthiness.

    I was a spectacle, the moment I was released from a testicle. When the doctors peeked, they saw a geek. My brain already had Wi Fi, and in the womb I dreamt Sci Fi. I am nerdy, pervy, and my hair is curly. I am me.
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M 2 Responses May 26

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    I just adore nerdy guys.

    Anything from mega smarty pants(Big Bang Theory) to anime watching freaks to video game nerdsッ they make me smile and I love spending time with people like that. They are soo passionate about what they do and watch, it's adorable, I can't help myself from crushing.
    SuzyB00 SuzyB00 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 31

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    People that know things are just attractive in

    general. I love experiencing and learning new things. So someone that is willing to do that with you is a keeper. Besides its also really attractive when you are being genuine,down to earth and sincere. It's hard to find these days.
    LunaRay19 LunaRay19 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Yumm.

    Actually it depends on the level of nerdiness. I LOVE quirkiness but I can not stand awkwardness. I always did love Steve Urkel. He had the right amount of nerdy swagger. LOL
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 29 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    Nerdy Guys Are The Best

    They're polite, different, capable of having an intelligent converstaion, and they seem to treat women better than other types of men do. I like a guy who knows how to fix my computer when I have no clue how.. lol. Or a guy that will play Warhammer with me! And talk about the...
    LC87 LC87 22-25, F 13 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    Hotness Radiating From Their Usernames

    Ahh nerd boys yesss. Don't you just love the way they ramble? You can just listen to them talk for hours on end about things you haven't got a clue about. I love that. Being a nerd isn't a bad thing, by the way. Being a nerd is the opposite of vapid ignorance. Nerds are...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    I tend to think of geeks

    as bring the techie type and nerds as being the brainy, bookish, larpng, cosplaying type. I have to admit that I have a type. There is something incredibly attractive about smart. I admire competence and capability but combine that with someone who can hold their own on some...
    Nuovinzi Nuovinzi 41-45, F Jul 27

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    Smoray100 Smoray100 22-25, F Jul 7

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    I know it's an unattractive Americanism,

    but the educated and slightly obsessive male is quite a lot of fun to be with! Someone who is knowledgeable about some thing kind of tangental is attractive...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 5

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    My "nerdy Guy" Dream Come True!

    I have always had a type - not the jocks, not the entertainers, but the quieter and more studious guys. Over the past year, I think I've found my "nerdy guy"! As a shameless and self-confident "nerdy" girl, I've never had much interest in studly jocks or obnoxious party...
    mal2v mal2v 18-21 1 Response Mar 12, 2010

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    My Nerdy Lover

    It all started my freshman year of college. I was enrolled in choir. That's where I met Jeff. Quite honestly, my original impression of him was "Whoa. That is such an ugly girl." You see, Jeff had hair that was far longer than mine, far past his waist in millions of tiny...
    golegos17 golegos17 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2012

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    Recently i have discovered something very interesting about my self. I seem to be more attracted to the same sex and i honestly don't know why. I have mostly liked guys until about...
    Minniebeeb Minniebeeb 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    First off, I understand that girls have a lot of stress and drama about fitting in and being skinny and pretty. But guys have it hard to. I have seen some of my guy friends get...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I like nerdy, bookworm-type people . I like partners who don't talk much, and who are highly emotional and lonely. I like to fill void in people's heart. I like people who read a...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I heard some of my guy friends talking about what they were attracted to, as far as description.. One of the guys said he's always been really attracted to tiny petite teens, tiny...
    Angelwuvsyu Angelwuvsyu 18-21, F 12 Responses 20 hrs ago

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