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I Am Attracted to Nerdy Guys

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    Cute Are The Nerds

    Nerdy guys attract me too. Actually, I had a crush on my classmate right now. He definitely looks like a nerd. With his rounded eyeglasses, thick books, and wits when it comes to math. He's a loner too sometimes. But in spite of this weirdness he have(as other people would like...
    silinglabuyo silinglabuyo 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2013

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    Nerds/Geeks Are Attractive

    Being 16 the majority of girls my age go for the highly attractive/sporty/muscly guys, but I've just never liked those type of guys, like don't get me wrong, when people come with looks it's good, but I just find personality wise nerdy guys are so attractive. I even like the...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Nerds & Geeks = ♥

    I hate to be the one to say it, but there is a difference between two, (which that fact that I know the difference sort of me a geek and a nerd in its own way. And, I didn't find a group about geeks, so I mention them here--but I digress......) anyway, that doesn't matter...
    MysticFae MysticFae 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    There's nothing wrong with liking a guy

    that wears glasses all the time, focuses on his studies, and wears geeky clothing. As long as they have a good heart and that < + 3 = <3 I'm all in.
    NamiTu NamiTu 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    My Nerdy Lover

    It all started my freshman year of college. I was enrolled in choir. That's where I met Jeff. Quite honestly, my original impression of him was "Whoa. That is such an ugly girl." You see, Jeff had hair that was far longer than mine, far past his waist in millions of tiny...
    golegos17 golegos17 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2012

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    Where Are They?

    I will always be attracted to a nerd over a heart-throb. No contest. Have a collection of starwars characters and you've caught my eye. Actually do anything with science and your my kind of guy. Can make a computer out of a box and paperclips and I find that hawt. A gamer I...
    JadedLass JadedLass 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    I Don't Know Why I'm So Attracted To Nerdy Guys

    When I was in sixth grade, I had a huge crush on this nerdy guy. His name was Peter, and I don't know how my Mom knew I must have liked him . One day, I told my mother that the kids at school were making fun of Peter because of his haircut. She asked me, " What were the kids at...
    owrelax owrelax 51-55, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2010

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    Hotness Radiating From Their Usernames

    Ahh nerd boys yesss. Don't you just love the way they ramble? You can just listen to them talk for hours on end about things you haven't got a clue about. I love that. Being a nerd isn't a bad thing, by the way. Being a nerd is the opposite of vapid ignorance. Nerds are...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    I Love Nerds

    I don't know what it is... but I love nerdy guys. The helpless, quiet, shy, intelligent boys who normally don't get any attention from girls. I think that is so sweet. Normally nerdy guys are just so kind and treat girls with respect. Nerds can be freakin' hot, too. I mean...
    anewtear anewtear 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    Intelligence Is Sexy!! ...

    Intelligence is sexy!! I hate it when a guy cannot think his way out of a wet paper bag. I want someone that I can talk to about anything. I don't want some doofus that doesn't know the different between a cirlce and a square.
    TragicWhispers TragicWhispers 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    Language Barrier

    When language is the barrier, he first smiled and used the gesture to explain on what I can do to help him. Cute.
    qaline qaline 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2013

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    The Truth Behind Nerdy Guys.

    This year in college has brought several up s and downs. Relationship after relationship I began to notice similarities between the guys I spent my time with. most were very good friends but when it came down to dating they seemed to suddenly distance themselves emotionally from...
    laurenzm20 laurenzm20 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    What turn me on about geeks lol is I am one on

    the inside but on the out I'm a bomb shell lol I love that I'm the last person they think will wanna be with them sexually but I love em
    prettypolyprincess prettypolyprincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I don't know if he is a nerd

    but he's so good looking! So i wanted to share his...-ness <3-<3
    ThatIsSoJill ThatIsSoJill 18-21, F Jun 23

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    I have to say I find myself attract to the

    "intelligent" looking guys, especially with glasses. ;)
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Can I Make Him Mine..?

    About me: The last couple of years I find myself attracted to "nerdy" guys or guys im not normally attracted to. I realize it's not all about looks, that's only a small part of the inital physical attraction to someone. Connecting with someone on an emotional level is a whole new...
    ninja250gal ninja250gal 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2012

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    Hearing "Nerds" Makes Me Want To Bash A Few Skulls

    Is being a "nerd" the new "in" thing? Because I remember in detail how innocently suggesting my hobbies was enough to brand me with a nickname that mines at your psyche day , after day, after day. For some reason, having to enjoy my hobbies, my quirks and my passions in secret...
    Molocheanhand Molocheanhand 22-25, M 7 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    Yumm.

    Actually it depends on the level of nerdiness. I LOVE quirkiness but I can not stand awkwardness. I always did love Steve Urkel. He had the right amount of nerdy swagger. LOL
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 29 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    I Have a Question

    Are there any women out there who are attracted to guys who don't fit into any particular group? I'm just a normal guy i'm not a stud i'm not a nerd i'm not a jock i'm not a bad boy and i'm not a saint. I'm just a normal guy. What is wrong with that why does everyone have to be...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 81 Responses Jan 21, 2008

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    I Am Attracted To Nerdy Guys.

    Im a nerdy girl whose attracted to nerdy guys. Though i  never approach them romantically ( im kind of shy) I like to talk to guys who i know i  have things in common with it ( batman, beatles, video games, space, indigenous cultures, philosophy, greek mythology, art...
    LennonLover LennonLover 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    I'm a bit nerdy too. Nerdy guys are just

    so adorable to me. Most likely because I'm very nerdy too xD
    Raven628 Raven628 18-21, F Apr 1

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    Not the ones addicted to video games.

    .. I mean the ones who love math, computers, and/or science. They can ramble on and on and I'll listen attentively, liking them more with every passing moment. I'm a nerd myself though, but it's still odd since I don't think I've met someone else turned on by academic banter...
    tryingtobeashappyasiappear tryingtobeashappyasiappear 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Just My Type!

    i've always got along better with guys i can have a decent conversation with! its much better to talk to  someone who actually wants to talk  and we can get to know each other! 
    aaangie aaangie 41-45, F 10 Responses Jun 7, 2009

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    I Am Dating A Techie :)

    Thank you to all who read, I understand that it is long :) Hey I go to a residential school for students elite in the fields of Math and Science,so naturally there are lots of people here that would be classified as nerds. But i love it! All the people here are so different and...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2013

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    my nerdy-ness defines my worthiness.

    I was a spectacle, the moment I was released from a testicle. When the doctors peeked, they saw a geek. My brain already had Wi Fi, and in the womb I dreamt Sci Fi. I am nerdy, pervy, and my hair is curly. I am me.
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M 2 Responses May 26

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    Nerd Is Such A Derogatory Word...

    If by nerd you mean A Mathematics/Science GeniusAwww... Shy Boy A Techie Computer Wiz Socially Awkward in a cute wayRespectful, Kind, Appreciative...Yes I am very much attracted to nerdy guys.  I've always had a secret crush on Clark Kent.
    myserendipity myserendipity 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    Sapiosexual, Yessir.

    I've never been interested in any different type of man besides "the nerd".. Intelligence is sexy. It's having power. Combine this with the geeky hobbies, wit and and hilarious sense of humour and you've got me.
    AlizInWonderland AlizInWonderland 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Nerdy Guys Are The Best

    They're polite, different, capable of having an intelligent converstaion, and they seem to treat women better than other types of men do. I like a guy who knows how to fix my computer when I have no clue how.. lol. Or a guy that will play Warhammer with me! And talk about the...
    LC87 LC87 22-25, F 13 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    https://m.youtube.com/watch?

    v=JO6eydRPpyU&feature=kp
    Smoray100 Smoray100 22-25, F Jul 7

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    I Love Nerds.

    Nerds, are awesome. Smart men are super sexy, I love listening to them talk about the things that excite them. I like that usually they have no idea that they could possibly be attractive. I like the look on their face as you pull away from that first kiss. I love that they work...
    omgseriously omgseriously 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Im Most Deff a Nerd...

    I just use my own dress code lol... my tested IQ is 142... I am a self employed IT Consultant... I research alot of nerdish things... like Quantum Mechanics, Human Psycology, and other nerdy stuff...   BUT...   I cant seem to attract a good and honest woman... I...
    MichaelMalek MichaelMalek 31-35, M 4 Responses May 30, 2009

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    Beauty & The Geek Rant

    Beauty & The Geek...Okay, folks...So what the **** is up with that show?A dude I knew from college was on the show so I watched it and it made me rage. Firstly, I would date (if I were single) virtually every single one of the "geeks" without hesitation. They're made out to be...
    BettyValentine BettyValentine 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    My Clark Kent!!

    Let me start by saying I feel that I am a closet nerd. So I was at Walmart of all places lol. And I was trying to get some things for my room because I had just moved home. I had a lot of stuff blah blah blah. This Guy came up to me while I was struggling and asked if I needed...
    Rachaelandbilly4ever Rachaelandbilly4ever 18-21 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    Now I Know That Nerds Are Best!

    Kids at school fell into four different categories; 1) The popular 2) Middle of the road but fit in anywhere 3) Greb's (only wear black and like rock music) and 4) Nerdy kids who always got picked on. I fell into the Nerdy group. The popular kids thought it would be highly...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 15, 2008

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    Nerdy Guys

    Nerdy guys,They're an attraction,Not sure why,Perhaps,That's the way it is.
    stormcape3 stormcape3 46-50 Sep 11, 2012

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    Brains + Social Awkwardness = Hott

    Ok, this isn't super dirty, so sorry for disappointing readers there ;) but I have consistent sexual fantasies about Howard Wolowitz from the Big Bang Theory. Oh my god, he gets me so wet. It's ridiculous, hes no one else's dream guy but I'm not exaggerating, I think he is the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 30, 2012

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    I have always found nerdy guys to be attractive.

    Not nerdy guys as in those that are all about gaming. Gaming is cool but the ones that like English an F mathematics, sciences. Etc. Shy and quiet. I've never been attracted to sporty or popular guys. I just like nerds
    Raven628 Raven628 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 10

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    I Have My Moments

    I'm not an A+ nerd, but I do have my moments when I'm good in a subject like language arts, and a little bit in Science and computers.There is this Hispanic girl that I like named Eunice that is in my Mondays and Tuesdays classes.She likes to hang out around nerds like me and my...
    Elijahx Elijahx 18-21, M 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    My "nerdy Guy" Dream Come True!

    I have always had a type - not the jocks, not the entertainers, but the quieter and more studious guys. Over the past year, I think I've found my "nerdy guy"! As a shameless and self-confident "nerdy" girl, I've never had much interest in studly jocks or obnoxious party...
    mal2v mal2v 18-21 1 Response Mar 12, 2010

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    Ahh Nerdy Boys I Crushed

    Idk what 'nerds' word actually refer to, if its refers to guys who look clumsy An un up2date style, with glasses, messy hair, smart over capacity brain, well I join this group$ There r something bout them that attractive, something byond style and outer looks (okey they don't...
    staticonveyor staticonveyor 22-25, M Aug 12, 2011

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    Yes. And Here's The Catch...

    I have a few criteria: A) You must be scientifically minded, and scientifically curious. And not fall asleep when I start blabbering on about the latest cancer research, addiction therapies, plans to change the world, so on so forth. B) You must understand that if I temporarily...
    fastsandslash fastsandslash 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    Oh Please Say You Mean It

    I can only hope this group is not a satirical jab. If there are women who truly do like nerdy guys, hit me up. :)
    dontwanttomorrow dontwanttomorrow 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Feb 13

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    I've Got The Hots For Nerdy Guys

    I have always and forever will. The thing is, I am not so much of a nerd myself. I can't seem to attract them. They always go for the girls that are much like themselves. I am not a dumb girl. I am in graduate school and I do have brains but I guess my appearance does not...
    DreamofPerfection DreamofPerfection 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    Hello

    I uh, I'm sixteen, and my name is Jarod. Zefram Cochrane was the name of a star trek character who developed warp drive, Zefram is my middle name. But, being sixteen, if there's one thing I've learned its, at least I get teachers and people telling me that I'm smarter than...
    zeframcochrane zeframcochrane 16-17 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    I don't know man...something about guys

    who are smart just makes me attracted to them. Nerdy guys are the best. I've dated a couple of nerds when I was in high school. They were the sweetest guys I've ever met.
    allsummer allsummer 18-21, F 5 Responses May 15

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    Don't you guys just love nerdy guys,

    I like them lean and with glasses or a little buff with glasses and cute dimples omg I love dimples
    kayboo44 kayboo44 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Related Experiences

    Over the years I've discovered I'm attracted to intelligence, and I can relate to and appreciate a guy with a taste for sci fi, fantasy, anime, reading, writing, really the list...
    janicefromkansas janicefromkansas 18-21, F Jul 14

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    It's true . I like big brains, comics, and sci-fi . Boys with glasses and awkward social skills seem to be my go to . What's the nerdiest thing you've ever done ?
    seybear seybear 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    He has no idea how his voice sounds better than any music :) That's why when we talk I just want him to talk and not stop. :$ lol. In my head I'm like singing, "Your voice was the...
    Ranessa Ranessa 16-17, F Jul 4

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    I'm super young but I'm attracted to guys in there 20s and early 30s. It gets frustrating. *cough* my teacher story
    mournwiththemoonandthestars mournwiththemoonandthestars 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    My first crush was a white guy. He was actually the guy who played Superman back in the early 80s, Christopher Reeves. My crush for him was so huge, I didn't know what to do..lol...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    I am attracted to older men in there 30's or 40's I know it's strange but I like them and I am very horny. ;)
    Beckyy14 Beckyy14 13-15, F 6 Responses