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I Am Attracted to Nerdy Guys

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    My "nerdy Guy" Dream Come True!

    I have always had a type - not the jocks, not the entertainers, but the quieter and more studious guys. Over the past year, I think I've found my "nerdy guy"! As a shameless and self-confident "nerdy" girl, I've never had much interest in studly jocks or obnoxious party...
    mal2v mal2v 18-21 1 Response Mar 12, 2010

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    The Truth Behind Nerdy Guys.

    This year in college has brought several up s and downs. Relationship after relationship I began to notice similarities between the guys I spent my time with. most were very good friends but when it came down to dating they seemed to suddenly distance themselves emotionally from...
    laurenzm20 laurenzm20 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I just adore nerdy guys.

    Anything from mega smarty pants(Big Bang Theory) to anime watching freaks to video game nerdsッ they make me smile and I love spending time with people like that. They are soo passionate about what they do and watch, it's adorable, I can't help myself from crushing.
    SuzyB00 SuzyB00 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    well , it's always like that^ pic.

    but not me sometimesactually, i always had a crush on guy who's in med-school .
    Mmontag Mmontag 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I love them because they are

    so endearing and cute. I also find them to be more fun to be around because they tend to be passionate about their interests.
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F Jan 6

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    What turn me on about geeks lol is I am one on

    the inside but on the out I'm a bomb shell lol I love that I'm the last person they think will wanna be with them sexually but I love em
    prettypolyprincess prettypolyprincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    I Love Nerds.

    Nerds, are awesome. Smart men are super sexy, I love listening to them talk about the things that excite them. I like that usually they have no idea that they could possibly be attractive. I like the look on their face as you pull away from that first kiss. I love that they work...
    omgseriously omgseriously 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    I swear I don't know

    why I love nerdy guys some of them are so cute :) like when they start telling me about computers( how to take them apart, what do if it breaks , how to hack the basics lol etc) or games( or systems) or anime haha or manga or sports( I know nothing about sports lol) I just like...
    ReviMoanalott ReviMoanalott 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    I`m nerdy guy myself.

    I`m the best lookin guy in the world but I do take care of myself. I don`t have pimples,braces,or big dorky glasses nor fat or anything like that but I`m not well built nor do I have six pack. I do have a job and I have my own room. I do manage to do things without anyones help...
    naughtyboy91 naughtyboy91 22-25 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    Yumm.

    Actually it depends on the level of nerdiness. I LOVE quirkiness but I can not stand awkwardness. I always did love Steve Urkel. He had the right amount of nerdy swagger. LOL
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 30 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    I work in an office and I love

    when the IT boys come down to help us when we have computer problems. They're so hot. So smart and sexy. They definitely look like Clark Kent. They dress nerdy and all but you can definitely tell if they took off their glasses and untucked their shirt,, they'd be so sexy. They...
    Heart09 Heart09 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    I would rather go out with a nerdy guy.

    ..rather than a jock or whatever. I think nerdy guys are interesting & have more depth to them...and they just care more & try harder to please you & make you happy,:)
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    I have to say I find myself attract to the

    "intelligent" looking guys, especially with glasses. ;)
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F Mar 26, 2014

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    Don't you guys just love nerdy guys,

    I like them lean and with glasses or a little buff with glasses and cute dimples omg I love dimples
    kayboo44 kayboo44 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    Idk why I'm attracted to nerdy guys lol they

    are just so smart and adorable it reminds me of a playful puppy. I'm not talking about the guys who look hot in glasses but is a dumbass, I'm talking about real nerds. Every time I date a guy he is always a nerd and I like that haha (probably because I hate being the smart one...
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I don't think I'm nerdy really.

    I just really love smart guys with cute, nerdy personalities. I'm all about personality.
    Devinwevin Devinwevin 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    Mmm... nerdy, geeky guys.

    The more awkward, the better. If you ask me what my type is, I'd say it's Michael Cera's movie characters. (Okay, let's include Jesse Eisenberg too because his roles are delectable jerks.) Braces/retainers. Metal mouths look so cute and kissable! I love the way they eat their...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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    I have always preferred the "nerdy"types.

    To qualify, I am pretty strict about the differences between nerds, geeks, and dorks (which is unbelievably nerdy in and of itself). I think nerds and geeks are interchanged in society a lot. I like to keep them separate. But, I find it interesting that now nerds are becoming...
    Nyx1978 Nyx1978 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I Have a Question

    Are there any women out there who are attracted to guys who don't fit into any particular group? I'm just a normal guy i'm not a stud i'm not a nerd i'm not a jock i'm not a bad boy and i'm not a saint. I'm just a normal guy. What is wrong with that why does everyone have to be...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 80 Responses Jan 21, 2008

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    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2014

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    Hotness Radiating From Their Usernames

    Ahh nerd boys yesss. Don't you just love the way they ramble? You can just listen to them talk for hours on end about things you haven't got a clue about. I love that. Being a nerd isn't a bad thing, by the way. Being a nerd is the opposite of vapid ignorance. Nerds are...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    Me and hubby started to watch Game of Thrones,

    and OMG!!!!!! if anything this show makes me and him want to go to a Renaissance Festival even more!!!!!! ya me and him did a all nighter on Saturday and watched the whole first season!!!! omg I soooo want a dragon.
    colorfullcolorado colorfullcolorado 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    Mainly the socially akward shy ones.

    Stuttering is my weak spot.
    ScarletNightmare ScarletNightmare 16-17, F Jul 29, 2014

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    I understand nerdy to being academic

    and non mainstream. These are the guys I want to hang with! They might take a while to having fun, but they know his to!
    DearbhalC95 DearbhalC95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    I Am Attracted To Nerdy Guys.

    Im a nerdy girl whose attracted to nerdy guys. Though i  never approach them romantically ( im kind of shy) I like to talk to guys who i know i  have things in common with it ( batman, beatles, video games, space, indigenous cultures, philosophy, greek mythology, art...
    LennonLover LennonLover 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    me and my hubby have a pact.

    that if we ever win a good amount of money on lottery. we r going to go to our Renaissance Fair, just ******* DECKED OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He will have a full suit of armor, and me....... idk but I know I will go all out........ he will carry his battle axe that I got him for his...
    colorfullcolorado colorfullcolorado 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2014

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    I am a nerdy girl. Therefore I relate the best

    with nerdy guys. What else is there to say? I love intelligence and out of ordinary personalities. Sports guys don't interest me.
    groundcraze groundcraze 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2014

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    My boyfriend is a Pokemon addict

    and it's really cute because I like Pokemon too but he gets all passionate talking about it :) so now I feel better with my TV show obsessions
    221bcompanion 221bcompanion 18-21, F Aug 13, 2014

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    My boyfriend is 6'4"

    and tries so hard to be macho but you hand him a DS with Legend of Zelda on it and he melts in to the cutest nerd you'll ever see. Makes me wanna just wanna hug him to pieces. I showed him the D&D books I was going to bring with me when I move in with him and he geeked out so...
    Harlequingal93 Harlequingal93 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I don't know man...something about guys

    who are smart just makes me attracted to them. Nerdy guys are the best. I've dated a couple of nerds when I was in high school. They were the sweetest guys I've ever met.
    allsummer allsummer 18-21, F 3 Responses May 15, 2014

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    There's just somethin' somethin' bout white

    and nerdy, is it the glasses? The hair? Or just the fact I get my computer upgrades for free? *shrugs* Dunno but he does it every time. Talk nerdy to me baby..
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    MistressVenustheSuperCaramel MistressVenustheSuperCaramel 26-30, F Aug 19, 2014

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    Intelligence Is Sexy!! ...

    Intelligence is sexy!! I hate it when a guy cannot think his way out of a wet paper bag. I want someone that I can talk to about anything. I don't want some doofus that doesn't know the different between a cirlce and a square.
    TragicWhispers TragicWhispers 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    People that know things are just attractive in

    general. I love experiencing and learning new things. So someone that is willing to do that with you is a keeper. Besides its also really attractive when you are being genuine,down to earth and sincere. It's hard to find these days.
    LunaRay19 LunaRay19 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2014

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    Cute Are The Nerds

    Nerdy guys attract me too. Actually, I had a crush on my classmate right now. He definitely looks like a nerd. With his rounded eyeglasses, thick books, and wits when it comes to math. He's a loner too sometimes. But in spite of this weirdness he have(as other people would like...
    silinglabuyo silinglabuyo 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2013

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    Nerd Is Such A Derogatory Word...

    If by nerd you mean A Mathematics/Science GeniusAwww... Shy Boy A Techie Computer Wiz Socially Awkward in a cute wayRespectful, Kind, Appreciative...Yes I am very much attracted to nerdy guys.  I've always had a secret crush on Clark Kent.
    myserendipity myserendipity 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    I tend to think of geeks

    as bring the techie type and nerds as being the brainy, bookish, larpng, cosplaying type. I have to admit that I have a type. There is something incredibly attractive about smart. I admire competence and capability but combine that with someone who can hold their own on some...
    Nuovinzi Nuovinzi 41-45, F Jul 27, 2014

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    Don't know what it is

    but that's what I'm highly attracted to plus their nicer when they talk to a lady ☺
    sexylicious29 sexylicious29 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    This was before I got engaged to Sam.

    I think nerd guys are very adorable and smart. Please don't hit on me. Lol
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2014

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    Nerds/Geeks Are Attractive

    Being 16 the majority of girls my age go for the highly attractive/sporty/muscly guys, but I've just never liked those type of guys, like don't get me wrong, when people come with looks it's good, but I just find personality wise nerdy guys are so attractive. I even like the...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    I get along with them better

    and I trust them more than other guys. :)
    ClarissaAnn ClarissaAnn 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Nerdy Guys Are The Best

    They're polite, different, capable of having an intelligent converstaion, and they seem to treat women better than other types of men do. I like a guy who knows how to fix my computer when I have no clue how.. lol. Or a guy that will play Warhammer with me! And talk about the...
    LC87 LC87 22-25, F 13 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    https://m.youtube.com/watch?

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    Smoray100 Smoray100 22-25, F Jul 7, 2014

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    Where Are They?

    I will always be attracted to a nerd over a heart-throb. No contest. Have a collection of starwars characters and you've caught my eye. Actually do anything with science and your my kind of guy. Can make a computer out of a box and paperclips and I find that hawt. A gamer I...
    JadedLass JadedLass 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    My Nerdy Lover

    It all started my freshman year of college. I was enrolled in choir. That's where I met Jeff. Quite honestly, my original impression of him was "Whoa. That is such an ugly girl." You see, Jeff had hair that was far longer than mine, far past his waist in millions of tiny...
    golegos17 golegos17 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2012

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    I know it's an unattractive Americanism,

    but the educated and slightly obsessive male is quite a lot of fun to be with! Someone who is knowledgeable about some thing kind of tangental is attractive...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    PrototypeBri PrototypeBri 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2014

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