I Am Attracted to Older Guys

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    I was always attracted to guys a couple years

    older than me but lately I've found myself attracted to men considerably older. Not really sureif I'd ever act on it but maybe someday curiosity will get the better of me!
    Goodspuffy Goodspuffy
    22-25, F
    21 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    And Why Is This So Difficult?

    Even guys my own age think I'm jail bait. I honestly look so young, and I'm aware of this, but it's ridiculous. If I don't wear makeup and don't try to dress older people think I'm about 14. I'm very short and very small, but my face truly looks very young. So then, attracting...
    Sammiebaby1016 Sammiebaby1016
    22-25, F
    49 Responses Apr 25, 2013
    mypinknailpolish mypinknailpolish
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    Always fantasize older men.

    They increase my libido everytime lol.
    Alonely0987 Alonely0987
    26-30, F
    22 Responses Feb 2, 2016
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    13 Responses Mar 24, 2016

    Just love horny old men

    who are business men
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2016

    Older guys make you feel

    so much more appreciated
    sally2089 sally2089
    26-30, F
    21 Responses Feb 6, 2016

    I think I am but I'm not "that" sure yet.

    I like how they are much more caring and sensitive to what they say. I haven't met a lot of guys in person but have talked to a handful online. I love how a conversation can flow from fun to flirty or even dirty at times. Most of the guys I chatted are looking for ego boosters...
    whoknowsme21 whoknowsme21
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Apr 1, 2016

    Guys my age have the tendency to act a little

    childish and irresponsible in my experience. I prefer older men.
    deleted deleted
    30 Responses Jul 4, 2015

    Hey ladies are there any fun ladies reading

    this might me up for a chat if that's you why not message me back?
    teddyboylovesboobs1 teddyboylovesboobs1
    41-45, M
    Mar 27, 2016
    lillylve lillylve
    22-25, F
    42 Responses May 5, 2015

    Since I can't speak to anyone about this

    and ep is soon to be no longer I will write one more experience on this topic sorry for being repetitive My attraction to older men has always been there, even in middle school it was there but it gets harder and harder to fight currently I am attracted to an older man who is...
    deleted deleted
    12 Responses Mar 28, 2016

    Always been my fantasy to date someone much

    older to me. Haven't done it yet though :(
    samanthasmil samanthasmil
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Apr 1, 2016
    waitingforyou19 waitingforyou19
    22-25, F
    29 Responses Sep 23, 2014

    I met a guy briefly the other day

    who must have been double my age. All I could think about was how 'rough and ready' he looked and that he could probably fu*c.k me harder than anyone my own age. Made me so hor.ny thinking about riding him there and then
    Lu24642 Lu24642
    22-25, F
    17 Responses Jun 22, 2015
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2016

    Posted here yesterday

    but can't remember password for My account so made new one lol
    JuliaJuliaJewls JuliaJuliaJewls
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2016
    abbyrosef15 abbyrosef15
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2016

    I don't have Daddy issues.

    ... I just really like the word "Daddy" ;)
    MiamiLover MiamiLover
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Feb 22, 2016

    I'm 18 and really want to date another older

    guy. They're just a lot hotter and mm c;
    Kenzie66 Kenzie66
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Apr 2, 2016

    I may be young and people are always saying

    things like "you have no idea what your talking about how could you like older guys?" Well it's simple. They're more mature than most guys my age and I'm more mature than most girls my age. I don't know what it is about guy older than me it just really turns me on.
    robinluvsyo robinluvsyo
    16-17, F
    32 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    Older guys are just so attractive to me.

    Its been like this since I was 16. They just fascinate me and I love them so much. I would honestly go for an older guy before I go for someone around my age.
    BabyGirlCleo BabyGirlCleo
    22-25, F
    22 Responses Nov 7, 2015
    Anon2721 Anon2721
    18-21, F
    17 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    Young female to male (pre-surgery.

    Still have girl parts) transgender. I have a huge fantasy of an older man in private, making me stop wearing boy clothes and make me wear girl clothes and be his little princess. I have this want for him to force me to wear panties and skirts and be a girly little princess for...
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    Mar 26, 2016
    Sammiebaby1016 Sammiebaby1016
    22-25, F
    42 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    There's something that's soooo sexy about a

    successful older man. Just the way they carry themselves and the confidence they seem to always have. With my experience older men have always been more accomplished, better in bed, mor confident, and more mature. They make me feel things that guys my age can't.
    OriginalBarbie OriginalBarbie
    18-21, F
    16 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    i can't help it I love being a naughty

    submissive girl for men so much older than me. I love how dirty and aggressive they can be.
    SarahsTushy SarahsTushy
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    Love older men. So kinky

    and confident. Drives me wild.
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    13 Responses Apr 15, 2015
    TooTricky2Trick TooTricky2Trick
    41-45, M
    Mar 25, 2016

    i have never dated or hooked up with a guy

    younger than me...or my age...i've always def had a thing for older guys
    MessedUpTami MessedUpTami
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Mar 21, 2016

    I've pretty much been attracted to older guys

    (30+) since I was really young, maybe 13 or so, and that's about the time I started being attracted to anyone sexually so pretty much as long as I've had any sexual feelings I've been into older guys. It's a little bit of a struggle but sometimes it works out pretty well
    Sammiebaby1016 Sammiebaby1016
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Mar 22, 2015

    Definitely.... Guys my age are

    so immature. I have a crush on my dads friends and business partners
    gildedlily21 gildedlily21
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    Trying to drop a hint to a guy (who's 11 years

    older). I've gone on multiple dates with him and we've had fun every time, but he isn't ever the one to initiate the conversation later on. He wont drop a hint as to whether or not he's interested. I can't tell if me being 11 years younger and also looking 14 bothers him, or if...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2016

    I've always had a thing

    for the way older men hold themselve, so confident, sure of themselves yanno? I have no one to talk to in my personal life that will understand so bear with me and my experiences. If you check out my profile you'll see an article I did about being a sociopath so to start of, I...
    loudXO loudXO
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Mar 30, 2016

    Hey I can't believe they are getting rid of

    this app ,well I'm angie and I love older men 35+ I love role-playing with them ;)
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 4, 2016

    I just don't know what to do!

    I am heavily attracted to older men, don't even look at guys my own age. I just love their manners, courtesy and respect. I also love how they have more experience then me in all aspects, so they can guide me and take charge. Not to mention a good suit and shoes goes a long way...
    deleted deleted
    36 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    Loving my handsome rugged older men

    who know what they want and go for it.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 21, 2015

    Hey are there any genuine n fun busty ladies

    wanna chat if that's you message me..... No friend collectors plz
    teddyboylovesboobs1 teddyboylovesboobs1
    41-45, M
    Apr 2, 2016

    Hey well I'm Angela and I like older guys 36+

    and I like role-playing with them ;)
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 12, 2016

    I've always been attracted to older guys from

    since I can remember. Whether it's some guy walking down the street or my teacher. Not a lot of people get it but there's something so special and beautiful about them. I just more people tried to accept it.
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Mar 25, 2016

    The first time i realized i was attracted to

    older guys was when i was in high school when an older guy (probably over 10years older than me) approached me and i entertained him,at first a part of me thought i was just doing it for the money,but the truth is i enjoyed the intimacy between us so much,and even though he was...
    Ratiwe Ratiwe
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 24, 2016

    I've always been attracted to older guys

    since I was 13 I'm 16 now I don't like guys my own age there to immature and are more of ******** than anything
    Holla34 Holla34
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    But I wish I wasn't attracted to them.

    I have yet to meet an older man who actually wanted a relationship with me. Not a relationship in the shadows, but a relationship free of shame or guilt about others perception of you. I have met older men who want me to be their other woman or sex object, but never their...
    deleted deleted
    21 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    Any older guys text me

    for some fun chats?;)
    shaddy101 shaddy101
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2016

    Unlike when they look at me

    and think bad thoughts
    LittleRider LittleRider
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 27, 2016
    shaddy101 shaddy101
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2016

    Hey I'm Angela and I like older guys 36+,

    and I like role-playing with them
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 15, 2016

    After ep closes there's going to be know way to

    talk to older guys unless any of you have Instagram :(
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 27, 2016

    I love older guys, they're

    so much cuter and they give great hugs :)
    deleted deleted
    Mar 29, 2016

    I think I've always had a thing

    for older guys , im rarely attracted to guys around my own age
    abby816 abby816
    22-25, F
    20 Responses Jul 17, 2015

    Not only am I attracted to them,

    I get along so much better with them than guys my age. They're just on a different level of maturity and I love that.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    My kick is Charmique,

    I am looking for a older guy 50s and up who is into someone else who loves to pretend to do pregnant. Online relationship ship preferably. I'm 29 years young.
    BlissfullQu33n BlissfullQu33n
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Apr 4, 2016
    AlexanderHorne AlexanderHorne
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2016

    yes you can have a sugar daddy

    but what happens when your sugar daddy leaves you?? what happens when you're too old for a sugar daddy??
    Angelcum Angelcum
    18-21, F
    29 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    When i was 16 i made out with a 27 year old guy

    from a club. Later that year he i saw him in school and it turns out he was my teacher's bestfriend.. AWKWARD....
    ysabelizade ysabelizade
    22-25, F
    20 Responses Feb 25, 2014

    I've always liked older guys.

    I cannot seem to level with peers of the opposite sex. Older men know what they're doing, and know how to take care of a lady. It's admirable.
    curvycam curvycam
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 6, 2016

    I am 18 and I like men older

    than me. I wouldn't go younger than 21, and draw the line at maybe 70, I like success and formality, a dominant perhaps "daddy figure" But with a women I will go younger than myself as well maybe ages 16-30 is it strange I have a broader age range for men than women?
    hollymayt hollymayt
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    Why? It is because, I think they are mature

    than the younger man. It just my opinion. I fall in love with the two of them on EP. I am not sure I am happy or not. Sometimes, I think I make fool of myself. But, let's just accept it as a form of natural feelings from God. I didn't force them to love me back. I don't know...
    CoffeeTimeNow CoffeeTimeNow
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 2, 2016

    In my experience very few twenty three years

    old men can hold an intelligible conversation with me, they just want me to take off my panties. I guess it was the guys I used to hang with probably. But older guys like to savour, to pace themselves and to make sure to heighten the experience if being with them in more ways...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt
    22-25, F
    35 Responses Feb 28, 2015

    Ever since I was 12 years old,

    I've had this attraction towards older guys. I remember thinking a few of my older teachers were insanely attractive, some an easy 20 years older than myself. I'm not sure why I have this attraction, possibly because older guys are more mature, have more experience and are wiser...
    arianemariexx arianemariexx
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Nov 26, 2014
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