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I Am Attracted to Older Men

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,269 People

    It's Just Always Been This Way For Me

    I am happily married to a man the same age as I am. But somehow, I have always wanted a much older man. When I let my mind wander and think about who else I would want to be with, I come up with men in their thirties and forties... It started when I was a teenager and I was...
    justeloped justeloped
    24 Responses Jun 13, 2008

    allway in to older men

    when i was 12 and up
    lisarowell420 lisarowell420
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 4, 2014

    There is something about a tall,

    handsome man with gray hair. Currently, I can't stop thinking about this hot 50 year old who caught my eye a little more than half a year ago. I'm pretty sure he's attracted to me. I can tell he tries to look his best when he knows he's going to see me. I've also caught him...
    angelique422 angelique422
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2016

    I Always Felt Much More Attracted

    to old men rather than young men. I don't know why. Maybe because I did not have father. So maybe I look in man not just to be my boyfriend but also to be my daddy and I also like him to be dominant man
    desireforpassion desireforpassion
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jul 27, 2013

    Well. .. my last story in this group was deleted

    and I'm not sure why. I thought that I was careful about what I said. but apparently the powers that be thought I was inappropriate :-) I guess I'm always inappropriate. So I will just say that I have always loved being with older men. It makes me feel sexy and naughty. If...
    deleted deleted
    16 Responses Dec 14, 2014

    I Am ... And It's A Little Strange

    Now that I am 37, older men are really OLDER men :) I have always dated guys at least 10 years older than I am. I never set out to do this, and I never went 'hunting' for it ... it just happened. I clicked more with older men than men my...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    21 Responses Oct 8, 2009

    Carlos Mendoza Fortunas

    While I was in Colombia, one of the guys there I had to work with on the venture was a Colombian from Cali Province named Carlos Mendoza. He is thirty-eight, and married with three children. Tall, and slim, and well-groomed and dressed, I was instantly attracted to him, and in a...
    Ilona88 Ilona88
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 16, 2012
    LasVegasDaddy13 LasVegasDaddy13
    36-40, M
    Oct 4, 2015

    I Dont Know Why But......

    I'm doning this cause of the annoying notification on my page telling me to post a story lol But any who I turned 19 not to long ago and I don't know why but for some reason I'm really turned on by the thought of being with an older man i mean dont get me wrong i like guys my...
    sashabby sashabby
    22-25, F
    16 Responses Jun 3, 2013

    No Idea Why....

    I have No Idea why I am so attracted to older men. it seems the older they are, the more irrestable I find them. I don't know what it is about older men, but I often find myself, crushing on people MUCH older than me.
    deleted deleted
    31 Responses Sep 27, 2010

    I have no idea how to approach one in person.

    I have online, just never in person. I mean there are some beautiful single older men I've seen...I do you approach them?! Lol then here comes the anxiety of will they accept a younger woman hitting on them? Ahh man lol
    Beijodeabacaxi Beijodeabacaxi
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Apr 17, 2015

    Lonely daddy here looking

    for his special lil angel.
    LasVegasDaddy13 LasVegasDaddy13
    36-40, M
    Oct 7, 2015

    Me?nah! I Got People To Do & Things To See

    Listen up you scrumptious people of EP as much as it would be noble to add & befriend every1 it just ain't possible well atleast for me anyway & we have to respect people's preferences etc. Lately I've been bombarded by requests&graphic details of how I'd get tamed,tied...
    bireese bireese
    31-35, F
    27 Responses Jun 6, 2011

    I think older men are hot.

    ....Just saying! ;)
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    Am I ever. I keep an open mind

    for the younger ones though. Don't want to count anyone out but theres a certain place in my heart for you older men. I love your hands. Knowing they've experienced so much. Your stubble. Your deep voices. Your passion for love making. Its such a turn on for me and...
    Demidryad Demidryad
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 25, 2015

    I'm a normal 19 year old teen with a boyfriend

    at college. But asides from that... I always have in the back of my mind id like some experience hands to touch me. I don't mean 20 something's, I love older men staring at me
    Hannielou Hannielou
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Feb 24, 2015

    I Am.

    I have always been attracted to older men. I enjoy pleasing them. I don't have a problem with guys my age or a little younger, but there is just something about an older guy that really gets to me. Maybe I have daddy issues. :)
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 30, 2013

    So where are all the women

    who like older men? Would you be brave enough to contact him to let him know you're interested?
    contrail11 contrail11
    61-65, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2015

    So we have been seeing each other

    for already over a year. Just weekends. He was being very patience since I was going through stuff with my ex. h. Now I recently straight my life and I have been living alone. He invited himself coming to my new place and when I was like " are you going to work tomorrow" kind of...
    memarried memarried
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 30, 2015

    Wonder why this is so?

    ?? I seem to get along with older men, and find them much sexier than guys younger than I am. Not sure if it's his politeness, or respect....or if it's the way they know how to treat a woman...better yet, maybe it's knowing you're not getting a toy, but a real man...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    At this point in my life,

    l am attracted to older men. The age bracket would be 45 to 55. They are very attentive, honest about their feelings, self aware, cultured, accomplished, brilliant listeners, greeeeat lovers! Alot of life experience and they just bring out that sensitivity and care from within...
    destiny7536 destiny7536
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2014

    I found attraction to older men

    that want to be with a cd like me and need that sexual activity that we can share i like the way they seem to want it to last and continue seeing me for more fun and the way they take their time for a lasting experience
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    Mar 9, 2015

    I am so attracted to older men.

    I think they are so sexy and charming. When i make comments to my girlfriends they act like im so weird but its not changing haha.
    alwaysdolledup alwaysdolledup
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2014

    Older Mem

    They tend to be better lovers and friends, many of the younger guys I've dated are to worried about what is in it for them. Take time and your lover will repay you tenfold
    kaylieeva kaylieeva
    26-30, F
    22 Responses May 6, 2013

    Is It Cheating? Well I Dont Care It Anyway

    I'm in relationship for nearly 2 years by now. But since last 7 months, I've this fantasy with old man thanks to my girl friend. She told me about her fantasy then I cant stop thinking about it lately. Especially when I see the old fat black guy, I feel butterfly between my legs...
    kaimon kaimon
    26-30, F
    Nov 22, 2013

    They Appreciate!!!

    There's something about the older man. I've been with men who are old enough to be my father. They appreciate!!! Its not a quickie, its beautifully prolonged and they sure know how to make you feel down right beautiful and s-exy.
    JustMe4u JustMe4u
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jul 21, 2010

    My Kind Of Man

    I notice him several on subway to my uni. This is 4th time I saw him on there and he smiled at me this time because he noticed me as well since we met several times. On that day there was a bit crowded on tube so we were closed enough to talk to each other. He said hi to me then...
    kaimon kaimon
    26-30, F
    Nov 25, 2013

    currently have a bf he is 50

    and I am 23 I guess that makes him a much older man LOL been seeing him for about 1 and a half years now been having fun with him seriously for the past year plus
    daughteranddaddygirl20 daughteranddaddygirl20
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2015

    I have always been attracted to older men.

    My husband is nearly 10 years older. I find it very attractive. In real life I am quite outgoing and dominant, but in the bedroom I become excessively submissive and will do most anything he asks. I may get spanked if I am not good. ;)
    bfwife2 bfwife2
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

    Here We Go Again On Thanksgiving

    I just wake up with dizzy in my head. Then I realize I fight with my boyfriend last night and he didn't come back home so I feel lonely by myself in bed. Today is Friday but my uni is closed because of thanksgiving holiday. Normally I spend my day with my one and only boyfriend...
    kaimon kaimon
    26-30, F
    Nov 29, 2013

    A Secret Attraction For Older Men

    I'm not sure what it is but I have always had an attraction for older men. When I was young I secretly dated an older man and loved every moment with him. Though I married a man my age I ALWAYS find myself looking and daydreaming about older men more often than not.
    1choklatcrystal 1choklatcrystal
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jun 17, 2012

    Yes indeed I am. I'm 23

    and I have always been interested in men that are older then me. The biggest age difference was 32 yrs. I was 20 and he was 52. I'm not sure exactly why this is perhaps "daddy issues." As far as I'm concerned it really doesn't matter. I like being wanted by older guys and that...
    BouncyPerkyFun BouncyPerkyFun
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2014

    What is it about older men

    that is so appealing? Is it their wisdom, their experience, or maybe their stability? I had a rather intimate & exciting experience with my best friends uncle in high school which she still has no clue too this day. He was always taking us to the movies or dinner and was always...
    hottmom22 hottmom22
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    So this might be a long shot,

    but I am female to male transgender (pre-op) and have always had a fantasy for becoming friends with an older man then having him make me his little girl in privacy. Miniskirts, panties, pantyhose, sit on his lap etc etc. if anyone is interested in this fantasy let me know :)
    deleted deleted
    Mar 6, 2016

    I am sure glad to read

    that there are younger women who like older men. It's a real kick to communicate with young women and share stories and pictures. Actually I think it's kind of rare but had a really good time sharing messages and pictures back and forth for a month or so with a younger woman...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 18, 2014

    Fireworks. Snowflakes.

      Sunstroke and frostbite.  It was all that I could ask for and completely unexpected.  I expected demands.  He gifted me with tenderness.  I expected ego.  He let me experiment.  I expected disrespect.  He called me beautiful.  I expected him to expect perfection...
    emilyjeanette emilyjeanette
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

    Story posted in comments

    for censorship...
    futureMD futureMD
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2016

    Tim Daly. How can a man at 59 look

    so damn good? Nuff said. Okay, Christoph Waltz too. This extraordinarily handsome man exudes sexiness, charm and sophistication. I feel heat emanating from my loins when he spews his linguistic magic on screen <3
    WhatTheMEL WhatTheMEL
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    Old ***** Work Aswell

    i love sucking an older guys ****. i did a guy on holiday 30 years older than me once and his **** was huge and full of ***. I like putting a smile on an older guys face.
    DionMillion DionMillion
    4 Responses Jul 6, 2013

    Love my older men(; Message me guys.

    I'd love to hear from you
    babyxogirl babyxogirl
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 10, 2015
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