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I Am Attracted to One of My Friends

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    Oh Dear

    I don't like it when I'm interested in one of my friends. Because 1) I know it will ruin our friendship and 2) it usually always ends in disaster...with me feeling like a fool and him feeling like he's been an idiot. I hate it when I get like this
    ToxicRyu ToxicRyu 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2013

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    I Am Attractet to a Married Friend

    One night a couple of weeks ago I had a drunken night with one of my long term male friends. I know his wife and he was a friend of ours when I was still with my ex who I have been separated from for a couple of years. The separation from my ex has been messy and incomplete. we...
    tacist tacist 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2008

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    EP

    I am attracted to one of my EP friends, gasp! 
    deleted deleted 26-30 28 Responses Sep 2, 2008

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    But We'll Always Be Friends...

    I'm attracted to one of my friends. We dated for a while back, but it's become obvious that the only thing we'll be from now on is friends. We both like each other, but he's bisexual and seems to like this guy more than he's ever going to like me. I understand this is the way...
    KelseyXKupcake KelseyXKupcake 13-15, F 1 Response May 29, 2011

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    The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face

    I have been attracted since day one, to your incredible smile, your sparkling eyes.  Your chamelion hair.  Every physical part of you is incredible.  Then you let me in, I got to talk to you..   I know it could never happen, and I'm okay with that. ...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 24, 2009

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    I'm sick of hot straight men who are cocky enough to think they can tease masses— women and men alike. When I say tease, I mean show off their supper hot bodies and faces and...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 10 hrs ago

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    I never fit in as a kid, teen, or now as a young adult. I had 2 best friends growing up and they were polar opposites. One was sporty, tall, skinny, blond, and semi popular. The...
    Becky4526 Becky4526 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I remember having a crush on this smart guy from an all-boys-school. I was so attracted to him yet my friends can't understand me. My friends could be shallow sometimes. I admit he...
    Ranessa Ranessa 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I joined this group a long time ago and while I knew it was true it's only recently that I have really begun to ponder this topic. I have been reviewing all the men/boys I've been...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    Yeah and thats killing me inside. I have many friends online but not even a single one in personal. I just always feel jealous when i see a large group of guys going out on...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I'm from California and I can't wait to move to another state. I love it here but I thinks it ready to move on enjoy the world and see what's out there. Also to make new and more...
    thetheonly thetheonly 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    New friends are the best, because you can learn so much about one another, and also get good advice
    TwisterTy TwisterTy 22-25, M 55 mins ago

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    I am attracted to others that "don't belong" in the local culture. There is the "bond of the outcast" that draws folks together who would never normally meet or speak with each...
    PseudoGypsy PseudoGypsy 41-45, T Jun 22

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    Yes! Ok there are so many people that think a girl and a guy and be JUST friends! First of all trust me its possible i have many guy friends that i am NOT dating or have any desire...
    trombonegurl trombonegurl 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Well I'm an older guy attracted to young women not girls. Before anyone jumps to conclusions and thinks I'm a pervert young woman and attraction need to be defined. For me the line...
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I wish I would have realized this sooner. I thought these 2 people on EP were my best EP friends. I was so wrong. These 2 other amazing guys who are also my friends ended up being...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I don't believe i know for fact its possible. Lots of people make jokes about Myles (that one guy friends i have) and me dating but really it's not gonna happen and he knows it...
    IMetHimAtTheCandyStore IMetHimAtTheCandyStore 13-15, F Jun 26

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    We went out for many years before getting married. Marriage was like the next step , recalling back I guess i had my doubts on whether he is still the one for me. But he is a very...
    hir21 hir21 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi all. I am 23 years old and have been attracted to she males since I was about 18. This past weekend I finally got the courage to meet one and I ended up giving her head. I just...
    kd1721 kd1721 22-25, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I found this out when I was four years short of my nineteenth name day. Pardon the GoT allusion, it's for the bots. My Jon Snow, was twice ten and six and lived down the lane in...
    SweetSweetSarah SweetSweetSarah 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 2

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    (Jay and Surprises) My stories between Jay and I will still linger on even though I am not as infatuated as I was before. This is just for the readers and the experience. We're...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Why do most girls seem to be attracted to ripped abs and stuff? I'm attracted to a guy with personality- and someone who is cuddle able. I like guys who accept the way God mad them...
    PrayerWarriorTeen PrayerWarriorTeen 13-15, F Jul 13

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    I will never understand, that if you move or change your job you loose most of your 'friends' and realize they were never friends. It still hurts. If you call them they talk like...
    LockieLeonard LockieLeonard 46-50, M 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Life Is Better with out Friends. They Can Not Hurt Me, When They Are Not There as I Need When I Hurt When I Bleed. They Can Not Hurt Me By Being Disappointed With... My Letting...
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M 9 hrs ago

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    I do have some good friends, they look out for me and no matter how distant I get they don't give up on me :) problem is they live in another city. Where I live, I have no good...
    Hidebehindtherain Hidebehindtherain 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    I am a 15 year old girl and I always have been attracted to older men. I'm currently, talking to one, who flirts back. He is 28. It's just annoying that it is illegal, because I...
    CatalinaPetrova CatalinaPetrova 13-15, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    Im attracted to smart woman that try to work..Im trying to find one that can understand me better...
    jennifertanner jennifertanner 26-30, M a week ago

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    I love being around passionate people. As friends I find them to be fun and inspirational. Even professionally I like to be around those who love about what they do. It is so much...
    LivefortheWeekend LivefortheWeekend 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    ARE YOU AN OLDER MAN SEEKING A YOUNG WOMAN? "Datingayounerwoman.com is a newly launched unique dating service, which helps young girls looking for older men or vice-versa...
    datingayoungerwoman datingayoungerwoman 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Of course this is possible. I have a guy friend that I call my twin because we're so close. There will never be an actual relationship because we're not attracted to each other and...
    stepintothefantasy stepintothefantasy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I got married at 26, living in my parents house, and my mom and I didn't get along. I felt she was controlling and woo ride too damn much. She still does, but I only have to deal...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F Jul 3

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    I never really connect with guys as I do with girls. Since my friends are mainly girls, it's easier to talk and just be myself without having to impress a boy. Plus for me, I like...
    kitkat02 kitkat02 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    True friends show up in the middle of the night to nurse.... Cuddling. Feeling blessed.
    jjtoes jjtoes 36-40, F 11 hrs ago

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    Sadly though I have like no friends at all right now. :(
    EFairy EFairy 18-21, F 12 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I thought I would share this here. I was updating my profile, and noticed that EP had kindly put a text on my page, saying that I have no friends and pretty much begging visitors...
    ConcreteSleeper ConcreteSleeper 31-35, M 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    anyone want to be friends?
    D105 D105 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    To all the goods friends i made and still talk to, i love you!!
    TwisterTy TwisterTy 22-25, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    i need more friends and im new
    paige001 paige001 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Hey , i live in saint paul MN . Looking forward to make new friends .
    Alimax11 Alimax11 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    Tonight I just reunion with all my friends in high school! Long time no see! Its been 1++ year that i havent met y'all! Tonight was FUNN!!!!!! ❤️
    daneean daneean 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm attracted to every gender. But I do not wish to have sex with them. It's only if I've had a great emotional bond. I love every human, they're all so magical.
    neptunegurl neptunegurl 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I have no idea why this is. But nothing in this world gets me going more than an intelligent female. I guess I have rare tastes seeing how few there are in the world today. As a...
    1stepforward3shovesback 1stepforward3shovesback 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I've always been attracted to older men. 40+ does the trick ;-).
    aladyindeed aladyindeed 22-25, F 14 Responses Jun 30

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    I find myself to be attracted to older men. Something about them is quite appealing(who are single of course) and I find myself to be indifferent towards men my age. It may because...
    StephFred StephFred 18-21, F 47 Responses Jul 6

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    I'm attracted to white men ;)
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 7

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    I am sixteen, but for some reason I find older men attractive. Looks dont matter. I think its because they are more mature, have more experience, and know how to talk to women...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 22 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm super young but I'm attracted to guys in there 20s and early 30s. It gets frustrating. *cough* my teacher story
    mournwiththemoonandthestars mournwiththemoonandthestars 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 9