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I Am Attracted To People Who Are Not Attracted To Me

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    Some Men

    Some of the kind of men I am attracted to I feel I, well, don't make the cut. They have high standards in women. I need to be thinner and prettier for them. Some are prettier than me damnit!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 4, 2010

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    I'm Bisexual

    A lot of the men I've been attracted to aren't attracted to me because they are straight. A few of the women I've been attracted to aren't attracted to me because they are lesbians. Some of those who are attracted to my gender are just not attracted to me as an individual...
    Dragon56 Dragon56 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 10, 2010

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    Never Had Anyone Attracted To Me That Wasn't Psychotic

    I have yet to be attracted to anyone that was attracted to me. Any woman given the choice between having me being attracted to them or sticking 15 inch stainless steel needles in their eyes will ask if the needles are sharp.
    NickCC NickCC 51-55, M Sep 19, 2012

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    Heavyset Women...

    They just don't have the self esteem to handle this... so everyone who talks to me weighs 150 pounds while holding a lead safe and a Grand piano.
    lesshissMORECAT lesshissMORECAT 31-35 3 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Sad

    me too about this.. i wish i was attractive so i can get with attractive peeps...
    kittyanthony kittyanthony 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    I do not get you people at all...a recent question : "if you were trapped on an island with an unattractive female what would you do?", nobody asks about being trapped with an...
    JustmeraeAgain JustmeraeAgain 46-50, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    People need to understand is they want to be in a relationship , they have to have trust and communication with one and other. What's a relationship if you don't trust ? That...
    2luvjocy 2luvjocy 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    DarkSoulInsaneHeart DarkSoulInsaneHeart 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I am 18 !!!!! I want to talk to people my Agee !
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