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I Am Attracted To People Who Are Not Attracted To Me

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    Some Men

    Some of the kind of men I am attracted to I feel I, well, don't make the cut. They have high standards in women. I need to be thinner and prettier for them. Some are prettier than me damnit!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 4, 2010

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    Heavyset Women...

    They just don't have the self esteem to handle this... so everyone who talks to me weighs 150 pounds while holding a lead safe and a Grand piano.
    lesshissMORECAT lesshissMORECAT 31-35 3 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Never Had Anyone Attracted To Me That Wasn't Psychotic

    I have yet to be attracted to anyone that was attracted to me. Any woman given the choice between having me being attracted to them or sticking 15 inch stainless steel needles in their eyes will ask if the needles are sharp.
    NickCC NickCC 51-55, M Sep 19, 2012

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    I'm Bisexual

    A lot of the men I've been attracted to aren't attracted to me because they are straight. A few of the women I've been attracted to aren't attracted to me because they are lesbians. Some of those who are attracted to my gender are just not attracted to me as an individual...
    Dragon56 Dragon56 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 10, 2010

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    me too about this.. i wish i was attractive so i can get with attractive peeps...
    kittyanthony kittyanthony 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    I admire people like this because it reminds me of who I can become, I used to think I'd never achieve anything, but then. did, I got straight a's and I'm proud of it. I am me, and...
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    I don't understand why people try to be something they're not just so they can impress people or fit in . A lot of people act all prim and proper and lie about things they like...
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    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 17 Responses Jan 5

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    People my age seem so unfriendly. Like we all are under so much pressure from life and skeptical at best about making new friends. It's so awkward and a bit frustrating at times.
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    Who thinks I'm attractive ?? I dnt think I am ??
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    I don't like, I don't like Fake nigguhs I don't like A **** nigguh, that's that shyet I don't like, nah A snitch nigguh, that's that shyet I don't like, nah A bitsh nigguh, that's...
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    Absolutely. Love me a passionate woman who isn't afraid of that side of herself. It's just so damn sexy!
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    You need to laugh! You need to lighten out. You need to be bright, and to be hilarious!
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    Sorry but if you're lame and boring as hell, I won't reply to your messages.
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    Happy Frikkin' new year frikkers We just frikked up out Christmas tree with poppers! Looks purtty!
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