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I Am Attracted To People Who Are Not Attracted To Me

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    me too about this.. i wish i was attractive so i can get with attractive peeps...
    kittyanthony kittyanthony 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    Heavyset Women...

    They just don't have the self esteem to handle this... so everyone who talks to me weighs 150 pounds while holding a lead safe and a Grand piano.
    lesshissMORECAT lesshissMORECAT 31-35 3 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Never Had Anyone Attracted To Me That Wasn't Psychotic

    I have yet to be attracted to anyone that was attracted to me. Any woman given the choice between having me being attracted to them or sticking 15 inch stainless steel needles in their eyes will ask if the needles are sharp.
    NickCC NickCC 51-55, M Sep 19, 2012

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    Some Men

    Some of the kind of men I am attracted to I feel I, well, don't make the cut. They have high standards in women. I need to be thinner and prettier for them. Some are prettier than me damnit!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 4, 2010

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    I'm Bisexual

    A lot of the men I've been attracted to aren't attracted to me because they are straight. A few of the women I've been attracted to aren't attracted to me because they are lesbians. Some of those who are attracted to my gender are just not attracted to me as an individual...
    Dragon56 Dragon56 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 10, 2010

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    I still hate people who aren't. People like my dad should be restricted from reacting in any way by law. Because we all know people who are close minded sure will never react good...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    People who are open minded are just great people to hangout with. They tend to be more nice and more understanding and welling to try something new. So it's great to have friends...
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    I love people who aren't scared to be themselves even if people might think there weird!
    YoungJoseM YoungJoseM 18-21, M Oct 5

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    I hate people who aren't. My own father is close minded.
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 25

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    i like people who are open minded. Because they can understand our confusion.
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    Wbyogimaso Wbyogimaso 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I can only be myself after I've gotten used to people, that's why I didn't make friends so fast on my first couple of weeks as a high school Freshman (which I currently am). I am...
    Kperr14 Kperr14 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    I know people at school who are afraid to touch me now i dont know why but not it just seems like my social circle is gone and i have no actual people to talk to. Oh well thats why...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    TheDragonPriest TheDragonPriest 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    I admire people who dare to be different. It's nothing wrong with not following a trend just because thats whats in. It's good to do what you like and act how you like, as long as...
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 16

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    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M a week ago

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    Discussion is the crown of meeting minds. It is good to debate, and argue points of view, especially with open minded individuals who are not so up themselves that they are open to...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    To often these days people feel as if they must conform to get people to like them when in reality, a person that is open and honest will be exponentially more respected in this...
    MedicGuy14 MedicGuy14 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I would never be anyoe else, but apparently who i am is a guy people enjoy f*cking chance they get. Someone who people enjoy making up rumors about, bullshi**ing to and behind my...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Hi! I need to write about something that's near to my heart. I have a friend who's 100% real. I love that about him. He's been my good friend since the start of this school year...
    Hippodippo257 Hippodippo257 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I think we all know someone who's personality and interests seem to change according to who they are around at the time. Do you think that's a good thing because they are adaptable...
    Kikiface22 Kikiface22 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 6

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    Strange but lovely how I can be so open and honest with complete strangers!! It's just not the same with people you know or who think they know you....
    Cara29 Cara29 26-30, F 23 Responses Oct 7

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    Looking for cool people around 16-20 to chill and chat with hopefully who like reading scary stories and watching interesting TV shows.
    v1ol3ntjokz v1ol3ntjokz 22-25, M Oct 8

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    Don’t just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good...
    Sophie119 Sophie119 18-21, F Oct 13

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    Being who you really are inside is admirable. If you cannot be true to and love yourself how can you really be yourself to begin with? That said, I love you all!
    3Dogmatic 3Dogmatic 36-40, M Oct 5

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    Looking for people 15-18. Just to talk and be friends; or people to talk to.
    Superpokeoffice Superpokeoffice 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Hell... They are no abundance, but i have atleast many of these people around which im happy for. Still you need respect that noone is perfect.
    vickepicke vickepicke 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 13

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    I love meeting new people, finding out new things from people I had no idea about, getting to know someone and maybe becoming great friends for a long time. Sounds like a great...
    tay143 tay143 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    Honestly, most of the people I know would prefer I NOT SHARE MY FEELINGS unless there is some relevance to their lives. I get "whatever" as a response. Some are family. Maybe I...
    JoshM1974 JoshM1974 36-40, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I wanna wake up next to you.. Wake me in the morning Send me to sleep Give me something I can't give It's not about singing the right song. It's about singing to the right person...
    Samwan Samwan 70+, F 21 hrs ago

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    it makes them such a good person, because a person who is cute, and knows it may use it to their advantage and untimately become a complete jerk. While a person who is cute, but...
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M Oct 2

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    Seldom do we see this anymore. Now everyone is in a band wagon of some sort. I'm lucky to have girlfriend who is herself in every way
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Oct 5

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    I wish I could be that person, but I don't even like myself. Why would I let other people see someone that I can't even like? The facade is easier.
    CassidyRose4905 CassidyRose4905 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 5

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    I'm weird, that's who I am, if you be yourself cool, everyone should deserve to be themselves! I'm weird so suck my monopoly
    Hotdudez78 Hotdudez78 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 6

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    I would love to talk to someone around my age (21) so message me if you want to talk :) I would love to get to know new people!!
    cici0307 cici0307 18-21, F Oct 8

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    I think life is a journey of self-discovery, so when I meet someone who is unabashedly unique and comfortable in his or her own skin, I marvel at it.
    KnightMoves KnightMoves 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 8

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    i wish i can find new people to talk.
    berealistic811 berealistic811 26-30, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    There is definitely a shortage of people with open minds, especially women. (continued in comments below)
    pantspooper12345 pantspooper12345 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I can usually tell when someone is truly interested in friendship or if they're only interested for their own selfish purposes or gains. I've been too trusting with people only to...
    sweetaura sweetaura 26-30 19 hrs ago

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    Ccolton Ccolton 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 25

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    Ccolton Ccolton 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 25

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    “Don’t think too high of anyone. A person is a person. No matter how perfect they may appear, none are flawless on this earth. Don’t think someone can understand you more...
    pashey pashey 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    Peter Peter.... P*ss* eater. Where are you right now? Mmmm
    LeeAnne011 LeeAnne011 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 8

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    You can't make someone accept you without being yourself! You are either attractive to someone of not. It's all to do with opinion, feelings and understanding.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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