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I Am Attracted To People Who Are Not Attracted To Me

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    me too about this.. i wish i was attractive so i can get with attractive peeps...
    kittyanthony kittyanthony 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    I'm Bisexual

    A lot of the men I've been attracted to aren't attracted to me because they are straight. A few of the women I've been attracted to aren't attracted to me because they are lesbians. Some of those who are attracted to my gender are just not attracted to me as an individual...
    Dragon56 Dragon56 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 10, 2010

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    Heavyset Women...

    They just don't have the self esteem to handle this... so everyone who talks to me weighs 150 pounds while holding a lead safe and a Grand piano.
    lesshissMORECAT lesshissMORECAT 31-35 3 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Some Men

    Some of the kind of men I am attracted to I feel I, well, don't make the cut. They have high standards in women. I need to be thinner and prettier for them. Some are prettier than me damnit!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 4, 2010

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    Never Had Anyone Attracted To Me That Wasn't Psychotic

    I have yet to be attracted to anyone that was attracted to me. Any woman given the choice between having me being attracted to them or sticking 15 inch stainless steel needles in their eyes will ask if the needles are sharp.
    NickCC NickCC 51-55, M Sep 19, 2012

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    i really prefer people who are open minded i never really liked anyone who judges others. i don't like people who are rude to people who are different from them or who have their...
    mylordandmysaviour mylordandmysaviour 22-25 1 Response Aug 9

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    Yup i hear this one n Shout It out LOUD. Now i dont believe in people who are mean, rude, bullies etc in the name of Being Themselves. Ive met far toooooo many people like this. BE...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    I love people who are able to express their opinion and who have their own thoughts on varying topics. I think being true to yourself and living authentically is one of the...
    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 41-45 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Like People Who Are Nice...............
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M Jul 23

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    Like People Who Are Open Minded
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 24

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    It's just so much nicer that way :) However, I don't not like people who are closed minded!
    lindsaymaegan lindsaymaegan 22-25, F 13 Responses Jul 24

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    I love to be with people who are nice enough. :)
    yhunella yhunella 18-21, F a week ago

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    Remember When Taylor Swift Was The Victim? In many of her hits, she was the victim in her relationships. Nobody said anything about it at first. Then she went through so many...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F Jul 23

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    I hang out with people like this. Most people in high school would always tell me why I hang with them ( i am there total opposites & I sugar coat things and don't speak my mind...
    gostop4 gostop4 18-21 2 Responses Aug 6

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    For the past few months, I have been doing some thinking about my university choices I will have to make in about two years. I've always said America. America, America, America. I...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I don't know why am I keep meeting girls who are shallow and superficial! I just realized how difficult it is to hang out with them from the dinner the other day. Gosh...the moment...
    Naturalsimple Naturalsimple 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I really admire people that have found themselves ... That have found their uniqueness and are so happy in their own skin, they don't care what others think about them... I admire...
    off2heavenIgo off2heavenIgo 13-15 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Most people live in a shell of their own and do not express their feelings. Some feel it too odd to express in front of people. Guess some people are natural with it and some...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i know if people are trying or starting to do that to me. Don't try to fool me coz i knw when people are fooling me.
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F Jul 27

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    My rules of engagement: 1. No obscenities; only wholesome exchange. 2. If you cannot relate, keep quiet. 3. Funny is good, Educational/informative: better, People...
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So everyone that knows me understands that I am emotional. I use words of emotion, my music is full of feeling, everything. So when I encounter someone who shows no feeling to me...
    devinprater devinprater 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Not really, I mean who else would I have to pick on? If you choose to be that way and want to run your big mouth and say stupid things, your open game. It works both ways, right...
    KawaiiDemon KawaiiDemon 18-21 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I do not get you people at all...a recent question : "if you were trapped on an island with an unattractive female what would you do?", nobody asks about being trapped with an...
    Myfairlady1 Myfairlady1 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    People need to understand is they want to be in a relationship , they have to have trust and communication with one and other. What's a relationship if you don't trust ? That...
    2luvjocy 2luvjocy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Kindness is wonderful. When I was a poor student years ago. I lived in a flat. In the same block there were several elderly people and I would always stop and chat if I ever saw...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 26

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    This story was funny when it happened, I'm not so sure it is anymore. I was on the phone with female representative from the cable company.. when i was trying to get cable...
    cbeneath cbeneath 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    this is very interesting so get ready. I was on instagram and I saw people complaining about how they miss Connor Franta and yada yada, the I see this hashtag "#cutforconnor...
    auxds auxds 13-15, F Jul 31

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    I didn't come equipped with a mind reader so it's usually helpful to have people be candid and truthful about their feelings. Sarcasm is lost on me in these instances so ya either...
    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 41-45 2 Responses Aug 4

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    People leave your life for a reason. Some teach you how to be a better person and some show you what kind of person not to be. I'm so grateful to those people because they showed...
    chloejune chloejune 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    still trying to write a story for each experience i claim to have had, lol. i am one that will stay quiet when people are gossiping about this or that. it never fails, they'll...
    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    I often feel like I'm all alone in this disgusting world we live, it seems almost everyone I come across is trying to be someone there not. Why is it so hard for people to just be...
    DocWest DocWest 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Hello!! I would like to talk with people in their 40's that don't/can't have children.
    ldlbell ldlbell 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Hello everyone. I would like to chat with someone who is between the ages of 14-17 and preferably someone who can actually hold an intelligent conversation. Thanks.
    DarkSoulInsaneHeart DarkSoulInsaneHeart 13-15, F Jul 24

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    Could that be you? I am trying to better my life by attending college. I dont have out with a bunch of people. I try to stay positive. I love positive quotes. I do not drink, smoke...
    iamnikki iamnikki 22-25, F Jul 26

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    I am 18 !!!!! I want to talk to people my Agee !
    Lovelyx2 Lovelyx2 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I was raised and surrounded by people with bounded mind all of my life. I don't mind. As a matter a fact, I feel grateful to be more open minded because of them. You just need a...
    sashimi9 sashimi9 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    In this day and age, where people seem compelled to copy stuff they see on the internet or on tv, which annoys the crap out of me. It is always refreshing to see someone unique...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    8/ 14/ 14 This is a true recounting of how ridiculous texting has become. My first question to my son was why do you text all the time when a phone conversation is so much easier...
    minimeowz minimeowz 61-65, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It something good and gracious to help that person who is in need, you feel peaceful and joyful when you put a smile on someone's face.It gives you comfort to know that you did...
    dns1 dns1 26-30, M Jul 24

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    I am a 21 year old woman I work full time and live with my partner who is 23 and just finished a business degree, problem is I want to have a baby but I am so scared of being...
    TheEmpress14 TheEmpress14 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 30

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    Not adore more like I find it a nice quality. But there are times when you ahould confess and shouldn't confess. (^~^)
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    We wear our traumas the way the guillotine handles gravity... Our lovers necks are so soft.
    SQ2013 SQ2013 36-40, F Aug 10

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    This guy Confezion made my day. He really boosted my confidence. He was really nice and I hope the best for him. Whoever ends up with him is lucky. That's it -Peace out, Girl...
    Brookiecookie2000 Brookiecookie2000 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    The open-minded, the caring, the sensitive are all my friends.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have a very caring and loving boyfriend who is away from me for a while. The distance is killing me I miss the affection and lovin, im an extremely affectionate and loving person...
    Tilou420 Tilou420 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    15-20, keep things clean, please don't be inappropriate. Also don't lie about your age. I would love to meet new friends.
    Faithlovee Faithlovee 16-17, F Jul 24

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    Hi!!!! I'm 13 and I would love to talk with you! (Smiles)
    primaprae primaprae 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 24

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