I Am Attractive, Fun, Sweet, and Yet Single

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 399 People

    Guess I just have to deal with the fact

    that good guys always finish last...
    catchphrasejones catchphrasejones
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 6, 2014

    How's This All Work?

    I am attractive, fun, sweet, smart, and yet single. I just don't "get" how it all works. I meet people and it always seems they are more into me than I am into them, and then I find someone I really, really like and we get on great, but then he won't call for no apparent reason...
    runbabyrun runbabyrun
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Aug 26, 2007

    I mean, I'm going off to college this year

    or I might meet some people on here c:
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2016

    I'm all those things.

    I'm just a little shy and really bad at telling when girls are into me. Any ladies want to give me a chance?
    Benny412 Benny412
    31-35, M
    Feb 16, 2015

    When Your Check List Is Too Long No One Will Fit It. I Just Want A Faithful, Loyal And Sweet Gal.

    So my checklist is short. and reasonable. Sweet natured, Very loyal, faithful to a fault, Affectionate, just a good wife , Mother to any children we have.
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112
    41-45, M
    Jun 20, 2013

    The Mystery Of Being Single

    I have been single by choice for over a year now. I have been in several relationships but have yet to find what I am looking for. In order to share my experiences about being single I have started a page on Facebook. Check it out at facebook.com/ROASG
    k31447 k31447
    Dec 22, 2012
    YoungJoseM YoungJoseM
    18-21, M
    Oct 12, 2014

    I have very low self esteem

    that despite of my self proclaimed achievements and my built confidence after years if years of accepting my self - I wrote here because I'm single. I have to work hard... Life had never been easy- I have been in different kinds of situations .... I have cried a lot... But I do...
    emikei emikei
    26-30, F
    Apr 6, 2014

    It seems there are so mane people saying

    that they want relationships, seem to have a lot to offer, but go through numerous failed relationships. It's tiring sometimes, & puzzling how the 'wrong' people end up together. Why are so many people getting it wrong? What's with our culture where we can't seem to connect. We...
    TheRightFitforLife TheRightFitforLife
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2016

    Ya I am 20 and I am single.

    ...why am I not Ina relationship? Why doesn't anybody like me?
    BBPike BBPike
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 15, 2014

    I Am Everything Nobody Is Looking For

    I have tons of guy friends! whenever i speak with them they all tell me the same thing "why can't I find a girl like you?" it doesnt bother me when they say this because they are my friends and there is no attraction there what does bother me is the fact that other guys do find...
    callymar callymar
    1 Response May 20, 2013

    Im 22 open minded down to earth friendly

    and looking for a good looking man aged between 23-40 to chat to and maybe more :)
    missbb2014 missbb2014
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Mar 31, 2014

    I Think So

    People tell me these things and I believe them. I am healthy, friendly, willing to do just about anything. Yet, I am over 30 with everyone around me being married or in a serious relationship. I do not know what (although I want to) a relationship is like having never had one. I...
    asert12345678 asert12345678
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jun 30, 2012

    Why Oh Why

    People say I'm pretty in an exotic way, sweet, funny and yet I'm single! I only had a relationship in the past, that didn't stay long. Now I'm beginning to think, "What's wrong with me?!" Most of them say I'm choosy but I know I'm not. Maybe I just don't express my feelings...
    AzumiRae AzumiRae
    1 Response Oct 17, 2013

    Attractive Yet Single

    I find myself to be pretty attractive. I have shoulder length hair(a little longer actually), light brown skin (im redbone like indians), and im just generally a pretty girl. I had a boyfriend but he was being a butt because I didn't do what he wanted nor did I give myself...
    rwshortie rwshortie
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Mar 20, 2009

    Young Free And Single

    I am a 24 yo male from Leeds UK. and id say i was attractive, out going etc but im so feb up of been single and scared my life will just stay as it is. im unemployed and im always looking for work, so this means i am always skint and never get the chance to meet that 1 girl whos...
    Chris854 Chris854
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2011


    I'm attractive, or so I've been told, fun, nice, sweet... and very single. If I have to hear if I were... (fill in the blank with anything you can think of..). I would totally date you. I'm going to totally smack someone... Seriously does anyone know how not comforting those...
    CoolHearted CoolHearted
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2011

    At Least That Is What Everyone Says

    I joined this group because I receive similar generic compliments. My family tells me how handsome, funny, and smart I am. My online friends tell me the exact same thing. Yet I have not even touched a girl... in a casual social setting, for at least 3 years now. So why should...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 13, 2012

    It's Kind Of Funny.....

    I find it's strange how other people can influence how you feel about yourself. It gets to a point where I get so confused because although I don't look in the mirror and see a supermodel, I also don't think im unattractive. The problem is people judge you on your looks, and don...
    maydays maydays
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2012

    This Is Funny To Me

    I have everything that any guy would dream of, yet I am still single. I know I have my priorities that i look in my man, yet is not there anyone matching my checklist? I take my time to judge and observe a person, and they think i m not interested (pity).
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 5, 2011

    But Maybe My Friends Are Liars

    My friends reckon I'm rather attractive, fun, smart, loyal, sweet blah blah blah!!! So then why oh why am I still single? There are so many men involved with horrible shrews and yet I'm supposedly such a catch but I'm single... where's the sense in that. Do guys just not want...
    annathom annathom
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 19, 2008

    Sad And Lonely

    The one i love and will do anything for doesnt want to be with me
    2011sadness 2011sadness
    3 Responses Dec 12, 2011

    and it's alright. I enjoy having a bed all to

    myself, doing what I want when I want and not having to answer to a man. Not every woman thinks about latching a hold of a man for eternity. I wouldn't even feel comfy in a relationship right now and that's cool because I'm fine with it. Just because I'm alone does not make me...
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

    A lot of people ask me

    why I am single and I can honesty say I have no idea why. My friends say I'm seriously stunning, like georgous. But I'm funny, fun, outgoing, hard working, there's so much more to me then my looks. I just feel like my looks get in the way of people actually trying to get to know...
    TTimothy TTimothy
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2015

    I feel that my life is boring cause I'm single.

    I'm 17 and I'm gonna graduate in a year I'm a junior and I guess it's ok . I mean I gotta focus on college and track so I guess girls are a distraction i mean I want a girlfriend but I dont need one. I really don t understand I am a gentleman I hold the door for ladies and I...
    TheStapes32 TheStapes32
    18-21, M
    Mar 24, 2015
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