I Am Bad At Holding A Relationship

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    I get so enmeshed in any relationship w/a guy,

    that it then causes me anxiety, depression, fear, feelings of vein trapped, etc, even tho the guy does nothing to "make" me feel this way. It comes from the family I come from(ugh)... I can't just relax and be happy with the guy I love. And don't say I need a break from dating...
    pinkpearlite pinkpearlite
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 28, 2015

    Holding On Is Hard

    I am a nice guy who is into Goth / Emo Women. the relationship always seems that its going well and it ends around the 4th or 5th week. I dont know if its just the Women Im picking or the way I act (Wich is very nice, respectful, super suportive, risky, involved). Or It's the...
    LuciferMaximus LuciferMaximus
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2010

    Even tho I love my bf I fear

    that by spending time with him I will be more like him and less like me. I'm so afraid of this cycle of losing my identity , like when I'm with someone and my mind goes blank so I take on their personality and ignore/forget my true thoughts and feelings. Why can't I just relax...
    pinkpearlite pinkpearlite
    22-25, F
    Mar 2, 2015

    2 Years

    I've only had one relationship last longer than 2 years, and that was my first teenage romance.After that, 2 years seems to be my quota- either they leave or I leave. *sigh* Weird.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    Feb 11, 2011

    I can't hold a steady relationship

    for more than 2/3 months. I have to take a break or remove titles. It's too stressful
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    I'm a serial dater, but I'm awful at it.

    Three relationships, spanning from 10 months to 1.5 years over the course of 4 years. All three guys hate me, won't speak to me and have deleted me from social media in some fashion. I'm not a cheater, or criminally insane, but the main issue is that they loved me with all...
    Soltanto Soltanto
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2014
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