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I Am Becoming a Thriver of Rapes

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    I can sense negativity in the things i say. It may come across as rude, and i notice almost immediately, but i am too awkward and anxious to smoothly correct the statement, i just...
    theMETAmonologue theMETAmonologue 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I am afraid of becoming an alcoholic. Its a main reason why I try not to drink so much. When I lost my daughter, I did not handle it the best way. Instead of turning to my friends...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 21

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    I fear becoming an alcoholic. Not because so drink excessively. Or have a high dependency on it. It's because of her. She's an alcoholic. And you know what they say "Like Mother...
    Frantastic96 Frantastic96 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I drink, often alone, mainly just to calm down my nerves. And I love that feeling. Drinking gets me calm, worrying about less. Can't seem to relax totally and properly without it...
    dysfori dysfori 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I have found myself becoming more and more "Anti-Semitic" the more I am exposed to Jewish people. If you had met me a few years ago, as a bleeding heart multicultural type, you...
    confusedcompassion confusedcompassion 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I might come out as confident to a lot of people, thy just think I have the balls, and got my guts out of nowhere. Actually it took me a while to get where I am now. Accepting who...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    Any spells to become a werewolf?
    Brookiecookie2000 Brookiecookie2000 13-15, F Mar 25

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    I defiantly know I'm bisexual but i think that i might be wanting a girl more because when i ha a boyfriend he always wanted to kiss which we did a lot but when we did i felt...
    otakugamerwolf otakugamerwolf 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    im a foodie.i luv eatin all tim especilly non-veg.during skool days eatin it ws ok as i used to walk and run and all.but nw (i luv eatin fried items) everyone is tellin im gettin...
    thangamann489 thangamann489 13-15 Mar 30

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    I can't sleep at night. I have resorted to drugs. I have tried zzz quil, benadryl, flu medicines and finally settled on Tylenol PM which makes me ridiculously groggy the next day...
    shoxic shoxic 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I am down to one meal per day. I dont feel like im doing it on purpose but at the same time i am.
    Clair18 Clair18 18-21, F Apr 2

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    Studying mental health this year, then going on to get my bachelor in psychology.
    H12344 H12344 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Organs turning black. My heart is pumping ash. There's a burning cauldron in my mind in which the blood must pass. Passed the racing thoughts. Next to the violent scenes. Skipping...
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 13-15, F Apr 5

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    After the attacks on 9/11/2001, I remember hearing stories about Muslim people who have been in America for most of or all of their lives being attacked for no reason at all. Their...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I enjoy that warm feeling you get, and the fact that it helps numb your senses. I've got problems with depression, so alcohol helps me numb the pain. I suppose it's a good thing I...
    JHomesick JHomesick 18-21, M Apr 8

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    I used to compare myself against the benchmarks of others, and the expectations of society (i.e., salary, material possessions, title/position, etc.) but the older I get, the more...
    shoehorny shoehorny 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    My coach, part 2. And the feeling may actually be mutual. Before I was going mostly on speculation and body language. But now he is starting to act on my gestures. Last Sunday...
    saturnsdaughter saturnsdaughter 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I really am. And when you're a member of support communities such as this one, it's hard to avoid falling into hypocrisy. The particular trait I'm referring to is giving an advice...
    HappyandSad20 HappyandSad20 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    It's better to forgive through the tears, breathe, be still, take many small steps, and give - even if I may be getting nothing back.
    jenga1 jenga1 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm keeping my circle best-friends only now. And these best friends are people that I've spoken to for a couple of months, people I can talk to for lolz and serious topics. People...
    GeekyLittleThing GeekyLittleThing 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I'd love to be one of those people who can say "I'm not a victim I'm a ******* survivor and thriver!" But the truth is, I'm not. I was a victim. It hurt and I didn't know to tell...
    Qwerkyqwerty Qwerkyqwerty 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Just how human are you and in what ways? Spiritually human enough to understand that a fellow believer does not just give up seven years of their life for no reason? Spiritual...
    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Just how human are you and in what ways? Spiritually human enough to understand that a fellow believer does not just give up seven years of their life for no reason? Spiritual...
    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Travel is a great way of changing your perspectives. I was becoming involved in some directions I didn't really want to go in, with so many aspects of my life at home in France. I...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I had my first boyfriend when I was 16. We met each other at church and we also attended the same high school. He was a year older than me so he graduated from high school and...
    leimomo leimomo 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    I saw this news article and just had to share it. Go here to read the article, see pictures and get a link to a more detailed article. NASHPORT, Ohio (AP) — A couple who held...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    This month I thought I might be lucky,as I normally get pms and pain for a week before it even starts.Well...it turns out,my period is at least 10 days late (no,I'm not pregnant...
    SparklyRain SparklyRain 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Once again, I find myself picking the wrong men.. What is it about me that chooses men who eventually go back to their ex!! My heart is breaking slowly..so I met this guy and we...
    Xococoxo Xococoxo 18-21, F 1 Response 48 mins ago

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    My name is Trisha I'm going to begin by saying the life I chose has had its up's and downs, rewards, penalties, and mine not much different from many of yours. Honestly if I had...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    2 am. girl. man. the man kills 1 year old boy in front of his mother . the man then rapes the girl, after that break her arms and legs then he stab her eyes then he eats her...
    Zoce Zoce 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I believe in the Death Penalty for heinous crimes. Anyone who murders a bunch of people, who sexually abuses a child, or rapes someone, does not deserve to live. People may not...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    So although this year seems to be going very quickly, hard to believe it's April already, I can't help but feel like so much doom has been upon us in such a short time.This year...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    It started when I was around 9. My brother is a year and a half older than me and I was a very innocent child. He'd ask me to do him a 'favor' and he'd touch me through my clothes...
    redgreenblue776 redgreenblue776 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    About 5 yrs ago I found out I had herpes I was devastated I cried for days. The doctors said I had it for awhile, I got it from one of my rapes. I'm married now and my husband is...
    CocoRose91 CocoRose91 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Women's rights are violated all the time, and it is the most shocking and widespread human rights violation on earth. 1 in 5 women will be raped in their lifetime. 70-90% of rapes...
    writercookies writercookies 13-15, F a week ago

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    It has been a while since I wrote about my Life . The stresses and strains of everyday life have withheld my hand from travelling back in time from the present into the past . Past...
    AATHREYAARBEEKAY AATHREYAARBEEKAY 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    How many of you have heard your spouse or girlfriend ask "What’s so bad about being a man?” my spouse asked me when I finally confessed to her that I was much more than just a...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T a week ago

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    [X] the dark [X] staying single forever [ ] being a parent [X] being in front of others [ ] open spaces [X] closed spaces [ ] heights [ ] dogs [ ] birds [ ] fish [X] spiders...
    Ally95xx Ally95xx 18-21, F Apr 5

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    LECTURER: Ah! Joba long time! How’re you doing? JOBA: I'm good sir. I came to find out if I could gain admission into the Medical Department to fulfill my dream of becoming a...
    enriqueclasico enriqueclasico 26-30, M Mar 21

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    I am a 15 year old Jewish, Orthodox girl. I was born 3 months early in Manchester, England. From the time i was a baby i have had a very hard life. I lived in fear every day of my...
    phobia1998 phobia1998 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Kinder, Kirche, Kiche (Children, Church, Kitchen) Part Three - Chapter Two Unbeknownst to me, Robert had formulated a plan in his mind to make sure my words were not just that...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Mar 23

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    I wanted to take a moment to reflect on a common theme I see on this forum and I have lived it myself. #1 – We find the person we want to spend our life with #2 – Things go...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 6 Responses Mar 28

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    Back in 2006 Kurt Vonnegut responded to 5 students that wrote to him. November 5, 2006 Dear Xavier High School, and Ms. Lockwood, and Messrs Perin, McFeely, Batten, Maurer and...
    kwarner kwarner 31-35, M Mar 28

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    It's not that I can't accept criticism, oh no...it's just...whenever I come up with a clever idea for something there's always some negative ninny who calls it unoriginal for some...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 29

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    My abilities seem to be coming stronger and stronger of late. Not only do I gather information about the future more frequently, I have begun sensing spirits on other plains...
    Lunarflowerrr Lunarflowerrr 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    In grade 6, at a new school, I had no one for a long time. I would read at recess, and do projects alone. Then, two outsiders befriended me. They were so kind. I liked them, but...
    LittleListener LittleListener 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    A polite act toward another always pays off in the end. Treating people with the same respect and dignity as you would expect back from society is the best game plan in being civil...
    BobFrost BobFrost 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I usually only drink in the evening. I used to drink a half bottle of wine but that has jumped to one and now even two. Or a half bottle of vodka or gin. This used to be a couple...
    bauhaus7 bauhaus7 26-30, F 17 Responses Apr 3

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    Put a job in your hands. "One of the central tenets of the Western worldview is that one should always be engaged in some kind of outward task. Thus, the Westerner structures his...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I remember falling asleep a few years ago and having a strange nightmare about a group of garden gnomes chasing me on a soap opera set. I think it was based on the Coronation...
    KieranDiver12345 KieranDiver12345 13-15, M Apr 4

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