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I Am Becoming Cold Hearted

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    I get told I'm cold hearted all the time

    and I don't really feel love, I know I love my mom but, I can't feel the love anymore and I don't feel love towards my family and if I start to like someone I feel angry and annoyed at them when just the other day I liked them, I want to see my dad but I know it would break my...
    WildWolfGirl WildWolfGirl 13-15, F Jan 20

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    Cold Hearted

    am i starting to become real cold freezing... i dunno why they say so how come while down  in the core of me there is fire burning killing me slowly how can i be so calm cold and strong from the outside and from the inside i am being tearing apart i don't get it people say i am...
    gladio87 gladio87 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

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    You can meet me in the room

    where the kisses ain't free
    AllLoveXOXO AllLoveXOXO 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    I Didn't Promise Myself To Be This Way

    I'm a naturally shy person ever since birth, but I had a happy childhood due to my huge imagination and overflowing creativity. I have a love for motivational stories and wanted to be a psychologist someday. I used to be happy, really bright, loud and sunny, and friendly too. But...
    TheLarrien TheLarrien 13-15 Jan 21, 2013

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    Always Expect The Worst......

    That way, you're never disappointed when things go bad, and if they go well, you're pleasantly surprised..
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 14 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    I feel like I'm becoming cold hearted.

    With the way people treat me I don't see why I should be nice to anyone. Like yesterday this slutty girl from my school j walked across the street and got hit and I started laughing I didn't care at all about if she was alright. I am a little afraid for what I'm becoming.
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I've maintained an indifference to humanity.

    It makes sense to. After all, stupidity is infectious. I care not for their idiotic opinions, they don't count based on sheer annoyance. I laugh and mock the weaklings who literally cry for attention. I don't think being openly open of your emotions is the "correct" way to the...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M Dec 9, 2013

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    Damned.

    I look back on the past with such utter confusion. I used to be this completely happy, content, loving girl. My morals were in tact and i could honestly say i was an innocent. My world began to fall apart all at once and i started to realize a pattern in the way people treated me...
    sexandcandy25 sexandcandy25 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 25, 2010

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    I Am Just Try To Be Like You Will Understand When Read, So Keep Reading As Love To Do Suspense :P!!

    It is a thing that happened in my life, that stopped me from saying i love you and even when someone say i love you. I always reply that i love you back as a friend. I can't be a cold heart that way that be mean to any. I am just as been into much and suffered a lot so had to...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    No Romance, No Love

    So, I was just watching friends show (YES I still watch it even though I know the dialogs by heart now) and when a romantic scene came up, I automatically fast-forward it, then it hit me: Huh! Why am I not interested in romantic scenes?!!! Am I becoming heartless/cold or...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Oct 9, 2013

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    I just don't care about anyone anymore.

    People's feelings mean nothing to me. I've become so insensitive that it worries me. I've become so different. I miss the old me
    ftash ftash 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    I Don't Know What Happened

    So I use to be very dedicated in relationships and always gave my all.  Now that i've been hurt or let down so many times, i just stopped caring.  I always play games and use my relationships as a tool to solve my boredom.  I just never take guys seriously. ...
    djjaszi djjaszi 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2009

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    Good People Are An Endangered Species

    ...i'm in the process of totally not caring about anybody anymore.... family, friends and people....... i hate what i'm becoming... so cruel and cold...i'm starting to forget what love is......
    sfdrboy sfdrboy 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    Kold Hearted...

    What Makes U Kold Hearted?? Is Always Getting Disappointed, It Seems Lyke My Whole Life I've Been Getting Disappointed In Everything.I Kan't Look Forward To **** Cause When I Do? Guess What Happens? Disappointed!!! So From Freshmen Year Till Middle Senior Year All I Did Was Get...
    Hookitup Hookitup 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    What'S Left Of My Heart Is Fading Away.

    I'm slowly but surely becoming emotionless. Through the realization and epiphanies thus far that came with the aide of my med I am effectively become lifeless doll who only does work. Some days i won't say a word while others i would go throughout my days as an invisible being...
    AllLoveXOXO AllLoveXOXO 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Cold-hearted

    This is exactly what I should become, a cold-hearted biotch.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2011

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    I'm So Loney and Cold Hearted, B/c....

    I'm a guy going into college. All my life I have had many crushes on girls. And due to that, I have been rejected many times. I have never been one to hide my emotions that I liked someone from them. In the first grade I drew a love letter card for this girl and gave it to...
    Iame Iame 18-21, M 11 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    im not sure why, the memories of it have

    blocked themselves off a long time ago, but i cant feel a damn thing when it comes to about 99% of my family. I cant even feel their love or support, its been so long ive forgotten what familial relationships feel like. It hasnt just been with them though, every so often it...
    thetalkingmushroom thetalkingmushroom 18-21, M Dec 27, 2014

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    Its Not About What Happens Its About How You Deal With It.

    Not too long ago, I was normal (by normal i mean myself, weird, but myself.) Everything was going fine, until 8th grade. Quite honestly I don't feel like going through all of the tedious details, so I'll just be explaining mostly. I met this girl, fell head over heals for her...
    truemadarauchiha truemadarauchiha 13-15 Apr 3, 2011

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    Once someone does something that hurts me, then i pretty much become a cold heartless bastar*d, and i would not help them no matter what they want. No matter how they try and...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jan 1

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    I'm reaching that point where I'm gonna shut the door and lock it only a few will make it in but to the rest you get no love
    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    i carefully choose who i let in, and i would do anything for those who i am close to, but once in a while i cant help but fall in love or let somone in too soon (the wrong person)
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    Why is it so hard to be loved back? liking someone, then hearing their response... a feeling of rejection. I thought I was over this feeling after being rejected by every girl...
    lonelyheartbroken lonelyheartbroken 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I love snow and the cold weather but I'm kind of a big baby when it comes to actually going out in the cold. I prefer to stay inside and sip some hot tea while looking out at the...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    I am a good hearted person. I volunteer for my church. I am always trying to help others if I can.
    socialskillstraining socialskillstraining 31-35, M Jan 13

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    Met with a girl I've been crazy for for a long time; and she made it clear she and I are just friends. And I definitely feel broken hearted.
    qeust24 qeust24 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    Has Anyone A Clear Answer? I am 16 years old guy and i feel this power inside me.I feel it cold,clean like ice it fills like when u are outside and is -20 deg celsius but inside...
    CriticCryo CriticCryo 16-17, M Jan 7

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    It's cold, it's cold, it's really. Really cold!!!! Four blankets doesn't satisfy.
    Angela5398 Angela5398 16-17, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Being cold is the worst. It's like when ur cold u can never get comfortable. But also being cold means cuddling and I like that ****...
    Cutie314 Cutie314 16-17, F Jan 6

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    Soooo cold today...I talked on the phone and my hand felt like it was going to freeze and fall off!!!! I had to get off...I did not dress warm enough...I can't decide if I like the...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Every beginning of the year without fail, have to contract a bloody cold and dizziness spells :-/ , seriously? thank you very much Cold virus your a real comfort, not!!
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    Other people: it's 65 degrees out. It's so cold. Me: it's -37 here. Kiss my ***. Come to Indiana we'll show u what cold is. Lol.
    Cutie314 Cutie314 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    I hate cold weather. It's so cold right now. I am typing this on the settee with a duvet!
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F Jan 12

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    I really hate cold weather. There is nothing nice about it. It's like over 100kph, bitterly cold, heavy sleet and hail. and it ain't stopped for two days. I hate going out!
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F Jan 15

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    Seriously. As people get older, I guess your tolerance for being cold is less and less. At least mine is. Thankful for electric blankets that are the size that make me and my wife...
    pittdaddy pittdaddy 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I like walking on the dark deserted street of downtown on cold winter evening about an hour after all the stores closed. there are a couple bars still open and the lights of the...
    KristinaUSA KristinaUSA 13-15 3 days ago

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    Trying to warm my toes back up, my feet are freezing cold from the cold weather.
    JennyTom JennyTom 36-40, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I like feeling of cold... maybe because I am cold. this weather and all white snow makes me feel calm and somehow safe.
    vasinas vasinas 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

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    It's so freaking cold in utah that I was walking through work and saw my breath what the hell someone get me out of here and somewhere warm please
    fenrirandimpachi fenrirandimpachi 22-25, M Dec 30, 2014

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    I think Winter is depressing.It's cold here and all it does is rain.People are sick here.They have the flu or a bad respiratory infection.It is bad right now in the Southern US.
    Amethystgem98 Amethystgem98 36-40, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Tonight its both, low 40s is too cold for California. Heading out grocery shopping.
    ownfrnchseplaya ownfrnchseplaya 26-30, M Dec 30, 2014

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    It's so cold in my room. So windy outside I think it's seeping into my room somehow. Brrr. Time to bring back the electric blanket!
    ForeverStarrs ForeverStarrs 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Warmer...warmer.....waaaaaarmer, *gasps* oh hot! Hot, I'd rather be hot than cold. Feel the sun on my skin, seeping in deep, melting away the last of it, with the touch of a cool...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    Listen to coldplay-Charlie brown
    jon5400 jon5400 18-21, M Jan 5

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    I'm always cold, and idk why. Like seriously, I'm fricking freezing.
    PorcelainGrenade PorcelainGrenade 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 5

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    I don't like to say hate.....but I seriously hate this freezing cold weather. Anything below 70F is miserable.
    Peacepuppy Peacepuppy 22-25, F 44 Responses Jan 5

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    It gets to 14F here! 😱😱 hahah don't use Fahrenheit :/ had to google it :3 but we use Celsius xD hahah last night it was 59F and I don't find that cold 😂 is 70F on a hot...
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 3 Responses