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I Am Becoming Cold Hearted

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    I'm So Loney and Cold Hearted, B/c....

    I'm a guy going into college. All my life I have had many crushes on girls. And due to that, I have been rejected many times. I have never been one to hide my emotions that I liked someone from them. In the first grade I drew a love letter card for this girl and gave it to...
    Iame Iame 18-21, M 11 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    I need to control my feelings

    and I can't stop my heart from loving but I'll try I need to be cold like I used to and I need to become the player again and that's what I will be I need to stop being this stupid girl....
    CallMeFaye CallMeFaye 18-21, F Apr 11, 2015

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    Cold-hearted

    This is exactly what I should become, a cold-hearted biotch.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2011

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    I've maintained an indifference to humanity.

    It makes sense to. After all, stupidity is infectious. I care not for their idiotic opinions, they don't count based on sheer annoyance. I laugh and mock the weaklings who literally cry for attention. I don't think being openly open of your emotions is the "correct" way to the...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 18-21, M Dec 9, 2013

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    Its Not About What Happens Its About How You Deal With It.

    Not too long ago, I was normal (by normal i mean myself, weird, but myself.) Everything was going fine, until 8th grade. Quite honestly I don't feel like going through all of the tedious details, so I'll just be explaining mostly. I met this girl, fell head over heals for her...
    truemadarauchiha truemadarauchiha 13-15 Apr 3, 2011

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    im not sure why, the memories of it have

    blocked themselves off a long time ago, but i cant feel a damn thing when it comes to about 99% of my family. I cant even feel their love or support, its been so long ive forgotten what familial relationships feel like. It hasnt just been with them though, every so often it...
    thetalkingmushroom thetalkingmushroom 18-21, M Dec 27, 2014

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    Good People Are An Endangered Species

    ...i'm in the process of totally not caring about anybody anymore.... family, friends and people....... i hate what i'm becoming... so cruel and cold...i'm starting to forget what love is......
    sfdrboy sfdrboy 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    Kold Hearted...

    What Makes U Kold Hearted?? Is Always Getting Disappointed, It Seems Lyke My Whole Life I've Been Getting Disappointed In Everything.I Kan't Look Forward To **** Cause When I Do? Guess What Happens? Disappointed!!! So From Freshmen Year Till Middle Senior Year All I Did Was Get...
    Hookitup Hookitup 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    You can meet me in the room

    where the kisses ain't free
    AllLoveXOXO AllLoveXOXO 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    As I read the stories on this page,

    I'm saddened that they're written by people who are so very young. What is this world coming to? I have been in the process of becoming coldhearted for quite some time. Every time I let my guard down, reality smacks me in the face again. You'd think I'd have learned a long time...
    IamBeautifulandPeopleLikeMe IamBeautifulandPeopleLikeMe 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2015

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    I get told I'm cold hearted all the time

    and I don't really feel love, I know I love my mom but, I can't feel the love anymore and I don't feel love towards my family and if I start to like someone I feel angry and annoyed at them when just the other day I liked them, I want to see my dad but I know it would break my...
    WildWolfGirl WildWolfGirl 13-15, F Jan 20, 2015

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    I just don't care about anyone anymore.

    People's feelings mean nothing to me. I've become so insensitive that it worries me. I've become so different. I miss the old me
    ftash ftash 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    Everybody calls me a cold hearted person.

    Some people even say I'm made of steel. I don't like it. I really don't know why do people feel that way although I try my best to be caring and listen to everybody and I'm there for anybody who needs me. So when people call me 'cold' person I really feel disappointed. And now...
    FallingApart33 FallingApart33 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I have been through a lot

    and I no longer have the energy to deal with these emotions. I have been in love with a guy who has been mean and cruel to me and which he claimed was deliberate, so that he could push me away, for my own good. But that's what HE thought, and he could be wrong. That was for me...
    thecoldheartedqueen thecoldheartedqueen 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I plan on looking after me,

    myself and I from now on, emotions or other people's feelings aren't a concern. It's a pity, but this is necessarily. I've been compassionate for so long, yet others have seen fit to trample on me and my feelings, I might as well return the favour!
    theotherusernamesweretaken theotherusernamesweretaken 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 29, 2015

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    I feel like I'm becoming cold hearted.

    With the way people treat me I don't see why I should be nice to anyone. Like yesterday this slutty girl from my school j walked across the street and got hit and I started laughing I didn't care at all about if she was alright. I am a little afraid for what I'm becoming.
    superabe11 superabe11 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    No Romance, No Love

    So, I was just watching friends show (YES I still watch it even though I know the dialogs by heart now) and when a romantic scene came up, I automatically fast-forward it, then it hit me: Huh! Why am I not interested in romantic scenes?!!! Am I becoming heartless/cold or...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Oct 9, 2013

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    Damned.

    I look back on the past with such utter confusion. I used to be this completely happy, content, loving girl. My morals were in tact and i could honestly say i was an innocent. My world began to fall apart all at once and i started to realize a pattern in the way people treated me...
    sexandcandy25 sexandcandy25 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 25, 2010

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    Cold Hearted

    am i starting to become real cold freezing... i dunno why they say so how come while down  in the core of me there is fire burning killing me slowly how can i be so calm cold and strong from the outside and from the inside i am being tearing apart i don't get it people say i am...
    gladio87 gladio87 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

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    I Didn't Promise Myself To Be This Way

    I'm a naturally shy person ever since birth, but I had a happy childhood due to my huge imagination and overflowing creativity. I have a love for motivational stories and wanted to be a psychologist someday. I used to be happy, really bright, loud and sunny, and friendly too. But...
    TheLarrien TheLarrien 13-15 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    What'S Left Of My Heart Is Fading Away.

    I'm slowly but surely becoming emotionless. Through the realization and epiphanies thus far that came with the aide of my med I am effectively become lifeless doll who only does work. Some days i won't say a word while others i would go throughout my days as an invisible being...
    AllLoveXOXO AllLoveXOXO 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    I use to be an incredibly caring person.

    . And I still am to a certain degree.. But ever since my breakup, I find it difficult to get close with new people.. It's like my emotions have been shut down or something and I don't care.. Is this my mind protecting me from getting hurt or am I just turning into a cold hearted...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2015

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    Always Expect The Worst......

    That way, you're never disappointed when things go bad, and if they go well, you're pleasantly surprised..
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 56-60, F 14 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    I Don't Know What Happened

    So I use to be very dedicated in relationships and always gave my all.  Now that i've been hurt or let down so many times, i just stopped caring.  I always play games and use my relationships as a tool to solve my boredom.  I just never take guys seriously. ...
    djjaszi djjaszi 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2009

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    Been clear lately with the weather forecast calling for more of the same. Oh well.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 15 mins ago

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    Damn cold!! This one is still hanging on
    IrelynnXo IrelynnXo 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    I make soup on the weekends and eat it all week. Some are better than others but all the best lunch a body can have... Especially when the weather is cold....mmm But the weather is...
    Alvin54 Alvin54 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    And trounced for it By critics who hate facts Like any who get proven wrong When me presents facts
    OddButResilient OddButResilient 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Coldplay is now starting to become one of my favorite bands, their music is just really good, and it's very catchy but sounds good that's all I can say they're just a pretty good...
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    It was ages since my last cold, it's been years. I was starting to convince myself I would never catch a cold again in my whole life. People around me would get sore throats...
    time2qwerty time2qwerty 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The absolute worst is being cold in a place that's suppose to be so comfortable.
    springguo springguo 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I always have a smile on my face even with my excruciating back pain and my bulky neck brace!
    emma785 emma785 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I usually try to be nice and polite to everyone.dont know why..some people can be so ***** annoying
    Terrycode Terrycode 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    The best thing about being good hearted is you get to hear so many stories about how absolutely grateful your friends are for having you in their lives.
    MissNaughtyNoo MissNaughtyNoo 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Yes I am and I'm hurt s lot..cud my big old heart gets in the way of my better judgement. .I set myself up to be hurt over and over quite often especially when it comes to those I...
    lovelee83 lovelee83 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Constantly have horrible back pain, however I'm fighting with all that I've got. Whenever I'm out in public for example to mall (not to shop haha) but to walk around. I get so many...
    emma785 emma785 18-21, F a week ago

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    I am always cold!!! I always need a jacket or sweater and am always under the covers
    Youngandsarcastic Youngandsarcastic 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Omg I went outside to get on the bus and JEESH I omost died it was cold but I guess I survived got on the bus and it was cold because we had a sub and he didn't turn on the heat...
    richie161 richie161 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    A long time ago, back when I was a bright eyed, bushy tailed, youngster, my earliest memories were of the snow. I would play on my own outside all winter long... Now, it wasn't so...
    xXverlorenXx xXverlorenXx 22-25, M Feb 4

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    I would like to give a bit of background information. I have always considered myself to be a girl/female. Pre-Puberty it does not matter so much. The problems arise once you begin...
    cassopia cassopia 26-30, T Feb 4

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    I can't handle it. It's physically painful. I do prefer S. Nevada's 120 degree summers to even 60 degrees. I know there are plenty who don't find that to be cold, but I do and I...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 31-35 1 Response Feb 3

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    I met her online , 2 year back .She lives at michigan and i live in India .We had one thing in common and that was How i Met your mother :) .i used to hit Barney's pick up line on...
    itshardtofindtruelove itshardtofindtruelove 18-21, M Feb 3

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    I love turning the pillow over and finding the cold side especially when it is a hot night and you need a bit of relief or finding to cold side of the bed :-)
    bodyboarder27 bodyboarder27 26-30, M Feb 2