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I Am Becoming Cold Hearted

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 224 People

    No Romance, No Love

    So, I was just watching friends show (YES I still watch it even though I know the dialogs by heart now) and when a romantic scene came up, I automatically fast-forward it, then it hit me: Huh! Why am I not interested in romantic scenes?!!! Am I becoming heartless/cold or...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Oct 9, 2013

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    I Didn't Promise Myself To Be This Way

    I'm a naturally shy person ever since birth, but I had a happy childhood due to my huge imagination and overflowing creativity. I have a love for motivational stories and wanted to be a psychologist someday. I used to be happy, really bright, loud and sunny, and friendly too. But...
    TheLarrien TheLarrien 13-15 Jan 21, 2013

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    Its Not About What Happens Its About How You Deal With It.

    Not too long ago, I was normal (by normal i mean myself, weird, but myself.) Everything was going fine, until 8th grade. Quite honestly I don't feel like going through all of the tedious details, so I'll just be explaining mostly. I met this girl, fell head over heals for her...
    truemadarauchiha truemadarauchiha 13-15 Apr 3, 2011

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    Cold-hearted

    This is exactly what I should become, a cold-hearted biotch.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2011

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    I Don't Know What Happened

    So I use to be very dedicated in relationships and always gave my all.  Now that i've been hurt or let down so many times, i just stopped caring.  I always play games and use my relationships as a tool to solve my boredom.  I just never take guys seriously. ...
    djjaszi djjaszi 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2009

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    I just don't care about anyone anymore.

    People's feelings mean nothing to me. I've become so insensitive that it worries me. I've become so different. I miss the old me
    ftash ftash 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    What'S Left Of My Heart Is Fading Away.

    I'm slowly but surely becoming emotionless. Through the realization and epiphanies thus far that came with the aide of my med I am effectively become lifeless doll who only does work. Some days i won't say a word while others i would go throughout my days as an invisible being...
    AllLoveXOXO AllLoveXOXO 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    I'm So Loney and Cold Hearted, B/c....

    I'm a guy going into college. All my life I have had many crushes on girls. And due to that, I have been rejected many times. I have never been one to hide my emotions that I liked someone from them. In the first grade I drew a love letter card for this girl and gave it to...
    Iame Iame 18-21, M 11 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    I Am Just Try To Be Like You Will Understand When Read, So Keep Reading As Love To Do Suspense :P!!

    It is a thing that happened in my life, that stopped me from saying i love you and even when someone say i love you. I always reply that i love you back as a friend. I can't be a cold heart that way that be mean to any. I am just as been into much and suffered a lot so had to...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    Kold Hearted...

    What Makes U Kold Hearted?? Is Always Getting Disappointed, It Seems Lyke My Whole Life I've Been Getting Disappointed In Everything.I Kan't Look Forward To **** Cause When I Do? Guess What Happens? Disappointed!!! So From Freshmen Year Till Middle Senior Year All I Did Was Get...
    Hookitup Hookitup 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    I feel like I'm becoming cold hearted.

    With the way people treat me I don't see why I should be nice to anyone. Like yesterday this slutty girl from my school j walked across the street and got hit and I started laughing I didn't care at all about if she was alright. I am a little afraid for what I'm becoming.
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    im not sure why, the memories of it have

    blocked themselves off a long time ago, but i cant feel a damn thing when it comes to about 99% of my family. I cant even feel their love or support, its been so long ive forgotten what familial relationships feel like. It hasnt just been with them though, every so often it...
    thetalkingmushroom thetalkingmushroom 18-21, M Dec 27, 2014

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    I need to control my feelings

    and I can't stop my heart from loving but I'll try I need to be cold like I used to and I need to become the player again and that's what I will be I need to stop being this stupid girl....
    CallMeFaye CallMeFaye 18-21, F Apr 11

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    Always Expect The Worst......

    That way, you're never disappointed when things go bad, and if they go well, you're pleasantly surprised..
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 14 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    You can meet me in the room

    where the kisses ain't free
    AllLoveXOXO AllLoveXOXO 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    As I read the stories on this page,

    I'm saddened that they're written by people who are so very young. What is this world coming to? I have been in the process of becoming coldhearted for quite some time. Every time I let my guard down, reality smacks me in the face again. You'd think I'd have learned a long time...
    IamBeautifulandPeopleLikeMe IamBeautifulandPeopleLikeMe 36-40, F Apr 11

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    Damned.

    I look back on the past with such utter confusion. I used to be this completely happy, content, loving girl. My morals were in tact and i could honestly say i was an innocent. My world began to fall apart all at once and i started to realize a pattern in the way people treated me...
    sexandcandy25 sexandcandy25 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 25, 2010

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    Cold Hearted

    am i starting to become real cold freezing... i dunno why they say so how come while down  in the core of me there is fire burning killing me slowly how can i be so calm cold and strong from the outside and from the inside i am being tearing apart i don't get it people say i am...
    gladio87 gladio87 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

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    Good People Are An Endangered Species

    ...i'm in the process of totally not caring about anybody anymore.... family, friends and people....... i hate what i'm becoming... so cruel and cold...i'm starting to forget what love is......
    sfdrboy sfdrboy 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    I get told I'm cold hearted all the time

    and I don't really feel love, I know I love my mom but, I can't feel the love anymore and I don't feel love towards my family and if I start to like someone I feel angry and annoyed at them when just the other day I liked them, I want to see my dad but I know it would break my...
    WildWolfGirl WildWolfGirl 13-15, F Jan 20

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    I've maintained an indifference to humanity.

    It makes sense to. After all, stupidity is infectious. I care not for their idiotic opinions, they don't count based on sheer annoyance. I laugh and mock the weaklings who literally cry for attention. I don't think being openly open of your emotions is the "correct" way to the...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M Dec 9, 2013

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    life pushed me to be this way. I don't care about others anymore, now is all about me. my happiness, my thoughts, my freedom me me me.... and you can go **** yourself!!!
    crazy4love crazy4love 22-25, F 1 Response May 11

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    I wish I had a reliable scale. I'm staying at my neighbors house for the time being and I snuck upstairs and borrowed their scale yesterday. According to it, I lost 4 pounds. This...
    Brimmless Brimmless 18-21, F Apr 27

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    My so called ex used me, betrayed me, abused me again, and again after 3 years together on and off. I realised that he wasn't making real effort to stop, so I just broke our...
    Sorasai Sorasai 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    Im sort of known for having really cold hands. I touch people and they flinch which is kind of sad lol. They ask me all the time why are my hands so cold but idk probably poor...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I absolutely love when I can hear the air moving in the room. I love when it so cold that my hands and feet feel numb. I always leave my window open even at nights, so I feel warm...
    girlfromest girlfromest 18-21, F 3 Responses May 3

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    I love the cold a lot :-) I was outside in the cold weather just a couple hours ago. My friends always complain about me being out and how I'll catch a cold but it's okay for me...
    evreno evreno 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    idk If I am becoming anorexic but I really just need to lose weight. Need someone to keep me on track!
    Need2bSkinny Need2bSkinny 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    and its becoming even more boring lately the display is lousy , used to be a lot better no one responds to messages .....
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Apr 27

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    I think I'm becoming anorexic. I don't know. This past few days I've been ashamed of the food I eat afterwards... And I found myself eating less and less. I guess also because I'm...
    SefysMommy SefysMommy 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I NEED RIGHT NOW A FCKING SERIOUS ANA BUDDY PLEASE IM BECOMING NOTHING
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 8

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    I hate cold weather in the spring. Whenever I hang out it's gets hot to the point where you can wear short sleeve shirts. Then during the evening it gets cold to the point where...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F May 2

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    I am sitting her with fuzzy socks on. Columbia jacket on and a blanket and I am still cold. UGGH!
    savannaD14 savannaD14 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    no more fckin feelings. no more dumb thoughts about stupid a-hole people. how to be cold like ice to dumb strangers, but nice to your real friends?
    Felicitas23 Felicitas23 22-25, F Apr 23

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    Mmm love a cold beer at work.
    kmac72 kmac72 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I hate when I have cold .I trying to get rid of it as soon as i can.Really do not like have running nose . I am okay with temperature ,but running nose I hate it .Hopefully i will...
    luna5555454 luna5555454 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    I prefer cold over heat <3 Too bad the weather in Honduras is bipolar :/
    adriana0102 adriana0102 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    cold weather is not my thing i only like hot weather only
    carlosgalindo1010 carlosgalindo1010 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 29

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    it's always cold on Florida
    carlosgalindo1010 carlosgalindo1010 18-21, M 3 Responses May 1

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    Two songs I love from Coldplay is "every teardrop is a waterfall" and "viva la vida"
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response May 2

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    I have Cold Urticaria and have since I was nine. I found out while boat fishing with my parents. On the way back to the docks I had my hand in the water and when I removed it, it...
    underlyinghonesty underlyinghonesty 22-25, F May 6

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    It's May and it's so cold!
    LaurenHafJones LaurenHafJones 13-15, F 3 Responses May 7

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    I love the cold pillow. We didn't have ac growing up. I was always flipping the pillow until I finally fell asleep.
    Warmways Warmways 46-50, F 1 Response May 7

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    The best kinda sleep is when your kinda drowsy , clean pajamas , sheets all washed & there's a nice cold breeze coming in from the window & your all covered and snuggled up with...
    PassionLily PassionLily 18-21, F 2 Responses