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I Am Becoming Such A Loser

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    I'M The Biggest Loser

    In high school i was a shy nerd. I wore thick glasses. I'm also short for a guy, 5'3". I had a 4.27 gpa in high school and went to a prestigious college. There i hung out with the wrong people and got hooked on weed and ecstasy. I barely graduated college with a 2.0 gpa in a...
    deadloser deadloser 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    Was I Born A Loser?

    Everyday and everynight, same questions keep arising in my mind.. Was I born a loser? Why am I still alive when I don't have any qualities?? Since childhood, I had a very hard time.. I was bullied all the time, had no friends and alone most of the time.. I was and am still a shy...
    superloser95 superloser95 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2013

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    Life Is Staring Me In the Face

    I'm overweight, I'm shy, and nervous about everything. I hate being outside of my comfort shell. I've never had a girlfriend, and by now, I am starting to doubt if I ever will. My life is waiting for me to take control of it, yet I have no desire to.  I'm stuck in a rut...
    guitargod guitargod 18-21 3 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Energy Drowning

    i am 27 soon to be 28 but i really don't seem to see that any of my dreams from my younger days happening. im stuck in a job that i feel is making me feel as if i have no life. i slowly feel my lifes energy drowning each time i wake up now days.........
    countrycat countrycat 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 26, 2007

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    Failure

    i fail all my tests even my assignments i fail i think i fail my coarse for this year but the final exam hvent come but it is useless i have fail 60%of coarse work
    anth130294 anth130294 22-25 3 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    The Remedy For Weakness Is Not Brooding Over Weakness, But Thinking Of Strength.

    Thinking all the time that we are diseased, will not cure us; medicine is necessary. Being reminded of weakness does not help much. Give strength; and strength does not come by thinking of weakness all the time. The remedy for weakness is not brooding over weakness, but thinking...
    Abhih123 Abhih123 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    I need to finish some writing.

    I know I am not good at it, so I keep procrastinating and find excuses. The more I postpone the harder it is to start it the next day. I am so messed up!
    dsk2 dsk2 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    I'm Lost

    Ok here is my story...I'm 30 years old and still leaves with my parents. I graduated 2 years ago from college, worked right after in a very big firm then lost my job some months ago. I'm the oldest of 5 and my parents are old and tired and have jobs that dont pay much. Now I feel...
    djatoui djatoui 26-30 1 Response Mar 12, 2011

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    Loser, It Stacks Up Over Time

    The evidence stacks up over time, until I have no other conclusion. I always worked, but was not able to achieve the things I wanted to. The salary was ok, but not enough to buy a house, always slightly out of my reach. The lady (wife(s)) were attractive and intellegent, but I...
    Wloser Wloser 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    NOT Anymore

    I SINISTER MEMPHISTO HAVE DECIDED TO RISE FROM THE ASHES LIKE A PHEONIX  AND FIX MY LIFE.I WILL NO LONGER BE A LOSER
    SINISTERMEMPHISTO SINISTERMEMPHISTO 26-30, M 5 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    This Is How I Became A Loser/failure.

    Before I go into my story, let us get one thing out of the way... I'm on the wrong side of forty.   Yes, at this age I thought I'd have it all figured out or at least be content with the life I made for myself.  Truly, I always thought some type of entity would wave a...
    RubyDeltoro RubyDeltoro 41-45, F 6 Responses May 25, 2010

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    By Declaring We Are Weak, We Become Weak, We Do Not Become Better.

    Whatever you dream and think of, you create. If it is hell, you die and see hell. If it is evil and Satan, you get a Satan. If ghosts, you get ghosts. Whatever you think, that you become. If you have to think, think good thoughts, great thoughts. This taking for granted that you...
    Abhih123 Abhih123 22-25, M Jul 30, 2013

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    Any Bigger

    show me a bigger loser than a guy who stares at legs and feet all day and i'll show you "me" doing something even worse
    SINISTERMEMPHISTO SINISTERMEMPHISTO 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 18, 2007

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    I Lounge Around Like An Oaf. ...

    I lounge around like an oaf. I've accomplished little compared to my classmates. Help!
    Sango Sango 22, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2007

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    Lets Play A Game

    25.10.10 I like to play a game its called 'I'm better off alone'. I like to kid myself that I'm happy by myself. I look down on lovers like they're infected with an incurable disease. When the game's gotten old and the mirage has faded away, I wish I never played, I wish I had...
    Nellieccr Nellieccr 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2011

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    In Every Way Imaginable...

    I started off with so much hope and promise. I graduated high school a virgin with a 3.8 GPA. Now, I'm a TOTAL deadbeat. I've failed in every single area of life. I failed: Money (in debt), School (college flunked out), in Love (fuckked but never picked or loved), in Family (we...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 5 Responses Apr 24, 2011

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    Poppa Pepe,Gets Beat Up Again

    Now at the local mall its no secrets many people shop the stores there, but where Poppa Pepe is concerned is that their is a lot of ppretty girls. So every weekend Poppa Pepe is out at the mall hoping to bait a pretty girl to pay attention to him. Most of the time they wouldn't...
    poppapepe poppapepe 41-45, M Nov 22, 2013

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    Everything In My Life Sucks

    I have always had a rough life and I don't want to go on about how my life sucks but it does. I just don't feel like I can do anything right and everytime I think things are going to get better it gets worse, what is wrong with me? Why can't I get my life together? Am I going to...
    tostressed34 tostressed34 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2007

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    I Just Want To Be A Happy Loser

    I just hope I have a career and no longer live at parents' in the next few years. I hate myself for still being here now. In this culture I am a loser. I don't have many friends. I don't go out much. I'm not cool. I don't do cool stuff or say cool stuff. I don't know how to...
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2013

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    I Am Becoming A Loser

    I was actually having a pretty good ride in life up until last august. I graduated school with a bs in august of 2008, and unlike most people i found a great paying job in september. I took it, cause hey they were the first place to say yes to me, and a fresh graduate would say...
    johndoe123321 johndoe123321 22-25 1 Response Mar 31, 2010

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    LOL  Oh Yeah I Am...bu...

    LOL  OH yeah I am...But I'm going to be the Best Dang Loser Ever !! just you wait & see... ;-)
    caroli9 caroli9 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2007

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    Here I Go Again....

    Just some thoughts trying to find words...   Round and Round the merry go round.. The ups and downs the inbetweens Is there any room left for me..? Lost inside a shell of despair. Searching for the lost that is no longer there...  what to do...?  ...
    AuThEnTiC AuThEnTiC 19-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Why Why Why?

     i dont know why im such a loser. everything i do, everychoice i make is the wrong one.  It seems no like one truly likes me, even my lone friend hates me, i think my mom partly hates me even.  sometimes i question why i was born. Women hate me and never talk to me...
    nasfatloser nasfatloser 31-35 3 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    Confused.......

    Don't where to start...Ahh....O.K. Was a problematic child, not treated well by the parents though I completely sure that they loved me so much but did not know how to handle me.....same teenage...always revolting ...going against what my parents suggested....not fitting well in...
    obviousmysterious obviousmysterious 41-45 3 Responses Sep 17, 2011

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    Yes I Punch Myself...

    yes i punch myself
    sararuthizi sararuthizi 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2007

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    Whats My Problem?

    I'm 27 years old, and everyday I want to kill myself. I'm sitting here trying to think of how to explain this is some sort of way that doesnt sound stupid but I cant. So I'll jsut say it like that. I'm that guy that you work with, you dont even know I exsists. The people who do...
    BigLoner BigLoner 26-30 4 Responses May 27, 2008

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    Too Late.....

    I'm already there! I got a one way ticket to Losersville - theres no going back
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 22 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    LIFE'S Making Sure I Stay a Loser

    i just dont get it.as hard as i try with everything it just works out horrible.jobs,friendships,relationships.i tried all that crap about thinking positive and working  hard..it's like some force in the universe is making sure i stay a loser..i feel i don't deserve anyone in...
    marc1 marc1 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 20, 2008

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    Why Am I Such A Loser

    I'm 24 am i've never had any girlfriend in my entire life..i struggle in my education..all my friends have graduated and have decent job while i'm still living on my parent's money..my parents sacrifice everything for my education but yet i'm still stuck in college..and I come...
    sayamahuchange sayamahuchange 22-25 2 Responses Apr 13, 2012

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    Im A Friggin Loser

    i am such a loser my life feels so empty and meaningless
    maverick9513 maverick9513 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    No Way, I Am Just Climbing Out...

    No way, I am just climbing out of that hole, I would rather be on my own and be a fighter, then be on my own as a loser.
    rosygal rosygal 46-50, F Dec 6, 2007

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    It Is Sad How Long It Took....

    For the longest time I had seen the portrayal of the typical adolescent loser, in movies and in real life, and never considered myself that or ever wanted to be that. Now that I look at my life, I am that. I am nineteen and live with my parents who still have to support me...
    Nankurunaisa Nankurunaisa 18-21, F 2 Responses May 30, 2011

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    I Quit Another Job Yesterday

    I'm 18 and graduated from high school last June. I've quit two college programs and two jobs since then. My friends are growing up, maturing, going places with their lives.  I'm slowly losing contact with everyone, I think they find me boring. I've never had a girlfriend...
    hhk hhk 16-18, M 5 Responses Mar 29, 2007

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    You Always Do This To Me

    i am in long distance relationship with my boyfriend, we stop talking for a week then you randomly text me like nothing ever happened. you get my hopes up and lead me on.because you know that no matter how long you ignore me,i will always be here waiting for you. and u did this...
    bluple bluple 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2013

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    Except I Aways Was a Loser But...

    Except i aways was a loser but now i have no social life now that i work on a saturday!!!! and i lost all my friends because i had a brakdown!!!
    loobiesa loobiesa 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2007

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    I Am Such A Loser Because I Have Feelings For Someone Who Will Never Have Feelings About Me

    I've been having feelings about this certain person for a while (12 years) and i've told her about it earlier but she does'nt care about me and i just hold on to a hope that one day she will change her mind, and as much as i've tried to tell myself that she won't and that i...
    lonelyboy2012 lonelyboy2012 26-30 2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    I Don't Give A Damn About My Bad Motivation

    I am motivated to graduate and to get the hell out of this hellhole of a city I live in. Why? Because I'd shoot myself if I didn't't. In  order to reach my goals however, I need to be motivated to do other things like getting out of bed, doing my homework, and NOT locking myself...
    applejackson applejackson 16-17, F 2 Responses May 8, 2012

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    I Only Think I Am, Although Pe...

    I only think I am, although people assure me over and over that I am an incredibly cool person.
    baronsdaughter baronsdaughter 19-21, F Dec 6, 2007

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    I Am Becoming Such Aloser, Tha...

    I am becoming such aloser, that there are alot of people who don't want to hang out with me. I don't even want to hang out with myself.
    swatches swatches 41-45, F Aug 10, 2007

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    I'm Perfect In My Dreams

    I'm 22 now, I wish I would have studied better in my school and collage. I all those years I keep on scoring low in my class. Even in my collage my score is far below my satisfaction(BTech with 58% in mechanical) Now I'm getting more and more frustrated ,thinking to end my life...
    lordedwardron lordedwardron 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I am literally struggling to pay bills. I still live at home at the age of 29. I am a nanny that makes pennies. I am single. And I am battling with my weight. So I am just soooo...
    Infamousjess Infamousjess 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Everytime I meet a nice girl I end up ruining it cos I'm such a creep and a weirdo everytime I'm such a big pathetic waste of space I'm such a creep and a loser I hate myself...
    greatbritain1 greatbritain1 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    When I was a teen I did not enjoy school, and it really was my own fault i didn't enjoy it because I constantly jumped to negative conclusions about what others thought of me. This...
    Hincty Hincty 22-25, F Mar 23

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    I ****** up my sophomore year, where I basically traded my friends from freshman for popular people, who turned out to be dicks.. I feel like a loser now, because there nobody at...
    lonelyshyguy1995 lonelyshyguy1995 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I'm such a loser i can't do anything i'm good at nothing i don't know what is my life for :(
    rawan99 rawan99 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Not loser as in lame or nerd... Although I am a bit nerdy but in the sense that I've lost myself. I'm in a constant battle with my feelings and I lose every time. I feel like I've...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I am just a common person, who used to have large dreams. I would be glad if you have the patience to hear my story. To cut a long story short, I studied at a college, completed...
    commonguy42 commonguy42 22-25, M Mar 23

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    FavorUponYou FavorUponYou 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I feel like a total loser sometimes. I had a great Thursday watching the NCAA basketball tournament. My friend and I took both Thursday and Friday off and set up plans to go out...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Mar 24

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    I was reading this self-help book and it was telling me to challenge my negative thought. When I think "I am a loser" I honestly cannot think of anything that proves I am not a...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have found myself becoming more and more "Anti-Semitic" the more I am exposed to Jewish people. If you had met me a few years ago, as a bleeding heart multicultural type, you...
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    I'm such a big failure in life. At 46, I still live with my deceased sister's family. I don't have a job because I don't have skills anymore. Even my writing and speaking skills...
    churchworker churchworker 46-50, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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