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I Am Bigendered

People who identify as male and female. 278 People

    Very New - I recently discovered that even though i was born male that i am also female.its confusing for me but also comfortable.
    GailGoth GailGoth 31-35 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Who am I? Thats a question that haunted me many, many years. First of all I told my mother, that I kinda like girls. She just laughed at me and told me, I just need the right man...
    kittyjeany kittyjeany 18-21 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Fluid Swing: I Am Bigender Fluid - I was born a DFAB. I spent years being forced into gender expressions in clothing, toys, and other things I didn't like that were pretty...
    BowlofQueerios23 BowlofQueerios23 22-25 3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I Am Really Intergendered - I felt bigendered but come to realize i am not fully male and not fully female. I feel like a stright female and a gay male smashed together...
    Lionheart11 Lionheart11 18-21 5 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    My Strangness - Ever since I can remember I always wanted to pee standing up. So that is only one thing, but it leads on from there. As the years went on I started to realise...
    XanthiaJo XanthiaJo 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    How I Got A Supportive Girlfriend, And You Can Too! - Or boyfriend if you're so inclined. ;) What's nice about this advice is that a lot of it pertains to getting a relationship...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe 26-30, T May 13, 2013

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    A Little Help - Hello all, I'm rather new here. I'm been trying to figure out where I stand as far as sexual orientation as well as identity. I found out about someone who said...
    suizza suizza 18-21 3 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Ever Find Someone? - Hey. :D So Yeah, I Feel Like I'll Never Find Love Because Im Bigender. : Im Basically A "Guy" But Im Seeking Other Guys. Not So Much Girls. Whenever I Talk To...
    AshLovesLink AshLovesLink 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    A Minority Within A Minority - I was born male but never really "got" masculine things. As a child I was as happy playing in the sandpit as pretending to bake cakes. Other kids...
    Foxymichelle Foxymichelle 51-55 2 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    I've been "suffering" with this now for months. I thought I was the only one who felt like this. Like I was two people in one body. I enjoy being masculine in public, when I'm out...
    p3rc3pti0n p3rc3pti0n 22-25 1 Response Feb 3

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    Looking Forward To... - -The day you can go to work dressed as a woman and people will casually greet you with your girl name and the next day you can come in as a man and people...
    Destrezameka Destrezameka 26-30 4 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    I'm So Confused. - Sometimes I'm just fine with being a female, others I feel like I'm suppose to be a male. They aren't very different people, the female likes one type of heavy...
    KATastrophic7 KATastrophic7 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    Answer's Alot Of Questions - It's Funny,Never Heard Of Bi-Genderism Til' I Was Internet Surfing About Human Sexuality.Always Questioned These Feelings I Have About How I...
    BriyannaTyasia BriyannaTyasia 41-45, M Mar 22, 2013

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    Dissociative Identity Disorder Or Bigender??? HELP! - Hi everyone, thanks for sharing your stories. i'm so happy i found this site and seem to be getting closer to discovering...
    doingmything247 doingmything247 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    Hi, my name is Francesca. I'm biologically a girl, I have girl parts and I feel inside that I am a girl. But at the same time, I have an urge to be a male. I feel like a male at...
    caputuk caputuk 16-17 3 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Born Female, But 60% Male. Life As An Entity Divided In Two. - As long as I can remember, about to age 3, I kept being told I was a girl, but it never really sunk in. I didn't feel...
    Benevoson Benevoson 16-17, T 1 Response Mar 17, 2013

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    So, I Just Confessed To My Friends. - 3 of my best friends (2 guys, 1 girl) in fact. I let them know that I am bigendered tonight, and that I identify as a girl much of the time...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe 26-30, T 3 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    Coming Out? - I guess in a way I'm coming out even though I recently discovered the term for how I've felt all these years. I'm a woman identfying as a man identifying as a woman...
    Yoru Yoru 18-21 2 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    A Recent Discovery - Growing up, I always wondered why it was that I liked playing sports with boys but also played with Barbie dolls. Some days, i'd love to wear girly bows. Other...
    hooponopono hooponopono 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    Wow It Has A Name - I thought everyone was. I am married to a tom boy. Our kids point out that the gender roles in our home are often crossed. Id like to crossdress, but would...
    MarkFree MarkFree 51-55, M 5 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    My name is Anthony . I have struggled with my own gender and sexual identities respectively for the past 9 to 10 years since at least grade school to be exact. I have had a...
    africprince2014 africprince2014 18-21, M Dec 18, 2013

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    Free At Last - So I moved out of my mother's place a few days ago, and I couldn't be any happier now. The thought of moving out was so crazy at first, but I've quickly grown to...
    Flowersblossom Flowersblossom 22-25 May 7, 2013

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    Scared And Confused - I've struggled with gender identity my entire life(at least as long as I can remember), going through what seemed like phases. From about 9-13 I only wore boy...
    ZetraGild ZetraGild 22-25 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    I Am Who I Am, There'S No Ignoring That - The big question : Who am I? This is a question I've struggled to answer for years. I was born a girl, and I'm comfortable with that...
    TheSecrets TheSecrets 13-15 Apr 26, 2013

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    It Finally Has A Name..... - So i got onto a kick last night of again looking up gender identity disorder. i am in my 30s but since i was a young teenager i have always felt...
    trancquility trancquility 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    Tolerance Vs Acceptance - If your parents say they are ok with your gender identity, but never talk about it, call you your preferred pronoun or name or don't want you dressing up...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe 26-30, T 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    I'm bigendered or gender fluid. Work and friends know, family are a different matter. I spend most of my time as a male. Even when I feel feminine. I have been down about this...
    Abilohman Abilohman 26-30 5 Responses Jan 11

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    I Love My Family. - Told my parents two weeks ago and told my sister today about my gender fluidity. Needless to say, much confusion on their end, and many questions and me fixing...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe 26-30, T 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    Dazed and Confused- Ok, I need advice. Here's the situation. I'm pretty sure in bi gendered but not 100% certain. I've lived my entire life as a boy playing video games. I've known...
    VerdlaTal VerdlaTal 13-15, T Dec 18, 2013

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    I Can't Live This Way - Half of me, is a straight female. But the other half, is a boy trapped in a girls body. This issue has always given me problems. With my life, my...
    StacheTastic StacheTastic 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    At least there's a name for it :) I was wondering what kind of weird I was the whole time :P
    jtzr jtzr 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Bigender Frustration. - I wish people were aware of it and that there was more flexibility in my life in this regard. If this confuses you look up bigendered in wikipedia.  I don...
    BlueCedarTree BlueCedarTree 46-50 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    This Is Killing Me. - The constant switching between male and female. I will display myself as the gender I am comfortable in and WHAM dysphoria hits me like a freaking train...
    TheDictatorOfGwah TheDictatorOfGwah 13-15 2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    MPD??? - I too, recently came across the term "bigendered" on wikipedia. I'm biologically male but have always felt like i had two personas. On one side, the side...
    ikaris2323 ikaris2323 18-21 4 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Bi Or Pan - A few moth ago I fould A word that told me who I was and why I felt the way I feel about myself the word was pangender . after leaning more abuot me bigender fits...
    ravennite44 ravennite44 46-50, T 2 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    Part Girl, Part Boy. Completely Confused. - I guess it started when I was 4, asking my mom if my voice sounded deeper than my girl friends and wanting to play outside with my shirt...
    SomethingInBetween SomethingInBetween 22-25, T 3 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    How Did I Not Realize Or Accept This Back Then? - When i was a kid (& i made sure that i was totally alone in the house)...i would occasionally stuff my shirt w/a pillow an pretend...
    DT831 DT831 18-21, T Aug 22, 2012

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    Broken Ego - Have you ever had your ego completely shatter? Your identity is gone. Fragments of you lay scattered, and exploring each one you don't know whats real and whats a lie...
    1lov3 1lov3 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Always Feeling A Little Different - I've just recently come to terms with this; I feel both male and female. I was always wondering if I was transgender, but when I thought of...
    KrysGlitch KrysGlitch 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 7, 2013

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    Land of Confusion - I was born, physically a male, oh so many years ago.  And there are times when i truly feel as one. But, there are an equal amount of times when i feel as...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 4 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    50/50 Or Something Like That - I'm not sure when it started exactly, but I remember instances when I was a kid where I would do or say things that would be sort of...questionable...
    cobraveins cobraveins 18-21 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    Not 100% There Yet. - Hi, I'm still working on living my story. I'm 14. U know who and what I am. I told my best friend. She's very accepting, although she doesn't always...
    hailbot hailbot 22-25, F Apr 4, 2013

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    I'M Just Me. - I was born a female although growing up, I always preferred playing with 'boys toys' and joining in with the games that the boys in the village I grew up in played...
    Laelide Laelide 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    In A Whole Heap Of Doo... - I am a bigender and I used to be perfectly ok with it. I had a boyfriend who knew what I was and he accepted it even to the point of sitting down with...
    punkylemon punkylemon 22-25, T 1 Response Aug 29, 2013

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    Who I Am. - There is Alice and there is Zander, female and male, respectively. After five years of hell I found the balance between them. I always had long hair as a child, I hated...
    Angekid Angekid 16-17, F 3 Responses May 4, 2012

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    When I Was About 7 Years Old, I Knew I Was "bigendered" - Sure, I didn't know what the hell the term "Bigendered" meant back when I was a child. However, I do remember riding in...
    cloudpoetic cloudpoetic 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Confused - About a week ago I decided to Google a question I've had for many many years about female to male sex changes. In the middle of my research I can't across terms/labels...
    milo1890 milo1890 22-25, F 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    Two Disctinct Halves - I realized fairly early on in my life that there were two halves to myself, two distinct "personalities," and I even gave them both names...
    KalliasSands KalliasSands 18-21 3 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    Discovery And Love - I'd been trying to figure out for some time what I am. For a long while I thought I was transgendered but found that, whenever I thought about transitioning...
    punkylemon punkylemon 22-25, T 4 Responses May 16, 2013

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