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I Am Bisexual and Married

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    My Confession

    My wife and I had been married for about 11 years and were conducting our life as just a straight, mature, mutually devoted couple.  The came the annual Fourth of July neighborhood party where I had a few too many drinks.  Although I managed not to embarass myself or my wife...
    stevenewbi stevenewbi
    56-60, M
    3 Responses May 29, 2010

    My Story

    It began when I was a teen . Played with a couple of friends. Then would visit rest area 's threw out my life or glory holes. Once I became more confident when I was older started visiting gay bars. Have also meet a few guys online.
    ironwood7 ironwood7
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

    and the best part is i told my wife

    and she lets me meet other men on occassion.
    stlguy45 stlguy45
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Aug 3, 2015

    Sexual w/ Men Emotionally Connected w/ my Wife

    I am now age 63. I rediscovered my interests in men when I was 50. I had had sex with men in college but considered myself fully hetero at that time. I had fully disclosed to my wife when we married and remained faithful for 30 years. Since my rediscovery of men I have only had...
    rb71246 rb71246
    66-70, M
    3 Responses Feb 19, 2010

    Getting Married Doesn'T Straighten Us Out

    I am bisexual, and getting married (multiple times) hasn't straightened me out yet. I honestly believe, as I look at myself and my past, that I'm more of a gay, and bisexual only because of circumstances I created in trying to be straight. The hardest part of being bisexual...
    Polyguy68 Polyguy68
    41-45, M
    1 Response May 14, 2013

    I Want To Turn My (bi Mmf ********* With Bbw Wife) Fantasy Into Reality

    Me and my bbw wife have been having sex for the past year and a half while talking about a bi-mmf *********. It turns her on to think about me sucking **** for the first time getting ****** in the *** for the first time. we have even watched bi mmf **** and while watching we will...
    caliguy1977 caliguy1977
    31-35, M
    7 Responses Jul 27, 2011

    She Knows

    My wife knows I am bisexual. Didn't tell her this when I proposed. In fact I kept my sex abuse, sexual bullying by other kids and men a secret. Didn't tell her I've had forced anal and oral sex, and that I do better being a sissy **** than I do being a man. As a result after her...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 15, 2013

    Married And Bisexual Men

    Really never told a story through the internet but like this site for being serious and down to earth I will be quite brief understanding of being a bisexual is a complicated thing as you are attracted to both sexes physically and intellectually. Being married is too an obstacle...
    athens34 athens34
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Aug 4, 2012

    Being Used!

    Any one ever have a suck buddy a guy you could go too when ever you wanted to suck a **** or have him suck you! I used too have one but it got out of hand when he started to bring his buddies so I could suck them also! At first it was just one guy then it was two but when it went...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Sep 6, 2013

    Another Talk With The Wife

    We had a little talk today about religion and sexuality (mine). It started out talking about tattoos, Celtic design and Greek/Norse mythology. I told her that I'm tired of pretending. When I come home I want to be me. I may have to pretend outside the home but here I should feel...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 3, 2013

    Thanks To My Best Friend And Some Army Wives :p

    im 21 married to a wonderful soldier. i never really recently had a thing for girls until i met my best friend. one drunken night i ended up with her in bed and it went from there. from then on i have always had a thing for females. my husband does not mind it at all as long as...
    rosieposie123 rosieposie123
    18-21
    8 Responses Aug 1, 2010

    Last Night

    Last night as a storm rolled in and I couldn't sleep, I began rubbing her back and ***, since we sleep naked it was an easy task to feel skin on skin. As I rubbed her back I slowly got closer to her and began easily bitting her neck and shoulder. Once I could tell she was...
    NorthTexasMale NorthTexasMale
    36-40, M
    5 Responses Aug 21, 2009

    She Knows After These Years

    About 5 years ago I finally got the nerve to tell my wife that I was interested in other men.  This did not come easy for me, but I soon realized that this news did not come easy for her either.  Since then we have talked many times about it and she has come to...
    allnightinhand allnightinhand
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2010

    Can't Tell Hubby About My Sex With Other Women

    The first time I had sex with another girl was when I was 18 & had just broken up with my then boyfriend. A good friend of mine Sarah was consoling me & holding me & hugging me led to us kissing. We ended up in bed together & I will never forget the first time taking her nipples...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 22, 2013

    Night Before My Wedding

    Ok i cant believe im sharing this , but here it goes: I bottomed for the first time the night before i got married haha. I had already had sex with my best friend who was one of my groomsmen, but this isnt about him. One of my other friends who was a groomsman in my wedding...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Jun 16, 2012

    My Wicked, Wicked, Ways!

    OK, stole that from Errol Flynn. :) I had a childhood experience, like a lot of guys. We were talking about girls and he asked if I'd ever had a girl's hand on me. Niether of us had. He asked if I wanted to see what a different hand feels like. We did. I was surprised that...
    Visexual Visexual
    61-65, M
    1 Response Nov 11, 2012

    My Best O Ever.

    Back in our swinging days. We’re at a swingers party. A vacant house that one of the people throwing the party owned. It had been converted into a sex den for the weekend. My wife and I were locked in a private room with another man. No idea what his name was. It was our very...
    Moofassaa Moofassaa
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2010

    Ever Since I Sucked My First ****

    Ever since I sucked my first **** a few years ago I have been craving it more and more. Also, I was amazed at how damn good guys are at sucking my ****! My wife is gorgeous, but her mouth is small and she TALKS off and on continuously while giving head. So I can never get off...
    jims69084 jims69084
    46-50, M
    Sep 6, 2013

    A Rough Road...

    I've been with my husband for over 20 years and we have the most amazing relationship. I am bi and he knows it and allows me to follow that path without being involved. I've had several girlfriends but nothing long term as I would like. It's very hard to live partially concealed...
    CCSunflower CCSunflower
    41-45, F
    Mar 25, 2013

    So Confused

    I've been outwardly hetero but inwardly bi all my life. I used to be very open with my partners about it but as time went by, I've shared less and less of my bi side with each girlfriend I had. My current partner, to whom I'm married, knows but we've never really talked about it...
    ddawg991 ddawg991
    31-35
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2013

    I Never Knew

    My husband and I have always had a little "bed talk" about a woman joining us and frankly while it was "his" idea at first I quickly supported the notion. As this idea grew with me I noticed how differently I noticed other women at work, while shopping, at the gym, everywhere...
    grtnbed grtnbed
    51-55
    4 Responses Dec 10, 2012

    Knowing My Sexual Self

    Other people I have talked to can remember when they began to sexually awaken. I can't. I also can't remember when I first started thinking about sex with other men. But I am pretty sure it all happened around the same time. I might have burried my attraction to men away as...
    jpolk jpolk
    31-35, M
    5 Responses May 17, 2010

    Yes She Know.

    Yes my wife knows. Came clean 5 years ago. She doesn't get this side of me. Wish she would open up more about it.
    ironwood7 ironwood7
    46-50, M
    1 Response Apr 28, 2013

    Bi Husband Now Wants Me To Be More "Open"

    My husband is bi. We have done things with men that never went past mouth hugs and kisses. One guy was really just trying to sleep with me and the other only him. Lately he is getting anxious wanting to have the real thing since he is getting sick of the strap on. He is looking...
    unsurelater unsurelater
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2013

    How We Got Shared Between Hubby And Rahul.....

    Reena pulled me towards her on the sofa..I could experience her sensuous lips on my lips. I had experienced them for many long years when we shared our Hostel Room in the University. In fact we knew each other's bodies intimately Her hands slowly reached my boobs. I was feeling...
    vanit vanit
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Sep 3, 2012

    We met a couple online,

    first they became our friends, soon we were lovers, then our teachers of bisexual love making.
    kinkycoupleuk kinkycoupleuk
    46-50
    1 Response Aug 7, 2014

    Telling Her

    Telling her that I was interested in men was one of the hardest things I have ever done. It took me years to muster up the courage to do it. But then I had the perfect seque to tell her and I became uncustomarily brave and blurted it out. A friend of ours was getting a...
    devouryou devouryou
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Jun 30, 2011

    I am and refused for a long time to give in

    but when I did it changed my life
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    1 Response Jun 21, 2014

    Lost

    I'm in a marriage that is full of unhappiness but money ties us together. I'm in thd process of study & in a couple of mnths we can part, I'm bisexual & long to be with a women. It's been a very long journey in me know my self & able to acknowledge the true me.
    breath77 breath77
    36-40, F
    May 6, 2013

    Confused!

    I'm not a lesbian but I'm married however I just recently felt something about woman. I'm so curious to know how it feels to make love with the same sex. I want to try even once. I have a friend and told me that she is lesbian and can look for a lesbian for me where I can try...
    parasite0eve parasite0eve
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 27, 2013

    Caught By My Wife

    The wife and I went away for the weekend and stayed at a hotel. We got to drinking and both got pretty drunk. I was horny as hell like I always am when I am drunk and before I could get any, my wife passed out... So me being the HORNY man I am started stroking my ****. As I was...
    tmafio tmafio
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Apr 24, 2011

    He Loves To Watch Now He Wants Another Guy To Join

    My husband always enjoys jacking off sometimes even joining in when my girlfriend and I are having sex. My girlfriend loves giving him a real visual show on how she uses her incredible mouth sucking on my **** and how big she gets it. He has always liked to have a ***** up his...
    xtacyincin xtacyincin
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2011

    I am a bisexual bottom male

    and coincidentally , the men I meet end up sleeping also with my wife.
    flindian flindian
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    I would love to find a secret bi bud to share

    experiences with. The worry of anyone finding out keeps me from being proactive and looking....
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Apr 24, 2015

    But When The Urge Kicks In...

    I love playing with a man's ****, a white man that is, wife is not very sexual anymore, but men know to please men, yes I am submissive as you can see in all my groups listed, it is so hard to find another man you can trust, being married - have to be discreet (am from PA...
    wm7777 wm7777
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2013

    Married And Bi For Last 5 Years Bur She Does Not Know It

    I use to have great sex with my wife but her sex drive has dropped , but mine hasn't. I started swinging and had MMF sessions and then thought I would try bi fun. some guy was shagging his wife doggy style. I was underneath her licking her **** and then as he dropped his **** out...
    feremone feremone
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Aug 24, 2011

    My First Bi Experience And *********

    A fellow EP friend asked me to share my first Bi story with him, another friend I shared it with suggested I shared it here...so here it is! My first BI experience was with my neighbor who is a massage therapist. She knew my sexual frustrations and knew I was very curious...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 8, 2013

    Too Late?

    I started to come to terms with the fact that I'm bisexual about 3 weeks before my wedding :( I love my wife VERY MUCH! But I can't help but feel like I'm lying to myself. I feel like I need to have some experiences with my homosexual side, but I can't because I'm married. I am...
    socurious788 socurious788
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 22, 2013

    I'm A Late Bloomer

    I've been married nearly 30 years.  I dated a few girls in high school and college, but focused on one, my high school sweetheart.  She's the only woman with whom I've ever had sex. In high school, I discovered just how hot a guy's **** and naked body are, but knew...
    m2mdad m2mdad
    61-65, M
    13 Responses Mar 15, 2010

    Missed Connection

    Well I stood up a guy I was supposed to meet last Friday for some afternoon fun. I was running short on time and I new my wife would be wondering where in the world I was at. I got cold feet and backed out. I just messages my friend and asked if he would like to meet so I can...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 4, 2013

    Missed Connection 2

    Well I met with my friend for the first time. Other than pictures I had never seen him before. He's a very likable person. Very funny and animated. Short and chubby, I'm 5'8 so me calling someone short is comical, but he's very funny friendly guy none the less. I honestly didn't...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 5, 2013

    ............ I am bisexual man,

    I fought myself against it for many years. My first experience was when I was 14, it changed my life in many ways. I hated myself for my desires, and tried to ignore them as best as i could. I could not. I had a few brief encounters as I got older, but would become very...
    beingiam233 beingiam233
    41-45, M
    1 Response May 25, 2014

    Married Bi

    Been married for over 10 years and I suppose I fall into the bi-curious category at this point. My wife knows I am interested in experimenting but is nervous about me and another man. Maybe she thinks I would prefer a man to her?
    iwcima iwcima
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 28, 2012

    Sissy

    A bisexual married sissy. I'm not the ony one, like minded people do find each other. Women that marry sissies find other women with sissy husbands it just happens. Sissy husbands find other sissy husbands. It's been going on long before the internet made it easy and I'm not sure...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 4, 2013

    I Was a Married Bisexual

    I was married to one woman for forty five years, and never touched another woman. When younger, from school through college and military service I had had a few girl friends, but also some homosexual experience. For years after our marriage I never did anything with another man...
    blackike blackike
    70+
    Nov 28, 2008

    Bi In Buffalo NY

    Bi married guy in in Buffalo, looking for same any age or color just be very discreet,clean and d&d free lets chat I need some **** to suck till it **** and then swallow yum yum
    sabo2008 sabo2008
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jul 3, 2013

    My Hairy Cub Came Over To Play Saturday

    I have a friend half my age and we got texting saturday about what's going on that day. Since my wife was gone for the day, I told him I was home doing jobs around the house ALONE. He asked if I wanted company and I debated because I knew if he came over I wouldn't get as much...
    stretch77 stretch77
    46-50, M
    6 Responses Jun 18, 2012

    I am a bisexual man I realized.

    I am married with children all of whom I love very much. But I have had a lot of hookups with guys and a few girls. I feel like a piece of trash because I know I am hurting them. But I can't help but feel attracted to men and women and feel like I need that release from. Does...
    Wal4am2s Wal4am2s
    31-35, M
    Apr 22, 2014
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