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I Am Bisexual But I Keep That to Myself

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 231 People

    Why I Like Keeping It To Myself

    As a non-practicing bisexual (non-practicing because I'm married), I think it's important to pick and choose who to come out to, who to let "into your circle."  If someone's gay, coming out may be the best thing for them.  But for bisexuals, I think a choice remains:  Let the...
    londdragon londdragon
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2010

    Why Is Mom To Shy To Admit Her Lesbian Sex Incounter With This Other Women

    This other women pressured mom into lesbian sex. Mom is very shut lip about it but the women who had mom is very open about it. Why is that for.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2011


    I've never actually admitted to anyone before... Thanks, mate, for making this group.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2009

    I Just Don't Know Anybody I Can Safely Share It With.

    But there is no question that I am bisexual. I've always liked women and I still do. I'd never give up sex with them. But I've also discovered that I can enjoy sex with another man. So I've got the best of both worlds.
    RayanneA RayanneA
    56-60, M
    1 Response May 13, 2012

    It Burns Me From Inside..

    I'll make it short. I'm a good looking guy who can melt any girls I wish (yes its true) but I never did that. They approached me, asking for a date and some sort but I refuse without any hesitation. That was few years back when I thought I might not found the right one. Now, I...
    TheRejected TheRejected
    18-21, M
    12 Responses Oct 13, 2010

    I'm Bi 2

    I have always bin bi I meen I have always felt this way but I never new what it was called until 2 yrs ago
    Dbzfan5 Dbzfan5
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 30, 2010

    At Least I Think I Am...

    I don't know why I am writing this, I am still so very confused about it all. I like looking at female and males, does that count? I have dreams and sometimes day-dreams about being with a female. I often think about how it would be if I had sex with a woman. Does this all count...
    bufy1981 bufy1981
    26-30, F
    Jul 23, 2009

    Becoming Bi At 39?

    I've always been extremely attracted to women. And never to men. But I've had occasional fantasies about sex with men for many years. In day to day life, it's only women that catch my eye. But my desire to have sex with men seems to be getting stronger. I've really wanted my wife...
    DeprivationOverload DeprivationOverload
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 28, 2013

    First Time I Told A Friend I Liked Men Too.

    I never tell people that I'm close to that I'm attracted to men. I have always liked men just as much as women. Even before high school I couldn't help but look at other boys. When I was in high I was so afraid everyone could just look at me and know that I was thinking about...
    birandy birandy
    51-55, M
    7 Responses Feb 10, 2011

    Can't Tell Anyone

    When I was about 11, I found myself being sexually attracted to girls, but on occasion I'd also notice a cute guy and get the same type of feeling. I was really confused. I had a hard time coming to grips with my bisexuality until I was in my late teens. I then accepted that I...
    freemytoes freemytoes
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jan 11, 2010

    A Memorable Encounter

    In the summer of 2004, I had a contract in Boston. On onemid-week night after work, I felt like going for a walk down Newbury Street. Asit was a very warm and beautiful evening, there were lots of people out andabout enjoying the evening and the cafes that line the streets. As...
    bimarrieddfwguy bimarrieddfwguy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Apr 2, 2012

    Yes Im Bi And It Is No Ones Business

    And if they know it is because we have had sex or they are my friend.... I am 45 and my life has been bi, I have made money being bi and have love bothe men and women and am married now and still living a bi lifestyle..... G.
    bispeedo bispeedo
    41-45, M
    Feb 23, 2010

    The Computer Can Know..

     i keep it from the people in my life but that didn't stop me from posting a confession on EP lol
    natallica natallica
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2009

    I've Know For A While...

       That I'm bi, but I've never told anyone except for my best friend and sister :/ It's kind of weird. I felt a lot better after telling them though, and eventually my parents found out. My dad actually seemed like he was in denial when he found...
    puppyluver1400 puppyluver1400
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2010

    I'm Bi

    I have a girlfriend, I have for a month now. She makes me happy, and I make her happy. My friends know I'm bi, they knew before I did. My family isn't very tolerant. My mom says all Bisexuals/Homosexuals should be killed. I don't know how to come out, nor if I want to. They will...
    sukimarii sukimarii
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 16, 2011

    Just Never Found The Courage

    I always knew that I was bisexual but never found the courage to say it. I was scared that if my friends would know, they would think that I’m trying to be more than friends with them or some stupid thing like that. This summer I worked in a summer camp where I met some...
    amarilys amarilys
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Aug 9, 2010

    Who Cares...

    I'm 46 and am a bi white married male. I have told people and I get two reactions, 1. eww that's disgusting or 2. let's have a *********. I've told my wife ever since we got together. She is not into the alternate lifestyle and so I put that part of me aside. I never told my...
    stghand1964 stghand1964
    46-50, M
    Feb 24, 2010

    Past Not Behind Me

    I didn't even know the term bisexual when I had my first sexual experience with a man back in junior high school. He was an old guy from church. He was old, wrinkly, and old. No one thought of him as a threat, so my parents allowed me to spend time with him alone. All this time...
    kudzu41999 kudzu41999
    41-45, M
    May 24, 2011

    Anal Peek Freak

    At the end of my Navy career, I was sent to the psychiatrist for evaluation. Unfortunately, the psychiatrist dredged up memories of being molested by someone from my church. At the time, I was renting a room. I shared the upstairs bathroom and kitchenette with a guy that I never...
    kudzu41999 kudzu41999
    41-45, M
    1 Response Aug 18, 2012

    I'm Bi 2

    I have always bin bi I meen I have always felt this way but I never new what it was called until 2 yrs ago
    Dbzfan5 Dbzfan5
    18-21, M
    Dec 30, 2010

    Been Bi For A While

    One thing I noticed is that by sharing these stories with this group, we're not keeping it to ourselves anymore. And that's probably a good thing. I've only told three or four people ever, and I currently don't talk to them anymore.  I realized after high school that other...
    Bookwyrm87 Bookwyrm87
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Feb 3, 2010


    Well i do keep it to myself but My Parents do know i am Bi and so dose my Brother and they are fine with it ..They Love me unconditionally ...But My friends do not know I'm bi..i just keep that to myself..They dont have to know...and well i do wanna tell them but..I dont want...
    MzLoveAll MzLoveAll
    18-21, F
    Dec 6, 2010
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