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I Am Black and Introverted

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    Introvert

     I am introverted and I will be nothing else.  I'm mixed black and white, so that makes it a little tougher because I find it extremely hard to find friends or people to truly relate to.  Can't really rely on white people or black people, and it can get frustrating...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    I Hate The Media!

    So, I'm a shy, quiet, and reserved black girl in high school. I've always been one my entire life. I live in a predominately white little town. Most of the blacks at my school are in the "in crowd" and act ghetto and loud, and it just irritates the crap outta me because I don't...
    purplebuttons purplebuttons 16-17 3 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    I Am An Introvert...

    I've only recently truly discovered what an introvert is. It was a bit of a surprise, I suppose, to see how neatly I fit in the description. There's no desire to fix it, I'm just glad it has a name and there are others out there I might connect with/to. There hasn't been much...
    grayfoggram grayfoggram 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2013

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    It Feels Like I'm Afraid Of Everything

    As a child i've always been shy, but as I grew older it got worse. I have problems approaching women, because i fear rejection and fear that they'll just get tired of me. I've tried becoming more inviting, but it just isnt who I am. I've also lost friends because of this. They'll...
    TakeCare1 TakeCare1 22-25 2 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    Friendly But Shy

    I have always been alittle different, never really fit , but I have been fortunate to find a couple odd balls who are also black women to befriend and would love to find more...I hope to get to know you guys better
    idealist28 idealist28 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 13, 2008

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    Take Me Out Of The Box!

    .I've always been quite and shy. I suppose that's because of my up bring. I always felt bad about talking in front of people because my family would tell me to shut up when I began to speak. I've learned to blend into the wall really. I'm not loud, "ghetto" whatever you want to...
    lovely618 lovely618 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    Change Over Time

    It seems as if over time I became more introverted....or maybe I never accepted it to begin with.  throughout high school I was more out going but I was more of a social butterfly.  I was close to a few ppl but did not have a huge circle of "friends". ...
    iRaeShine iRaeShine 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2009

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    Confused

    There are times when I don't feel as though I don't fit in with my own racial group. How sad is that? I'm very quite and somewhat anti-social. I use that term very lightly. I obviously talk to people and do things, but I really just like being alone and keeping to myself. So many...
    Aceryu Aceryu 18-21 1 Response Feb 6, 2009

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    The Quiet One

    I've always been the quiet and reserved one in my group of friends. Like my friends are crazy, wild and outgoing. But I'm just really laid back, chill, I like to hang out at home most of the time. My 21st birthday is coming up and they are trying their hardest to get me to go to...
    SoakedInSoul SoakedInSoul 18-21 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Well... I'm black . I'm not a man but I like myself and I like people with penises so I like black guys . Maybe more than others .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I like black guys, not in a gay way!! I like them, because most of them are amazing/ loyal friends. Black ppl have a bad rap, yet... They are one of the most amazing ppl I've...
    3mjay 3mjay 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know if I am shy, introverted, have social anxiety, or a mix of all three, but it's really starting to affect my life in a negative way. It seems this world caters to the...
    anhonestgirl anhonestgirl 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I dont like black guys, I am a black guy looking for good looking females. Contact me ladies.
    AbrahambigD AbrahambigD 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I am most attracted, both physically and mentally, to black women. Physically I love a woman with smooth brown skin and nice sexy curves, big breasts and a big booty ;) I love...
    choclitlover72 choclitlover72 41-45, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's true. I don't know what about black women does it for me...but physically Ive always been much more attracted to women of a different race. .. especially black women.
    CorC1990 CorC1990 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I was at the pool earlier this afternoon swimming with a couple of my friends and while we were there I noticed this black boy who was wearing a t shirt and jeans sitting in one of...
    jillmyers91901 jillmyers91901 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I honestly don't care if anyone wants to have a confederate flag. They can put it on their cars. They can hang it outside their homes. It doesn't bother me. Yes, it is tightly...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Many people think pro black is something negative but it's really just black unity, love, and standing up for social injustices and supporting each other. It's been said before but...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Honestly everyone here disgusts me stop being ******* whiny and fight back. Wtf is wrong with you no two races look the same all because you seen some poll on how black woman don't...
    Dickbutt123 Dickbutt123 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I hate how black people are treated. We get no jobs. We look the ugliest. We get mocked all over the world. It's like god made black people just to get bullied and treated like...
    ihatebeingblack44 ihatebeingblack44 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    i have an Asian gf but i find black women really seductive i would love to have relationship with black women they look dominante if any black women want to talk you can msg me...
    sherlockv sherlockv 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I don't know what it is about black women. Not only are 99.99%of the Geogrous but they seem powerful and full minded and smart. I would love to be with a black lady. I think she...
    benni2015 benni2015 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate this. I hate my race even still exists. Everyone hates us. We even hate ourselves. Why did I have to be born into one of the slave races??? We ARE inferior I don't even have...
    Diarywoman24 Diarywoman24 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm attracted to black women. I would one day love to date a black women. They are so hot in every way possible.
    Nightwetter40 Nightwetter40 36-40, M Jun 28

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    I'm sorry if I don't reply to any messages today, I feel like being introverted and keep things to myself today.
    Miriamjen Miriamjen 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Since this is the place to vent about silly things, I am confessing that I wear black socks with shorts *gasp*. It is quite common around where I live to wear black no-show...
    paperclip50 paperclip50 46-50, M Jun 26

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    I am going to post this as much as I think I should because I believe it must be said. I am "too white" for black people in northern North America, southern North America, Central...
    Ruminateandpursue Ruminateandpursue 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I am going to post this as much as I think I should because I believe it must be said. I am "too white" for black people in northern North America, southern North America, Central...
    Ruminateandpursue Ruminateandpursue 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I find black girls fascinating, there attitude, and there beautiful skin , whether they are sharply of not , I would love to date a black girl
    wishingwellguy wishingwellguy 36-40, M Jun 25

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    Black men are absolutely sexy. They're not appreciated as much as they are for being the intelligent, caring black men they are. There are good black guys! A lot of them. And I...
    rebecky1221 rebecky1221 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I actually don't really like colored photography. I appreciate it for what it is but it fails terribly in comparison to black and white photography in my opinion. One of my...
    TheSundanceGal TheSundanceGal 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Throwback to when I saw Black Veil Brides at Warped Tour! I was so lucky to be right there on the barriers Ashley even looked directly at me and waved!!! I ******* love Black Veil...
    MeaninglessMemories MeaninglessMemories 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I'm black y'all and black y'all, I'm blacker than black and I'm black y'all and I'm black y'all and I'm black y'all cause black y'all I'm blacker than black cause black y'all...
    LoneLone LoneLone 16-17, M Jun 23

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    Life is terrible if you are black. Like why did god even make black people if he knew we were just going to be miserable and treated like **** everyday. I dont get jobs because im...
    ihatebeingblack44 ihatebeingblack44 18-21, F Jun 23

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    I love being a black woman. I love my butter pecan skin and how feminine colors like red and pink look so good against it. I love my fro too. I think my fro makes me really...
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    I hate when white guys say they love black people. They only like they're sexxx. I find it crazy & sad. I know white people who dated black girls but it never had last because...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 23

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    Why i like to wear black? Black is not sad, black is poetic...
    DeathThrone DeathThrone 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    Growing up, I didn't see color. My mother and father raised my sister and I in predominantly white neighborhoods and although there were a handful of black children, my friends...
    PseudoNymph PseudoNymph 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 18

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    Every culture has beautiful women. But something about black women drives me nuts. I'm short and skinny and people think my "type" is small and petite. Forget small and petite...
    Unicentrism Unicentrism 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I wouldn't wanna be anything else. I love being a beautiful black woman. I think we are strong and have gone through so much and still manage to keep beautiful smiles on our faces...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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