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I Am Black and Introverted

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    Confused

    There are times when I don't feel as though I don't fit in with my own racial group. How sad is that? I'm very quite and somewhat anti-social. I use that term very lightly. I obviously talk to people and do things, but I really just like being alone and keeping to myself. So many...
    Aceryu Aceryu 18-21 1 Response Feb 6, 2009

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    Take Me Out Of The Box!

    .I've always been quite and shy. I suppose that's because of my up bring. I always felt bad about talking in front of people because my family would tell me to shut up when I began to speak. I've learned to blend into the wall really. I'm not loud, "ghetto" whatever you want to...
    lovely618 lovely618 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    I Hate The Media!

    So, I'm a shy, quiet, and reserved black girl in high school. I've always been one my entire life. I live in a predominately white little town. Most of the blacks at my school are in the "in crowd" and act ghetto and loud, and it just irritates the crap outta me because I don't...
    purplebuttons purplebuttons 16-17 3 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    I Am An Introvert...

    I've only recently truly discovered what an introvert is. It was a bit of a surprise, I suppose, to see how neatly I fit in the description. There's no desire to fix it, I'm just glad it has a name and there are others out there I might connect with/to. There hasn't been much...
    grayfoggram grayfoggram 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2013

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    It Feels Like I'm Afraid Of Everything

    As a child i've always been shy, but as I grew older it got worse. I have problems approaching women, because i fear rejection and fear that they'll just get tired of me. I've tried becoming more inviting, but it just isnt who I am. I've also lost friends because of this. They'll...
    TakeCare1 TakeCare1 22-25 2 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    Friendly But Shy

    I have always been alittle different, never really fit , but I have been fortunate to find a couple odd balls who are also black women to befriend and would love to find more...I hope to get to know you guys better
    idealist28 idealist28 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 13, 2008

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    The Quiet One

    I've always been the quiet and reserved one in my group of friends. Like my friends are crazy, wild and outgoing. But I'm just really laid back, chill, I like to hang out at home most of the time. My 21st birthday is coming up and they are trying their hardest to get me to go to...
    SoakedInSoul SoakedInSoul 19-21 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Change Over Time

    It seems as if over time I became more introverted....or maybe I never accepted it to begin with.  throughout high school I was more out going but I was more of a social butterfly.  I was close to a few ppl but did not have a huge circle of "friends". ...
    iRaeShine iRaeShine 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2009

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    Introvert

     I am introverted and I will be nothing else.  I'm mixed black and white, so that makes it a little tougher because I find it extremely hard to find friends or people to truly relate to.  Can't really rely on white people or black people, and it can get frustrating...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Another of my fantasies... for whatever reason Black guys have always done a great job with me in the past, I'm not crazy enough to go strictly black but I'd be lying if I said...
    iBabe iBabe 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 30

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    I tend to only date white men. I guess from my own experiences white men treat me better than black men. And also where I live there is not a lot of professional black men. Sorry...
    SashaFierce80 SashaFierce80 31-35 5 Responses Apr 7

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    I am looking for a black boyfriend. and i get so turned on when i see white women with their black children. especially professional women shopping alone with black newborns and...
    darkhuntress77 darkhuntress77 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am black, I don't care most times. As I grew up in the suburbs around a diverse group. My best friend when I was little was white and our families were friends. I have never been...
    TazmainianDevil TazmainianDevil 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I am someone who is racially colourblind and is not concerned about the colour of a person's skin so long as they have a good personality. Beauty is not a product of being a...
    PoeticTorture PoeticTorture 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I guess... No, actually, I know. I'm starting to understand and love black women--or the idea, rather. Black women are extremely beautiful and precious to me, romantically or...
    thisbrerulezyou thisbrerulezyou 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I love this look. It's one of my favourites! Today I wore a white fitted blouse with short slightly puff sleeves and a knee length fitted black pencil skirt. I teamed this with...
    karenhobbs karenhobbs 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 1

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    I am another southern chick who has gone black. I love black men and their BBCs. I am a white woman married to a white man and he shares me with black male friends. He sometimes...
    birthdaypartyforme birthdaypartyforme 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    Black is just my go-to color when dressing. It's simple, classic, edgy, chic & elegant. I often times buy too many clothing pieces in black. So, as a result, most of my clothes are...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I'm attracted to all women, but I find black women to be the most beautiful. I love their curves, full lips. thick curly hair (even though they often hate it) and I even love the...
    dub000 dub000 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I adore seeing white women who have gone black and are carrying a black baby in their womb. There is nothing more precious in the world except for a black woman who has gone white...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I seriously need to wear a different color. I wear baby blue, navy blue, violet-blue. I wear black of course and also gray. I just really really like blue and black.
    RainbowDalia RainbowDalia 18-21, F Mar 20

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    It took a lot of hard work to get to the point where I am able to look in the mirror and say I am not ugly. It took a lot of hard work to not point out all of my flaws. It took...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I love all women but I'm convinced that I personally are more equally yoked with white girls. I know that some white girls are just dating blacks cuz their rebelling against racist...
    TennesseeMandingo TennesseeMandingo 31-35, M 5 Responses Mar 24

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    I feel like Black women are the butt of every joke now a days, and I'm so tired of hearing them. This one joke about girl "coons" is always said at my school and everyone always...
    Kasney Kasney 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    I have dated black woman before and it was great . Lately it been impossible to meet black woman
    mruiz252 mruiz252 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 29

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     MBT Sport2 Black Shoes are now popular all over the world. It can have a positive impact in improving posture and gait, reducing stress on the knees and hips,and even help...
    mbtshoes2011 mbtshoes2011 22-25, F Mar 30

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    Only In My Dreams!- I am Latvian and I married a Russian with blond hair and blue eyes like me. Interracial Relationships were non-existent in USSR, yet his 1st year in America he...
    FromBehindTheIronCurtain FromBehindTheIronCurtain 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    Black is such a happy color. All black everyday. c:
    kimcx kimcx 18-21, M Apr 1

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    Shotokan- I was a ballet dancer. It's what every woman on my dad's side of the family had done for as long as anyone could remember. The skill, the beauty, the discipline- it was...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I date black men because no other race has ever payed me any attention and as well I am attracted to black men
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    This girl in my class really pissed me off. She asked me why I wear black all the time and I told her that I just liked the color. Then she told me that it was wrong to wear black...
    lostandlonleysoul lostandlonleysoul 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm a white guy--always liked black and Hispanic girls--I've been in a relationship with a black girl for over a year now. :)
    brodykd101 brodykd101 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I never thought that I was going to be this girl/woman. I grew up very interested in men. Making them feel good, being great at sex but never really enjoying it. But I knew how to...
    zoraloveshard zoraloveshard 26-30, F Apr 8

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    No one here in this family gets me, I'm tired of being the black sheep of my family. I'm so tired of being picked on, or the reason why all the bad things happen and most of all...
    imanonwriter imanonwriter 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    You should see my closet. You could barely find anything that isn't in black. I often get asked why so much black and not to wear it. But its what i like not what they like :D
    Batsandstars Batsandstars 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I never get tired of wearing black. I think it compliments my complexion and it's hard not to look put together in all black. Grey, brown and jewel tones are the only other shades...
    ShesAVeryKinkyGirl ShesAVeryKinkyGirl 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Not for any particular reason. I just own a ton of black clothing items, and I happen to like the way that they look on me because most of them are, in my opinion, cute clothes...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I Didn't Give Up on Black Men, Black Men Gave Up on Me.#ilovewhitemen
    peacefullover peacefullover 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I absolutely love Black Underwear, it looks so sexy and classy. Tonight I'm wearing a matching lacy black bra and knicker set. I feel amazing and it's such a great look :)
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a black woman and I have gone white. I absolutely love white men so much. The reason why I love white men so much is because they are real and they show respect to me and my...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I wear black every day and I can't help it. I feel like it's the only color that looks good on me. My boyfriend gets so mad and says I don't have any "style" but I feel like...
    nic1177 nic1177 36-40, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I am a proud Black BEAUTIFUL woman in this wicked world. <3
    kaeejanae kaeejanae 16-17, F Mar 19

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    Kissing under a thin sheet of blood.It's warmth covers us like fur to flesh.I tell him all the time,heaven is a place on earth with him.Я вижу цветMy long hair...
    2girls1knife 2girls1knife 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    It happened when I was 14 - probably only me second time drinking out. It was a weekday and I had skipped class with my best friend, Alexis. We went to probably the most underrated...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I think you really notice the person in black and white
    hollyhoney hollyhoney 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I do not date outside of my race. Not because I am judgmental or intolerant... Black men are just my preference 🍫🍫
    TinkOG TinkOG 18-21, F Mar 25

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    Black, gray, charcoal, whatever. Point is: no color
    palant palant 13-15, M Mar 26

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    I adore fit black men. They just do it for me... Beautiful skin tone, natural swagger, exudes dominance and then just the overall body structure is so sexy. Man I'm blessed to...
    xMissTix xMissTix 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    The Serpent: June 21 - July 22 (Cancer) Horoscope: The serpent is the symbol of wisdom and deceit. You are both cunning and clever. People may regard you as low, wretched and maybe...
    Batboy69 Batboy69 56-60, M Mar 28

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    I have always found dark skin attractive. I also think Black women have beautiful facial features.
    WillMan614 WillMan614 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I have recently started dating white men and I am loving my experience. However, not many men in my area can handle a voluptuous woman such as myself. Where are the men in the...
    alourl1 alourl1 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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