I Am Brutally Honest

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    If you want an honest answer,

    I will give it to you. If I dont like you then I dont like you. I can't lie to protect someone's feelings like my parents tell me. If I care about someone then I should be honest with them even if it hurts. If you be nasty to me, I WILL call you out.
    EmmaGirllovesyou EmmaGirllovesyou
    16-17, F
    Aug 12, 2015

    Being honest is dangerous in this ****** up

    society. All that is deviant, every perversion of nature, each diversion from the norm must be evangelized, muted, expunged, eradicated. An opinion is only worth repeating if at least four to six people put their thumb up. Originality can be popular, but the kind needed for...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 20, 2014

    Why are there so many thirsty *** dudes on a

    support forum? It's like going to a battered women's shelter to pic up chicks. Kind of ****** me off.
    CharlieReckless CharlieReckless
    36-40, M
    Jul 2, 2015

    Well title says it all ,

    its not something i can control (i guess its in my nature )but i try to be more ....well i believe "sensetive toward people's feelings"would be the word , but to no vail... i just cant help it!! like once this girl was complaining about how she needs to lose weight , and how she...
    M00ah M00ah
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015

    I thought brutal honesty was a good thing,

    but people get so booty tickled over the truth lol.
    escapedfeelings escapedfeelings
    18-21, F
    May 18, 2015

    I always finding myself in a situation

    where I feel like a total jerk because I said what was on my mind. I normally do think before I speak but apparently i have different views on what is rude and what is honest. I tell people how I feel very often and sometimes it gets me into a heap of trouble! That's okay though...
    JennyR97 JennyR97
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 26, 2014

    It's sickening because I keep hurting people.

    I'm not heartless. I feel for them but I can't change
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

    I used to have a huge filter on what I said,

    but the thing is, not only does it hurt me to keep feeling inside, but nobody will truly know how I feel about you if I keep it to myself, it makes me feel better when I just blurt out my feelings. Seriously. I remember one time this girl came up to me and said "grace, do you...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    I need you guys to be completely honest with me

    and do NOT sugarcoat me. Ok so I'm a black woman that is attracted to white men. I have been for as long as I can remember. Some of my relatives are disappointed because I like white men and not men my own color. My biological mother said it's best if everyone sticks qitg their...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 31

    I'm opinionated and outspoken.

    Anyone can argue online. I don't have time for your sudden growth of internet balls. But if you feel as if you must "correct" me...especially in a manner of disrespect, please make sure you are right. I have no problem embarrassing anyone.
    HeyyMrsCarter HeyyMrsCarter
    22-25, F
    May 10, 2014

    I'll tell you my opinion

    and won't hold back. What's the point of lying? Don't get me wrong.. I'm actually a very nice person. But if you don't want the honest answer then don't ask me
    Brokenbeauty15 Brokenbeauty15
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2014

    Brutally honest...maybe not.

    Just honest and down to earth....I think....I hope :) I am aware of other people's feelings and judge accordingly, but mostly I am blunt and will say honestly what I think. This rarely causes people to get angry with me and it often works out well, no judgement is the key I...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2015

    I am sometimes tackless

    when expressing my views and my love for this quote is undeniable: "Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion,for every opinion now accepted was once eccentric" :P
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 22, 2015

    If You Dont Want The Truth Dont Ask Me

    if you ask me something i will give you the brutally truth but i will try not to cut your vain i'll be gental
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    Apr 22, 2010

    I def can be, some call me a b*tch

    or an a**hole but honestly I'd prefer someone to be just as honest. I don't sugar coat anything, if you want an honest answer I have no problem sharing it with you. But if you want someone to lie to you, then you need to keep moving and not stop and talk to me because I'll tell...
    whoshookya whoshookya
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 10

    Me. Who am I To the world I'm perfect I am a

    competitive cheerleader, I am an amazing dance, I can play softball like a pro, and I'm gorgeous. To my mom and dad I'm their princess. They would never let me break a nail. To my 3 brothers I'm spoiled. They think our parents favorite me because I'm the only girl and the...
    orangelily1234 orangelily1234
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

    I will never apologize

    for being honest. Why should I? If you want honesty, I will give it to you. And if your feelings get hurt, then it is what it is. Don't ask for honesty if you can't take it.
    HeyyMrsCarter HeyyMrsCarter
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 7, 2014

    Since you guys are very honest,

    Tell me the truth. Is 6'1 too tall for a woman? because that's how tall I am.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 4

    I get some hate from people

    because I'm honest and brutal. If you ask me for the truth, then I will tell you straight up. Why should I apologize for being honest? Lying isn't going to make you any happier? Do you think the world is going to care if you cry over every little thing? Well buck up because it's...
    misterallstar misterallstar
    22-25, M
    Jun 8, 2015

    This one girl from my school was wearing this

    very tight yellow skinny jeans. I mean she's a big girl and the skinny jeans were very tight on her and her stomach and buttcrack was showing. She asked me for an honest opinion. She wanted me to know if she looks good and I told her, "No you don't and you can't even walk in...
    ariannaelizabeth ariannaelizabeth
    16-17, F
    Feb 4

    I dont care of someone's feelings get hurt.

    If you want the truth, I WILL tell you straight up. Dont get mad at me for wanting the truth. Truth is the truth. If you cry and get your feelings hurt, that is NOT my problem.
    misterallstar misterallstar
    22-25, M
    Oct 17, 2015
    MizzChocolate99 MizzChocolate99
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 18, 2015

    I call a spade a spade,

    I step on toes, I ruffle feathers. Unless your are extremely close to me I don't have a shoulder to cry on, I expect you to carry your own luggage and take your pulls at the front of the pace line. There are no free lunches or free rides in my book. I may not have a 1000...
    loopnscc loopnscc
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2015

    Absolutely; if i'm not telling you what's what,

    then I must not be talking to you. I think sometimes being the way I am really isn't needed for certain delicate situations. Generally, I don't want people to think I'm hiding my thoughts from them or to think I'm a shady person, who, they wouldn't be sure if I was lying to them...
    kingkongfranke20 kingkongfranke20
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 4, 2014

    i really hate sensitivity.

    i hate it when people want you to dance around their feelings. i say things how they are in my head. i wont sugar coat what i mean because that completely changes what i'm saying. i'm not purposefully mean, but i wish people would respect honesty a little more. it would save so...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2014

    If I like you, I will tell you.

    If I hate you, I will tell you, And if you make me mad, I won't struggle to tell you to go to hell. ^-^ Honestly is key.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 7, 2015

    i really refuse to care how hurt people are by

    the truth. hey, if u didnt want to hear it, whyd ya ask?! i mean, i didnt just come out the blue and say it, u asked for it. i mean, u said "does this match? tell me the truth... no holding back..., i said heck no, it looks like a rainbow threw up on u, and u wanna get angry...
    Aijmeerah Aijmeerah
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 25, 2014

    I don't care how hurt

    or angry people get about the harsh truth! If they dont wanna hear it, then DONT ASK. If you want the truth, I will tell you straight up, even it if hurts VERY bad. I will NOT apologize for being honest. If you're feeling hurt then oh well. The world is brutal and harsh so suck...
    mizzpetite mizzpetite
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

    Okay so my best friend of eight years has

    changed. She has been dressing in revealing clothing and got a lot of boy's attention. She loves the attention and she doesn't realize that they only like her for her body....well a couple of them. She's now got this HUGE ego and thinks she's the hottest thing ever. This guy...
    ariannaelizabeth ariannaelizabeth
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 23, 2015

    To A Fault..

    sometimes people wanna hear lies... but all i give them is the truth... the cold, hard, kill yu dead truth too bad i like it so
    LoveIsSublime LoveIsSublime
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 3, 2011

    Not brutally, no I am not.

    So why am I in this group? I guess I like being honest.
    Gallantio Gallantio
    36-40, M
    Feb 17

    Look, I'm not some sugar

    that just makes you feel better and make things soft. I'm as hard as a rock when I told the truth. If somebody wants the truth, I rather be as hard as a rock than be sugar and sweet. I don't give a damn what anyone says. If that want to call me a b*tch because I'm being honest...
    ChubbyChick411 ChubbyChick411
    26-30, F
    Jan 26
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 23, 2015

    Full-contact Honesty...

    My best friend isn't speaking to me ATM.He complained that he could not quit heroin for himself, he needed a woman...and he said this several times.He said it yesterday, and I was tired. And while feeling sorry for oneself is often justified, because life's hard...He uses it as...
    hylierandom hylierandom
    41-45
    1 Response Oct 12, 2012

    I wanna see how blunt you guys really are.

    My petite friends are small and slim and when I see them get picked up and carried by their boyfriends I get jealous. My sister is slim and smaller tha me and she can be picked up my her tall 6'7 bf and she's only 5'6. I don't think that's ever going to happen to me I don't want...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 8

    If you have a problem with me call me

    if you don't have my number then you don't know me well enough to have a problem with me!!!!
    bayouboy65 bayouboy65
    51-55, M
    Apr 27, 2014
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85
    31-35, F
    Aug 22, 2014

    I would like a brutally honest reply to whether

    or not I need braces. I believe family and friends are too caring to tell me the truth. I usually smile without showing my teeth. Anyone up for this. ? I'll send photos privately only
    Bythelight0fthemoon Bythelight0fthemoon
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2015
    Sunshineh13 Sunshineh13
    22-25, F
    Mar 10, 2015

    I hate when people message me like "do you

    even like me?" Like if I don't like you, then I'll literally just tell you to **** off, you'll know if I hate you.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 11, 2015

    I'm just being honest here,

    I get mad when people wear the same clothes every day and smell terrible and look like they don't bathe...but they have Beats by Dre, iPhones, and other electronics. You mean to tell me you can't buy soap or clothes with that money?
    mattihope mattihope
    18-21, F
    Feb 5, 2014

    I used to be this little girl,

    who would never place my opinion, and if someone was yelling at my mom, or sister, I wouldn't stand up for them. But I've changed and people don't really expect it, I'm not afraid of what people think about me anymore, and if you say something disrespectful I WILL call you out...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    Why should I apologize

    for being honest and direct? Not trying to be rude but it's better to hear the harsh, brutal truth than lie. Why should I lie to keep a person happy? It's just going to get worse. I will tell you the truth, even if it hurts. I'm not rude when I sat it but if you can't handle the...
    MizzChocolate99 MizzChocolate99
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 18, 2015

    I admit many things others can't handle

    or wouldn't even dare bring up. It's not that I care it's just that I'm brutally honest! If a close friend asks me if she's fat and she weighs about 50+ lbs more than healthy I would tell her! I would want the same to be told to me when I ask something. I don't want to be...
    ControversialBitch ControversialBitch
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 26, 2014

    I'm the kind of person

    that prefers to be honest. I an blunt to a point and I will not apologize or lie to protect someone's feelings. The truth hurts...get over it! If you have a problem with my honest then that's not my problem! Leave if you're going to get pissy.
    DW2720 DW2720
    26-30, F
    Feb 16

    In A Positive Way (Not A Vent Either)

    In general l appreciate or like friends, or even the not-yet-circle friends who share experiences and give replies to comments. It has become one of the points or criteria I look for before befriending a person. I look in though their Recent Activities. To find out how the person...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Oct 5, 2013
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