I Am Celibate and Am Not Interested In Relationships

So Please Be Kind And Don't Bug Me 61 People

    Feels Good To Get This Out Of My Chest!

    I am a Celibate... Always have been..and always will be.. The thought of having sex is repulsive to me.. Its a very impure and polluted form of love in MY eyes.. Even as a kid in school - when all my friends had a girlfriend, and I did too. They were all busy trying to get as...
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    1 Response Sep 25, 2013

    After having relations

    for the first and last time with my last bf 5 years ago more so out of curiosity than anything, ive never felt the need or want to have it again. Dont know why, but im just more compfortable without sex. And without a bf. i just love my time being single and will love it for the...
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    1 Response Mar 9, 2016

    True To Me

    Ever since I can remember I was never interested in dating. In high school, riding past the local convent was inspiring to me, even though I wasn't Catholic or any other denomination. Something about seeing it gave me a sense of peace and belonging. Chastity was like a security...
    eeniemeanie eeniemeanie
    1 Response Aug 14, 2011

    There Is Just No Point When You Are Ugly

    I am fat dull ugly dog who was trying to be someone she wasn't ment to be. I was trying hard to pass myself off as a university arts/law student and it was just never gonna happen. Joyce told me I would never succeed. and all she ever wanted me to do was to obey her stupid...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Apr 13, 2011


    Friends, I have been ceibate most of my life. I am 60 years old this year and went through periods of complete celibacy since I've been in my 20's. i even wrote an article about it when i was 23. By complete ceibacy i mean absolutely no libido. I reallly like being like this...
    1 Response Feb 9, 2011

    Not Right Now

    I fear getting into a relationship right now because my privacy & freedom will be taken away. I fear being with a guy who's a control freak, & I've heard & witnessed some people wait until AFTER marriage to change their feelings about you. Eventually, I DO want to...
    otad12 otad12
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 10, 2009

    growing up I preferred spending time alone to

    being with so-called "friends". my family were even worse and treated me like sh/t under their feet, I guess because I wasn't interested in being attractive or successful (I think I made them look bad). sometimes I look for friends and sometimes I meet people who I can connect...
    stphnmclrn46 stphnmclrn46
    Aug 26, 2015

    I don't want to commit

    but I don't want to be sleeping around either. I really want to get my **** together so that I can save money and travel. Everyone say that you need someone as while that is true right now I want to spend my 30's just doing fun stuff and exploring the world. I know that's what...
    newasexy newasexy
    26-30, F
    Jan 3, 2016


    While some part of me still clings to the hopeless romantic I used to be, I have been celibate for over a year and aside from the occasional urge have no interest in pursuing a romantic relationship. I just see them as very destructive and anti-productive. Even the people...
    fearandloving fearandloving
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Oct 6, 2009

    Gradual Celibacy

    I have never been interested in a sexual relationship. I have had sex, sure it's a great thing. I can easily live without it though... And slowly as I think more of my life, my chosen path, and the way I view things in the world, I realize Celibacy and myself really go together...
    mindwarper11 mindwarper11
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 8, 2013


    I wholeheartedly want to be alone. I want the time to get to know myself, to be with myself. I don't want sex and I don't want to be committed to anyone but myself. I don't want to get to know anyone but myself. I just don't have anything to give at the moment and I don't...
    RockinRoxanneRussianRoulette RockinRoxanneRussianRoulette
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

    Content to Be Celibate

    I feel so blessed to be unfettered by sexual obsession.  I have the ability to focus on things that truly matter because I'm not a slave to sex or wasting time and energy pursuing it. So much of society is obsessed with sex and the repercussions are obvious.  Anything...
    Ermengarde11 Ermengarde11
    51-55, F
    7 Responses Apr 2, 2008

    Never Going To Happen

    I've never had sex. I really do not plan on it any time soon. It just does not interest me much, I do not see what is so damn great about it. It only complicates things...as do relationships. I am sick of running head first into walls within relationships. My stupid hopeless...
    MagicalStarryNights MagicalStarryNights
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2011

    It's My Choice

    I chose to be celibate after my last disaster in 2000. I realize now that my borderline personality disorder and bipolar disorder played a large part in my choosing very emotionally abusive people to become entangled with. I never felt freer than I did on the day that I ...
    lilystrange lilystrange
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Dec 21, 2008

    What's The Point Of Relationships

    I am 33 and have never had a real relationship. I have had relationships that I thought were great until my friend or my cousin tells me about their guy who did all of these wonderful things and I have nothing to compare it to. I haven't gained anything from relationships so I...
    Nuevahoja Nuevahoja
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2012
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