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I Am Celibate For Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 49 People

    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    I am a Christian. I have been one

    for 10 or 11 years. I struggle with same-sex attraction (though I didn't always consider it a struggle). I knew since I was five or six years old, that I was attracted to the same sex in the way that I thought of other males and my interpretation of something. I had no idea what...
    AaronForever91 AaronForever91 22-25, M May 29, 2015

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    I LOVE FOREVER CELIBACY.

    I'm a girl of 22 years old who enjoys in being single and i enjoys it to full extent. I know that there are some other people too in some corner of this world who feels as same as me in this aspect. I've so many friends around me and they tends to enjoy their dates with their...
    yoyoFnze yoyoFnze 18-21 13 hrs ago

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 20 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 47 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    I believe that God hasn't meant

    for me to be in relationships or have children like everyone else (some may call it the "gift of singleness). I think that I will fulfill my meaning in life (or destiny) by myself. I think that friends come into my life for me to inspire them and help them through something, but...
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F Sep 10, 2014

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    something I hope to experience one day with the girl of my life once I find her. I hope I meet people who share this life style
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    That looking good matters is a good thing for the good-looking.
    silmarilion456 silmarilion456 41-45, M 2 hrs ago

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    I feel like for the last 3 years I'm in an episode of the twilight zone and someone needs to just yell "cut" already.
    sambular1313 sambular1313 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    I saw a beautiful and inspiring movie: Hector and the search for happiness . I am recommending it . I can relate to the movie and character.
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    You know who is a really amazing and underrated film director ? Richard Linklater. He has directed so many great films. Some of my favorites: Slacker, Boyhood, School of Rock The...
    nonolover nonolover 36-40, F 3 hrs ago

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    I never claimed to be the perfect parent. I have made my share of mistakes. My oldest daughter was born when I was a teenager. My husband's family insisted we get married...
    SSBroken SSBroken 46-50, F 5 hrs ago

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    Guess who is single today? Okay - for five whole days, already, but I didn't know it. My dissolution of marriage was signed last Monday & a certified copy with notary stamp...
    GrantGeek GrantGeek 46-50, F 17 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    M Search For Enlightenment A friend and I were talking today about our dreams. I have asked many people in my life about what their biggest dreams are. Most say earn enough to...
    texaspilot texaspilot 46-50, M 9 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Team America: World Police. Five minutes in..talk about life imitating art.
    YokoOnosVision YokoOnosVision 36-40, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Team America: World Police. Five minutes in..talk about life imitating art.
    YokoOnosVision YokoOnosVision 36-40, M 8 hrs ago

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    i am not he kind of person to go quietly into the dark night. As a matter of fact I have been out of work for the past 14 years. I know there are many other folks out there who...
    Amber237 Amber237 51-55, F 8 hrs ago

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    I can feel that rejection from all angles again the feeling it gives me inside its like A knife digging in my heart. This is when I just think it would be best for all that I...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    i use to think a lot but then realized number one i am not in england second the queen of england has no idea who i am so i wont get any title like sir think a lot lol...
    Lastblue Lastblue 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    I woke up this morning and started wondering about basic instinct and human behavior - I know about the four f's but where did this basic learning come from one of the f's is food...
    g4it g4it 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    ...Like seeing my children act their age and being full of life, happiness and innocence, swing a beautiful sunset/sunrise, listening to the birds tweet, walking through a...
    wonderofwonders1 wonderofwonders1 41-45, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Life is too short to wake up with regrets. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. No one...
    Q2013 Q2013 46-50, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Life is too short to wake up with regrets. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. No one...
    Q2013 Q2013 46-50, F 12 hrs ago

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    Life is too short to wake up with regrets. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. No one...
    Q2013 Q2013 46-50, F 12 hrs ago

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    Life is too short to wake up with regrets. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. No one...
    Q2013 Q2013 46-50, F 12 hrs ago

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    i sometimes accepted the fact that i will live my life being alone. i am in a complicated situation where it is nearly impossible to find that want for me. i just hope one day that...
    irijat irijat 22-25, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I'll Always Love You FORGIVENESS I got the call today, I didn't want to hear but I knew that it would come. An old, true friend of ours was...
    Jackie69C Jackie69C 46-50, F 13 hrs ago

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    Soooo many negotiate thoughts advocated by EP groups of I hate this I hate that. In order for me not to fuel the fires. I am going to not join any of those even if I agree with...
    Gws1269 Gws1269 46-50, M 14 hrs ago

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    Date Night is one of my favorite movies. I can see how the title might be misleading and have judgmental others think it is a mega-romantic movie when it isn't that at all. The...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend 36-40, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Easy A is one of my favorite movies. If you see previews, depending on which previews you see is whether or not you will get a tainted view of what the movie is really about. The...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend 36-40, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Though I really don't know what defines a boing life. Since no one's life is completely boring.
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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