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I Am Celibate For Life

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    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 44 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 21 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 28 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Wow

    lets hope its a short life, cause i imagine you are going to be a misserable bunch!
    river05 river05 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 31, 2010

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    I cheated on my husband. I am pregnant, but doubt is completely his. I just couldn't keep lying to him, so I came clean tonight. I told him about the other man, and how the baby...
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    To those of you that know me this may seem a big radical but I am looking for a long term living arrangement with a woman or a couple. My son who lives with me will be 20 at the...
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    At times; people you have never met before, with whom you have no relation walk in your life unexpectedly for a short period, spend some quality time with you and then when its...
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    My dear, How do I escape feeling trapped in a reality I can't get out of? How do I escape the feeling of shallowness and emptiness? How do I summarize life? Like this: People...
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    I am single, and proud of it! There's nothing that upsets me more than to see people in a relationship to make up for being alone. It's so sad. Why do we put so much pressure on...
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    I just find the details of life so damn complicated these days. Technology, phone menus, so many choices between products, everything is self-serve, etc. Even when it comes to...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    i feel I can get myself together just when I am on my own. :( Letting people in my life often drags me down...and being a loner drags me down itself. I cant find the right balance...
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    The most frightening experience of my life happened to be when I was very young. I can't remember exactly how young I was. definitely before I was 10. But it was swimming class...
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    "Life has its own hidden forces which you can only discover by living." ~Soren Kierkegaard
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    I have put a pause on my entire life including my home, husband, friends and enjoyment to take care of my ill grandmother. I am quickly remembering why I moved away from my family...
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    Thinking about all my friends/family that has left me to be with the Lord. Thinking about all my current friends that is upright, honest, sincere and knows a little about true...
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    i love life.... the problem is i dont love myself.... i have alot to work on in my life....
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    People like myself need to be encouraged to put her own needs first and to find a relationship that reciprocates. I have been way, way too selfless. A traumatic pattern of being a...
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