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I Am Celibate For Life

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight - Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    The Road Less Traveled - I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 21 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    New Here - hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Finally... - Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel...
    SienSeta SienSeta 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    Virgin Forever - I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 41 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Celebacy - I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 28 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste... -   It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    Right Or Wrong? - I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Well, Not Really - I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F Jun 2, 2012

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    By Choice, Sort Of - I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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