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I Am Celibate For Life

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    I am a Christian. I have been one

    for 10 or 11 years. I struggle with same-sex attraction (though I didn't always consider it a struggle). I knew since I was five or six years old, that I was attracted to the same sex in the way that I thought of other males and my interpretation of something. I had no idea what...
    AaronForever91 AaronForever91 22-25, M May 29

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    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    I believe that God hasn't meant

    for me to be in relationships or have children like everyone else (some may call it the "gift of singleness). I think that I will fulfill my meaning in life (or destiny) by myself. I think that friends come into my life for me to inspire them and help them through something, but...
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F Sep 10, 2014

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 20 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 45 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    When I'm out and about and feeling like ****. People say hi to me, and ask how I am. I tell them I'm doing good. They don't need to know what a ****** life I live.
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    I have no real purpose in life. I've realize that now. I tried to deny it...but I can't anymore. It really wouldn't make a difference to anyone if I died or not, which is fine by...
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    Yeah it did change my life forever but it is so worth it cause i got my beautiful daughter out of it. Although he was terribly abusive i will always have some feelings for him...
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    When Life Gives You Lemons...Weeks after I received some unexpected news, I can still remember feeling some intense moments of anger. The kind of anger that sneaks up and engulfs...
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    So for the past week my laptop has been in repair but since that time something amazing has happened to me :'D I now have a BF! ^_^ His name is Max and he may just be my soulmate...
    Skin0Man1 Skin0Man1 18-21, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    OK I do believe in GOD and must say I am truly a walking testimony but my life has not dictated my belief. As of today I am unemployed I don't know where I will find a job, my...
    Godhasme Godhasme 51-55, M 6 hrs ago

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    I am here to have children (Done that, raised and out on their own in the world) I am here to share my love and life with my spouse. Second try on this, Marriage 2.0 going better...
    WripTyde WripTyde 46-50, M 8 hrs ago

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    At this very damn moment, life is fu.c.king perfect.😊I 💓 it 😁 I hope y'all are having the good afternoon. 😚
    SunshineH13 SunshineH13 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    So Summer's almost over, and who did I hang out with so far? Nobody. I ******* hate myself. The person who I want to see I guess they don't want to. I ******* hate my life. I wish...
    wassup305 wassup305 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I'm just trying to figure out my life and where I truly belong because it's always confusing.
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    11 Remarkable Ways to Really End Procrastination #HealthyLiving , (http://luv2sex.theblogpress.com/?p=4403) There are, in fact, many proven ways that procrastination may harm...
    how2stayyoung how2stayyoung 51-55, M 12 hrs ago

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    So many people find me strange for taking an enormous interest in watching documenteries (spelled wrong?) about theories in regards to the purpose of life. But it isn't really an...
    Imaginatrix Imaginatrix 13-15, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I did this recently with an ex who came back into my life when I was ill but made the situation much worse. It hurt but I asked my family to prevent them visiting me in hospital...
    esullivan100 esullivan100 36-40, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    My life has just fallen apart, I've lost everything & everyone that I love I have no friends, I get bullied everyday, my family doesn't care.... I just don't wanna be here...
    parso19 parso19 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    But I doubt I ever will, or that it'll be too late to have a good life.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I am a psychic reader , spiritual advisor, life coach and reiki master .... That is who I am , and yes I do charge for my services , and who Dose not like it , you do not have to...
    psychicnicole psychicnicole 26-30, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    My man is on week 5 of BMT. I feel as though this whole experience has brought us so close in such a short amount of time. I can't even believe he's been gone for so long till I...
    viviaraiza viviaraiza 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I have and I'm not happy about it. I continue messing up my life and my friendships. I feel like a terrible person. I don't want pity or sympathy. I just want to try and stop
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 8 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Listing to the rain and being so incredibly amazed that the rain is clean fresh water falling from the sky. It is literally life being poured down on us!
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    As much as I want a social life which I'm not allowed because mother treats me like a slave and she always says" Sarah, don't think yourself a slave." Haha, she really knows how...
    SarahLou98 SarahLou98 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Hi, I just came across this wonderful forum this morning and decided to join after reading various interesting extracts of some of the member's experience. Let me first introduce...
    sammiechong sammiechong 22-25, T 19 hrs ago

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