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I Am Celibate For Life

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    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 44 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 28 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 21 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Wow

    lets hope its a short life, cause i imagine you are going to be a misserable bunch!
    river05 river05 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 31, 2010

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    For the last five years mum has been doin race for life, its a kinda race over 5km that ladies do (men can join in buh its mostly ladies) an its to raise money for cancer charities...
    hanntiger1 hanntiger1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    I'm in reLay for life today for the second year in a row. My team won last year, hoping to win this year(:
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I'm always trying to find the truth about life. I know it's not just about being in this body. Sometimes I feel that I am the only one thinking about these things. I know that...
    kittamaow kittamaow 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I just decided I don't like life. I'm gonna give myself four more months to make things go my way. If things don't then it's bye bye world .
    prankqueen prankqueen 13-15, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    My father was killed in an auto wreck near Chicago when I was little. I am haunted by him!
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I believe in... that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I believe… that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who...
    PepperX PepperX 22-25, F Jul 10

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    Those kind of people really make me think twice about my life and changing it to the best if my ability. People with so much passion for life are the best people to look up to and...
    Diamondgirly Diamondgirly 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I cheated on my husband. I am pregnant, but doubt is completely his. I just couldn't keep lying to him, so I came clean tonight. I told him about the other man, and how the baby...
    justagreeing justagreeing 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm pretty maxed out on the loss/death abuse department. I used to abuse drugs pretty heavy. I got the habit from my family who gave me drugs for the first time when I was 9 yrs...
    OutcastBlacksheep OutcastBlacksheep 36-40, F Jul 21

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    I am sincere in my friendship and I am looking for people like me who would be sincere with me and wont play with my feelings. I am looking for life-long friendships.
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    To those of you that know me this may seem a big radical but I am looking for a long term living arrangement with a woman or a couple. My son who lives with me will be 20 at the...
    OmyTVC15 OmyTVC15 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I Am Indonesian Closet Gay Looking For Closet Lesbian For Marriage (moc) Dear All... I'm closet gay looking for closet lesbian for marriage. I am Indonesian and living in Germany...
    Ijustwannabehappy84 Ijustwannabehappy84 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    Between my 8th grade and freshman years of high school, I took an online class called "philosophy and pop culture." It taught basic theories and principles of philosophy as well as...
    WhimsicalWerd WhimsicalWerd 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    As children, we don't know what life really is. There is perfect happiness. Without any doubt of it not lasting for more than a brief period. We enjoy the happiness, as though it's...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 38 mins ago

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    I believe in love and could have posted this under that, but the real experience I'm having now is understanding why I am not ready for love. How do I know I'm not ready? That is...
    OnAlert OnAlert 56-60, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I stay hidden, away from the world. Unseen, and unheard of. No one is here, no one can find me. I will stay, as my life is taken. As I notice, I'm left alone. I wonder if someone...
    Supershoes24 Supershoes24 22-25, M 53 mins ago

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    A sub-dominant 13(almost 14 very soon though.) I love hugs, I fear losing people from my life, I tend to laugh often, I'm weird (but who isn't?), but the man of my dreams should be...
    skyalarm skyalarm 13-15, M 3 hrs ago

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    OMG! If this is true please let me know because I have a straight best friend who I think that I would be great for and him for me. After my ex he brought back the ability for me...
    Icephoenix90 Icephoenix90 22-25, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    What life is.... This is the big complicated question that goes in my mind all the round. Why life takes so many exams and what will be the outcome of these exams. Nobody knows...
    Life26 Life26 26-30, F Jul 2

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    My boyfriend forced me to sleep with him i new i gonnq be able to push him off he went to the army he is 10 times stronger than me and at the time I couldnt get my head around it...
    marshmel marshmel 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Children get a lot of warts. Most of them are girls between the ages of 12 and 16. They get warts more often than adults because their immune systems have not yet built up their...
    wipeoutwartsfast wipeoutwartsfast 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    It's all about Life perspective!It's all about believing, control and power!If you believe that life can get better than you take control to make it better and therefore have the...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F Jul 6

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    When I pay attention to all of the good small things in life, I find that they far outweigh all of the negative, and it makes me feel much happier with a positive outlook. Most...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I THINK this is what the meaning of life is. The meaning of life is to make your dreams come true. Your lifetime is devoted to making yourself happy. If you aren't happy in your...
    Leea479 Leea479 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I really hate everything in my life right now. My life, school, work, family, finance, social life, everything to suck. Whenever something seem to be going good in my life...
    emmiecarmi emmiecarmi 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    If you feel taken for granted you should read Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher.Its a great book about suicide.I read it because i felt that people dont understand but characters...
    pierce789 pierce789 18-21 3 hrs ago

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    I would not take my friends for granted nor allow myself to be so.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Everyone has their own life, their own way of thinking. Most people think that it is necessary to have another people who will help you in any aspects of life. But the truth is...
    rchwyll rchwyll 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I don't know my identity, or my name, in my past life, but I believe I remember my death from my past life. I believe I was only 3 years old, and I remember pulling up into a...
    laurennhem laurennhem 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    So, recently I've come to the conclusion that I never feel completely satisfied or content with life. I have a decent job, I have a car, I have enough people to dub "friends" and...
    CocoaLibra CocoaLibra 26-30, F Jul 1

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    My life sucks everything goes wrong and it feels like it will never get better can I just die and start a new life where none of my mistakes are known and I have a different family...
    lonelinessneverfades lonelinessneverfades 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I am against using abortion as birth control. I believe there are certain instances where women should be free to terminate their pregnancies if they choose (unreported rape...
    RaverFan RaverFan 41-45 1 Response Jul 3

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    I'am sick about my Life. I so lonley, I'am very Fat and i can't loose weigth, I had a girl from France, she changed my Life and she go back France. I hate my Life, but even with...
    carlosaaf carlosaaf 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    It takes a crane to build a crane It takes two floors to make a story It takes an egg to make a hen It takes a hen to make an egg There is no end to what I'm saying It takes a...
    Katie419 Katie419 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    The meaning of life is simple. It is to survive and procreate into the future just like any animal does. It is nothing more or less that that. In our struggle to survive, thrive...
    Hoplite39 Hoplite39 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    One day i want to marry the love of my life and have three children, one boy and two girls. And live a simple and happy life. And i want him to take me on picnics and be old...
    chemically99 chemically99 13-15, F Jul 8

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    But that would be selfish right ? I dont eant anyone to br effected my death especially. The person who finds my body and coroners or med examiners i wish there was a way to do it...
    sorrybouttheugly sorrybouttheugly 16-17 Jul 8