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I Am Celibate For Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 21 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 45 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    I believe that God hasn't meant

    for me to be in relationships or have children like everyone else (some may call it the "gift of singleness). I think that I will fulfill my meaning in life (or destiny) by myself. I think that friends come into my life for me to inspire them and help them through something, but...
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F Sep 10

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Just being 5 yrs into my marriage.. Now I know why so many jokes are made on "wives".. They are just impossible.. A husband compromises on sooo many things which are just ignored...
    mindplys mindplys 26-30, M Dec 5

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    You may mess up, but you are not a mess up. You may make a mistake, but you are not a mistake. You may screw up, but you are not a screw up. You may fail, but you...
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    You may mess up, but you are not a mess up. You may make a mistake, but you are not a mistake. You may screw up, but you are not a screw up. You may fail, but you...
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    Jacqueline779 Jacqueline779 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 29

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    I've seen many things, a very long time a go it all began, I died and I had forgotten, I was born again but I had forgotten. I live for days weeks months years and time still goes...
    ShaneTom1 ShaneTom1 16-17, M Dec 4

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    hi there Let me begin with introducing myself as a decent good looking jain 'Gay' guy from mumbai whoz looking for a life partner. I am choosing this platform to do so, as the...
    rshah1987 rshah1987 22-25 1 Response Dec 13

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    You may mess up, but you are not a mess up. You may make a mistake, but you are not a mistake. You may screw up, but you are not a screw up. You may fail, but you...
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    Let me begin with introducing myself as a decent good looking gay guy from mumbai whoz looking for a life partner. I am choosing this platform to do so, as the conventional methods...
    rshah1987 rshah1987 22-25 Dec 16

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    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F 10 Responses Dec 8

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    Horde for LIFE!!!! 😎 will die as a horde
    leoblizzard leoblizzard 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    I wish I had a girlfriend......but I'm just single for life. I hate it its embarrassing I hate it. I ve been looking for love for way too long
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    This is dedicated to a special friend.....Ry67 May you have the courage to face what you can change... The patience and tolerance to accept what you can't..... And the wisdom to...
    MatureBabe MatureBabe 56-60, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have been celibate since around the end of 2009. At first it was to make sure I wouldn't get seriously involved with anyone unexpected, because I needed to reestablish a...
    hazelwoodd hazelwoodd 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    So do I. A purposeless existence and wasting a life filled only with apathy and depression which is on it's way to despair...**** I'm even smoking now which is something I'm...
    ForTheFallen ForTheFallen 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    Relationships. At the moment they aren't for me. I'm at a place where my freedom means so much more to me than sharing my life with someone. My ability to decide to leave the...
    Mct7988 Mct7988 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    One of my biggest fears is that I will look back at my life with regret. I am only 20 years old and there is so much that I want to do and so many places that I want to see. I want...
    WhoAmI77 WhoAmI77 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I really have nothing to show for myself. I just quit my job due to medical issues, & I took a "break" from college 2 years ago. I want to go back, but it's so expensive, & I don...
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart 22-25, F 1 Response 53 mins ago

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    December 27. Near the Top. I know you're tired. I know you feel overwhelmed. You may feel as though this crisis, this problem, this hard time will last forever. It won't. You are...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 53 mins ago

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    a few hours ago i was on facebook and i saw a picture of a couple and i thought to myself "wow how on earth did he get her?" then a few minutes after, i was on instagram and saw a...
    Stefanie321 Stefanie321 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    What's is the meaning of life? Is life really what you make it??? If or when you find a reason or meaning to it, it eventually changes to something unexpected... Is there ever a...
    jazzybluz jazzybluz 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I want to you relax and enjoy life. Don't take life too seriously. Smile and squeeze a stress ball every now and then.You only live once. Life can be hell sometimes but not all the...
    Outofeden Outofeden 31-35, F Dec 5

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    Life is......... Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is bliss, taste it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is...
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