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I Am Celibate For Life

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    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 44 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 28 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    I believe that God hasn't meant

    for me to be in relationships or have children like everyone else (some may call it the "gift of singleness). I think that I will fulfill my meaning in life (or destiny) by myself. I think that friends come into my life for me to inspire them and help them through something, but...
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F Sep 10

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 21 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    I am very grateful and thankful for my life, and to be alive in the developed world in this day and age. My life hasn't always been perfect and I have experienced a lot of horrible...
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    Just like the title says! If I can't be with the one I love, I won't be with anyone at all. Why waste yourself on someone that is less than your desires? If she is out there, God...
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