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I Am Celibate For Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 45 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I believe that God hasn't meant

    for me to be in relationships or have children like everyone else (some may call it the "gift of singleness). I think that I will fulfill my meaning in life (or destiny) by myself. I think that friends come into my life for me to inspire them and help them through something, but...
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F Sep 10, 2014

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 20 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    For readers my age and under, this is for you. (Females23) -all my experiences have been on the negative side -it gets better -im truly a eternal wanderer -she is an example...
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    I went to university thinking I would take a 'sensible' course, and follow my passion in my spare time. I chose Psychology when I should have done art, and i am very much an artist...
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    I am really keen to start this celibacy thing. It's weird, I am not asexual, I have sexual urges and attraction to the opposite sex, but acting on these bring me know joy and make...
    MattA14 MattA14 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I have been celibate all my life. 32 years. I would like to find a Boyfriend to change that.
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    I forever have a broken heart that needs to be fixed. I yearn for someone to fix it for me. As much as I'd love to fix another's, I want to be fixed more than anything. I'm an...
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    Have you ever taken a step back and actually looked at your life? Not by looking in the mirror and seeing who you are but looking back at who you have become, the person you are...
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    Life; the one thing in universe that holds true intrinsic value. It perplexes me when someone is willing to give up on it. People commit suicide each and every day- not only the...
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    I'm glad you now realize that nothing will stop the pain. That's a good thing, you know why? Because you will now realize you have only one place to look for real help. The one and...
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    May I share this with you? Most people are searching these days. They don't realize how much God loves them. He loves you very much. No matter who you are, no matter how many...
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    You have no idea the hell I have been through with dipwads and judgmental a-holes on here and real life, I am sick of you people who get off on other people's aguish. I don't even...
    seikofontay seikofontay 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    I dont value my life, and that makes me valuable. I realize that i am one in 7.5 billion and my death will leave no impact on the population. I will die anyway so i will enjoy it...
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