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I Am Celibate For Life

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    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 45 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 21 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    I believe that God hasn't meant

    for me to be in relationships or have children like everyone else (some may call it the "gift of singleness). I think that I will fulfill my meaning in life (or destiny) by myself. I think that friends come into my life for me to inspire them and help them through something, but...
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F Sep 10

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Trauma lasts a lifetime, I don't care what anyone or professionals say! there are triggers that are said, and it brings back memory flashes of what happened as a child. I'm doing...
    duhibrokeit duhibrokeit 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 1

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    I wasn't born into a good family. If I was a child of one of the mansion clan it would have been better for me. My father was the "John Wayne" type. So he expected me to walk talk...
    ATroubledLife ATroubledLife 46-50, M Nov 2

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    Oh, for sure. My dad wasn't around til i was about four and we never really bonded- i believe I had problems with guys as a result.
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 2

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    At break time I played in a 2nd year football game. I played as lone striker & got 2 goals for my team by going towards the ball & the keeper barging into me but missing the ball...
    fcnantes fcnantes 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 11

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    Wishing I had someone to love. Someone who's my age and that would love me for me and not dislike me cause of my past. I'm going to be forever single I show I feel.
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F Nov 11

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    Certainly can if they are traumatic enough. From my own experiences there are many things I tried to warn my children about! And to this day there are things I don't do,places I...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Nov 2

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    Yeaaahhh... I'd prefer cheerleader guys...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I came to Canada 3 years ago to study and then hopefully settle down here. Just the way I saw marriages and relationships go down in my family (my mother has been the mistress of...
    TheDragonBorn TheDragonBorn 22-25, M Nov 18

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    You can never truly be ready for life because of lack of experience. So you have to experience things, good and bad, to make your judgments on life.Yes there is a deeper meaning...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Follow What happens, will. Follow your hearts pattern listen to the voice when it calls. Breathe. To take in the world is to become the world. Do not harbour fear for there...
    RosaElaPilarGoens RosaElaPilarGoens 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I know this is pointless... But maybe someone will read my short story: http:// inventions-for-life. blogspot. com/
    Stju Stju 26-30, M Nov 5

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    I have been slowly losing my motivation and zest for life. I feel like my relationship is suffering and I will lose my job at a very prestigious newspaper pretty soon. Can't seem...
    wehc wehc 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    Hi my all dear friends... Now im looking Partner for life long. Who is treat me as his wife i ll live u.
    rathika143 rathika143 31-35 a week ago

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    If I may, I've one that I would encourage to most and that would be to learn self respect... And armed with this, you may offer respect to others. And a must for life skill...
    Fiddleswtit Fiddleswtit 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    What do the dolls have to do with anything? They make celibate people look crazy! Lol
    Midnightheart Midnightheart 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    Looks like I'm the first to post an experience for this one. Here it is. I will stay celibate until I see you Lyndie. All other girls, keep it moving, cuz I love her and I'm gonna...
    NewEra0916 NewEra0916 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I had to learn the hard way... So many men will do practically ANYTHING for a steady stream of good sex. They will stick around. They will buy you things. They will call everyday...
    LovelyLadyJ LovelyLadyJ 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Been over two months now, and I've just been ******* off to ****. I thought Id handle it, but I'm wrong. I can't live without touch for the life of me.
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 30

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    Life Is Awesome If you Do it Right 0. Respect Respect and honor yourself and others ( if they do the same to you , if not , then you do the same to them or try to completely...
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    ATTENTION PLEASE... I WANT YOU TO KNOW BEFORE YOU START READING THIS THAT THERE IS SOME MENTION OF PAST TRAUMA THAT COULD BE A TRIGGER FOR SOME PEOPLE. I DID NOT USE ANY BAD...
    jnjjnj2469 jnjjnj2469 51-55, M 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I hate university. I'm a freshman in my first semester here and deep down, I feel quite uncomfortable about things here. It's been about 2 months since I started uni and I feel sad...
    Saraherman Saraherman 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    It is not always clear what the reason is. With Thanksgiving just around the corner I am thankful those those people who have ventured through my life, either deliberately or by...
    lasergraph lasergraph 61-65, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I really enjoy the lifestyle. Not just the bedroom stuff. Currently I am looking for a female sub. Her body type doesn't matter nor her experience in the lifestyle. If your...
    Cloudwolf1313 Cloudwolf1313 26-30, M 18 hrs ago

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    I have to I'm sick of being unhappy and dealing with/living with/ helping people who don't give a crap about me. I'm not where I was last year and therefore I don't wish to be in...
    newasexy newasexy 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    I think there's life outside this planet. There's no way we can be alone in the universe when we can barely explore our own freaking Moon. If there's other life out there I doubt...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 14 mins ago

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    If you work hard enough and don't lose sight of your dreams they will come true, but most people usually give up on this because they deem it as "impossible". Nothing is impossible...
    SunsetTears SunsetTears 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    I am Sonalyso, 51. Three years ago, I took divorce from my husband as he had an extra – marital affair and clearly, he chose me over her. Right after the divorce, I began looking...
    sonalyso sonalyso 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    My experience is that I am still standing in this step and something has put me in this position and it doesn't Matter how hard I trie to take the step out to next step I can not...
    Chadra Chadra 51-55, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    in changing my life right now i mean i want to rewind my life right now and change some things that i've done and things that have happened so that the outcome of rewinding can be...
    moanaj moanaj 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Today is a new clean page for me :) I'm going to live my life better! I would love to talk anybody, but please no perverts. 13-15 is what I prefer though, but you can be older :)
    innocentflower innocentflower 13-15, F 11 hrs ago

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    Thank you God for all the blessings. Thank you for providing me with food and shelter. Thank you for easing my pain at times. Thank you for the many friends and family who keep me...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 10 hrs ago

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    It really bothers me when you make plans with friends in advance and then they cancel on you to hang out with someone else... My best friend and I planned to study together...
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    141126-1627 After Facebook messaging the baby at length last evening, in one direction only, in which messaging I became, for lack of a better description, either lost or insane...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 8 hrs ago

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    So I'm sitting watching a programme about families, mostly single parent families, living in poverty. Its told through the eyes of the children and its so sad tears are streaming...
    40startingagain 40startingagain 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    The easier it really is for your search engine to match your organization into the search terms that your customers will form into a internet search engine, the upper your business...
    Shelton22lv Shelton22lv 31-35, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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