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I Am Celibate For Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 45 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 20 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    I believe that God hasn't meant

    for me to be in relationships or have children like everyone else (some may call it the "gift of singleness). I think that I will fulfill my meaning in life (or destiny) by myself. I think that friends come into my life for me to inspire them and help them through something, but...
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F Sep 10, 2014

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    My brother shot himself in the head Sunday morning ,, 1 week from getting the news His Ex wife and Mother of his only child had died from cancer ,,she is now an Orphan ,,not alone...
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    I had all the friends in the world & it seems in a blink of an eye over the years without noticing with falling out & people moving around & me being bad @ keeping in touch! my...
    exotica2002 exotica2002 41-45, F 37 Responses 5 days ago

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    I feel so much love for life at the moment. I love m friends, I love the people! All the people that want something out of this world, all the people that seek for something, that...
    Vrime Vrime 22-25, M 1 Response May 7

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    Midwesterner looking for a beautiful stylish, attractive, and fun lesbian (or bi woman) to become BFF's with. Prefer 35-55, no children, fit and healthy, single or partnered...
    MikesterSTLMO MikesterSTLMO 46-50, M Apr 28

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    Everything happens for a reason. You, make the reason. Things happen. You, make them meaningful. Struggles happen. You, make it worth holding on. Things get taken away. You, make...
    kiarrafire kiarrafire 18-21, F May 7

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    I want a good looking good hearted fun loving,in shape lover for life.is there any men left in Minnesota?
    mnmxfox mnmxfox 41-45, F May 13

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    Going on three months of the celibate life. At first it was a breakup, then I realized I have far too much going on in my life. I'm starting to really get to know myself well. At...
    DancesWithUnicorns DancesWithUnicorns 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I have been celibate all my life. 32 years. I would like to find a Boyfriend to change that.
    momonyc momonyc 31-35, F May 1

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    I have made mistakes before. I have been abused and so so anger before. That is not the life I know that would be right for me. Being celibate until marriage is something that...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F May 17

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    It's like a 50/50 thing I got going on here ..it's been years and that's cool i don't so much mind ...I feel like yea baby I don't have sex , so I have very little issues or...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 70+, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am 40 years of age. I have a great job with many awards given by my colleagues and peers. Many recognize me as an expert in my field. I own my house, have my own car, and pay...
    lovingrestraint lovingrestraint 36-40, M 1 Response May 1

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    I have some serious issues with my life I hate it, I hate my job, I hate where I live, I hate the fact my partner doesn't trust me, I just don't want to be here, I don't want...
    theagonyaunt theagonyaunt 31-35, F 28 mins ago

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    Although I have an extremely high sex drive.. I'm a nymphomaic.. I'd admit that.. I vowed to not have sex unless it's with my husband. I've learned to love myself and not treat...
    Barbiedoll89 Barbiedoll89 22-25, F 7 Responses May 9

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    Here is my story. No one has to agree, but this is what I've found out in life. That void we all feel, is when our life gets out of order, and God is nudging us, to let us realize...
    ArtLover01 ArtLover01 66-70, F 2 Responses May 2

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    May I share this with you? Most people are searching these days. They don't realize how much God loves them. He loves you very much. No matter who you are, no matter how many...
    ArtLover01 ArtLover01 66-70, F 1 Response May 2

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    What is Life? Life is complex Life is beautiful It's beautiful Life is rich and amazing Life was given to us by God Life is limited So why waste time? Each and everyday is a...
    LeahLoveeU LeahLoveeU 13-15, F 2 Responses May 14

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    Yes, I've forgiven those who have hurt me in the past because at one point I wanted forgiveness too even if I didn't deserve it. It is absolutely freeing to forgive. Thank You...
    JesusReigns777 JesusReigns777 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I was not brought up like others, neither do I share their culture. When I came back from living my childhood abroad and saw what others called life and love I did not buy it. I...
    wirfffff wirfffff 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    I think there's no recipe for happiness in our lives. I hear people say all the time they supposedly have everything in life- a loving family, friends, a girlfriend or boyfriend...
    Gayooshit16 Gayooshit16 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    I'm glad you now realize that nothing will stop the pain. That's a good thing, you know why? Because you will now realize you have only one place to look for real help. The one and...
    ArtLover01 ArtLover01 66-70, F 1 Response May 1

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    You see, I used to be pro-choice. But then I found out the truth about abortion, and the fact that it simply can't be the solution to anything. When you're pro-choice, you are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses May 2

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    Yesterday I spent most of the day cleaning a vintage 1982 GMC motorhome that I bought for $1000. I didn't find any roof sealer as it was Sunday, but Walmart supplied necessary...
    jthitt jthitt 56-60, M 2 Responses May 4

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    Recently, I have had quite a few life changing events that have happened. Looking back on some things, I probably would have changed some things sooner, but I can’t control the...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F May 5

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    This has been a problem for quite some time now, im 19 years turnbung 20 on in a month, i should have a great life, my parents have money, i have friends, i dony see myself as ugly...
    lifeaintshit lifeaintshit 18-21, M May 11

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    If I came out to my family 10 years ago, would that make a difference to my life? So there's no need to keep things secret even until now. It's tough when you feel like you're...
    Lonely90s Lonely90s 22-25, M May 16

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    Stranger in yourself Have you ever look at a picture of yourself and see a stranger looking back at you?? Have you ever asked yourself if you're life has a meaning? How many...
    tomanyfeeling28 tomanyfeeling28 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Stranger in yourself Have you ever look at a picture of yourself and see a stranger looking back at you?? Have you ever asked yourself if you're life has a meaning? How many...
    tomanyfeeling28 tomanyfeeling28 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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