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I Am Celibate For Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 42 People

    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I believe that God hasn't meant

    for me to be in relationships or have children like everyone else (some may call it the "gift of singleness). I think that I will fulfill my meaning in life (or destiny) by myself. I think that friends come into my life for me to inspire them and help them through something, but...
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F Sep 10, 2014

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    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 45 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 20 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    I am a Christian. I have been one

    for 10 or 11 years. I struggle with same-sex attraction (though I didn't always consider it a struggle). I knew since I was five or six years old, that I was attracted to the same sex in the way that I thought of other males and my interpretation of something. I had no idea what...
    AaronForever91 AaronForever91 22-25, M May 29

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    I too have felt that my whole life is some kind of dream and sometimes I wonder "whose is it?" and "are they enjoying it?"
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    Remind yourself everyday that life is good and eventually the pain will pass. Life is happening right now, and there's no reason to waste more days feeling sad about the past.
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    For most of my life, I have carried around what feels like a deep, dark secret. I grew up without knowing what it feels like to have a loving mother. When I was a child, I had...
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    I've spent the majority of my day traveling to ready for a Monday morning meeting. Sitting in my hotel room, I was thinking of how my life has changed over the last years. Not just...
    nomoreteeth nomoreteeth 66-70, M 1 hr ago

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    My wife and I chose some years ago to live free lifestyle. The most important thing was to ensure we always kept the other informed of our activities. The result has been a growth...
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    When my grandfather was dying, he asked all three of his grandchildren to come into the ICU, one at a time, so he could talk to us. Among other things (don't drink--he was sure...
    jnewcastle jnewcastle 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm Tired of my life because i want to do so many things but I can't do it. I am doing bachelors in film making, I am a movie freak nothing is more important for me than movies and...
    Sahir94 Sahir94 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    Again... I've got a lot going on... But it was sooooo nice to chat with my guy again tonight & get a better sense that yes, he is for real. *sigh*
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    I feel like I could have everything I ever wanted, my dream life, and I still wouldn't feel satisfied. Maybe I would, but I think my restlessness is something different. Its not...
    reenab29 reenab29 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I appreciate the little things in life. A beautiful day outside, with just the right amount of wind,perfect temperature and free to enjoy. No strings attached! A special note on...
    Susiedisney Susiedisney 56-60, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I'm not sure how I can really go about doing this but I'm officially up for adoption. My name is Zana Elise Walker I'm 16 years old from Indiana. I recently got out of an abusive...
    Zanaphobia Zanaphobia 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Preferably a beautiful serial killer. That is my one wish in this life.
    Nyx935 Nyx935 22-25, M 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I know in one side it's my fault, but I often feel like I don't deserve all of this. I always had problems relating to people and I used to spend time doing math, I decided I...
    Mmarta24 Mmarta24 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    "What we do in life, echoes in eternity.." Great film, great quote.
    PickledPete PickledPete 51-55, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Life is never what it seems ...
    Livit Livit 46-50, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Throwing my phone out of the window is like throwing your old life away and want to buy new one. But right now I pretty much want to throw my phone away and start a buy a new one.
    SarahDotCom SarahDotCom 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    How do I forget the image in my heart. Though now its etched with pain yet still alive. Breathtaking is my loneliness.. A piercing pain prevails in the countless hours of day and...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 6 hrs ago

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    No, I am not perfect. However I do accept responsibility for my actions committed in my life. I have made many mistakes in my life and own up to them and correct them immediately...
    amberbethcoed amberbethcoed 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I just really ******* hate this life.. I haven't done anything wrong, plus i never meant to exist.. I never meant for my parents to meet.. I really didn't mean it.. I just want all...
    xXGothicAngelxx xXGothicAngelxx 16-17, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they...
    Brendon840 Brendon840 36-40, M 8 hrs ago

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    A loan gives you access to the cash you need today, and lets you repay those funds over a period of time. In exchange for this convenience, you'll need to pay extra fees in the...
    daqgroup daqgroup 31-35, M 10 hrs ago

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    As this week comes to a close, I reflect on the hardships and what ifs. Realizing that molded paths can't be changed, but new ones always can be created. It's ok to look back and...
    hunterw0lf hunterw0lf 41-45, M 11 hrs ago

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    i like to live asimple life and not complicate it ..like simple friends who understand me i understand them here and offline..i talk straigh like people to do the same..
    romell romell 41-45, M 13 hrs ago

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    Today I've been asleep until midday got up went straight to fridge got food stood there for like ten minutes then just came back to bed to go to sleep and Ye this is basically...
    owen2341 owen2341 16-17, M 14 hrs ago

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    I broke up with my boyfriend he was my Best Friend most of my life he came out last week and asked me out 2 days ago, yesterday was probs the worst day of my life we were at the...
    SpiritOfOrpheus SpiritOfOrpheus 16-17, M 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Too Old to remember too Young to forget.... Too Young to stay but too Old to cast away. Like time ticking quickly but you know it is here to stay. No wonder Old sport...
    AbdallahJO AbdallahJO 26-30, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    im a broken person..im sad im depressed im lost..im an absolute loser im pathetic...death is the only option...i must die to get this feeling out of me ..i dont deserve anything im...
    LegendBattles LegendBattles 26-30, M 15 hrs ago

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    Why? Please some take a moment to read and be honest. What's the point in taking a 14 year old girls virginity, having her devote her life to you, lie, beg, and bribe for you...
    therainberry therainberry 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    Today i got this craxy idea to ask for a personhand in maariage with me, some how i feel he is good person for me , but then o dont knw things are different in his side. i got this...
    wal2441 wal2441 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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