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I Am Celibate For Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 41 People

    Gain Strenght By Staying Chaste...

      It has been a few months since I made the the choice.... At first it was a struggle. First month I redirected energy to exercise. After the second montth, I begain to exercise more, but without any sexual redirect. I started becoming modet, feeling that a special part...
    rjj03 rjj03 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight

    Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing Celibacy" by William Skudlarek. About six years ago I chose to sleep in a different room from my wife. Her deteriorating health required the use...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    The Road Less Traveled

    I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really nothing unique about this. Despite what you may have heard, everyone is not doing it, and there are more Virgins around than you...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 20 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Virgin Forever

    I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 45 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Finally...

    Finally, after several tiring rounds of searching on the internet, I see that I am not alone! Finally I can read and share stories about this! I was beginning to feel like the last freak on the bloc. (Not that we're freaks.) But you know how it goes, especially for a young person...
    SienSeta SienSeta 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    I believe that God hasn't meant

    for me to be in relationships or have children like everyone else (some may call it the "gift of singleness). I think that I will fulfill my meaning in life (or destiny) by myself. I think that friends come into my life for me to inspire them and help them through something, but...
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F Sep 10, 2014

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    Right Or Wrong?

    I'm 38, been with my partner 23 years, married 13 years. The choice not to have sex just seem to creep up on me nearly a year ago. No kissing or any contact. I feel empowerd by it. Not that sex is bad or anything like that as I used to enjoy it. Just for me it has helped me...
    knowmyownmind knowmyownmind 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Celebacy

    I am 49 years old and up until a few years ago was an ordinary man with ordinary needs. I was married and have two children.A few years ago, I left a good wife who I love for another, much younger  woman, who I also love. I'm not ashamed of anything I have done in this regard as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Well, Not Really

    I am not really celibate for life.  I'm not really totally celibate right now.  But I've never seen how sex is so all fired great as people say it is.  I don't understand people who act like they  have to have sex or they're going to die.  I was married for seventeen years...
    queenv60 queenv60 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    By Choice, Sort Of

    I'm a 33-year-old virgin. Sometimes I feel like I'm the oldest virgin I know. It's great to see there are others here like me. Coming to the decision to live a celibate life was something I came to gradually. I'm gay, and have a pretty healthy libido, but losing my virginity...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    New Here

    hello  im  new  here    and i  hate   sex !!!!!!     i  just   can   not  stand  it    im so   glad i  found this  site and im  not the  only  one    
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    I am not ready to take my exam tomorrow :'( Im really confused because there are lots of things to digest.
    avienavie avienavie 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    just finshed my exam but I theres more to come next week :'( I am so stressed :'(
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    It's not that I'm against getting married. I think I hope to one day. But I'm okay if that doesn't happen. I want it, but I don't NEED it. It's unfortunate that in our culture one...
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    Several times a month, Online for Life shares stories of lives saved with our dynamic Facebook community. Inevitably, we’ll then hear from pro-abortion supporters who accuse us...
    jopava jopava 56-60, M Mar 6

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    I spend four years of my life with the mental health services in the uk and I could have even given more years but I decided to engage myself from the services after they...
    Soullesss Soullesss 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    The crash of meteors on early Earth likely generated hydrogen cyanide, which could have kick-started the production of biomolecules needed to make the first cells. The origin of...
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    You and I both know the abortion lobby will do whatever it takes to convince women that their unborn baby is “just tissue.” But ultrasounds get in the way of that narrative...
    jopava jopava 56-60, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Today I have seen a tv record series ,describing workers in cotton factory in China ,my country ! I did not care workers often in here,but this tv show made me feel stunned ,and...
    Farmerwork Farmerwork 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    This goes out to this one single person on the other side of the earth to whom I've been chatting with for weeks now. Weeks. It sounds so strange, because to me it seems like it's...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 6

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    I hate myself for it but i do it everyday I leave for work, hold open doors, and wish everyone a good morning with a smile When the truth is i feel like id be better off dead im a...
    TheLastOfMe TheLastOfMe 22-25, M Mar 13

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    Pro life is for life. Not for slaves. Or for greed. Or for criticism of the less blessed.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 20

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    Let me begin with introducing myself as a decent good looking gay guy from mumbai whoz looking for a life partner. I am choosing this platform to do so, as the conventional methods...
    rshah1987 rshah1987 22-25 5 days ago

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    Let me begin with introducing myself as a decent good looking gay guy from mumbai whoz looking for a life partner. I am choosing this platform to do so, as the conventional methods...
    rshah1987 rshah1987 22-25 5 days ago

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    Grateful for LIFE... I have a second chance at life and eternally THANKFUL... Gratitude always...
    TouchaSoul TouchaSoul 31-35, F Mar 13

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    After being with my husband for 23 years and married 14 of them, one child who is 12. I am at the point that I am not happy, he is here physically but emotionally I can't find...
    littlefroghere littlefroghere 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 1

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    Anyone wants to just communicate about anything? You don't have to want a response or give a response. Just exchange frustrations, wishes, feelings, anything. Like blogging. For...
    one2talk one2talk 31-35 7 Responses Mar 1

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    Fight For Life. Fight For Love. Never would I want to fight but doesn't mean I would not. Being depressed or the mental issues I have had have always been a fight so to truly find...
    Lugelogistics93 Lugelogistics93 18-21, M Mar 5

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    My boyfriend is incarcerated and I am being celibate until he comes home, I love him that much
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    I want to warn people strongly: stay on the paths already paved in tradition or stay on the ONE path you have chosen and do not let anyone kick you off it. I can not stress this...
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks 41-45, F 14 hrs ago

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    The hardest thing in my life is dealing with my alcoholic father. He's been an alcoholic since I was born, but from what I've been told, he was not like this before. Quite the...
    n0stradamus n0stradamus 18-21, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I'm back to wonder again what's the point of it all. We spend all our days working for money and our nights just finding ways to pass the time. Spend time with people who mean...
    alyssakayart alyssakayart 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Oh, the words to describe celibacy...Well for one it's different than abstinence and doesn't mean my body is now magically defunct of all sexual feeling, for starters...
    JanelleBelle JanelleBelle 22-25, F Mar 18

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    Just enought of this! I made a decition today, im gonna take the PSU (a very important test on my country) to study the next year. Im sick of my life so im gonna change it, im...
    Mysorrow Mysorrow 18-21, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Hi I want to update you on my recent news at the supported housing for adults with mental health issues ..as I walked into the staff office yesterday morning to tell the support...
    Powerlesss Powerlesss 31-35, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I grew up in the Upper Penn. of Mich. my whole life. It's a beautiful area full of lakes and forests. There is a bounty of animal life every where you turn. During the last part...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 11 hrs ago

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    This is not about some kind of weird fantasy. To me it would be all about the intense bond between woman and man. I want this deeply at the middle of my lifetime. It exists in this...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 19 hrs ago

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    I believe that when you look at me you would think that I'm a normal happy teenager. That love music and books, that have a really silly style :P I wish I was. But I'm far from...
    Rourou19 Rourou19 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    crap..... got all excited.... thought this was the "looking for the moaning of your life group...... *scowls*
    SvveetKiester SvveetKiester 41-45, F 6 Responses 1 hr ago

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    The biggest mistake I've made in my life was doing cocain I thought I was an addict and I just loved it forgot about the real things which was my friends and family but thanks to...
    LuisB3344 LuisB3344 18-21, M 7 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Getting told to kill your self everyday and then people saying I'm looking for attention because I want help but no one can be ****** to if anyone can help please do it's getting...
    holliewollie200 holliewollie200 13-15, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    ... or actually basically always. But I try hard not to show it. The truth is: I feel ashamed for not being loved. I feel ashamed for living alone, without a loving partner...
    ElonaElona ElonaElona 41-45, F 3 Responses