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I Am Celibate

No Sex Please, We're Frigid! 559 People

    I am 40 years of age.

    I have a great job with many awards given by my colleagues and peers. Many recognize me as an expert in my field. I own my house, have my own car, and pay my bills on time. I am quite capable as a lover and have a healthy sex drive. Despite all this I have developed a deep...
    lovingrestraint lovingrestraint 36-40, M 1 Response May 1

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    By choice, because I am Christian

    and not married. I have a boyfriend and don't flirt with anyone else. It's his choice to be celibate before marriage too. We have the same beliefs.
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 21, 2014

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    3 years and running..

    . I refuse to sleep around until marriage( again) although sometimes I do tease men but that's all they're gonna get and nothing more. I guess that's the sadist part of me but if a guy can't respect my decision to wait then he's not worth my time.
    CantankerousBabe CantankerousBabe 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    Above Natural and Beyond Ethical

    I am 31 and have been celibate for over 10yrs. I have no expectation of renouncing my commitment. Although I have numerous philosophical and practical reasons (not due to lack of opportunity) I must admit that I felt a personal calling from God. When I first was called...
    chromaticone chromaticone 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    Trying Celibacy

    I have a very addictive personality. The internet is a crutch to act out all of my bad habits 90 % of the time I am surfing for inappropriate images of a sexual nature. I guess the main reasons are: bordom, its also a way of procrastinating, self-righteous justification...
    davidreid014 davidreid014 41-45 5 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    18 years and counting.

    although I really love having something beautiful and sacred to believe in, you never know where the road will take you. ⭐️
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 2 Responses May 10

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    Although I have an extremely high sex drive.

    . I'm a nymphomaic.. I'd admit that.. I vowed to not have sex unless it's with my husband. I've learned to love myself and not treat myself as if I'm just another mans token. I also have his huge phobia of getting an STD OR HIV... Even with protected sex. I have plenty of toys...
    Barbiedoll89 Barbiedoll89 22-25, F 7 Responses May 9

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    Change For The Better

    I have been celibate for 15 months now, and frankly it has been a change for the better.I feel better for it, and have a clearer headspace as a result.I think I will be a better man when this changes but I'm not in any hurry
    changedman changedman 46-50, M 6 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    Today marks the 200th day

    and this morning has been a little testing. It's not necessarily about me trying to stop myself from having sex, it's about me sticking to and developing standards for myself. Both of my sexual encounters were with guys I slept with on the first date. I wanted to. I was...
    ChangingKarma ChangingKarma 26-30, F Feb 20

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    That means no cyber stuff either.

    If anyone starts playing with themselves while texting me, I can sense it very strongly. Those things don't look nice when you bring them out to play. I understand that people get lonely and they want some human warmth to help them **** off, and their personal beliefs allow...
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup 36-40, F 3 Responses May 12, 2014

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    My story is similar to others in this group.

    I had a bad break up. It changed my life. Made me realize that I had to focus on myself for a while. I've basically almost always had boyfriends once it became an option.lol. Have spent very little time in my life single. At first it was really hard, because I have always had a...
    sleepingbeauty13 sleepingbeauty13 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    I love celibacy, but honestly I wish I was

    asexual. It would make things so much easier.
    MattA14 MattA14 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I had to learn the hard way.

    .. So many men will do practically ANYTHING for a steady stream of good sex. They will stick around. They will buy you things. They will call everyday. They will cook for you. They will even move in with you. They'll do all these things and when you ask for something like a...
    LovelyLadyJ LovelyLadyJ 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I am celibate because I feel like only bad

    karma comes from having sex when you feel like it's too early, or you're not in love with that person. It's about respecting myself, and waiting for someone who's worth my time, effort, mind, soul, and body. I won't just use up my body for a few minutes of pleasure.
    lilhopie60 lilhopie60 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    I have been celibate all my life.

    32 years. I would like to find a Boyfriend to change that.
    momonyc momonyc 31-35, F May 1

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    I am really keen to start this celibacy thing.

    It's weird, I am not asexual, I have sexual urges and attraction to the opposite sex, but acting on these bring me know joy and make me feel so much worse about myself. My current girlfriend is a nympho and will no doubt end he relationship once I decide to be celibate. I'm not...
    MattA14 MattA14 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I recently decided to become celibate.

    I was living with my boyfriend but I moved out. I want to be a committed follower of Jesus. Since my ex-boyfriend is Atheist and we have different views I made a very difficult choice of breaking up with him. I don't want to be intimate with anyone until marriage. I also don't...
    JazzyWriter91 JazzyWriter91 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2014

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    Failed with the celibacy,

    yes it was short lived. It wasn't out of wanting to fail. I have no idea how to break up with my girlfriend, I have dug myself a huge hole. And I can't with old sex from here without her thinking something is wrong. This is so hard.
    MattA14 MattA14 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    Why I Am Celibate

    I am celibate for spiritual and natural reasons. It is very dangerous out there and when I get the urge to have sex, this is what I do. Other than PRAY, I tend to face the facts. (shudders) There are many STDs (STIs) and I took the time to do some research and list them for you...
    iLightBeing iLightBeing 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    It's been almost 6 months.

    It's been hard bc I like sex... but I believe it's worth it. I've been thinking about getting some toys though. 😏
    LovelyLadyJ LovelyLadyJ 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F a week ago

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    Going on three months of the celibate life.

    At first it was a breakup, then I realized I have far too much going on in my life. I'm starting to really get to know myself well. At 25 I may be a little late to the party, but hey better late than never. I also really started exploring Buddhism and the precepts that go along...
    DancesWithUnicorns DancesWithUnicorns 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Oh, the words to describe celibacy.

    ..Well for one it's different than abstinence and doesn't mean my body is now magically defunct of all sexual feeling, for starters...
    JanelleBelle JanelleBelle 22-25, F Mar 18

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    I'm Broken And I Don't Know If I Can Be Fixed

    I have a messed-up relationship with sex. My mother had a string of men going in and out of her bedroom, and I was molested by several of them. I became promiscuous at a young age and equated sex with worth. When I was homeless I was a prostitute, and learned how to use my vagina...
    cephaloscotti cephaloscotti 26-30, F 6 Responses May 14, 2012

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    Celibate For Now...

    I used to be in a marriage. It ended 2 and a half years ago just before our 21 anniversary. Since then I have been celibate by choice. No hugging, kissing, holding hands, dating, touching or even flirting with anybody. I wanted time to work on myself. It was only after the...
    Grieta Grieta 41-45, F 10 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    I have made mistakes before.

    I have been abused and so so anger before. That is not the life I know that would be right for me. Being celibate until marriage is something that I have vowed to God and myself.
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F a week ago

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    I have been celibate

    for 188 days. I have only slept with two men. The guy I lost my virginity to (literally one pump) and my real first experience with a guy I was seeing during my time abroad. It was difficult because I'm still very tight but I'm trying to be a better Christian and pray God...
    ChangingKarma ChangingKarma 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    On Purpose

    I write this story, not to sexualize myself even further, because I feel that I already do that too much on this website..... I write this story to show you who the real Brittany is, "behind the curtain", so to speak. I get on this site and speak sexually often, and I do so to...
    foldedunfolding foldedunfolding 31-35, F 44 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    What do the dolls have to do with anything?

    They make celibate people look crazy! Lol
    Midnightheart Midnightheart 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    Sex Rocks, But...

    It complicates things entirely too much.  And right now, in my life, I really do not need complication.  I need simple.  So giving up sex is one way to do that.  Sort of.  It's not easy.  Especially since there is one person that I very much enjoy having sex with.  But sex...
    aranarose aranarose 31-35 2 Responses May 2, 2011

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    I am celibate because I am saving myself

    for marriage. My sins and past have been washed away. 3 years of sexual purity.. ☺️
    spreadthelove22 spreadthelove22 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 3, 2014

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    I am celibate by choice

    and it is a very easy choice because I'm not attractive and I'm not attracted to anyone. Although I'm not a virgin, I want to wait until I get married. I think that people in my age group/peers don't get that, as they all embrace the sex culture. Therefore, I don't feel...
    thedeadprincess thedeadprincess 22-25, F Feb 10

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    I Believe In Celibacy

    Yes, That's true and I am not crazy. I am a perfectly normal and healthy 22 yrs old guy. I don't know why I think like that, but I find it very cheap and animal-like. Animals know no self - restraint. but Man is different. He is capable of taking wise decisions. However, I...
    Titan007 Titan007 22-25, M 8 Responses May 18, 2010

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    Why I Am Celibate

    Here is my story, i will be speaking openly and honestly and maybe somehow someone can benefit from it. I was married to a lovely woman, we had lots in common, we were basically best friends but we got divorced after 8 years. The main reason for this was because i had become...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 21 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    218 days today since I last had sex

    and I am becoming a sexually frustrated. I don't want to act on it and have sex but I think about it a lot. Even if I could just lick a... Oh God have mercy on me. I pray these lustful thoughts go away very soon!
    ChangingKarma ChangingKarma 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    For almost 4 years. Only

    until recently have I been struggling with it. Either I'm a ho or I do absolutely NOTHING. There is zero in between. Zero chill.
    ImJustHereTho ImJustHereTho 26-30, F Jul 30, 2014

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    I Have Been Celibate For A Year Now.

    It was never intended, though I have made myself commit to celibacy at a couple of occasions, but I never made pass the 6 months mark. But I guess things happens, and you change in ways that is unexpected. I used to think I could never go without - as I have always been in...
    watchfulsoul watchfulsoul 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 7, 2010

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    I am so sick of people telling me I am pretty

    and there is no need for me to be single. MY singledom is my choice, just like your dead end relationships are your choice. I am celibate because I got sick and tired of living my life by someone elses rules, it would take an awful lot for me to break my celibacy, in a way I...
    UnderTheBodhiTree UnderTheBodhiTree 31-35, F 14 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Married For 3 Years Without Sex

    Neither of us intend to do it. It would turn the balance of our relation upside down, what was normal would become awkward. And i would lose my best friend. You do not need sex to feel love or to know how important your partner is to you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    I Am Happy With My Celibacy!

    I am currently Celibate. I've been Celibate for three years now. It's a life style choice I decided to make after my most recent ex. The relationship wasn't abusive, but it was a bunch of b.s. But that is an experience for another group. Part of my decision to be Celibate...
    MissVenom MissVenom 22-25, F 5 Responses May 6, 2010

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    So Far...

    Im 22yrs. I am single, no kids, never been married. automatically someone might think okay, whats wrong with this one. Well, the reason why I am still single is because im celibate. I'm not a virgin, but just because I'm not doesn't give me an excuse to throw my body everywhere...
    Christianruby Christianruby 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 4, 2012

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    14 Years and Counting

    I have been completely celibate for 14 years now (1993).  That means I was celibate for the entire decade of my 20s!  A pretty rare feat, I believe!  I totally disagree with the byline for this group.  I am in no way, shape, or form "frigid"!  I...
    neptuneboy neptuneboy 31-35, M 12 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    I don't know, I think I hate s3x now

    and I can't stand dating. The single-track mind of the typical modern male has exacerbated my latent disgust and unhealthy views towards s3x, body positivity, romance, etc because of past sxual abuse in my childhood. Most men don't know that arousal can happen regardless of...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Jan 31

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    hi! i think what u guys r doing is great.

    i myself am still a virgin and am proud of that. im also waiting til marriage. i even wrote a song about it called "i'm a prude" . stay strong u guys! 
    krembo83 krembo83 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Since 2011... and I'm turning 29 in a month!

    I had a real nice story but it got deleted. Sigh, maybe I"ll re write it later. In short I'm CELIABTE! ----- 7/7/14 Updated ----- So the reason I am celibate is because I had my virginity taken from me. I didn't have a say, I was introduce to "sex" at a very young age...
    MysticBeauty MysticBeauty 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    Its The Best Time Of My Life.

    I have taken a life long vow of celibacy and no relationships. To be honest I dont miss sex at all. Dont get me wrong I like people but its having power over the mind and will for me. I have learned how to switch off the attraction button where I can look at the opposite sex that...
    craig2012 craig2012 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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