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I Am Celibate

No Sex Please, We're Frigid! 470 People

    Considering Celibacy At Twenty-eight - Twenty-eight years I've been married and now I am considering celibacy. Why? To help me discern the whys I am reading "Demythologizing...
    forthetimebeing forthetimebeing 51-55, M Sep 25, 2012

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    I Am Happy With My Celibacy! - I am currently Celibate. I've been Celibate for three years now. It's a life style choice I decided to make after my most recent ex. The...
    MissVenom MissVenom 22-25, F 5 Responses May 6, 2010

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    My Body Is My Temple!!! - I am a 27 yo seperated mother of 3, so of course I am not a virgin. I am going through a divorce, which will be finalized in a month tops, and have chosen...
    singlemom85 singlemom85 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Seventeen Months - Over the course of my lifetime I have shed more tears than many due to a variety of unpleasant circumstances. When I analyze these circumstances I realize what...
    heartprotection heartprotection 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    So Far... - Im 22yrs. I am single, no kids, never been married. automatically someone might think okay, whats wrong with this one. Well, the reason why I am still single is because...
    Christianruby Christianruby 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 4, 2012

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    4 Years And Counting - So yeah, 4 years and counting I have been celibate. 4 years since I've even dated to be honest. There's several reasons why I am walking this path per se...
    Lemartes Lemartes 31-35, M Jul 17, 2013

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    I Refuse To Have Sex - I will never have sex again. I am healthy and have a normal sex drive. I hate sex more than anything else, though. I am married and have not had any sexual...
    gurg gurg 36-40 8 Responses Jun 14, 2011

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    Want It Again? - sex is great, wonderful and all that but when that's all you're getting from men, it loses it's appeal. at least it did for me. i would love to have a sexual...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 18 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Sex Rocks, But... - It complicates things entirely too much.  And right now, in my life, I really do not need complication.  I need simple.  So giving up sex is one way to do...
    aranarose aranarose 31-35 2 Responses May 2, 2011

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    Becoming Celibate Again - I lost my virginity to my now ex husband when I was 20 years old.. We have one child together. we have been separated for about 2 years now and our...
    hiswife1119 hiswife1119 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    I Believe In Celibacy - Yes, That's true and I am not crazy. I am a perfectly normal and healthy 22 yrs old guy. I don't know why I think like that, but I find it very cheap and...
    Titan007 Titan007 22-25, M 8 Responses May 18, 2010

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    I Am Still Celibate - I had serious issues growing up including bullying from females too and etc so I may have a different view and my reasons for being celibate. I am socially...
    Vinnie01 Vinnie01 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 9, 2013

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    I am celibate because I am saving myself for marriage. My sins and past have been washed away. 3 years of sexual purity.. ☺️
    spreadthelove22 spreadthelove22 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    Its The Best Time Of My Life. - I have taken a life long vow of celibacy and no relationships. To be honest I dont miss sex at all. Dont get me wrong I like people but its having...
    craig2012 craig2012 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    Celibacy: Path to Enlightenment or Denial of Humanity? - Celibacy, from a religious or spiritual point of view, appears to be the right choice for many unmarried and idealistic...
    GrownGirlUp GrownGirlUp 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    No Room For Festus - What with 15 cats in the bed even if I was thinkin(winkin) the place is a stinkin!!!
    festusgreedy festusgreedy 66-70, M 2 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    Not Frigid - I've been celebate for several years. Nothing planned. No overwhelming religious reasons other than not feeling the need to sleep with everyone I meet. I been down...
    yogababy yogababy 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    Stop Now` - You guys are missing out, Its not worth Waiting!!!! Its Amazing!
    AnonEthers AnonEthers 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    On Purpose - I write this story, not to sexualize myself even further, because I feel that I already do that too much on this website..... I write this story to show you who the...
    foldedunfolding foldedunfolding 26-30, F 39 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    Honestly I was always been under estimate by women's I never had physical relation or social relation with woman I never loved by anyone so I choose to be celibate or not a looser...
    Heavyheaven Heavyheaven 18-21, M Dec 29, 2013

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    Hate Men - Men have done terrible things to me
    EnglishEmpress EnglishEmpress 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    Going On 6 Years - I became celibate almost 6 years ago.  I noticed that I was separating sex and relationships and decided that I wanted more so I closed my legs and opened...
    jaytyeah jaytyeah 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Precious. - Not until I get married. My future husband is a lucky guy, I guess :)
    LynnAuditore LynnAuditore 22-25, F Oct 12, 2012

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    He Said I Was Broken! - I am so freaking fed up right now. I have been celibate for 8 years. Granted it was never my intention but hey it is what it is and I have no regrets. It...
    valadybug valadybug 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    Being in a celebrate relationship is not that hard anymore. Kissing is the only sexual thing we do, seriously, oh and cuddling and holding hands, and that's it. At times, we have...
    Sistahsky Sistahsky 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    Celibate For Now... - I used to be in a marriage. It ended 2 and a half years ago just before our 21 anniversary. Since then I have been celibate by choice. No hugging, kissing...
    Grieta Grieta 41-45, F 10 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Please Don't Laugh... - I know, I know... you're probably thinking, "Who frickin asked you! TMI!" lol. But since others are sharing, I want to add something here too. Yes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    I am celibate because I feel like only bad karma comes from having sex when you feel like it's too early, or you're not in love with that person. It's about respecting myself, and...
    lilhopie60 lilhopie60 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    14 Years and Counting - I have been completely celibate for 14 years now (1993).  That means I was celibate for the entire decade of my 20s!  A pretty rare feat, I...
    neptuneboy neptuneboy 31-35, M 12 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    Social Impairment And Celibacy - I'm a 19 y/o straight male, art student, and I don't want to ever lose my virginity. I have been in love platonically many times, and I have...
    astrobnoxious astrobnoxious 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 15, 2013

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    Celibacy In Relationships - On Christmas it will be my one year anniversary of the day I decided to become celibate. It's been a hard process but soooo very rewarding and an...
    breathehopeinme breathehopeinme 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    That Must Be Me, Too - I have not had sex. I am 31 and I have never had, nor plan to have sexual intercourse. Being Eclectic Wiccan, I selected to give my virginity to the Goddess...
    AgilePhoenix AgilePhoenix 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2012

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    Me Too! - I'm just emerging from a chaotic lifestyle, rebuilding while thinking about the past, seeing a therapist etc I'm also on medication for moods. For 3 years now I've been...
    thisnotthat thisnotthat 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2008

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    Where Im At Now - When I was younger I didn't have a healthy understanding about sex. I saw sex as a toy and I figured everyone else saw it as a game as well. I shortly found out...
    breathehopeinme breathehopeinme 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

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    Change For The Better - I have been celibate for 15 months now, and frankly it has been a change for the better.I feel better for it, and have a clearer headspace as a result...
    changedman changedman 46-50, M 6 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    Celibacy is not that you don't have sex. basically it's applies in your thoughts and any fantasy of having sex can break you celibacy even desiring of any **** image is break of...
    Heavyheaven Heavyheaven 18-21, M Dec 28, 2013

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    How Do You Stay Strong - I was recently celibate for 1yr and 3 months. I had sex twice this year and I think it's horrible. I really enjoyed being celibate but I somehow got...
    singulargirl singulargirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2013

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    Ups And Downs - I chose to remain celibate until marriage when I was 25 and a half. I am a very introverted man but I am very gregarious at the same time as I enjoy a lot good...
    StillasWater StillasWater 31-35, M Jan 11, 2013

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    Maybe There's Something Wrong - I am 26 years old and have been physically celebate for 7 years now. At first, I had a good reason to be and now, I'm wondering if I'm starting to...
    ByungHee ByungHee 26-30, M 5 Responses May 29, 2013

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    By choice, because I am Christian and not married. I have a boyfriend and don't flirt with anyone else. It's his choice to be celibate before marriage too. We have the same...
    Buckley4U Buckley4U 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 21

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    I recently decided to become celibate. I was living with my boyfriend but I moved out. I want to be a committed follower of Jesus. Since my ex-boyfriend is Atheist and we have...
    JazzyWriter91 JazzyWriter91 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Is This As Good As It Gets? - So needless to say things with "Mr. You're Broken" didn't work out. And now I find myself all alone again. No surprise there. I am so frustrated with...
    valadybug valadybug 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2012

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    Not By Choice - Celibate yes, by choice, no. Its been over 12 years since i have had sexual intercourse. I have only ever paid for sex, never been with someone who actually wanted...
    2 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    The Road Less Traveled. - I have been chaste my entire life. I have not had sex of any kind whatsoever -- I’m a Virgin in the true sense of the word. There is really...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 15 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Why I Am Celibate - Here is my story, i will be speaking openly and honestly and maybe somehow someone can benefit from it. I was married to a lovely woman, we had lots in common...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 16 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    I Have Been Celibate For A Year Now. - It was never intended, though I have made myself commit to celibacy at a couple of occasions, but I never made pass the 6 months mark. But...
    watchfulsoul watchfulsoul 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 7, 2010

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    Married For 3 Years Without Sex - Neither of us intend to do it. It would turn the balance of our relation upside down, what was normal would become awkward. And i would lose my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Above Natural and Beyond Ethical - I am 31 and have been celibate for over 10yrs. I have no expectation of renouncing my commitment. Although I have numerous...
    chromaticone chromaticone 26-30, M 5 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    Trying Celibacy - I have a very addictive personality. The internet is a crutch to act out all of my bad habits 90 % of the time I am surfing for inappropriate images of a sexual...
    davidreid014 davidreid014 41-45 5 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    Wanting To Be A Virgin For Life - I'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a...
    tyc113 tyc113 18-21 11 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    I am so sick of people telling me I am pretty and there is no need for me to be single. MY singledom is my choice, just like your dead end relationships are your choice. I am...
    UnderTheBodhiTree UnderTheBodhiTree 31-35, F 19 Responses Jan 24

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    I'm Broken And I Don't Know If I Can Be Fixed - I have a messed-up relationship with sex. My mother had a string of men going in and out of her bedroom, and I was molested by...
    cephaloscotti cephaloscotti 26-30, F 6 Responses May 14, 2012

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