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I Am Cheating On My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 117 People

    If She Doesnt Cheat I Dont Want Her

    Most guys think I'm nuts that having a **** addicted cumslut for a wife or girlfriend is an absolute requirement if I am to get serious and possibly fall in love with her. If my woman's sexual appetite could be satiated by ******* only me then she is not for me! I want my lover...
    NJsltlvr NJsltlvr 46-50 3 Responses Nov 8, 2011

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    This May Be The End

    The night stared out so innocent, drinks with my lovely sister at our favourite bar. She left and I met up with other people I knew and stayed. My friend Ashley met a couple of guys, and as we were leaving invited them back to my place for more drinks and conversation. The one...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    Cheating On My Husband With His Bestfriend

    I am so embarassed to even share this story knowing that it wont even stop it. Me and my husband have been together for 7 years, and married for a little over a month. A month before we got married I had been faithful to him, but when I found out he had been cheating on me for...
    hmwilde hmwilde 18-21 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    What Am I Doing??

    Here is my story. I am married to an amazingly charming man. We have been fooling the, whole world by pretending too be perfect for the past 25 years. We have 2 college aged children. We have been through just about everything. Except me having.an affair.( he won't admit to his...
    leoleo1 leoleo1 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2013

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    My Experience

    So ill try to make this short. I have been with my husband for 5 years and i cant say i have been faithful for more then 2 months. I cant help it. Right now i currently have a "boyfriend" We have been seeing eachother for only a few months. its going good, things are still...
    raquelreed raquelreed 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Cheating On My Husband

    Ive been married for 18years and have 17year old twins. I have a good husband, hes decent to me and I dont believe he would ever hurt me. The problem is me, I just dont find him attractive anymore, when we got married I did. It was like he gave up trying to look nice once we...
    Tiny72 Tiny72 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    Do Not Hesitate

    Usually you think that for your wife it would be a disappointment if he will know that you cheat on him. The result is in a lot of cases that wifes does not tell their husbands if they cheated. But in my opinion there is not need to conceal because of some reasons. Maybe he is...
    alfons16a alfons16a 41-45, M Aug 24, 2011

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    Not Cheating Yet But Pretty Sure I Will

    We've been married for almost 19 years and have 3 great children.  He was my best friend and a great father, awesome husband, very romantic, etc.  Two years ago he was in an accident at work resulting in a high functioning brain injury, but changes in his behavior and...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    I Am Cheating On My Husband With A Man I Went To College With.

    I have known him for more than 26 years. We went to college together and were friends. Nothing sexual, just a good and solid friendship. This is where it gets complicated. At some point in our friendship, I began to fall in love with him. I decided that I needed to tell him...
    vcolerolon vcolerolon 46-50 2 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    What Her Affair Cost My Wife

    Over the course of our 18 year marriage I watched my wife progress from heavy drinker, to problem drinker, to alcoholic. Which of course created a lot of friction in our marriage. She responded by finding someone who would tell her she was wonderful and started an affair. When I...
    cebexp cebexp 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    About a month ago I was at a friends with my husband of almost two years. We had a few drinks, he wanted to leave and I didn't. So he left and continued to text me all night long. We argued and didn't see eye to eye on the issue...he always leaves me wherever we are at if he...
    mama70707 mama70707 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I Need Your Advice

    I am 22 years old. When I was 18 I decided to get married.We´ve been together for 4 years now and although we are OK sexually we argue a lot, almost every day.He is mean to me sometimes and makes me feel like I am worth nothing.Sometimes he is really good and caring but It is...
    ellen22 ellen22 22-25 5 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    New With This Cheating Nonsense!!!

    I have been married for almost 8 years and together for 16 years with two children - my daughter who is 14 and my son who is 12. I have had many ups and down and highs and lows with my husband. He cheated on me back in 2000 - months before we were to get married. That hurt me...
    tracylynn1974 tracylynn1974 36-40 1 Response Jun 15, 2011

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    I Want To Cheat...

    Am marriged for 3years and havent had it since long time, i missed my ******. Cant tell my husband about it as he has tried real hard but still couldnt give it to me. Frustrated so i started looking for stranger, men are mostly attracted to me and i am having fun flirting with...
    Ad0905 Ad0905 22-25 Apr 27, 2011

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    It's Not Enough

    I've been married for 8 years I've got a 8 year old and 4 year twin girls. Sometimes i think my life was so rushed. And now I'm board. So there's a guy that shows the effect ion we all need and swept me off my feet I haven't felt like this for a long time and it is magical. I...
    Gemmz1988 Gemmz1988 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Wtf Am I Doing?!?

    Feeling completely powerless to stop this chain reaction. Went out with a girlfriend this past weekend and saw an old friend from high school that I hadn't seen in 13 years. He looked even cuter than I remembered (I had a crush on him in high school, and he liked me too we just...
    happygirl92812 happygirl92812 31-35 1 Response Oct 4, 2012

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    I Cannot Stop

    I AM MARRIED FIRST OFF---I started talking to men on the internet 6 months ago and met one and from there it has gone down hill I have met two to three men and had sex with them -i feel like its an addiction and I try to stop talking to them but I always revert back into my...
    aligreen123 aligreen123 36-40 9 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    Need An Advice

    I have been married for 15 years, my husband used to be my best friend I could talk to him about everything without the fear of being criticized, he's been comprehensive,I'm 38 and he's 51, after a serious health problems that I had 6 years ago I thought that our relationship got...
    Nad0007 Nad0007 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    I Am Cheating On My Husband With A Co-Worker

    I am cheating on my husband with a younger guy at work. He's 29 and I'm 41 but when we really talked he was surprised I was that age and we hit it off and chatted at work through IM for a few months before we actually took it any further. He said he was into no strings attached...
    DRegretful1 DRegretful1 41-45, F Nov 9, 2013

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    Cheater

    He pursued me daily. We work together and we would flirt. I'm very precocious but that's all I am. Way too afraid to seal the deal. Most men are afraid too. They tease but only to a point. We would talk and text (sext) all the time. One day he asked me over. I was...
    Geechygullah Geechygullah 36-40 1 Response Jun 21, 2011

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    Cheating For A Year

    I have been cheating on my husband of almost 16 years for a year now.  Not really sure what happened, I am having a lot of stress in my life, financial mostly.  I think it pushed me over the edge.  It's  has for the most part been only physical.  Having...
    susieque6735 susieque6735 41-45 Jun 7, 2010

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    My Illicit Affair

    Things have always been tough between me and my husband. He is bipolar and can be a real ******* sometime but I could usually forgive him for that. Lately though he has been very distant and unloving though, meaning that he does Not want to have sex. I had been thinking about...
    StealthMarauder StealthMarauder 31-35, F 13 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Cheating With A Co-Worker

    I cheated on my husband with a younger guy at work. He's 29 and I'm 41 but when we really talked he was surprised I was that age and we hit it off and chatted at work through IM for a few months before we actually took it any further. He said he was into no strings attached...
    DRegretful1 DRegretful1 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Back In Time

    Almost a year ago I started talking to an old friend. We met for drinks and I felt this spark that I had never felt before with him. I have always viewed him as a brother now all of a sudden I am attracted to him physically, we have made love and he touches a part of me that has...
    mochilove mochilove 46-50 Aug 26, 2012

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    Never Thought I'd Do This...

    I've been with my husband for 7 years. Married for 5 and a half. We've had a difficult marriage from the beginning. I believe that he's been unfaithful, but he's denied. In any event... I stayed and tried to put it behind us. Tried many times to work on us, but I feel as...
    Unsure2006 Unsure2006 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2011

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    Help

    I'm 22 and I got married at 20. We have a kid and have been together for 6 years ( married for 2 years). But all We do is fight and he is so lazy. I feel like were two different people.
    codensmommy codensmommy 22-25 Sep 13, 2012

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    I am a 28 year old women

    who has been married for 5 years and have 2 young children together. First of all I never thought i'd be in this situation, in fact, I remember asking myself how anyone could cheat on someone they love. I assure you it happens. I love my husband very much. He is the sweetest...
    sarahnicole415 sarahnicole415 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Cheating

     been cheating on my husband with a friend that i have known for 5 yrs we always talked and but the last few monthes the talking and flirting has gotten more aggressive i have not been happy in my marriage in a long time this is my second marriage my first husband cheated on me...
    smt71 smt71 36-40 May 17, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I have a hard time standing up for myself or confronting my husband on my suspicions about him cheating I feel like he will get mad at me for hacking into his accounts and putting...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    My husband is cheating on me. He placed a password on his phone and quickly erases his messages on his phone. I also caught him exchanging poctures of his genitalia with women on...
    Ihatekermit Ihatekermit 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    I am a stay at home mom that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    I been with my husband a yr and a half we been married for almost a month. About a week ago my husband was acting very wired about his cell phone. It's was always on silence, fast...
    chris760 chris760 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 19

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    My name is Maritza Ramos Maldonado from Clifton Park,N NY and I found out recently my husband Fred is secretly gay and having sex with prostitutes in front of the YMCA where he...
    maritzamaldonado maritzamaldonado 51-55, F Mar 25

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    Today I was washing his clothes and found a note written on a small piece of paper from a woman telling my husband to meet her at a motel room and how much she misses him. How can...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Question: How many of you women apart of this experience group is trying to work on your marriage even with your spouse being unfaithful and why or why not?
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    My husband has been drinking every single day for the last 17 years. I can count on one hand the number of days he has gone without drinking in the last 10 years. Two months ago I...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I am completely lost! I need help! I just ended a 10year marriage...my husband admitted to me that he had been cheating on me since day one of our relationship! We have been...
    ohkeedokee ohkeedokee 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 21

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    Reading all these stories has opened my eyes to how many of us are struggling with such similar problems. I've been married for 4 years. with no kids as i couldn't possibly bare...
    Nutmeg11 Nutmeg11 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Ten days before Christmas my husband of almost 12 years at the time (together almost 18) gave me a kiss, told me he loves me and left to go shopping for me. It was a Sunday night...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    Your husband doing you are out cheating on him,, Is he cheating on you to? Some husband go to the bar,, some just go on a fishing or hunting trip,, Did you every wondering he...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I have read lot's story about the married cheating with a MM ,,, Now what good is that,,,you have a husband at home ,,, or you just like to spread your leg's for every MM that come...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    My dad cheated on my mom with my best friend. I had just made friends with this girl and her husband and children. In the short time I've gotten to know them, I became attached...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I am a 29 year old mother of two who is married to a man who has been self destructing for almost the entire last decade. When we met we were only 19 & I was too naive to see how...
    yogibird85 yogibird85 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been married for 24 years. I have two children in college. My husband doesn not text, call , email or even talk to me. A little background info, his father died last year...
    jobop13 jobop13 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    In august of 2013 my husband cheated on me without warning. I decided to forgive him and we both agreed to work on our marriage. I am the only one in therapy and I'm also taking...
    jennifermarshall0001 jennifermarshall0001 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I just found out my husband has been going into x web site chatrooms starts talking to the girls then exchanges messenger ID's to private chat with them so he can tell them what he...
    sundakat sundakat 36-40, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been with my husband for 30 years. I suspected him of cheating with a co-worker about 5 years ago but just didn't have proof. Two month ago the proof fell in my lap. He got...
    pam6761 pam6761 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    My husband is talking to a girl he cheated on me with ... We've been married for 16 years ... And I don't know what to do ... the conversation was on Facebook and she contacted him...
    AngelinaRosa AngelinaRosa 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    It's not complicated. "Cheating" is the act of sneaking around and doing something that you agreed not to do. So if you said that you would remain physically monogamous with your...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F Apr 10

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    How is cheating alright? Even if you are in a loveless marriage , cheating will never be okay. Do the honourable thing and break it off if you are unhappy. I was called "naive" on...
    AdelaideHayashi AdelaideHayashi 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    So a couple days ago I went on my first vacation with a man ever, my boyfriend of over 1 year. 1 Year 3 months to be exact. The second day of vacation I received a friend request...
    awkward11 awkward11 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I met him at 18 on the second day of college. Started dating a few weeks later, with him cheating on his long-term girlfriend. Broke up several times and got back together because...
    zkjk1112 zkjk1112 26-30, F 1 Response