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I Am Cheating On My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 118 People

    What Her Affair Cost My Wife

    Over the course of our 18 year marriage I watched my wife progress from heavy drinker, to problem drinker, to alcoholic. Which of course created a lot of friction in our marriage. She responded by finding someone who would tell her she was wonderful and started an affair. When I...
    cebexp cebexp 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    I Want To Cheat...

    Am marriged for 3years and havent had it since long time, i missed my ******. Cant tell my husband about it as he has tried real hard but still couldnt give it to me. Frustrated so i started looking for stranger, men are mostly attracted to me and i am having fun flirting with...
    Ad0905 Ad0905 22-25 Apr 27, 2011

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    It's Not Enough

    I've been married for 8 years I've got a 8 year old and 4 year twin girls. Sometimes i think my life was so rushed. And now I'm board. So there's a guy that shows the effect ion we all need and swept me off my feet I haven't felt like this for a long time and it is magical. I...
    Gemmz1988 Gemmz1988 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Need An Advice

    I have been married for 15 years, my husband used to be my best friend I could talk to him about everything without the fear of being criticized, he's been comprehensive,I'm 38 and he's 51, after a serious health problems that I had 6 years ago I thought that our relationship got...
    Nad0007 Nad0007 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    I Am Cheating On My Husband With A Man I Went To College With.

    I have known him for more than 26 years. We went to college together and were friends. Nothing sexual, just a good and solid friendship. This is where it gets complicated. At some point in our friendship, I began to fall in love with him. I decided that I needed to tell him...
    vcolerolon vcolerolon 46-50 2 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Cheating With A Co-Worker

    I cheated on my husband with a younger guy at work. He's 29 and I'm 41 but when we really talked he was surprised I was that age and we hit it off and chatted at work through IM for a few months before we actually took it any further. He said he was into no strings attached...
    DRegretful1 DRegretful1 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I am a 28 year old women

    who has been married for 5 years and have 2 young children together. First of all I never thought i'd be in this situation, in fact, I remember asking myself how anyone could cheat on someone they love. I assure you it happens. I love my husband very much. He is the sweetest...
    sarahnicole415 sarahnicole415 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    If She Doesnt Cheat I Dont Want Her

    Most guys think I'm nuts that having a **** addicted cumslut for a wife or girlfriend is an absolute requirement if I am to get serious and possibly fall in love with her. If my woman's sexual appetite could be satiated by ******* only me then she is not for me! I want my lover...
    NJsltlvr NJsltlvr 46-50 3 Responses Nov 8, 2011

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    This May Be The End

    The night stared out so innocent, drinks with my lovely sister at our favourite bar. She left and I met up with other people I knew and stayed. My friend Ashley met a couple of guys, and as we were leaving invited them back to my place for more drinks and conversation. The one...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    I Am Cheating On My Husband With A Co-Worker

    I am cheating on my husband with a younger guy at work. He's 29 and I'm 41 but when we really talked he was surprised I was that age and we hit it off and chatted at work through IM for a few months before we actually took it any further. He said he was into no strings attached...
    DRegretful1 DRegretful1 41-45, F Nov 9, 2013

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    New With This Cheating Nonsense!!!

    I have been married for almost 8 years and together for 16 years with two children - my daughter who is 14 and my son who is 12. I have had many ups and down and highs and lows with my husband. He cheated on me back in 2000 - months before we were to get married. That hurt me...
    tracylynn1974 tracylynn1974 36-40 1 Response Jun 15, 2011

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    Cheating

     been cheating on my husband with a friend that i have known for 5 yrs we always talked and but the last few monthes the talking and flirting has gotten more aggressive i have not been happy in my marriage in a long time this is my second marriage my first husband cheated on me...
    smt71 smt71 36-40 May 17, 2012

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    Cheater

    He pursued me daily. We work together and we would flirt. I'm very precocious but that's all I am. Way too afraid to seal the deal. Most men are afraid too. They tease but only to a point. We would talk and text (sext) all the time. One day he asked me over. I was...
    Geechygullah Geechygullah 36-40 1 Response Jun 21, 2011

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    Not Cheating Yet But Pretty Sure I Will

    We've been married for almost 19 years and have 3 great children.  He was my best friend and a great father, awesome husband, very romantic, etc.  Two years ago he was in an accident at work resulting in a high functioning brain injury, but changes in his behavior and...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Back In Time

    Almost a year ago I started talking to an old friend. We met for drinks and I felt this spark that I had never felt before with him. I have always viewed him as a brother now all of a sudden I am attracted to him physically, we have made love and he touches a part of me that has...
    mochilove mochilove 46-50 Aug 26, 2012

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    My Experience

    So ill try to make this short. I have been with my husband for 5 years and i cant say i have been faithful for more then 2 months. I cant help it. Right now i currently have a "boyfriend" We have been seeing eachother for only a few months. its going good, things are still...
    raquelreed raquelreed 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Wtf Am I Doing?!?

    Feeling completely powerless to stop this chain reaction. Went out with a girlfriend this past weekend and saw an old friend from high school that I hadn't seen in 13 years. He looked even cuter than I remembered (I had a crush on him in high school, and he liked me too we just...
    happygirl92812 happygirl92812 31-35 1 Response Oct 4, 2012

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    Never Thought I'd Do This...

    I've been with my husband for 7 years. Married for 5 and a half. We've had a difficult marriage from the beginning. I believe that he's been unfaithful, but he's denied. In any event... I stayed and tried to put it behind us. Tried many times to work on us, but I feel as...
    Unsure2006 Unsure2006 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2011

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    Help

    I'm 22 and I got married at 20. We have a kid and have been together for 6 years ( married for 2 years). But all We do is fight and he is so lazy. I feel like were two different people.
    codensmommy codensmommy 22-25 Sep 13, 2012

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    Do Not Hesitate

    Usually you think that for your wife it would be a disappointment if he will know that you cheat on him. The result is in a lot of cases that wifes does not tell their husbands if they cheated. But in my opinion there is not need to conceal because of some reasons. Maybe he is...
    alfons16a alfons16a 41-45, M Aug 24, 2011

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    Cheating On My Husband With His Bestfriend

    I am so embarassed to even share this story knowing that it wont even stop it. Me and my husband have been together for 7 years, and married for a little over a month. A month before we got married I had been faithful to him, but when I found out he had been cheating on me for...
    hmwilde hmwilde 18-21 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    My Illicit Affair

    Things have always been tough between me and my husband. He is bipolar and can be a real ******* sometime but I could usually forgive him for that. Lately though he has been very distant and unloving though, meaning that he does Not want to have sex. I had been thinking about...
    StealthMarauder StealthMarauder 31-35, F 13 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    About a month ago I was at a friends with my husband of almost two years. We had a few drinks, he wanted to leave and I didn't. So he left and continued to text me all night long. We argued and didn't see eye to eye on the issue...he always leaves me wherever we are at if he...
    mama70707 mama70707 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I Cannot Stop

    I AM MARRIED FIRST OFF---I started talking to men on the internet 6 months ago and met one and from there it has gone down hill I have met two to three men and had sex with them -i feel like its an addiction and I try to stop talking to them but I always revert back into my...
    aligreen123 aligreen123 36-40 9 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    What Am I Doing??

    Here is my story. I am married to an amazingly charming man. We have been fooling the, whole world by pretending too be perfect for the past 25 years. We have 2 college aged children. We have been through just about everything. Except me having.an affair.( he won't admit to his...
    leoleo1 leoleo1 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2013

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    Cheating On My Husband

    Ive been married for 18years and have 17year old twins. I have a good husband, hes decent to me and I dont believe he would ever hurt me. The problem is me, I just dont find him attractive anymore, when we got married I did. It was like he gave up trying to look nice once we...
    Tiny72 Tiny72 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    I Need Your Advice

    I am 22 years old. When I was 18 I decided to get married.We´ve been together for 4 years now and although we are OK sexually we argue a lot, almost every day.He is mean to me sometimes and makes me feel like I am worth nothing.Sometimes he is really good and caring but It is...
    ellen22 ellen22 22-25 5 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    Cheating For A Year

    I have been cheating on my husband of almost 16 years for a year now.  Not really sure what happened, I am having a lot of stress in my life, financial mostly.  I think it pushed me over the edge.  It's  has for the most part been only physical.  Having...
    susieque6735 susieque6735 41-45 Jun 7, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I have been hurt and cheated on many times and still, here i am, staying with him and loving him. Now, other woman (he denies having any communication with her) is texting me and...
    brokenscarred brokenscarred 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Recently one of my girlfriends and my husband became friends on Facebook. They've never actually met before and their only connection is me. Being the trusting wife I am, I was...
    chesapeakemarried chesapeakemarried 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    I am new here, but needed some support from others going through infidelity and trying to make it work out
    slee17 slee17 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    I got married to a man who is good. But in bedroom, he always surprises me... He always talks about his fantasies and that involves all the girls he likes it .. And then he started...
    Manisha76 Manisha76 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I just really need to get this off of my chest. My husband of four years and I recently switched to progressive insurance and signed up for snap shot. Little did I know that that...
    mills1126 mills1126 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    Today I got this really strange phone call from a woman and all she said was HAPPY BIRTHDAY. It was my husband's birthday yesterday. I think my husband might be cheating on me with...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I grew up believing my parents had the best relationship. Sure, they hurled verbal abuse at each other but they always managed to resolve their issues. They love me and my my...
    StephFred StephFred 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I went on a girls long weekend and ended up sleeping with a guy i met there. i can barely even type these words as that would mean that i actually allowed this to happen. But not...
    idk8 idk8 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 2

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    My husband has been tired and on edge due to work. He works 14-16 hour days and when he gets home he has nothing left for me. Tonight, we ordered Indian takeout with two types of...
    PeachMoscato PeachMoscato 31-35, F 10 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Ok, warning this is going to be long! I am at a loss in life. I have been married for almost 10 yrs, with him for almost 15. Things between us were always good,( not perfect of...
    AuntieShani AuntieShani 31-35, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    My husband constantly accuses me of cheating and I never have! I work long strenuous hours and when I am not at work, I am home. He knows this! I put on ALOT of weight when I had...
    ziggybaby86 ziggybaby86 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have been married 38 years. I love my husband. He had a horrible childhood. There have been two incidents of my husband getting into a phone/internet relationship with another...
    fearandloathing333 fearandloathing333 56-60, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I am married for more than 10 years and I have almost everything I could ever want except the sex is ok. Not often and I'm a cuddle person and my husband doesn't do much. For many...
    Ws1999 Ws1999 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    My husband went away a couple of weeks ago to Ocean City, MD for Fireman's Convention on business. While he was away he spent his nights with a friend of ours, He has known her...
    ajls ajls 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    The key to HATE is: Lying, cheating, deserting, 4 children in 5 years (six beautiful children in total), the *Death of one's dreams*, Not ONE discussion over how any given bill...
    sunbeam1 sunbeam1 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I post this on behalf of a friend who as we speak is on her 5th day of non-stop "discussions" with her husband of 5 years who she's told she wants to leave. She has been suffering...
    PerseveringMark PerseveringMark 31-35 3 days ago

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    He usually texts me everyday except the weekends. I'm still waiting since Friday. I don't want to play games. I know he has a girlfriend and before this whole thing started he said...
    Ws1999 Ws1999 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    My wife accuses me of treating her like a sex doll whenever I push the issue of us not having sex. She says she is always too tired, except those rare occasions when she isn't and...
    themyth1981 themyth1981 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    When you cheat, you not only hurt yourself and your husband. Above all you hurt your own kids. Why would any one hurt their own kids is beyond me.
    CheerfulOne CheerfulOne 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    Anyone that cheats, should not be in a relationship. That is a plain as day for me, that's how I feel personally. If a relationship is not going great, take a break, say something...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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