I Am Childfree By Choice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 139 People

    I do not want kids ever.

    Most of my family is trying to force me to have kids. Little do they know, they can not control my life.
    deleted deleted
    Jun 13, 2015

    I like to put it modestly: I don't have sex

    problems or problems getting sex. My coitus and good judgement is impeccable.
    Onechoice Onechoice
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 24, 2014

    No kids for me. And I hate

    when people say I will change my mind. 1) they don't know me and 2) I know my self pretty well to know I won't have any. I also really don't like when they say 'well when you meet the right man.' So a faceless, nameless man that I don't even know gets to make my decisions? So I...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 13, 2015

    Web Site

    http://www.thechildfreelife.com/forum/index.phpIf you want to find more people like us
    lonelylittlefox lonelylittlefox
    22-25, F
    Jun 5, 2012

    Yesterday my husband

    and I went to a fortune teller. She did some tarot cards for us. She ended up taking a look at our relationship and saying the key to it being a good relationship and working is my having a kid... She said I should tap into my feminine side more and that by becoming a mom I...
    Magicalcarebear Magicalcarebear
    26-30, F
    Jul 26, 2015

    I don't get offended

    when people ask me why. I have a list! In no particular order: 1) I don't want any. 2) Children are bad for the environment. 3) Children are expensive. 4) There are thousands and thousands of unwanted children already living - they should take priority. 5) The care and raising...
    Doomflower Doomflower
    31-35, F
    Dec 15, 2015

    I think my choice has a lot to do with my mother

    and then that made me look deeper into the BS that is parenting. I'm just glad I've learnt that its a actually a choice and I don't have to bow to the patriarchal control bullshit.
    prettyboo711 prettyboo711
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    and that means I don't want children.

    I have enough nieces and nephews who need me
    minuet1965 minuet1965
    51-55, F
    Mar 6, 2015

    I do not want children!

    I just want to grow old with somebody!
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    I have no maternal instincts,

    I have never had baby fever, and the sound of a baby or a child crying turns my stomach and makes my skin crawl. I could never fathom the idea of pregnancy or childbirth and I have this apparently irrational hatred for men so, yeah, I'm good on kids... Don't want em, don't need...
    Lilyhammer420 Lilyhammer420
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    Hello, i am woman enjoying my simple

    yet happy life without children but i do find it hard to talk about it with most people since most think in order for a woman to be happy she needs to become a mother at some point in her life and that get exhausting!
    jazmin555 jazmin555
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    If you saw my other post earlier namely this

    one: EP Link I just wanted to point a few things out. I AM highly sesnitive. I am highly emotional, when I deal with uipsets romantic jilts **** happens and let's faceit some pain is inevitable it willl happen it can't be avoided it's going to hurt sometimes I just I stop...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    31-35, M
    Jan 15, 2016

    God's Timing Is Impeccable

    Gosh....where to begin?? Deep down I always knew that I didn't want to be a mother, but I tried to convince myself that I would someday change my mind when I met the "right" guy. This is the thought process that got me into A LOT of trouble. When I first met my husband, he was...
    SymSym83 SymSym83
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2012
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