I Am Childfree By Choice

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    Hello, i am woman enjoying my simple

    yet happy life without children but i do find it hard to talk about it with most people since most think in order for a woman to be happy she needs to become a mother at some point in her life and that get exhausting!
    jazmin555 jazmin555
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    http://www.thechildfreelife.com/forum/index.phpIf you want to find more people like us
    lonelylittlefox lonelylittlefox
    22-25, F
    Jun 5, 2012

    If you saw my other post earlier namely this

    one: EP Link I just wanted to point a few things out. I AM highly sesnitive. I am highly emotional, when I deal with uipsets romantic jilts **** happens and let's faceit some pain is inevitable it willl happen it can't be avoided it's going to hurt sometimes I just I stop...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    26-30, M
    Jan 15

    I think my choice has a lot to do with my mother

    and then that made me look deeper into the BS that is parenting. I'm just glad I've learnt that its a actually a choice and I don't have to bow to the patriarchal control bullshit.
    prettyboo711 prettyboo711
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    Yesterday my husband

    and I went to a fortune teller. She did some tarot cards for us. She ended up taking a look at our relationship and saying the key to it being a good relationship and working is my having a kid... She said I should tap into my feminine side more and that by becoming a mom I...
    Magicalcarebear Magicalcarebear
    26-30, F
    Jul 26, 2015

    and that means I don't want children.

    I have enough nieces and nephews who need me
    minuet1965 minuet1965
    51-55, F
    Mar 6, 2015

    I have no maternal instincts,

    I have never had baby fever, and the sound of a baby or a child crying turns my stomach and makes my skin crawl. I could never fathom the idea of pregnancy or childbirth and I have this apparently irrational hatred for men so, yeah, I'm good on kids... Don't want em, don't need...
    Lilyhammer420 Lilyhammer420
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    I don't get offended

    when people ask me why. I have a list! In no particular order: 1) I don't want any. 2) Children are bad for the environment. 3) Children are expensive. 4) There are thousands and thousands of unwanted children already living - they should take priority. 5) The care and raising...
    Doomflower Doomflower
    31-35, F
    Dec 15, 2015

    I like to put it modestly: I don't have sex

    problems or problems getting sex. My coitus and good judgement is impeccable.
    Onechoice Onechoice
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 24, 2014

    God's Timing Is Impeccable

    Gosh....where to begin?? Deep down I always knew that I didn't want to be a mother, but I tried to convince myself that I would someday change my mind when I met the "right" guy. This is the thought process that got me into A LOT of trouble. When I first met my husband, he was...
    SymSym83 SymSym83
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2012

    I do not want kids ever.

    Most of my family is trying to force me to have kids. Little do they know, they can not control my life.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 13, 2015

    I do not want children!

    I just want to grow old with somebody!
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    No kids for me. And I hate

    when people say I will change my mind. 1) they don't know me and 2) I know my self pretty well to know I won't have any. I also really don't like when they say 'well when you meet the right man.' So a faceless, nameless man that I don't even know gets to make my decisions? So I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 13, 2015
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