I Am Cleaning Up My Circle

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 184 People

    But Not In the Way You Will Expect

    I have decided that I will review all the friends I have made here, and consider getting some good old friends back to where they belong ... back into my circle ... I have missed you, and I am glad to have you back.
    kinkitty kinkitty
    36-40, F
    39 Responses Jul 8, 2008

    I feel that my circle of friends is weak

    and disappointing. I have some friends, people who I would say hi to in passing. I have a couple good friends that I would hang out with on a normal basis. Unfortunately, many good friends turn to regular friends and I'm unsure why. I can't explain why but most of them aren't...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 25, 2014

    Cleaning Out My Circle

    I have tried to make friends to be able too talk to on EP but not many want to be friends on here. what is the point to trying if people wont add you as their friend and even if they do they never talk to you, so what is the point. god knows i have tried, well its their loss not...
    lonewolf1964 lonewolf1964
    41-45, M
    Apr 15, 2012

    Sparkle And Gleam

    Look at me with my duster.... gaily dancing through me circle brushing off the cobwebs.... cleaning out the old and in with the new....HA HA HALike I have time for cleaning.... dont worry, just cos you dont pay me huge amounts of attention, it doesnt matter! I still like you...
    KatarinaVonSweet KatarinaVonSweet
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

    Do You Recall The Last Time We Communicated?

    Say what? You may be thinking, "Wait, is Skyy7 even in my circle?" or "Dang, let me check my Whiteboard." If either of those thoughts crossed your mind, and i'm on your friends list, then the answer is clearly a very long time. No offense or hard feelings on my part. The need...
    Skyy7 Skyy7
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Jan 21, 2013

    Unfollowed a person today.

    .. Kind of sad to see her go. She hurts... I enjoyed our conversations be we connected in some way. Too many ill-repute statements for me to handle. Praying she finds peace & healing soon though!
    lackluster40 lackluster40
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 19

    Of Course

    I will  clean up my circle. I will block anyone is into weird or joining strange groups on E.P. I had blocked people who are undesirable.
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 16, 2011

    Cleaning Up My Cirlce! Slowly But Surely

    I am removing most of the people on my circle, as i have huge number of friends added to my list, and only, or should i say less than 2% are those who i chat with or who have communicated in any way.... Secondly what amazes me is that most of them are so unreal and send me crap...
    need4need need4need
    31-35
    3 Responses Apr 14, 2013

    It's That Time !!!!!!!!!

    I didn't realize what i had done..what angles i had taken ..i am cleaning up again..PM if you care to hang around..i will keep this for a few days... IF YOU KNOW THAT I WILL NOT REMOVE YOU PLEASE DO NOT PM ME !!!!!!!!
    dreamcatcher60foru dreamcatcher60foru
    51-55, F
    Mar 6, 2013

    Sick of having people in my circle

    that don't chat when online or respond to my messages and posts. So I'm only going to keep those that do.
    Morninglory69 Morninglory69
    26-30, M
    Jun 16, 2015

    57 Is Such A Big Number

    i need to do this guys and to anybody in my circle who never contacted me, i'll be glad to add you again if we ever got the chance to talk, the same goes for people who lost contact with me in the last few months. enough said. have a nice day
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Aug 23, 2011

    Starting Now

    sorry folks. i'm cleaning out the ppl i rarely talk to, its nothing personal i just decided it was getting to much but if you dont like it, i dont mind you adding me again as long as we actually talk lol...
    lmpulsive lmpulsive
    22-25, M
    7 Responses Nov 13, 2009

    I add indiscriminately.

    I'm going to visit each person in my circle, read a story and give feedback.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    How Big It Is!

    I have a huge circle of friends. But we don't talk! I am going through and sending each a virtual gift asking if they still want to be friends. It's going to take foreverrrrrr, but I have the time. But it's weird how you have someone friended, but you never interact at all! I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 15, 2010

    At Least a Bit........

    I feel mean when I do this, but I have so many in my circle that I don't even talk to. It makes me feel so bad............ I've actually stopped adding people because I can't even keep up with the ones I already have. I feel awful because I know there are a couple of fans that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 23, 2009

    It's Like....Yea Whateva

    I'm cleaning out my circle MAJOR time. Well, it's not like most of ya'll care anyways. I think most of ya'll joined because ya' thought I had naked pics in my album. Let the door knob hit ya' on the way out!!!
    smooches smooches
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

    Sorry!

    I am cleaning up my circle too by not adding anyone new for awhile.
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

    Too Many

    This is my task on EP for now... sometimes i find it too tempting to just click and add new ppl to my circle. Now it`s the time for a little clean up as the amount of circle members becomes overwhelming and confusing. i have to appologize to those who get removed "accidentally...
    mywayintermsofsex mywayintermsofsex
    31-35, M
    Mar 14, 2013

    I was thinking about a 'Spring Clean'

    but actually I'm preparing to leave so ... if you've been in my circle ... thank you (especially if we've spoken) ... and (very soon) goodnight.
    splashUK2014 splashUK2014
    46-50, M
    Apr 2

    Don't Be Surprised .

    I am cleaning up my circle , getting rid of those I am not mates with or who haven't made my time here better .Don't be surprised if I remove you as we both know we haven't made the effort .I am not a " friend " collector .
    certifiable certifiable
    70+, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2012

    Yep we are today...For the rude

    and all the ones who have lied will be removed to...With this being said you must know who you are so why not just help a girl out and remove you,re self and save me a little work....Not mad just don,t like rude and fakes...
    CLPLIKESFUN CLPLIKESFUN
    46-50
    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    Cullin - Not Cleanin

    Straight off ... I use the word 'cullling' steada 'Cleanin'. I got no trouble with dirty.  =)But I do try to keep my circle fairly small. Jus makes more sense to/for me.I remove people I don' have any contact with. Cause of my red dot, I have to add someone for them to contact...
    hlpflwthat hlpflwthat
    51-55, M
    43 Responses Jan 3, 2011

    I don't know why i have ppl in my circle

    who never write me so if u guys don't wanna talk with me then say it cuz i will clean up my circle and kick the ones out who doesn't write me I love u guys all but i'm not the only one who can write and it makes me sad
    goven99 goven99
    22-25, F
    Mar 29, 2015

    Why, Oh Why...

    I am making a big deal out of this? Yes, I am notorious for removing and then adding people back, it's my biggest EP flaw. That I hurt people by adding and removing :( Okay here's the thing... I really prefer a really small circle. That way I can add more pictures to my profile...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    8 Responses Dec 29, 2010

    i have way to many friends

    that i don't have time to talk to. I also have friends who i haven't talked to in over a yr Also given my many problems that are quite well known,i am removing some people who are just to tempting as i really am trying to be good+happy i want to thank you all for being my...
    geekoftheweek geekoftheweek
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2014

    Time To Review My Circle

    No offense to anyone who is removed, but if we never talk, or don't seem to have much in common,  I'm sure you will agree there is no point in remaining in each others circles. I am grateful for those who added me...it is no disrespect to you...  It is just much easier to...
    craazzeecalamity craazzeecalamity
    41-45, F
    Feb 2, 2012

    Removing anyone who is inactive at the moment.

    probably going to add new people later idk yet.
    BeautifulSoul09 BeautifulSoul09
    18-21, F
    Jul 14, 2015

    I so need to...

    I'm tired of my circle feed being blown up by people who haven't contacted me in, well... Ever. If you want to be my friend still and haven't contacted me in a long time, please let me know before 6 August, 2011, because then it's circle cleaning time!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 31, 2011

    In Light

    In light of those whom I have taken off my circle due to a lack of communication or inactivity, you are more than welcome to appeal the decision. Those removals are not permanent, they are based on making space for those are enjoy the social hum of EP and making it a point of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 16, 2010

    "It Is That Time Once Again"

    I am cleaning out my circle. I like to keep a small manageable circle, and only with people who I interact with. If you have just been sitting there, and we haven't gotten acquainted yet, were probably not going to. I feel like it;s best to give that spot to someone I will be...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2012

    Write 2 me within 5 days

    so by midnight oct 8 or u will be blocked and delete
    dontbhere dontbhere
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 2, 2014

    Cleaning Up

    I have been looking at my circle lately and have decided it needs some cleaning up. If you have added me and don't talk to me, especially if I have tried to introduce myself and you don't respond, you will have to go. I am looking for serious friends and even a serious girlfriend...
    Travel4work Travel4work
    46-50, M
    Aug 1, 2012

    It's Been A Long Time Coming

    For quite awhile, I honestly avoided joining this group and all for reasons unexplainable to even myself. I didn't want to be mean by not accepting others as my friend but to be honest a lot has changed around EP and some of it hasn't. There are still some kind-hearted people...
    Dimples87 Dimples87
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Feb 15, 2010

    Has To Be Done

    I am going to start deleting people who i send messages to over and over and they seem to feel the need to never respond to me. They can't tell me they haven't been on line because i see them on line. I see them adding other people, joining new groups and creating new groups and...
    moonstar312 moonstar312
    41-45, F
    Dec 15, 2011

    Warning!

    I’ve been thinking about this for some time…………………..and with time it’s become more and more of an issue. I love people, don’t get me wrong……………but I want to love those close to me with a passion they deserve. I’m no longer accepting just anyone...
    girlfaith girlfaith
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jul 20, 2012

    Arrrrrrrrrggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    right I gave the impression i am a trollop I actually was only pretending I'm dull as dishwater I hate offending people - only you know whats in your heart. I only want to interact as friends. On here. So if you want more than that I AM NOT THE GIRL FOR YOU. Please delete me.
    KatarinaVonSweet KatarinaVonSweet
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Oct 7, 2012

    I'M Not As Good As A Friend As I Once Was..

    My life has had many ups and downs in the last few months and I used to be on this site all the time but my life is different now and I have found I am not as good of a friend to everyone as I used to be. I have had several friends remove me due to lack of communication...
    IamDRock IamDRock
    31-35, M
    5 Responses May 2, 2013

    Spring Cleaning

    Yep I'm thinking about cleaning up my circle to those who keep in touch with me only.
    charlie1960 charlie1960
    51-55, M
    23 Responses Feb 1, 2011
    Stubborngirll Stubborngirll
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2014

    Removing a bunch of people I haven't talked to

    in a long time (months). It's nothing personal. If any of you still want to chat, send me a message.
    Sicarium Sicarium
    36-40, M
    Dec 16, 2014

    If you find we are not friends don't feel bad

    either we didn't have anything in common or I thought you was to young to be my friend on here nothing personal thank you
    bikeman3 bikeman3
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    Related Experiences

    This may be my last EP post as the closure is coming fast. Hope to see you on Relate To That or answer mug.
    jml2000 jml2000
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Apr 20
    I don't even know where to start. It saddens me to see EP go. I have so many good memories of it and have been fortunate enough to meet the best people I've ever known from here...
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337
    31-35, T
    2 Responses Apr 20
    This is my last. A full two days before I thought I'd be posting it. I thought it'd be a long, sappy ode to EP... But I don't think I can. I don't feel like I want to go back to...
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 19
    because it´s the quality, what I want. Not the quantity. And until now my principle has served me very well. :)
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 19
    I deleted my first account without telling some of the people in my circle. I felt bad about that... but I still didn't reach out to them when I was on this one. Because I never...
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 18
    Friends , EP I wear a kilt group is closing this Thursday. Rasy and I are now chatting on answermug I wear a kilt circle. Any members of E.P. I wear a kilt group are welcome to...
    kiltiekid kiltiekid
    66-70, M
    Apr 18
    My family and some of my church friends think before at puberty all boys should always be locked in a chastity belt. I agree that boys should be take control; moreover, they don't...
    kainmom123 kainmom123
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Apr 18
    All names have been changed to protect people's identities. Two days ago on Friday, my high school required all students (except seniors) to work on a community service project...
    shybot shybot
    16-17, F
    Apr 17
    I really find myself in a closed circle the same person with same conditions repeat himself over and over again with different people in my life Maybe small things are different...
    Nouf1 Nouf1
    26-30, F
    Apr 17
    7 days ago my husband tried to take his own life. Day to day life has been difficult of Late. My husband has been out of work for the best part of 3.5 years and in that time he...
    twilightmum twilightmum
    36-40, F
    Apr 17
    When you drop a rock in the water it forms a circle. And the circle waves another circle until it all disappears. You were my circle of support here. You have been an inspiration...
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 17
    I love you guys! I love you.
    yayepisoverimsad yayepisoverimsad
    22-25, F
    Apr 17
    Guys, if any of you want to remain in contact when EP closes, please message me and I will add you as a contact on another social platform.
    theguywiththeredhair theguywiththeredhair
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 17
    http://exp2.xyz COME ON everyone in There?!
    Bjoern1997 Bjoern1997
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 16
    This cute guy added me to his circle a while ago. Woo hoo
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 15
    I am clean my place I'll write down two poems I send my biological mom I'm 2008 live for everyone to read it I was from my heart and truth I know she was crying in pain when she...
    LucidxxShivery LucidxxShivery
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 15
    (((((Group Hug)))) If I haven't already contacted you, you can find me on AnswerMug (username = Madeleine), RelateToThat (Katyoclare). No messengers as my phone doesn't like it and...
    ProfessorYaffle ProfessorYaffle
    41-45, F
    Apr 15
    most of you are ******* lame..go **** yourself
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 14
    I'm very sad that ep is ending soon but I want everyone to know that it has been very good to know you all, and share my experiences with you, thank you for listening! You're all...
    Purpleflower97 Purpleflower97
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 14
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