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I Am Cleaning Up My Circle

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    I'M Not As Good As A Friend As I Once Was..

    My life has had many ups and downs in the last few months and I used to be on this site all the time but my life is different now and I have found I am not as good of a friend to everyone as I used to be. I have had several friends remove me due to lack of communication...
    IamDRock IamDRock 31-35, M 6 Responses May 2, 2013

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    People

    With "out there" fetishes or purely sexual profiles are out of my circle. If I missed some, I will find them and delete them. Also, I removed my naughty pics and won't be posting more... BTW, don't tell me I am disrespecting your fetishes, but there is the whole "Birds of a...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    You Were My Friend But You Just Left!

    Like my friend Feather, I too am having something of a decluttering of people in my circle specifically so-called friends. There are reasons for this like a number of these friends just uped sticks and left without even a a short message to say they were to some one whom they...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    Starting Now

    sorry folks. i'm cleaning out the ppl i rarely talk to, its nothing personal i just decided it was getting to much but if you dont like it, i dont mind you adding me again as long as we actually talk lol...
    kingimpulsive kingimpulsive 18-21, M 9 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    I so need to...

    I'm tired of my circle feed being blown up by people who haven't contacted me in, well... Ever. If you want to be my friend still and haven't contacted me in a long time, please let me know before 6 August, 2011, because then it's circle cleaning time!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    57 Is Such A Big Number

    i need to do this guys and to anybody in my circle who never contacted me, i'll be glad to add you again if we ever got the chance to talk, the same goes for people who lost contact with me in the last few months. enough said. have a nice day
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    My Circle Is Only For Those I Speak With

      I am very fortunate that my circle hasn't quite exploded like a fairy ring of mushrooms after a torrential rain but I still feel that it is already cluttered past any reasonable doubt. I have never been blessed to have as many true friends in the RW although EP is...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    Sparkle And Gleam

    Look at me with my duster.... gaily dancing through me circle brushing off the cobwebs.... cleaning out the old and in with the new....HA HA HALike I have time for cleaning.... dont worry, just cos you dont pay me huge amounts of attention, it doesnt matter! I still like you...
    KatarinaVonSweet KatarinaVonSweet 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    "It Is That Time Once Again"

    I am cleaning out my circle. I like to keep a small manageable circle, and only with people who I interact with. If you have just been sitting there, and we haven't gotten acquainted yet, were probably not going to. I feel like it;s best to give that spot to someone I will be...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 10, 2012

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    But Not In the Way You Will Expect

    I have decided that I will review all the friends I have made here, and consider getting some good old friends back to where they belong ... back into my circle ... I have missed you, and I am glad to have you back.
    kinkitty kinkitty 36-40, F 39 Responses Jul 8, 2008

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    Sorry!

    I am cleaning up my circle too by not adding anyone new for awhile.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Squeaky Clean!

    I've already cleaned up my circle of all the fake and toxic "friend" I used to have, so now I'm back to square one: zilch friends.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Sep 6, 2011

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    Inactive People

    Dec. 19, 2010 Today I'm gonna go through my circle and remove everyone who hasn't been on EP for 6 months or longer. For the moment I'm not removing people just because I never talk to them (especially since that would leave me with only like 5 people, lol). But I don't need a...
    FeatherInTheWind FeatherInTheWind 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    At Least a Bit........

    I feel mean when I do this, but I have so many in my circle that I don't even talk to. It makes me feel so bad............ I've actually stopped adding people because I can't even keep up with the ones I already have. I feel awful because I know there are a couple of fans that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 23, 2009

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    It's Been A Long Time Coming

    For quite awhile, I honestly avoided joining this group and all for reasons unexplainable to even myself. I didn't want to be mean by not accepting others as my friend but to be honest a lot has changed around EP and some of it hasn't. There are still some kind-hearted people...
    Dimples87 Dimples87 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 15, 2010

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    Of Course

    I will  clean up my circle. I will block anyone is into weird or joining strange groups on E.P. I had blocked people who are undesirable.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    Keeping It Real

    I'm not trying to be mean but I don't want to keep you if we don't ever communicate.  There are a few people who don't write any stories but I see them logged on.  I'm assuming that they don't read my stories since they don't leave comments.  We don't talk to each other so...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 12 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    In Light

    In light of those whom I have taken off my circle due to a lack of communication or inactivity, you are more than welcome to appeal the decision. Those removals are not permanent, they are based on making space for those are enjoy the social hum of EP and making it a point of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    It's That Time !!!!!!!!!

    I didn't realize what i had done..what angles i had taken ..i am cleaning up again..PM if you care to hang around..i will keep this for a few days... IF YOU KNOW THAT I WILL NOT REMOVE YOU PLEASE DO NOT PM ME !!!!!!!!
    dreamcatcher60foru dreamcatcher60foru 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    I Have Noticed

     The past few days that my circle shrinks, not sure who I've lost, or why.  If I don't talk to you often, or haven't for a long while, I am removing you.  Fair enough ?
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Cleaning Up

    I have been looking at my circle lately and have decided it needs some cleaning up. If you have added me and don't talk to me, especially if I have tried to introduce myself and you don't respond, you will have to go. I am looking for serious friends and even a serious girlfriend...
    Travel4work Travel4work 46-50, M Aug 1, 2012

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    Spring Cleaning

    within the next week i will be deleting a considerable amount of people from my circle....and from this point on will be taking more care into who i add to my circle....theres too many people that havent even spoken to me or even slightly interested in me for any other reasons...
    ava12982 ava12982 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    Yes....

    I am going to be cleaning out my circle over the weekend. Removing people that I am unsure how good of friends they are, weather or not they might hurt me...And people that have added me, and that have never even spoken to me. Its nothing personal, I just need to do it....
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Without Spite Or Prejudice

    I am cleaning up my circle. Without spite or prejudice so if we don't connect or don't talk on a regular basis, you may be removed without warning. If you come on EP sporadically at best maybe once or twice a month, that also makes you a candidate for being removed. This is not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 2, 2009

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    Time For A Clean

    It's about that time to clean up my cirlce, ok Epeeps stand in line and I will clean you one by one. because lately most if not all of you haven't been showering lately and it's starting to stink up the joint.You have a choice, I got Dove or IrishSpring soap. *puts it on rag* now...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Jul 10, 2012

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    Cleaning Up My Cirlce! Slowly But Surely

    I am removing most of the people on my circle, as i have huge number of friends added to my list, and only, or should i say less than 2% are those who i chat with or who have communicated in any way.... Secondly what amazes me is that most of them are so unreal and send me crap...
    need4need need4need 31-35 3 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    Time To Review My Circle

    No offense to anyone who is removed, but if we never talk, or don't seem to have much in common,  I'm sure you will agree there is no point in remaining in each others circles. I am grateful for those who added me...it is no disrespect to you...  It is just much easier to...
    craazzeecalamity craazzeecalamity 41-45, F Feb 2, 2012

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    Tidy

    Just those who seem to have left ep or haven't been in touch for a few months or so. I'm a natural hoarder but i like to see the trees in the wood.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 13, 2010

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    Hmm, I'm Too Lazy For This

    i dont talk to half of the people in my circle, but i like having them. i like all the different variety that pops up in my circle activity :)  
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Don't Be Surprised .

    I am cleaning up my circle , getting rid of those I am not mates with or who haven't made my time here better .Don't be surprised if I remove you as we both know we haven't made the effort .I am not a " friend " collector .
    certifiable certifiable 70+, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2012

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    Have To...

    Having this huge circle is not that interesting. Its more fun when people interact. I am removing the people that I never had the chance to talk to or never commented. Sorry if you get offended that I removed you from my circle. I will gladly add you back if you talk to me or...
    reset reset 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2010

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    Why, Oh Why...

    I am making a big deal out of this? Yes, I am notorious for removing and then adding people back, it's my biggest EP flaw. That I hurt people by adding and removing :( Okay here's the thing... I really prefer a really small circle. That way I can add more pictures to my profile...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 29, 2010

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    Has To Be Done

    I am going to start deleting people who i send messages to over and over and they seem to feel the need to never respond to me. They can't tell me they haven't been on line because i see them on line. I see them adding other people, joining new groups and creating new groups and...
    moonstar312 moonstar312 36-40, F Dec 15, 2011

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    Arrrrrrrrrggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    right I gave the impression i am a trollop I actually was only pretending I'm dull as dishwater I hate offending people - only you know whats in your heart. I only want to interact as friends. On here. So if you want more than that I AM NOT THE GIRL FOR YOU. Please delete me.
    KatarinaVonSweet KatarinaVonSweet 36-40, F 10 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    It's Like....Yea Whateva

    I'm cleaning out my circle MAJOR time. Well, it's not like most of ya'll care anyways. I think most of ya'll joined because ya' thought I had naked pics in my album. Let the door knob hit ya' on the way out!!!
    smooches smooches 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Do You Recall The Last Time We Communicated?

    Say what? You may be thinking, "Wait, is Skyy7 even in my circle?" or "Dang, let me check my Whiteboard." If either of those thoughts crossed your mind, and i'm on your friends list, then the answer is clearly a very long time. No offense or hard feelings on my part. The need...
    Skyy7 Skyy7 51-55, F 8 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Ill only add people to my circle if it's someone I talk with often or enough and enjoy talking with them.
    ImAProudAries ImAProudAries 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I'm spring cleaning ... So if we don't talk you will most likely get the boot . It's nothing personal I just like to communicate with the people in my small circle . It's quality...
    Silentandstrange Silentandstrange 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    I am very selective about who I add to my circle. My circle is best-friends only, so there's no quick way of getting into my circle. Unless you're an EP regular in the QA section...
    GeekyLittleThing GeekyLittleThing 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    The main reason I am here is to write and share my writing with others. Also to make friends along the way. I have been on and off EP for awhile now. There are somethings I will...
    AuroraDwen AuroraDwen 41-45, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    My friend bought a cleaning robot. She turned it on to use it for the first time. After an hour she called her husband crying and complained that the dog had **** on the floor and...
    Elisa111 Elisa111 36-40, F Apr 1

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    I'm in my room right now pretending to be asleep so I can put off cleaning this room. I mean she just barged Into the room at like 8 in the morning just moving my stuff around and...
    JaimeJackson JaimeJackson 18-21 Apr 6

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    My disclaimer: Please feel free to add me if you are looking for someone interesting. I don't care if you are male female or other. In fact I believe diversity is good as it makes...
    kingshel kingshel 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 10

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    At 16 I was sitting at a table with all my friends and feeling left out cuz they were all talking about their partners. Since then that day I was desperate to find one of my own...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F Apr 11

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    Please read my profile before adding me. I prefer chatting and getting reasonably acquainted before adding someone to my circle, which is kept small for a reason. Everyone has...
    MidnightScribe MidnightScribe 36-40, M Mar 24

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    Read, Please!!! I am writing this not because I think I'm all that, or that you would be privileged to have me in your circle. I'm writing this because I feel I need to. I came...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 13 Responses Mar 25

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    Guys and girls: I just want you to tell me why you add me to your circle or before adding me. If there are no reasons, then don't add me. Inbox me so I'll know...... and these go...
    xHAKIMgot3HUNNAx xHAKIMgot3HUNNAx 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    If you want to add me to your circle, please send me a few words. I don't want to add people just because we share interests; I want to add people that will talk with me and that I...
    pattyhard pattyhard 51-55, T 4 Responses Mar 25

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    If your going to add me to your circle, it would be nice if you could message me so I know who you are. You don't have to, I'm just saying it would be nice. I'm happy to talk to...
    BlankCanvas22 BlankCanvas22 13-15, F Mar 27

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    I'm curious. Why did you add me to your circle?
    Kayleer18 Kayleer18 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I have been on EP for almost a year now.I previously deleted my account and then came back to EP under a new account as I missed my EP friends.Everyone in my circle is unique and...
    KittenInGlasgow KittenInGlasgow 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    This is the EXPERIENCE Project and I am , above all , interested in correspondence with people who are serious about an exchange and commentary . DO NOT add me to your circle...
    RandomBloke01 RandomBloke01 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    I would like to share this before anyone decides to add me to their circle. I am looking for people who share similar interests and personal experiences, but not looking for...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Don't add me to your circle if you're on ep for some sick fantasy. Thanks
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Apr 1

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    DON'T add me to your circle. I will, kindly, not accept. Thanks for reading :-)