I Am Clingy

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 476 People

    A Result Of Years

    With my nature, I am getting used to being either taken advantage of, forgotten about or rejected. This makes the rare connection much more important to me than it should be. I hold on for dear life because I am so lonely. I don't usually vocalize or act out my clinginess, I...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 16, 2010

    I'm extremely clingy

    and want to find a girl that's just as bad. Plz message me
    deadine deadine
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 16, 2015

    I know I'm clingy. I just,

    I'm passionate about people who I enjoy being around. I want to spend time with them and I want them to spend time with me. Is it so wrong to care? The worst part is that I know how clingy and annoying I can be, and realizing that maybe the people I am so attached to don't want...
    qwernia qwernia
    18-21, F
    Nov 28, 2014
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2015

    But I try so hard to not be clingy I push

    people away then get sad and more clingy and it becomes a crazy cycle.
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion
    3 Responses Oct 11, 2014

    ;-; to be honest it makes me horribly depressed

    when I don't see people (online/offline) for even a few hours. I get real attached and cling to people.
    AfterFall AfterFall
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    I'm not clingy myself

    but I feel like I'm the only guy in the world who likes clingy girls..
    akaShaun akaShaun
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    I will never be able to say goodbye at night.

    I will always get mad and hate you for a couple minutes. I get to the point of extreme sadness that I get angry. I don't want you to leave. I want you to freeze time and be with me forever.
    PrettyInWhite PrettyInWhite
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 2

    I really dont like it.

    i know it annoys people so i tend to distance myself.i always end up suffocating people i love.i always wrap myself around someone i love.i like taking care of them.i very much love physical contact.i always want to hold their hand and hug and kiss them.even when sleeping i would...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 19

    I'm clingy to everyone

    that interests me, we can talk all night then the next day I won't leave you alone.
    MariexOkay MariexOkay
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 16

    I want a girl that is

    as clingy as I am
    deadine deadine
    18-21, M
    May 15, 2015
    qwernia qwernia
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2014

    I'm to clingy and I lose friends over it :( I

    wana change but I don't even realise I'm being clingy till the person tells me I'm clingy or I look back at the convo.... If I can't change that then I at least want a clingy friend who I can talk to and they will understand.... that's not happening though :(
    tabsbad123 tabsbad123
    16-17, M
    1 Response Aug 1, 2015

    Need Too Much Affection!

    I cling to my boyfriend too hard. I get jealous over the smallest things. I'm way too insecure. He's a fairly attractive guy, & I get jealous when he just talks to a friend of the opposite sex. I always tell him I want more affection, and he gives me more. But more is never...
    mynameisjupeach mynameisjupeach
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

    I am clingy to my friends

    but as much as possible I don't show it. I don't wanna admit that I need them and that I wanna be always with them.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 23, 2015

    I am very clingy with my female friends.

    So much so that I have scared some of them away. Ever since I lost my mother I have been wanting to find a similar connection with other women. Sometimes I think that I should warn them that I become very clingy if they talk to me a lot and especially the ones that give me...
    Culinaryman23 Culinaryman23
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 16, 2014


    I want to spend all of my time with my partner. Doing everything together, holding hands, sharing every moment together. I suppose that some see this as being clingy and would feel suffocated by such affection. To each his own. I won't apologize for who I am.
    neonshades neonshades
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Mar 17, 2010

    I love clingy people.

    . They make you feel wanted :)
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Oct 5, 2014

    I am clingy Do you guys know

    why girls are clingy? because we get screwed over by every single guy, and then when we finally find one that will be there for us, we suffocate the **** of them because we are too afraid we might loose him. After having turned 100 shelves for that one pearl, once you find...
    Zolfy Zolfy
    22-25, F
    Feb 20

    Myself, I'm more of the possessive type.

    . But I love clingy friends.. Even my gf is clingy (even if she doesn't admit it) There's just something about someone being clingy that I love.. Maybe it's the attention?
    akaShaun akaShaun
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Oct 13, 2014

    I am really clingy, but only with my good

    friends. I never really talk to people so when I see my friends it's just instant 'LOVE ME NOW' but with relationships I'm really withdrawn and unemotional. God I'm weird.
    hime1008901 hime1008901
    18-21, F
    Jul 9, 2015

    If you're ever lucky enough to find a girl

    who is a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind, you should hold onto that. Because she'll be yours at two in the morning and at two in the afternoon the following day. She'll kiss you where it hurts and until it hurts. And that's important. Someone who not only knows how to turn...
    itcuddles itcuddles
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Dec 2, 2015


    I'm so emotionally needy lately. No amount of love can satisfy me. And I'm so intense about it. I don't know what's wrong with me!!!! I'm afraid that I'm going to scare off people in my life. Honestly, people have commented on the changes in me. What's wrong with me? How...
    lagatta lagatta
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2011

    Sadly I'm the clingy type,

    that if they dont talk to me for a day or two without telling me anything like where they're going, who they're hanging out with, or if they're gonna be busy for awhile, I instantly start worrying and think that they're gonna leave me without saying anything. That's happened to...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 7

    Yup love to cling, embracing,

    hugging, snuggling and smoooching everyone close to me lol I am a clingy big guy so what?? :) mwah mwah
    staticonveyor staticonveyor
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 23, 2014

    I don't mean to be clingy,

    but what's mine is mine. I like to embrace what we have and no body else is allowed to have you 😏💕
    ashley719 ashley719
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 23, 2014
    HidingInTheMusic HidingInTheMusic
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    i am so clingy to my girlfriend ,

    what should i do to lessen my clingyness
    karlpria karlpria
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 16, 2015

    After reading posts people have made regarding

    being clingy I read one that made me think. I may have the reason of why I am clingy. A couple of years ago my mother told me she was sorry for not being more loving to me when I was very young. She would yell to my father to get me and take care of whatever my problem was at...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow
    46-50, M
    1 Response Aug 16, 2014

    I need you and I need you now.

    And I want you to be clingy. I don't need you all the time, just when we're supposed to be talking, I need you. 😒 I hate that I'm clingy, but I am.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99
    16-17, F
    Aug 25, 2014

    When i realize im getting too clingy

    and needy, i back off and let go even though it hurts. I like to annoy people for fun but really i dont want people to be annoyed by me. So if i start to think you are important. I will slowly hold on to you. As soon as i realize im holding too tight i feel like im hurting them...
    khulan03 khulan03
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2014


    MissGaga MissGaga
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 25, 2015
    QueenCersei08 QueenCersei08
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 23, 2014

    I lost my boyfriend a few days ago

    because of how clingy I was. He said I suffocated him. I can't help it. I loved him very much. I wanted him all to myself. When we were apart I would always want to know what he was was doing. Sometimes I was afraid he'd do something terrible to hurt me. I'd constantly check up...
    halo1991 halo1991
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 1

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    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo
    18-21, F
    Oct 13, 2014

    I wish I wasn't, but I always find myself

    when I like a guy I can be very clingy.
    Kayla0504 Kayla0504
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 20, 2015

    i have the constant need to message someone

    when theyre offline and it turns to spam and then i feel like im annoying them because i want their attention... im needy af
    Vixkit Vixkit
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 21, 2015

    I am very clingy. I know it just has to be

    annoying. I get attached to people super easily but I have a feeling it's probably just pushing them away. Any tips on how not to be clingy?
    Ozthewhiterabbit Ozthewhiterabbit
    16-17, M
    Jul 19, 2015

    Too Much Is A Bad Thing

    I've been the clingy type ever since I was little. Then it was cute, now its not. Its so much that I think it keeps pushing people away. And when I try to control it, I seem like I don't care. Plus, I begin to feel lonely and depressed. I want to be able to have a nice...
    FlowerAmongStone FlowerAmongStone
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2011

    I hate being clingy, people don't like it

    when I am so I try to be distant but I just can't. Meh /.
    MariexOkay MariexOkay
    16-17, F
    Aug 26, 2015

    Gf says I'm clingy but I dunno how she can say

    that coz sometimes it feels like she don't won't me the coz she never seems to wonna hold my hand or kiss me or hug me but wen I'm not there she sometimes get mad at me for not been there I have abandonment issues as well so what do I do
    nbdash nbdash
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 24, 2015

    I am clingy so apologies to those of you here

    and in real life that can't stand people like me! I wish I was not but I just can't help it, it's part of who I am, lame excuse I know.
    Dee53 Dee53
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Dec 21, 2015

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