I Am Cold Hearted When Hurt

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    i carefully choose who i let in,

    and i would do anything for those who i am close to, but once in a while i cant help but fall in love or let somone in too soon (the wrong person)
    KatherineSnow KatherineSnow
    22-25, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    I'm not happy about it

    but it's a natural defense mechanism.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Nov 9, 2015

    It's not even when I'm hurt.

    if somebody hurts me or makes me hate them then whenever I come into contact with them in the future, I'm going to be ruthless and cold hearted because they gave me no choice but to not care.
    lizzie9787 lizzie9787
    18-21, F
    Dec 1, 2015

    I got that way recently with someone I care

    about. I hurt her in response to being hurt and still she did not give up on me. This one is a definite keeper.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Nov 16, 2015

    I'm bout to turn 23 on Halloween.

    People still sees me as a kid. They underestimate me yet I have more of a well round knowledge than the do and they look at me stupid for it. But I put on a smile. They think the smile is cuz they think I'm laughing with them but really I'm the one laughing at them. I wear many...
    alarmclock91 alarmclock91
    26-30, M
    Oct 24, 2014

    I noticed recently how big of a douche I can be

    when I'm hurting. I am so sorry to anyone who I've upset and hurt when I was going through tough times. You didn't deserve that but I'm working on improving how I react in these situations. Love you all ^-^
    Irvyy Irvyy
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 1, 2015

    When I get hurt I turn angry

    and when I'm angry I turn ice cold to where I'll avoid my friends and will not talk to anyone
    16-17, F
    Nov 30, 2015

    There's someone out there

    who can eat a big steaming plate of tough **** if they don't like it.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Nov 29, 2015

    Last Thursday, my closest friend in school

    started ignoring me. I have no idea why, and the only thing that comes to mind that might have pushed her off edge was that I told my other friend not to tell this friend something she and I were talking about earlier. I cut her off so that this friend wouldn't know what the...
    DanceOfBlades DanceOfBlades
    18-21, F
    Mar 7, 2016

    wow r00d my post got removed probs

    because I was talking about witchcraft :/
    tipsyGnostalic tipsyGnostalic
    13-15, F
    Nov 7, 2015

    My boyfriend and I broke up

    and it really hurt me. He called today and I didn't answer then he text me and we went back and forth for a while about random things but I had to tell him to stop. I was on the verge of telling him how much I hated him and wished he would die. He hurt my feelings so bad I just...
    reynanv reynanv
    31-35, F
    Jul 28, 2015

    I don't think most people realize the way I am.

    I can forget a person so easily. For example, I could be friends with someone for 10 years, and if they say we're not friends anymore, then I'll simply forget about them. They're only people. There's a few people that were hard to forget. People always say "omg you're so...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 2, 2015

    The more badly my heart is broken,

    the colder I become. It's the only way I can protect myself.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Nov 30, 2015

    People have hurt me emotionally over the last

    two and a half years and I haven't cried once about it. I just block the feelings out. It is getting easier every time and now i just mostly feel empty and don't care about anything.
    CallMeEvi CallMeEvi
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    My friends now have a good reason to hate me.

    .. One of them told me something I really didn't like to hear and from this moment on I've been down and really mean to them. I really regret everything I said to them today, but they don't want to talk so I have no chance to apologize...
    DiketaDrako DiketaDrako
    16-17, M
    Mar 8, 2016

    My heart could break a thousand times

    and still no one would care... 😢
    Darcyfalls13 Darcyfalls13
    22-25, F
    Jan 24, 2016
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