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I Am Cold Hearted

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    When I was young and innocent

    and naive, I was....not well cared for. I was a sucker. And I remember wishing I could be like those people. Cold. Emotionless. Indifferent. It was a process that I was working toward. In a way. I tried to hone it so I could aim it. Only I know now it doesn't quite work like...
    ZombieBaitMaiden ZombieBaitMaiden 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 18, 2014

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    I'm fast becoming this way.

    I've always wanted to be fair and decent to others, as well as daring to be a caring person. But my warm heart is fast becoming cold. When life constantly kicks you in the head, it's no great surprise. Cold hearted seems to be the way forward.
    theotherusernamesweretaken theotherusernamesweretaken 26-30, M Aug 11, 2015

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    monatonie monatonie 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 27, 2015

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    I feel like a broken person like I can't make

    any connection with people emotionally, being cold hearted you don't actually realise you even are cold hearted until you turn around and your alone and you look back on things in you realise you were so cold hearted that people stopped trying. It's hard to explain what being...
    ElizaChloe ElizaChloe 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2014

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    I'm only cold hearted

    once someone gives me a reason to be.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2014

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    life pushed me to be this way.

    I don't care about others anymore, now is all about me. my happiness, my thoughts, my freedom me me me.... and you can go **** yourself!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 11, 2015

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