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I Am Comfortable With Being Ordinary

I discovered the aliveness inside and around me. 112 People

    Just Me...

    I am not the richest guy, I am not the thinnest, fittest guy, I am not the best looking guy, I don't drive the nicest car, I don't live in the biggest house, I am not the loudest guy, I am not the most popular guy, but I may just be the happiest. 
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2011

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    Content With Life

    "I'm sick of not having the courage to be an absolute nobody." -Franny and Zooey I felt this way a lot, going through high school and early college, and I think I've finally settled into my ordinary-ness. I'm pretty happy with my life, though I've made mistakes, and have a few...
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M 4 Responses Nov 7, 2010

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    Nothing Special

     just another soul trying to find their way.i have along the way been blessed to met and talk to many people.some i have to say were really remarkable.but,they never got the true respect they should have.but ,that is life those who should be getting all the respect don`t.and...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Jan 26, 2010

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    Just Me

    i have always said I'm just me if anyone don't like it there loss.i like being just me...i don't buy what every ones buy because its in style,i wear what i like,i have the luxury of living alone no one around me and acres of woods to walk through a river within site of my house...
    razdaz1 razdaz1 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    I Hate Hate Hate Being Ordinary !! :p

    i am not in any point ordinary i am a wiccan ...i dress funny i mean neon black rainbow weird stuff like that :P       ...  i am the kind of girl who will break out laughing in dead silence about something that happened last week seriously and i...
    scared154 scared154 13-15, F Sep 8, 2009

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    Ordinary

    Ordinary,That's how I see myself,No superstar,Just comfortable,With being me.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    Everyday People

    Sly and the Family Stone put it best ."You love me , you hate me you know me and then you can't figure out the bag I'm in."Cause I'm everyday people...yea yea. There is a blue one who can't accept the green one. for living with the fat one,trying to be the skinny one...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F Jun 23, 2011

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    It does seem kinda lame

    that my own title isn't too unique but if i want to get a message out there, might as well start with this kinda of thing. Right? My name is John RiverHeart Wolf. Long ago i gave up my government name due to unwanted family that seemed more into harsh and nasty ways then to...
    JohnRHWolf JohnRHWolf 22-25, M Mar 16

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    Easy going,no hidden agendas,

    no desire to be a super hero.I just get by one day at a time,glad that I got up out of bed to face a new day.Some are good some are bad,I make mistakes and sometimes get mad.I'm far from perfect but I'm closer to being kind.I'm in debt but if it can help you out I'd give you my...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M May 29

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