I Am Commitment Phobic

I have talked to people who are anti-relationship, and to be perfectly honest, I completely understand. I sort of have anti-relationship tendencies. Once upon a time, I was a perfectly happy single girl. Than I met Jimmy and fell head...

ever since i was young i remember loving the story of cinderella..one day a prince charming will rescue you , make you happy, fulfill your fairy tale fantasies. when i was getting older, my mom would constantly remind me not to get a...

I'm in love My name is Jorge; 

I am not commitiment phobic, but my girlfriend is.  She was in a 30 year marriage with horrible mental and physical abuse. She started dating me about 1.1/2 years after her separation.

Our...

All my relationships have been doomed, i never view them positively, i always see them bound to end, sooner or later, i cant explain it, i just become trapped, depressed, emotionally and mentally unstable and ultimatly believe my...

I met a guy online 4 months ago. Although he shows a sign of liking me. But he will not make time to see me. We only saw each other twice so far. When I tell him I don't want to talk to him anymore because I feel like I am wasting my...

i try but i lack consistancy sometimes.. not only in relationships.. but in everything..
i'm thinking now i'm excited about a course i will take next january to learn a new language.. but when i thought that i will have to commit to...

First, I'm glad that I'm not alone with this phobia. I was trying to found some friends with the same issue for years but seem i was alone (at that time). But now,.. on EP i found that at leat I have 97 person with the same problem...

I only want men when they are not ga ga over me.  I like to be pursued but only until he catches me.  I have been in an off again on again relationship for the last five years with some other dating in the off phases...

I've always had more male friends than female. I love sex and I kept a one male friend as my sexual partner. I rather tie my hair back and play basketball with the fellas. I rather admire a beautiful woman or a handsome man who walks...

I came on here after my guilt gnawed at me after I saw someone i usto have a huge crush on a few hours ago.  I thought about dating them and how much better it might be. Currently I am dating someone who is absolutely amazing and...

I have been with my commitment phobic boyfriend on and off for 7 years. I didn't understand the cycle for a long time and was tortured with pain and confusion over what I was doing wrong. He finished with me 3 times and each time came...

When it comes to relationships, I tend to avoid commitment. Now, I'm not against the idea of making a commitment to a person, in fact I deeply respect people and couples that have the wherewithal to do what it takes to make their...

Completely, totally, done.
The closer it gets -- the further I will run.
This is in regards to all of my relationships too -- I have a HUGE fear of this.

Im only 18 but everyone i know that is my age has had at least one serious boyfriend and my longest relationship lasted a day and a half :/ .. it scares me that i know if i was to stay with them any longer they would expect me to act...

In the beginning of the relationship,  everything goes great, we have fun together and I think that maybe this will be the guy. The guy that I can last in a long-term relationship. AND then, he tells me that he really feels...

I;m at the stage now that I get to with all my relationships - I'm getting scared. No scrap that, I AM scared and have been for a few weeks now. The situation is the same as it has been with all my relationships, I met this guy and...

I am a 20 year old, young woman and I am scared of making a commitment. I am currently in therapy to get over my fears, which apply not only to romance and dating, but also affect other areas of my life (school, planning for my career...

I have had a lot of bad relationships and always felt people used commitment phobia as an excuse not to commit, but it seems I am commitment phobic.

I met a girl who I immediately fell for and felt a love that was pure and innocent. I...

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It's slow poison...