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I Am Completely Infatuated With Someone

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    I Love Her....

    I know this is absolutely crazy, but I am in love with my best friend. She is the most beautiful person inside and out that I have ever met. I know that nothing will come of my feelings because she is STRAIGHT and I am BI, but I am completely infatuated nonetheless.
    lon3som3dov3 lon3som3dov3 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2010

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    Not Healthy

    I am fascinated with someone who has no interest in me beyond acquaintance. I can't stop thinking about them. It's driving me nuts. I wish I didn't get these "crushes" on people so often.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    :(

    There he is, I can see him out of the corner of my eye. He is on the facebook, online. I hardly ever go on there and sit online, today I went on for an EP member to "Like" their band. I forgot I was still logged in, I've left the chat open. Dur! He is my friend, I refuse to...
    living4now living4now 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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    Trying to Shut My Feelings Off...

    Because I know he is not looking for anything, I know he's single though.  We are so much a like its freakish.  I got mixed messages from him and it drives me crazy.  So I have turned them off because it hurts to be there, be close and then nothing.  When...
    shuttermagic shuttermagic 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2008

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    Infatuated With Someone That Doesn't Know My Existent.

    She is this lady on the crime show called Deadly Women. Her name is Candice Delong.(The lady on my profile pic). I watched her on Youtube and i started to became very attracted to her. I am attracting to her maternally. I fantasize her being my mom. I fantasize holding and...
    StephanieloveJenniferBeals StephanieloveJenniferBeals 26-30, F Nov 14, 2013

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    So...

    today was supposed to be the day where I ignore you, try to avoid you. I tried not to look for you, like I usually do. I found myself doing it a few times but stopped when I realized what I was doing. It was going well until the end of the day when someone told me you stared at...
    katielucylagacy katielucylagacy 22-25 Mar 29, 2011

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    With A Man Who Used To Be So In Love With Me

    I am currently with a man who pursued me for 2 years. Sounds like a fairy tale. We were happy for a while. But a year and a half later after I said yes, I still haven't met his mother. I am neglected. I get around 3 texts a day. A phone call if I'm lucky. He can go on for days...
    nonfictitious nonfictitious 22-25 Feb 21, 2013

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    I Feel Like a Teenager With a Huge Crush!

    I don't know how this happened, but I think about this guy I met online all the time.  I've never even met him in person, just emailed.  I did some checking and am fairly certain he is who he says he is.   It still just doesn't make any sense that I can be...
    NeverlandGirl NeverlandGirl 41-45, F 8 Responses Jan 9, 2007

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    It'S My Turn, I Guess.

    Throughout this whole thing, I think I've just been sitting back, analyzing his every action. I began thinking about what conclusions he's been coming to about me based on my reactions to him and honestly, he's probably a little confused. I don't think I'm being as obvious with...
    itsjustme1001 itsjustme1001 22-25, F Feb 21, 2013

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    There's this guy,we've never ever talked to

    each other before,but we've seen each other before.He's super smart,good looking and I'm like not as smart as him and I'm self-conscious of myself. He's a few years older than me and he's my neighbor.Oh and he's single too. Am I infatuated by him or in love with him? How...
    kcanteen kcanteen 18-21, F May 11

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    "Smile" Chris, just being in his presence

    alone, brings a smile to my face. He doesn't even have to try to do anything to make me smile. Being in his arms safe & sound, hearing his voice near me, I cannot begin to even describe it.. Even if things go South between us, like distance or just simply parting ways, I know...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F Apr 18

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    The Most Beautiful Face On The Planet

    I know it's cliché, but my current crush is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life. As you may or may not know, one of my favorite hobbies is swing dancing, and I go swing dancing just about every week.  There's a local swing dancing club in my town, so we meet...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    How Many Times

    How many times Will he break my heart? How many dreams Will I dedicate to him? Will I ever learn to Let go? To know what can be, And what can't be? Will I ever Give up? Know my Boundaries? This pain is a stab To my heart. But we never were. I was just another shadow he...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F May 15, 2013

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    Will Always Be

    i was 17, he was 26. that is when we really met. but i had been infatuated with him since the moment i hit puberty. silly. he lived 2 houses down from my grandmother. i would spend entire summers at her house, sitting on the porch watching him work on his car. then he moved. but...
    dragonflykist dragonflykist 26-30, F Jan 9, 2013

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    Ugh. It's awful. In a completely wonderful way.

    I try to not let my emotions get the best of me but it is so difficult. I've fallen hard for this one girl. We have a class together, and are friends. I mean, not best friends, but friends. Anyway, I really have taken a liking to her, but I don't know if she feels the same - I...
    7Questions 7Questions 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    Meaning it will not last long,

    but I keep waiting for that person to text me... It's not love. Its a feeling that i have missed.
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    Why?

    I am half in love with a guy I work with and I really don't know what to do about it.  Part of me thinks there is something more going on with us, but the other part of me thinks he is just a nice guy.  He's is wonderful, at first I didn't like him at all, but he has...
    melusine1979 melusine1979 26-30, F Dec 22, 2009

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    For people with the more extreme infatuations.

    .. . For almost a year I was torturing myself over a love that wasn't love itself, but infatuation. When you talk to the person you're infatuated to, you feel this euphoria. It's the best 'high'' I have ever experienced, and you just crave more and more. Once you can't access...
    BTID BTID 18-21, M Feb 20

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    What Do I Do Next?

    I recently met a guy I really like through mutual friends. He is the first guy I've liked in a really long time and, although I don't know him that well, I just get that feeling from him. On the night we met we talked for ages and got on really well. We all went on to a nightclub...
    Lucy1092 Lucy1092 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    Sigh

    I've fallen for a man who I cannot be with. He's expressed his longing for me as well, which makes this whole situation even harder. We've never been intimate, although we have shared one kiss. the most passionate kiss, I'd consider selling my soul for one more. I've tried...
    simplegirl14362 simplegirl14362 26-30, F Jun 27, 2013

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    He Is Messing Up My Life

    I should probably say that it is not him so much as my feelings for him that are so close to ruining my life.Ever since I fell for him things have been very difficult. I am not productive. I feel sad a lot, super insecure. And I feel very alone because I can't tell -anyone- about...
    celandine celandine 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    My Friend

    Yes, I admit it. I am completely infatuated with someone. She is a cute little blonde. I met her only a few weeks ago, and came to know her better only recently. She is a member of a social group I belong to. She is so witty. She keeps me laughing whenever we talk. She has...
    sexywetsusie sexywetsusie 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    How Did I Let It Get This Far

    I talked to him for no more than five minutes at the beginning of this school year. I am pretty sure I was awkward. He was tall and handsome, nice and smart, and, well, perfect. I didn't know about him before, although he did look slightly familiar. He helped me pick a homeroom...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F Jun 5, 2013

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    Falling In Love

    Am I falling in love with him? I don't even know him. I tell myself I don't like him anymore but right when I see him my heart changes it's mind. I wonder if he feels the same. I wonder if he thinks "wow, she's beautiful" when he looks at me. I like to believe he does. And why I...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F Feb 11, 2013

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    sosieq sosieq 26-30, F Feb 2

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    Gone

    yeah so that guy, that i have been infatuated with. yeah thats over now. im done with him. no more Joe. bye bye. dude was lame. totally perv. and too old for me anyways. and well, its just time to move on. dont worry im infatuated with other ppl. geesh!
    dragonflykist dragonflykist 26-30, F Feb 5, 2013

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    We Cuddled...for An Entire Day

    I'll start with .. I'm a girl, but a total 'bro.' All my friends are bros, my few girl friends are pro athletes and not the kind I would spill 'deets' and partition for relationship advice. So here I am, word vomiting to the internet again in lieu of possibly imploding. I don't...
    1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Partner To Dance With In Life

    Well I was starting my new job as a lighting assistant for a great Blues band I love. It was my first night and I was a little nervous. We were at a great little dive bar and I saw him walk in the door and look around, but our eyes did not meet. Later in the night I was working...
    Owleeeeease7 Owleeeeease7 36-40, F 2 Responses May 13, 2011

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    Obsession/faking.

    So, this past summer I made an account on IMVU; this website where you can make an avatar and talk to people etc. It wasn't the first time I had used it, I believe I was 11 or 12 my first time, but my parents found out and wouldn't let me use it anymore. I went on it with the...
    Disasterology Disasterology 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    I Can't Stop Thinking Of Him

    And I know that our relationship could never work. I feel it. Yes, I have a boyfriend too. How horrible I am for acting like this... but if this was a big deal and I would really love the other person, I would just break up and go on with the one I love - i said it like it sounds...
    CupcakesCake CupcakesCake 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    Time To Get Over Him?

    I wish I could get over him, but i'm not sure if I should. Well we don't really know each other or have any classes, but I still have this massive crush on him. He seems like the perfect guy for me, (I even have pictures of him on my phone which I look at on a daily, only two...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    Am I Imagining This..

    The first time I danced with him I felt an instant attraction. There was a lot of smiling and eye contact. He would always give me extra attention while instructing the dance class. I went up a level so I was no longer in his class. We'd catch a gleamce of each other from...
    perserverancew perserverancew 36-40, F 1 Response May 19, 2010

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    Yes, I Am ...and He's Out Of My League ....

    I share this with you now. I am late 20s female and I am infatuated with one of my lecturers at college who is just two years older. It's absolutely awful. I love feeling like this but equally I hate it. I am a pretty lady and I get lots of compliments but this man is way out of...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2012

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    Infatuation

    I don't know if I could call how I feel about her mere infatuation. I'm in knock down, drag out, true blue love... And I miss her so much right now.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 10 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    Y Do You Always Want Somthing You Cant Have????

    i am infactuated (lust not love) with this guy we look at each other and there is instant chemistry sparks fly. the problem is iv liked him for 6 yrs now iv started seeing him we are saying its just fun nothing seriouse but i cant help my self i cant keep my hands off...
    confused2008 confused2008 19-21, F Jan 31, 2008

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    I Always Go Back To Him

    It's crazy how much I like him. I don't even know him. I barely even see him. I met him once and ever since then i've been, well, completely infatuated with him. He's a junior, tall, athletic, smart, compassionate, perfect from my standpoint. But then again, I don't even know him...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F Mar 8, 2013

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    However...

    It's pointless. Not impossible, maybe, but certainly nothing will come of it. ------------------------------------------------------ That was in January. This is now. And this time, things are a little different. I know this boy. I've talked to this boy. I see this boy at...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 29 Responses Jan 31, 2008

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    I Am!

    I really am, I know him, he knows me. I can't have him I think about him I want him He is the forbidden fruit. I desire him I don't love him I just lust after him wonder how long this will last, wish it would go away but really don't want it to. I like thinking about him...
    living4now living4now 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    I met this girl online

    who reminds me of an ex in appearance. I want her to be the ada to my leon.
    4d3d3d3 4d3d3d3 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 2

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    Never Going To Happen

    So am 14 shes 18 i cant get her out my head and i dont know why i meen i know shes perfect but its never going to happen im too young :( she said i was gonna be good looking when was older but pppfft whats that?!? I dont get it iv had gfs am not even a virgin yet am mad on her...
    JayJay1998 JayJay1998 13-15, M Nov 20, 2012

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    I Want To Be That Girl

    He does not know that there is a girl right behind him, Watching him put his arm around her, Wishing she was that girl~ He does not know that she has had seven dreams in which she was that girl~ He does not know that she has spent countless hours day dreaming about being that...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F May 29, 2013

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    Pathetic

    okay, so, ive liked this guy called george for quite a while.. hes gorgeous, sporty, artistic.. everything i really want in a guy. we developed this thing.. we were really really close, and we were at that stage just before you officially call eachother boyfriend and girlfriend...
    boeboeQ boeboeQ 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2011

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    there is this guy I work with

    who I really like but I know that nothing will happen between us because he is my boss, I can't stop thinking about him, the way he looks at me the talks to me I know its all in my head.
    Allyr3 Allyr3 18-21, F May 11

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    I met someone online

    who I am so completely taken with. He lives overseas and I can't afford to go over and meet him face to face. He consumes me and I wish I could tell him how enamoured I am with him. He's kind, passionate and as far as I can tell, the sweetest man on this earth.
    PiarnD82 PiarnD82 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 6

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    Shoshannah13 Shoshannah13 26-30, F 1 Response May 4

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    It's New To Me.

    It's a new experience for me. I mean, I've liked guys before, but it's never been a normal, typical situation. Not until now have I ever related to normal people and their tales of infatuation. He's 25 and I'm 23. He's so adorable, I can't even handle it at times. I get...
    itsjustme1001 itsjustme1001 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    One Hundred Percent.

    It's a terrible thing, it really is. To be so submerged in someone. To know their flaws and wrong doings yet love every little once of the person. Infatuation blinds you. It blinds you from everything.
    FallenForTheIdiotInUniform FallenForTheIdiotInUniform 22-25, F Feb 9, 2013

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