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I Am Confident

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 610 People

    Loosing My Fears And Finding Myself

    For as long as I can remember, I doubted myself. My worth, intelligence, my beauty. I had lived in poverty, loved in stupidity and allowed those around me to bring me down. Then it changed. Like a slap in the face! I am what I make of me! It is my choice to be a success or...
    FutureNostalgia FutureNostalgia 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    Human Rel. W/ A Predator

    I was coerced into talking to this guy once. He seemed like a kind, intelligent man as well as attractive (from an old photo, rolmao) until I met the dude. He was the biggest dork I have ever met in my life but there was something attractive about him that caught my eye. He was...
    Doublejeopardy Doublejeopardy 31-35, F May 30, 2011

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    Confident? You Can Say That Again! (Confident :P)

    Okay, so like, what's up and sh.... stuff. Just going to jump in here, so enjoy or whatever you’re going to do with your free will. I'm confident, and sure of myself, and I like myself a-fu...-freakin-lot. Apparently I come off as conceited, or whatever my mother and sisters...
    chickskater chickskater 18-21, F May 9, 2013

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    Good Bye

    Someone recently told me that they could never have a relationship with me because I am like Dr. Jekyll--Mr Hyde. Oooo! I can't tell you how from the the truth that accusation is. I do act out sometimes on the internet--yes, but that's only if I feel like I am defending myself...
    Doublejeopardy Doublejeopardy 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 10, 2010

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    Claimin' It

    Took a while for me to get to the point of claiming this trait. I always knew it was in me. I'm just a confident girl with a purpose in her soul and I'm so happy to have it. In truth, it was always there, but for a long time I couldn't see it. I'm just so happy that now I'm able...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 8, 2012

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    Maybe I Am

    I guess I am somewhat of a hypocrite.. okay. I am a hypocrite. My boy best friend is now still my best friend, but also my boyfriend. Now I know I said there was nothing going on, but there wasn't at the time. In all honesty, I COULDN'T like him. There's just way to many...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F Oct 2, 2013

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    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Trying to be more so.

    I want to be more confident and brave when I talk to people. To not feel scared or worried as to what will be thought of me. I have made a little progress, but still have a long journey ahead of me. I can feel at times that it is nothing but a dream and it all is futile. I...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 8

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    I got the eye of the tiger,

    a fighter, dancing through the fire ‘Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me roar Louder, louder than a lion ‘Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me roar
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 26-30, F Feb 8

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    Yes,I Am

    I am confident...Now some may say it's Arrogant,others Conceit,some may even say Vain but it's none of those things. I just know what I can and can't do. Yes,I'm Intelligent, Yes I'm Beautiful but most importantly I'm A Woman A Real Woman I Know Just What I Want I Know Just Who...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    It's Hailey, I'm 16, & about 5'5.

    Looking for true friends that I can tell anything and everything. Is that you? (Preferably cute jk)
    haileytwerk haileytwerk 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Confidence Is Not.

    Everyone is attracted to confidence. However, I believe that confidence is often misunderstood. My theory on confidence is developed from a lifetime of sport participation and a coaching career. Here is in my opinion what true, useful confidence is not: 1. Confidence is...
    Trackcoachred Trackcoachred 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    yes most of the Time B...

    yes most of the time but i do have my moments when im not.
    dignus101 dignus101 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2008

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    Attraction

    Someone told me today something about I don't have the material to make a trophy wife. lol. I got a good laugh out of that one. I know that my personality and appearance come off as less than acceptable sometimes but I have no one to impress so I just don't care about how I look...
    Doublejeopardy Doublejeopardy 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    It's Pretty Natural.

    I think I've been blessed with natural confidence. Of course, in the beginning, it didn't really show. As I was growing up, I was new to the world so I was obviously naturally precautious and nervous about most things. But now I'm older, I'm finding my place, I have a cool hobby...
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette 18-21, F Oct 19, 2013

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    Fuckk Whatt Youu Heard ,

    Youu Don'tt Knoww Mee.
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F Sep 1

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    Strength, Acceptance.

    I'm not confident in that "Look at me I'm a confident independent woman, and now get out of my way!" sort of confident.  No, no, it's different. I chose to add this to my experiences because for the first time ever, I feel okay about my life. I like my body. I like my...
    chancesbreathe chancesbreathe 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2010

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    Through mastering one's limitations,

    an individual can realize their true capabilities and potential.
    BlazingWind BlazingWind 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    I don't think I'm the most beautiful girl out

    there, but I believe the qualities and characteristics that I possess are unique and special in their own way.
    Leximarie12 Leximarie12 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I used to think I'm ugly(still probably am LOL

    just kidding)but when you confident and love yourself you are super attractive.Beauty comes from the inside but not everyone out there can see it.THE MOST Sexy thing about people is confidence for me ;-)
    AlanNick1 AlanNick1 13-15, M Aug 2

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    If I've learned one thing growing up,

    it's to stand up for who you are and not who others want you to be.
    DeAundreVP DeAundreVP 18-21, M Mar 23

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    The Line

    There is a line that I walk and it's a fine one. It's the line between being cocky and having self confidence in who I am and have become. There is a huge difference between the two.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 15, 2011

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    I have confidence in confidence alone!

    No really, I pretend to be confident, I appear to be confident. People believe I am confident. I become confident.
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    Don't Let Anyone Bring You Down, Always Smile

    I am a junior in high school, and I attend a small high school in a small city. I used to think I had it all I was single had a so called amazing group of "best friends" and everyone seemed to like me. I partied and was out every weekend. Who wouldn't say that I'm a confident 16...
    EmilyRodriguez1 EmilyRodriguez1 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    It's Not In You Yet

    I don't think you can be born with confidence. I think you gain it. Confidence is sooo sexy and I'm really happy to have gotten to the point of believing in me.
    xxfatou xxfatou 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2013

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    Todayyy Wass Soo Funn,

    I Workedd Outtt Alottt !✌️
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    As a person who was bullied in middle school,

    many believed i would be a self-conscious fat kid. I sure knocked them on their *****! I may still be fat, but i have taught myself that no one elses poor opinions matter. Be yourself and embrace you features. People will admire you, and those who try to tear you down. **** them...
    abc0924 abc0924 18-21, M Sep 2

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    Cautiously

    But I sometimes second guess myself, "What if I'm bordering on arrogant?"
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 20, 2013

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    I Have Major Confidence!

    I am brave. I am strong. I am smart. I am a well-intentioned person. I lisp when I make the "s" sound a little bit but that's me - I used to hate it, now I own it. My hair curls - I used to hate that, and now I own it, too! I have curves. I do well in school. I pay no attention...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F Jul 6

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    But I Try Not to Shout It

    I am confident in that I am sure of myself and the work I do. I have, for lack of a better word right now, trained my self to be the best me I can, to think things through full and exercise sound judgment. I study, research and find the facts, so they may be stated fully and...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F Oct 16, 2008

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    I might wear makeup and spend a significant

    amount of time fine tuning my appearance, but I don't think confidence is all about looks. I am happy with who I am as a person and proud of the amount of things I've achieved in my short life.
    imallnat imallnat 22-25, F May 18

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    It is amazing what a Brazilian wax

    and a great manicure will do for your confidence.
    RMDk RMDk 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    I'm done with people feeling sorry

    for me I've finally gotten back up and stronger than ever !!!
    adry39 adry39 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I Love Being Me And Sharing Myself With The World.

    For years I had a very low self-esteem and was even suicidal. I starved myself to get my own approval but could not get thin enough. I worked hard to acheive great things but none of my achievements helped me love myself. They only set me up to have to do something greater the...
    Siberia1000 Siberia1000 46-50, F Dec 12, 2012

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    I love myself. I'm not perfect,

    but I'm always trying to better myself. I know I can do anything :)
    Daniel090 Daniel090 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    I Am...

    I'm a pretty confident person, on and offline...I gues I'm just comfortable being my weird, wacky, smart-assed self. LOL :)
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2008

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    If you were given a chance to be with a confident guy would you? The kind of guy that wants to cherish you, keep you safe, make you a better version of you, gives respect and...
    margai margai 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    A woman that is strong and confident breathes life into her relationships and partners. A woman that has confidence emits a sexual energy that is highly attractive and inspires her...
    Cautiouslyr3ckless Cautiouslyr3ckless 41-45, M a week ago

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    Every boy and man should be a feminist to undo all the wrong we have done to girls and women from the dawn of age.A woman is the creator or life and as such has always attracted...
    cucksome cucksome 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I'm very confident with myself. I rarely feel insecure about myself and don't have any reason to. I love who I am and shall continue to strive for the best. I will stay optimistic...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F Aug 27

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    I just had a thought. Lately (as of earlier today) I have been thinking about confidence. I wondered what is TRUE confidence and do I have it and if not, then how can I get it? As...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F Sep 9

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    Being confident and strong are nice attributes of a woman. When she's kind, and compassionate, she becomes more beautiful inside and out. Woman, she's a man's doll. She's from a...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    focused i'm focused ... you got a body like that ain't never see nothing like that like a fantasy in front of me i think something special is going down . That's right i think you...
    Drake666 Drake666 18-21, M a week ago

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    I am very self-confident and feel very beautiful all the time. I feel pretty comfortable with my body and i enjoy the way I look.
    sempiternalFlood sempiternalFlood 13-15, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I hate the way I look. I such a perfectionist. But I don't look like it. I usually walk around smiling wit my head up high. And make people laugh and help wit their problems. And...
    Moniquepetion16 Moniquepetion16 22-25, F Aug 25

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    I always used to be ashamed of my body because I wasn't skinny like other girls but now I'm learning to love my body:) 158lbs 5'3 and I'm embracing my curves<3
    curvycutiee curvycutiee 16-17, F Aug 26

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    I just love confidence. Someone who wholeheartedly loves themselves and is comfortable with others in an approachable manner. You just can't beat that when it comes to personality...
    landhoee landhoee 18-21, M Aug 31

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    I've always been self conscious... Until I thought You know what! Why be self concious? We are literally walking skeletons under our skin.. We look the same...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F Sep 3

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    Okay, it may come off as weird, but I don't think I'm all that bad-looking, face and body-wise it's just people's reactions tend to dictate things. It's either negative or...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Today I feel so sick and depressed. I went to school with my back hurting because of my back pack. I woke up before that without no inspiration. No joy or liveliness in me. It...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F Sep 5

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