I Am Confused About Human Nature

Some actions jst don't make sense to me. Racism not the least of all. Some things, I just don't see the thought behind. But then maybe I'm just too logical with things. I don't understand the thought behind bending the spine of a book...

Needing your help as I am very confused about the folllowing things:

Why it is when a man ask a woman to marry her that decision is never questioned but every decision thereafter is always quested......

a person who...

I know one thing: We are not perfect. Everybody has done something wrong at one time or another. But other things, like why people insist on everyone being just like them, and crushing the people who aren't, that confuses me.

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I don't understand so many things about us humans.Why do we hurt those we love? Why as soon as we get something we don't want it? Why do we mate for life,only to spend the rest of our life complaining about our mate? 
If I knew...

.... that humans are just so.... weird!  Feelings, emotions, thoughts, actions, perspectives....
Each person is just so complex.  Some like to cause things while others like to stop it.  Some are hateful while some are...

I just don't understand it. I've read into a lot of books on psychology and theology and just random book on human nature. And yet i still don't understand it. Are we ever supposed to? I mean first of all where do you get your morals...

Have you ever sat in a crowded place and silently listened to the conversations around you? I often do. I am not eaves dropping as much as wondering why these people are jabbering away about absolutely nothing, and often very loudly. As...

I don't understand and I refuse to try.
However I decline to live in confusion but I'm open to the obvious fact that there are indeed idiots among us.........
We are not alone

There are so many aspects of human nature and so many things that are contradictory.. for my personal belief... I believe that human nature as it is today... (now human nature is the average not the high or low end)... is to pro-create...

There are plenty of things I hate about human beings, but in this story I want to focus specifically on hypocritical beliefs and actions of human beings with regards to the concept of morality. Human beliefs about morality expose 99% of...