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I Am Confused About Life

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    Confused

    I am 40 plus years old ald confused about my life I suffer depression isolation anxiety ptsd etc. Terror started very young and it seems to have followed me all thru life I wont get into details but I realize if it doesnt change or I dont change by some miracle or strike of...
    missidontknow missidontknow 41-45 4 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    Coming Out Story

    H i! You may find this interesting.    Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone http://www.amazon.com/Figuring-Out-N-S-B/dp/0979216303 http://www.myspace.com/figuringitoutbook Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story. This books has been rated...
    grehyzz grehyzz 26-30 Dec 3, 2008

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    I Am Still Sitting Here

    I am still sitting here. I have come back to school to study for two years. Every once in while I asked myself whether it is a wise decision to give up a stable job and get back to something I left four years ago. People keep telling me how great it is for me to get back to...
    winniebree winniebree 26-30, F Dec 15, 2008

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    Confuse

    Today I am worried. Tomorrow I will feel more. I don't understand life anymore. When you do everything by the law because it is the rite thing to do you end up getting screwed. I always taught my kids values. The dos and don ts of life. To be respectful, not to judge, to always...
    wonderMe07 wonderMe07 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 28, 2013

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    Hmmm

    I just want to know what my purpose is. I'm very drawn towards wildlife conservation ...is that my calling? Not only life but where you go afterwards. I'm sceptic of God but believe I think in reincarnation...the cycle of life just continues... It's not just you're born...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 16, 2008

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    Life

    i;m confused about life in general
    lalalalla lalalalla 22-25 4 Responses Mar 28, 2009

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    Humbled

    I really just wanted to add myself to the queue of individuals confused about life. Life seems to exist on two planes--the factual, comprised of objective circumstances like how many seconds someone's been alive, or the sum total of a mind's neural activity; and the perceptual...
    MM02138 MM02138 41-45 3 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    Confused..but Then Again Im Not.

    alright straigth to the point. im confsued. between Friendships, Relationship with this girl, my family, school, my life and where its going. idk what to do. when im by myself and this all comes realtiy and i have to think about it. i just freak out and get overwhelmed..but like...
    whatisgoingon whatisgoingon 16-17, M Feb 18, 2009

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    Confused..but Then Again Im Not.

    alright straigth to the point. im confsued. between Friendships, Relationship with this girl, my family, school, my life and where its going. idk what to do. when im by myself and this all comes realtiy and i have to think about it. i just freak out and get overwhelmed..but like...
    whatisgoingon whatisgoingon 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 18, 2009

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    I Honestly Don't Know

    I can't talk to anyone, I only have myself in moments like this. No one understands me, its not like I do things on purpose, I do things without thinking of the consequences, I try to make things happen for the better not to make things harder on anyone, it sucks to be viewed...
    SourLove SourLove 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    Life

    Life,How confusing,Can someone help?I'm all in knots,Life's a mess,Needs sorting out,Any answers?Saw this group and felt like writing this - I'm out of this state now you'll be pleased to know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 3, 2011

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    Confused..but Then Again Im Not.

    alright straigth to the point. im confsued. between Friendships, Relationship with this girl, my family, school, my life and where its going. idk what to do. when im by myself and this all comes realtiy and i have to think about it. i just freak out and get overwhelmed..but like...
    whatisgoingon whatisgoingon 16-17, M Feb 18, 2009

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    My Mom

    I feel like I am ALWAYS having to do things for my mom. I know its supposed to make me be a BETTER person in my life and, I understand that. But........why does it always have to be me??? Am I alone? Whats your advice?
    tlabrecque13 tlabrecque13 13-15, F 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    Fog

    I've been very confused for along time,every time i wonder what i'm feeling or thinking it's always a safe bet "CONFUSED" the thing is i never thought i would be 23 years old and that confused i thought it would be a teenage thing,that i just had to get through &then everything...
    NnNn2 NnNn2 22-25, F Aug 21, 2013

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    Why Am I Confused?

    i think i worry out too much about anything and everything, maybe thats why am so confused!!!
    georshar georshar 36-40, F 3 Responses May 3, 2009

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    Life

    Life,How confusing,Ups and downs,Ins and outs,Never know,What's next,It confuses me.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Apr 3, 2012

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    How Do You Correct 21 Years Of Nothing?

     Growing up, I didn't really do much. There wasn't much that has interested me, and what little there was that I found interesting I never went anywhere with. My parents never really loved each other, and as such I grew up in a very strange household. We didn't do much in...
    BeautifulLies BeautifulLies 18-21, M 5 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Have you ever realized how you can think and think and think about what life's about; but everytime you feel close to understanding what the secret is behind life: God throws a...
    KellsThr13 KellsThr13 13-15, F Jul 9

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    I cheated on my husband. I am pregnant, but doubt is completely his. I just couldn't keep lying to him, so I came clean tonight. I told him about the other man, and how the baby...
    justagreeing justagreeing 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    It's just hormones... right? That's what i'm always telling myself but im bloody 18 years old and i'm losing my mind. It's the old cliche that no one undestands me and heck to be...
    Yomarion Yomarion 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Yesterday I was talking on the phone with a friend and he said that nobody liked him, I said, "I like you" and then he said, yea but you're my friend. Son i had to ask. Why is that...
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F Jun 24

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    I cheated on my husband, and I am currently pregnant, but I don't know if the baby is his or the other man's. The other man is a former friend of high school, who happens to have...
    justagreeing justagreeing 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    So a guy I liked used me for sex and lost my virginity to him now he doesn't care. There's another guy who likes me and he cares but I'm not sure I feel that way for him and I'm...
    bingerprincess bingerprincess 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I don't want to keep being punished for the pain I've gone through and had no control over in my past
    DeLos1985 DeLos1985 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    Does anyone else have this problem. Whenever I'm going somewhere like for example shopping I always need to find a quick way out for example I will make sure I look at earlier...
    imafuckingmess imafuckingmess 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Oops i did it again!! 😂😂 lol i have to laugh at myself cause i have no control over this personality anymore... She comes and she does what she does and shes good at it too...
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've never been so confused about my feelings. I started seeing this guy about 2 months ago & he is the most genuine person I've ever met. I've never had someone care for me so...
    LeeC91 LeeC91 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27

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      Can a marriage truely be repaired after one party has cheated? Has anyone been through or going through this now a? My husband and I have been married for 6 years, we have...
    sammieejai123 sammieejai123 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    At least I think I am. I'm almost confused about being confused... I don't know if you can even call this a normal relationship but it sure makes a big impact on me and that counts...
    emilyymariee emilyymariee 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I'm so confused about my gender and have been for a long time. I started putting my mom's stuff around 4 or 5, I battle the desire to dress all the time . Then growing up I liked...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 11

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    I'm not confused about whether I'm in a relationship, I am, but I'm confused about where things will go. In 2 months he'll be moving out of the country, going abroad to study with...
    LastBusHome LastBusHome 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm 16, a senior in my high school. I'm gay. And I have feelings for my straight friend but sometimes I am ignoring her. Because maybe i love her. Sometimes I hate her. After a few...
    RionWolf RionWolf 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm am so very confused about my gender. I was born in a male body. Grew up male, but started to crossdress at a young age 5ish, I'm now married 21 years to kids, I love my wife...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I'm new here. I'm sorta confused about my gender. Sometimes I can just be me but other times, my gender matters because the bathrooms and locker rooms are segregated and when I...
    thunderstruck14 thunderstruck14 18-21 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I'm quite confused about my gender. I was born female but some days I feel like being a girl and sone days I feel like being a boy (to the point of wearing wigs and talking in a...
    Areiaado Areiaado 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    I remember in high school I fell so hard for boy who messed with my head. We had some kind of connection for two years. No we didn't date but I know what we did have was special...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    You know something, this is gonna sound really like "seriously get over yourself and shut up" type of thing and like "get over it you're young!" etc etc but I don't really right...
    ThatAwkwardOne ThatAwkwardOne 13-15, M Jul 7

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    First I'm confused about this guy I like. He says he likes some other girl, but he's always flirting with me. Like yesterday we were playing spoons with a couple of my friends and...
    alexiaking13 alexiaking13 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    So many people tend to be depressed about life. I know, as humans we have problems and struggles. But giving up is not the best choice. Instead of thinking negatively, we should be...
    lauracassie92 lauracassie92 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I want to be positive about life, and joining this group is not a bad start right? Instead of searching through "lonely", "heart broken", "life sucks" groups, I had a positive...
    prettyballerina prettyballerina 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    not only movies ,i like everything which made me think about life...but religious movies are the one i liked for this cause!
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    iWant To Be Positive About Life, Even Tho Im Going Thru Some Tough Stuff Right Now .......
    KandleGuii KandleGuii 22-25, M Jul 10

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    Background: I am married, we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm so confused and I wanna scream because I swear yesterday I was second guessing our relationship and now I don't second guess it at all but now I'm second guessing not second...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Jul 5

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    i love life.... the problem is i dont love myself.... i have alot to work on in my life....
    victoriaemo victoriaemo 16-17, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    This is sort of getting out of hand. I can't control it any longer. It seems that my efforts to appear as normal and okay as can be are... failing. Never in my entire life have I...
    minecrafter4343 minecrafter4343 13-15, T a week ago

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    I am a 17 year old guy, i am gay but nobody knows about it. I have a really close friend, he is the best friend i have ever had in my life. We have a awesome friendship, we tell...
    ConfusedOT ConfusedOT 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I didn't talk with my gf 6 months ago for 1 month and at that time my best friend went to relationship with her and I just was quiet and said nothing so I tried to forget that and...
    mehradiano mehradiano 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Through my life i have been hurt so many times by so many different people and circumstances. With almost every hurt i shattered like glass, i felt broken and worthless like there...
    rainbowbreakdown rainbowbreakdown 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14