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I Am Confused About Love

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    I'm in love with a much older man (20+ years difference)
    LoveIsDifficult LoveIsDifficult 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Love Is Complicated. - What is Love? Love is a feeling What kind of feeling? A very Special feeling. A feeling where u can Think about that amazing Person and Smile. Love is very...
    ThatEmoGurl ThatEmoGurl 13-15, F Sep 6, 2013

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    Should I Still Be Holding On? - We've been together for 10 months now, but it's always on and off. We broke up just before his 2 month trip to his home town across the world where...
    ChewableFormula ChewableFormula 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2011

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    When Do You Call It a Day... - After five years with the person whom I had the unrealistic belief I was going to marry, we broke up because of a stupid fight that got out of...
    lostanndfound lostanndfound 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2009

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    Star-crossed Lovers - The trip homewards revived me like never before. I was in the best of moods happily chatting away with anybody who crossed my path today. I even had a list...
    ahamincognito ahamincognito 22-25, F Oct 31, 2011

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    I'm so confused about all the relationship. I'm so tired of everything I don't even feel like explaining. All I want is a girl who f cares about me, a loving one, a one I can rely...
    SlightlyMelancholic SlightlyMelancholic 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 6

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    Well its Valentines Day and its ironic because I have never felt more confused about love. I have had a few long term relationships that I should never have stayed in because I was...
    lillyloop lillyloop 26-30, F Feb 14

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    I'M In An Invisible Love Triangle - About 7 years ago I feel in love for the very first time. I was so in love I just felt like he was the one right away! He was my first...
    LonelyLola24 LonelyLola24 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2013

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    Screaming - I thought the summer cleansed me of my feelings for you, and I thought I liked my coworker, but I could be wrong. I don't really know where I stand right now. Until...
    cindniss cindniss 18-21, F Sep 11, 2013

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    Confused if Love Still Exist - During the past three weeks I've become more confused about my ex. She left me for another person, but still calls me to talk in which she states...
    wolftooth wolftooth 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 19, 2009

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    THE Message - Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. Love doesn't strut, Doesn't have a swelled head. Doesn't...
    bquick bquick 51-55, M 1 Response May 7, 2008

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    Love Or Lust - Hi I have few questions about love and lust. This all is on the basis of what I infer from what I hear, read, see etc. in the world. I'm a 24 year old man and I'm...
    capricorn110185 capricorn110185 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    It Was a Strange Time In My Life -  I was dating this guy for about three months until I broke things off. It didn't seem like he respected me and he degraded me to the point...
    crushthecure crushthecure 18-21 1 Response Apr 1, 2008

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    my partner keep contact with his first love (once or twice a month by texting and meet each other about twice a year) should I be worried ? or it's normal?
    LoveIsDifficult LoveIsDifficult 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Not Sure Anymore - I fell in love with a man and for a whole year it was like everything was perfect.  We spent as much time together as possible.  He was and is my...
    foxxy0404 foxxy0404 26-30 4 Responses Mar 11, 2009

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    I have a 7-year relationship and I live with my boyfriend for two years now, but he doesn't want to get marry
    LoveIsDifficult LoveIsDifficult 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Stupid Love Movies - Movies involving love are very misleading, they teach us that it is down to fate that we will find our true love. This makes us just sit around and wait for it...
    Ordinarygirl16 Ordinarygirl16 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    At Least For Right Now -  I'm often feeling very clear about love and just what I want in general but right now is not one of those times. Long story short, I got out of a...
    SilverLinedShadows SilverLinedShadows 22-25 3 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Love And Longing - I was in a situation where I had a feeling for a fellow female coworker. She became very close to me and I to her. She told me that I was like a brother to me...
    helasat helasat 22-25, M Jun 28, 2013

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    Definately Confused - Ok well I have been going out with this guy for just about 2 months, and I just confronted him about not seeing each other enough. While I was confronting all...
    Lawguitar27 Lawguitar27 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    ? - I'm confused about how much you are supposed to give. I am confused about how much you are supposed to forgive? Especially in marraige. I know love is supposed to have no...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 9 Responses May 6, 2008

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    Could It Be Naivety? - i am 16. of course, i know that i am young. thing is, i wish to know what love is, if it is this thing that i feel, think and speak of...   how do...
    miss1in6bliss miss1in6bliss 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6, 2008

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    So a guy I've liked for a long time now wants to kiss me, but he doesnt want to have any commitment. He just wants to kiss me, period. I've never had my first kiss, and he said he...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I know I like this guy, he's all I think about. I really do care about and want to be with him. He's told me he really likes me and wants to be with me, but he doesn't know about...
    ClaudiaLily ClaudiaLily 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    i'm in quite a complicated situation so i'll explain from the very beginning. i'll change the names because i want this to stay confidential. i am a girl currently aged 17, and...
    e197x e197x 16-17 Mar 23

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    I am so confused about my ex. We've been separated for just over a year. I left him but I don't regret that decision. He was an alcoholic and it got to the point that he was...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F Apr 6

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    My ex boyfriend who I have been "friends" with since we broke up in October, told me the other day that we need lots of time apart. I agreed. I vowed to have no contact with him...
    londonqueen londonqueen 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Hi, I would just like to share about my past feelings with my best friend. She wouldn't want to be asked about too many questions. It came to me as if she wanted to pull away, as...
    MarcyMichelle MarcyMichelle 31-35, F Mar 16

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    Really confused about my gender and feel all alone. I was born a boy however I have always been called gay or a sissy since childhood. I wonder if any guys are attracted to a...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    I know the truth about love. And I can honestly say that I am loved. I have a beautiful daughter that loves me. And an amazing boyfriend who I plan to marry someday. One thing I...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    LOVETALK IF YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT LOVE WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO SAY LOVE MAKE YOU FEEL GREY AND PALE, I ALMOST TRIED I ALMOST HIDE BEHIND MY BARS OF MIND LONELY HOPE INSIDE INSIDE...
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F Mar 24

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    Confused confused. I know this is not a good idea. But i even think on marrying someone for visa and to just get far away from my family as soon as I turn 18.
    zhaneylhuv zhaneylhuv 16-17, F Apr 2

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    Am I Settling Or Is It Love? My bf & I have been together for 1.5 years now. We live together. We have a cat together. We've talked future marriage & children. For practically...
    OldSoul246 OldSoul246 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Soooooo confused............................ Well i know i am not straight. I have this friend who is a girl and i love her. But i had a few bfs that i loved too. And that is not...
    LunaOanaAris LunaOanaAris 16-17, F Apr 2

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    boy, this is defiently an experiment for me.. putting my bussiness out in the open for the world to see.. haha here goes nothin.. well i am married for litttle over 3 years...
    brebsky brebsky 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    I am so confused. I am in two different relationships at the moment. Both from a distance. Guy 1 is sexy and attractive. A bad boy but caring as well. And I know there is no...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    It all started six years ago. This girl and I became friends when we're on our senior year in high school but before, we barely talk to each other and we're not even that close...
    myheartscore myheartscore 22-25 Mar 30

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    I usually am,I dont know that I feel like writing all the nitty gritty details etc but Im confused at the moment about a situation..maybe im afraid of being honest with myself...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I met this guy a while ago and we started texting and flirting. We even hung out once. I catched feelings and so did he (as he told me) I even asked his bestfriend if it was true...
    unthinkablesoul unthinkablesoul 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's really not a relationship yet. He's my best friend and I feel all the wonderful emotional connections that come with a serious relationship. But I don't feel the physical...
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I don't know why but lately I have been getting angry at the smallest thing. I don't want to talk to my parents(I'm not mad at them I honestly just don't know why I don't want to...
    rcola rcola 16-17, M Mar 31

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    I have been attracted to girls since I hit puberty. I have only had sexual relations with a few girls and they were either drunk or barely curious so it made it very uncomfortable...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I'm married but feel so single. My husband always ignores me. I feel like I don't exist. I'm so tired and confused!
    writer4ever writer4ever 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I recently got a job. Some job fest was organized in my college and I participated in it thinking that I will learn something new. But, I got selected and got this job. It pays me...
    Simple4me Simple4me 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I was once confident and outgoing with girls. Not that I was a player, but I could easily maintain a conversation with them and flirt every now and then. When I reached my freshman...
    PrepubescentStranger PrepubescentStranger 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    So here goes... I love my partner very much and we have been together for a couple of years. We've gotten to know each other quite well and we share many interests, not to mention...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Ever since my boyfriend told me he loved me the first time, he's said he wanted to be together forever. I was so surprised. I thought guys were all afraid of commitment, and we had...
    Veronicaculture Veronicaculture 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I recently started dating this guy. (He is my good friends friend.) We have both been separated since last August. Everything has been going great despite the fact we live two...
    hannajane777 hannajane777 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So the guy thy I was having sex with now ha a child a lil new born baby and with his baby momma ? And I still feel like he love me because I ha left him and moved on but !! I came...
    Revelyn Revelyn 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I've liked him on and off for 2 and a half years now. Recently something has changed. It's like I don't care about anyone else! I want him and only him and i'm willing to do...
    YeahThatsGreatIgnoreMe YeahThatsGreatIgnoreMe 26-30, F Mar 25

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    I feel like I'm betraying my boyfriend by feeling attracted to his brother It started from the moment I stepped into the car and he smiled at me. We connected so well talking...
    zy7a zy7a 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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