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I Am Confused About Love

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    So there's this girl.

    And we just connected like I've never connected to anyone before. We both have a passion for music. And I don't know. We just hit it off. And I'm afraid of going to fast. But things just happened I guess. I don't know how to do this. Rant over.
    pudgeblue pudgeblue 16-17, M Aug 4, 2014

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    I haven't really actively looked

    for love. I usually just experience it through others peoples stories. I am curious and know that it will change my perspective on things, but I've never have been interested in looking for it myself. Must just be the age I am at or maybe I'm a late- bloomer.
    bec413 bec413 18-21, F Aug 30, 2014

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    Love Or Lust

    Hi I have few questions about love and lust. This all is on the basis of what I infer from what I hear, read, see etc. in the world. I'm a 24 year old man and I'm not married. I'm a virgin, so the only things I know about sex are all that I have seen (in movies, videso etc...
    capricorn110185 capricorn110185 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    Confused Girl.

    im really confused.i know im totally in love with my girlfriend.and just the thought of her not bieng in my life kills me and eats me up inside, safe to say i cannot live with out my princess.the thing is , i dont get butterflys or anything anymore lke what i did when we first...
    latinos latinos 18-21, F Jan 6, 2010

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    I'M In An Invisible Love Triangle

    About 7 years ago I feel in love for the very first time. I was so in love I just felt like he was the one right away! He was my first everything. Even though we had a rocky relationship full of heartaches, my love for him was so strong. I would do anything for him and could see...
    LonelyLola24 LonelyLola24 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2013

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    So I'm talking to this guy

    and he had been in a relationship for 8 years and he just told me that he still talks to his ex and tries to make time for her and his reasoning was that "you can't just get rid of someone who has been in your life that long" What the heck.. What do you guys think is going on...
    champagneroses champagneroses 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    I don't know that I've ever really been loved

    by a partner. Sure, they said they wanted me, couldn't live without me, but they didn't value me. They wanted me, and it didn't matter whether or not I was happy.
    teawithharry teawithharry 18-21, T Aug 21, 2014

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    Love Is Complicated.

    What is Love? Love is a feeling What kind of feeling? A very Special feeling. A feeling where u can Think about that amazing Person and Smile. Love is very powerful...how powerful? Powerful enough to kill you and crush u into pieces. That my friend Is Love, be careful.!
    ThatEmoGurl ThatEmoGurl 13-15, F Sep 6, 2013

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    Screaming

    I thought the summer cleansed me of my feelings for you, and I thought I liked my coworker, but I could be wrong. I don't really know where I stand right now. Until today you had never really talked about your love life, or liking other people. I mean, last year you REFUSED to...
    cindniss cindniss 18-21, F Sep 11, 2013

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    THE Message

    Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. Love doesn't strut, Doesn't have a swelled head. Doesn't force itself on others, Isn't always "Me First ," Doesn't fly off the handle, Doesn't keep score of...
    bquick bquick 51-55, M 1 Response May 7, 2008

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    The guy I have been dating

    for the last couple of months sent a text message to me. It said "something to share" together with a picture of a concert he is in. So I'm confused. Did he send it to me because he is thinking of me. Or why? It upsets me because that's something I would have loved to share...
    prettymaria prettymaria 26-30, F Nov 7, 2014

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    At Least For Right Now

     I'm often feeling very clear about love and just what I want in general but right now is not one of those times. Long story short, I got out of a very confusing, short and intense (and confusing) relationship (I was the one who had broken up, but then I changed my mind...
    SilverLinedShadows SilverLinedShadows 22-25 3 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    ?

    I'm confused about how much you are supposed to give. I am confused about how much you are supposed to forgive? Especially in marraige. I know love is supposed to have no bounds but when you start loving your partner more than yourself, its a scary thing.
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 9 Responses May 6, 2008

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    Star-crossed Lovers

    The trip homewards revived me like never before. I was in the best of moods happily chatting away with anybody who crossed my path today. I even had a list of things I knew I had to tell him when I met him. And then he appeared out of thin air and my resolve was simply crushed...
    ahamincognito ahamincognito 22-25, F Oct 31, 2011

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    I know I like this guy,

    he's all I think about. I really do care about and want to be with him. He's told me he really likes me and wants to be with me, but he doesn't know about my feelings. Whenever he makes a move I push him away, if he flirts I don't, if he expresses his feelings I don't...
    ClaudiaLily ClaudiaLily 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2014

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    LoveIsDifficult LoveIsDifficult 22-25, F Apr 14, 2014

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    Confused about the idea of it..... Is it love or are you just telling each other a bunch of lies to get along better?
    LifelessSource LifelessSource 18-21, F Apr 1, 2011

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    So a guy I've liked for a long time

    now wants to kiss me, but he doesnt want to have any commitment. He just wants to kiss me, period. I've never had my first kiss, and he said he'd gladly be the first. I told him I don't want to kiss him unless we're in a relationship, but I know he doesn't believe me. I don't...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2014

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    Stupid Love Movies

    Movies involving love are very misleading, they teach us that it is down to fate that we will find our true love. This makes us just sit around and wait for it to happen when it never will. Also that it will happen when we least expect it which is not true b/c as a teen it's the...
    Ordinarygirl16 Ordinarygirl16 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    Should I Still Be Holding On?

    We've been together for 10 months now, but it's always on and off. We broke up just before his 2 month trip to his home town across the world where he cannot contact me. I feel like he's my first love. I missed him so much. Every couple who embraced each other, or were simply...
    ChewableFormula ChewableFormula 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2011

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    Love And Longing

    I was in a situation where I had a feeling for a fellow female coworker. She became very close to me and I to her. She told me that I was like a brother to me and I too always supported and protected her. At that time I felt nothing like that about her. But the problem came...
    helasat helasat 22-25, M Jun 28, 2013

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    I used to now and then

    when people say there in love or just mention it I'm just looking at them like "what the **** is love?!"
    Killerinstict Killerinstict 13-15, F Aug 8, 2014

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    my partner keep contact with his first love

    (once or twice a month by texting and meet each other about twice a year) should I be worried ? or it's normal?
    LoveIsDifficult LoveIsDifficult 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2014

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    Could It Be Naivety?

    i am 16. of course, i know that i am young. thing is, i wish to know what love is, if it is this thing that i feel, think and speak of...   how do you know when it's love you're hearing... how can you be sure when it's the first time you've heard it? how do you know it's...
    miss1in6bliss miss1in6bliss 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6, 2008

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    I like older men I've noticed.

    All my friends give me crap about it saying "eww you like older men." But I think reality is I'm attracted to how mature they are. Because guys my age are all immature. I just really don't know what to do now.
    nobodyimportant196 nobodyimportant196 13-15, F 2 Responses May 11, 2014

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    Definately Confused

    Ok well I have been going out with this guy for just about 2 months, and I just confronted him about not seeing each other enough. While I was confronting all the sudden he says "ya it probably won't feel like we are going out until summer.." and he is really trying to...
    Lawguitar27 Lawguitar27 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Kinda scared of what would happen

    if he actually fell in love with me but then I'm not 😏
    Captainsharlz Captainsharlz 26-30, F Aug 8, 2014

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    It Was a Strange Time In My Life

     I was dating this guy for about three months until I broke things off. It didn't seem like he respected me and he degraded me to the point where I couldn't function. I suggested us taking a week off from things so I can figure out what I really wanted out of the...
    crushthecure crushthecure 18-21 1 Response Apr 1, 2008

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    Well its Valentines Day

    and its ironic because I have never felt more confused about love. I have had a few long term relationships that I should never have stayed in because I was never fully into them..and so of course they eventually ended each 3 and 4 years later. Now I started seeing someone new...
    lillyloop lillyloop 26-30, F Feb 14, 2014

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    Today i was gonna ask my math teacher about the

    homework this week. I was talking when he kissed me. Then i looked like he was in panic and said : Oh god! Im sorry Ellie! And he walked out in panic. Im just still in chock after it
    Lyips Lyips 13-15, F 3 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Killerinstict Killerinstict 13-15, F Sep 13, 2014

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    When Do You Call It a Day...

    After five years with the person whom I had the unrealistic belief I was going to marry, we broke up because of a stupid fight that got out of hand (I guess that is usually how it ends). This was different though, afterwards I asked him why? Why throw away five...
    lostanndfound lostanndfound 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2009

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    Confused if Love Still Exist

    During the past three weeks I've become more confused about my ex. She left me for another person, but still calls me to talk in which she states that she still and will always love me. This is done behind the other person's back. I love her and want her back, but she...
    wolftooth wolftooth 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 19, 2009

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    I have a 7-year relationship

    and I live with my boyfriend for two years now, but he doesn't want to get marry
    LoveIsDifficult LoveIsDifficult 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2014

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    Not Sure Anymore

    I fell in love with a man and for a whole year it was like everything was perfect.  We spent as much time together as possible.  He was and is my first serious relationship.  We moved in together and I didn't think twice about it.  Only after we had been...
    foxxy0404 foxxy0404 26-30 4 Responses Mar 11, 2009

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    2t3v3 2t3v3 16-17, M Sep 16, 2014

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    You can't follow your heart

    when it's more confused than your head. So the second your heart starts to beat faster RUN while you still can!
    RebeccaMontero RebeccaMontero 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    I'm so confused about all the relationship.

    I'm so tired of everything I don't even feel like explaining. All I want is a girl who f cares about me, a loving one, a one I can rely on. This is 90% of my expectation for a long term relationship. Just a girl who truly genuinely cares. Then, of course comes: brains, sense of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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