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I Am Confused About Many Things

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    Is She

    I leave in bronx n.y & my girlfriend leave in Brooklyn. N.y we been friend for 16teen years & now I'm 26 & she's 28 & what I don't understand is she would come all the way to the Bronx to see a dude but not me & I always use to go to Brooklyn back then to see her is she a friend...
    Chrissylovely Chrissylovely 70+ Apr 10, 2013

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    ?????

    i am a very curious person and the simplest things in life can confuse me....that gets annoying sometimes though. i wonder about everything and mostly when im bored or having a conversation. and it gets ugly with controversial topics. i had a little problem in my speech &...
    patriot14 patriot14 16-18 Apr 21, 2008

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    Mostly Men :(

    why would someone be really sweet one day, act all caring and nice....then the next day turn that all around and act like a total ****? Is this normal behaviour of men? Some kind of flirting ritual maybe??? I'm really confused...
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    baffles me how some men can switch from

    complete gentleman to complete jerk in a matter of seconds😳😒
    Eyesforgold Eyesforgold 18-21, F Jan 14

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    The Difference

    This entire week I have been hanging out with my friends, but one in particular has wanted to hang out with me this whole week. That person is my ex-girlfriend. I've known her since I was 6, and we dated back in 10th grade. If I had to choose a best friend, it would be her. The...
    AMidnightDreary AMidnightDreary 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    Life Is Confusing.

    Anybody who can go through life not being confused these days about something, and say they are not confused are liars.Life itself is confusing.Women are confused and confusing.Men have always been confused about women anyway.It must have been Confucious who made everything...
    alwaysawanderer alwaysawanderer 66-70, M Nov 8, 2013

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    Confused About Alot Of Things Scared Of Commitment And Relationships

    Well i am scared of life's quest and surroundings not sure what i am to do. Affraid of being judged and affraid of what i'm expected to do and what i should do. Rather than what i should be doing and i not sure og my sexual orientation and am very confused and i'ts causing...
    russellboundforhope russellboundforhope 31-35 1 Response Aug 6, 2012

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    I want my husband and i to have no problems

    sharing our online activity, mine is completely open to him and his os all locked up, he doesn't bother to read my things but i wouldn't mind him too, he does NOT want me to read his, sighs, this is killing me'
    Solagurl Solagurl 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2013

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    Confused...about Everything

    I am confused at just about everything in my life. When i'm with my friends we laugh a lot n smile and get alone, but as i sit here at my computer and think about life, when do they invite me places, when do they text me....well they don't. When we're together we seem like great...
    undermyskin28 undermyskin28 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2010

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    Im Generally a Confused Per...

    Im generally a confused person. Where Im going, what Im doing, all of it confuses me. People too. I cant read them or understand them. I dont understand tones of voice or that very well.... I always think its worse than it really is. Then the world in general confuses me. Why...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2008

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    I was true yet I could not achieve what I

    wanted to.I suffer from guilt but I am unable to find out truly how much harm I have created . Through the eyes of reality I am measured and framed while the base lies miles away from it. My life scattered lonely now I walk on paths even after separating I bear the pangs...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 Feb 22

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    What Is It?

    These days i am so confused for no reason. Nothing bad is going on in my life and God forbid that anything bad happens, but I just don't feel happy in any way except for when i go to school and am with my friends. When i'm home i want to be in a dark room with no one around me...
    lifeispainful12 lifeispainful12 16-17, F Nov 27, 2013

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    Yes I Am

    Other than all the confusing and complicated things in life, Sometimes the simple things confuse me,
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    Her.. Can she love

    both of us at the same time? I don't want to lose her but at the same time I don't want to lose him and she lose her man either.. Is this just exploring the same sex?.. Or this is something real?
    Gangaxgal Gangaxgal 18-21, F Dec 20, 2013

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    Coming Out Story

    H i! You may find this interesting.    Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone http://www.amazon.com/Figuring-Out-N-S-B/dp/0979216303 http://www.myspace.com/figuringitoutbook Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story. This books has been rated...
    grehyzz grehyzz 26-30 Dec 3, 2008

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    Is This Really Better?

    I am trying so hard to be better. I am erasing my negativity. It's making me so confused. I don't know myself when I am not being negative. I keep adopting what other people say is right and wrong and keep second-guessing my instinctive reactions to EVERYTHING. I want to be the...
    Eddey Eddey 22-25, F Nov 6, 2013

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    I Never Quite Get It

    I always say I want this or I want that, but when it boils down to it, I'm confused and feel like I should shut up sometimes....
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2010

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    I Need To Stop Keeping This Bottled Up Inside...

    I give up. Bottom line I’m tired of trying. I don’t know what to even say or write whatever. Its 2:16 in the morning. And all I am sure of is that I am done with life. Everything in my life is ****. Legit ****. I can’t think of one positive thing about my life. I have...
    confusedjess confusedjess 18-21 2 Responses Feb 21, 2011

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    How Do You Know?!?

    when you're really falling in love with someone??????
    OregonsMisfit OregonsMisfit 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2008

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    For Sure!

    I am, I admit it. I am confused, I think, because I think and feel one way (female) but must go through my day to day life another (male). My mind is clear, I'm female ... always have been and always will be. But trying to interact with others I must re-think what I'm doing...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2008

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    So Many

    there are so many things in life that confuse me. Like why are people always pointing the finger at people for something? Why do people act different depending who they are around?Why can you tell you child something 20 times and they still don't listen? so many thing s to figure...
    butterflies7 butterflies7 26-30, F Mar 28, 2008

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    I Was-i Am-but Dont Want To Remain Confused!

      The train of my life has derailed (maybe not so much) but currently I am lost in the tracks and I cant help but worry. So many questions, so many more mismatched answers.  Nothing fits. Its like a scattered jigsaw puzzle. You have the pieces with you but you don’t...
    Michhhhnat Michhhhnat 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    It Usually Happens

    yeah. like, i'm always back on square one. frustrating, actually, but everytime I fall down, thank God I still have the courage to pick myself up and get to know myself once more. 
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2009

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    What Am I To Do?

    I'm sixteen years old, I am female, and i love my parents to death. But my mother is an alcoholic, i lost respect for her four years ago when i thought she was dead, but she just drank too much. She expects me to respect her, how am i to do that when i have lost all respect for...
    AMLX AMLX 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    New City.

    First of all, I'm just a 13 year old girl. I'm a bit taller than average, smarter than average but now suffering from brain fog, confusion and anxiety. Before I moved to a different city, I always thought the city I currently lived in was crap and filled with pre-teens with drugs...
    confusingcity confusingcity 13-15 Mar 31, 2013

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    I don't even know where to start.

    But why do I fall in love with straight girls? Hiding my sexuality ? Hiding the fact that I love to smoke ? I just wanna roll one and take a walk in the cold air :(
    Gangaxgal Gangaxgal 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    You Have Brought Me To This State Of Confusion

    I lost my way. These days, weeks, months. Lost my sense of responsibility, courage, determination, limitation. You. You have taken me to another level. One that I never reached before. You had helped me discover myself. My attributes and beauty. Thank you for that. But I don’t...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 15, 2011

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    Confused Nursing Student

    I remembered back way in high school I told myself, "I will never take up nursing". When I was a senior teachers discouraged us and all over the news all I see is surplus of unemployed nurses. Im willing to take up anything but not nursing but I have no choice because if I wont...
    isha07 isha07 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    Education

    I'm admittedly only 14 but I have been thinking about what I want to do when I'm older , I would love to do teaching ,possibly teaching geography in a secondary school. I have been looking online but I don't know what to do or how to get there? Help?
    awesomemunchkin awesomemunchkin 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2013

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    Life

    Once upon a time I found out Im not who I want to be.
    jamesbass jamesbass 31-35 1 Response Mar 28, 2012

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    Hard to Live With

    What is there to get?
    stripesANDsunshine stripesANDsunshine 18-21, F Jun 4, 2008

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    There is too much going on in my life all at

    once. I have so many things to worry about, and I am confused as to how to deal with it all. Sometimes I feel like just breaking down and crying. But that is not going to solve anything. It’s just going to leave the problems waiting for me to deal with them. I need to fix...
    lonelyphantasma lonelyphantasma 22-25, F Feb 26

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    Who Am I?

    Every day we live we try to go by a personal code we construct for ourselves. There is a line we create in our minds that we deem unacceptable to cross. This way we can carry ourselves with a certain amount of what people call integrity. Things go smoothly enough if you follow...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2012

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    My ex boyfriend who I have been "friends" with

    since we broke up in October, told me the other day that we need lots of time apart. I agreed. I vowed to have no contact with him for several months. But then yesterday night, he called me up on the telephone and what's more, showed up at my apartment. I don't understand. Does...
    londonqueen londonqueen 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    What Does He Want??????

    Am just confused about what does my Ex boyfriend want, what is my feeling toward him & what he meant by saying such things. he was my past very recently and i already forgotten him. spontaneously after one clear year of broken up he just seems curious to talk about our past, to...
    gagagirl gagagirl 18-21, F Feb 2, 2013

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    My job is freelance work in a profession filled

    with men. I have established business in 1 place but lately have been fed up with a few men I have to work with. One, that is old enough to be my grandfather, being stalker-ish and 1 that is 20 years older than me with a drinking problem, that actually does to me things that...
    twistedheart99 twistedheart99 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I know what I want, to work on being

    independent, building a career, being fit, finding things in life that make me happy. But I can't think about having a boyfriend, marriage, or kids because I feel like there is so much in life that I have not experienced yet so I'm not ready for any of that. But at the same...
    mrvitous26 mrvitous26 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 14

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    What I Feel Right Now

    what i feel right now I am lost and confused I feel so alone I can't find my way Oh, I just wanna go home. My heart has gone tired, My soul has gone weary... How long can i hang on? I don't know really. Everything I've hoped for Just vanished completely, Seems like heaven and...
    prettierinpink prettierinpink 36-40, F Mar 30, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    boy, this is defiently an experiment for me.. putting my bussiness out in the open for the world to see.. haha here goes nothin.. well i am married for litttle over 3 years...
    brebsky brebsky 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7

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    I was once confident and outgoing with girls. Not that I was a player, but I could easily maintain a conversation with them and flirt every now and then. When I reached my freshman...
    NoPseudonym NoPseudonym 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    What is it with her? Is this what they call true love? No matter what happens i just can't let her go. What i don't get is her ex adam is always there in her life, always has been...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F Apr 6

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    i'm in quite a complicated situation so i'll explain from the very beginning. i'll change the names because i want this to stay confidential. i am a girl currently aged 17, and...
    e197x e197x 16-17 Mar 23

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    Hi, I am engaged to a guy named Mike and have been with him for 4 years. He does so many things for his mom, but not for me. For instance Mike and I were visiting my parents for my...
    katie415 katie415 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 11

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    I am so confused about my ex. We've been separated for just over a year. I left him but I don't regret that decision. He was an alcoholic and it got to the point that he was...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F Apr 6

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    Hey guys! I'm not confused about my religion, but if anyone wants to talk, or needs a prayer request about religion let me know! I'm a Christian, southern baptist. Anything at all...
    ssuummeerr2 ssuummeerr2 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Really confused about my gender and feel all alone. I was born a boy however I have always been called gay or a sissy since childhood. I wonder if any guys are attracted to a...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 3

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    Thoughts, opinions, ideas, questions, problems, concerns, and feelings: these are all things that I don't feel like burdening others with. I feel that if I reveal any of them, the...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I'm feeling tired about my life not moving forward. I'm rarely satisfied (if ever) on how things are going for me. My professional career is just a switch-and-bait situation; my...
    MrC88 MrC88 22-25, M 11 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend moved away for a job and to be near family. He never broke up with me. He calls and he won't tell me to move on. I really love him. He seemed upset about going away...
    Hummingbirdgirl Hummingbirdgirl 26-30, F 23 hrs ago

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    Am I Settling Or Is It Love? My bf & I have been together for 1.5 years now. We live together. We have a cat together. We've talked future marriage & children. For practically...
    OldSoul246 OldSoul246 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 11

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    It's really not a relationship yet. He's my best friend and I feel all the wonderful emotional connections that come with a serious relationship. But I don't feel the physical...
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Please help!! I'll do my best to cut it short (please read carefully). I've been in a relationship with this guy for 6 yrs. I've been in love with the guy since I was sixteen...
    Dracogirl Dracogirl 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    Ever since my boyfriend told me he loved me the first time, he's said he wanted to be together forever. I was so surprised. I thought guys were all afraid of commitment, and we had...
    Veronicaculture Veronicaculture 18-21, F Apr 6

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    Confused confused. I know this is not a good idea. But i even think on marrying someone for visa and to just get far away from my family as soon as I turn 18.
    zhaneylhuv zhaneylhuv 16-17, F Apr 2