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I Am Confused About My Feelings

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    Sometimes I can't figure myself out.

    As a r@pe survivor, sometimes s*x is scary and hard to accept, especially with so many people into tying each other up and causing each other pain during intimate acts. It's vulnerable and it's a moment of potential pain and danger. On the other hand, it's been two years...
    Searchingformyshalom Searchingformyshalom 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    im starting to understand my feelings better

    because im an empath and when i spend time with someone i can feel their emotions even when their not there ive learned to identify which emotions are or are not mine. i do getconfused about a few other things though like how i feel about certain situations, people or decisions...
    kyanitestone186 kyanitestone186 18-21, F Apr 2

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    Feeling like some kind of criminal

    for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses me, because I think that my feelings were wrong and it makes me feel so small because it's so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn't come back.
    Angieinthewonderland Angieinthewonderland 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    What A Day...

    Sometimes I just share too much. I'll kick myself for a few days and get over it. Maybe I won't get over losing what I thought was a very good friend, but I will remember the lesson I've learned. Forgive and be thankful for the things you learn, life is far too short. God...
    MizzyH MizzyH 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    so i liked this guy named DJ.

    ...we were really close...as so i thought....wen he talked to my cousins and best friends tryna get with them......the worst part was i couldn't say nuthin bc our relationship was secret....and i shared big things with him and i was betrayed by him????????
    thoughtless17 thoughtless17 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I just don't know anymore.

    . My heart is saying one thing, and then it says the complete opposite... I don't know what to believe anymore..
    Icrossmyheart Icrossmyheart 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    I love you but I don't feel it.

    ..I know there's a physical feeling to it, it's in your heart I know that but I don't feel it. I don't physically feel the love and it's driving me insane. I feel like such a ****** person but I need them to know I'm trying and that I'm sorry I don't feel it..I don't know why but...
    RaAmun RaAmun 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I want to start this by asking

    for no hate. I need help. I am suicidal. I am 16. I believe in god but sometimes I believe he has forsaken me. my therapist told me to try this site so I am. Can anyone help me?
    justb3inme justb3inme 16-17, F 22 Responses Jan 1

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    i just want to have a real true friend

    who will listen to my feelings everytime i have problems..... this is so fustrating cause im goin through some bs rite now and all my friends seemed to have all of sudden changed and now are fake friends they only wanna talk to me when they have problems or when they need...
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    Is it really worth all the pain

    and jealousy? Am I willing to lose my sleep and mental peace over this? :/
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    so one of my closest friends has just told me

    he's in love with me. thing is, I love him just as a friend, but I'm scared that after I friendzone him we'll lose our friendship, and I'm so confused about what i should do
    emjagrace emjagrace 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 24

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    I know what I should feel.

    I just don't feel it at all.
    weirdWorks4me weirdWorks4me 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I received the most beautiful

    and sincere message one can ever hope to get. Just a kind word, just a I hope u feel better wish, just a true friend. I saw it, was blown away by the pure beauty of it, made me shiver and cry. Just a few simple words, but coming from a friend, they mean so much more. So much...
    ryan015 ryan015 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    so I don't really know why

    but at this point in time it feels like I'm being weighed down with negativity. and I don't do negativity very well so I have not one clue how to behave with everyone. I wish I could help everyone but no one wants the help.sigh...why can't people just be more like me.things...
    casualtyofwar casualtyofwar 22-25, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I guess I'm actually pretty certain about my

    feeling my not about his! I will text him fist then we will have a nice long conversation then I will always end the conversation. And when we are together in person sometimes we talk one on one and laugh and have a nice conversation but then sometimes I feel like he treats me...
    shamrok11 shamrok11 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I find it hard to separate my emotional feelings

    and physical feelings. I end up liking the guys I sleep with, more than they like me
    ttdrrfsgf ttdrrfsgf 22-25, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    this is going to sound like the most generic

    problem a girl goes through at this age but I need to sort myself out so I'm going to rant a little. I went on this cruise with my best friend and our other "best friend." the cruise was fun and we met these 4 four guys. 2 of them were 2 years older and the other 2 were 4 years...
    thoughtsofateenager thoughtsofateenager 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Why

    Why do I love you? Is there more to it than love? Why have you hurt me so terribly? What can I do to move forward? Can I keep you?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses May 7, 2011

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    I known this Dude Name Justin

    for about a year on June 8th When We Met He Wasn't Looking For A Relationship He Told Me Commitment Is Like Jail For Him And Now He Says He Loves Me And Is Confusing Me.Now Everyday I Wonder If He Really Wants To Be In A Relationship With Me He Does Not Cheat He Has Been Very...
    maraisnice maraisnice 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I am really confused about my feelings,

    things have changed alot recently. Would like another female to talk to
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4

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    There is this guy who is like my best friend

    but isn't at the same time. However, I am really not sure how I feel about him. Like half of me is saying yeah I like you a lot and you are all I want to be with. But the other half is just like no I can't stand you these days because of how much of a jerk you can be. I just don...
    internationalkoala internationalkoala 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Confused Doesn't Even Cover It

    like the person below me i was a college kid that had a lot of ideals and dreams that i don't so much believe in anymore.  i am depressed about this and other things, and my mood swings leave me very confused. i come up with all these 'theories' in my head on how i got this...
    suckfest suckfest 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 24, 2007

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    Yes I am! I was always using my brain to make

    my progress through my life but lately I found out, that didn't work. Now that I allowed my heart to have a saying, it drove me nuts! First when my married friend shared his emotions with me, I failed to see them as disrespectful, inappropriate, and disgusting as I should! He...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    That moment you start to question everything

    you believed in..Not sure if it's good or bad?..Uhhh...I don't like putting myself in situations where i feel im gonna get screwed over.I can be judgmental of people i guess and i suppose (hate saying this) I'm a hypocrite at times.I judge people harshly i expect them to be a...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    when aren't i, I never know what I'm feeling

    anymore. I feel like all I've ever ben saying is "I don't know" for my whole life
    awayfromlife awayfromlife 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I didn't know a better experience to post this

    under. I'm just super confused about my identity, and I feel like a lot of the time I wear different masks for different people? I don't even know which mask is the real me anymore. I can be almost anyone who I want to with a different mask. Introverted, nerdy, outgoing, smart...
    Caleb54 Caleb54 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I jump into...or rather.

    ..put myself into situations where I feel like I'm stuck and I have to please everyone. I am in a relationship but someone I once knew and thought to be gone forever has come back into my life. She told me she loved me and I said it back and I meant it...but now I don't know what...
    W0lfofNoWhere W0lfofNoWhere 16-17, M Apr 12

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    pinkypoo33 pinkypoo33 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    Feelings

    How do we know what we are feeling is true? How do we feel like we do for someone when we know its irrational? How do we know if its emotional attatchment or something more? How can we feel so much for someone we barely know? How do we know if its mutual or we're making a...
    gem1969 gem1969 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 19.

    . We're together 5 months now and wev been fighting a lot lately.. He hit me last night and I found he left a bruise, this is not the first time either :/
    Leannaax Leannaax 13-15, F 38 Responses Jan 6

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    Everybody's away, as

    if this town wasn't small enough and I'm just sitting alone, in my room, in the middle of the night questionning everybody and everything, every decision made and not made. And I regret. I regret letting people so close to me and I regret letting peoole take advantage of me. I...
    BMTH99 BMTH99 16-17, F Apr 7

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    I let myself get attached

    and he told me he was moving...I haven't been this attached to anyone in years. He sent me a text saying he was back for a month to pack up and tie up loose ends. am I a loose end? he also said he'd like some "female companionship" but if I do decide to let anything come of it...
    indecisivewitch indecisivewitch 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    do I like her? or her?

    ? do I REALLY like her? am I just saying that? I'm obsessive huh?
    HeyHay15 HeyHay15 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I wish I could find someone

    who would just listen and not think I'm crazy for it. like deep conversations and fears. maybe meet someone.
    gizmolover101 gizmolover101 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Confused- unable to think clearly; bewildered.

    Confused because I'm treading in the unknown. Confused because I don't know what the future holds. Confused because the one place I want to be, I am not. Confused because my black and white world now glitters throughout. Confused because I've gambled this road before and lost...
    lavioletta lavioletta 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    I known this Dude Name Justin

    for about a year on June 8th When We Met He Wasn't Looking For A Relationship He Told Me Commitment Is Like Jail For Him And Now He Says He Loves Me And Is Confusing Me.Now Everyday I Wonder If He Really Wants To Be In A Relationship With Me He Does Not Cheat He Has Been Very...
    maraisnice maraisnice 16-17, F Apr 10

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    Im going through some rough times.

    I came out to my wife about crossdressing about 5 months ago. She has taken it rather hard and is not sure how to deal with it. Frankly now im not either. I dont want this to be the end all. Last night we had a pretty good conversation about it but today doesnt seem like it...
    CDKristiK CDKristiK 51-55, T 13 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    After years of silence,

    you remind me how it feels to speak. To speak and be heard, to speak and be understood. Thoughts transposed into Words that mean more than courtesies. Time wasted in silence, A fear of being misunderstood. Of losing what was never mine. It's an apologetic truth, A...
    annalea annalea 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    Confused. Oh so very confused.

    Mixed feelings.. so overwhelming. The good things and the bad things constantly clutter my mind. Which outweighs the other? Are they equal? Not like it matters. I have no choice anyway. I want this. I don't want this. This is good. This is bad. This is fair. This is...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I Just Can't Believe He Is Self Centered

    Friends, unfortunately, come in and out of our lives. Some friends make such an impression that they change our lives and others we don't always remember their names. I met this guy when I was seventeen, he had the most amazing teeth and he was a really nice guy to go along with...
    amigoodenough amigoodenough 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    Really confused...like.

    ..I hate the way I'm feeling right now. Yet I don't know what to think about it, how to act upon it...I feel strange, awful and wrong feeling this way. ****.
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Last night, I agreed to see you

    although you were drunk. I should've known what was destined to occur, but instead I choose to be oblivious to the facts. After everything has been done, I realized that I do miss you, but you're not right for me. Our relationship was supposed to be a partnership, but the way...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    There is no easy way to explain the confusion I

    have right now. I've been very lucky to be able to "escape" to Hawaii for the week and get away from all the stress and things going on in my regular life. However, one thing has recently made me get to thinking. On multiple occasions, a link has been made between cute girls...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    should I b happy the girl

    who broke my heart just sent me this. "You're probably thinking I'm a serious ***** rn but that's ok bc I am. I'm tired of hiding things from u and lying to u so I'm just gonna tell u this: I smoke drink lost my virginity and I'm happy the way I am. If you don't like it it is...
    pilot2022 pilot2022 13-15, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Why do I bother with this?

    All it's going to do is get me hurt. I know it. I just know. It already kind of is. I wish I can just say "I'm done" and actually be done. But I can't. You can't just tell your feelings to change. **** feelings. **** this. **** everything.
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2014

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    So I've always had this confusion my entire

    life... Do I really like this person? For example, I probably don't like this one person, "like" as in love, but he clearly shows his crush/admiration on me all the time and we'd talk like friends. Yet when I see him talk to other girls I'd get this bitter feeling which I'm not...
    possiblyali possiblyali 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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