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I Am Confused About My Feelings

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    I need advice or help idk.

    But lately this kid has been asking me out and tonight he asked me out again. And I wanna give it a try but I don't know what to say do to the fact that he is going away to college in a few weeks and the fact the I use to have a thing with one of his friends & I might still have...
    skyblue914 skyblue914 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    Aren'T We All?

    I am married. I love my husband. But the other day, I felt like it was all going south. I thought, after a series of things going on, that he didn't love me anymore. When I thought about this, I then started thinking about an ex and I was like "that guy really did love me" then...
    laDamedeFer laDamedeFer 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    What the hell am I supposed to do?

    I thought I was over it, I thought I was done. I guess not, I'm just as hurt as I was before. My feelings haven't changed. It have they? I think I need closure. But how do I achieve it?
    QueenGoddess QueenGoddess 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I Just Can't Believe He Is Self Centered

    Friends, unfortunately, come in and out of our lives. Some friends make such an impression that they change our lives and others we don't always remember their names. I met this guy when I was seventeen, he had the most amazing teeth and he was a really nice guy to go along with...
    amigoodenough amigoodenough 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    Last night, I agreed to see you

    although you were drunk. I should've known what was destined to occur, but instead I choose to be oblivious to the facts. After everything has been done, I realized that I do miss you, but you're not right for me. Our relationship was supposed to be a partnership, but the way...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 7

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    Have you ever wondered

    that a question mark looks like a half a heart?
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    ........

    I’m very confused…. I really don’t know what do I want and I do not even know what to write but I just feel tired of not understanding myself and I feel that I want to get it out….!I’m changing but that’s not a problem because everyone changes, but what do you do when...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    I always find a guy I'm capable of liking.

    .. Then I find another one! It always has to be 2 good guys. Why can't I settle down with one? Could it be commitment issues?
    cassiecollins cassiecollins 16-17, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Why

    Why do I love you? Is there more to it than love? Why have you hurt me so terribly? What can I do to move forward? Can I keep you?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses May 7, 2011

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    Maybe I'm better of alone.

    I can't do this anymore. I don't want to have to feel this pain.
    kirstyc4321 kirstyc4321 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    Hazel216 Hazel216 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I feel like I got broken up with.

    This sucks...like a lot. I'll miss you so much.
    WhosToSay WhosToSay 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    Confused Doesn't Even Cover It

    like the person below me i was a college kid that had a lot of ideals and dreams that i don't so much believe in anymore.  i am depressed about this and other things, and my mood swings leave me very confused. i come up with all these 'theories' in my head on how i got this...
    suckfest suckfest 19-21, F 5 Responses Dec 24, 2007

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    My dad just called me hot,

    I'm so weirded out :/ I showed him a video of me doing the ice bucket challenge and my mom was like "you look so cute" and I was like "thanks I was wearing makeup" and my dad was like "yeah you're getting pretty hot" Uhmmm....he's never said anything like that but it creeped me...
    Planetoi Planetoi 18-21, F 6 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    As short as I can make this.

    Recently I went through a heart break. My ex told me he wasn't in love with me. Yet I am? The end. So I thought. We met up to give back our stuff, he hugged me so tight and I was confused ?Then he says to give him time. Space. I'm all like ok! Take whatever time you want. We had...
    Betty288 Betty288 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    forever thinking if you like two people at the

    same time you should go for the second, because if you really liked the first you wouldn't have a second.. BUT what if that second person is your boyfriends close mate?!?
    itsagirlthingggg itsagirlthingggg 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    It's hard because I love a guys body

    but if I see a girl in real live i "perf". But if u put them both in front of me NAKED I would be glued to the guy not the girl, Any body els have the same problem ?
    weadle98 weadle98 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    If you're confused on what you like.

    Girls, guys, both. Don't be, there's a lot of people who are curious. you're not strange and you're not weird. Talk about it.
    molldoll98 molldoll98 22-25, F Jan 12

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    Feelings

    How do we know what we are feeling is true? How do we feel like we do for someone when we know its irrational? How do we know if its emotional attatchment or something more? How can we feel so much for someone we barely know? How do we know if its mutual or we're making a...
    gem1969 gem1969 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    I have a guy friend who I am basically best

    friends with, we have so much in common... And I really don't know if I want to be just friends with him anymore, I mean I was disgusted when my friends told me they think he has a crush on me a few months ago, but now I'm not so sure. Also turns out that he dated this girl for...
    moonstonecrow moonstonecrow 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 1

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    Leaving

    I’m haunted by the ghosts.The pictures that move through my roomWhere you laid next to meThat’s where you smiledAnd I fell in love. Memories seep into my thoughtsRemembering you strong and perfectNothing like who you really are.Nothing like who I really am.I knew it was...
    shamrock17 shamrock17 18-21, F Jan 12, 2012

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    Is it really worth all the pain

    and jealousy? Am I willing to lose my sleep and mental peace over this? :/
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Marriage... Friendship... Love... Confusion...

    Confused... In Love... With An Amazing Man... Who Happened To Be My Husband's Ex Husband... My husband had a few years long affair. Did I know? Yes, I knew about it. Hoping, no, fooling myself that one day it will become pure friendship. He claimed it was at the beginning and...
    lostle lostle 31-35 5 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I'm literally fighting the urge every minute to

    talk to you...and you probable hate me so much.
    WhosToSay WhosToSay 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    it has been awhile since I have been on here

    but right now I really do feel like I need this site because I am so confused and keep praying about it but don't know the answers
    traci1212 traci1212 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    I sometimes wonder if I'm going on the right

    path or if i am missing certain opportunities... But i have no clue what i am actually searching for. I just feel like i shouldn't be here right now but i have no clue where i need to go.
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    My ex and I officially broke up two months.

    In that short period of time, I discovered he not only started a relationship with someone new, but someone who seems absolutely perfect for him. Sure, I know you can't judge a relationship by its cover...but it seems like the real deal. While I want to be happy for him, I feel...
    JELA3959 JELA3959 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    i dont know what to feel with you man!

    we______ at the same time? so sick lol!
    jimbarrybendoy jimbarrybendoy 16-17, M Jul 19

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    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    So, I finally admitted my feelings to the girl

    I have a crush on. I told her that I had a crush on her but that I don't think they're real and that I just wanted to be friends even if I had those feelings. She seemed shocked for a minute. She said, "But we're friends" like three times in a row. I feel pathetic because I'm a...
    IrMe IrMe 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 5

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    i just want to have a real true friend

    who will listen to my feelings everytime i have problems..... this is so fustrating cause im goin through some bs rite now and all my friends seemed to have all of sudden changed and now are fake friends they only wanna talk to me when they have problems or when they need...
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 13

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    I would usually admit this,

    but I feel I have to no I need to. You guys won't judge too harshly... I hope... This will be long and with not good gramma and chiz. So lets start a couple months ago, maybe 3. I came back from a cruise and broke up with my girlfriend, I knew While I loved her I wasn't in love...
    BeautifulMyth BeautifulMyth 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    What should i do?

    there is a guy who had recently been my friend. he is smart and have good sense of humor. he often comes to visit me . we have a good chat. he flirts with me and i like that. he compliments me and i keep blushing. i like whenever he comes closer to me when he hugs me. i have...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    designer25m designer25m 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 14

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    Does anyone else struggle to know how they

    truly feel about things? I have anxiety issues and am bombarded by conflicting thoughts, it's difficult to actually know what I feel, well apart from being a bit of a freak that is...
    Mejustoldme Mejustoldme 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I want attention. I break up with him.

    2weeks later I miss him like crazy. I text him, and he told me yea u were right we not meant to be. Is all my bad, I use this all the time to get his attention. And now he is taking it serious and leaving . I am ******* sad that I would have turn back the clock!!! And I am...
    VolatileMe VolatileMe 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hi guys:) I am definitely sure

    that you people out there will be able to assist me in the dilemma that I am currently experiencing!! So there is this guy he is really sweet we met when I was on vacation with a few friends and it so happened we bumped into each other in a coffee shop about two weeks ago. Here...
    Qila02 Qila02 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    pinkypoo33 pinkypoo33 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    Really haven't told anyone this

    so I really need some advice , long story short I think I am starting to like my best friend the problem is , is that she is a girl (obviously so am I) I'm not that type of person to judge I mean you like what you like right ? But I know that she will never look at me that way...
    mixedbreeddd mixedbreeddd 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    Working Towards Simplicity And Gratitude

    Mind was in an unusual reflective state today - Caught in a giant whirl of emotions. And whilst oscillating between finding life meaningful and not, I thought, our lives seem so complex, even unnatural. Struggling, as a helpless child thrown into the vast ocean, The mind slowly...
    benthicflare benthicflare 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 22, 2012

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    Every night I think to myself trying to figure

    out who I am, wondering what's wrong with me. I get so depressed at night. My feelings be all over the place, so many thoughts going through my head trying to put things together. everything has been a big blur. Nothing seems right any more, I'm a messed up girl. Recently I told...
    rainee12 rainee12 13-15, F 2 Responses May 29

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    So I've written about my neighbor a couple

    times, about the other day when she was having rough times with her boyfriend and I went and comforted her. I let her put makeup on me and we talked and laughed and danced. Anyways, we ended up making out with tongue and lip biting. She went back to her mom's. I noticed she...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    There is a man. I don’t know him.

    I’ve watched his conversation in a chat room. Taken part in a few. I follow his twitter - see pictures of his son. Read the details of his life he is willing to share. He isn’t really a friend - but an acquaintance. Someone I always want to talk to but we don’t have...
    TheRuncibleSpoon TheRuncibleSpoon 36-40, F 2 Responses May 6

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    Like woah. My 'boyfriend' is being distant

    and my best friend's 'ex' wants to date me.. Halp.
    tiredreally tiredreally 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Ugh

    Tonight I just feel lonely..... I'm desperately wanting to just have someone hold me, play with my hair, look at me face to face, and just not feel so alone. Never had that before, I don't want sex either lol I just want....I don't know...something.... I feel stupid even writing...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    I can share my feelings with a thousand

    internet strangers but not with the people closest to me. Cool.
    privacyboy privacyboy 18-21, M 16 hrs ago

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    Well again, I am inexperienced in love.

    I have been married before, but I don't think it was love. As for what qualities are the best in a man, another person put it nicely on here today... EQ + IQ. That's a hard one to find. If you do find it, it's hard to recognize. Usually those I attract / have an attraction to...
    stargirl84 stargirl84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    For some reason I am avoiding everyone .

    Yet I want to be around people
    MixedMulatto MixedMulatto 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    What A Day...

    Sometimes I just share too much. I'll kick myself for a few days and get over it. Maybe I won't get over losing what I thought was a very good friend, but I will remember the lesson I've learned. Forgive and be thankful for the things you learn, life is far too short. God...
    MizzyH MizzyH 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    I want to know if I'm a bad person.

    My parents say that I'm a mean one.. I don't know why. My brothers sometimes agree with them (I don't have any sisters). They say that I don't smile when I'm around them and the way I talk or respond is always in a rude or a mean way and that I'm always in my room. Well, I don...
    mjh1234 mjh1234 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I'm attracted to or falling

    for (not sure which one) a straight-married guy with 3 kids. I know its wrong but he's really gorgeous. What should I do?
    inseng12 inseng12 22-25 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I have a best friend named Colby,

    but I like his good friend Tyler, and Tyler likes me back! And I'm so happy. But Wyatt and Colby keep saying this stuff about Tyler that I don't think he'd say at all... So Idk if I should believe it because Colby's my best friend or?.. I need help
    cassiecollins cassiecollins 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I can't describe how I feel anymore.

    I feel sad while I can easily say I feel happy. I can laugh and smile but just as easily cry and break. I don't know how to feel anymore sometimes. And it's not just at night anymore.
    makedamnnsure makedamnnsure 13-15, F 2 days ago

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