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I Am Confused About My Feelings

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    I’m haunted by the ghosts.The pictures that move through my roomWhere you laid next to meThat’s where you smiledAnd I fell in love. Memories seep into my thoughtsRemembering you strong and perfectNothing like who you really are.Nothing like who I really am.I knew it was...
    shamrock17 shamrock17 18-21, F Jan 12, 2012

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    Well again, I am inexperienced in love.

    I have been married before, but I don't think it was love. As for what qualities are the best in a man, another person put it nicely on here today... EQ + IQ. That's a hard one to find. If you do find it, it's hard to recognize. Usually those I attract / have an attraction to...
    stargirl84 stargirl84 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Like woah. My 'boyfriend' is being distant

    and my best friend's 'ex' wants to date me.. Halp.
    tiredreally tiredreally 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I get overwhelmed by strong feelings of a

    responsibility for my community, and saddened by my inability to do anything. I recently lost a friend to gang violence, and it makes me feel helpless.
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    As short as I can make this.

    Recently I went through a heart break. My ex told me he wasn't in love with me. Yet I am? The end. So I thought. We met up to give back our stuff, he hugged me so tight and I was confused ?Then he says to give him time. Space. I'm all like ok! Take whatever time you want. We had...
    Betty288 Betty288 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    I have this friend whom im going to see

    after 3 months, we had major and minor fights in between, both of us unfriended each other on all possible social media sites or apps, but the last conversation was precise and normal. Should i meet him normally or ignore him and just walk past him?
    tinna20 tinna20 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I would usually admit this,

    but I feel I have to no I need to. You guys won't judge too harshly... I hope... This will be long and with not good gramma and chiz. So lets start a couple months ago, maybe 3. I came back from a cruise and broke up with my girlfriend, I knew While I loved her I wasn't in love...
    BeautifulMyth BeautifulMyth 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    So I've written about my neighbor a couple

    times, about the other day when she was having rough times with her boyfriend and I went and comforted her. I let her put makeup on me and we talked and laughed and danced. Anyways, we ended up making out with tongue and lip biting. She went back to her mom's. I noticed she...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    Working Towards Simplicity And Gratitude

    Mind was in an unusual reflective state today - Caught in a giant whirl of emotions. And whilst oscillating between finding life meaningful and not, I thought, our lives seem so complex, even unnatural. Struggling, as a helpless child thrown into the vast ocean, The mind slowly...
    benthicflare benthicflare 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 22, 2012

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    Marriage... Friendship... Love... Confusion...

    Confused... In Love... With An Amazing Man... Who Happened To Be My Husband's Ex Husband... My husband had a few years long affair. Did I know? Yes, I knew about it. Hoping, no, fooling myself that one day it will become pure friendship. He claimed it was at the beginning and...
    lostle lostle 31-35 5 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    My feeling and my thoughts are clashing.

    I'm thinking to whether I should stay with the multinational company that I'm with or leave it and look for what I think I'd love to do. There's a part of me saying, should stay because i'm already in a multinational company and I'm with the best peer. But honestly, the other...
    born2bwild89 born2bwild89 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    Ok so I saw a picture of my ex

    and this girl today idk if there dating or not. But it kinda hurt at first and went away... Idk if it's jealousy or?? Help pleasee
    cassiecollins cassiecollins 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate that I have feelings

    for my ex still but I like this guy he told me he likes me but never talks to me
    Maria134747 Maria134747 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am so confused I love my Husband

    but I know he is toxic for me and he lies and sleeps with other people. I have proof of one person but not others. I feel it with all my being that he is still running around with others. Do I ignore my gut feeling and the anxiety that it brings me? We have been seperated for a...
    mb1973 mb1973 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I never been the type to admit I need somebody

    because I believe that I can be alone. And I need to be. Because "never depend on anyone" with happiness ... Anything emotional really. Is my motto. Now I have a wonderful, amazing boy. And I realize I can't get out those simple words of I need you. I hate typing it too. It...
    CammieBx CammieBx 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I always find a guy I'm capable of liking.

    .. Then I find another one! It always has to be 2 good guys. Why can't I settle down with one? Could it be commitment issues?
    cassiecollins cassiecollins 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Really haven't told anyone this

    so I really need some advice , long story short I think I am starting to like my best friend the problem is , is that she is a girl (obviously so am I) I'm not that type of person to judge I mean you like what you like right ? But I know that she will never look at me that way...
    mixedbreeddd mixedbreeddd 18-21, F Aug 20

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    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    For some reason I am avoiding everyone .

    Yet I want to be around people
    MixedMulatto MixedMulatto 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I love my boyfriend so

    so much But I keep having dreams about my friend why ? Like this huge crush is developing. I can't do this :(
    Genesisandstuff Genesisandstuff 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I sometimes wonder if I'm going on the right

    path or if i am missing certain opportunities... But i have no clue what i am actually searching for. I just feel like i shouldn't be here right now but i have no clue where i need to go.
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    I'm straight.. At least I think I am.

    I like boys all I've ever dated was boys, but I have fantasies about girls. Some of my friends are lesbian & sometimes when they touch me or play around with me, my heart skips a beat. I don't know what I'm into. Maybe I'm bisexual or maybe just bicurious, but I have this...
    lianx19 lianx19 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Confused Doesn't Even Cover It

    like the person below me i was a college kid that had a lot of ideals and dreams that i don't so much believe in anymore.  i am depressed about this and other things, and my mood swings leave me very confused. i come up with all these 'theories' in my head on how i got this...
    suckfest suckfest 19-21, F 5 Responses Dec 24, 2007

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    Im a girl who has feelings towards my bestfriend

    who is a girl too. Im inlove with her for a long time yet still not have gotten over it. We went different ways after I graduated HS and I have not seen her for 4 years. I had few relationships with guys too during that 4 years so I think Im bisexual (just to clarify Im not 100...
    iFuckenLoveYou iFuckenLoveYou 18-21, F Aug 22

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    ........

    I’m very confused…. I really don’t know what do I want and I do not even know what to write but I just feel tired of not understanding myself and I feel that I want to get it out….!I’m changing but that’s not a problem because everyone changes, but what do you do when...
    MissGaga MissGaga 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    I still have feelings

    for my ex. I met up with him the other day and we had a great time. But my feelings for him came back stronger. I wish I can get back together with him but he's already with another girl after we broke up a month ago... Now there are other guys chasing me, I don't know if I...
    I4Nkammie I4Nkammie 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want to come running back to you

    but I know you can't provide everything I want and need... I'm still in love with you.
    appleof5 appleof5 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    What should i do?

    there is a guy who had recently been my friend. he is smart and have good sense of humor. he often comes to visit me . we have a good chat. he flirts with me and i like that. he compliments me and i keep blushing. i like whenever he comes closer to me when he hugs me. i have...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    designer25m designer25m 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 14

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    I will leave my country

    and my dream will come true, but I am not happy. I worry about a place that I have never been. Do not scare and keep walking. I can visit countries in Europe.
    fitwealth fitwealth 26-30, F Jun 14

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    Have you ever wondered

    that a question mark looks like a half a heart?
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I can't describe how I feel anymore.

    I feel sad while I can easily say I feel happy. I can laugh and smile but just as easily cry and break. I don't know how to feel anymore sometimes. And it's not just at night anymore.
    makedamnnsure makedamnnsure 13-15, F Aug 18

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    pinkypoo33 pinkypoo33 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    Hazel216 Hazel216 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I Just Can't Believe He Is Self Centered

    Friends, unfortunately, come in and out of our lives. Some friends make such an impression that they change our lives and others we don't always remember their names. I met this guy when I was seventeen, he had the most amazing teeth and he was a really nice guy to go along with...
    amigoodenough amigoodenough 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    Ugh

    Tonight I just feel lonely..... I'm desperately wanting to just have someone hold me, play with my hair, look at me face to face, and just not feel so alone. Never had that before, I don't want sex either lol I just want....I don't know...something.... I feel stupid even writing...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    I want attention. I break up with him.

    2weeks later I miss him like crazy. I text him, and he told me yea u were right we not meant to be. Is all my bad, I use this all the time to get his attention. And now he is taking it serious and leaving . I am ******* sad that I would have turn back the clock!!! And I am...
    VolatileMe VolatileMe 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    There is a man. I don’t know him.

    I’ve watched his conversation in a chat room. Taken part in a few. I follow his twitter - see pictures of his son. Read the details of his life he is willing to share. He isn’t really a friend - but an acquaintance. Someone I always want to talk to but we don’t have...
    TheRuncibleSpoon TheRuncibleSpoon 36-40, F 2 Responses May 6

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    My ex and I officially broke up two months.

    In that short period of time, I discovered he not only started a relationship with someone new, but someone who seems absolutely perfect for him. Sure, I know you can't judge a relationship by its cover...but it seems like the real deal. While I want to be happy for him, I feel...
    JELA3959 JELA3959 31-35, F Aug 15

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    I have a guy friend who I am basically best

    friends with, we have so much in common... And I really don't know if I want to be just friends with him anymore, I mean I was disgusted when my friends told me they think he has a crush on me a few months ago, but now I'm not so sure. Also turns out that he dated this girl for...
    moonstonecrow moonstonecrow 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 1

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    I have a best friend,

    for over 19 years now. We had intimacies on and off for 12 years. She's had male relationships and two kids during all those years but I haven't. I have had sexual experiences with men but I don't enjoy them as much as being with her. Am I gay or bi? I'm afraid the world will...
    auntiem4eva auntiem4eva 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Aren'T We All?

    I am married. I love my husband. But the other day, I felt like it was all going south. I thought, after a series of things going on, that he didn't love me anymore. When I thought about this, I then started thinking about an ex and I was like "that guy really did love me" then...
    laDamedeFer laDamedeFer 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    Is it really worth all the pain

    and jealousy? Am I willing to lose my sleep and mental peace over this? :/
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Probably a year now of me

    and a guy talking , not talking, giving each other eye rolls, and then smiling and making funny faces towards each other and then there's moments when he pretended like I didn't exist.... For the past week I went into my local supermarket ( his job) to just buy random things too...
    FlyMeToTheMoon708 FlyMeToTheMoon708 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I need to know if I like this guy.

    ...I new him since elementary, and we started hanging out again. I am planning to go to the movies with him and supposedly he is going to ask me on a date/or to date him. I think I like him but don't really know. I'm not suppose to date. What should I do???? Though If we...
    darecassy darecassy 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm literally fighting the urge every minute to

    talk to you...and you probable hate me so much.
    WhosToSay WhosToSay 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I feel like I got broken up with.

    This sucks...like a lot. I'll miss you so much.
    WhosToSay WhosToSay 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I Hate When Things Are Kept From Me

    My partner has been acting nice lately but I noticed he was doing sneaky things on the internet. I called him out and I forgave him under the condition of him keeping everything out in the open. Today I found out he changed his facebook password, dang it! I couldn't just leave it...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 29, 2012

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    I am 21 years old while he's 28.

    I am single, he has a girlfriend. I think they were together for a long time and they already have a plan to marry this 2016. I know this because we're friends. We met at work. He was a replacement because the other one was reassigned to an another unit. We met first when it was...
    august01 august01 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can share my feelings with a thousand

    internet strangers but not with the people closest to me. Cool.
    privacyboy privacyboy 18-21, M Aug 20

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    Feelings

    How do we know what we are feeling is true? How do we feel like we do for someone when we know its irrational? How do we know if its emotional attatchment or something more? How can we feel so much for someone we barely know? How do we know if its mutual or we're making a...
    gem1969 gem1969 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    What A Day...

    Sometimes I just share too much. I'll kick myself for a few days and get over it. Maybe I won't get over losing what I thought was a very good friend, but I will remember the lesson I've learned. Forgive and be thankful for the things you learn, life is far too short. God...
    MizzyH MizzyH 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    This guy. We are sort of in a relationship.

    But I never take it seriously cause I met him online and we live in different country so its very unlikely for us to be together. I know this relationship won't last so I don care much bout it. He is already working while I am still in college. Then today he told me he is going...
    definiteintegral definiteintegral 16-17, F Aug 19

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