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I Am Confused About My Gender

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    Really confused about my gender

    and feel all alone. I was born a boy however I have always been called gay or a sissy since childhood. I wonder if any guys are attracted to a bottom who loves to be treated like a princess bottom wife! Looking for my Prince Charming however I am not sure what I am? Please...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 3

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    What Am I?

    I am extremely confused about my gender. I was born female, but have recently begun questioning that. I honestly sometimes feel that I am a man inside, but I love female clothes, but I hate having breasts, and would rather have a penis. But at the same time, I would really love...
    ThePowerOfThree ThePowerOfThree 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    When i was 7 i thought i should be a boy.

    Then i realized i was a lesbian. I love being dominate and strong and in charge. I hate my chest and often think i should have a pen_is so that i can be more in power. Any help to sort my scrambled mind?
    destiny6912 destiny6912 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I am biologically female

    and I don't feel like I am female but it don't feel like I am a male either
    Elwood123 Elwood123 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I Might Be The Most Gender Confused Person Ever

    And I say this for so many reasons. Let start with a simple one. I believe myself to be androgynous. I feel androgynous, I act androgynous, hell, far as I know I think androgynous. That is honestly the best gender word that I can find that fits me. And yet, sometimes, I'm afraid...
    Iladra Iladra 16-17 4 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    I'm Really Confused.

    In my life, I've felt - for the most part - comfortable with my body. When I was around eight, I started feeling discomfort with my body, nothing major. About a year ago is when it got worse, and I started throwing fits about it. About a month ago is when I started doing research...
    ro1628 ro1628 13-15 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    I Feel Like I Am The Only One Going Through This

    I read through the stories in this group, and I was really hoping to find people who are like me. But I can't. I read a lot of stories about people who have always felt drawn to wearing women's clothing. I have never felt that way. I've never been discontent as a male. I am...
    InquisitiveShadow InquisitiveShadow 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    So Confused...

    Growing up I was always a tomboy, I never related well to girls, I always thought I would have made a good boy. Now that I'm older I'm not so sure, I don't think I'm entirly a girl. I have some feminine qualities, for instance I like to wear female...
    Angrygirlsilentboy Angrygirlsilentboy 18-21, T 9 Responses May 16, 2009

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    First Time To Confess This...

    I've always felt to some extent like I wasn't fully female - or like I wasn't satisfactorily one. It's stupid, because physically there is no question that I am of the female sex. But as a child, I had differences (and who hasn't had differences? after all there's no such thing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Feb 27, 2008

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    Transgender Equality For Social Media

    Hi everyone, I have started a new campaign to ask social media sites like Facebook and Myspace to add other options besides male and female. Sites like EP give you choices, even Google+ gives you an "other" option. But Facebook and MySpace will not acknowledge anything other than...
    SecksKitten SecksKitten 31-35, T Aug 28, 2012

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    Not a Normal Gender

    Growing up I was never one of the boys but while I was always more of a girl than a boy I still have a lot of male in me. I'm too much of a girl to keep going in this male body but I'm too much of a guy to live full time as a girl. everything about me ballances me so If I were...
    kinkly kinkly 31-35 7 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    I Feel So Alone...

    But I know I'm not. I know there are others feeling like I do but I feel like I'm alone in this. I dress like a boy, I talk like a boy, and I feel like a boy. So why am I so scared? I feel like if i choose to live my life as a boy i will be alone forever. I won't find someone who...
    xMarshallLeexX xMarshallLeexX 18-21 4 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    I know I am a girl but more often,

    I like girls than boys. As far as I can remember, the first time I had a crush on a girl was when I was 7 years old. I also liked a girl from school when I was in High School. Recently, my female crushes are celebrities. On the other hand, i am also attracted to men. I also have...
    secondalways secondalways 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 17

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    A Mixed Life.

    I been in and out of relationships... I wanted to be a boy when I was 5 and was very jealous of guys. I crushed on guys as well but not a lot liked me until high school but never gave a guy a real chance. I was the most popular girl in school for sports and was off and on in two...
    Nikki2008 Nikki2008 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2013

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    So Confused...

    I have thought many times that I would make SUCH a better guy, alot of it is because I'm not built like a girl, I have big broad shoulders and am taller than alot of the guys I know. As well as the fact that I think like a guy, talk like one, act like one and most of the time...
    NeenaFlame NeenaFlame 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Would like to have been born female I sometimes

    feel I was born male instead of female. I feel so comfortable when I'm dressed as a woman.
    albro1000 albro1000 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I've Always Felt Like A Girl.

    From as long as i can remember i thought i was a girl. I was very young and they would dress me up like a babydoll. I remember crying when they would take the clothes off of me. While i do like to dress feminine when i can it's not about the clothes for me. It's about being who i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    Blurring The Lines....

    I am happy to be me...finally. I know what it is to be me and how I feel at the moment.  I love crossing the gender line back and forth, often lingering at androgyny.  Sometimes it is fun to wear dresses and just be feminine.  Sometimes it is relaxing to appear more like a...
    BlueCedarTree BlueCedarTree 46-50 4 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Confusion, Girl? Or Boy?

    Honestly, I don't know what I am. I thought I was a girl, but now it is just a whole bunch of confusion. I wake up in the morning and I think to myself "How should I dress this morning? Jeans, T-shirt and a sweater. Or shorts, T-shirt and a sweater. Panties or boxers." Nothing...
    Vriskajohn Vriskajohn 13-15 1 Response Jul 22, 2013

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    I am a male from Venus

    but I am strongly attracted to Men from Mars!
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I am really confused about my gender.

    Some days I find thinking about being female.arousing some days it just feels right and others I disgust myself for thinking about it. Can anybody help?
    anonymousperson20006 anonymousperson20006 18-21 5 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    I Don't Know How to Sort These Feelings Out

    It's a scary notion to think. To think that maybe I am wrong. That everyday I am wrong. Everyday I wake up and I am not who I should be. I identify with a few parts of myself, but a lot of myself I don't believe is me. Sometimes I think I would have made a better boy. I am so...
    hehothehobo hehothehobo 19-21, F 8 Responses Nov 27, 2007

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    Honestly, I'm so unsure about my gender.

    I've started to really think about it, and I'm not completely happy with it... I'm pretty much baffled. I've never really felt like a "boy" (whatever that's supposed feels like) and I don't know what it's like to "feel" or "be" a girl. But sometimes I get this intense...
    quietbones quietbones 16-17 2 Responses Mar 25

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    More Than A Tomboy

    I HATE getting called girl, or miss, or whatever I hate it when a boy opens the door for me, always have found it really rude almost to say I think your so delicate and pathetic that you arent even capable of doing such a simple task as opening the door for yourself. Ive never...
    HonkingMad HonkingMad 18-21 2 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    I Think I'm A Guy

    I think I'm a guy. I'm a teenage girl, and I think I'm a guy, but I don't know. I hate having breasts, when I imagine my future I see me as a guy, I prefer to dress and act as a guy, and I think I'd be more comfortable being a guy. So I went with my gut and told my "sister", Emma...
    jojo1189 jojo1189 13-15 2 Responses Aug 3, 2013

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    My ((Ongoing)) Gender Journey

    Hello! My legal name is Allison, and I am 13 years old. I was born a female by sex, but since April of 2012, I have been questioning my gender identity. I'm not sure why I started questioning it--the thought simply popped into my head one day during April, a little voice...
    GENlUS GENlUS 13-15 3 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Gender Bender

    Im 29 born a female never took to girly things as I grew to the age of 19 I started to feel more male then female was cleared for hormone treatment diagnosed with G.I.D started on the road identified as a transgenderedmale but then something happened in my brain I slammed the...
    Lostboy5150 Lostboy5150 26-30 2 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    I Just Don't Known

    I've always known some was wrong. I could never figure out what's. my childhood was not the easiest. I was never given the option to be week, to be small, to be delicate. My father would never allowed it. I was going to grow up to be a man even if they killed him and me. when I...
    nermy77 nermy77 22-25, T 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Does My expression Have To Agree With My Identity?

    I look in the mirror. My face is blotchy and my hair is a tangled mess of last night's hairspray. "Hair, make-up, let's get you looking pretty," says one half of me: the societal conformist and 'fully-fledged female' part of me. It's all on. The hair brush is in motion, the...
    ateron ateron 18-21 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

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    I don't consider myself to be gay,

    but when I'm dressed in a short skirt/dress, sexy stockings and heels i feel so girly and feminine. It's then that i feel a strong sexual attraction to men. I've even found myself fantasising about some of my straight male friends and wishing they were making love to me. They...
    albro1000 albro1000 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I think I'm gender queer.

    I'm not sure yet. I feel gender neutral or genderless, I'm not sure if they are the sane thing. These words just confuse me. I guess third person pronouns aren't a big deal to me but it does feel nice to not be considered just a "female". I feel like I'm just floating in my own...
    RainbowDalia RainbowDalia 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I Am A Girly Man

    Perhaps I am submitting this to the wrong group; I could not find a more fitting one to do so in. I am merely hoping someone out there is in my sort of boat, and can lend an ear and some advice. I am a man, visually and internally. I am gay, and despite the social beliefs about...
    jayjangle jayjangle 22-25 5 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    Gender Confused?

    Hi, I'm a 20 year old Lesbian with depression. A lot of the time, I like to think I am a man, because I think I would be better at it. I sometimes wish I had been born a man and then maybe it would be at peace with myself. Problem is, I don't really know whether it is a serious...
    Fluffy92 Fluffy92 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    We'Re Not From Venus Or Mars Poem

    Its always been said that: Women are from Venus & men are from Mars. But I'm not from either, i must come from afar. Perhaps maybe Pluto, except im not too fond of the cold. Perhaps im from Saturn, i like the way it revolves... How about Jupiter, i like its dusty gold rings...
    Tuklr Tuklr 16-17 1 Response Mar 17, 2013

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    I am really confused about my gender.

    Some days I find thinking about being female.arousing some days it just feels right and others I disgust myself for thinking about it. Can anybody help?
    anonymousperson20006 anonymousperson20006 18-21 Dec 25, 2013

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    Not Quite Sure

    I am not exactly sure what to think about my gender identity. I mean I have always had at least a mild desire to be female, sometimes an irresistable urge. but on the other hand i hold no hatred towards my male gender and feel if i had to i could probably live happy as i am. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Someone Please Help

    I seriously have no clue what's going on. When I was little I would swing between wearing my hair up in a hat and saying that boys are cooler than girls and wearing tutus and painting my nails. I always just thought it meant that my parents raised me right. Over the past 3 years...
    HunterFae HunterFae 18-21, T 2 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    I Consider Myself A Woman, But...

    For the first obvious stumbling block, I was born male and raised as a boy. Due to my family being religious, the idea that I wasn't never even crossed my mind for the longest time. Recently, however, all of that has been flipped on its head, and I realize that, not only do I...
    EmmaCatherine EmmaCatherine 22-25, T 3 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Or Maybe I'M Just Fed Up Of Hearing What Women Are

    I am biologically female, yet don't feel like it stereotypically. All my short life I have exhibited a keen intellectual curiosity about the world around me, a trait that has stayed with me even through a bout of major depression, and I have typically shown interest in things...
    LikeRamonaThroughSubspace LikeRamonaThroughSubspace 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Mind Over Body

    Physically I'm a woman, but I've never wanted to be. I hated at the inception of puberty the appearance of the first inconvenient badges of womanhood, and I felt a little punch in my stomach every time I went up a bra size. I didn't want breasts, and still don't. I don't feel...
    mousealinari mousealinari 18-21 6 Responses May 12, 2008

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    Help

    I need help. I'm MAAB but I'm feminine inside and I often wish I was a girl, but I don't know if I'm transgender or genderfluid or bigender. I really don't know what to do. Please help.
    scifi96 scifi96 16-17 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I Just Don'T Frickin' Know...

    I remember sometimes as a child fantasizing about being a girl, but it always subsided. Over time, these feelings have grown. With the acceptance of my bisexuality in my late adolescence came a culture shock. I began exposing myself to all kinds of different things, learning...
    FractalReflections FractalReflections 22-25 4 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    This Is New?

    I've always known I was transgendered. I have been wearing girls clothes since my earliest memories. It has always been important to me to be passable in public, and I plan to start living as in my career soon, as I have already spent all my own time as a female for years. I had...
    TheBaroness91081 TheBaroness91081 26-30, T 4 Responses Jun 9, 2013

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    Stuck In the Middle

    I was born and raised as a female, but have never felt comfortable in my body.  As a little kid I fought against every "girlie" thing my parents made me wear or use.  I hated dolls and dresses and lacy socks and girl's bikes and girl's tennis shoes.  I...
    ChristopherMax ChristopherMax 46-50, T 3 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    I don't think I'm trans

    but I hate my female body. I look in the mirror and I wish I could cut off my breasts. I don't identify as male though. I don't think I am a male inside, just want to look like one. What does that make me? I dress in butch clothing pretty much all the time. I keep my hair short...
    ashkevron ashkevron 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    Why Oh Why

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 2 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    Am I Confused About My Gender? Am I Concerned About What Others Think About Me? Am I Alone With These Feelings? Most Of All Will I Go To Hell? Then Why Do I Still Believe In God?

    I knew something was different since I can remember. I am a bi-racial child mixed with Black and White. I was raised in the church without my father being in my life until I was 16 in which he was a Christian also but he was a different faith then my mother. I was born a girl...
    CMiller0126 CMiller0126 41-45, T 2 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    Why Have I Been Dealt This T Girl Card?

    I have learned through my research online that if you are confused about your gender it has most likely been with you since cradle days and it will most likely be there with you in the grave. It is extremely important for you to not only know that you are transgendered and but...
    saraashley saraashley 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    i'm in quite a complicated situation so i'll explain from the very beginning. i'll change the names because i want this to stay confidential. i am a girl currently aged 17, and...
    e197x e197x 16-17 Mar 23

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    I am so confused about my ex. We've been separated for just over a year. I left him but I don't regret that decision. He was an alcoholic and it got to the point that he was...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F Apr 6

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    Hey guys! I'm not confused about my religion, but if anyone wants to talk, or needs a prayer request about religion let me know! I'm a Christian, southern baptist. Anything at all...
    ssuummeerr2 ssuummeerr2 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm feeling tired about my life not moving forward. I'm rarely satisfied (if ever) on how things are going for me. My professional career is just a switch-and-bait situation; my...
    MrC88 MrC88 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend moved away for a job and to be near family. He never broke up with me. He calls and he won't tell me to move on. I really love him. He seemed upset about going away...
    Hummingbirdgirl Hummingbirdgirl 26-30, F 16 hrs ago

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    So a guy I've liked for a long time now wants to kiss me, but he doesnt want to have any commitment. He just wants to kiss me, period. I've never had my first kiss, and he said he...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Confused confused. I know this is not a good idea. But i even think on marrying someone for visa and to just get far away from my family as soon as I turn 18.
    zhaneylhuv zhaneylhuv 16-17, F Apr 2

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    It all started six years ago. This girl and I became friends when we're on our senior year in high school but before, we barely talk to each other and we're not even that close...
    myheartscore myheartscore 22-25 Mar 30

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