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I Am Confused About My Gender

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    I Just Don't Known - I've always known some was wrong. I could never figure out what's. my childhood was not the easiest. I was never given the option to be week, to be small, to...
    nermy77 nermy77 22-25, T 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I Just Don'T Frickin' Know... - I remember sometimes as a child fantasizing about being a girl, but it always subsided. Over time, these feelings have grown. With the acceptance...
    FractalReflections FractalReflections 22-25 4 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    I am a male from Venus but I am strongly attracted to Men from Mars!
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I am biologically female and I don't feel like I am female but it don't feel like I am a male either
    Elwood123 Elwood123 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    We'Re Not From Venus Or Mars Poem - Its always been said that: Women are from Venus & men are from Mars. But I'm not from either, i must come from afar. Perhaps maybe Pluto, except...
    Tuklr Tuklr 16-17 1 Response Mar 17, 2013

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    I've Always Felt Like A Girl. - From as long as i can remember i thought i was a girl. I was very young and they would dress me up like a babydoll. I remember crying when they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    Confusion, Girl? Or Boy? - Honestly, I don't know what I am. I thought I was a girl, but now it is just a whole bunch of confusion. I wake up in the morning and I think to myself...
    Vriskajohn Vriskajohn 13-15 1 Response Jul 22, 2013

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    I am really confused about my gender. Some days I find thinking about being female.arousing some days it just feels right and others I disgust myself for thinking about it. Can...
    anonymousperson20006 anonymousperson20006 18-21 Dec 25, 2013

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    Blurring The Lines.... - I am happy to be me...finally. I know what it is to be me and how I feel at the moment.  I love crossing the gender line back and forth, often lingering...
    BlueCedarTree BlueCedarTree 46-50 4 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Why Have I Been Dealt This T Girl Card? - I have learned through my research online that if you are confused about your gender it has most likely been with you since cradle days...
    saraashley saraashley 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    I Think I'm A Guy - I think I'm a guy. I'm a teenage girl, and I think I'm a guy, but I don't know. I hate having breasts, when I imagine my future I see me as a guy, I prefer to...
    jojo1189 jojo1189 13-15 2 Responses Aug 3, 2013

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    This Is New? - I've always known I was transgendered. I have been wearing girls clothes since my earliest memories. It has always been important to me to be passable in public, and...
    TheBaroness91081 TheBaroness91081 26-30, T 4 Responses Jun 9, 2013

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    I'm Really Confused. - In my life, I've felt - for the most part - comfortable with my body. When I was around eight, I started feeling discomfort with my body, nothing major...
    ro1628 ro1628 13-15 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    Mind Over Body - Physically I'm a woman, but I've never wanted to be. I hated at the inception of puberty the appearance of the first inconvenient badges of womanhood, and I felt a...
    mousealinari mousealinari 18-21 6 Responses May 12, 2008

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    Really confused about my gender and feel all alone. I was born a boy however I have always been called gay or a sissy since childhood. I wonder if any guys are attracted to a...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    My ((Ongoing)) Gender Journey - Hello! My legal name is Allison, and I am 13 years old. I was born a female by sex, but since April of 2012, I have been questioning my gender...
    GENlUS GENlUS 13-15 3 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Stuck In the Middle - I was born and raised as a female, but have never felt comfortable in my body.  As a little kid I fought against every "girlie" thing my...
    ChristopherMax ChristopherMax 46-50, T 3 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    More Than A Tomboy - I HATE getting called girl, or miss, or whatever I hate it when a boy opens the door for me, always have found it really rude almost to say I think your so...
    HonkingMad HonkingMad 18-21 2 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    Gender Confused? - Hi, I'm a 20 year old Lesbian with depression. A lot of the time, I like to think I am a man, because I think I would be better at it. I sometimes wish I had...
    Fluffy92 Fluffy92 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    I Don't Know How to Sort These Feelings Out - It's a scary notion to think. To think that maybe I am wrong. That everyday I am wrong. Everyday I wake up and I am not who I should...
    hehothehobo hehothehobo 19-21, F 8 Responses Nov 27, 2007

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    I am really confused about my gender. Some days I find thinking about being female.arousing some days it just feels right and others I disgust myself for thinking about it. Can...
    anonymousperson20006 anonymousperson20006 18-21 5 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    I don't think I'm trans but I hate my female body. I look in the mirror and I wish I could cut off my breasts. I don't identify as male though. I don't think I am a male inside...
    ashkevron ashkevron 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    Not Quite Sure - I am not exactly sure what to think about my gender identity. I mean I have always had at least a mild desire to be female, sometimes an irresistable urge. but on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    I Am A Girly Man - Perhaps I am submitting this to the wrong group; I could not find a more fitting one to do so in. I am merely hoping someone out there is in my sort of boat, and...
    jayjangle jayjangle 22-25 5 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    I Feel Like I Am The Only One Going Through This - I read through the stories in this group, and I was really hoping to find people who are like me. But I can't. I read a lot of...
    InquisitiveShadow InquisitiveShadow 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    I Might Be The Most Gender Confused Person Ever - And I say this for so many reasons. Let start with a simple one. I believe myself to be androgynous. I feel androgynous, I act...
    Iladra Iladra 16-17 4 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    Someone Please Help - I seriously have no clue what's going on. When I was little I would swing between wearing my hair up in a hat and saying that boys are cooler than girls and...
    HunterFae HunterFae 18-21, T 2 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    I Consider Myself A Woman, But... - For the first obvious stumbling block, I was born male and raised as a boy. Due to my family being religious, the idea that I wasn't never even...
    EmmaCatherine EmmaCatherine 22-25, T 3 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    I think I'm gender queer. I'm not sure yet. I feel gender neutral or genderless, I'm not sure if they are the sane thing. These words just confuse me. I guess third person pronouns...
    RainbowDalia RainbowDalia 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    So Confused... - I have thought many times that I would make SUCH a better guy, alot of it is because I'm not built like a girl, I have big broad shoulders and am taller than alot...
    NeenaFlame NeenaFlame 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Am I Confused About My Gender? Am I Concerned About What Others Think About Me? Am I Alone With These Feelings? Most Of All Will I Go To Hell? Then Why Do I Still Believe In God...
    CMiller0126 CMiller0126 41-45, T 2 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    Why Oh Why - as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 2 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    Transgender Equality For Social Media - Hi everyone, I have started a new campaign to ask social media sites like Facebook and Myspace to add other options besides male and female...
    SecksKitten SecksKitten 31-35, T Aug 28, 2012

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    Or Maybe I'M Just Fed Up Of Hearing What Women Are - I am biologically female, yet don't feel like it stereotypically. All my short life I have exhibited a keen intellectual...
    LikeRamonaThroughSubspace LikeRamonaThroughSubspace 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    First Time To Confess This... - I've always felt to some extent like I wasn't fully female - or like I wasn't satisfactorily one. It's stupid, because physically there is no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Feb 27, 2008

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    Not a Normal Gender - Growing up I was never one of the boys but while I was always more of a girl than a boy I still have a lot of male in me. I'm too much of a girl to keep...
    kinkly kinkly 31-35 7 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    I Feel So Alone... - But I know I'm not. I know there are others feeling like I do but I feel like I'm alone in this. I dress like a boy, I talk like a boy, and I feel like a boy...
    xMarshallLeexX xMarshallLeexX 18-21 4 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    I know I am a girl but more often, I like girls than boys. As far as I can remember, the first time I had a crush on a girl was when I was 7 years old. I also liked a girl from...
    secondalways secondalways 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 17

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    A Mixed Life. - I been in and out of relationships... I wanted to be a boy when I was 5 and was very jealous of guys. I crushed on guys as well but not a lot liked me until high...
    Nikki2008 Nikki2008 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2013

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    So Confused... - Growing up I was always a tomboy, I never related well to girls, I always thought I would have made a good boy. Now that I'm older I'm not so sure...
    Angrygirlsilentboy Angrygirlsilentboy 18-21, T 9 Responses May 16, 2009

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    Honestly, I'm so unsure about my gender. I've started to really think about it, and I'm not completely happy with it... I'm pretty much baffled. I've never really felt like a "boy...
    quietbones quietbones 16-17 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Gender Bender - Im 29 born a female never took to girly things as I grew to the age of 19 I started to feel more male then female was cleared for hormone treatment diagnosed with G...
    Lostboy5150 Lostboy5150 26-30 2 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    I don't consider myself to be gay, but when I'm dressed in a short skirt/dress, sexy stockings and heels i feel so girly and feminine. It's then that i feel a strong sexual...
    albro1000 albro1000 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Would like to have been born female I sometimes feel I was born male instead of female. I feel so comfortable when I'm dressed as a woman.
    albro1000 albro1000 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Help - I need help. I'm MAAB but I'm feminine inside and I often wish I was a girl, but I don't know if I'm transgender or genderfluid or bigender. I really don't know what to do...
    scifi96 scifi96 16-17 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    What Am I? - I am extremely confused about my gender. I was born female, but have recently begun questioning that. I honestly sometimes feel that I am a man inside, but I love...
    ThePowerOfThree ThePowerOfThree 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    When i was 7 i thought i should be a boy. Then i realized i was a lesbian. I love being dominate and strong and in charge. I hate my chest and often think i should have a pen_is so...
    destiny6912 destiny6912 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Does My expression Have To Agree With My Identity? - I look in the mirror. My face is blotchy and my hair is a tangled mess of last night's hairspray. "Hair, make-up, let's get...
    ateron ateron 18-21 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

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