I Am Confused About My Marriage And If I Want To Stay Married

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    Feeling Better

    Last night after reading a few comments on here I had a moment of clarity when I saw my affair for what it was, why it had happened & possibly what it meant to my OM. Today I feel much better about things, I may well still have bad days but this is the first good day I've had so...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy
    41-45, F
    Oct 10, 2013

    Do I Stay Or Do I Go?

    My wife and I have been married 15 years and have a 12 year old girl and 8 year old boy.  For the last 6 months my wife says she has fallen out of love with me.  We have gone to counseling as couples and as individuals.  We are at a point now where it seems we both just exist...
    rob31rob31 rob31rob31
    41-45, M
    4 Responses May 13, 2011

    I feel unhappy in my marriage.

    We've been together since age 18. Mostly happy until a few years ago things started coming to a head. I feel as though I fell out of love. Although we have a long history with many great accomplishments, so I try to remember and not act hasty on the situation. It's going on 3...
    sally7 sally7
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    My Husband Is Abusive

    Where to begin.... When i was a little girl I was always miserable. I was physically, verbally, setually and emotionally abused by several people from my surroundings and I was depressed. I started dating my husband at 13 and he was my whole world. He was literally the reason I...
    karaj555 karaj555
    Oct 3, 2011

    Taking It Out On My Family

    Yesterday I had a blazing row with my husband. I have a bad habit of saving up all my anger and things that frustrate me until I finally blow. Unfortunately for my husband it's usually something he does that is the final straw. I told him I think we should try living apart for a...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2013

    I've been married for 20 years

    and I'm not sure if I want to stay in my marriage. Honestly I feel like I need to be single and find out exactly who am I'm not sure I'm still in love with my husband and when I tell him that I think we should separate... He acts like he doesn't hear me. I feel like I'm...
    Charlee1024 Charlee1024
    36-40, M
    3 Responses May 23, 2015

    hello EP, hv been married

    for almost two years have one year son, feel don't love my hubby any more. he cheats on me ,i cheat on him, he treats me bad. don't want him to touch me any more. i want to stay until our son is 18years! scared to divorce but tired and need out. i told him we can be free and he...
    rusa25 rusa25
    26-30, F
    Feb 17, 2014

    I feel like after all these years,

    this past year had been ****** because I have found out things about my husband both past and present that really questioned our relationship and asking myself this question " does he love me, and do I love him still " I'm thinking I know this answer but it's a difficult thought...
    jsam88 jsam88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    Yep. Basically it's an everyday struggle.

    I really don't know what I want. But I know I don't want this...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 18, 2015

    Is There A Future For My Marriage?

    I recently told my H that I no longer feel anything physical for him. I know that I do love him & care about him but I don't want sex with him. Hearing this upset my H but I needed to tell him at least a bit of the truth. Every time he gives me a cuddle especially in bed I just...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 14, 2013

    My husband and I are in a bad place.

    He hits me when he is really angry now and I'm afraid, but I have no where to go. The last time it happened. He broke down and cried. I almost ended up in the hospital because of my own stupidity later. We fight often and we can't see a future together. We cannot get divorced...
    BrokenWander BrokenWander
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2015
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