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I Am Confused About My Relationship

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    I recently started dating this guy

    who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However, this last time we hung-out He started being an a** !(excuse my french) saying things like; I'm going to have to replace you! He...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    My husband recently broke up with me.

    We still live together for our young son. When will it get easier, the pain is unbearable. I'm still very much in love with him but he wants nothing to do with me.
    Solis861 Solis861 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    So I have been in communication with this guy

    for the past year and there were alot of mixed signals. After a year I finally grew a pair and told hime that we need to stop communicating and that I had feelings for him bt since there was no reciprocation I owed myself to walk away and have peace. And his answer was okay I...
    Bubblysumu Bubblysumu 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I'd like to start off by saying I met my

    boyfriend 6 years ago before he had any kids, him and I were just friends at the time. In that time he was seeing someone although he claims he was never really dating her but having a "sexual relationship" with her. When we started to pick up feelings for one another it was the...
    SeniaV SeniaV 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    Different Is Scary Sometimes

    I know what a healthy relationship is, but apparently I am confused by it. I'm used to the sort of man that has to be all affectionate in public in order to tell everyone that I am his and in turn gets upset when attention of any kind is payed to another man. Of course this is a...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    Mixed Signals

    Just as love's turning to hatred, Just when I think I've had enough, Just before my heart freezes over, He'll make some small gesture of love, He'll redeem himself. Flowers just because, A hug or kiss out of the blue, Calling just to ask how my day is, A sudden showing of respect...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    So I'm in a long distance relationship

    and we haven't talked in almost a week. I hate being clingy and obsessive but I can't help it and it makes me sad when he doesn't answer and I feel like I'm being over dramatic. I feel bad for being clingy and I don't know what to do so I just told him to message me whenever...
    PizzaMage220 PizzaMage220 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    He said he is happy to be with me

    but he don't want to give me wrong hope..he don't want to let go and now he makes me wait in vain.
    Gelyn143 Gelyn143 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I am a few years older

    than my partner (4 years to be precise). He is currently 21 and the age thing is starting to get to me, I feel like I need to 'baby' him. He has no clue what he wants to do in life, he works a few months at 1 job then leaves and so forth. He currently lives with his auntie and I...
    carmaletta carmaletta 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I like a boy in my class he didn't he hurted me

    to the core , he made everone to tease me. I am trying hard to forget him. after making me to cry for a month now again he started to follow me and watching what I am doing ? with whom and all I am speaking... I really don't know what he is trying to do .... I can feel it when...
    ineedsome12bewithme ineedsome12bewithme 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 23

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    I'm Not Sure Where It's Going

    Really confused, two nights ago I went to my wife's house to bring over our son. I went in and let him get settled up stairs and tucked him into bed, I went to say good bye and tried to give her a hug (I'm going to give you a hug goodbye) swiftly followed by her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    My girlfriend often suffers with bad breath

    and refuses to acknowledge it. Not only do I notice people drop hints when they realise this but it can also be abit of a passion killer. It must be extremely embarrassing for her and it seems this may be why she is so hesitant to actually do anything about it. What are your...
    squigg squigg 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for a year and a had now and we live together everything was ok until recently I've met this guy and I get this feeling about him that my boyfriend doesn't give me I'm so confused someone help??
    donno644 donno644 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I love my husband but lately I find him

    spending more time on games chatting with a specific female and that gets me very upset it's not the first time I see him flirting a lot and later makes excuses that don't make sence.
    BabyBlue1987 BabyBlue1987 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 24

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    I am not his wife, I am not his mistress,

    I am not just his gf nor the mother of his son.. So, what am I to him? He wont give me any labels :-(
    SugarK SugarK 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    when a relationship is damaged once,

    it's forever damaged!
    pgalsh pgalsh 36-40, F 2 Responses May 22

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    It all makes sense now!

    Found out he is/was cheating with at least 4 other women, one of whom is a friend. I guess he was too busy & it was important to keep things in the DL. Thank god I had a bad gut feeling and the last time I saw him was Oct 2nd & I had stopped initiating texts & calls & turned...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    My love life just getting weirder

    and weirder. So long story short I met this guy a few months back. We totally hit it off, hang out lots together, kiss, make out even though he already have a long distance girlfriend. He hurt my feelings a lot of times but still I stay with him till the end. Before he left...
    Sal1603 Sal1603 18-21, F 15 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    My girlfriend is pansexual.

    I'm the first person she's been in a sexual relationship with. She told me that she prefers girls and prefers guys with smaller dicks, both of which I'm not. I can't help but feel like something she settled with. When I talked to her about it she said that I was her preference...
    OrigamiGuy15 OrigamiGuy15 16-17, M Aug 16

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    And he said this to me.

    .. Im so in love i cant let go
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F Aug 20

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    We're fighting for US

    and fighting each other. Does that even Make sense?
    carmaletta carmaletta 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    First and for most let me clarify

    that I am head over heels in love with my man. I am constantly thinking about him, can't wait to see him, always want him near me. Sad, I know. I'm on of those girls who always wants to be around her boyfriend and cant stop talking about him and all that junk. One difference...
    amidoingthisright amidoingthisright 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for a year A few months ago he made the comment that he never wanted to get married again ect and also said there is no way he would live me as long as my 13 Ur old was living with me. Well I have full custody. So just last week he was telling me about a place to rent that is...
    happymom2 happymom2 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Ok, so i have or should i say i used to have a

    best friend until today. We had quite different personalities and some of our class mates then used to say our relationship was quite weird, but she said she didn't care so i decided to stand with her. We became best friends unexpectedly, towards our final exams and it had it's...
    4everoptie 4everoptie 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    I feel like I'm sitting on the fence.

    I don't know if I should stay content where I am and not feel completely happy or satisfied or if I should risk it all and be alone. The idea of a new experience or life change sounds desirable...although I'm afraid of the bad that could happen with a blank canvas and no one...
    elissamay33 elissamay33 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    My husband and I have been married

    for two years. When together he is very jealous of others looking at me. I like to dress so others look at me. I travel a lot for business. Travel a lot with coworkers all guys and meet buyers mostly guys too. Lately husband been asking me if these guys like looking up my...
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 25 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    When I was pregnant my husband

    and I got in a fight. He got on me put his knees on my wrists. Then proceeded to force his **** in my mouth. I remember this and I hate him for it.
    Dillow8 Dillow8 18-21, F Aug 23

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    Life is full of surprises!

    So after all of your loving support here on EP, I thanked the Universe for the love this relationship blossomed in me, and decided to continue to love him as a friend, and appreciate what I learned and experienced. We're also business partners, (yes, business partners), and...
    TheRightFitforLife TheRightFitforLife 46-50, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    He said he love me very much then everyday he

    goes back to his wife but tries to find every opportunity to be with me. If wife is away he'll spend the night with me. To him im his everything but he wont leave his wife because religion says you cant. Im confused.
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 19

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    Your love My love Forever lost Vanished Like

    the sun When clouds appear Pain instead Broken hearts In common Nothing left Only grief Of what used to be
    DutchMattie DutchMattie 36-40, M Jun 4

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    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I miss my best guy friend from high school

    so much. he had a big crush on me for over a year, we went to prom together and he treated me like a princess, he always asked me out and I constantly felt "we're going to different universities" and didn't want to pursue anything, but over the summer we spent so much time...
    swanlet swanlet 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    What am i doing??????

    ?? Why is he doin this? Is he just talking advantage ??
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Torn.

    There is way to much to be said about my relationship. We've been together two years now. I was so blinded by the "in love high" that many of us experience when we first meet that special person. I connected with him, and went with the flow. I ended up here. In some cases, a lot...
    jadedprettygirl jadedprettygirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    please be kind as this is not

    for everyone. I am totally in love with a man much older than me. it is also the man my mom is dating. they have been together for 2 years and our bond has grown stronger and stronger since he cam into our lives. when we are alone, its like the world doesn't matter. when we...
    ticklishjenn ticklishjenn 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I'm about to meet the Lady I pledged to marry.

    that was 2 yrs ago. we've fought since then. a lot. but in doing so we have avoided those fights later in life - we will simply understand by then. we are each fighting the others weaknesses with them, wishing only the best for them, fighting their battles in our ways. but we...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    *sigh* Just tired of things.

    My 'spouse' keeps putting me down and talking down to me like I haven't worked and helped to support his *** for 8 years. I've been unemployed now for under a year helping him to take care of his father until he passed (r.i.p)... then (AFTER the funeral, of course) he turns...
    karmakarma00 karmakarma00 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Wonder what it would be like

    if I was single. My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 17. were both 20, he's almost 21. I have to admit that at the beginning, things didn't go so well but we made it through. He was possessive and jealous. Now that he's being the guy that I've been wanting for...
    cherati cherati 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I feel deep down I need to leave my boyfriend

    we have a terrible and abusive past and I know it isn't right and I feel more sad than happy with him most days. It's really toxic but I just can't leave at all. I try and I end up feeling alone and missing him so I can't ever do it. I really want to but it's so difficult. I...
    violetskynoise violetskynoise 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    I feel like my fiance

    and I always argue these days. it sucks :(
    Taken0still0curious Taken0still0curious 26-30, F Aug 13

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    What Does It Mean When Your Bf Tells You Each And Every Thing Your Bf Did With The Other Girls Or Girlfriends That He Had Before He Met You?? Knowing It Will Hurt U

    What does it mean when your bf tells you each and every thing your bf did with the other girls or girlfriends that he had before he met you?? (keeping in mind that it will hurt a lot) Does it mean he wants me to feel bad or wants you to know and get jealous about it and get...
    honeyswizgal honeyswizgal 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Every time I think we're over,

    I realize I love him. Every time I think I love him, I realize we're over. "Confused" is an understatement.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Reluctant To Share

    I am a bit scared/reluctant/ashamed (take your pick) to post in this group . . . .  I am not so sure if this is a good thing or if my sharing will only open up a can of worms that will come back to haunt me later?I have been putting off to post here since the first day I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    If you don't want me anymore,

    just say it, dude. Don't keep me hanging around. I'm a big girl. You don't want me? Tell me and I will never bother you again. Feckin asshowle. Just who do you think you are. This "relationship" is just giving me frequent and totally unnecessary heartaches. Gawddammit. I don't...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 2 Responses May 12, 2014

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    Here we go again!! Traveling this week to

    Chicago with an old fat coworker. Be here all week. In unpacking my travel bag last night found some thigh hi and small thongs that i had not bought. Hubby put in my bag. I dont understand him wanting to wear this while on road.
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 14 Responses