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I Am Confused About My Relationship

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    Life is full of surprises!

    So after all of your loving support here on EP, I thanked the Universe for the love this relationship blossomed in me, and decided to continue to love him as a friend, and appreciate what I learned and experienced. We're also business partners, (yes, business partners), and...
    TheRightFitforLife TheRightFitforLife 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2015

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    Here we go again!! Traveling this week to

    Chicago with an old fat coworker. Be here all week. In unpacking my travel bag last night found some thigh hi and small thongs that i had not bought. Hubby put in my bag. I dont understand him wanting to wear this while on road.
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 13 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I feel deep down I need to leave my boyfriend

    we have a terrible and abusive past and I know it isn't right and I feel more sad than happy with him most days. It's really toxic but I just can't leave at all. I try and I end up feeling alone and missing him so I can't ever do it. I really want to but it's so difficult. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 20, 2015

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    Today marks the first year of our relationship.

    For others, its suppose to be the best day of being a couple. But why all of a sudden, he seem to act so strange? Our sex life has been really great til yesterday. First time i insinuated, and he turned me down. Now, he wants to do nothing in bed with me. It's confusing cos...
    marshymallow marshymallow 36-40, F Feb 3

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    I'm very confuse! I meet this guy three year

    ago in he used to like me but back or that time I used to b in a relationship.now he find out that I'm single in try to talk and make it out. So but he doesn't act like he do want me so bad like he used to before because I don't call him or text him he won't d out either...
    tweetyreck tweetyreck 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Sleeping on the couch

    for week #3 now! Do you know how frustrating it is that I'm married, in love with and very attracted to my husband, yet because he is a liar and game player I have to avoid him? I'm falling out of love with him. One sleepless night at a time. He could probably care less. His...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 22, 2015

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together

    for over a year. We started dating in December of 2014. He had broken up with his ex after he met me. They were in a toxic relationship and I feel like I was his excuse to get out of it. Things were great in the beginning but now I don't see him the same. I find that I'm annoyed...
    Dtea15 Dtea15 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    My bf and I started dating a year ago.

    He was just coming out of a relationship with the mother of their then 2 year old child. He hid the relationship for a long time, but then she came to know that we were together. In that time we had a very rocky romance, for me there was a lot of insecurity about his feelings...
    franklymydear42 franklymydear42 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 1

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    Don't tear things apart just

    because you feel vulberable.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2015

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    If you were me... what would you do?

    I met my boyfriend when I wasn't really looking.. tired of all the game playing and looking to settle down. He came along with baggage a divorce, two daughters, and finding out that his son was not in fact his with an ex gf. He lives an hour away in the country and I live in the...
    willowAnn2434 willowAnn2434 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 31, 2015

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    Sometimes I really wonder what the **** is

    going on in this relationship, TALK ABOUT DOUBLE STANDARDS! If it wasn't for my son I'd have ran away long ago!! Single life was so much fecking easier !!
    Trance1999 Trance1999 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2015

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    I recently started dating this guy

    who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However, this last time we hung-out He started being an a** !(excuse my french) saying things like; I'm going to have to replace you! He...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    To let go, or keep trying.

    6 years is so much to through away. But these feelings keep coming back. Ugh...... It's so confusing!!!
    SeekingGreatPerhaps SeekingGreatPerhaps 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    Well it's almost a year

    since I left my former martial home. Now divorced, changed jobs, living in a small rental. I have fallen in love, which I've experienced for the very first time. You can guess it's not straight forward. He loves me too but just can't commit. It's complicated. I just don't...
    Fruitcake6 Fruitcake6 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2015

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    Every time I think we're over,

    I realize I love him. Every time I think I love him, I realize we're over. "Confused" is an understatement.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Hi. So I'm 24 years old

    and I am pregnant and expecting a baby soon in February 19. I don't have any family here. I met a guy who is 49 years old. He has a 10 year old daughter by a lady who is married. He also has a set of twins by a woman who is also married. Every since I have been dating him. His...
    MoneyToBeMade2 MoneyToBeMade2 22-25, F 11 Responses Jan 14

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    Dating a 50 year old man I'm 25.

    .... HAVEN'T HAD SEX IN 2 YEARS!!! help
    Bri1989 Bri1989 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 17, 2015

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    It feels like I'm have Single

    and half Not , I do love him but sometimes he is just a stupid *** I stayed home all day waiting for him and he never came, he's going back to his old ****. I don't know if I want to stay or go. I've been down this road before so I Kinda know how it is but I thought that he...
    Snowflake107 Snowflake107 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    when a relationship is damaged once,

    it's forever damaged!
    pgalsh pgalsh 41-45, F 2 Responses May 22, 2015

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    I fell in love. the guy still lives with me

    but he had broke my heart countless times...
    cindrellanikki cindrellanikki 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I'm Not Sure Where It's Going

    Really confused, two nights ago I went to my wife's house to bring over our son. I went in and let him get settled up stairs and tucked him into bed, I went to say good bye and tried to give her a hug (I'm going to give you a hug goodbye) swiftly followed by her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    I'm confused about my relationship I love my

    boyfriend so much, but he very abussing in my family doesn't like him at all. When we used to live together I have to leave him because I wasn't able to take it anymore sometime he used to flips on me for the most little things in sometime for nun. I do love him to dead but my...
    tweetyreck tweetyreck 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    Hi! So... I love my boyfriend

    but hate his family. They are very different and intrusive people, completely egocentric and keep making mistakes that he has to solve. He wants to take the next step and get married, and I would accept if it wasn't because of them. I don't know what to do, how to decide or...
    alessandraRV alessandraRV 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    tammyccaa tammyccaa 26-30, F Dec 17, 2015

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    I am in love with her,

    but she obviously no longer feels the same :/
    jo666 jo666 31-35, M Sep 10, 2015

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    maybe its my lack of experience,

    but on the outside looking in. i think ppl fight over nonsense half the time. then when something extremely big happens they break up. and its not even because of the cause of the big fight..its because they are tired of fighting. you have to pick your battles. if your mad...
    TakeMee19 TakeMee19 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    emilyccaa emilyccaa 26-30, F Dec 8, 2015

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    Hi, so I find out my gf of August 2015 has

    cheated on me with her ex of 8 years. They work at the same place, live across street from each other and my gf has an 9 year old kid and her ex of 8 years acts like her sons father not that he is an good role model. So what do I do? I am willing to forgive her and she promises...
    canadarocks1444 canadarocks1444 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    In love with my best friend (a female)

    though I'm already married.
    WelshHornyMan WelshHornyMan 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2015

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    My husband and I are

    so distant sometimes I want to give up on the relationship. I take care of everything all bills, kids, cookung and I feel so much weight. we have been together since college and I never thought I would graduate and he wouldn't. I have two degrees and he doesnt. I keep reassuring...
    nessa30 nessa30 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2015

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    I feel like I'm sitting on the fence.

    I don't know if I should stay content where I am and not feel completely happy or satisfied or if I should risk it all and be alone. The idea of a new experience or life change sounds desirable...although I'm afraid of the bad that could happen with a blank canvas and no one...
    elissamay33 elissamay33 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    I have been with my bf

    since i got out of foster care when i was 18 i have no family to run to so he has been the one i lean on but he has also been abusive the whole relationship! he found me at the lowest and helped me alot so i have been dealing with it. Maybe because i am scared to be all alone in...
    plexigrl plexigrl 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2015

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    He says he loves me one day the next he won't

    even talk to me, then we're dating? FML
    KendallNess KendallNess 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Reluctant To Share

    I am a bit scared/reluctant/ashamed (take your pick) to post in this group . . . .  I am not so sure if this is a good thing or if my sharing will only open up a can of worms that will come back to haunt me later?I have been putting off to post here since the first day I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Boyfriend troubles.. My boyfriend

    and I have been dating for almost 3 years now. Our relationship was really strong at the beginning and we used to have a lot of fun together but I feel like the spark is fading for me. We are both in college and about to graduate next year together. The stress of school has...
    anonym999 anonym999 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    Someone please help understand this pattern of

    thinking!!! Guys will tell me that they like me and would date me..... BUT (the good ole' BUT and not the one you sit on) they're not ready for a relationship. Now, when some tells me that I perfectly understand that they may have they're reasons. BUT ( Now it's my turn) when...
    micaconamor micaconamor 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2015

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    What Does It Mean When Your Bf Tells You Each And Every Thing Your Bf Did With The Other Girls Or Girlfriends That He Had Before He Met You?? Knowing It Will Hurt U

    What does it mean when your bf tells you each and every thing your bf did with the other girls or girlfriends that he had before he met you?? (keeping in mind that it will hurt a lot) Does it mean he wants me to feel bad or wants you to know and get jealous about it and get...
    honeyswizgal honeyswizgal 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Mixed Signals

    Just as love's turning to hatred, Just when I think I've had enough, Just before my heart freezes over, He'll make some small gesture of love, He'll redeem himself. Flowers just because, A hug or kiss out of the blue, Calling just to ask how my day is, A sudden showing of respect...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    Torn.

    There is way to much to be said about my relationship. We've been together two years now. I was so blinded by the "in love high" that many of us experience when we first meet that special person. I connected with him, and went with the flow. I ended up here. In some cases, a lot...
    jadedprettygirl jadedprettygirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    I broke up with my ex a month ago

    and moved out of her place this weekend. Now that I am gone, she has done nothing but beg me to come back. It's taken her now out of the 2 years and 3 months we were together to realise that she never paid attention to my wants and needs in the relationship, while I bent over...
    32forever2016 32forever2016 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 11, 2015

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    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2015

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    I'm about to meet the Lady I pledged to marry.

    that was 2 yrs ago. we've fought since then. a lot. but in doing so we have avoided those fights later in life - we will simply understand by then. we are each fighting the others weaknesses with them, wishing only the best for them, fighting their battles in our ways. but we...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    So after 10 weeks of being seperated my husband

    wants me to go back to rebuilding a friendship with him to see if we can recapture tbe love and true friendship that we seem to have lost..i can sense that he still loves me but is scared to show it but its very confusing...i will take the journey and only hope that we can find...
    kylieheartbroken kylieheartbroken 41-45, F 6 Responses Nov 10, 2015

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    My husband and I have been married

    for two years. When together he is very jealous of others looking at me. I like to dress so others look at me. I travel a lot for business. Travel a lot with coworkers all guys and meet buyers mostly guys too. Lately husband been asking me if these guys like looking up my...
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 23 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    I really need advice ,

    please nothing rude or discouraging . Me and my boyfriend been together for almost 4 years since I was 13 years old. We started off in the same state but had never met but had mutual friends . So we talked and talked for hours sometimes 20 hours on the phone. I really did fall...
    Anissaaaro4 Anissaaaro4 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 25, 2015

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