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I Am Confused About My Relationship

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    My man works all day.

    .. We live together he is great to my kids and I (financially). My friend says be a mother before a women. Except he does things that make me want to leave., things that aren't right.... The little time we get to spend together he becomes someone else and does things that aren't...
    linlio linlio 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    How can I get my lesbian ex back?

    We were best friends for about a year before we decided to date. We fell hard and fast for each other. We dated for about four years and have lived together at college. We broke up about four month ago now. It was a mutual decision that we should go back to being best friends...
    helpplease12 helpplease12 22-25, F Jul 31

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    Most of the time, I feel like I am a terrible

    person. I am constantly in a relationship and always flip-flip with my feelings on whoever I am dating, and a lot of the times I will go back to the same men thinking I miss them. The next day, I regret going back to them and feel the need to escape. I lie to myself about my...
    EmbersIgnite EmbersIgnite 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 24

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    I am so confused. Me

    and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months he is 18 and I'm 26. He recently told me he's not ready for a relationship right now. He wants me to wait for him. We broke up but where not talking to any other people or having sex with other people. He wants to get his money to...
    Casspper Casspper 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 3

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    Different Is Scary Sometimes

    I know what a healthy relationship is, but apparently I am confused by it. I'm used to the sort of man that has to be all affectionate in public in order to tell everyone that I am his and in turn gets upset when attention of any kind is payed to another man. Of course this is a...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    It's not really a relationship,

    you just keep coming and going as you please, selfish bastard but I still welcome you back
    Mka1989 Mka1989 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 20

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    Is he just not that into me?

    I became involved with a friend from work, my supervisor to be exact. We are both separated & almost divorced. First month & 1/2 was great & I truly thought he adored me. He currently has 2 full time jobs & 3 kids that are involved with lots of activities. Once his ex-wife...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 3 Responses Nov 2

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    I would love some feedback everyone.

    so I have recently been in a relationship for 6 months. recently he has decided that we werent meant to be together...the blame started with me having a cat...totally other things im sure but just decided to call a quits when since we've met weve been very connected and were...
    schepab schepab 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 13

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    well yesterday i caught my husband trying to

    hook with a another female he has never met before when i confront him about it he trying to act cool calm and selective if it was me a number call me by mistake then he started calling names like oh you *****....am confused
    blackwidow86 blackwidow86 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just got out of an abusive relationship

    and have found a guy who is very sweet, caring and so on. He comes from a good family who loves me, I have been seeing him for over three months now. He understands that it is too short of a time for me to want to trust anyone again due to what I have been through and has been...
    CustomRedFury CustomRedFury 22-25 3 Responses Nov 2

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    I dated this lady for about two months

    and we shared everything about our lives and each other with one another. Then she drove 3 hours down to my home on 11-14-14 to spend the weekend with me. Once at my home after a great hug and fantastic kiss we went into the home with me carrying her suit case. Once inside I...
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    One millionth time lucky?

    He wants us to be happy and make this work. I don't know if I believe in us anymore.
    Jodiechristine88 Jodiechristine88 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Reluctant To Share

    I am a bit scared/reluctant/ashamed (take your pick) to post in this group . . . .  I am not so sure if this is a good thing or if my sharing will only open up a can of worms that will come back to haunt me later?I have been putting off to post here since the first day I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    When I married my husband,

    I was 20. I was still living at home with my mom who was stealing my money and I didn't have a penny to my name. My husband was the first nice guy to come my way and I jumped on that wagon. I loved my husband immensely and I still do, but at the time I partially saw him as a...
    2infinityandbeyond 2infinityandbeyond 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    I have been married for 10 plus years.

    I love my husband but not sure that I am in love with him (so cliché - I know!). He drinks too much and its a constant issue with us. He refuses to think he has a problem even though he drinks to excess daily. I have become very health conscious and concerned with my...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    Recently married been together 5 years.

    My husband told me the other day he enjoys wearing adult diapers women's clothing and using ****** to pleasure himself anally. He also enjoys pegging. He told me pegging and me diapering him a two of his biggest fantasies. Iam totally shocked and grossed out. Iam plain vanilla...
    Wife28 Wife28 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 12

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    My husband and I have been married

    for two years. When together he is very jealous of others looking at me. I like to dress so others look at me. I travel a lot for business. Travel a lot with coworkers all guys and meet buyers mostly guys too. Lately husband been asking me if these guys like looking up my...
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 28 Responses Jul 17

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    I recently started dating this guy

    who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However, this last time we hung-out He started being an a** !(excuse my french) saying things like; I'm going to have to replace you! He...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 17

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    Through my life i have been hurt

    so many times by so many different people and circumstances. With almost every hurt i shattered like glass, i felt broken and worthless like there was no point to continue on but i didn't give up. i still tried it was never as fully as it had been before but i still tried. I...
    rainbowbreakdown rainbowbreakdown 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I need relationship advice badly.

    So my bf and i have been dating for a 2 months now and we have gotten very intamite. But the only thing is he wants to go further and i want this relationship to be diffrent. I dont want to go fast i want to go slow but i truly love this guy more than anyone else ive dated. So...
    lost12unit lost12unit 13-15, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I feel like I'm sitting on the fence.

    I don't know if I should stay content where I am and not feel completely happy or satisfied or if I should risk it all and be alone. The idea of a new experience or life change sounds desirable...although I'm afraid of the bad that could happen with a blank canvas and no one...
    elissamay33 elissamay33 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 21

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    so i have this girl and she is really pretty.

    . but I ponder about the relationship, the reason being she ***** me in private but when we are in public she never talk.. the occasionally ''Hello.. how are you..''.. I have confronted her about this but she just ignores and forgets about it.. like it never happens... any...
    extreme1 extreme1 16-17, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Do you ever think "why am i still with this

    person"?? Like all he does is nitpick about the little things i do that **** him off and all he seems to want to do is ****. Hes either telling me to stop doing something that annoys him or shoving his hand down my panties. Im honestly getting so fed up of being the only person...
    undoing321 undoing321 18-21, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    So me and my ex got back together the other day.

    . I'm confused because I'm still having the same nightmares every night. We had a nice day together yesterday, but I couldn't sleep last night because of my deep hatred and anger that still exists towards him.. I still have nightmares of him cheating, and my brain is piecing...
    DesiredUsername23 DesiredUsername23 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My best friend, Tim is gay.

    But lately I have been confused about our relationship. He and I have recently started having sex and sharing parts of each other we never did with anyone else. What is happening?!
    silentscreamer24 silentscreamer24 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Background: I am married,

    we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time). I am 27, he is 31 - we've had our ups and downs but all in all, we are happy. We also just moved two months ago, and so...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    do you think it's possible

    for complete opposites to work out?
    inkedmommy inkedmommy 22-25, F 12 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I’ve been hanging out with my older

    cousins’ friend that they no longer hang out with and haven’t in years. They threatened violence if they caught us together because of the trouble they all used to get into together. In secret though we have been hanging out for the past few months. We decided that it would...
    lizzy1127 lizzy1127 16-17, F Nov 4

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    so my boyfriend has said I want sex too much

    lol I thought it was soposed to be the other way round right? he should be lucky
    chloemac123 chloemac123 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I am not his wife, I am not his mistress,

    I am not just his gf nor the mother of his son.. So, what am I to him? He wont give me any labels :-(
    SugarK SugarK 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Not certain if being in a relationship has a

    particular mode for that. But I'm positive that every couples surely have their own mode of relationship. Not that we ve to tell each other what's going on everyday with our lives right? We are grown adults we can handle it or at least find a way. We ve been together for 6...
    JonDanny JonDanny 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    So I've been dating a man

    for a few months now but at a crossroads on whether it has long-term potential. Let me explain. We can talk for hours. I don't ever grow bored and I feel like he truly cares about me. Win. I do, however, get a little bit annoyed by his neediness at times. He has some great...
    stargirl84 stargirl84 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    He went to work this morning

    and didn't even tell me he had work today. I need to get a paper done today without distractions from the kids. This is the second time he's done this...going to work on a Saturday and not telling me.
    2infinityandbeyond 2infinityandbeyond 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    What Does It Mean When Your Bf Tells You Each And Every Thing Your Bf Did With The Other Girls Or Girlfriends That He Had Before He Met You?? Knowing It Will Hurt U

    What does it mean when your bf tells you each and every thing your bf did with the other girls or girlfriends that he had before he met you?? (keeping in mind that it will hurt a lot) Does it mean he wants me to feel bad or wants you to know and get jealous about it and get...
    honeyswizgal honeyswizgal 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Here we go again!! Traveling this week to

    Chicago with an old fat coworker. Be here all week. In unpacking my travel bag last night found some thigh hi and small thongs that i had not bought. Hubby put in my bag. I dont understand him wanting to wear this while on road.
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 13 Responses Jul 29

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    I am confused about my relationship.

    I split with my boyfriend of a year for 3 months and flitted between getting back togeather. I have stayed at his house every night for the last week, (not sleeping togeather every night) he's been cooking for me as I am totally skint right now. He's being pretty much perfect...
    Jodiechristine88 Jodiechristine88 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    I don't know what to think right now.

    my girlfriend of 2 years said that she needs to be single for a while so that she can grow and become more independent. So even though we are technically single, she still comes over all the time, we go on dates, kiss, and even still tell each other "I love you". She even still...
    ShyGuy90 ShyGuy90 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Okay. so a month and a half back I asked this

    girl out who I knew had a crush on me for a long time..I really started to like her and after 20 days of being away from one another I ended up telling her that I loved her.. but this wasn't totally planned. after my long vacation I was spending my last few days relaxing.. then...
    niggamanmanmanman niggamanmanmanman 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 30

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    i have been married 2.

    6 years, and feel done. and scared. of the loneliness that is to follow. i remember how done i was with relationships that seemed to go nowhere. then when i met my husband, despite not being completely convinced, and all the signs were there, i was 28, and just wanted to be...
    andthentherewaslight andthentherewaslight 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    my Ex husband likes to come

    and go frequently it's killing me but I can't move on because I love him and want to be with him
    lilmamaof4 lilmamaof4 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 31

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    Every time I think we're over,

    I realize I love him. Every time I think I love him, I realize we're over. "Confused" is an understatement.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    Torn.

    There is way to much to be said about my relationship. We've been together two years now. I was so blinded by the "in love high" that many of us experience when we first meet that special person. I connected with him, and went with the flow. I ended up here. In some cases, a lot...
    jadedprettygirl jadedprettygirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    I'm Not Sure Where It's Going

    Really confused, two nights ago I went to my wife's house to bring over our son. I went in and let him get settled up stairs and tucked him into bed, I went to say good bye and tried to give her a hug (I'm going to give you a hug goodbye) swiftly followed by her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    Ok I need guys opinion on this pleaseeeee .

    .. So there's this guy I went to middle and high school with ... We never spoke or hung out until 2 years ago I added him on FB I do remember he was always shy so I wasn't surprised when he told me he never had a gf we started talking ( I was newly divorced) we hung out and I...
    Newyorkgal89 Newyorkgal89 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 19

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    If you don't want me anymore,

    just say it, dude. Don't keep me hanging around. I'm a big girl. You don't want me? Tell me and I will never bother you again. Feckin asshowle. Just who do you think you are. This "relationship" is just giving me frequent and totally unnecessary heartaches. Gawddammit. I don't...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    we were friends for 4 yrs we were close

    and told each other everything I always looked to him for advice then we started dating and everything changed I had to give up my male friends I had to give up my female friends I had to allow access to all my online accounts I couldn't text too much I couldn't talk to anyone...
    boxgirl1987 boxgirl1987 26-30, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I'm really confused about my relationship with

    Internet! Sometimes it works and sometimes, it does'nt!
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 12

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    It's been like 3 and a half years with my

    boyfriend and things are not okay between us he always hurts me and make me cry but I still love him I always forgive him. I tried to break up but he doesn't want to. He says that I'm his soulmate but me I'm not so sure if he is my soulmate or not. I love him, he is my best...
    Sempiternaldark Sempiternaldark 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    My love life just getting weirder

    and weirder. So long story short I met this guy a few months back. We totally hit it off, hang out lots together, kiss, make out even though he already have a long distance girlfriend. He hurt my feelings a lot of times but still I stay with him till the end. Before he left...
    YongTauFoo YongTauFoo 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 26

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    Mixed Signals

    Just as love's turning to hatred, Just when I think I've had enough, Just before my heart freezes over, He'll make some small gesture of love, He'll redeem himself. Flowers just because, A hug or kiss out of the blue, Calling just to ask how my day is, A sudden showing of respect...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    Lately I've been feeling

    so annoyed towards my boyfriend it's like EVERYTHING he does annoys the sh*t out of me . I keep trying to pick a fight with him and whenever he tries coming over I try stalling and ask him to come later on... I'm not sure what's going on... I think because of him f*cking up in...
    denisestephanie denisestephanie 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 8

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