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I Am Confused About My Relationship

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    I don't know if I should break up with my

    boyfriend or not. I love him, but I feel like I'm not getting enough attention from him, and I sometimes feel like he doesn't feel the same way about me. He is stubborn and has radical views about everything, and sometimes it just really gets on my nerves. I haven't ended it...
    SkylinesEternal SkylinesEternal 18-21, F 5 Responses May 12, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I started dating 8 months ago.

    We were attracted to each other, and until a few days ago, we are still on our "honeymoon" phase--touchy and clingy (not in a negative way) We just started living together. We had our first fight three days ago when I had a pregnancy scare (no, I'm not pregnant) and he panicked...
    khsaga22 khsaga22 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I need opinions. positive

    and negative. it doesn't matter to me, I'm sure all will be helpful. it will give me views from all different sides. well here it goes, I've been with my bf for 3 years. I have a 7 year old son from a past relationship. my bf isn't capable of satisfying me how I want. I've asked...
    seximexi92 seximexi92 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    RE: Divorce‏ There is one more thing how dare

    you ask me to be amiable you messed everything up you have no rights any more you gave all those up when you committed adultery because you take your knickers off for anyone who is willing to smile at you. 4 years you put me through a living hell being accused of things I wasn't...
    reddwarf1910 reddwarf1910 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I'm about to meet the Lady I pledged to marry.

    that was 2 yrs ago. we've fought since then. a lot. but in doing so we have avoided those fights later in life - we will simply understand by then. we are each fighting the others weaknesses with them, wishing only the best for them, fighting their battles in our ways. but we...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    It all makes sense now!

    Found out he is/was cheating with at least 4 other women, one of whom is a friend. I guess he was too busy & it was important to keep things in the DL. Thank god I had a bad gut feeling and the last time I saw him was Oct 2nd & I had stopped initiating texts & calls & turned...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    I am walking on eggshells.

    Every single day I am told that I am not good enough and need to change. instead of encouragement, I get discouraged. I love my Bf. I want to BF perfect for him...but I am constantly battling myself. I want to change for the better but I need support. I need time. I don't want...
    jessiroseca jessiroseca 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Sometimes I just feel unloved in my current

    relationship. I feel like I'm giving out more effort than he does. I don't know, we've been together for almost 2 months now and I feel like I'm more in love with him than hes inlove with me. We talked today and our conversation kinda ended up with me saying he's head over...
    Liebeeiram Liebeeiram 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I'm actually making excuses not to talk to my

    boyfriend. He's in the military in Germany, and we hardly get to talk as it is. When I get a moment to actually talk to him, I just don't want to. Today's the first time I actually kept the conversation short. We usually talk or FaceTime for HOURS. Just haven't been that into it...
    VeganSoChic VeganSoChic 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Back story: I haven't been on here

    since 2012. I've been enjoying life and thought I would come back on here. Plus, I thought good advice would be given here. Story/Problem: I'm currently still with the boyfriend that's in the Air Force. It has been almost 4 1/2 years with him. I do highly enjoy being his...
    Psychlover16 Psychlover16 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    Hi People, I really need some help.

    I really appreciate your time helping me. Thank you. I'm in a relationship of 6 years. Started as friends and then became lovers. I love her. I really love her. I want to take care of her. But, we had broke up and get back together like 3 times already. She said all those break...
    marcdavid20 marcdavid20 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Yeah...I have posted here a lot - probably more

    than I should... But, I'm confused about my relationship.^^^ She doesn't like me. I don't know if I like her. When she's here, I want her to go away. When she's gone, I can't handle being without her. I feel attracted to other people when I shouldn't & don't want to be. I don't...
    InsideTheSadCafe InsideTheSadCafe 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 8

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    why does he think that it's okay

    for me to make out with a girl,but it's wrong if i do it with a boy..it's same ****,i'm bi
    forkinyoureye forkinyoureye 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    So i just found out that my girlfriend,

    of 1 year, was texting my best friend that she likes him. He showed the texts to me, and he doesn't like her but only as a friend. Also my girlfriend lives 500km away. I am glad that my friend told me this because it shows his loyalty. But me and my gf have been having a bit of...
    Hippy99 Hippy99 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Every time I think we're over,

    I realize I love him. Every time I think I love him, I realize we're over. "Confused" is an understatement.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    I really like this girl.

    We've been talking and texting nonstop for two months now. I've tried talking to her about dating but everytime I bring it up she gets either upset/distant or just mad. She has told me she like me a little, and she wants to like me more, but she doesn't and she doesn't know why...
    Danish3398 Danish3398 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I have been married for 10 plus years.

    I love my husband but not sure that I am in love with him (so cliché - I know!). He drinks too much and its a constant issue with us. He refuses to think he has a problem even though he drinks to excess daily. I have become very health conscious and concerned with my...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Ok I need guys opinion on this pleaseeeee .

    .. So there's this guy I went to middle and high school with ... We never spoke or hung out until 2 years ago I added him on FB I do remember he was always shy so I wasn't surprised when he told me he never had a gf we started talking ( I was newly divorced) we hung out and I...
    Newyorkgal89 Newyorkgal89 26-30, F 15 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    If you don't want me anymore,

    just say it, dude. Don't keep me hanging around. I'm a big girl. You don't want me? Tell me and I will never bother you again. Feckin asshowle. Just who do you think you are. This "relationship" is just giving me frequent and totally unnecessary heartaches. Gawddammit. I don't...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 1 Response May 12, 2014

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    My girlfriend got mad at me

    for being open minded... So that's a thing.
    Buddiee Buddiee 18-21, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My man works all day.

    .. We live together he is great to my kids and I (financially). My friend says be a mother before a women. Except he does things that make me want to leave., things that aren't right.... The little time we get to spend together he becomes someone else and does things that aren't...
    linlio linlio 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2014

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    Reluctant To Share

    I am a bit scared/reluctant/ashamed (take your pick) to post in this group . . . .  I am not so sure if this is a good thing or if my sharing will only open up a can of worms that will come back to haunt me later?I have been putting off to post here since the first day I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Here we go again!! Traveling this week to

    Chicago with an old fat coworker. Be here all week. In unpacking my travel bag last night found some thigh hi and small thongs that i had not bought. Hubby put in my bag. I dont understand him wanting to wear this while on road.
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 15 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I'm Not Sure Where It's Going

    Really confused, two nights ago I went to my wife's house to bring over our son. I went in and let him get settled up stairs and tucked him into bed, I went to say good bye and tried to give her a hug (I'm going to give you a hug goodbye) swiftly followed by her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    My boyfriend and I have been together over 1

    year. After 6 months I found messages to a girl asking her out on a date. When I confronted him he apologized said it didn't mean anything he liked the attention anyway we got through it I forgave him but I couldn't let go of the insecurity. 9 months later I again seen his...
    kole123456 kole123456 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    So me and my boyfriend used to work togethter

    In a restaurant i was like an assistant manager dealing with everything around the place and he was the bar tender also doing lots of things for the place.we started doibg discounts to pay our food and taking extra cash for me and him and at night when i would do the till i...
    msblueyes91 msblueyes91 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    jazzo2985 jazzo2985 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I am confused about my *sexual identity*

    actually but couldn't find that group..... Sometimes I find myself attracted to men - atleast, people over the Internet who claim to be men. Their personality or demeanor, whatever you want to call it. I get along better with them. Always have. But I only ever want to touch...
    InsideTheSadCafe InsideTheSadCafe 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    sometimes i feel like he doesn't

    even care.he went today to another city without telling me.i may seem possessive but i think that's not right.i found out trough my friend's boyfriend (bf's friend) that he's going and he still hasn't told me that he's there.i mean,am i wrong?
    forkinyoureye forkinyoureye 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Different Is Scary Sometimes

    I know what a healthy relationship is, but apparently I am confused by it. I'm used to the sort of man that has to be all affectionate in public in order to tell everyone that I am his and in turn gets upset when attention of any kind is payed to another man. Of course this is a...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    Background: I am married,

    we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time). I am 27, he is 31 - we've had our ups and downs but all in all, we are happy. We also just moved two months ago, and so...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    First, I'm all like, I want to be with him

    forever. Then suddenly, I'm all like, I don't want to see him ever again. Like, what the heck is wrong with me? He makes me so happy, but he can also make me so sad and depressed. Is this normal? Or should a real and strong relationship have more of the happy stuff? I have no...
    AverageGirl1k AverageGirl1k 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I recently started dating this guy

    who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However, this last time we hung-out He started being an a** !(excuse my french) saying things like; I'm going to have to replace you! He...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    How can I get my lesbian ex back?

    We were best friends for about a year before we decided to date. We fell hard and fast for each other. We dated for about four years and have lived together at college. We broke up about four month ago now. It was a mutual decision that we should go back to being best friends...
    helpplease12 helpplease12 22-25, F Jul 31, 2014

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    Been dating my boyfriend

    for only 5 months. We met about 5 months after he just got off a 4 year relationship. Out of the 4 years, he was engaged for 2 years. They broke up cause his parents didnt agreed to the marriage. He's a really nice guy but sometimes i question our relationship. He wont let me...
    Ebtitel001 Ebtitel001 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    recently my bf broke up with me.

    His reasons were that it seems that I love my friends more than him. That is so wrong and I keep trying to show him that I still want him. He says he stills has feelings for me but he doesn't talk to me the same or wants to get back together. yesterday things got more confusing...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    This is actually a question,

    but is it wrong to date someone older than you? Even if your truly in love with that person? For example, I'm 16 and the dude is 47. Is that wrong and illegal? I feel bad but at the same time I don't because I love him and we have been knowing eachother for 2 years. I'm very...
    Bijoker420 Bijoker420 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 17

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    Recently married been together 5 years.

    My husband told me the other day he enjoys wearing adult diapers women's clothing and using ****** to pleasure himself anally. He also enjoys pegging. He told me pegging and me diapering him a two of his biggest fantasies. Iam totally shocked and grossed out. Iam plain vanilla...
    Wife28 Wife28 26-30, F 10 Responses Jun 12, 2014

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    I feel deep down I need to leave my boyfriend

    we have a terrible and abusive past and I know it isn't right and I feel more sad than happy with him most days. It's really toxic but I just can't leave at all. I try and I end up feeling alone and missing him so I can't ever do it. I really want to but it's so difficult. I...
    violetskynoise violetskynoise 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's been like 3 and a half years with my

    boyfriend and things are not okay between us he always hurts me and make me cry but I still love him I always forgive him. I tried to break up but he doesn't want to. He says that I'm his soulmate but me I'm not so sure if he is my soulmate or not. I love him, he is my best...
    Sempiternaldark Sempiternaldark 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    Torn.

    There is way to much to be said about my relationship. We've been together two years now. I was so blinded by the "in love high" that many of us experience when we first meet that special person. I connected with him, and went with the flow. I ended up here. In some cases, a lot...
    jadedprettygirl jadedprettygirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    I am not his wife, I am not his mistress,

    I am not just his gf nor the mother of his son.. So, what am I to him? He wont give me any labels :-(
    SugarK SugarK 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    rsushama73 rsushama73 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    okay so gosh dang it!

    How do I let go. how do i become the me before I met my boyfriend and when we first met? am I in too deep with my obsession? I need to stop trying to control the future. how?
    jessiroseca jessiroseca 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Mixed Signals

    Just as love's turning to hatred, Just when I think I've had enough, Just before my heart freezes over, He'll make some small gesture of love, He'll redeem himself. Flowers just because, A hug or kiss out of the blue, Calling just to ask how my day is, A sudden showing of respect...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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