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I Am Confused About My Relationship

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    rsushama73 rsushama73 41-45, F 23 hrs ago

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    Is it worth thinking about counciling

    if it hasn't worked in years, not for the cost of happyness one day, you carnt go back!
    fozzy03 fozzy03 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 13

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    How can I get my lesbian ex back?

    We were best friends for about a year before we decided to date. We fell hard and fast for each other. We dated for about four years and have lived together at college. We broke up about four month ago now. It was a mutual decision that we should go back to being best friends...
    helpplease12 helpplease12 22-25, F Jul 31, 2014

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    jazzo2985 jazzo2985 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I am not his wife, I am not his mistress,

    I am not just his gf nor the mother of his son.. So, what am I to him? He wont give me any labels :-(
    SugarK SugarK 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    so this guy is 3 years older

    than me ant we have a long distance relationship and he changes his number a lot. I even feel like he cheats on me
    Ndasmi Ndasmi 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    If you don't want me anymore,

    just say it, dude. Don't keep me hanging around. I'm a big girl. You don't want me? Tell me and I will never bother you again. Feckin asshowle. Just who do you think you are. This "relationship" is just giving me frequent and totally unnecessary heartaches. Gawddammit. I don't...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 1 Response May 12, 2014

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    laurenzerbe laurenzerbe 16-17, F Mar 4

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    I'd like to start off by saying I met my

    boyfriend 6 years ago before he had any kids, him and I were just friends at the time. In that time he was seeing someone although he claims he was never really dating her but having a "sexual relationship" with her. When we started to pick up feelings for one another it was the...
    SeniaV SeniaV 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    I just don't know anymore.

    All we seem to do is argue In the end he tells me it is me. I knew from day one he likes to manipulate people. I hate to say it's part of his profession. Last night the 2 hour talk was about why everything I have been frustrated for has been my doing. I know he loves and...
    CuriousKittey CuriousKittey 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    It's been like 3 and a half years with my

    boyfriend and things are not okay between us he always hurts me and make me cry but I still love him I always forgive him. I tried to break up but he doesn't want to. He says that I'm his soulmate but me I'm not so sure if he is my soulmate or not. I love him, he is my best...
    Sempiternaldark Sempiternaldark 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    I been very confused about my

    so called relationship. i am not happy because i feel like i am unloved and unappreciated. what makes matters worse is that i am afraid to open up my heart again and date other people. i recently liked another guy but i am not reveling his name but i rejected him because i told...
    db174 db174 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I dont know if i am scared to be alone

    or just i love him. Were on our 14th months but today i dont feel much excitements and i feel tired of giving efforts that dont much appreciated. Every night misunderstandings. I am scared of moving on stage in every break ups. I am not sure in our relationship now. I need...
    atserk18 atserk18 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    I recently started dating this guy

    who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However, this last time we hung-out He started being an a** !(excuse my french) saying things like; I'm going to have to replace you! He...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    To let go, or keep trying.

    6 years is so much to through away. But these feelings keep coming back. Ugh...... It's so confusing!!!
    SeekingGreatPerhaps SeekingGreatPerhaps 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    I don't know if I should break up with my

    boyfriend or not. I love him, but I feel like I'm not getting enough attention from him, and I sometimes feel like he doesn't feel the same way about me. He is stubborn and has radical views about everything, and sometimes it just really gets on my nerves. I haven't ended it...
    SkylinesEternal SkylinesEternal 18-21, F 5 Responses May 12, 2014

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    My girlfriend has lost all passion physically

    for the past couple months. What happened? 😔
    dev10251 dev10251 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 2

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    our relationship was

    so excited, we kept talking everyday , sharing every thing, feeling the love but right now , she is so far , i do not know what i have to do !!! its complicated
    TRHL TRHL 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    Recently married been together 5 years.

    My husband told me the other day he enjoys wearing adult diapers women's clothing and using ****** to pleasure himself anally. He also enjoys pegging. He told me pegging and me diapering him a two of his biggest fantasies. Iam totally shocked and grossed out. Iam plain vanilla...
    Wife28 Wife28 26-30, F 10 Responses Jun 12, 2014

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    I feel there something wrong with my

    relationship with my 8months boyfriend. Been through quite a lot and now, recently feel that's I get irritated by him quite often, almost everyday and that I feel that there's something wrong like he doesn't understand me. He isn't as hot as last time where he used to catch me...
    badromance96 badromance96 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    It all makes sense now!

    Found out he is/was cheating with at least 4 other women, one of whom is a friend. I guess he was too busy & it was important to keep things in the DL. Thank god I had a bad gut feeling and the last time I saw him was Oct 2nd & I had stopped initiating texts & calls & turned...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    I need opinions. positive

    and negative. it doesn't matter to me, I'm sure all will be helpful. it will give me views from all different sides. well here it goes, I've been with my bf for 3 years. I have a 7 year old son from a past relationship. my bf isn't capable of satisfying me how I want. I've asked...
    seximexi92 seximexi92 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm Not Sure Where It's Going

    Really confused, two nights ago I went to my wife's house to bring over our son. I went in and let him get settled up stairs and tucked him into bed, I went to say good bye and tried to give her a hug (I'm going to give you a hug goodbye) swiftly followed by her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    I am nearly approaching my second year into

    this relationship, though I found the girl I was looking for, someone who accepted me despite my disability. Back then I though I found my soulmate but I was wrong. During the relationship I was stuck in a rut and my life started falling apart. Despite all that I thought this...
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 9

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    Torn.

    There is way to much to be said about my relationship. We've been together two years now. I was so blinded by the "in love high" that many of us experience when we first meet that special person. I connected with him, and went with the flow. I ended up here. In some cases, a lot...
    jadedprettygirl jadedprettygirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    I like to think back to

    when we were so in love. What changed? How did we get to this point? I want to be young and in love again....I want the person that I married back...
    ahousewife ahousewife 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 1

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    Every time I think we're over,

    I realize I love him. Every time I think I love him, I realize we're over. "Confused" is an understatement.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Will someone please tell me why

    if I’m dating the best guy ever and have totally fallen for him I still want a girlfriend to fall in love with. Like I want it so bad my heart hurts. why can’t I have both? :(
    TryingToLoveLifeNow TryingToLoveLifeNow 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    This guy and I have a confusing relationship.

    We hug and kiss and do all that "couple" stuff. But he hasn't asked me out and we aren't officially dating. I have this feeling that he likes another girl. She and him always talk and whenever I see them together they are always smiling and laughing. Today I thought I saw her...
    jade12123 jade12123 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend

    for almost three years and its been a huge rollercoaster. He's treated me really bad: leaving me alone to cry, not calling me back, promising to make me feel special to him but never going through with it. I love him so much and I know I probably sound stupid because I know that...
    ma12345678 ma12345678 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    My boyfriend and I started dating 8 months ago.

    We were attracted to each other, and until a few days ago, we are still on our "honeymoon" phase--touchy and clingy (not in a negative way) We just started living together. We had our first fight three days ago when I had a pregnancy scare (no, I'm not pregnant) and he panicked...
    khsaga22 khsaga22 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    If you're in a situation

    where you catch your significant other going through your phone (and finding nothing) but they refuse to return the 'favor' is it wrong to assume they're being unfaithful?
    jad626 jad626 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    So I am writing this more to vent

    but I also need advice. I have been with my boyfriend since 2010. the first few years were great. I felt loved and he I loved him dearly. he made me happy and I could see myself spending my whole life with him. In 2013 I became pregnant and we both decided to have an abortion...
    doubtful09 doubtful09 18-21, F Mar 11

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    we geted part so i feel

    so damn bad.i want i want my free soul with any damages in it.
    gvantsa gvantsa 22-25, F Mar 4

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    I don't really know where to start.

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, and I really do love him, but about 7 months ago I had begun having dreams about me with a guy I had a crush on in high school. The dreams usually revolved around us wanting to be together, but something (or more often...
    brokenhearted89 brokenhearted89 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Different Is Scary Sometimes

    I know what a healthy relationship is, but apparently I am confused by it. I'm used to the sort of man that has to be all affectionate in public in order to tell everyone that I am his and in turn gets upset when attention of any kind is payed to another man. Of course this is a...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    I really really REALLY like someone on ep,

    but Im not sure she feels the same. I am willing to wait for her if there is a possibility it will work out (or at least try). We have never met. I still dont know if she's interested or not. My ex g/f is wanting to get back together. I would prefer to see what happens with my...
    ZakaryJosephJones ZakaryJosephJones 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 3

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    i have been married 2.

    6 years, and feel done. and scared. of the loneliness that is to follow. i remember how done i was with relationships that seemed to go nowhere. then when i met my husband, despite not being completely convinced, and all the signs were there, i was 28, and just wanted to be...
    andthentherewaslight andthentherewaslight 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2014

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    My man works all day.

    .. We live together he is great to my kids and I (financially). My friend says be a mother before a women. Except he does things that make me want to leave., things that aren't right.... The little time we get to spend together he becomes someone else and does things that aren't...
    linlio linlio 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2014

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    I'm about to meet the Lady I pledged to marry.

    that was 2 yrs ago. we've fought since then. a lot. but in doing so we have avoided those fights later in life - we will simply understand by then. we are each fighting the others weaknesses with them, wishing only the best for them, fighting their battles in our ways. but we...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Reluctant To Share

    I am a bit scared/reluctant/ashamed (take your pick) to post in this group . . . .  I am not so sure if this is a good thing or if my sharing will only open up a can of worms that will come back to haunt me later?I have been putting off to post here since the first day I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    My love life just getting weirder

    and weirder. So long story short I met this guy a few months back. We totally hit it off, hang out lots together, kiss, make out even though he already have a long distance girlfriend. He hurt my feelings a lot of times but still I stay with him till the end. Before he left...
    YongTauFoo YongTauFoo 18-21, F 17 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    RE: Divorce‏ There is one more thing how dare

    you ask me to be amiable you messed everything up you have no rights any more you gave all those up when you committed adultery because you take your knickers off for anyone who is willing to smile at you. 4 years you put me through a living hell being accused of things I wasn't...
    reddwarf1910 reddwarf1910 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have been married for 10 plus years.

    I love my husband but not sure that I am in love with him (so cliché - I know!). He drinks too much and its a constant issue with us. He refuses to think he has a problem even though he drinks to excess daily. I have become very health conscious and concerned with my...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    I feel like I'm sitting on the fence.

    I don't know if I should stay content where I am and not feel completely happy or satisfied or if I should risk it all and be alone. The idea of a new experience or life change sounds desirable...although I'm afraid of the bad that could happen with a blank canvas and no one...
    elissamay33 elissamay33 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    i wonder how she is feeling?

    ? like she is leaving me ? i am asking the ladies here how would you feel when you are walking away from someone loves you? i wish if she is more open!! like she could say , i love you but its hard to deal with this love, or i love you but i need you beside me to pass this hard...
    TRHL TRHL 26-30, M Mar 13

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