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I Am Confused About My Relationship

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    Here we go again!! Traveling this week to

    Chicago with an old fat coworker. Be here all week. In unpacking my travel bag last night found some thigh hi and small thongs that i had not bought. Hubby put in my bag. I dont understand him wanting to wear this while on road.
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 15 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I would like advice on my relationship

    but more one on one if any ones interested let me know, thank you!
    lonelytalker lonelytalker 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    I think my gut is telling me to move on from

    this relationship. Is it my intuition trying to warn me to stay away, or is it my self-destructive tendencies that don't want me to have something good? I tend to sabotage good things for myself, but I'm not sure how to decode this feeling. Can anyone offer some insight?
    bowlofsurreal bowlofsurreal 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    I'm living in a situation

    where I'm not loved, appreciated or even treated with decency. What's even sadder is that it's in a house with my bf and my mom. My mom is the most spiteful grudge holding human being I've ever met (which is why I took off on my own at 16) and my bf says he loves me (I know he...
    therapeuticalsentences05 therapeuticalsentences05 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    So my boyfriend of 3 1/2 months never texts me

    back. I don't know what to do. I don't know why he doesn't. Maybe he forgets to or something. But it's quite annoying. It's aggravating. Like, "why don't you text me back??"
    Enpfor12 Enpfor12 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    I think love is temporary.

    After hearing I've lost interest from someone who used to love me so much all I could say is "I hope I never meet someone like u again!".
    darkblue0909 darkblue0909 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 13

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    To let go, or keep trying.

    6 years is so much to through away. But these feelings keep coming back. Ugh...... It's so confusing!!!
    SeekingGreatPerhaps SeekingGreatPerhaps 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    Here goes my story, I fell I love with this boy

    online n he was shy n i b4 him I had expearance with boys but not relationship. So I fell In love and so did he and 1 1/2 year to the relationship I was trying to see him n was telling him he needs to purpose because I will end up getting engaged but he didn't make a move ... So...
    SHA2078640 SHA2078640 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I don't know if I should break up with my

    boyfriend or not. I love him, but I feel like I'm not getting enough attention from him, and I sometimes feel like he doesn't feel the same way about me. He is stubborn and has radical views about everything, and sometimes it just really gets on my nerves. I haven't ended it...
    SkylinesEternal SkylinesEternal 18-21, F 5 Responses May 12, 2014

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    Can anyone relate and give some desperately

    needed advice? My boyfriend is paranoid. We met a year ago - our first date was valentines day of 2014. He was sweet, caring, and we had a lot of similarities. But we also came from two very different backgrounds. He grew up in the city, had some run ins with the law at a young...
    hollysnowy hollysnowy 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I'm about to meet the Lady I pledged to marry.

    that was 2 yrs ago. we've fought since then. a lot. but in doing so we have avoided those fights later in life - we will simply understand by then. we are each fighting the others weaknesses with them, wishing only the best for them, fighting their battles in our ways. but we...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    It all makes sense now!

    Found out he is/was cheating with at least 4 other women, one of whom is a friend. I guess he was too busy & it was important to keep things in the DL. Thank god I had a bad gut feeling and the last time I saw him was Oct 2nd & I had stopped initiating texts & calls & turned...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    If some one hardly texts you

    but still says they love you when they see you and shows more affection when around others then alone what am I to think?
    lonelytalker lonelytalker 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 10

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    Reluctant To Share

    I am a bit scared/reluctant/ashamed (take your pick) to post in this group . . . .  I am not so sure if this is a good thing or if my sharing will only open up a can of worms that will come back to haunt me later?I have been putting off to post here since the first day I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Recently married been together 5 years.

    My husband told me the other day he enjoys wearing adult diapers women's clothing and using ****** to pleasure himself anally. He also enjoys pegging. He told me pegging and me diapering him a two of his biggest fantasies. Iam totally shocked and grossed out. Iam plain vanilla...
    Wife28 Wife28 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 12, 2014

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    I have been married for 10 plus years.

    I love my husband but not sure that I am in love with him (so cliché - I know!). He drinks too much and its a constant issue with us. He refuses to think he has a problem even though he drinks to excess daily. I have become very health conscious and concerned with my...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    I'm Not Sure Where It's Going

    Really confused, two nights ago I went to my wife's house to bring over our son. I went in and let him get settled up stairs and tucked him into bed, I went to say good bye and tried to give her a hug (I'm going to give you a hug goodbye) swiftly followed by her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    My love life just getting weirder

    and weirder. So long story short I met this guy a few months back. We totally hit it off, hang out lots together, kiss, make out even though he already have a long distance girlfriend. He hurt my feelings a lot of times but still I stay with him till the end. Before he left...
    YongTauFoo YongTauFoo 18-21, F 18 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    I'm torn between two guys,

    and I need help! Guy 1: -met on a dating site -christian and virgin (like me) -lives in a different state -told me he's in love with me -we've never met in person but have talked on the phone Guy 2: -goes to my school -atheist that has had sex -really kind and smart and...
    totallytori totallytori 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    Every time I think we're over,

    I realize I love him. Every time I think I love him, I realize we're over. "Confused" is an understatement.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    I feel like I'm sitting on the fence.

    I don't know if I should stay content where I am and not feel completely happy or satisfied or if I should risk it all and be alone. The idea of a new experience or life change sounds desirable...although I'm afraid of the bad that could happen with a blank canvas and no one...
    elissamay33 elissamay33 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    I'd like to start off by saying I met my

    boyfriend 6 years ago before he had any kids, him and I were just friends at the time. In that time he was seeing someone although he claims he was never really dating her but having a "sexual relationship" with her. When we started to pick up feelings for one another it was the...
    SeniaV SeniaV 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    I am not his wife, I am not his mistress,

    I am not just his gf nor the mother of his son.. So, what am I to him? He wont give me any labels :-(
    SugarK SugarK 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    Background: I am married,

    we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time). I am 27, he is 31 - we've had our ups and downs but all in all, we are happy. We also just moved two months ago, and so...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I'm 29 and have been single

    for 5 years. I've dated here and there but never had a spark until this last guy I met.. The only problem is he hates me... We've been hanging out for 9 months he always wants to be around me, always at my house or wants me at his house. I cook for him take care of him give him...
    CeciliaRose12 CeciliaRose12 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    Torn.

    There is way to much to be said about my relationship. We've been together two years now. I was so blinded by the "in love high" that many of us experience when we first meet that special person. I connected with him, and went with the flow. I ended up here. In some cases, a lot...
    jadedprettygirl jadedprettygirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    I became friends with this guy in high school

    and it started out on Facebook because he messaged me. We had one class together and hung out a few times. Now we go to the same college but don't hang out. We frequently text or use social media to contact each other like everyday. He's had feelings for me and I've let him know...
    bexk bexk 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 4

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    I met a really nice guy.

    I didn't really like him at first because he's not my type of guy. However, witnessing the way he loves someone--me particularly--I was drawn to him, resulting to a deep abrupt fall. We were never really official though. We went out casually, ate with each other, celebrated the...
    hastycrew hastycrew 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 11

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    Right now I'm going through a lot.

    My boyfriend of almost 4 years broke up with me a month ago. Honestly, I messed up but I don't think I deserved what I got. Okay so last year on New Years, his phone was unlocked and I took my chance just to look. I didn't think I'd find anything but I did, he was texting a girl...
    HiMyNameIsEve HiMyNameIsEve 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    If you don't want me anymore,

    just say it, dude. Don't keep me hanging around. I'm a big girl. You don't want me? Tell me and I will never bother you again. Feckin asshowle. Just who do you think you are. This "relationship" is just giving me frequent and totally unnecessary heartaches. Gawddammit. I don't...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 1 Response May 12, 2014

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    Sooo... I'm in a relationship right now

    and I guess I am very happy. He makes me smile, he cares about me, always protects me... However I don't know why, but I feel confused. It all started in December 2014 (I knew him long before that, but we started texting and hanging out in December). He wrote to me, I wrote back...
    maybereallyconfused maybereallyconfused 18-21, F Feb 15

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    My man works all day.

    .. We live together he is great to my kids and I (financially). My friend says be a mother before a women. Except he does things that make me want to leave., things that aren't right.... The little time we get to spend together he becomes someone else and does things that aren't...
    linlio linlio 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2014

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    I wouldn't go as to call it a relationship.

    I don't know what I should call it. But I need urgent help. There is this girl that I love. We'll call her Cheese. I met her in my gym class I didn't feel anything at first but then out of nowhere I just decided to add her on snapchat. And we'd talk constantly. Eventually I...
    shecancareless shecancareless 22-25, F Feb 8

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    Mixed Signals

    Just as love's turning to hatred, Just when I think I've had enough, Just before my heart freezes over, He'll make some small gesture of love, He'll redeem himself. Flowers just because, A hug or kiss out of the blue, Calling just to ask how my day is, A sudden showing of respect...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    Different Is Scary Sometimes

    I know what a healthy relationship is, but apparently I am confused by it. I'm used to the sort of man that has to be all affectionate in public in order to tell everyone that I am his and in turn gets upset when attention of any kind is payed to another man. Of course this is a...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older

    Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey results showed that women were significantly more willing than men, to marry a partner who was 5 years older than they were. On the other hand, it also...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    We have been best friends

    and dated before. We've spent a lot of time together and feelings have started to come up again. I want to date him again and his friend says he wants to date me, but I don't see it. He ditched me for three weeks straight, never texts me-i have to be the one to text him, hugs me...
    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F Feb 4

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    It's not really a relationship,

    you just keep coming and going as you please, selfish bastard but I still welcome you back
    Mka1989 Mka1989 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    on this day I have many things to say to you.

    . When I met you first day at st.cathriens terminal, you was just a date for me, but when you looked into my eyes I was gone for you. Time passed we started going out,I started dreaming about you. I love the way you tried to teach me German words when we smoke in your backyard...
    prashnete prashnete 26-30 Feb 13

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    How can I get my lesbian ex back?

    We were best friends for about a year before we decided to date. We fell hard and fast for each other. We dated for about four years and have lived together at college. We broke up about four month ago now. It was a mutual decision that we should go back to being best friends...
    helpplease12 helpplease12 22-25, F Jul 31, 2014

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    He's up to something I think he's up to

    something. I cant figure it out But what he's doing is not normal. He's nice and honest and blunt and caring. and rude and he listens and he doesnt say much. How could he NOT be up to something? He's a guy. and all guys are up to something. and every time i try to leave he...
    ember23 ember23 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    my husband is turning Into my friend

    and not so much my lover anymore. my husband and I have only been married for 3 months and were not in a great place. I feel selfish saying this but our sex has decreased. he's a sweet man and loves to text and call Me during work and stuff. but there's just not sexual...
    medic1102 medic1102 22-25, F Feb 9

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    can someone message me please?

    when i tried to post this experience experience project won't let me. i just need advice. :(
    desilovescats desilovescats 22-25, F Feb 5

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    I've been dating a guy

    for 3 years, I met him when I first moved to Florida at 18 years old to live on my own and attend college. We became quick friends and soon lovers. He had prior engagements to another woman yet we still chose to see each other until he left to go see her. I was devastated and...
    KATHERINE2015 KATHERINE2015 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    i have been married 2.

    6 years, and feel done. and scared. of the loneliness that is to follow. i remember how done i was with relationships that seemed to go nowhere. then when i met my husband, despite not being completely convinced, and all the signs were there, i was 28, and just wanted to be...
    andthentherewaslight andthentherewaslight 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2014

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    My husband and I have been married

    for two years. When together he is very jealous of others looking at me. I like to dress so others look at me. I travel a lot for business. Travel a lot with coworkers all guys and meet buyers mostly guys too. Lately husband been asking me if these guys like looking up my...
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 31 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    It's been like 3 and a half years with my

    boyfriend and things are not okay between us he always hurts me and make me cry but I still love him I always forgive him. I tried to break up but he doesn't want to. He says that I'm his soulmate but me I'm not so sure if he is my soulmate or not. I love him, he is my best...
    Sempiternaldark Sempiternaldark 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    My relationship is ****.

    It's a long story but basically he's married. He moved back in with his wife 3 months ago because she was about to have a baby. We tried not talking. we tried being just friends. There are too many feelings. He told me we should break up so I can find someone able to be 100...
    heatherrrbee heatherrrbee 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 16

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    Been married for 8 years.

    Got married at 20 to the first and only serious relationship I ever had. Didn't get married for love as much as legal and economic reasons, but we've been good together for the mist part. Marriage isn't supposed to be easy, so I have taken the bad with the good. Up until the end...
    roserama87 roserama87 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I've been married for 11 years

    and have one child with my wife. Since the beginning of our marriage I saw red flags. She wouldn't let me hug her, hold her and even touch her. She has accused me of having an affair numerous times when in fact I was not having one. I was recently told by her daughter that...
    raso88 raso88 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Not to sound slutty but I am confused on what

    guy I like. There are six of them.1. He is fun to be around and creative. 2. He's very quiet but sweet and kind. 3. He is serious but caring. 4. He is very motherly like and is very persuasive. 5 he is smart and he is very cunning. 6. He likes tho adventure, always doing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 17

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