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I Am Confused About My Relationship

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    Known this guy about three weeks.

    We've hung out three times. Yeah we've slept together twice .... But he's seemed really indicative of wanting to actually date. My issue is he doesn't seem interested in talking outside of hanging out. I don't text him first really but when I do and we start a conversation, he...
    violetskynoise violetskynoise 22-25, F 2 Responses May 24

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    What Does It Mean When Your Bf Tells You Each And Every Thing Your Bf Did With The Other Girls Or Girlfriends That He Had Before He Met You?? Knowing It Will Hurt U

    What does it mean when your bf tells you each and every thing your bf did with the other girls or girlfriends that he had before he met you?? (keeping in mind that it will hurt a lot) Does it mean he wants me to feel bad or wants you to know and get jealous about it and get...
    honeyswizgal honeyswizgal 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11 26-30, F Jun 15

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    To let go, or keep trying.

    6 years is so much to through away. But these feelings keep coming back. Ugh...... It's so confusing!!!
    SeekingGreatPerhaps SeekingGreatPerhaps 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    My husband and I are

    so distant sometimes I want to give up on the relationship. I take care of everything all bills, kids, cookung and I feel so much weight. we have been together since college and I never thought I would graduate and he wouldn't. I have two degrees and he doesnt. I keep reassuring...
    nessa30 nessa30 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am soo deep in love with this guy,

    he does everything for me and we're living in the same resident at University but the problem is he got a girlfriend in another university which is far from ours and this girl live by his home at the village meaning they also get time to see each other when they come back for...
    macccy macccy 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Reluctant To Share

    I am a bit scared/reluctant/ashamed (take your pick) to post in this group . . . .  I am not so sure if this is a good thing or if my sharing will only open up a can of worms that will come back to haunt me later?I have been putting off to post here since the first day I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    My love life just getting weirder

    and weirder. So long story short I met this guy a few months back. We totally hit it off, hang out lots together, kiss, make out even though he already have a long distance girlfriend. He hurt my feelings a lot of times but still I stay with him till the end. Before he left...
    YongTauFoo YongTauFoo 18-21, F 15 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Ok so I love my man but honestly he treats me

    like **** . I admit can be one hell of a ***** but seriously. Today his son had to go back to his moms and she called here after he had already left wanting him to stay longer. They ended exchanging not so nice words. And she actually sent their son back to our house...
    jessiegirl85 jessiegirl85 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    when a relationship is damaged once,

    it's forever damaged!
    pgalsh pgalsh 36-40, F 2 Responses May 22

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    I have been married for 7 years together

    for 11. For a long time I have felt that something is missing from our relationship, I often feel that we are just friends, also the physical side of our relationship has been rare for many years. Is anyone else in a similar situation or able to offer advice?
    ashglo ashglo 31-35, M 6 Responses Jun 17

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    Ok, so i have or should i say i used to have a

    best friend until today. We had quite different personalities and some of our class mates then used to say our relationship was quite weird, but she said she didn't care so i decided to stand with her. We became best friends unexpectedly, towards our final exams and it had it's...
    4everoptie 4everoptie 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    It's hard to not let relationships take over

    you're life... They're ****** stressful. I gotta focus on me more.
    Lilypenguin Lilypenguin 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So I've been talking with this girl

    for a month. Only hung out once. It's hard to hangout, since she's usually busy with other friends and stuff. She's like 15 miles away though, so it's a bit rough to visit and we gotta plan everything nonetheless. But to me, it's worth it. I'm just not sure if she feels the same...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 20

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    Recently married been together 5 years.

    My husband told me the other day he enjoys wearing adult diapers women's clothing and using ****** to pleasure himself anally. He also enjoys pegging. He told me pegging and me diapering him a two of his biggest fantasies. Iam totally shocked and grossed out. Iam plain vanilla...
    Wife28 Wife28 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 12, 2014

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    I got a call from my very upset Ex,

    only 2 days after we had broken up. He says he has mad a mistake and really wants me back and for things to work. I'm just really worried that if I take him back, itll all be a huge mistake and i'll end up getting hurt again but on the other hand... Everything could work out for...
    jjaylee jjaylee 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    kinda need some advice on something

    and if anyone is willing to listen and offer me an answer that would be great
    xBlossomx xBlossomx 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 15

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    Different Is Scary Sometimes

    I know what a healthy relationship is, but apparently I am confused by it. I'm used to the sort of man that has to be all affectionate in public in order to tell everyone that I am his and in turn gets upset when attention of any kind is payed to another man. Of course this is a...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    I'm Not Sure Where It's Going

    Really confused, two nights ago I went to my wife's house to bring over our son. I went in and let him get settled up stairs and tucked him into bed, I went to say good bye and tried to give her a hug (I'm going to give you a hug goodbye) swiftly followed by her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    I really could use some advice right

    now :/ my boyfriend and I broke up a month ago . he moved 5 hours away until august. Before leaving everything was fine and we were happy and we talked about moving into the long distance portion of our relationship. after he left he broke up with me via Skype said he didn't...
    laxmeg9 laxmeg9 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 12

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      I my name is Mittsie,

    I have read a lot of your posts and have gained a deeper insight towards Twin Flames. I would like to share my story and would also require some help in recognising my Twin Flame. I met this guy Teddy through a common friend. The minute we met, we bonded exceptionally well. It...
    Mittsie Mittsie 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'd like to start off by saying I met my

    boyfriend 6 years ago before he had any kids, him and I were just friends at the time. In that time he was seeing someone although he claims he was never really dating her but having a "sexual relationship" with her. When we started to pick up feelings for one another it was the...
    SeniaV SeniaV 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    So a few days ago.I started a relationship with

    this amazing girl on here.I really like her but I messed up. I fall fast and hard for people once I start caring for someone it is to the max.But I told her that I love her. She then blew up at me.Telling me that I don't really like her.I really like her and my feelings are...
    spidergrrr spidergrrr 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    It all makes sense now!

    Found out he is/was cheating with at least 4 other women, one of whom is a friend. I guess he was too busy & it was important to keep things in the DL. Thank god I had a bad gut feeling and the last time I saw him was Oct 2nd & I had stopped initiating texts & calls & turned...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    My husband and I have been married

    for two years. When together he is very jealous of others looking at me. I like to dress so others look at me. I travel a lot for business. Travel a lot with coworkers all guys and meet buyers mostly guys too. Lately husband been asking me if these guys like looking up my...
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 26 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    Joshx0xWar Joshx0xWar 16-17, M May 13

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    What do u do if ur bf don't go to school

    so u go an see him without ur mum knowing then u see ur mum and u just say ur going to ur friends house to pick her up then u go to ur boyfriends house then time goes past and ur mum rings ur school to see if ur there and ur not then she blames everything on ur boyfriend and...
    sexygirl247 sexygirl247 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    I feel like I'm sitting on the fence.

    I don't know if I should stay content where I am and not feel completely happy or satisfied or if I should risk it all and be alone. The idea of a new experience or life change sounds desirable...although I'm afraid of the bad that could happen with a blank canvas and no one...
    elissamay33 elissamay33 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    All right everyone--I need some assistance

    understanding this one. I met this fella about two and a half months ago from OKC. We had a fun first date: barcade and fun conversations. We played arcade games and drank. We laughed about our age difference (he's eight years my senior--I'm 27) and how he couldn't date someone...
    lostinthought17 lostinthought17 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Which way?? Here's a little back story to

    why I need advice: I was with my ex for 8 years, 4 of which we were engaged. We met in elementary school, became a couple when we were both 16 and moved in together. Practically inseparable and were always there for one another. We decided to move cross country. When we got here...
    BlueEagleEyez BlueEagleEyez 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    I feel deep down I need to leave my boyfriend

    we have a terrible and abusive past and I know it isn't right and I feel more sad than happy with him most days. It's really toxic but I just can't leave at all. I try and I end up feeling alone and missing him so I can't ever do it. I really want to but it's so difficult. I...
    violetskynoise violetskynoise 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    If you don't want me anymore,

    just say it, dude. Don't keep me hanging around. I'm a big girl. You don't want me? Tell me and I will never bother you again. Feckin asshowle. Just who do you think you are. This "relationship" is just giving me frequent and totally unnecessary heartaches. Gawddammit. I don't...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 2 Responses May 12, 2014

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    Mixed Signals

    Just as love's turning to hatred, Just when I think I've had enough, Just before my heart freezes over, He'll make some small gesture of love, He'll redeem himself. Flowers just because, A hug or kiss out of the blue, Calling just to ask how my day is, A sudden showing of respect...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    I am 26 and I got married 7/8 months ago.

    My husband is 37 this year and recently we had a talk about having kids . I told him I needed at least 5 years or so before I am ready for kids because I really want to focus on working . He got extremely upset /mad and he said we should stop wasting each other's time and kept...
    Labmice Labmice 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 14

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    Torn.

    There is way to much to be said about my relationship. We've been together two years now. I was so blinded by the "in love high" that many of us experience when we first meet that special person. I connected with him, and went with the flow. I ended up here. In some cases, a lot...
    jadedprettygirl jadedprettygirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    please be kind as this is not

    for everyone. I am totally in love with a man much older than me. it is also the man my mom is dating. they have been together for 2 years and our bond has grown stronger and stronger since he cam into our lives. when we are alone, its like the world doesn't matter. when we...
    ticklishjenn ticklishjenn 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I recently started dating this guy

    who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However, this last time we hung-out He started being an a** !(excuse my french) saying things like; I'm going to have to replace you! He...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    My husband is wonderful.

    He'd do anything for me and treats me with respect. However, I have reason to believe that he married me because I was already pregnant anyway. If I had never gotten pregnant, our relationship would have never made it past 6 months, tops. This is because he was the type of...
    MrsTran06 MrsTran06 26-30, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been having serious issues

    for a year now. We finally started therapy in February. the last month we had been doing better so we stopped going to therapy. Then things changed. We are going back to old habits. I can't talk to him about my feelings because he puts me down and gets mad. I feel he is...
    mandy6b mandy6b 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Every time I think we're over,

    I realize I love him. Every time I think I love him, I realize we're over. "Confused" is an understatement.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    I've been with my boyfriend now

    for 7 months. Still early days yet I know. He's completely in love with me. I love him .,, but I'm not in love with him. I know in my gut he's not the one. I don't see me spending the rest of my life with him. He's a wonderful guy, so caring and genuine. I feel like I don't...
    BlackFox05 BlackFox05 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    I'm about to meet the Lady I pledged to marry.

    that was 2 yrs ago. we've fought since then. a lot. but in doing so we have avoided those fights later in life - we will simply understand by then. we are each fighting the others weaknesses with them, wishing only the best for them, fighting their battles in our ways. but we...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Your love My love Forever lost Vanished Like

    the sun When clouds appear Pain instead Broken hearts In common Nothing left Only grief Of what used to be
    mattie0807 mattie0807 36-40, M Jun 4

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    Love roller coaster..

    ....Don't mind me.
    LookingForYou89 LookingForYou89 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 5

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    I am in a relationship with a girl

    that I do not like. So I have been friends with this girl for a few years now (let's call her Kate). We met as counselors at a summer camp, and stayed in touch through text message and the occasional reunion. We have very little in common outside of the camp, but we are able...
    RckClimber RckClimber 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 14

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    So yesterday my mom went to the grocery store

    and the guy who works there ( who I'm sort of friends with) asked how I was doing. He asked my MOM!! could he like me possibly? Or am I overthinking?
    Apaintbrush Apaintbrush 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 24

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