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I Am Confused About My Relationship

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    If you don't want me anymore,

    just say it, dude. Don't keep me hanging around. I'm a big girl. You don't want me? Tell me and I will never bother you again. Feckin asshowle. Just who do you think you are. This "relationship" is just giving me frequent and totally unnecessary heartaches. Gawddammit. I don't...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    Here we go again!! Traveling this week to

    Chicago with an old fat coworker. Be here all week. In unpacking my travel bag last night found some thigh hi and small thongs that i had not bought. Hubby put in my bag. I dont understand him wanting to wear this while on road.
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 29

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    Ok, short version. We´ve been together almost

    3 years, and those were good times most of the time but last six everything turned out wrong. Like out of nowhere we started arguing almost on daily basis about everything from the most trivial stuff to the important things. It turned out we have so many differences that I...
    Eyesonthesky Eyesonthesky 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    So it's Friday night.

    Me and my boyfriend go out for dinner, and we get back home. I feel horny, I hug him and kiss him. But he is sleepy so he just sleeps. I am so pissed. Is this normal or shud I worry? And it's been 2 weeks since we had sex.
    stuckinlife247 stuckinlife247 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Step Off!

    Learn to recognize the reg flags waving that you see in life, and pay attention to them.   It's clear about what he wanted and unfortunately it really was not so much about me, yet rather more about himself as hard as that is for me to know. He continued to check in on me to...
    AceofPentacles AceofPentacles 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    I don't know what to do about loving

    and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half-heartedly such as our relationship (good and bad times). This approach has actually worked well for me in life...I think my gut instinct...
    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I tried hard to point out the mistakes to my

    boyfriend but he is still doing the same unforgivable mistakes that upset me.I'm sick and tired of waiting for him to change and love me back as much as I do but I don't feel like breaking up with someone I care for.I told myself many times that my time with him is up and that I...
    Aftertherain3 Aftertherain3 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm distraught I just found out (only

    after questioning) not by her own admission my gf of a long time has been smoking weed with her husband (separated) without my knowledge. She says she'll do what she wants it's her choice and that she's unapologetic for it. The only thing she apologizes for is that my feelings...
    slutalone slutalone 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I'm so confused about my relationship ,

    or shall I say my past relationship..we have had our share of ups n downs ...like all couples..however here's where I'm lost at I have tried fixing all the thing she dosent like about me (example I tend to drink a lot n I'm very moody at time )never knowing that my drinking...
    crissyred33 crissyred33 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    It's been like 3 and a half years with my

    boyfriend and things are not okay between us he always hurts me and make me cry but I still love him I always forgive him. I tried to break up but he doesn't want to. He says that I'm his soulmate but me I'm not so sure if he is my soulmate or not. I love him, he is my best...
    Sempiternaldark Sempiternaldark 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Every time I think we're over,

    I realize I love him. Every time I think I love him, I realize we're over. "Confused" is an understatement.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    how can someone just completely change their

    mind about a person that meant alot to them just because of a random thing a random so called friend did to them? does that make sense to anyone?
    jmsinnyc jmsinnyc 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 10

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    How can I get my lesbian ex back?

    We were best friends for about a year before we decided to date. We fell hard and fast for each other. We dated for about four years and have lived together at college. We broke up about four month ago now. It was a mutual decision that we should go back to being best friends...
    helpplease12 helpplease12 22-25, F Jul 31

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    My husband and I have been married

    for two years. When together he is very jealous of others looking at me. I like to dress so others look at me. I travel a lot for business. Travel a lot with coworkers all guys and meet buyers mostly guys too. Lately husband been asking me if these guys like looking up my...
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 16 Responses Jul 17

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    But i need to share my life experience .

    My parents got divorced when i had 14 , i moved with my mom and sister out of our house . i had few relationships when i had 17 till 18 . That's when i met him , a tall guy serious looking . He had 28 y old and i can say was love on the first sight . He told me he been married...
    agirlouthere agirlouthere 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am feeling confused with my emotions towards

    my boyfriend. I'm very tired, and don't feel like typing a ton tonight, so long story short- I don't trust him. We haven't been dating very long. We have a rough past, he hurt me, I thought I was over it because it was 5 years ago, but those feelings never go away in your memory...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't even know if we're

    even in a relationship. He's never asked me out yet he asks me what is say if he did and I keep saying that I'd say yes but I have no clue as to why he hasn't done it yet. About two days ago he and I were hanging out, it was fun because usually he and I can't even talk to each...
    XSimplyXSuicideX XSimplyXSuicideX 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I have been married for 10 plus years.

    I love my husband but not sure that I am in love with him (so cliché - I know!). He drinks too much and its a constant issue with us. He refuses to think he has a problem even though he drinks to excess daily. I have become very health conscious and concerned with my...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    I've been married for 3 yrs.

    I'm thinking it was not a wise idea now. I feel like we are strangers. We've made it clear to each other that we don't trust each other. And he has been emotionally abusive. I still love him but I don't know what that love is now...
    Shawneeluv Shawneeluv 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    What Does It Mean When Your Bf Tells You Each And Every Thing Your Bf Did With The Other Girls Or Girlfriends That He Had Before He Met You?? Knowing It Will Hurt U

    What does it mean when your bf tells you each and every thing your bf did with the other girls or girlfriends that he had before he met you?? (keeping in mind that it will hurt a lot) Does it mean he wants me to feel bad or wants you to know and get jealous about it and get...
    honeyswizgal honeyswizgal 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Through my life i have been hurt

    so many times by so many different people and circumstances. With almost every hurt i shattered like glass, i felt broken and worthless like there was no point to continue on but i didn't give up. i still tried it was never as fully as it had been before but i still tried. I...
    rainbowbreakdown rainbowbreakdown 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    My man works all day.

    .. We live together he is great to my kids and I (financially). My friend says be a mother before a women. Except he does things that make me want to leave., things that aren't right.... The little time we get to spend together he becomes someone else and does things that aren't...
    linlio linlio 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    It'S Impossible

    So. Tough times. I've tried to break up with him twice, but he wasn't having it, and he pursuaded me to stay with him. Well, not this time. He can see a future with me, whereas I am just not ready for a serious relationship, no matter how crap and evil I sound, I would be living...
    IamcalledS IamcalledS 18-21, F Mar 17, 2013

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    I'm slowly losing him,

    I can feel it. It sucks that there is nothing I can do. The reduced calls, less texting, the new attitude...I'm heart is breaking
    ritae69 ritae69 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Different Is Scary Sometimes

    I know what a healthy relationship is, but apparently I am confused by it. I'm used to the sort of man that has to be all affectionate in public in order to tell everyone that I am his and in turn gets upset when attention of any kind is payed to another man. Of course this is a...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    I dated a guy for 2 months

    and we became friends without really talking about our relationship and where it was going after our busy schedules kept us apart. I don't really want to stay just friends, should I talk to him about dating again or stay as friends?
    megan1s megan1s 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Some time ago I got acquainted with a girl.

    She is quite kind and very rare type of individual with whom you can talk about virtually anything without fear of being laughed at or mocked. We agreed to be friends, exchanged our life stories so that we could get to know each other better, but roughly a month later all of a...
    Uselessflesh Uselessflesh 22-25, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    local4 local4 46-50, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    General information about my situation.

    I met this girl at a mutual friends birthday party. Her presence striked me because she was the only person in attendance I had not met before. We didn't speak that much through the body of the party but I did take every chance I could to sneak a glance in at her. As the...
    HalfGate HalfGate 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    I feel like I'm sitting on the fence.

    I don't know if I should stay content where I am and not feel completely happy or satisfied or if I should risk it all and be alone. The idea of a new experience or life change sounds desirable...although I'm afraid of the bad that could happen with a blank canvas and no one...
    elissamay33 elissamay33 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 21

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    Ok I need guys opinion on this pleaseeeee .

    .. So there's this guy I went to middle and high school with ... We never spoke or hung out until 2 years ago I added him on FB I do remember he was always shy so I wasn't surprised when he told me he never had a gf we started talking ( I was newly divorced) we hung out and I...
    Newyorkgal89 Newyorkgal89 22-25, F 16 Responses Jan 19

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    Torn.

    There is way to much to be said about my relationship. We've been together two years now. I was so blinded by the "in love high" that many of us experience when we first meet that special person. I connected with him, and went with the flow. I ended up here. In some cases, a lot...
    jadedprettygirl jadedprettygirl 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Recently married been together 5 years.

    My husband told me the other day he enjoys wearing adult diapers women's clothing and using ****** to pleasure himself anally. He also enjoys pegging. He told me pegging and me diapering him a two of his biggest fantasies. Iam totally shocked and grossed out. Iam plain vanilla...
    Wife28 Wife28 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 12

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    Can a man be in love & pull away?

    I began a relationship 3.5 months ago with a friend who I have known for 5 years. He has been separated for 4 years & his divorce will be final in a month. (Divorce turned pretty ugly). He brought up his feelings for me and the first month he was very expressive and it seemed...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 1 Response Aug 10

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    I love the guy i'm with

    but as time goes on I start to realize if I continue with him my life won't be what I want it to be. I want someone to travel with for life, work abroad and not have kids. I want a relationship to be everything. But he's content staying in his 9-5 job in the area he's always...
    nhsu77 nhsu77 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't know if I should break up with my

    boyfriend or not. I love him, but I feel like I'm not getting enough attention from him, and I sometimes feel like he doesn't feel the same way about me. He is stubborn and has radical views about everything, and sometimes it just really gets on my nerves. I haven't ended it...
    SkylinesEternal SkylinesEternal 18-21, F 4 Responses May 12

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    My name is Whitney. I am 19 years old.

    I have been with my boyfriend for the past two years. I have been faithful and loyal 100% to him. For two years he has accused me of cheating. He saw a number within one week of us dating of a male friend I met long before him. I explained he was simply a friend I knew for a...
    WhitneyZahon071812 WhitneyZahon071812 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I am confused about where I am right

    now in my relationship , I know i gave it my all, but things have taken a sour turn and I know he loves me and I do love him, very much, the thing is that, we both have branched out into different worlds, different subjects, different goals and the time taken to pursue those...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I really do love my boyfriend (see my post in-

    I want a lover who is also my best friend). He is depressed sometimes, and has it ruff at home. I know he takes depression meds and axienity meds. This morning I woke up with 3 missed calls and 4 texts from him. He said something about physward and me not leaving him. I found...
    Jamielr13 Jamielr13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Im 14 and met my bf 2 years ago,

    the only problem is he 24. When I met him I hated him he followed me around untill I gave him my number. But we bumped into each other again a few times and really fell in love. He wants me to move in with him but I can't until im at least 16. He is always telling me that he...
    ChemicalRose ChemicalRose 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    To close to bring hurt .

    My husband and I have been together for 4 years and we have two little ones and I have twins from my x-husband. My husband is a game obsessed, which I don't like just bc we don't spend any time together. Now I was fired bc my, then 8 month, daughter got very sick. I've been...
    Trisha071113 Trisha071113 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    I'm Not Sure Where It's Going

    Really confused, two nights ago I went to my wife's house to bring over our son. I went in and let him get settled up stairs and tucked him into bed, I went to say good bye and tried to give her a hug (I'm going to give you a hug goodbye) swiftly followed by her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    Not True. I was never Confused about my any

    Relationship. My Heart is Clean as Crystal. I could see through the other persons. My Soul as Pure as it could be as a humble Allah's Slave.
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Sort of in a long distance relationship.

    Met this guy online almost 3 months ago. Hit it off as friends cause we knew the distance between each other. Well, it started growing to much more. Talking and texting everyday. Good morning and goodnight. And talking about how happy we made each other. We finally met for the...
    Jbsc21 Jbsc21 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I have known this guy Bryan

    for about half my life. We dated at one point and ended on good terms. Last year we had got back in touch and he has told me he loves me. He wants to wait on a relationship until after college next yr when he graduates. He has plans for his future but it involves moving half way...
    tig1991 tig1991 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    Maybe he's a beard...

    Maybe he's not. That's not what I'm confused about though. I love spending time with him, being close, sharing the closeness between us, kissing him, touching him and having him there. Does he feel the same? I mean I like girls but I still have feelings for him. But there's this...
    cantlovealone cantlovealone 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I Love Him But Treat Him Bad For No Reason

    I have found the love of my life who has saved me through a tough past relationship (that May have caused me to be the way Iam the now). He is simply amazing and I can tell he loves and has never treated me bad. My issue is that I always pick out silly arguments with him that...
    mm91 mm91 22-25, F Nov 25, 2013

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    Background: I am married,

    we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time). I am 27, he is 31 - we've had our ups and downs but all in all, we are happy. We also just moved two months ago, and so...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    It's not really a relationship,

    you just keep coming and going as you please, selfish bastard but I still welcome you back
    Mka1989 Mka1989 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Reluctant To Share

    I am a bit scared/reluctant/ashamed (take your pick) to post in this group . . . .  I am not so sure if this is a good thing or if my sharing will only open up a can of worms that will come back to haunt me later?I have been putting off to post here since the first day I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Confused And Scared About It

    I was 19 when I met Professor E. I had a class with him and enjoyed his teaching style so much I tried to get him as a professor as much as possible. He was intensely smart, and it turned out he was funny, the same kind of funny as me, and I dawdled after class if I had time, and...
    cephaloscotti cephaloscotti 26-30, F 1 Response May 8, 2012

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    I am not his wife, I am not his mistress,

    I am not just his gf nor the mother of his son.. So, what am I to him? He wont give me any labels :-(
    SugarK SugarK 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Mixed Signals

    Just as love's turning to hatred, Just when I think I've had enough, Just before my heart freezes over, He'll make some small gesture of love, He'll redeem himself. Flowers just because, A hug or kiss out of the blue, Calling just to ask how my day is, A sudden showing of respect...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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