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I Am Confused About My Relationship

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    I Love Him But Treat Him Bad For No Reason

    I have found the love of my life who has saved me through a tough past relationship (that May have caused me to be the way Iam the now). He is simply amazing and I can tell he loves and has never treated me bad. My issue is that I always pick out silly arguments with him that...
    mm91 mm91 22-25, F Nov 25, 2013

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    My boyfriend now of 4 months always accuses me

    of being a cheater, when me and him first met it was all fine and dandy, but as time progressed he would get mad over something that could easily be resolved but instead he likes to break it off as in break up but in his head he doesn't mean it, so about a month into our...
    hopelessromanticxo hopelessromanticxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    So here goes... I love my partner very much

    and we have been together for a couple of years. We've gotten to know each other quite well and we share many interests, not to mention we have great sex. We've come a long way from where we first started, in a good way. We've learned a lot about each other, our ways of being...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    ahaydonh ahaydonh 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I feel like I'm sitting on the fence.

    I don't know if I should stay content where I am and not feel completely happy or satisfied or if I should risk it all and be alone. The idea of a new experience or life change sounds desirable...although I'm afraid of the bad that could happen with a blank canvas and no one...
    elissamay33 elissamay33 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's really not a relationship yet.

    He's my best friend and I feel all the wonderful emotional connections that come with a serious relationship. But I don't feel the physical connection. When he kisses me i always feel like pulling away. I am so confused on what to do :( I know it will change our friendship and...
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Ok I need guys opinion on this pleaseeeee .

    .. So there's this guy I went to middle and high school with ... We never spoke or hung out until 2 years ago I added him on FB I do remember he was always shy so I wasn't surprised when he told me he never had a gf we started talking ( I was newly divorced) we hung out and I...
    Newyorkgal89 Newyorkgal89 22-25, F 18 Responses Jan 19

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    I'm married but feel

    so single. My husband always ignores me. I feel like I don't exist. I'm so tired and confused!
    writer4ever writer4ever 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I have been in this relationship

    for one year. I noticed some unusual things on behavior of my boyfriend. He looks at guys the way I do, he tells me things like "this is the most ugly guy in town", "John is more handsome than Paul", "Peter has the most beautiful legs from all boys. He liked my brother too(but...
    aleva0506 aleva0506 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    I recently started dating this guy.

    (He is my good friends friend.) We have both been separated since last August. Everything has been going great despite the fact we live two hours away. We've seen each other every weekend since the middle of December, talk and text all the time. The problem is that since he told...
    hannajane777 hannajane777 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    First Serious Relatioship Questions

    so I'm in the first relationship that I can call serious ever since high school. Things are mostly going well.  I'm feeling nervous, scared, and confused about something and would like to ask for advice. This thing is, I don't know if this is par per course with...
    onetwothree onetwothree 22-25, T 1 Response Apr 14, 2008

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    My boyfriends, john, best friend,

    Paul, died in a car accident in November. Paul was going to marry a girl. Now my boyfriend and her talk often. Which is understandable but lately she will get drunk and call/text my boyfriend at 2 am. They have been snap chatting today a lot and k just feel uneasy about the...
    dixie201425 dixie201425 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hate feelings. Especially

    when someone plays with them.
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M Apr 4

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    Hi, I am engaged to a guy named Mike

    and have been with him for 4 years. He does so many things for his mom, but not for me. For instance Mike and I were visiting my parents for my dads birthday for one weekend. His mom and step-dad were constantly blowing up my phone saying have mike call me ASAP. So mike calls...
    katie415 katie415 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 11

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    Is This Love?

    The girl i love, she told me once she liked me as a good friend, and i did overstep that at one point, but i told her for as long as she likes i would be just a friend, since then it seems she's started to dislike me more and more, i'm really confused, what does this mean?
    StrangeStranger StrangeStranger 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    This guy from Texas I've known

    for a long time now comes up to Indiana with his grandparents and visits me. They camp in Indiana that's how we met. We dated last year but broke up because of the distance and we didn't talk after that. He came this year and told me how he missed me so much and we held hands...
    Thatgirl8654 Thatgirl8654 18-21, F Dec 9, 2013

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    To close to bring hurt .

    My husband and I have been together for 4 years and we have two little ones and I have twins from my x-husband. My husband is a game obsessed, which I don't like just bc we don't spend any time together. Now I was fired bc my, then 8 month, daughter got very sick. I've been...
    Trisha071113 Trisha071113 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    Please help!! I'll do my best to cut it

    short (please read carefully). I've been in a relationship with this guy for 6 yrs. I've been in love with the guy since I was sixteen and started dating him when I was 21 or so. He lived with his ex and they own a catering company. She in so many words supports him ( although...
    Dracogirl Dracogirl 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    Ever since my boyfriend told me he loved me the

    first time, he's said he wanted to be together forever. I was so surprised. I thought guys were all afraid of commitment, and we had only been dating for two months. Neither of us had ever been in a relationship before. At first, everything was great; I felt secure and I let...
    Veronicaculture Veronicaculture 18-21, F Apr 6

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    My man works all day.

    .. We live together he is great to my kids and I (financially). My friend says be a mother before a women. Except he does things that make me want to leave., things that aren't right.... The little time we get to spend together he becomes someone else and does things that aren't...
    linlio linlio 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    I'm with a guy who has all the right qualities,

    upstanding, caring, good looking, he even moved to my home country to be with me. But I don't think I love him. Yet, I think I'm in love with the wrong man. We have so much energy and chemistry together. He's separated from his wife, has two kids, but doesn't want anyone to...
    orangeskies7 orangeskies7 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    There Is A Group

    LOL I started a group just like this two days ago and didn't even share my story cuz I ran out of time.  Well, this is dandy that one exists and I'm not alone. What happens when two people very very much alike at first are so very different from each other now...
    passionateactorxox passionateactorxox 31-35, M 10 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    Confused And Scared About It

    I was 19 when I met Professor E. I had a class with him and enjoyed his teaching style so much I tried to get him as a professor as much as possible. He was intensely smart, and it turned out he was funny, the same kind of funny as me, and I dawdled after class if I had time, and...
    cephaloscotti cephaloscotti 26-30, F 1 Response May 8, 2012

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    for younger women older men dating . It is Free to post & browse 550,000+ active members. We have been in the online dating business for over 11 years and has achieved tremendous success bringing younger women and older men together! younger women looking for older men mainly...
    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    I've been sleeping with this guy

    for a few months.. We talk everyday..sometimes even texting all day. We get along great and have great chemistry. He always makes me laugh and I enjoy talking to him buuuutttt I'm not sure what's going on..do I want us to have a label..does he..is it just a casual thing with the...
    Janstis Janstis 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    So Confused...

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years and, god help me, I love him and have no idea what I'd do without him. However, I just started college this week and have met so many people that are better than him in so many ways, and even before I went to college I was...
    blarghablerg blarghablerg 22-25 1 Response Sep 6, 2008

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    I'm slowly losing him,

    I can feel it. It sucks that there is nothing I can do. The reduced calls, less texting, the new attitude...I'm heart is breaking
    ritae69 ritae69 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    tootsiemuffinhead tootsiemuffinhead 41-45, F Mar 27

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for close to a year and things are going great. We have up and downs like any relationship. We both work a lot but we stay together every night. We also like going out and doing things, but very active and social people. However, we've lately been in a rut due to a lot of...
    Littleariel Littleariel 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Even the Wrong Words Seem So Right.

     The way he listened so intensively, as if catching every word she said, saving it in a small place in his mind. The way he sat facing her, putting his heart on her sleeve as if he'd known her his whole Life. His voice was light, her laughter seemed almost uncontrollable, as...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 30, 2008

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    Trying to Figure Her Out!!

     Over the time spand I had with the girl its been a process of a lot of learning. We share something in common. We are both very complicated individuals with different lives,career goals, devoted christian parents, and expectations of our own futures.  The process...
    ariguz ariguz 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 29, 2009

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    Am I Settling Or Is It Love?

    My bf & I have been together for 1.5 years now. We live together. We have a cat together. We've talked future marriage & children. For practically our entire relationship (off & on) he's been sexting/virtual flirting w/random girls behind my back. He's said that he'll stop...
    OldSoul246 OldSoul246 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    How do you leave someone

    when they have been totally decent?
    gilllung gilllung 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 11

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    Hi, I would just like to share about my past

    feelings with my best friend. She wouldn't want to be asked about too many questions. It came to me as if she wanted to pull away, as if she wanted to experience her life and not share it with me anymore. The last time was just last Saturday. I asked her if she would want me...
    MarcyMichelle MarcyMichelle 31-35, F Mar 16

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    Why do men cheat? I was the other girl

    but this went on for 3 years it wasn't just sexual we used to sit an talk an cuddle but he still live with her and they're not together apparently :/ I'm still in love with him but I don't understand why he even pursued this. Someone give me the mind of a man
    abbiexoxx abbiexoxx 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Will We Be Happy?

    I have read something about Nymphomaniac, but I don't know I truly am, or not.   I always want to do sex and I never have enough... and sometimes this makes me sad. I mean, even after having made love, I want to do it again...and again...and again. If go to bed with my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 10, 2009

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    Women are the most complex

    and complicated people in the world. Omg!
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I need people to talk to

    that have or is going through the same thing. It's making me feel crazy because it's all being kept inside. Ugh!
    supermommyof2 supermommyof2 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I'm confused about if I don't love him anymore.

    I been cheating on him with another guy and I think I'm comparing him to this guy. But it hurts more when I know I can't have the new guy. I keep thinking about him and how he makes me truly feel good (something I haven't felt in a while). Being in his arms made me feel so...
    blueberrypies19 blueberrypies19 18-21, F Feb 13

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    my boyfriend broke up with me on friday

    and says he doesn't want anyone else and needs time to focus on uni. but he keeps messaging me even though he wants space. i just want him back
    mrssnugs mrssnugs 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    Reluctant To Share

    I am a bit scared/reluctant/ashamed (take your pick) to post in this group . . . .  I am not so sure if this is a good thing or if my sharing will only open up a can of worms that will come back to haunt me later?I have been putting off to post here since the first day I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    I am so confused. I am in two different

    relationships at the moment. Both from a distance. Guy 1 is sexy and attractive. A bad boy but caring as well. And I know there is no future with him. And I'm fine with that as that is what I want right now. I guess we're both in it for fun and friendship. Guy 2 is nice. A...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    Mixed Signals

    Just as love's turning to hatred, Just when I think I've had enough, Just before my heart freezes over, He'll make some small gesture of love, He'll redeem himself. Flowers just because, A hug or kiss out of the blue, Calling just to ask how my day is, A sudden showing of respect...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    It'S Impossible

    So. Tough times. I've tried to break up with him twice, but he wasn't having it, and he pursuaded me to stay with him. Well, not this time. He can see a future with me, whereas I am just not ready for a serious relationship, no matter how crap and evil I sound, I would be living...
    IamcalledS IamcalledS 18-21, F Mar 17, 2013

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    Different Is Scary Sometimes

    I know what a healthy relationship is, but apparently I am confused by it. I'm used to the sort of man that has to be all affectionate in public in order to tell everyone that I am his and in turn gets upset when attention of any kind is payed to another man. Of course this is a...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    I'm Not Sure Where It's Going

    Really confused, two nights ago I went to my wife's house to bring over our son. I went in and let him get settled up stairs and tucked him into bed, I went to say good bye and tried to give her a hug (I'm going to give you a hug goodbye) swiftly followed by her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    My husband has been called "a Saint".

    He's such a nice guy that anyone and any-thing will take a back seat if you need him. He is the Adult Child of an Alcoholic and was abused. But you'd never know. If fact -he has blocked it out from his memory. But he has unpredictable rage episodes. He does not frighten me - but...
    ellenmaryellen ellenmaryellen 56-60, F Mar 23

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    What does it mean when a girl says she needs

    her space and then sleeps with another guy? she says that she wanted to see if she actually wanted to be with me..
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I am in such a confused place I don't

    even know what to do anymore. I've been with my partner for a long while, 8 years. We met, I was attracted to him and we ended up together. I can't say it was heart stopping love but we had a lot in common, he was there for me and persistent so I went along, ended up pregnant...
    anonbeing anonbeing 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    What Does It Mean When Your Bf Tells You Each And Every Thing Your Bf Did With The Other Girls Or Girlfriends That He Had Before He Met You?? Knowing It Will Hurt U

    What does it mean when your bf tells you each and every thing your bf did with the other girls or girlfriends that he had before he met you?? (keeping in mind that it will hurt a lot) Does it mean he wants me to feel bad or wants you to know and get jealous about it and get...
    honeyswizgal honeyswizgal 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Anyone out there have a lazy husband?

    We've been married for 25 years-several times I've thought to leave him but we have 3 sons (twins 23 and another son,24) and I knew divorce would be hard on them so I stuck it out. What drives me crazy is when he is home, (which is a lot since he is self employed and makes his...
    Crystalbright Crystalbright 41-45, F 14 Responses Feb 10

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    I Dont Know What to Do

    I am very confused right now in my life. I have a boyfriend of 4 years. We had stayed together for 3.5 years. We have an 18 month old baby girl. I feel very unhappy about the relationship. My boyfriend doesnt cheat on me but hurts me great deal with his arrogance...
    Evestos Evestos 26-30 4 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Well my girlfriend lives on the other side of

    the country and wen she's busy I'm not busy and wen im busy she's not busy.... I keep on telling her that u know we'll be fine and nothing is gonna end between us.... Well I'm just reassuring her to be honest.... I know that I'll never leave her but I dunno I keep on thinking...
    adam7475 adam7475 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    She had a crush on me

    for 1 year and I don't even know her until this month. I felt bad should I tell her that I don't even know her that well?
    coolien coolien 13-15, F Mar 9

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    Step Off!

    Learn to recognize the reg flags waving that you see in life, and pay attention to them.   It's clear about what he wanted and unfortunately it really was not so much about me, yet rather more about himself as hard as that is for me to know. He continued to check in on me to...
    AceofPentacles AceofPentacles 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Torn.

    There is way to much to be said about my relationship. We've been together two years now. I was so blinded by the "in love high" that many of us experience when we first meet that special person. I connected with him, and went with the flow. I ended up here. In some cases, a lot...
    jadedprettygirl jadedprettygirl 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    I have anger and I may slap my bf

    but he always instantly hits me back worse. And I spend the night alone sad hurt physically hurt and just more angry. It's confusing
    Yummylicious4ev Yummylicious4ev 18-21 2 Responses Apr 2

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