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I Am Confused About My Relationship

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    This is actually a question,

    but is it wrong to date someone older than you? Even if your truly in love with that person? For example, I'm 16 and the dude is 47. Is that wrong and illegal? I feel bad but at the same time I don't because I love him and we have been knowing eachother for 2 years. I'm very...
    Bijoker420 Bijoker420 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 17

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    Here we go again!! Traveling this week to

    Chicago with an old fat coworker. Be here all week. In unpacking my travel bag last night found some thigh hi and small thongs that i had not bought. Hubby put in my bag. I dont understand him wanting to wear this while on road.
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 15 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I am not his wife, I am not his mistress,

    I am not just his gf nor the mother of his son.. So, what am I to him? He wont give me any labels :-(
    SugarK SugarK 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    It's nearly 3am now. I missed having someone to

    come back home and lie right next to me while yesterday it was the same me who has requested for him to move back to his place. I need the space to think through if I want to spend my whole life with him and I know if this time round we manage to overcome, wedding bells would...
    sundaelove sundaelove 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I feel like I'm sitting on the fence.

    I don't know if I should stay content where I am and not feel completely happy or satisfied or if I should risk it all and be alone. The idea of a new experience or life change sounds desirable...although I'm afraid of the bad that could happen with a blank canvas and no one...
    elissamay33 elissamay33 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    I'm about to meet the Lady I pledged to marry.

    that was 2 yrs ago. we've fought since then. a lot. but in doing so we have avoided those fights later in life - we will simply understand by then. we are each fighting the others weaknesses with them, wishing only the best for them, fighting their battles in our ways. but we...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    I had a breakup after casually dating

    for awhile. We became more like friends after not seeing each other a lot. After having breakfast with him the other day I realized I have strong feelings for him and want to approach him about getting back together but I'm afraid of rejection.
    akmegan akmegan 18-21, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Mixed Signals

    Just as love's turning to hatred, Just when I think I've had enough, Just before my heart freezes over, He'll make some small gesture of love, He'll redeem himself. Flowers just because, A hug or kiss out of the blue, Calling just to ask how my day is, A sudden showing of respect...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    I am confused about my *sexual identity*

    actually but couldn't find that group..... Sometimes I find myself attracted to men - atleast, people over the Internet who claim to be men. Their personality or demeanor, whatever you want to call it. I get along better with them. Always have. But I only ever want to touch...
    InsideTheSadCafe InsideTheSadCafe 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I'm Not Sure Where It's Going

    Really confused, two nights ago I went to my wife's house to bring over our son. I went in and let him get settled up stairs and tucked him into bed, I went to say good bye and tried to give her a hug (I'm going to give you a hug goodbye) swiftly followed by her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    Recently married been together 5 years.

    My husband told me the other day he enjoys wearing adult diapers women's clothing and using ****** to pleasure himself anally. He also enjoys pegging. He told me pegging and me diapering him a two of his biggest fantasies. Iam totally shocked and grossed out. Iam plain vanilla...
    Wife28 Wife28 26-30, F 10 Responses Jun 12, 2014

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    How can I get my lesbian ex back?

    We were best friends for about a year before we decided to date. We fell hard and fast for each other. We dated for about four years and have lived together at college. We broke up about four month ago now. It was a mutual decision that we should go back to being best friends...
    helpplease12 helpplease12 22-25, F Jul 31, 2014

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    I'd like to start off by saying I met my

    boyfriend 6 years ago before he had any kids, him and I were just friends at the time. In that time he was seeing someone although he claims he was never really dating her but having a "sexual relationship" with her. When we started to pick up feelings for one another it was the...
    SeniaV SeniaV 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    and article will help understand the depth of relationships better. EP Link EP Link
    rsushama73 rsushama73 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 8 months we met in university and live in the same halls, the first few months were amazing, he was everything I wanted and helped me through some bad things happening at home, however about 4 months into the relationship it was if the spark went, he got addicted to gaming...
    SilentWhispers95 SilentWhispers95 18-21, F 10 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I don't know if I should break up with my

    boyfriend or not. I love him, but I feel like I'm not getting enough attention from him, and I sometimes feel like he doesn't feel the same way about me. He is stubborn and has radical views about everything, and sometimes it just really gets on my nerves. I haven't ended it...
    SkylinesEternal SkylinesEternal 18-21, F 5 Responses May 12, 2014

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    My love life just getting weirder

    and weirder. So long story short I met this guy a few months back. We totally hit it off, hang out lots together, kiss, make out even though he already have a long distance girlfriend. He hurt my feelings a lot of times but still I stay with him till the end. Before he left...
    YongTauFoo YongTauFoo 18-21, F 15 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    My husband and I have been married

    for two years. When together he is very jealous of others looking at me. I like to dress so others look at me. I travel a lot for business. Travel a lot with coworkers all guys and meet buyers mostly guys too. Lately husband been asking me if these guys like looking up my...
    janarun janarun 22-25, F 27 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    It all makes sense now!

    Found out he is/was cheating with at least 4 other women, one of whom is a friend. I guess he was too busy & it was important to keep things in the DL. Thank god I had a bad gut feeling and the last time I saw him was Oct 2nd & I had stopped initiating texts & calls & turned...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I have been together over 1

    year. After 6 months I found messages to a girl asking her out on a date. When I confronted him he apologized said it didn't mean anything he liked the attention anyway we got through it I forgave him but I couldn't let go of the insecurity. 9 months later I again seen his...
    kole123456 kole123456 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    I have been married for 10 plus years.

    I love my husband but not sure that I am in love with him (so cliché - I know!). He drinks too much and its a constant issue with us. He refuses to think he has a problem even though he drinks to excess daily. I have become very health conscious and concerned with my...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    It has been 5 months

    since my ex and I broke up. He has a new girlfriend now. I had a much harder time than him moving on. I went through a really ugly period of depression, but seeing him with someone else hurt me so much that it snapped me out of it. It kind of gave me strength to push myself to...
    LorettaAnn LorettaAnn 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    To let go, or keep trying.

    6 years is so much to through away. But these feelings keep coming back. Ugh...... It's so confusing!!!
    SeekingGreatPerhaps SeekingGreatPerhaps 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    so i recently found out

    that my fiance has been flirting through text messages with his ex baby momma. i feel so confused because he says he loves me wants to be with me and we've been living together for the past 2 years but he says that his ex isn't what he wants yet he texts her all the time. idk...
    jstandrews jstandrews 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So i just found out that my girlfriend,

    of 1 year, was texting my best friend that she likes him. He showed the texts to me, and he doesn't like her but only as a friend. Also my girlfriend lives 500km away. I am glad that my friend told me this because it shows his loyalty. But me and my gf have been having a bit of...
    Hippy99 Hippy99 22-25, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hi People, I really need some help.

    I really appreciate your time helping me. Thank you. I'm in a relationship of 6 years. Started as friends and then became lovers. I love her. I really love her. I want to take care of her. But, we had broke up and get back together like 3 times already. She said all those break...
    marcdavid20 marcdavid20 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Yeah...I have posted here a lot - probably more

    than I should... But, I'm confused about my relationship.^^^ She doesn't like me. I don't know if I like her. When she's here, I want her to go away. When she's gone, I can't handle being without her. I feel attracted to other people when I shouldn't & don't want to be. I don't...
    InsideTheSadCafe InsideTheSadCafe 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 8

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    so confused. like really confused.

    i don't even know what to write right now because everything is just a bunch of mush. i guess i'll just say that our love seemed so magical and real and true and ever-lasting at the beginning... but no longer. i guess we see reality now. he doesn't love me as much as he used...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    sometimes i feel like he doesn't

    even care.he went today to another city without telling me.i may seem possessive but i think that's not right.i found out trough my friend's boyfriend (bf's friend) that he's going and he still hasn't told me that he's there.i mean,am i wrong?
    forkinyoureye forkinyoureye 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    aus98765 aus98765 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I told the guy that I like

    and we're talking that he has my heart and to keep it safe. He hasn't been texting or calling me bk. What's going on I wonder??
    vanessakay vanessakay 26-30, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    I really really REALLY like someone on ep,

    but Im not sure she feels the same. I am willing to wait for her if there is a possibility it will work out (or at least try). We have never met. I still dont know if she's interested or not. My ex g/f is wanting to get back together. I would prefer to see what happens with my...
    ZakaryJosephJones ZakaryJosephJones 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 3

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    Reluctant To Share

    I am a bit scared/reluctant/ashamed (take your pick) to post in this group . . . .  I am not so sure if this is a good thing or if my sharing will only open up a can of worms that will come back to haunt me later?I have been putting off to post here since the first day I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    okay so gosh dang it!

    How do I let go. how do i become the me before I met my boyfriend and when we first met? am I in too deep with my obsession? I need to stop trying to control the future. how?
    jessiroseca jessiroseca 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    What Does It Mean When Your Bf Tells You Each And Every Thing Your Bf Did With The Other Girls Or Girlfriends That He Had Before He Met You?? Knowing It Will Hurt U

    What does it mean when your bf tells you each and every thing your bf did with the other girls or girlfriends that he had before he met you?? (keeping in mind that it will hurt a lot) Does it mean he wants me to feel bad or wants you to know and get jealous about it and get...
    honeyswizgal honeyswizgal 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Every time I think we're over,

    I realize I love him. Every time I think I love him, I realize we're over. "Confused" is an understatement.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Been dating my boyfriend

    for only 5 months. We met about 5 months after he just got off a 4 year relationship. Out of the 4 years, he was engaged for 2 years. They broke up cause his parents didnt agreed to the marriage. He's a really nice guy but sometimes i question our relationship. He wont let me...
    Ebtitel001 Ebtitel001 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I am walking on eggshells.

    Every single day I am told that I am not good enough and need to change. instead of encouragement, I get discouraged. I love my Bf. I want to BF perfect for him...but I am constantly battling myself. I want to change for the better but I need support. I need time. I don't want...
    jessiroseca jessiroseca 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Sometimes I just feel unloved in my current

    relationship. I feel like I'm giving out more effort than he does. I don't know, we've been together for almost 2 months now and I feel like I'm more in love with him than hes inlove with me. We talked today and our conversation kinda ended up with me saying he's head over...
    Liebeeiram Liebeeiram 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 18

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    Torn.

    There is way to much to be said about my relationship. We've been together two years now. I was so blinded by the "in love high" that many of us experience when we first meet that special person. I connected with him, and went with the flow. I ended up here. In some cases, a lot...
    jadedprettygirl jadedprettygirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Sometimes , I wonder what life would be like

    without him the other day, he ****** me off and I really want him to get out of my life lol I don't know why I'm like this but it really ****** me off when I saw him chatting with other girls & then I overthink things but sometimes those predicted thoughts of mine was right . I...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F a week ago

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    If you don't want me anymore,

    just say it, dude. Don't keep me hanging around. I'm a big girl. You don't want me? Tell me and I will never bother you again. Feckin asshowle. Just who do you think you are. This "relationship" is just giving me frequent and totally unnecessary heartaches. Gawddammit. I don't...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 2 Responses May 12, 2014

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    I feel deep down I need to leave my boyfriend

    we have a terrible and abusive past and I know it isn't right and I feel more sad than happy with him most days. It's really toxic but I just can't leave at all. I try and I end up feeling alone and missing him so I can't ever do it. I really want to but it's so difficult. I...
    violetskynoise violetskynoise 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I recently started dating this guy

    who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However, this last time we hung-out He started being an a** !(excuse my french) saying things like; I'm going to have to replace you! He...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    First, I'm all like, I want to be with him

    forever. Then suddenly, I'm all like, I don't want to see him ever again. Like, what the heck is wrong with me? He makes me so happy, but he can also make me so sad and depressed. Is this normal? Or should a real and strong relationship have more of the happy stuff? I have no...
    AverageGirl1k AverageGirl1k 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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